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- Question: How to get over the fact you ve been cheated on?
- Question: Should I message?
- Question: Why do some older men crave for sex and some don't?
- Question: My daughters father and i were never married. How do go about obtaining sole custody of my daughter in the state of missouri?
- Question: Should I have an affair?
- Question: Can an abusive husband really change? Can I get back feelings for him?
- Question: My husband got tagged on Instantcheckmate.com on instagram by a coworker. He refuses to delete her. Should I be worried ?
- Question: AF Colonel wife's job? I'm Asian, have BA. I found airline ground service agent job. Is it worthy or unworthy for Col's wife?
- Question: Do you think she's cheating on my dad?
- Question: How much will it cost to get a divorce lawyer ? My income is not that great ! Thank you?
- Question: Still depressed. i wish i have a car accident so my husband cares about me?
- Question: My husband thinks I have cheated and also left doors open I said I would even take lie detected he said no what van I do?
- Question: Do German people marry Danish people in Europe?
- Question: Should I divorce husband?
- Question: Husband said hurtful things during an argument and I cant move on the next day. How do I get over this?
- Question: I just found out that my wife of 17 years had sex twice with my best friend of 28 years 8 years ago, what do i do?
- Question: Really needing help. Depressed, and suicidal. ): Is pretty long, but Please read ALL OF IT.?
- Question: Have you found out your husband posted adds on craigslist M4W or Casual Encounters M4W ? IF so share ur story?
- Question: I have been separated from my husband for a year now, can we save our marriage?
- Question: My husband said he signed his parole papers! What do that mean? Do he still have to wait on his green sheet?!?
- Question: If you are very sexual does that mean that you should marry someone else that is very sexual?
- Question: Can i walk out on a dementia husband who abuses?
- Question: Am I wrong for being upset...our taxes are not paid and bills unpaid but my husband gives his mom money every week?
- Question: Should I be worried something may happen between my husband and his ex-co-worker?
- Question: My separated spouse is insisting that I return my wedding rings, do I return them or not?
- Question: Is an emotional affair worse than a physical affair, and how do you know if you're in one (emotional)?
- Question: My wife wont stop punching and cutting me and forcing me to do "favors" Please help?
- Question: How dangerous is emotional attachment in marriage? What if that emotional attachment was only one direction and not mutual?
- Question: If a couple has been married for 14 years. And it hasn't been really good between them should that couple renew their wedding vows?
- Question: What to do with wife's kids?
- Question: How can I kick my husband out of my house without involving the police?
- Question: My husband doesn't want to go counselling?
- Question: How can I make sure she really loves me and eliminate any possibility chances of divorce infedelity heart break please help?
- Question: I have 2grown sons my ex has 5 kids we trying to have a baby been try for 7yrs why we cant?
- Question: Divorced and back together!?
- Question: Is it normal for women to show their husband less affection after baby is born? Even a few months later I get a kiss goodnight at the most.?
- Question: Is it right for a husband to expect a wife to chip in with monthly mortgage using her inheritance/retirement funds?
- Question: I'm in love with my husband's best friend.?
- Question: My wife doesn't know if she wants to be with me?
- Question: How can i help my wife as i love her so so much i see her for who she is !!!! her close family treat her badly because of her past!!!?
- Question: Do you think my wife lied about her virginity?? Am I right in being angry with her?
- Question: Is my wife playing me for a fool?
- Question: My wife and I fight a lot now?
- Question: Am I the only one who doesn t fanatize about anyone other than my spouse?
- Question: I found out my husband has a lover. And he confessed. I wanted to get back together but its hard they are still talking and work together.?
- Question: How does one handle a divorce ?
- Question: Why is my husband so mad at me?
- Question: Our marriage councilor wants us to draw up a homework assignment that says what would divorce look like for me?
- Question: How do i tell my husband that i know what hes been doing?
- Question: Should arranged marriages return to the American culture?
- Question: My wife cheated on me. What should I do?
- Question: Is my husband's friend flirting with me?
