He talks to me about his personal problems. He's so sweet. What does this mean? Help please. I like him. He doesn't know. Do you think he likes me too?

This story is before the other story with Lucy, before I knew about her and her feelings for me. Lucy lives on the next street from me. And did I mention that Lucy had blossomed in to a f-ing hot girl. So I'm walking home with Lucy and she's constantly talking about her (private parts) I do the same with her but it's not as detailed. We talk about the weirdest things. She knows about me and my ex and the things we've done. Anyways, she starts talking about how I've done things to her(use your head and think hard, once you've thinked it you will know what it is, (btw not sex)). She says she's jellous and she wants to be my gf. She admits that even though we're best friends (I've known her scince 2nd grade im 12 in this story) and how we've taken showers together. (that is another story). I ask her how does that relate to you wanting to be my gf. She says she wants my to "play" with her. I say no like 30 times. Then I explain how if she was my gf if I screwed up we could loose our friendship . We end up walking home to Lucys house and I say by and she grabs me. She pulls me all the way to her room (her mom doesent get home till late).She some how convinces me to take a shower wit her (real quick, I'm am not a "good looking" guy I am 5'3 and weigh 130lbs) After we take a shower and I'm in her room (with lucy) about to get changed and she grabs my hand and puts it on her (you know) and that happened. Is this wrong. Idk the more I talk about it it seems ok.

So basically I've been hurt a lot by guys. All of the guys that I like seem to only want sex off of me. They don't want anything more. It really hurts my feelings. I'm just tired of being used. Should I wait til I meet the right guy to have sex again? I mean like sex a lot but I hate how I feel afterwards. What if I never meet the right guy? On the other hand I guess being abstinent is better than being used. Thanks for your advice I'm 26 btw

So me and my boyfriend have been going out only about a month and a week, which is very short time, I know. But we've been moving pretty fast, like we've come very close to having sex. We've already done the whole third base and blah blah. I'm 16, he's 17. He lives in my house with my family because he has no where else to go. Well last night we were making out and he was fingering me and he was like "can I tell you a secret?" And then he leaned into my ear and said "I love you." I do love him, I think. But I'm really young so how do I even know? Like there are moments when I just look at him and think "God I love him" but do i? I think I do but I don't know if I'm just naive. So I didn't say anything, I just smiled and kissed him and continued to make out and he kept making fun of me (in a good way) because I was blushing and when we went to bed he said I love you so I said I love you too, and he keeps saying it but I'm afraid to say it back. I don't know why. Do you think this could be hurting him? I'm just scared. I push people away because I don't want to get hurt and I don't want to let him in and just have him leave like everyone else, and I don't want to have sex so soon because I'm afraid he'll leave after. What do I do?

For the past 2 months I've been texting this girl. We have kissed and slept together with no sex, even though I tried. Our texts have been flirty and she would message me first some of the times as well. I have met up with her twice and the last time I did was last week. She was messaging me all week and I managed to get lunch with her and picked her up from her house. At this point I thought it was going well, but then a few days later I send a text and got no reply, a few days later I send another one and got no reply again and I don't kmow why, even her best friend told me that it's odd (I'm worried she found another guy because that would sting lol). But the next day I snapchat her and she replies. I got no idea why this has happened and I'm really disappointed that it came to this because I actualy started to like her. But it's her birthday tomorrow and I figured I might just send a happy birthday text to her. I'm just worried I look needy because I've sent 2 messages that have no replies so my inbox looks bad hahaha. I also wanted to go no contact for a while but since it's her bday I feel like this would be a good thing to do. Should I send one? Or would it make me look needy?

He s the best person ever. And we have a really good relationship. He cares about me and we "love" each other. I love him and I know it. But he doesn t know if he loves me. He doesn t know what love means. However he cares about me and doesn t want to leave me. What would you do if you found out this?

I'm 6'2"

I don't think J and I really knew each other existed. We were stuck closing together one night, and we had a pretty good conversation. We discovered we have quite a bit in common with each other that people normally don't, like a mutual love for underground rap. After that, hes been coming into my department to make me laugh, or to just talk to me in general. Hes also been asking me what days I work as well, to see if he does too. Even if we don't make eye contact with each other, he'll go out of his way to say hi. His friend is also talking to me, and I think has a thing for me. I'm not interested in him, but he has warned me that J is a player who "gets women." I wouldn't have ever thought that, and I never got vibes from him that he was after me in that sense. Should I take warnings like this seriously? Is he even into me?

