Marriage & Divorce: Question: Am I overreacting or should my husband chill out on drinking? |
- Question: Am I overreacting or should my husband chill out on drinking?
- Question: Women, do your husband's ever want you to breastfeed them during sex? I know this sounds weird, but people do do it.?
- Question: Me and my husband have been together for 20 years, now it's like live and hate ,I'm confused , should we breakup?
- Question: I found out my husband is texting with a much younger woman. What should I do?
- Question: Long Distance relationship with Kids...... How?
- Question: What kinds of reasons can a Roman Catholic have a marriage annulled after a divorce?
- Question: My mom is Cheating on my dad. Please help.?
- Question: Can you forgive someone for cheating but not want to continue the relationship?
- Question: What should i do? Help?
- Question: Should me and my husband get a divorce?
- Question: I constantly worry about my husband leaving me, even though there is no basis to this. It is hurting him so how I can stop being worrisome?
- Question: My husband wants to move my MIL into our home? Help?
- Question: Is this a sign that my husband could get violent?
- Question: My husband kicked us out and now wants full custody.?
- Question: How long must child be present in the state of to file for a divorce?
- Question: Divorce requirements in the state in which I reside? PLEASE HELP!!!?
- Question: Would you marry a man that has abandoned three women and 6 children if he promised to marry you and treat your kids as his own?
- Question: How would you know if your husband (thats in the military) married you just for the money? What are the signs? Has this happened to anyone?
- Question: Why should I have sex with my wife when it is more fun doing it online with different women?
- Question: Help me plz?
- Question: According to Sullivan, what are four different societal reasons for the rising divorce rate?
- Question: Did my wife cheat? Went at end of shift to take her out as before. Restaurant was closed for the night. Happened lots. She said w/friend.?
- Question: Is it normal to feel emotionally disturbed if your parent is remarrying?
- Question: Husband possibly cheating? Parked down the block from our house and around the corner on his way home from work.....?
- Question: Army Legal Seperation. What Am I Entitled To As The Spouse. ?
- Question: How can i convince my parents to divorce?
- Question: Wife isn't too happy when I told our pastor about our problems what to do?
- Question: I was on 3 hits of acid and i married a prostitute in vegas. if i divorce her will i have to give her half my money?
- Question: I think my fiance is lying to me about our diet.?
- Question: Dancing bachata with married men?
- Question: When a husband supports his wife financially, she's called a housewife. when she supports him, he's called a bum?
- Question: What is wrong with me????
- Question: Is marriage worth it?
- Question: So isolated scared I may die?
- Question: Would you live in the same state that your ex husband lived in if you loved the state or would you find another state to live in?
- Question: How long do you have to married to collect alimony in Kentucky?
- Question: Should I fight or give up and end my life?
- Question: How to get over someone and jealous of everyone else?
- Question: Do women sex drive increase when older and after kids? My wife is 31 and we have 2 kids. Her sex drive is low due to kids. Will get better?
- Question: How can I stop my husband's Asian women addiction?
- Question: Will my wife come back?
- Question: How do i find out what my husband does online?
- Question: What do I do now?
- Question: Finally told my wife why I don't like having sex with her.?
- Question: Why do people get married?
- Question: Can someone still truly care if they see you heartbroken because of them and tend to leave you alone most of the time?
- Question: Do you think my wife would want to watch me in bed with another man - she has already cheated twice with men?
- Question: Can the person who broke your heart also be the one to mend it?
- Question: Wives. How much do you appreciate it - or even get turned on - when men other than your husband check you out?
- Question: Married or soon to be married people, is this bad advice to give to someone?
- Question: My friend keeps telling me she wants to end her marriage but she won t get a divorce. What is the best advice to give to her?
- Question: Made the mistake of calling my wife fat?
- Question: I found my husband's crossdressing photos and I want to divorce him, can these pictures be used against him?
- Question: I kinda like this guy and I have a hunch he likes me to?
