Family: Question: I can't get anywhere in life...What must I do? |
- Question: I can't get anywhere in life...What must I do?
- Question: How can I stop being afraid of making my mom jealous?
- Question: WHAT SHOULD I DO WITH MY MOM??HELPP!!?
- Question: Is it moral to bribe your step mom?
- Question: I hate my life?
- Question: I am having a hard time getting along with my mom what can I do?
- Question: Parents: Do you love all your children equally?
- Question: Mom steals things from me?
- Question: Should I be mad at my older brother?
- Question: Why do abusive parents act nicely around other people and sometimes act/display abusive behavior towards their child/children?
- Question: Does my backup plan sound good just in case my abusive brother comes back to live with my mom and me?
- Question: Please Help! I can't stop talking to myself!?
- Question: I can't buy a car, because they will steal it. What must I do? I am getting nowhere in life.?
- Question: Should I do porn to help out my family?
- Question: My sister makes fun of me and I want her to stop it?
- Question: My mother doesnt care about me att all. Please give me an advice?
- Question: Is my dad having a temper tantrum?
- Question: How do I thank my dad?
- Question: Should I go to the hospital?
- Question: My dad is a lazy bum, why is my mother with him?
- Question: I am 21 and I live in North Carolina. I have a younger sibbling living in South Carolina. He is only 10. Can I get custody of him?
- Question: I've lost all my friends because of my mum. Help?
- Question: Help...? Family problems.....?
- Question: I hate my mom?!?!?
- Question: I got yelled at repeatedly by my step dad and then when I went over to my dads place all he did was send me back over?
- Question: How do I convince my grandma to take us back to Palm Springs?
- Question: My mom ruined my birthday again!?
- Question: My mom and dad borrowed my PS3 and gonna never give it back?
- Question: My mom acts like she doesn't want me?
- Question: How should i live?
- Question: Please help??!?
- Question: Living on your own at age 13?
- Question: My Mother Thinks This...?
- Question: Why do I keep waking up at 3:11 AM!?
- Question: Serious family problem?
- Question: I saw a shadow man when I was 6 and every 3 years he/she appears on every corner of my room, anywhere.?
- Question: Family problems .. please help me?
- Question: What to say?
- Question: Parents forcing me to eat ice cream?
- Question: Why was my lil sis being a bit** for yesterday?
- Question: We are having a family reunion soon and would like to give prizes for certain "feats'- need suggestions for the prizes.?
- Question: Is it OK what my buddies are doing with my sister?
- Question: Is it unusual to only walk around in socks in the house?
- Question: My father lied to me about something for a lot of time ? Then I finally found out about it myself?
- Question: Do you think she really has good intentions?
- Question: Being mad at someone with cancer? (Read description!)?
- Question: I REALLY HATE MY BROTHERS!!!!!?
- Question: Why does my mum hate me?
- Question: Really bad relationship with my dad?
- Question: My parents are racist and religiously strict. Help?
- Question: How to stop my sister 'singing'?
- Question: Twins in love at 15. HELP?
- Question: My dad is getting treated awful?
- Question: I caught my dad watching porn?
- Question: How do I say this in German?
- Question: I'm scared to ask my parents if I can do normal things?
- Question: What shall I say to my mum?
- Question: How to convince your parents to let you go to a festival at night before a school day?
- Question: What do child help lines do? Can they call the police on my parents?