This shy girl caught me staring at her over a year ago (I thought she was cute). She begun staring at me a lot, yet we rarely talked. She is EXTREMELY quiet/shy, aswell as me. It got to a point where her friends would all stare at me, but they wouldn't say anything to me. After having a staring thing all year (last year) she begun to stop looking, and I felt that she wasn't as interested. I got to sit with her on the last day of school (like 3 months ago) and I tried my hardest to conversate, which was hard since she couldn't keep it going, but I still tried to be nice, and give her attention, eye contact that would last a good 8 seconds between us (she would smile).. I finally got her number, but after texting her I noticed she would text like she didn't want to talk, like one word answers and when I asked her if she wanted to do something sometime, she said she was busy. So I stopped texting her, and distanced my self. Our senior year just started, and she started to stare again. I notice she will sometimes be eying me across the room, smiling at me while talking to her friends. I've still been ignoring her, because I feel like I'll mess it up.. But today I was about to walk past her at the end of the day, going outside to my car (she was talking with her friends) then she quickly stops talking to them, notices I'm walking near her, and walks in front of me, like cuts me off directly. Why would she do this? And why does she keep staring if she lost interest?

I'm not complaining! My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months (not that long of a time, I know! ) but I often hear that the relationship starts to lose its spark after 6 months... sex drive goes down, or the relationship seems like routine. But I feel more and more attracted to my boyfriend as we date for a longer time. I feel excited it to see him each time, I don't get bored of him. We have our own lives but we are a part of each other's too obviously. I'm just curious why it's the opposite for us. It's awesome and I'm really happy with it. :)

My girlfriend, who is beautiful in every way shape and form and who I love with all my heart and well being, has been an emotional wreck as of late. I posted a similar question earlier today about this as well and I got a very helpful answer. But here we go again. Today We were just hanging out laying on the couch watching a movie when all of a sudden she rested her head on my chest and began pouring her heart out to me. She began saying things such as " I can't tell you how much I love you, I want to be with you forever. You make me so happy and I couldn't live without you. I feel so safe and secure around you and I cry every time that we aren't spending time together." She then began to start crying her eyes out again as she hugged me tightly. I thought what she said was adorable. I want her to smile I don't want to see her crying because it makes me cry. I understand why she feels safe around me considering the fact that I am 6'6 and 225 pounds and she is 5'0 and 105 pounds and I am also happy that she loves me very much.I am happy that she feels comfortable with me to talk to me about what's on her mind, But I don't understand why she keeps crying her eyes out when she's with me. Please help me. :(

I've had a fair rough upbringing havent we all but, I do have alot of anxiety. And I do ask questions alot, me and my boyfriend have been shaky, for a while so im unsure about things so I need to ask about certain things cause I'm feeling insecure but he just thinks theyre ridiculous.. and tells me to shush or just gets mad at me and tells me his sick of the interrogation questions, but.. i only really ask questions because i dont know what else to say to him anymore.. I just want some conversation and some security. I really dont want to leave I never do but, I dont know what to do anymore, please help :(

My buddy and I are at the races and there is this girl selling 50/50 raffle tickets, we wana try and see if she's interested in either of us at all..( the only thing I can come up with is like hey if I'm lucky enough to win can I have your number?) But that just seems dumb, any ideas...no corny or sexual ones, thanks

So to deal with the abuse my parents gave me when I was growing up I wrote a letter and will mail to them some day. I guess more so I wrote it to show to my girlfriend so she knows that I am not a *** for wanting nothing to do with my parents and that I don't talk with them. I would really like 5 or 6 people to look at it. Its just a rough draft, but if you would look over it please let me know what you think. Please post your email address in ur response and I will send it to you. I ask if you please email me look over it and let me know what you think. Thanks. If you want to help please post your email address down below and you can delete it after a few minutes

I am a 16 year old ( Guy ) and I like this 22 year old ( Girl ) well she super hot and she flirts with me I guess. She hugs me alot and she did it from behind when I was sittin once and mushed her face into mine. She said she loves my hugs and one time she hugged me for like 20 seconds. Did I mention shes hot, I mean I get hella girls but like I never thought a girl 6 years older would want the D. Anyways she moving around the corner and she even said she loved me not like the I looovve you but like aw I love how awesome you are. type one I would lowkey marry her she so sexy and awesome. But yeah does she want to maybe go out on a date or want a relationship with me. Should I ask her out to the movies and ease in or something any advixe preciated homies. And would this be weird at all for ma family and hers thanks thats it.