- Question: Did I do something wrong here. Your opinion please.?
- Question: I need relationship advice. When one spouse is all about accountability and isn't afraid to disrespect the other one, what do you do?
- Question: What are major differences between being married and being single?
- Question: Advice to keep your man faithful and your marriage strong please?
- Question: My husband threatens to beat me if i dont vote for GOP candidate. What can i do?
- Question: My wife acts like we are equals and she can do whatever a man can do ( which I have no issues with). But in the bedroom she wants me to....?
- Question: What makes many marriages to break?
- Question: Is making the husband/guy/bf laugh one of the wife's most important jobs?
| Question: How to get over the fact you ve been cheated on? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 09:35 PM PDT My ex is a compulsive liar & a cheater. She told me she was separated but she really lied. She is still married & her husband is deployed somewhere in Texas. So i found out she cheated on her husband with me & cheated on me with some random guy idk who he is. Now I know everything I want to contact her husband but I have no way of doing so. I found his Facebook through her page but it seems he hasn t been on it in 3 years. I just feel really stupid about everything because I had a really bad vibe about her & a lot of things she told me because none of her stories made sense. Plus this is the first time I ve ever been cheated on & it feels like hell. Hurts worse than having a broken heart. Another thing that upsets me is after she come straight out & confessed that she been cheating on her deployed husband With me & cheated on me with another guy. She still calls my phone leaving voicemails now saying she never cheated & that I m the bad person here because she says all I cared about was having sex with her, She says I used her. Obviously she is wrong she is crazy Because I actually did care for her & how can she Say I used her for sex if she is the one cheating & having one night stands with guys she don t know. Anyways all this mess has messed with my head so much I feel I lost my confidence. Sorry for this being so long it s my first time writing on here. Please help answer thanks. |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 09:34 PM PDT We met 2 times total after the breakup to fool around.The last time we met was in March. After the last time, I think he thought that I didn't change my mind about our conflict, so 1 week after that, I messaged him to talk out of boredom, he offered me fwb. I was hurt, since he lowered my pride, and I didn't contact him anymore. 3 months later,I deactivated my facebook because of school, 2 weeks after, he messaged me to ask if I was ok, since he noticed my FB was gone. He said "I'm worried. I have to ask. Are you ok?" I said " why not? I blocked you! I don't allow public search! Stop stalking me". He said sorry, never mind, then no contact until now, Actually we were not friends on FB, he stalked me by anonymous FB, and he doesnt have a real fb. I was still hurt because of fwb offer so I was mean and he's gone, but I miss him sometimes. should I message and ask him what's up? |
| Question: Why do some older men crave for sex and some don't? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 09:31 PM PDT Is it because of.. 1. high testosterone levels 2. enjoyment of sex 3. bored with wives at home? 4. prefer younger women for sex? 5. Enjoy their youth again? 6. Other reasons to support your answers. 7. Because wives are not able or willing to provide sex enjoyment with their men?? |
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| Question: Should I have an affair? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 09:13 PM PDT I am currently 24 now. Me and my husband got married a couple of months ago and I don't feel it will go right. I am wanting to have sex because I crave it a lot, but he won't do it with me. He keeps saying he is hurting after work and he never wants to do anything but sit and drink. Should I have an affair? I love him to death but at the same time I need a man who will have sex with me when I need it. But I love him and I don't want him to know. Should I? |
| Question: Can an abusive husband really change? Can I get back feelings for him? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 09:05 PM PDT 11.5 yr relationship w/1 son together. Abuse isn t constant; great for months and then horrible, then back great. Very verbally abusive (every insult possible: ****, *****, spoiled brat who needs "humbling"). Caught talking to other women 3 times thru the yrs. Made me sleep in my car once bc I "loved it more" than him. Has threatened to shoot my dogs twice. Choked me once. Son & I stayed in FL for a month on vacation (husband didn t want to go) where he cussed me for most of the mo. bc I couldn t send him dirty vids & i told him I wanted to separate. He s now apologizing & taking full responsibility (unlike him) and says he will change. He s changed some but I ve only been back a mo. Feels unlikely he ll stay changed. Also, I ve become numb towards him from yrs of abuse. Is this fixable? Can someone stay changed? |