- Question: My wife and I are married for 12+ years and I'm not sure if she's truly happy with me because she fantasizes about other men?
| Question: Am I overreacting or should my husband chill out on drinking? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 08:57 PM PDT When my husband and I first started dating, we were teenagers who loved drinking and partying. Then my husband joined the military and then we got married & moved in together, which gave us easy access to drink whenever we want. After awhile, I decided to cut down because it was making me gain weight. My husband drinks hard alcohol during the weekends(even Sunday) and beer during the week(after work.) I sometimes hate when he gets wasted because he's usually a person who has everything together. When wasted, he's very sloppy and it's hard to really communicate with him. I work weekends sometimes and it'd be nice to have him to talk to after work. But he sometimes starts drinking around early after noon, which causes him to fall asleep before I get home. I get that he needs to unwind because of work, but I hate how he has to drink hard alcohol even though we are just staying at home. I've told him many times but he doesn't see anything wrong and that's what frustrates me. I don't want to be the wife who constantly nags, I want him to figure it out. Drinking is cool but in moderation, in my opinion anyway. So, am I overreacting or should he just chill out on drinking so much? |
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| Question: I found out my husband is texting with a much younger woman. What should I do? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 08:15 PM PDT I am 50 & my husband is 40. we have 3 children under the age of 18. I just discovered my husband has been texting with a 25 year old woman that he met on Facebook (they both are lovers of music). Much of the texts were flirting but it never became physical as he told her he didn't want to go there. But from what I read it seems like he has something for this woman or they wouldn't keep entertaining each other. What you think???? I love my husband but I would feel better if he'd just got physical with her instead of talking with her off and on for a couple years now it just seems like there may be some love there.... I am distraught... I don't know what I should do? He also said she inspired and motivated him... I think he has some type of romantic feelings for her He also said she is his type.... |
| Question: Long Distance relationship with Kids...... How? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 08:09 PM PDT I know once u have kids u become basically a ward of ur city/state, as long as the other parent is involved and the courts u cant move so many miles w/o court permission, unless the other parent is in agreeance. So ur only limited to meeting some1 and being in a relationship w/some1 in ur area. So if 1 day u randomly met someone who lived 12hr away and u talked a lot and after months of talking u both had strong feelings for each other, and then it went on from there for a yr with visits, then u realized there can never b nething considering u both have a child who is very young, with the other parent involved and shared custody, so u drop the person but are miserable for months and try to move on but u no this person was som1 who meant the world to u and made u happy and could make u happy. U try to date but no one is comparable and u just stay miserable,ur children ask u why u are sad but u love. ur children more than nething so u just keep going and pretend everything is alright but u can't be happy. Been married b4 and have dated a lot of people over the years but never felt like this and you're a better person ever since u met them. What if where u lived u couldn't find a job, u try and then u get an opportunity that's hrs away but can't move because of the distance laws. So u can't work because of the distance laws w/children. I know kids r the most important thing in some 1s life but how can u raise happy kids when u urself aren't happy. What's the loopholes? |
| Question: What kinds of reasons can a Roman Catholic have a marriage annulled after a divorce? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 07:26 PM PDT |
| Question: My mom is Cheating on my dad. Please help.? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 06:53 PM PDT Im 14 and my mom asked me to get rid ofmessages that popped up on her phone. So when i went to delete them i saw a contact that had dirty texts appearing under it. I clicked on it and apparently they meet up to have sex. I dont know what to do because if I tell my dad he might freak out and I dont want my parents to have a divorce because i would be taken out of my school and it would be terrible. Please help I dont know what to do. |
| Question: Can you forgive someone for cheating but not want to continue the relationship? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 05:43 PM PDT Im 35, and my wife of 9 years cheated on me, she didnt own up to her mistakes and pointed blame at me. This lead me to believe that this relationship is not worth saving, im not taking blame for something im not responsible for, if she was unhappy all she had to do was talk to me and i would of listened. She claims that she did talk to me but i dont remember any efforts from her side to make it apparent she was unhappy. We have 2 kids together (3 and 2) i want to stay friends/co parents for their sake. I have moved out for a while now, and visit the kids every weekend while the divorce process is going on. Last week she texted me breaking down and crying saying im such a great husband and she wants me back but i didnt answer the text (i have been keeping communication with her to a minimum for legal purposes). Well yesterday i texted back because it was eating away at me, i first asked her for closure so i could move on and she admitted that i was a good husband and she had very little problems with how i showed her affection. She admitted that she messed up and it was her fault, i was grateful for that but i told her i would forgive her but continuing our marriage would be pointless, the trust is gone and we both need to move on. I told her right now our main priority is the kids, and that im grateful for the good memories we shared and will try not to harp on the bad memories. is this realistic? i feel like i need to work on myself and find someone more loyal eventually. btw my feelings for my wife (soon to be ex) wont ever be the same so i feel as if the kids deserve two happy parents, rather than one happy and one miserable. |
| Question: What should i do? Help? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 05:18 PM PDT I fell in love with a married woman with 1 kid. It was long distance. We were bf and gf at first but later on i found out she was married and i still stayed with her. Was that wrong? I really loved her a md didnt wanna leave because she told me she doesnt like her husband anymore and cant divorce because of her son and the husband doesnt want it. Now we are broken up and she has been texting back slow and sometimes doesnt reply. What should i do? I want to forget about all of this because i cant get her out my mind and somehow i still love her ....:( |
| Question: Should me and my husband get a divorce? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 04:58 PM PDT I'm not going to go in to details because than it'll take all night, but I have a feeling my husband is still in love with this girl who he has loved for the past 14 years and all of a sudden he doesn't love her and he only loves me. So what should I do like I don't want to be with him if he loves her when she doesn't even know he is alive. (They haven't talked in 14 years) he's a weirdo. So I mean I found pics of her on his phone about a year ago and he admitted to masterbating to her so what should I do because that is just ****** up |
| Posted: 27 Sep 2015 04:43 PM PDT My husband is the most loyal and loving husband anyone could ask for (he is a cancer). We have been best friends since pre-teens and married shortly after. We spend most of our time together and with the children, except when he goes to work at his father's business when he feels like it or absolutely has to. On days when he doesn't want to be without me or the kids, he takes us all. Even though I have no reason to be afraid of losing him, I have always been a worrywart and since even before our marriage, I have constantly been afraid of losing him. He knows this and tries his best to make me feel otherwise, but it can irritate him sometimes or just make him sad that he cannot console me. He knows I am worrisome and not trusting of anyone, but he gets bothered that I still do not fully trust him. If there was anyone in the world I would trust, it would be him, but I always feel doubts about everything, even his love. He is incredibly attractive and while everyone labels me as beautiful, I have never felt like it. I constantly feel as though I am not pretty enough any small imperfection makes me feel inadequate. All of this only makes me fear even more that he will leave me. I break down often into crying bouts or just plain nervous breakdowns when I feel this way and I know it disturbs him and the children. Any problems we have in our marriage come from this, because I know it hurts him that he cannot console me so how can I stop my worrying for no reasons? |
| Question: My husband wants to move my MIL into our home? Help? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 04:42 PM PDT She was widowed a few months ago and it has been difficult for her. Now she is realizing she doesn't want to keep the sizable home she owns now. My husband's brilliant idea is to move her into our home, since we have an unfinished lower level that he thinks would be just perfect. I completely get that he feels sorry for her now that she is alone, but I do not desire such closeness. A better idea would be for her to downsize and move nearby. He takes my opinion personally and is making me feel like I can't even have an opinion on the matter. We agreed the discussion wasn't over and it's something to keep talking about, but my husband is so stubborn and takes me voicing my opinion as me not having an open mind. Ugh! What more can I do? Add: I have already mentioned how I think a renovation project is completely unnecessary. We both work and don't have the rainy day budget to just finish an in-law suite. Again, he is not considering my (sensible) view here and is taking it personally as if I have a vendetta against his mother. I don't! I just don't want her IN my home 24/7. |
| Question: Is this a sign that my husband could get violent? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 04:03 PM PDT We had an argument about me not telling him where I was going. I called him some names, bad ones I admit. He banged on the wall a couple times and said "if you were a man". He didn't finish the sentence but its obvious what he meant. We have been married 4 months Oh also I said in reply that if I was a man then he'd be gay. He laughed at that, but as he was leaving the room he gave me this scary look. I didn't tell him where I was going because he doesn't tell me where he's going. I'm not being told what to do by him. I'll go where I please |
