I started my career working in consulting as an analyst (and then an associate). I routinely worked 55-60 hours per week. Soon after I got married, I took a job in industry, where I worked more regular hours. That would allow me to spend more time with the children that we had soon after we got married. For the first 3 years, I enjoyed the stability, the predictability, and the minimal overtime work. After about 4 years though, that gave way to boredom. I put up with it for another 3 years of it, but I was in such a rut, that I went back to consulting, but as a manager. That was 1 year ago. I was THRILLED to be in a more dynamic workplace! I did not have to work as much overtime as I used to, but I am now in a sales role, and I have to travel 1 per week month (but never on weekends or holidays). My wife has been complaining about me traveling too much, but I want her to stop being so entitled and selfish. I am finally in a job that I like, and I am happier at home, and I think I am a better dad to my kids and a better husband because of it. During most weeks she works 20 hours, but she can reduce her hours, or not work at all, during weeks when I'm traveling. I am the main breadwinner, and I put food on the table. I have a right to be happy in my job, so I think my wife is being extremely selfish and thinking only of herself. Going away on business for 1 week per month is tough for me as well, but it is worth it. My wife needs to just learn to cope.

My wife is so negative and miserable. I only dated her for a year and got married. After we married, she slowly became a miserable angry person. She hates both sides of my family, and all of our friends are gone, because she pushes everyone out. She find some fault in everyone. I have been with her for 9 years, I am 35 and feel like I am crossing the point of no return. My step daughter even told me I should go, and she would come with me. (We don't have any kids together ) I just can't get together the courge to leave, please help, need advice

I'm not a jerk but I do jerky things without realizing it. Kind of part of that cultural difference I knew me and my wife had. It isn't an incompatibility thing as much as it's just her coming from very high expectation parents who weren't satisfied with anything less than a 4.0... So if I'm not perfect, she gets crabby and says I *am* an a**hole......... I think that's what started all this 5 years ago... "You are an a**hole"........ I didn't want to be an a**hole any more so I turned to Yahoo! Answers to figure out my marriage and what I was doing wrong... Over the last 5 years, our fights dropped from once a day to once a week to once every few weeks (where it's at now).... Some might say I'm doing great, but I was under the impression that the best marriages are ones where people don't fight at all... After all, many of you say that you and your spouse never argue any more, so I clearly am doing something wrong... I've become so obsessed with having the "best marriage ever" that I am on here every day trying to figure out new angles on what my wife could or couldn't be doing, and how I could or couldn't do things to change her and me... But what if she loves me just the way I am EXCEPT when I'm an a**hole? And what if her opinion of a**hole changes so really she's just venting anger and calling me names? Have I been over-reacting this whole time? On the bright side of being here, I learned a LOT about the world around me. I missed the college dorm experience...

Otherwise i don't see why any man would be stupid enough to give them a crapton of money. I mean yeah, you should buy her nice things and whatnot, but she shouldnt have more of a say than you, if your the breadwinner. Thoughts?

Showering her with gifts only lasts a day if she kinda likes it or a month if she really loves it. I'm at a point where I can't entitle her any more because she has everything she would want to live her life happily/successfully. Showering her with attention has varying affects depending on her stimulation level for the day. She can either really appreciate it, or she can find it super annoying. So attention isn't the solution. Showering her with physical touch has varying affects too for the same reason. She gets overstimulated a lot actually. She drinks 2 to 4 cups of coffee a day and she has a very demanding job. On most days she wants alone time, and giving that to her isn't making her feel special - she feels she's earned it and she deserves it for what she's done at work. Showering her with sentiments or compliments falls on its face because the only way these things work is if she believes they are true already and she was trying to impress me. The fact is, my wife doesn't care to impress me. She kind of has a "live and let live" mentality. Doing all of her chores and my own chores would make her happy and feel special but that's only because she would then have her alone time that she feels she's already earned for working. So actions don't really do much but raise the expectations bar put on me. So I've covered all 5 languages of love, but they just don't seem to fit. My wife just doesn't want to feel special. Do you think I'm misreading her? Someone said that it's a best practice to do something that shows love. I just wanted to do my part. This is the first time I'll confess that I may be truly overthinking this, but everyone says this is a crucial part of marriage (showing love) so I just wanted to get ideas on how to do this. After all, you get what you give. Maybe I want to feel special and she isn't doing it... But I can't maker her. All I can do is bank on the golden rule hoping she mirrors this behavior, right?