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| Question: Do you think she's cheating on my dad? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 07:30 PM PDT My parents divorced a while back, and my dad is now married to a woman eighteen years younger than him. I'd think that everything would be normal about their marriage, except for the fact that they pretty much act like roommates. Sometimes, his wife just randomly says she'll be going to Canada with her "FRIENDS", and even one time she spontaneously went to Austria and the Netherlands to visit "FRIENDS". ALONE. Without my dad. Just disappears for weeks. The worst part is that he doesn't even find it weird at all that they basically don't do anything together, and sometimes she comes home at midnight from "WORK". We only have dinner together once or twice a week, because she's at "WORK" or has some product promotion class thing for "WORK" will be home at around midnight. Thanks in advance for answering such a long question. I'm just so confused. No one I know has a relationship like this. Do you think she's cheating on my dad? Her nephew just randomly visited us, and is sleeping a blowup bed in our living room. He doesn't have a job and just walks around the city as a tourist. When I told him about the airport, he told me he wants to go to Florida and needs to book a flight. Makes me feel weird. Especially after he disappeared "ON VACATION" with her to Canada during a family holiday. |
| Question: How much will it cost to get a divorce lawyer ? My income is not that great ! Thank you? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 07:08 PM PDT |
| Question: Still depressed. i wish i have a car accident so my husband cares about me? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 06:55 PM PDT |
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| Question: Do German people marry Danish people in Europe? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 06:33 PM PDT Do Germans intermarry with Danes in Europe? Is it common over there? |
| Question: Should I divorce husband? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 06:30 PM PDT I'm 35 HE'S 59. Been married 7 years and have one child. We recently reunited after a 6 month separation. We separated because he hit me. I also hit him out of self defense. After I took our son away from the volatile situation he told everybody including the police that I broke his nose and run off with our son. When I started working and going to school he would accuse me of cheating and would never help with our son The only good attribute is he provides for us financially. I also discovered he was texting other women and took pictures of the conversations. He caught me and immediately went into a rage and disconnected my phone. I now have no phone yet he knows I'm expecting important phone calls. I am suffering as we speak from a swollen thyroid and he doesn't care. He instead keeps insisting on having sex with him. When I refuse he gets upset. This marriage is affecting my health. I have no family close by. What should I do? |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 05:35 PM PDT My husband basically picked a fight with me yesterday and because of my temper I couldnt just ignore it and it escalated. So during the discussion ( I try to calm down and discuss) he said maybe he married me too quickly and that I was sometimes selfish. Also, I need a better philosophy for life!! I feel very depressed and I am not sure how to get over this even though we went to bed together. He is coming home in an hour and I dont want to continue this argument, so how do I get over this and try to move on? @CONSIDER our post script is rubbish and judgemental. Life is hard for both genders, not everyone is born with a siliver spoon in their mouth and follows the cultural sterotypes to a tee like you like to think. Yes, I am assuming you are a white male, I'm sure to be right. |
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| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 05:21 PM PDT I am 19 years old, and have been married for a year and a half now. Everything is starting to go downhill. We have a 1 and a half year old, and currently have another on the way. We just ran out of money so we couldn't pay for electricity so I am staying at my dads. Well, long story short: My husband and dad got into a big fight the day it got cut off. Even though they are both hurt by the things the other had said, my dad is still offering his home to him and allowing him to stay here, but he just won't. He has told hi daughter and I for the past three days that he would stay with us, but then when it gets time for me to o pick him up he decides not to stay.. I am heartbroken without him around. I miss him so much, but he doesn't seem to care that I am so upset over this. And not only that, his poor baby girl ask for him every single night before she goes to bed and he is not here for her to give night night kisses too. It breaks my heart the most, seeing her not have her daddy. Almost to the breaking point, and I don't know what to do!! ): |