| Question: I can't get anywhere in life...What must I do? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 01:02 PM PDT I am 22, studying part time and working full time. My mother has really very bad debt issues and the only solution to that is to win the lotto. She expects me to work for her and help her with her debt. I cant....I have my own life than to waste time paying debt that will only come down bit by bit. She isnt married, we stay in a very bad area and the rent is 30k in arrears. I want to move, but she cant afford to oay half and i cant leave her there in that dump with all those horrible ghetto people. Now she must come with me....only way i can get a car is to move or else it will get stolen....they steal our lights and locks off our postboxes...oh and our post too. I dont want to say with my mother forever...........she will never eever be able to afford her own place. So I worry when I want to get married and live on my own or something. Its very stressful, cos if we ever move out of there, she cant even pay half, its going to be a lot on me to pay rent, studies and give her something to pay her debt. Its almost as it is my fault, cos she told me she could never save cos of me. I didnt ask to be here seriously........... |
| Question: How can I stop being afraid of making my mom jealous? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 12:48 PM PDT My parents are from Jamaica and they were born in the late 50's. They come from a very old-school upbringing and I was never really encouraged to go to college when I was younger. Education wasn't motivated for me that much from either my father or mother. I don't think my parents had an easy time with their educational opportunities when they moved to America. So apart of me is scared of going back to college because I'm afraid that it's going to make my mom jealous. She worked hard to get where she is now and I don't think she wants me to do better than her when it comes to jobs. But I'm realizing now how stupid I'm being. How can I stop caring about what my mom thinks of me? It hurts to know that she doesn't see me in a motherly, and nurturing and ENCOURAGING way. |
| Question: WHAT SHOULD I DO WITH MY MOM??HELPP!!? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 12:40 PM PDT I am 12 years old now, and I DONT EVEN KNOW WHATS WRONG WITH MY MOM?!?! SHE ABUSE ME! She looks like she doesnt care with me!! SHE KICK ME, SLAP ME, PULL MY HAIR SO HARD, She calles me "****", "*****", "a dog", AND STUFF!!!!! Its pretty obvious it doesnt seems like she loves me. And my dad, he always said "that's what you get" LIKE WTH, SO YOURE JUST GONNA HAVE FUN SEEING ME ABUSED?!?!?!?!?! And it hurts my feeling. So since then, i hate my mom. since my grandma is still VERY young, i told her everything, and i also told my uncle too! My mom always talks about my grandma, grandpa, my uncles, and everyone!! Shes rude ok. Right now i dont even know why her attitude is changing. She seems so nice and polite, thats when i get suspicious. One day i found out that she's been cheating on my dad, but she doesnt know i knew. I keep that in mind. Like "this is what u get dad for trusting her soo much". IM SICK OF MY LIFE NOW!!! I USED TO CUT AND SELF HARM. My mom always tells me that me and my family r lost. Like WTH???? SHOULD I DIE??? OR SOMETHING SO YOU COULD BE HAPPY?? Is my mom crazy or just stressed?? WHAT SHOULD I DO PLEASE???? |
| Question: Is it moral to bribe your step mom? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 12:36 PM PDT I walked in on my step mom having sex with someone who wasn't my father, is it acceptable to ask her to have sex with me in exchange for my silence? Specially considering how hot she is. |
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| Question: I am having a hard time getting along with my mom what can I do? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 12:31 PM PDT Parents |
| Question: Parents: Do you love all your children equally? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 12:30 PM PDT Well, I don't believe in it anymore. I'm discriminated in my family and there is no trust, respect,happiness in this family even though i'm born in wealthy family. I'm is the elder daughter yet it seems like my parents doesn't care for me. They have no hope in me. I wish to run away from this family but they control almost every little things in my life.What should I do? |
| Question: Mom steals things from me? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 12:30 PM PDT She doesn't do it often but when she does she'll come up with these stories trying to explain herself with fake conversations we had about me giving them to her or her buying them herself. She has no concern with the fact that I spent my money on these things for myself. I'm 19 so at this point i am paying for my own gas and car insurance, I pay my phone bill, I buy my clothes and toiletries. Just about the only things she buys that we share is food for ourselves and the dogs. She has taken things that are very obviously mine. She'll claim that she got them. Her other excuse for stealing is that "well it's been sitting there for a while, I just assumed you didn't want it and was giving it to me." Like HELLO. ASK ME FIRST. It drive me nuts. I'll offer to buy her own of the same products or I'll bring home two of the same product so she can have her own (I work in at a healthy grocery store with a beauty department) Either that or she'll become bitter and be like "well I want one too you should get me one". She's accused me of stealing her things before, like jewelry, when I definitely didn't. The thing is, growing up she would buy herself the same jeans or shirt I had (in the junior department...) or the exact same shoes my sister has. She seems like she becomes envious of the fact that we're younger than her? She is definitely closer with my brothers, and one of them is my twin....I don't know, am I just overreacting? am I the a**hole of this situation? |