| Question: My husband kicked us out and now wants full custody.? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 04:03 PM PDT My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years. We dated for 5 years before marriage. I am currently pregnant. I am 4 1/2 months. About 2 months ago he kicked us out and since then hasn t asked about about the baby only twice or so. And he hasn t given us any money. He kicked us out and kept everything. He moved back into his parents and gave everything we had to them. When he does email me I always ask if he is going to ask about the baby. And he says he is going to fight for the custody of the baby because i don t let him know when the doctor appointments are. But i don t tell him because he never asks about the baby. He has been seeing other people and his family has been sending me messages threatning me. I dont want to lose my baby. But i don t have money for a lawyer i barley have enough for my child and i to have a little room to live in. I know i dont have the resourses and i know he does. We live in Colorado. |
| Question: How long must child be present in the state of to file for a divorce? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 03:00 PM PDT How long must child be present in the state of Missouri to file for a divorce? |
| Question: Divorce requirements in the state in which I reside? PLEASE HELP!!!? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 02:59 PM PDT Im originally from texas but currently reside in MO and Im about to begin the divorce process. Im trying to get my daughter from her mother who lives in Texas. Weve been separated for 6 months now but Ive been living in MO for 90 days. so Iguess I meet the residency requirements however I spoke to some lady( Im not sure if shes an attorney) But she said my daughter has to be present in MO for me to file for divorce. Does this make sense? Do I really need to have my daughter present to file? She also said my daughter must be present in this state for 6 months for me to file. Does anyone know. Im only asking here because I dont have enough money for an attorney yet. |
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| Posted: 27 Sep 2015 01:27 PM PDT ,I am married since 3 years, I am 21 and my husband 33. We have some family problem and he is telling me to leave him while we are fighting. I am heartbroken I can't leave him it's not in our culture. I loved my cousin he got married 6 months a go. Sometimes I think i choose wrong selection. Because their family also wanted me to marry with their boy. I am lost I think I am losser. Plz tell me what to do. Thanks |
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| Question: Is it normal to feel emotionally disturbed if your parent is remarrying? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 01:13 PM PDT My parents were married 36 years and had 4 kids,my dad after 36 yrs of marriage decided to up and leave my mom for another woman,he remarried and his second wife died,now he is getting married to his third,and I don't hate her or anything but I feel depressed for my mother,and disgusted with all the wedding prep,my dad is in his 70s and is marrying a woman in her 50s.and left my mom all alone,and she was an beautiful,faithful awesome wife.I just feel disgusted by my father,how can I heal from these feelings?I am an adult but im disturbed. |
| Posted: 27 Sep 2015 12:59 PM PDT I was coming home from picking my kid up from school, and my husband was apparently on his way home from work. I saw his truck parked a block down from our house, but he claimed he was talking to a friend from high school. Why park and talk on a hands free device especially that close to home?. |
| Question: Army Legal Seperation. What Am I Entitled To As The Spouse. ? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 12:24 PM PDT My husband wants to get a legal seperation. We already agreed upon gettind divorced in January of 2016 so that we both can pay off bills and have enough money saved to relocate. If we get legally seperated will he have to move back into the barracks and would we still get BAH.? Would I still have access to my benefits like health insurance until the divorce is final. ??? |
| Question: How can i convince my parents to divorce? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 11:41 AM PDT its best they divorce in my opinion. for a couple of years theyve been fighting. mom confessed me she doesnt love dad any more. she always gossips about dad. on the other hand, shes in love with her sisters and brothers. if they were to divorce, i would choose to stay with dad, because her adoring for her sisters and brothers is annoying! she worships them so much that they look down on me and dad! so i agree with dad in this case. on the other hand, if i choose to stay with dad, we wont be well situated. hes too old to work and our country doesnt help homeless people. the house were living right now belongs to mom. im really confused. their constant fighting bore me. as theyre old people, they dont even think about getting divorced. so i should be the one who says the last word. its best they divorce. |
| Question: Wife isn't too happy when I told our pastor about our problems what to do? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 10:51 AM PDT My wife and I are 27 and we been fighting lately. It's mostly because of her losing her anger but it doesn't happen all the time. I told her how I feel and she understands and trying to change. I really needed to talk to someone so I went to my pastor and his wife and they spoke to my wife. The pastor told wanted to make my wife feel that they weren't trying to intrude in our relationship so he told her that. I know my wife is upset at me but she is trying hard not to show it and keep her cool. I feel I did nothing wrong and we just want things to work. My wife said she didn't want to talk with our pastor and wife but sees it can be helpful |