I still participate as much as we always have, but my drive is down. I switched birth control about 6 months ago and am wondering if that's it. I used to enjoy sex very much, but do not want to bruise my husband's ego and have him feeling like it's something he is doing wrong. Can anyone relate? If men clicked on this out of curiosity although I directed it to wives, how would you feel if your wife confessed she wasn't as into sex anymore and was "faking it" for your benefit?

I ve wanted one for as long as I can remember! My nose makes me feel worthless. Literally! I always put myself last because I feel so ugly. It affects my work, my social life, how I dress, I won t even put my hair up... I feel miserable. I m 28 now. My husband is all about money and saving it and what not and he couldn t even care less how I feel. He s even been one to poke fun of my nose sometimes but when I tell him how sensitive I am about my nose he just tells me I m over reacting! He tells me if I get a nose job and if he doesn t like how I look after it he ll leave me. He keeps telling me it s too much money and I look fine. (I really think that s all he cares about $$) The thing is, is that I ve saved this money and it s mine! He s never supported me on this no matter how many times I ve asked. I m pretty but my nose ruins all my features and my confidence. My husband treats me bad sometimes and a lot of times I think he s happy with my low confidence because it makes him feel better about himself. He will constantly talk about other women in front of me but he never compliments me. So should I do this or should I listen to my husband and continue to be miserable?

My wife let go of it in half that time. Maybe even a quarter of it actually. So why did I take so long? I think in our culture we see people who don't play the Conservative game as a pessimist and a debbie downer (names you all have called me). So I tried my best to keep believing in the romance and the sex and the close intimacy because I wanted to be seen as positive, upbeat, optimistic, and not a quitter. But now I realize that I just wasted X years (where X is equal to the extra time I stayed in the mentality of honeymoon phase minus the time my wife became disillusioned) trying to keep a dream alive that only I believed in... And it's not that my wife lost faith in our marriage like I thought all this time; she just entered a new phase of our marriage where all the fancy stuff wasn't interesting to her any more... Now that I'm finally there, I don't know what to expect; it feels empowering to not live up to other people's beliefs, but it also feels empty because those stories of what marriage "should" be gave me and my wife something to do together... But why does it take so long to let go of that enchanting phase? Is it because it's reinforced by the media and the business world or is there some other reason I'm overlooking?

Facts: Family #1: Consists of 4 people (husband, wife, 2 sons) Family #2: Consists of 2 people (husband and wife) income is less than half of family #1 Budget option A: Spend $60 on each person Meaning that: Family #1 spends $120 total on family #2 and Family #2 spends $240 total on family #1 Budget option B: $120 TOTAL budget regardless of family size. Meaning that: Family #1 spends $60 per person on family #2 and Family #2 spends $30 per person on family #1

He hasn't touched me for a year and these guys were all over me. I think I owed this to myself.

My husband and I JUST got married and his parents are incessantly asking/pushing us about when we are going to start having kids. I know they are just excited, but they take it too far- calls, texts, Facebook posts, emails etc. about babies and how great it would be to be a grandparent and how they want to still be "young" when the baby is born. We have already decided we are waiting five years or so before we start trying. We've told them that and to please stop asking about it, but they don't seem to get it. Any advice?

I'm 23 years younger than my husband. I went away to school when we were engaged and I slept with 2 different guys. I try not to let it bother me but how can I forgive myself for what I've done to him. He knows everything and has forgiven me but I still feel bad sometimes because I know I hurt him. So how can I forgive myself?

How would you feel about this? I was honestly clueless when this happened. .... Your husband and you were on a break... basically on the verge of divorce when he met this woman on a dating website. Not even a week later he had sex with her. When our divorce came a month later, he tried telling everyone that I went and slept around when all I did was online date when he did the real thing. Our divorce officiaized and 2 weeks later he contacted me. Yes we had sex and our feelings re-fired up for one another. Then I find out that a few days prior, he was having sex with that other woman. ... I'm disgusted with myself because he kept denying this. I'm hurt. I'm scarred. I honestly feel likei don't want to live any more. He tried telling me that the other girls pussy stank and was loose etc... but it wasn't that terrible if they honestly ****** over 5 times at the hotel... he's so into bondage stuff nowadays too... I'm hurt and hate myself. I find this very unfair. Like maybe I should've been heartless and slept around then go back to him. Like maybe I shouldn't even contact him anymore. But I can't live without him. Even though it hurts so much. Help??... What do I do now?.. we've moved in together. ... would our relationship ever work out? Its been 8 months since I've lived him with him. We've been together for 5 years...