| Question: Should I be mad at my older brother? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 12:18 PM PDT This coming Monday my mom needs my help with getting her van to her new house and asked my older brother too but he's too busy on that day. Now, I'm not saying that I'm better than him. I'm just saying he could think of mom's needs and less of himself. And if I see him, I won't make any comments on his behavior. And if he & mom argue, I'm not getting involved. It's between him & mom. Just stay out of it. Which is a wise thing. |
| Posted: 05 Sep 2015 12:12 PM PDT I am a 17 yeas old girl. I won t go into too much detail, but my mom is very abusive. Although there are moments where she is nice, she does not consider her behavior to be abusive, even going as far to blame it on stress. She would curse me out, beat me, or vent to her friends and family about my "accusations" saying how I am a horrible daughter who doesn t appreciate her sacrifices, which I why is stopped confronting her. In public, or with other family members, she will smile and act happy, laugh, and be positive. I never and still don t understand this. |
| Posted: 05 Sep 2015 12:08 PM PDT My mother's son is in jail for about the 5th or 6th time due to drug dealing and fire arm possession. He is being held in a faculty and will go to his court hearing soon. I do not like him and hope he stays in jail for a long time because he is never going to stop. He has been in many programs to help get jobs and to think how many times to prison he would stop but no he just keeps doing it after he gets out and this time won't be any different. He just says that he can't any other job so he sticks with this. I am very angry at him for putting our family in danger and being an immature jerk to us. He has abused me and thought he could control and "disclipine" me, he would give me bruises teachers would question. My mom is no help either, never protected me or punished him. She is never tough with him and feels guilty and feels being nice with him and enabling him will ease her guilt, which she is actually the completely wrong thing and making him worse. I am very scared that if he ever gets out my mom will accept him into our home and i am scared because i do not want to be near him, i am very traumatized of the experience of living with him and i would rather kill myself then live with him again. living everyday in fear is not living. My plan is to ask one of my relatives if i can live with them and i will continue my education from there and hopefully get a job and my own place so i will be far away from them. Does this sound like a good back up plan? he is 30 years old and he can't get another place sadly because he has no income |
| Question: Please Help! I can't stop talking to myself!? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 12:05 PM PDT Am I crazy?! My parents will come into my room thinking I have a friend over. I can't stop talking to myself. It'll be about anything on my mind. Sometimes I can't fall asleep due to me talking to myself. Like, sometimes I don't even realize I'm doing it. Is there something wrong with me? I mean, I am kind of a loner. I don't have many friends and I'm usually alone in my bedroom all the time. Could that be the reason for talking to myself? |
| Posted: 05 Sep 2015 12:03 PM PDT I stay in a very bad area filled with poverty, gangster and people who steal just about everytthing. Dont get me wwrong...I have alays wanted to move out. My mom couldnt afford to and I need to build up my credit score before I can apply for a home loan. The people steals our outside lightsm our locks off our postbox, pegs, clothes from the washing lines, your food (if you leave your door open) and I am sick of having to rely on public transport and other people for lifts. I cant go out at night on my own cos I dont have a car. These people will def break into my car and steal it, as there is no parking or security. I stay in a ghetto dump, dirty flats area and I want out, because I was never accepted and the energy is very negative. They also shoot through people's windows and all that. I dont earn a fixed salary, if i did, i would have rented so long....but i dont know how much i will earn the following month. I get paid for work complete. Advice please :( PS I am studying part time and working full time. I am 22 :) |