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| Question: I think my fiance is lying to me about our diet.? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 10:34 AM PDT We are getting married next year and we both decided to eat healthy together and exercise. I'll ask him sometimes what he ate that day and I found out that he's been eating pizza. I honestly don't care what he is eating, but what bothers me is that he is telling me he's eating one thing but he's actually eating something else. It really freaks me out because we're getting married and if it's this easy for him to lie to me about food then won't it be easy for him to lie about other stuff too? |
| Question: Dancing bachata with married men? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 09:55 AM PDT |
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| Question: What is wrong with me???? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 09:08 AM PDT So I met my husband a little under 2 years ago and we got married about 8 months after we met. He loves me, I m still waiting for the love to hit me because I know you just don t fall in love over night. I never really got the warm bubbly feeling I got for my first love ever (Still the only true love I ve felt) My husband and I got married to stay together (due to the military) but now I m thinking it was a mistake. See there s this guy I met and he makes my heart flutter. He gives me butterflies. I miss this feeling so much and it s a feeling I ve felt before. I don t want to say I m in love with him. I refuse. I know I m a terrible person. I love my husband but I m not in love with him. I care about him and I don t want to hurt him. I m his first everything. I don t know what to do! He s super clingy and is my exact opposite in certain areas. I m more of an extrovert and he s an introvert..... Any help is welcome. Thank you. |
| Question: Is marriage worth it? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 09:05 AM PDT I feel like it isnt, but i always wanted to settle down and have a family. Now a days though it doesnt feel like the smart thing to do, so many spouses are cheating on each other, and i dont think i can handle being cheated on. On top of that divorce is a painful process as well. I know most people dont cheat, and i know that its individual but i feel like its going to be hard making a marriage work for life. I always though that marriage was for life, i know thats a pretty fairy tale view of things but thats what it was intended to be. BTW im a guy, and have morales, i would never cheat, sex isnt a necessity to me, and i know a lot of marriages end because of sex problems. Honestly i would be fine i get to cuddle with my future wife, we dont have to have sex for life, a simple "i love you" everyday would be enough. Its sad so many people betray the ones that they love, and split up because of issues that can be fixed. People need to open up tot heir partners more, if you cant talk to them whats the point of making vows and marrying. Thats why when cheaters make excuses about not being satisfied all i think is you could of told them that and it could of been fixed, if they decide to ignore you, you can divorce (im not against divorce, just unnecessary divorce). I feel like marriage is no place for selfishness, your partners happiness should come first. is there any hope for me to find a girl who feels the same? |
| Question: So isolated scared I may die? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 08:59 AM PDT I'm 3 years out of college with a bachelors degree in Communications. I have been unable now for 3 years to find full time work. I've done nothing but stressed for 3+ years not dating, living at home, very very few friends & just CONSTANTLY looking for work & working 3 part time jobs just to get by. My family planned a surprise trip for me to Las Vegas for a week. They paid for everything they felt bad for me & my situation. I never told anyone this - but that trip was what kept me ALIVE. It was something to look forward to for the past year I've been looking forward to it. For one week I didn't have to think about working 3 jobs & where would my next job application be. I felt loved, I felt cared for. Now it's over & I'm scared I may end my life. I feel like there's no hope for me. I live at home, can't make any friends in the small town I'm in. When I'm home, I feel isolated & alone. The home is usual empty & my parents are too busy to talk to me and are out a lot with their friends. I try so hard to fill my schedule but I can't help but feel so so alone. I am college graduate $25,000 student loans & 3 years still can't land a full time job. I just feel like there's no hope, little motivation for me to keep going. I'm really scared I may end my life I don't know who to talk to about it. |
| Posted: 27 Sep 2015 08:33 AM PDT I came up here and we got married but he was verbally abusive to me and I separated from him. I don't ever want to see him again so I have been thinking of going to my home town but I love the wildlife out here and the sense of community. What would you do? |
| Question: How long do you have to married to collect alimony in Kentucky? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 07:51 AM PDT |