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| Question: I have been separated from my husband for a year now, can we save our marriage? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 05:04 PM PDT I have not seen my husband for a year.we used to live together in the uk but now he kind of forced me to go live with my family abroad . the problem between us was my mother in law, unfortunately we did not get along very well and got big problems which affected my relationship with my husband. We have a gorgeous daughter together and he is the one helping me financially and promising me to go live somewhere away from London . we talk on skype once a week, he buys me whatever I ask him however he has been very cold with me ...we are like strangers now... Do you think that he is leading me on or is he just depressed and really wants us to move somewhere far from his family . every time we skype I find him tired and still at work . he keeps telling me that he is working hard to get promoted to Dubai ....but why has he not made any efforts to come see his babygirl? I am losing hope because I still love him ....it has been a year now should I wait for him or leave him? |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 04:47 PM PDT I'm Confused of what's going on! He don't want to tell me anything! He want to surprise me and Pop up on me!! Lol but I want to know what's going on! |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 04:37 PM PDT If you like to have sweaty, long sex sessions, is this something that you should have a talk with your spouse about? How do you talk about this, and when is a good time to bring it up? It seems like it's not something you should say at the beginning, but you don't want the relationship to develop and then find out the other person doesn't like sex, for example. So when should the topic of sexuality be broached? |
| Question: Can i walk out on a dementia husband who abuses? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 03:59 PM PDT |
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| Question: Should I be worried something may happen between my husband and his ex-co-worker? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 03:08 PM PDT My husband over the years has had a wandering eye. He even confessed to me last year that he cheated. When ever he is working he'll always befriend the female co-workers. They link up on Facebook and become "close" friends. No, I've never caught him with a co-worker but I find it strange that he always finds female friends on his jobs. Well several weeks ago the job he was working let him go and in the process of cleaning out his desk he forgot a couple of things. He contacted a friend (Female) and asked her to pick up the last few things for him and she said she would. I asked him if I could go with him to pick up his things so I could meet this girl. He said there's nothing going on between them and all they were going to do was meet and she'd give him his couple of things. That was several weeks ago. Today when I got home from work he told me that he talked to her today and they let her go today as well. Now, both of them are out of work and have the ability to meet during the day. Should I be worried that he may go meet her without me? He said they befriended each other because the job was a customer service call center and the majority of the people are young kids but he and this girl were close in age. She's late 30's and he's mid 40's. We've been to counseling and I'm trying to trust him but should I worry about this? |
| Question: My separated spouse is insisting that I return my wedding rings, do I return them or not? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 02:44 PM PDT |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 02:29 PM PDT Which is worse? How do you know if you are in an emotional affair with another man (or woman)? I believe I might be in one; I cannot tell, really. I guess people say you rely on the person with whom you have an "emotional affair" with more than your partner — but what if it is not like that as such, but it is more just really having a connection with that person but not being able to engage in physical activities with him (or her) for whatever reason. I mean, does that still count as an emotional affair even though you do not talk to this person about personal stuff that much but you see them often and sometimes Whasapp, and whatever else. I really feel connected to this man but he is 56 and married. And it could easily be my father issues here but I do not know. Please, if you are going to be rude in the comments save your breath: I do not care. Thanks. |
| Question: My wife wont stop punching and cutting me and forcing me to do "favors" Please help? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 02:06 PM PDT |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 02:03 PM PDT The more I think about my situation with my wife, the more I realize that my wife does not have the capacity to love imperfect people. This all began when her parents couldn't love her unconditionally and only gave her attention when she was a 4.0 student or 4H club or equestrian prodigy. At the age of 20, her emotional attachment to me was all sex based. We got married when she was 23 and the emotional distance was already starting (now that the sex was gone after our first born child)... She was detached for a LOOOOOOONG time after that. She became reattached to me after she decided she never wanted to be poor again and after she realized I would be willing to do all her pro-social things for her so she wouldn't have to face her social phobia. So her attachment to me is a financial and anxious/codependent one... Meanwhile, I am still in love with her. Since day one, still in love. I don't lust over her, but the love is very much still there... But then I thought about it today, is one direction emotional attachment healthy? Is she emotionally immature or am I? Is this a civil marriage or a functional one? Honestly, there's so many questions I'd like to ask, but I don't think you Y!A community members are going to give me the time of day any more... Consider this question a test of that forgiveness... |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 01:59 PM PDT If a couple has been married for 13 years . And it hasn't been very good between them. Is it a good idea for that couple to renew their wedding vows? |