| Question: Should I do porn to help out my family? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 11:25 AM PDT My family has always been strapped for money, and my single mom has had a back injury that makes her unable to work. She suffers from fibromyalgia and chronic pain, and it has lately been getting worse. She seeks medical help when she can, but since she is undocumented, she does not qualify for Obamacare, and she does not have the money nor means to pay for more effective treatments. I am 19, almost 20, about to enter my third year of college. I live away from home to be close to campus. I came back home for a couple weeks and was dismayed to see how her situation has worsened. She is having trouble raising my three younger siblings and depends on help from our extended family for daily tasks. I want to help her out, I really do, but I can't physically be there on the daily as I have to also concentrate my efforts on my education. I want to help her save money for treatment and I want to do this by performing in gay porn. It pays a relatively good sum for how long it takes, I can do it during weekends, I'm a good age and have a good physique to do it, and with my Latino heritage I may be able to enter some niche markets. I understand the stigma that comes with sex work but I want to do anything I can to help my mother out. Unfortunately, I know she would not approve of me entering the business. She is homophobic due to her upbringing and told me she would lose support for me when I tried coming out as gay to her. I want to help her out, but is it worth this risk? Thoughts? I do also work a part-time job as a barista but most of that money goes towards living expenses, and the wages I make for that wouldn't even make a dent in medical bills. I was contemplating porn specifically because performers (especially gay males) make good money for the time they put into it, and I feel like that'd be more useful towards covering medical costs. Thank you all for your help. |
| Question: My sister makes fun of me and I want her to stop it? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 11:25 AM PDT She says stupid stuff to me, she always comes into my room and doesn't close the door and I close it, and she goes, "Stop closing your door, stupid!" And she also says, "Lay off the chips, fatty!" And stuff like that. She also tells her friends how much of a "loser" i am, which makes me a huge red target for bullies at school I couldn't stand it anymore and I just screamed at her, "Why do you think you have the right to make fun of me! Stop judging me for everything I do, you jerk!" And she just burst out laughing and walked away. I'm officially sick of her behavior and I want her to STOP! Her evil face just makes me want to stab her. Help meeeee! |
| Question: My mother doesnt care about me att all. Please give me an advice? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 11:17 AM PDT Hi..I'm a 16 years old teenager. My problem is about my family.Like all teenagers i have some problems with my friends and my school etc. My mother is 40 years older than me and I have never seen my mom as my friend because we were born in VERY different generations. The problem is that shes not interested in&care about my problem. When i start to share my problems with her she is like leave me alone i want to drink my tea etc.When i say her that i dont have lot of friends she says it not my fault with anger. We always end up with arguement. My father rarely visits home because of his business so i cant find a time to share my problems with him. My sister has her own problems already and she is such a furious person so that i dont want to talk to her. I really feel lonely but i got tired of this. Im jealous with some of my friends' relationships with their mothers. Please give me an advice... |
| Question: Is my dad having a temper tantrum? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 11:12 AM PDT Like seriously I feel like I'd be well beyond prepared for when my kids have their tantrums, cause of him. See this is what he does. When he gets mad he stomps off in a fit of rage. Like if I had a bag of groceries in the back, and I' d get out only to walk around the car to get the bags. He'd lock the car doors and stomp off without even offering me help. And then he go to the house and slam the door close. THEN wen I get into the house he'd start ranting how I give him attitude(Even if I'm 17, I didn't give him attitude.) and then he'd yell at me, while throwing things around. Then he'd yell at the dogs. And if I said something he'd get up in my face and push me, sometimes he'd punch me in the arm. Honestly I can't wait to move out of the house in about a few mouths to get away from his BS. h I made a couple of grammar errors, 'cause he had one recently and I am just really so done with him. |
| Question: How do I thank my dad? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 10:49 AM PDT I'm 17 and I recently got my license. I was talking to my dad about a week ago and I was telling him that I was going to need a car. Je called me a little while later and told me he was giving me his old truck. I never expected anything like this. I don't just want to say "Ok thanks dude!" I want to show him that I truly appreciate it. How can I thank him for this? It's pretty rusty. I do plan to try and fix that. Pearl L, that was one of my ideas. |