| Question: Should I fight or give up and end my life? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 07:48 AM PDT For 11 years I am in a relationship with S, we are supposed to get married long back but due to some issues from his family, he had to delay the marriage. Later he wanted to move to the country I am in to avoid problems from his family but unfortunately after trying so many jobs, he could not get a good offer. This went on until 2013, 14th July was the last we met and he left to his hometown and since then he start to avoid me, whenever I ask him what happened, he would either say as always or kept silent. I thought its normal and just get on with our lives. Meantime, being a pious person, I used to visit temples and seek consultation from priest about my future and almost all the priest I've seen, all said he will marry me and we will live a happy life. 3 days ago as I was browsing FB, I found out a picture of him with a woman and when I searched her FB, he was Married to that woman. I was so much hurt and could not bear the pain and when try to contact he, he did not answer the calls. Mails and calls all went unanswered. He is married to a gal who long back proposed him. I still remember he has told me some years back that she was his friend's sister and interested with him but he has no feelings for her. How on earth he could marry her now? My mind and heart just racing to find out what happened, she did black magic to get him or its him who jilted me for her? Should I take it as fate and end my life or SHOULD I FIGHT AND GET HIM BACK. |
| Question: How to get over someone and jealous of everyone else? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 06:35 AM PDT My soon to be ex "husband" cheated on me and left almost 8 month's ago. I've been really good about moving on and keeping really busy, but our one year anniversary is coming up (we had a very short marriage, but were together for 3 years) and I've been getting really upset/depressed/angry thinking about it and all these emotions are like rushing back to me from when he first left. I feel like I can't handle it. Also, everyone I know is either married, just married and finding out they are pregnant and moving into houses and so happy with their lives and I'm so incredibly jealous! I'm trying SO hard to keep it on the inside and not let it show, but I can't help but feel I was robbed from my happy ending. I'm just so mad that he did this to me. I know everything work's out for the best and I'm better off without him. It's just hard accepting that when the guy's I've been going out on dates with all turn out to be pervert's and jerks and it's so depressing knowing men in their 30's still act like they are in high school. I just want to be happy and I just feel so terrible. Any tip's or advise? |
| Posted: 27 Sep 2015 06:18 AM PDT We share the duties of taking care of kids equally. But during the day she is home with them and when I get home I take over. Think she just needs alone time. However I always want it and she never does so I leave her be. Hoping in the future she wants it more. |
| Question: How can I stop my husband's Asian women addiction? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 06:05 AM PDT Both my husband and me are Caucasian. But he is addicted to watching the Asian porn. I don't know if it's cheating, but it makes me feel extremely miserable and cheated whenever I discover that. I wouldn't mind if he was watching other porn, it wouldn't hurt me the same way, but he has a clear preference for Asian women, he wants sex with them. Before me, he was married to an Asian women, but then they separated with her and he has chosen me. Otherwise, he flirts with his Chinese female "friend" on the telephone messenger, he says how much he likes her and how cute she is and she is constantly sending him photos and voice messages. Another thing I discovered recently, is that he had been looking for Asian massage salon and he had actually been googling certain prostitutes and their contacts. I confronted him with that discovery, he apologized, and said that he was just watching those websites and fantasized about contacting them but he really wouldn't. It kills my sex drive. We've been married for some 10 month now, and in the beginning of our marriage I had been initiating sex often, and he used to turn me down quite a lot of times, now the roles sort of shifted, he sometimes makes a move and I feel fed up and angry, so that I don't really want to touch him. I don't know what to do, I want to save this marriage, I love him, but certain things he does make me feel sad and totally resigned. |
| Question: Will my wife come back? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 03:29 AM PDT Hi Folks, My wife(Scorpio sun sign) decided to separate from me in December 2014 and left for her home. I tried to plead and reason with her but she elicited completely stone cold behavior. I could figure out that nothing was going to change her mind now. I was shattered but I mustered strength and time played it role in healing me. It was absolutely against my will. Our divorce initiated in the month of June 2015. She looked sad in the court room and I could see from the corner of my eye that she was weeping profusely too. Two weeks later she sent me a message on facebook which just carried a dot(.). Thats it. I never responded back to it. My divorce would finalize in the month of December 2015. What would the dot have meant. Was she expecting me to respond back. Can she reconsider giving this marriage another chance before the divorce get completed in december. What should I be doing. |
| Question: How do i find out what my husband does online? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 03:13 AM PDT |
| Posted: 27 Sep 2015 03:04 AM PDT My husband accused me of turning on Glympse on his phone after he got home so that u could see where he had been. I did not touch his phone. I did not do anything to it. He screamed in my face that I am a lying *****. I showed him on my phone where it says he sent the glympse at 4:17 pm and he was not home and I was not with him. I never touched his phone the next afternoon when he says I opened it up to look. I have told him it is not how the program works. He refuses to believe me. I am dying inside. 10yrs together. 3 sons. I cannot live with this accusation and him feeling like it is just ok he did it. What do I do now? |