When a straight couple go grocery shopping, should the lady help her man carry groceries, or should he carry everything?

Jewish boy (Friend) who I have a crush on. What's a good present. Just asking. This is if I was friends with a jewish person if I had a crush on them but they were straight.

im so mean to my sister she buys me stuff makes me food but i hate how everytime she gets a boyfreind she brings them to hangout at home like she had a boyfriend and he molested me multiple times and i just cant help but blame her for letting guys come to our house she doesnt know this happened but i call her names like whore but i feel so bad

So maybe a game like truth or dare, never have I ever, or something like that. It has to be pg-13 or under cause this is or first month dating.

So there is a guy in my lecture and lab. But every now and then I catch him looking at me. Once I was standing behind him in line to write my name on the sign-in sheet and looked back at me. Once he came up to my lab partner and I to talk to my partner (they have another class together as well) and when he looked at me he smiled huge and took a few deep breathes before he talked to my partner. When he went to sit back down he looked back at me. Yesterday he came up again to my partner and talked to her about their class and he kept staring a ton. Last week he came up again and asked what we thought of the exam but I was too shy and didnt say anything. My friends said he kept looking at me. I got a haircut and he was staring 24/7 and came up to my friend like 2x. Then after class my friend was talking to him and she called me over. When I came up to him his eyes went wide and sparkly and he smiled big. He almost looked frozen. Once a random guy came to me and asked me a question and he glared at him. when another guy asked me a question, he turned his whole body around and glared at him Last week we talked more. When we were leaving class he asked was I was going and I said to the right and he said he normally goes the other way. But he said he would walk with me and so we walked and talked more. He asked a lot of questions around me and walked close to me. Whenever he looks at me he blinks slow. Once he walked with me again and we talked. Before we parted way exchanged number Once we studied together with my lab partner. When we were studying my friend was talking about her bf and he looked at me and smiled. When we were leaving he walked me all the way to my apartment. Last week I told him that if he wanted to grab coffee sometime then to let me know. He said that sometimes things come up but he will let me know. Yesterday my friend said that cant come to our study session tomorrow so I asked if he was okay just studying with me and he said yes. We studied together and when we were done he walked me to my apartment. I show lots of interest. Our final was today. When he walked out he looked at me with a sad face and walked away. I texted him for coffee again and he said he is busy with family stuff these days.We talk once every few months. Once he posted "when someone never leaves your mind and heart, thats when you're in love" and then there was another pic that said "weakness moments when you feel like you're losing the person you love the most, and this person means everything for you, and you can't live without this person, while you can do nothing to it so you ust go get lost. cut distances and distances with hope to forget, but simply it is not gonna happen"

My best friends and I were all hanging out yesterday and we were talking about random things. And then we started talking about guys and my one friend asked if it's weird that she calls her boyfriend daddy. I said yes because it'd make me think of my dad and she was all like, "Well you have to get out of that mindset." But I can't think or say the word daddy without picturing my actual dad. I know my friend isn't the only one who does this. But why do girls even do it? It makes me feel grossed out.

I met this guy about a month ago at a friends party. We hung out for a bit and we both happened to leave at the same time. Our cars were parked about half mile away from the venue so we walked over together and began talking. The conversation was nice and easy and he wanted to continue it. I made it clear that i only really respond to texts but he insisted on giving me HIS email. What does that mean?.... Anyway, I met him again yesterday and we talked the entire time (2 hours) and after he invited me to a party that he was having. He reluctantly took my number after I'd left it in my car to text me the details but I haven't heard from him yet. during our conversation, he picked up on certain things I said about not being too great at commitments(but not in relationship terms) and similar things. I don't know what's going on in his head.

This guy really likes me but I don't like him. I don't feel anything between us. How do I break it off with him? He's always texting me and wanting to see me?