| Question: Should I go to the hospital? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 10:40 AM PDT So I was in a store with my mom to buy some clothes and she started nagging and complaining about every little thing and she was really stressing me out. (She does this alot). So 10 minutes passed and she was still complaining. I forgot what she was saying because I was really trying not to listen but I some parts of what she was nagging about got my attention and I was stressing out. So finally I snapped and said "Can you please stop I ll find the clothes I need you don t need to nag like this." (I was at my breaking point. She was trying to help, which I appreciate but she kept stressing me with her pointless complaining. Also I have bad anxiety). So after I said that she complained EVEN more. I stopped trying on the clothes I picked and I almost passed out. I got really light headed, I was seeing all black with spots, I got really nauseous and I got really cold and started sweating. (Yes, all of this happened. You have no idea how much my mom was nagging and complaining over NOTHING). I had to sit down because I almost threw up. I am not over reacting. How would you feel if your mom was constantly stressing you out over every little thing?? So I sat down and felt a bit better.We left and went home. Now, every time I get up, I feel like throwing up and passing out... what s going on?? By the way I m a 14 year old girl. |
| Question: My dad is a lazy bum, why is my mother with him? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 10:36 AM PDT My dad doesn't have a job and is lazy. He doesn't do housework. He sleeps all day and bosses around my younger siblings. I moved back home after living on my own to help my mom out some. She works as a special Ed teacher in a suburban school district. She doesn't get paid much but she has a tough job and when she gets home she's tired. My youngest is 12 and I'm 24. The middle ones are 15 and 17. I'm resentful towards my father because I have to spend my young adulthood doing what he should have done. I work and care for the two younger ones making sure they have nice clothes. The older one before me works a store job and everyone is doing things around the house but him. He's a bossy old man. I don't understand why my mother Is with him. He should be on disability but doesn't know how to do the paperwork. How do I convince my mother to leave my father? |
| Posted: 05 Sep 2015 10:23 AM PDT He has called the cops once before on his moms family.. He gets called very mean names and treated like he is nothing. He gets left at home ALONE while everyone goes out to eat and he has no food. I am tired of seeing my brother hurt and upset because of how they are treating him. He has told me and family members up here in north carolina that he wants to move up here with me. |
| Question: I've lost all my friends because of my mum. Help? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 10:19 AM PDT I'm 15, female. I do have friends or at least I think they might still like me. My mum is always causing problems with my friends. I have a breakdown last week and she actually showed sympathy towards me and today it was back to the name calling, shouting and I can't handle it anymore. I can't meet my friends because they are all older, have jobs and have money where as me I have no job, no money and still go to school. My mum never gives me money and now people stop asking me if I want to go places because they know that I have nothing or when I do have money they are already busy. My mum keeps comparing me to all these people who have nothing and living in poverty where we used to live but I live in an affluent area now where everyone has money and if you don't you are scum to them. Please help me? I can't escape this hell. I have low self esteem and I hate myself |
| Question: Help...? Family problems.....? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 10:18 AM PDT I have been having a hard time with my family. I currently live with my mum and my step dad. Once U pon a time, 8 years ago, I lived with my real dad. He wasn't really there for me to interact, but he was there. When I was 5 he broke up with my mum and ever since I have been seeing him once every month until now. He remarried to a nice Filipino woman and has had two other kids. He is currently living up there with his wife. Every time I think about him and text/call him I always want to cry, because I remember all the times that we would spend together and I remember that he was there, but now I will never see him again and it tears me apart. How can I make the pain go away...? |
| Posted: 05 Sep 2015 10:16 AM PDT My mom when I was younger. She use to make me get naked or pull my pants down and then she would hit me with the belt as punishment. Sometimes i had bruises on my butt or legs. When she would help me with my homework she would call me stupid or would hit me if I got the answers wrong. Shes done more stuff but I'll rather not list. Now as a teen I can't stand her. When she yells me, I yell back but worser. Sometimes she looks like she wants to cry but I fell no remorse for her. The sad thing is when shes helping my sister. She calls her stupid and says these things to her. I cant help but say something to her. I honestly dont have friends that come over my house or that I go out with because I dont want them to meet my mom because i have this very strong dislike for her. Im honestly hoping when i start working and i raise enough for me to be able to live by myself and support myself. So i dont have to live with her. |
| Posted: 05 Sep 2015 10:04 AM PDT there like WAHT THE FOCK!!! |