| Question: Finally told my wife why I don't like having sex with her.? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 02:48 AM PDT It's because she's fat. She has gained around 90 lbs since we met 5 years ago. She started at 130 and now she is 220. We have a 2 year old which explains some of the weight she also has a condition which makes it hard to loose weight but she also eats like crap and wont exercise.im not a total tool I understand her condition and that a child changes a woman's body. I'm not looking for a porn star with abs but I got with her at 130 lbs probably because I'm attracted to women around that size. It wasn't until she got past 170 that it started to be a turn off. I've hinted at my concern in a positive light i.e. Health concerns ect and she became angry. This time I was rather blunt about it and now I'm an a hole. she claims sexual attraction shouldn't be a concern if you truly love someone. I apologized for not being the hero in some dumb 90s romantic comedy and that I'm glad she is a better person than me. For the love of god I'm only 27 and I can't even get it up with her most of the time. Please help if you have made it through this sort of situation |
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| Question: Married or soon to be married people, is this bad advice to give to someone? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 11:12 PM PDT So there was a guy I know who's not successful but really likes this one lady, and her vice versa with him. The lady isn't successful, either. So he asked me for advice cuz they've dated for a while and might eventually marry, and so here's what I told him: I said that he should go and work on being successful first, then MAYBE he and she can think about marrying. He asked why and so I said if you get married you don't wanna have to worry about money since that's one of the biggest reasons for divorce and lots of times low-down suckers like he and me are barely avoiding loserhood. and of course no good-quality lady worth her salt wants to be with dudes who are losers or barely not losers. I also told him about how we need to save up money since in this economy money is crucial to getting by and lower-downs like us must be careful or else if everything goes sour we're really screwed. So yeah I tried to really discourage him but for nice reasons but then he seemed like he thought I was being a jerk. Was I being a jerk and giving bad advice? I thought I was fully right. But then again maybe I was wrong? I'm a dude by the way. |
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| Question: Made the mistake of calling my wife fat? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 10:39 PM PDT We met when she was about 130. She started gaining wait I didn't think much of it at first. It wasn't until after 170 lbs that I started to become unattracted to her. She is 220lbs at this point. She finally asked me why I don't seem to want to have sex anymore and I finnaly told her that the wait made it hard for me. I didn't want to say anything because the last time I even hinted at her weight she blew up on me and I was the jerk. She has a health issue that makes it hard to loose weight plus one child which I understand changes a woman's body. I had to be honest this time she responded the way I thought she would. The thing that makes me an azz is the fact that I know she is 1 month pregnant with our 2nd child. So now as she is self concious about her size she really has no other option but to get bigger. I know life plays a factor but when I see her eat junk all the time and not exercise I feel that all the weight isn't because of the 2 above situations. The health issue doesn't effect her exercising by the way |
| Posted: 26 Sep 2015 10:20 PM PDT I recently found out that my husband is a crossdresser and he has kept this a secret from me for the past 7 years since we got married. He does crossdressing when I am at work and he comes home early sometimes to do this. I also have found out that he actually dresses up as a girl and has gone to events and parties with his best friend as his date. He has been helping out his friend by going as his best friend's date to bars and clubs and company parties. There is about 200gbs worth of pictures on this external hard drive of his. Can these be used against him ? |
| Question: I kinda like this guy and I have a hunch he likes me to? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 10:14 PM PDT However, we are both married. I try to stay away from him but there are days that we just have amazing conversations. I sometimes wish we could spend all day together just talking. What should I do? |
| Posted: 26 Sep 2015 09:32 PM PDT She had an emotional affair 4 years ago with a Mexican guy. I forgave her and we moved on past that. We seem to be happier now but there are things that bother me. She gets attention from men because she is very beautiful and very nice. She talked about the Latin men he has crushes on. I get turned on hearing about it but it bothers me because it makes me wonder if I'm enough for her. She never cheated on me except for the emotional affair he had before and I trust her now to not mess it up. Our relationship is even better now after we wrathered out the storm... But is she really happy? She tells me she is but my insecurities are getting the best of me sometimes.I think she has a thing for Latin men... And I'm white. |
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