Before meeting this girl, I wasn't as attracted to Latina but then I met this girl who was a Latina. She was really sweet and friendly with me. Now I have a strong attraction to her. I don't understand how that happens.

I used to see this girl and i caught something that she doesnt tell me about and she didnt know i found out. So we had a final phone call and told her it's over and then she tells me "she knew it", about us breaking off. We weren't in a relationship but we act like a couple in a way but not fully. She has asked me before this when I will consider her as GF , if I'm serious with her or just for ex and do I love her, etc. However, she had told me stuff that made me not trust her fully and I need to trust a girl fully and she can't demonstrate full honesty. why would she say i shouldve never kissed her? What does a girl typically mean when she says this?

This guy likes me and I like him. We are not dating. Today he said he had to tell me something. and he said "I'm scared to date you because you are to pretty"? He thinks because I'm pretty i'm gonna be a snobby stuck up B*** who is full of herself. But I never gave him a reason to think that. I'm not even that way at all I'm so lost! Why would he say that?!!

Like if you were standing next to a girl you found attractive, and you said to her, "I really like your hair". Or "I really like your earrings" how would she feel about that?

We had sex so this what happend. I went in she screamed take it out idk why i didnt do anything wrong.

I don't think I've done anything to upset her and I've texted her yesterday and today to see if everything's okay and she hasn't read them. I saw her putting stuff I twitter and snapchat so I know she has her phone. I even texted her boyfriend to see if everything was okay. I'm honestly so scared I did something and she's upset with me. I have social anxiety so I do tend to jump to conclusions. PLEASE HELP!!

kay, so i just graduated college with a bachelors in architecture and just got my first job at an architectural firm. But its very weird. I sit at a desk right by this girl i dated for 3 years in college until i got her pregnant and made her get an abortion or i would leave her because i hate children even though she didnt want to get the abortion, and then i left her because i didnt want to take that chance again. Its 1 year later and i keep getting the vibe that she still hates me for it. She refuses to speak to me and she gives me nasty looks when i try to be nice to her. Its very uncomfortable being in there with her, i feel really nervous all the time. Its just so frikin awkward. I really need this job and i dont know if i can do this with her there. What should i do? Help.

So me and my ex have gotten back together. We have been broken up for awhile but we reconnected figured out we still had strong feelings for each other and wanted to be together. But my grandparents, who I lived with didn't agree with me having a boyfriend and dating the 1st time we where together because neither of us can drive. Also I'm very smart and he is in special-ed and they think I need a guy who is smart like me not a special kid. How should I tell my grandparents that we are dating again?

i had a sexual encounter with my brother what should do do?

My boyfriend of a year is sleeping over at his friends house (a girl) I've made it clear I'm not comfortable but he insists he can't just be like "I don't want to stay at your house" to his friend. It's gonna be him, three other guys, and three other girls. He says he wishes I could too but I can't because strict parents and he gets mad becasye I don't ask, but I know my parents and they'd look at me as if I've grown a second head. Should he be more respectful of my feelings or am I wrong? One of the girls likes him, but he insists he wouldn't do anythingn with her.

Okay this dude says hi to me sometimes but I kind of just ignore him tbh, but at school I noticed him staring at me. I looked away, looked back a few seconds later and he WAS STILL LOOKING AT ME. And don't say he was looking at someone else because there was no one in front or behind me... so what does this mean?

Sorry if this is long I'm a shy 17 year old guy and I used to sit next to my crush in class last year. One day we were talking and she called me cute and my face started twitching. We still talked after that happened but I was so scared about it happening again that I would act weird around her when she tried talking to me. Now I'm starting to get over my shyness and what happened last year and have a class with her again this year but now this time she siIts on the other side of the room. I talked to her a couple times and I seemed to be doing pretty good because I kept the conversation going. I don't really see her before class or any other time during school and she sits behind my friends and I'm a little worried they might joke around and embarrass me in front of her also her friend has that class and they walk to class together so I can't really talk to her after class either. Anyway I've never liked anyone as much as I like her so and I think she likes me back so what are some things I can talk to her about and how long should I talk to her before asking for her number?