The only things he seems to want to do are play Xbox, hang out with his brother, and have sex occasionally. I love him very much, and despite this we have an awesome relationship, but I feel like he has lost all respect for himself. I ve talked to him about his weight gain, and he always agrees and makes plans to eat right and work out, but that all changes in less than 24 hours. I am very worried about his weight gain because it is effecting our life. We love to play sports together and we hardly do that anymore because it seems like he gets an injury every time that causes him to miss work. I feel like he is stuck in this "pity me" phase and I just want to know how to help him get out of it without being mean about it. Please help with uplifting solutions.

25 yrs ago I was engaged. We met when we were 15yrs old - our relationship was amazingly beautiful. However, he cheated on me & out of hurt/pride I broke it off with him. He got married & divorced within 2 years and then got married again.. His 2nd wife & he have 3 kids & he tells me, they are happy. After we broke up I spent 2 yrs alone before meeting my husband & having 2 kids. (He was emotionally abusive & we are now divorced) Anyway, 8 yrs ago when my father died, I received flowers from him. I ph him & thank him for the flowers. He apologized for the way he had treated me & talked about his regrets in regards to his behavior/me leaving him. Prior to this we were not in contact. For 6 yrs after this we would send birthday/Xmas emails. However - 2 yrs ago his brother died - we were all close & I was terribly sad to hear of his death... since then we have been in regular contact via email/ phone. We have not met up but he has hinted on a few occasions. I am divorced & a f/time mother of 2 kids. He is married (happily?) with 3 kids. I admit I enjoy his phone calls/emails & do feel a connection & warmth towards him & I think, from what he says, that he feels the same. I am not interested in an affair (the reason why I have not responded to his suggestion of meeting) But WHY does he keep in contact with me? Am I just romanticizing something that was over YEARS ago? WHY do I have feelings for him?

I am lost.. and yes, i am a bit suicidal/depressed at my current situations in life. My husband and i have fallen apart after being together for 6 years. He secretly texted girls behind my back, never allowed me to meet them nor did he claim he was ever married. When i opened up to the girls about it, things backfired and they claimed that i deprived him from friends, lied about him abusing me. (he pushed and shoved me every once in a while.. poked, hit me.. etc.. it didnt happen every single day, but it happened). This went on for two months. I left him for two weeks, came back to him and 3 days later he hit me again. I tried not to confront him about it. I was dying inside. So i left him. 1 month down the road, i dated online for a month. I met that man once and found out that he was a cheater and had a girlfriend who was pregnant. I left that guy, and a month later, my husband and i tried to work out our relationship again. But then he tells me that i'm being impulsive, that my parents put things into my head. That he never did those things to me in the past.. He was in denial. And i was in denial that those things ever happened rather than addressing the problem that it did happen and how do we fix them. And once again, i left him. not even a week later, he went on okcupid (dating website) and had sex with a girl numerous times and came back to me. We're now going to fix our life together. But how do you forgive all of this? We realize we cant live without one another.

I have no one I want to turn to about this so I'm asking for advice her. I messed up and I'm not sure what to do next. In high school I met this girl after I had broken up with my exgirlfriend. We had just met through a friend from a different school. I hung out with her and a few parties with her friends but didn't get anywhere with her because she had a gf then. So this was 3 years ago. Since then I have an amazing gf and we live together. I hadnt talked to this other girl at all and know nothing about her other than stuff she puts on instagram.  A few months ago she showed about to the bar I work at and I served her. We talked a bit and that was it for a while. Since then she randomly messages me and we talk for a while. Shes always the first one to message me first. Shes asked me to hang out so we can catch up but I have been too busy with work and school to be able to.  I bring all this up because I have'nt been able to stop thinking about her since I saw her a few months ago. I was crazy about her in high school and thought about her all the time. She doesn't have a bf and part of me can't stop thinking about her. I know its wrong, and that I shouldn't since I live with my girlfriend and share my life with her. But at the same time I don't know if running into her could mean something. I not sure what I should do. I still feel that jittery feeling about her I felt in high school, and I dont know what to make of that. What should I do?