| Question: What to do with wife's kids? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 01:52 PM PDT My wife and I have a hard time coming to an agreement on how to raise HER children . She tends to get upset over what they are constantly told daily to do ! Hell up in the 20+ rep ranges ! I get mad because of the same reason and she tells me " they're just kids ease off ". What does " they're just kids " mean ? What does it mean to you ? What is the socially accepted philosophy as to why she and probably other parents are this way ? I am not a perfect father figure for them and I certainly don't wish to be . It takes a lot and aside from that it takes sacrifice . Now I , like those kids have a life . And so does any grown male who either sperm pied their wife or came in to an existing family with children . To make a guy feel like the kids are the only reason for living and moving forward is unfair to him . I don't think I should have to tell them over and over again daily what they have to do . They spend so much time doing what I could in 30 minutes by myself and they take hours , and their are 4!!!! Of them ! Crikey !! I have told them and my wife that I will not be telling them over and over again . And that the kids are on their own . And if worse comes to worse then I clean up after them and don't talk a word to them when I'm cleaning or done . |
| Question: How can I kick my husband out of my house without involving the police? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 01:50 PM PDT I have been married for over 5 years to a man that is abusing prescription medication. Not only that but he just informed me that he is driving on a suspended license, and his truck he got several months ago is still licensed to the previous owner. I have 2 children from my previous marriage. I have asked him to leave, begged him to leave, etc. He doesn't help me pay any bills, or for food. And he asks me to borrow money all the time. He works 40+ hours a week. He fusses and complains all the time about everything that isn't going his way. I think the world of his family, which is why I hate to call the law on him. He has never hurt my physically... HELP!!!!! Someone give me some good advice...... |
| Question: My husband doesn't want to go counselling? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 01:34 PM PDT Just over a month ago, my family went to my husband's business partner's vacation home for the weekend for a gathering. I was showing my son the music room, when a man entered the room. I recognized him and told my son to leave the room since it wasn't safe. The man pushed my son so hard that his head started to bleed. I ran towards my son and the guy grabbed on to me and started to punch me. I managed to stab him in the his throat with my heel. But it was enough for me to see if my son was fine. I don't really remember the rest since I woke him in a hospital. But he has been really overprotective and wanted me to quit my job. I have never seen him so possessive like that and it scares me, I've told him but then he changes the conversation. I know my son thought he was going to lose his mother again (my son is legally ours but not biologically). But he is tough like his dad and doesn't believe a 'shrink' will help. Since it happened they've been acting strange and won't talk about it. I've even mentioned therapy but they both refuse. The thing is since this situation did happen, we either talk about it through conselling or pretend it never happened. But they don't want to talk about it, but won't forget what happened. I feel like I am losing the both of them. Any ways for this to disappear? The man was the attacker and I already have pressed charges and my lawyer told me that he could be looking at attempted murder. |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 01:21 PM PDT I only have one shot at a happily ever after I'm not getting married a second time I'm only going to do this once and try it once I can't afford a divorce and definitely can't afford to have my heart Broken again the last heart break would be my last is what I decided And promised myself What can I do to make sure that the next one really will be the one and that she'll really truly love me and care for me and stay with me for life and be a keeper And not just settle My friend says to try to blend in and pretend to be an average or below average poor guy Being average Normal like everyone else is easy but pretending to be poor is hard for me because I'm used to living an affluent life style |