Since white girls only want to be approached and asked out on dates by tall white guys? White girls are disgusted and offended by the existence of guys who are not white. They dream of a perfect world where all guys are tall, white and have blond hair and blue eyes. I am pretty sure they would be insulted by a short non-white guy's interest and would spit in his face or throw a shoe at him. So is it safe to say that if a guy is short and not white (a double-whammy), he should not bother showing interest in white girls? White girls obviously only want to date superior master race tall white guys.

There is this guy at my school, he's a junior same as me. All in all he is really popular but not in the cliche kind of way. He is funny to be around with, absolutely adores friendship and all in all tries to be nice to everyone. On top of his great personality he is pretty cute. Although he has never said anything about it, its apparent that he has had sex, his confidence and maturity show that much but he has an intense rule about not f**king any girl at school. He says its all about distraction but honestly he gets over perfect grades anyway and spends all his study time making other people laugh. But its deeper than just refraining from "friends with benefits", he wont even try to start to have a simple relationship. He admits he has crushes on girls& of course theyll like him back but says he can't do anything because of the stupidest reason-he says HE is a monster, and that HE doesnt deserve someone kind and sweet. That just doesnt add up, how can this be coming from a guy who flat out punched a jerk in the face for making his ex cry??? I have only gotten him to open up to me once and he said something i dont id ever hear any boy say-"You know sometimes a tight hug from someone you care about is a thousand times better than sex.." ????HFS! How can he think so little of himself when he is this emotionally beautiful? I honestly think that even if he wasn't as cute as he is girls would still want him as a partner, i know i would but why is he cornering himself like this?

This morning I was in the bathroom and heard my bf rummage and get something from the cutlery drawer. I was in the bathroom and he said he needed to use it. He asked me if I would run to the store to get us smokes which takes me only a couple mins. I came back he was still in the bathroom. I could hear rummaging with the knife and something else, not sure what. I asked that he let me in and you could tell he was panicking. When I was finally let in there was a towel under the door and I snatched the butter knife from his pocket that has a white residue on it. He denied anything to the tee. Which insults my intelligence. Just help me figure it out.

We used to have classes every morning we always used to look straight to each other eyes before I enter the classroom During class she will not look over to see, she pays attention in class. She and a friend sat in front of me in the lobby and they both ran fast.She at times will give me half/shy smile when we both make eye contact. She used to stare at me from distance sometimes then acts uninterested. Last semester we had no class but we did saw each other in the hallways. Thursday I came out of the rest room and turn to my left and we both at the exact time made eye contact which last for few seconds. She turn away quickly once we look at each other and turn her body back looking at her friend directly, Her friend look at me when i came close by them when I was walking away. At the time she look at me her cheeks were pinkish like blushing but it can also be make up blush so I don't know. i don't see her with other guys she only talks to them. Today I was with some friends heading to class and she saw me once we made eye contact she walk fast up the escalators but did a fast turn to see if i look and kept speed walking up the escalator she cold have been late to class but I doubt it because she was walking normal until she saw me with my friends . I'm a shy guy and were in college, thanks

Later so like once she's 20 and I'm 24 so we don't have to worry about getting in trouble with the law. I'll be a senior when she'll be a freshman. We maybe could datedate then since a couple did it last year and they didn't get **** from anyone (they actually thought it was cute) I ran into her today and she hugged me and asked if I was ok since I recently was in a car accident, and she said she misses me and loves me, cuz if we date now my rents would kill me

we talk and kinda flirt I guess but I struggle to just be myself and let go so I can crack jokes and stuff like when I'm around my friends..any suggestions on what to do to just chill out and not stress over every word I say to him?

Help! I'm becoming a Brony What do I Do!? I'm an mlp hater! I hate mlp and bronies! But my brother is slowly corrupting me! Please Help! PLEASE HALP! I NEED HELP Help me! *Switches to Brony and back rapidly*

There is a person I was talking to a lot a year ago over text. We never really talked in person but I see him everyday. Things got personal over text and we never brought them up again. Long story short, he liked me and I didn't feel the same. I feel like I need to address them just to accept what happened. We're "friends" but don't talk often. I'm not sure what he feels but I think that loose ends need to be tied. Is closure something I should approach him about or continue to feel super awkward around him and never bring it up again? Let me know, thanks.

if I were to say something jokingly but isn't really true around a group of friends the girls in the group would take it seriously and not take the joke? why?