Books, movies, magazines, tabloids, tv shows, reality shows, newspapers, my mother, and sales ads describes "Marriage" in a very dramatized way. A man and woman who are: constantly romantic, constantly physically fit, constantly having sex, and constantly getting along without skipping a beat. I wanted this. I wanted a "real" marriage. I wanted it so bad that when my wife stopped fitting the mold I labelled her "depressed"... Well, it turns out that I was raised to believe a lie. It's not real. What makes it real is mutual illusionment; but this isn't reality, it's just an example of the power of our imagination. I wanted to believe in it even long after my wife lost interest in it because I refused to have a "failed marriage" like people talk about all the time. But it's all fake and now I'm questioning things more than usual... So over the weekend I pondered this disillusionment. And the more I analyzed the things around me, the more I felt the need to mourn the loss of other "real life" fairy tales like politics, culture, and psychology (yes, psychology). They're all just constructs. We created these constructs because we needed lies to keep this country going; without it, no one would have reasons to do work and our GDP would fall. America is hanging on a thread of "hope". I talked to my wife about this and she fully agrees. She also says we're finally on the same page and can once again relate to each other. Anyone else go through this? What happens next? As I wait for answers, the ads that are rolling on the right are doing exactly what I'm describing. This clothing ad is showing off a beautiful woman in a bra. Her body language says "happy" but it's really just paid advertising and is exploiting what we generally understand as true about women. "Women want to look sexy for their boyfriends/husbands so why not buy clothing from this story so you can look as sexy as this woman"... But the fact is, it takes work and good genes to look that way. Now an ad of two children, both wearing black thick rimmed glasses laughing; boy in corporate casual dress and girl in a pretty dress. I've never seen children dress this way except to go to church on Sunday (if they go to church even). This is not based on real life either. Children (when choosing clothes for themselves) don't choose these outfits because they are uncomfortable. Yet, a new Mom might see this and have her insecurities ask them "Am I a good Mom? My kids don't dress that way."

Does anyone have experience have married then later have decided to leave their marriage because you feel different and you realize your not ready yet of marriage after feeling single-hood thing in your self. I know it's a stupid question. If anyone here have experienced, how are you now and what is your life today? Just to clarify. There are no issues in a couple or trouble, It's just only feels being different after the marriage when suddenly realize not ready for responsible as a married. Husband is a good and loving care, only the wife has an issue about doubts of her self. So does anyone have feel about this feelings? If you do, how are you now and what is your life today after leaving your husband or partner after marriage.

My husband of just over a year cheated on me this weekend with a coworker. He told me a couple of months ago that she was making some sexual remarks towards him, and seemed to always be where he is. After talking to other coworkers, I determined this "woman" is a w.hore and asked my husband to not talk to her. A few weeks ago I noticed he had friended her on facebook and they chatted a little bit. He said she no longer said anything out of the way and they were just friends and talked about normal things. I didn't like it, and we fought and fought about it, but he kept saying they were just friends and if he wanted to sleep with her he would have done it already. Saturday night, we fought about her, yet again. He decided to get drunk, well inebriated. He wasn't talking to her until she messaged him on facebook and asked him to call her. He went outside to sit in his truck and talk to her. At this point I was infruriated with him, so I didn't say anything and fell asleep (it was around 3 am) I woke up at 6 am to an empty bed. Looked outside and his truck door was still open, but he was nowhere to be seen. I knew instantly where he was. I tried calling his phone and he didn't answer. I text him saying I needed to know he was okay before I called the police to find him, and he text back and told me he was with her. I asked if he had sex with her, and he said yes. An hour later he was home, I yelled and cried, told him I want a divorce. He looked so defeated, like he woke up and realized he made the dumbest mistake of his life. He didn't offer many words of comfort, but I could see the shame in his eyes. I could feel his heartache. He said she offered to come pick him up so he could get away from the house for a while. I know if this woman had not of been so available, this would never have happened. I also know it takes 2 to tango. He was completely wasted, but I know I can't use that as an excuse. I'm at a loss at what to do. Half of me wants him to leave, because currently I can't believe a word he says. I don't want him to touch me because all I can see is him touching her. She's disgusting, trashy. It makes my stomach ache just to think about it. The other half of me wants desperately to believe that he truly feels terrible about it, and that he means it when he says it will never happen again. Do I just give it a few weeks, months? Wait and see what happens? Take it one day at a time? I'm so lost. I'm 35 years old....not that young. The worst part about it all is they still work together. Thinking about them being at the same place every day for 12 hours a day is torture. He DID apologize, he's just not very good with words, which is why I said he didn't offer many words of comfort. Eh, I put blame on both of them, but she is a w.hore. She chases all the men at their job and offers bj's for favors.