| Question: How do I convince my grandma to take us back to Palm Springs? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 10:04 AM PDT I miss going to Palm Springs. My grandma has 10 kids so every week two of them comes down with their family like one time my cousins mom and dad and sister will come down with my mom dad and sister. We haven't been there since 2010 and I miss those 10 hour road trips on high 5. Now we do 3 hour road trips to our vacation home in the Sierra. My grandma even said she misses going there too. How should I convince my grandma to take us there for next Spring Break? |
| Question: My mom ruined my birthday again!? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 09:59 AM PDT I been making plans all week for this day, I wanted to buy myself new stuff , and All but my mom always has to ruin it. My mom had to take these pictures to a school yesterday that are mine, I had school that but I couldn't go but they were important and she said she would take them but on the same day an hour before she was barley asking for directions I thought she had everything planned out but she didn't and she blamed me for not knowing anything so I told her that I could take them, she even wanted me to skip school, but I couldn't. I told her to forget about them that it wasn't worth it so, today it's my birthday I had so many plans and she tells me to go take the pictures and I told her I couldn't that I thought we were going to forget about and she started yelling at me and told me I wasn't going out at all and if I did, she's going to take all my money away. She did this last year were she made me cry and this year again. It's my day And she ruined it. She always finds a way to make me cry and she totally found it! |
| Question: My mom and dad borrowed my PS3 and gonna never give it back? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 09:54 AM PDT WHAT THE **** IS GOING ON basically I was playing PS3 then I went to have a shower my dad checked to see if If the temperature was right then the hanger looked a bit wobbly where I put the towel he got very angry,then,then he took my PS3 it's in the loft and there is a game inside. Few days f***ckin later its f**ckin parents evening or meeting time to get f**ckin exited I was doing bad only in dance,drama,French,Spanish and pe am I the f****ckin c**nt who wants to Learn these subjects I don't want to be a stupid dancer my highest grade was for music yeah I wanna be a drummer in a band. Then my phone got took away and my tablet but I didn't care because of boredom pc saved my life got my phone and tablet back now my cousin PS3 died good news he got another one he is enjoying Gta 5 new updates and all so I sweared to my parents I will do well but no chance now my mum is in charge when it was my f**ckin dad i told them I will give both my phone and tablet for them but no if I got it I would have been playing heist in Gta 5 with my cousin. |
| Question: My mom acts like she doesn't want me? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 09:52 AM PDT Ever since my mom got divorced from my dad and got a new "boyfriend" (she's 43) I have to go to my aunts house every other weekend just so she can have some "alone time". She is 43!! She is way to old for this. I miss the old her, when we would just stay home and watch movies, and I would NEVER have to go anywhere! Tonight I have to go to my mamaws house until 10:00 tonight while she goes to a party. There is no such thing is love. She does not need to be with him every day. She says I don't have to stay all night but I'm scared that she will text me and make me. Not just this, when we go places, she holds his hand like a 13 year old in middle school. It makes me so mad I want to be dead. Sometimes I actually think someone has cloned themselves to look like her and that my real mom, my old mom, is locked up somewhere. When she says "love you" to him and holds his hand and talks about all the stupid crap that she has to have a life and that she loves him I want to kill myself and I want to kill people. I cannot take this anymore. I want my OLD LIFE BACK!!!!!! She never puts me and my little brother as her profile picture on Facebook. It's always him and her. She would literally rather be with him than me and my brother. I want to be dead. I want to kill someone. She acts like she is embarrassed to have kids. She thinks she is young. I can NOT DO THIS ANYMORE. |
| Posted: 05 Sep 2015 09:45 AM PDT well, i'm 18 years old , after tomorrow is my first day of college,the problem is that my parents are so tocxic, bad, controlling, abusive, narrow minded, specially my mom, she's always controlling me and she critisizes me all the time , for me, i'm a good girl and thats true i do everything for her, i clean the house, i help her in cooking, i serve at the table, i go out to the store to bring everyhting she want, i go there every 2 minutes , when i bring something shes aways saying change it i dont want this one anymore i change my mind even for a piece of gum,and i swear she never went to the store,im good to her,last year i got in a deep depression and i tried to not be depressed and get out of depression by myself , i never had best friends or a secret journal , last time i had one she rode it all, and came to me and said u shouldn't have a secret journal , in family we all have to share secrets also shes not working now, shes at home , shes a teacher , and 5 years ago we were abroad because of my dad's work, so she took a long vacation and she give up teaching cause shes tired of students noise, my parents are ALWAYS fighting everyday,everysecond for big and petty things, my dad thinks in the north and mom in the south, they have totally different mentalities and personnalities, however i cant tell the details here, my life is a disaster , monday is my first day of college i dont even have clothes and or shampoo to clean myself, i wanna start a new life, what shouldido she is so TOXIC i dont have anyone to help me , |