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| Question: Divorced and back together!? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 01:11 PM PDT Do you know any couples who got back together after being divorced for years? |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 12:36 PM PDT When we were married before kids my wife always wanted to sit in my lap and flirt with me. 3 years and 2 kids later I try but it's a couple of pecks and that's about it unless she has a couple of drinks. Not looking to have sex all the time, but looking to be acknowledged. Is this normal for women after having a baby? Does it go back to normal? |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 12:22 PM PDT I'm a stay at home for 15 years. My parents gave us a portion of our inheritance a few years ago. Upon knowing this, my husband expected me to pay our mortgage. I have been using it to supplement some needs at home such as tuition fee and miscellaneous expense. I have had no luck finding a part-time job so I could be home for our 6 year old. My husband has a good paying job but he over extended us by building a huge home a few years ago and also getting fired for the second time at his previous job. He was earning more at his previous which was paying a lot more thus we were able enabled us to build a home. Our finances went downhill after that. What do you think? |
| Question: I'm in love with my husband's best friend.? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 11:06 AM PDT Let me start off by saying, my husband joe and I were high school sweethearts. We were basically each other's first everything. I gushed and loved and swooned and blah blah blah. He was the perfect bf. We had a few rough patches, as most teenage relationships do. But before I knew him, I was good friends with his best friend, Bob. I knew in high school that Bob was amazing. He was different and himself and just awesome, in the best nerdy way possible. Because of this nerdy part though, he never flirted or asked me to "go steady." So I was with Joe for Junior and Senior year, and Bob was just the "mutual best friend." A few months after graduation, Joe and I got married. Within a year, Joe's true colors began to show. Granted, he's not abusive, he's a good worker, and he's never looked twice at another woman. But all the sweet, loving, fun, affectionate things that made him the person I wanted to marry, went away within that first year. 2 years after being married we had our son. A year after having our son, during one of our many many many fights, he addmitted that the person he was when we were dating was not who he really is, that he was only doing those things because he wanted to keep me. For 6 years now, I have felt like I've been married to a teenager. |
| Question: My wife doesn't know if she wants to be with me? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 10:39 AM PDT My wife says that she doesn't know if she wants to be with me anymore. I caused a lot of it and I see the error in my ways. I don't have a filter and I flirt with every female I know it got so bad that a girl wanted to leave her boyfriend for me but I stopped that. Then one day on vacation I came out of the shower to my wife on my Facebook reading a message to a female and it was inappropriate but nothing that I would have acted on. I love my wife with everything I have we have s handsome one year old and I don't help out as much as I should around the house with him. For the past two weeks I have been sleeping n the couch and I try to fix it but it feels hopeless. We have started hugging and holding hands again but after a while she says I'm smothering her because I show her love which I barely did prior to this. I don't want to lose my family what can I do? |
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| Question: Do you think my wife lied about her virginity?? Am I right in being angry with her? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 09:50 AM PDT While our marriage was getting fixed.I decided to come clean with my fiance that I was not a virgin as I had physical relations with my ex-gf and I said if she wants to come clean,she can...She said she did have a bf but she's still a virgin..I believed her and said I was ok even if she had physical relationship.... She bled on our wedding night which further convinced me that she wasnt lying... However,she recently said that once she and her bf were alone in his house and were kissing and it led to other things and they got naked and when he tried to insert,she had pain and stopped him to do...and they just rubbed their parts till he came out... Later,she realised what she was about to do and said she wont continue further till marriage but then later her relationship got broken... I said that she lied about her virginity as virginity is a mental thing..If she can get naked with another man and rub themselves..that time she lost her virginity ...She says lovers fool around a lot but since he didnt insert,it doesnt mean she lost it... I feel betrayed especially when I said its ok to come clean and havent talked for 2 days...Do you think am i right to get angry??? |
| Question: Is my wife playing me for a fool? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 09:39 AM PDT Been married 5 years and for the past two I have been expressing my frustration over her not being sexual. I am not asking for anything out of the ordinary. She listens and just says "sorry this is me". But she was extremely different prior to marriage. She simply does not care or even try to compromise or anything. There is absolutely NO desire or interest in my on her part. Am I wasting my time practically begging? Asking? I seriously considering a divorce. It's fallen on deaf ears. Thanks in advance! ...and yes I work my but off, take her out and help around the house. |