An acquaintance of mine just had a baby, she actually was suspicious that her husband was cheating. The pregnancy was planned but on fb I saw they are only giving the baby the mothers last name. Could this be because she still suspects?

Doctors say there is nothing wrong us. Sick of tests and new drugs.

I m a SAHM for a 6 mo & 11 yr old. I ve worked my whole life for corporations so to switch at 35 is definitely new! My work ethic dictates I be the best I can be so I bust my rear every day to keep a nice home and family! I imagine most SAHMs do this too. My husband is a corporate pilot so he flies fancy jets all over the world. I ve been outside of Texas twice in my life. This past week the jet he was ferrying needed work before he could fly it so he stayed the weekend at a Hilton. I know he didn t break the jet but I was livid when he insisted that what he is doing is "working". Yes, he was making money still, but I disagree this is working! I contend his usage of the word after I explained how I felt about him calling what he was doing "work", belittles what I do every day, knowing he will come home, throw his clothes on the floor, neglect to clean up his dishes or do anything around the house except wash his trucks. I contend I am right to feel completely unappreciated because this "working" entails sleeping in a turned down bed he don t have to make, eating at nice restaurants and not having to do dishes or even serve himself, surfing the web and watching TV at his leisure, and falling asleep when the mood strikes. Is this work? Am I with a lazy good for nothing? When do I get MY weekend?! Does my work count for nothing? I LOVE my job! It s harder and less rewarding hands down than anything I ever did in an office but REALLY?! I m ready to leave him over this.

It seems like once a man is in a relationship, they have to act a certain way to keep a woman (or maybe this is just the wrong kind of woman -- in which case, there are plenty of these). For instance, he has to fend off other men who hit on her. He has to always be on high alert when going out to make sure no one is disrespecting her. He is chivalrous most days and learns to put his children and then wife before him. He must always be or at least appear responsible. Yes, very virtuous but it seems like there is no time to be just how you naturally are (like when you were a youth). It's a life of planning and being goal oriented...seldom of just being and experiencing, and enjoying. I'm pushing 30 now and I do feel pressure to settle but it scares me to imagine being like this every day for decades and decades. I feel so free at the moment.

He pop up at my house unannounced. The last time we talked I told him to drop dead why would pop up like that When he pop up he said he was sorry and I was really he's best friend. BUT I don't want to talk to no more cuz of last time. What he put me through. We was having sex n he had gf that I don't understand why he couldn't do half thing we did with his gf. He told me they didn't have Nun in common. She had lied about her age she was a 17 he was 25.. but he always fight for her and let me look like a fool. We fight n we exchanged words hE said don't want to be friends and want Nun to do with me

I ask because it seems like one a man is in a relationship, they have to act a certain way to keep a woman (or maybe this is just the wrong kind of woman -- in which case, there are a lot of these). For instance, he has to fend off other men who hit on her. He has to always be alert when out to make sure no one is disrespecting her. He ends up being chivalrous most days and learns to put his wife and of course, more important, his children first. He must always be responsible.. Yes, very virtuous and all, but it seems like there is no time for how you naturally are a.k.a the youthful "you." Your thoughts? And for those that concede, was it worth it to get married? I'm getting close to 30..and I do feel pressure to settle down, but the idea of this happening scares me. I feel so free right now. @ werbie You see what I mean when I say some women expect this? There are a lot of these ones out there -- poisonous if you ask me. If their husband dies, they'll find another soon enough.

I am married for a long time now. My husband never did anything to make me jealous until pass few months. It bothers me. We have huge fight I don t know if I should continue be with him or should I get divorce. Because if this continues its not healthy for any of us and we ll get in verbal fight all over. Is there any way to talk to him to make him stop or is this end of our relationship? Your opinion is very appreciated. Thank you!

I am truly in love with three different men. One I feel in love with nearly 7 years ago, one I fell for 5 years ago, and one I fell for 4 years ago. I married the one I met 4 years ago because I had lost touch with the other two and "4" was (and is) my best friend. However not long after my nuptials, both 7 and 5 got in touch and we've been talking, flirting, and confessing our love ever since. 4 and I have been married 3 years, and i'm beginning to realize that I love all 3 men equally. 7 and 5 both know i'm married and are fine with it, but my husband simply thinks i'm friends with 7 and 5. I truly believe i'm polyamorous, but that if I was allowed to openly have a relationship with these three men, I would be entirely and completely fulfilled. I know its not just sex because 7 lives in Canada and 5 lives in Scotland, though i've met them both in person. What do I do? Feel free to give me the truth.

me and my husband had threesome issue need help?? our friend and I started fooling around on the couch before my husband was included he was dimming the lights. And after he was included I made a horrible choice of going down on our friend before my husband when I repeatedly told him he would be first and no one else . Now my husband feels bad and feels betrayed that he wasn't first after I guaranteed him he would be. He wanted to be first and he deserved to be being my husband and all he said I shouldn't of started without him and should have started together with him first since he is my husband and we were thinking and kind of wanting to do another one to fix it by making sure my husband is first . Do u think he should of been first? and would that possibly help to do another one and make him first... we agreed on stuff ahead of time but didn't go as planned I messed it up. And now we have regrets and it's an everyday issue..

My husband and I have been together for 8 years. Married one year. About 4 years after took a break. We were on and off for about a year. In that year I was talking to someone who I really connected with but never got together because of our distance. I ended up getting pregnant and got back with my now husband. We ended up getting married and then pregnant again. We now have three kids together because we had one before braking up. I know that I am not as happy as I could be with my husband. But I feel like I owe it to my kids to work things out. I don t feel like he is the best man for me and find myself thinking about the other guy all the time. I do not talk to him because I m married. But I am really good friends with his sister and I have met his whole family. I m not saying I would leave my husband for him. But I would like to hear from someone with experience if I should be true to myself to end things or work as hard as I can at my marriage? I have been working as hard as I can so far. We have almost split three times now. We both love each other so much but sometimes that isn t enough. My husband is a little controlling and does not trust me for no reason. I would not leave him for the other guy cuz who knows if we would even work out in the end. I would leave because I feel like o deserve someone better than him.....

My husband is in uscg reserves and just left on a 9-month deployment. We are able to talk via Internet, but it's still hard. The issue I'm having is that he is able to partake in some fun activities on base like scuba and snorkeling. I live in WA state so there's not much I can do like that around here. I am happy he will be able to enjoy himself, but it makes me sad because I feel like he won't want to come home. I'm having a really hard time. I vent and tell him that I'm sad, then regret telling him because I don't want to upset him. I don't know how to make myself happy while he's away when I know he's having the time of his life and I'm over here watching Netflix in the rain

When our 6 yr old step son has nightmares my wife invites him to sleep with us in our bed. I don't get any sleep while he is in there as he moves around constantly. I work over 60 hours a week and need my rest so I end up getting on the couch to sleep and hurting my back. What should I do? She insists he sleeps with us and he only wants to do it while I am there.

Lets say my name is stud muffin and hers is super star. We started out as friends with benefits and we grown to like each other. She wanted to be my gf but I knew it wouldn t work because of school and other stuff. So I finally gave in to her persistence. We had are ups and downs but nothing major. We had one last fight that ended it, I black out on her because I felt she didn t care about me being harassed at work. She in school and she gets very emotional. Two days later we talked and she she she wasn t happy? Before the break up argument she texted me in the morning say she loved me and ask if I remember our first kiss. Then the argument and wshe broke up with me. Im so lost? I tried the no contact rule because its effecting her school. But I didn t last that long, two weeks exactly, I felt like I was losing her and following my heart. She said she miss the good times in our relationship but not me. But her previous text said she misses me and wants to see me but its hard. Then she got mad and said just the relationship she misses. She kept saying were not getting back together but she said she misses 2 times. We both know we cant be friends but she has it stuck in her mind that we shouldn t be to gether. I told her I hopes she finds someone else but she said she was focusing on school she s a junior. Then she hung up on me. We were supose to meet for thanksgiving but I ruined for closer but I ruined that by calling her. She said she is lonly but miss the good in the relationship but when she rights down why we cant be she said she didn t want to call anymore but wants to call when she misses the relationship. This she hung up on me and blocked me from her life again the last to times I called from a friends number and she said I dont want to talk to you but I cant not talk to you. Im so lost and confused, she seemed perfect and I been through to many relationship to want to search any more. Any help ladies?