| Question: My wife and I fight a lot now? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 08:34 AM PDT 5 years ago( We're 23 now), I was a college freshmen. I met my wife that year. Now we're married and we fight an awful lot now. We got married in mid-July and are constantly fighting. We hardly ever fought when we dated but now that's all we ever do. It now annoys me to have to wait for her to get ready to go to dinner, and, as bad as it sounds, I'll complain and tell her to hurry up and then that gets her nerves. If I'm watching a game, I'll hear a loud sigh and " Well, it's not like we have any housework to do. No worries, just keep sitting, I'll clean." That then irritates me and leads to an argument. |
| Question: Am I the only one who doesn t fanatize about anyone other than my spouse? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 08:31 AM PDT My husband travels for work a lot and admitted that he fantasizes about other women when he s flying solo. He thinks I m lying about not fantasizing about other men, but it s the truth. I m not jealous about this or anything.. I mean I know he watches porn when he s on the road.. We ve watched porn together several times. But I don t fantasize about the men or any other man. It s just not a turn on for me. I ve read different threads on this topic and I feel like I m the minority in this. Does everyone fantasize about different people than their significant other? |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 08:09 AM PDT So, me and hubby are not in a good marriage situation for a while since I got pregnant. That is probably why he cheated. The thing is, he told me that he's kind of is having feelings for her, he told me that the girl is falling in love with him and my husband is totally confused of how he feels . We have a child together and the other woman is separated with a child also. Now, I just wanted him back to me , how do I get him back to be attracted to me and love me instead of the other woman? Please help!!! |
| Question: How does one handle a divorce ? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 08:05 AM PDT |
| Question: Why is my husband so mad at me? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 08:03 AM PDT I just had my son 6 months ago and I also have 2 other son's (8 & 13) i work full-time and attend college at night my husband works also and that's all he does. Me im cooking, cleaning, taking care of my babies,helping with homework, doing my own homework etc. While he just sit back and watch me over work myself he doesn't even pour himself a glass of water. We try to have intimacy everyday but sometimes i be exhausted and to tired to perform and He gets super pissed and say things that makes me think he cheating on me.. why is he so mad at me it seems like he always so pissed with me and he always accusing me of cheating on him.. what is really going on??? |
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| Question: How do i tell my husband that i know what hes been doing? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 07:48 AM PDT I dont usually look through my husband s phone but last night i did and i now regret it. i found a conversation between him and an old "friend" , who is a girl. how do i tell him that i know that he s been telling her that he loves her and misses her without letting him know i went through his phone? he still says that he loves me constantly and he told her that he loved me in their conversation but i dont know what to do. |
| Question: Should arranged marriages return to the American culture? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 07:39 AM PDT I read somewhere that before the 19th century, arranged marriages were common in the U.S. and people rarely divorced. Child and arranged marriages are two different things. If arranged marriages made a comeback will that make society better? Less poverty, out of wedlock pregnancies, single parents, abortions, broken families and divorces? 50% of love marriages end up divorce anyway |
| Question: My wife cheated on me. What should I do? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 07:22 AM PDT Unfortunately, a few days ago I found out that my 14 year old daughter wasn't sired by me, but in fact from someone else. I'm crushed. All these years, I have received nothing but lies and secrets from my wife, but I feel like this is too much. And worst, she was having an affair with a man I knew. He went to university with me as well as my wife. I have no idea what to do? Should I let the man's wife know that her husband cheated on her all those years ago? I know it was a long time ago, but I just can't get over the fact that my wife would do that to me. What should I do? |
| Question: Is my husband's friend flirting with me? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 07:11 AM PDT Hey guys so my husband is in the navy and he has recently been hanging out with the same couple of guys for a really long time now. One of the guys, is married and I've met him and his wife on several occasions and they are great people. My question is, my husband always asks me to go on double dates with them at least once a month and after the two first times we double dated, at this point, I'm uncomfortable at dinner now! I haven't said anything because I don't know if this is considered flirting! But I noticed it right off the bat when I met him. This guy "mike" would stare at me while I talk, and I know some people look at you when you speak but I mean this guy gets really into my stories. And when another starts talking I still feel his eyes on me. Like I know he's looking at me and then looking away. But no matter who is talking he is always doing that... I don't know what it means but every occasion we've met he does the same thing.. I'm confused guys. I've been in a relationship for 8 years now and I don't know how other people flirt anymore. Maybe it's all in my head... |
| Question: Did I do something wrong here. Your opinion please.? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 06:41 AM PDT I am divorced but my ex wife and I are on friendly terms. We email each other on rare occasions. She has remarried. Her last email said she very much wanted to go to her high school reunion but she did not have the money for an airline ticket. I told her that I had some good news for her. I had a pass for a free airline trip anywhere in the US from being bumped off a flight. I would give it to her for free. That made her VERY HAPPY. I got a call from her current husband and he asked me where his free airline ticket was. I though this is odd as I have never talked to or met him before. I told him I only had 1 ticket. He said if I really was her friend I would get him a ticket also. He told me that if I did not get him a ticket, he was not going to let her go. My thought at the time is this guy is NUTS. I am not about to buy him an airline ticket. If he wants to tell his wife he will not let her go, that is NONE OF MY BUSINESS. I am not getting involved in her and her husbands affairs. I thought about telling her what he told me but that would probably just cause them to have a fight so I didn't tell her. Did I do the correct thing by not telling her? Did I do something wrong offering to give her a free airline ticket? |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 06:13 AM PDT I just want to mention that I don't know what my responsibilities are as my wife's husband. Since my marriage is not based on traditional norms, it honestly feels like my responsibilities in my marriage really are just the things that my wife doesn't want to do. She hates doing the cat litter, so she makes me do it. She hates taking the trash out, so she makes me do it. She hates going out in public (even to do clothes shopping) so she shops online for everything not perishable and sends me to the grocery store to do the rest. My entire existence in her life is to do the things she doesn't want to do... This would all be fine and dandy BUT she also holds me accountable on a timeline (typically instant gratification)... I know this is disrespect, and I know I need healthy boundaries, but she thinks this is "okay" and she refuses to go to marriage counseling to be told that she is not the boss of me (because I'm sure deep down she thinks she is and she doesn't want to be told otherwise). When I tell her that I'm going to cut the lawn on my own time, she says "Okay, when?" and then mentally records the days that she can hold me accountable for this responsibility getting done. If that day I chose ends up being 95 degrees or rainy, she's unreasonable and says "See, you should have done it the day I *told* you to do it." This is the crap I have to deal with. She holds me accountable 24/7. Yet, she gives the children a "bye". If my son doesn't want to shower she allows it... WTF? |
| Question: What are major differences between being married and being single? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 05:08 AM PDT |
| Question: Advice to keep your man faithful and your marriage strong please? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 03:46 AM PDT Hi. I'm 28, he's 39, we've been together for 11 wonderful years. But lately, since starting his new business, he's been working a lot and travelling more than ever and I don't see him during the week. We have regular Saturday night date nights away from the kids (we have 3 kids), but is it enough? It's stressful with a new business and 3 kids, I feel like our marriage has taken a back seat. Any advice on how to keep the closeness in the marriage? Thanks |
| Question: My husband threatens to beat me if i dont vote for GOP candidate. What can i do? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 03:28 AM PDT |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 03:04 AM PDT Dominate her and have my way with her. This normal in most marriages? |
| Question: What makes many marriages to break? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 02:50 AM PDT |
| Question: Is making the husband/guy/bf laugh one of the wife's most important jobs? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 02:41 AM PDT Like being naturally funny at least in his eyes...is that part of the glue of a marriage? He is also has a sense of humor so she laughs by being around him too |
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