| Posted: 05 Sep 2015 09:43 AM PDT So I have a 10 yr old sister. She cant sleep alone. Everytime my parents tell her to go to sleep alone she gets anxiety and starts crying. She just cant sleep alone in her room. My parents have a matress for her in their room and shes totally fine with it. My parents are really getting tired and fed up with this. She ALWAYS sleeps with my parents.. As id its normal or something. She has her own room and stuff but she just dosent like to sleep alone. One time she tried sleeping alone in her room. The next morning she said that she was up until 6:00 AM and couldnt sleep. We dont know what to do?! Any solutions?! |
| Question: Living on your own at age 13? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 09:37 AM PDT I'm only 13, but I just can't stand living with my family. I really want my own house, where I don't have to go downstairs to get food and stuff. I also am very organized, while the rest of my family is completely the opposite. When my mom finally decides to clean, she gets in a horrible mood. I love cleaning, it puts me in a good mood. My room always is cleaner than the rest of the house. I try to organize the rest of the house, but then everyone gets mad at me. I can cook, I can clean, I am very independent. What do you think I should do? I have already read that you have to be 18 to legally own a house and land. |
| Question: My Mother Thinks This...? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 08:36 AM PDT My mom thinks the people I chat with are pervs and pedos... I know for SURE they aren't. I seen all they're faces, and when we do video chats I ask them to do something (like pull their hair) and they do it. They are real. And NO ONE believes me!! They are sick and tried for getting these complaints and I know for a fact they are real... I'm sick and tried of them not believing me! THEY DONT KNOW THEM!!! I need help D: |
| Question: Why do I keep waking up at 3:11 AM!? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 08:24 AM PDT Last night I woke up at 3:11 and I'm at my dads house. Here's the problem: I felt scared for some reason and my tv was on. I leave it on every night. But! I'm at my dads and he has dish so it goes off at 3am for updates or something and yet it was on. I went to the guide and checked the time then I laid the remote gently down beside me, buttons facing up. About ten seconds later I was still awake and the channel turned and it had bad quality and I checked what it was on and it was some sports channel and I did not hit any button I would have know since I was still awake and my arms were close to my body. Then I tried to go back to sleep and about 5 minutes later I opened my eyes and the remote was near my head flipped over buttons facing down. I was so scare but I went to sleep. A few minutes ago I realized my bean bag chair was moved too. I already confronted my dad and he said he was asleep and I would of seen him obviously. Brittany (my step mom) didn't do it because she was in bed with my little step brother who is two and doesn't get out of it alone. He can't even speak that much yet let alone wonder into my room invisibly. The day before last night I woke up at that time too but I was at my moms |
| Question: Serious family problem? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 08:16 AM PDT Long story short. One night i caught my gf cheating on me. I was stupid close to her family/little bro. That same week we broke up i was supposed to buy the little brother some limited edition nike shoes for his upcoming birthday. Instead of proceeding with my promise i went ghost ignored all of them for sometime. We will still keep in touch via instagram but today a year later i still feel bad over what i did with the little brother. He was so excited to get his shoes that he'd talk about it online with his friends. What to do now???? keep in mind it's been a year but we still talk here and there. The kid legit cares about me/good kid. 1. Should i randomly pop up to his house with the shoes now or 2. Wait till xmas and throw in a shirt with the shoes that way it won't look bad or 3. forget about it move on |
| Posted: 05 Sep 2015 08:08 AM PDT When I was 6 years old, my mama told me that get my shoe on our room, our room is next to our another door, it was afternoon, its seems so normal, then after i get my shoe, i see a man looking at me. Its not totally hes looking at me, he is totally black, man-shaped black. I dont know who is him but i ran as i can. I didnt tell it to my mama because i know she wont believe me. After 3 years, 9 years old. Its a normal day again but theres black person on everywhere running fast, teleporting i dont know, hard to explain. I told it to my parents, they believe me. Then next is im 12, i dont see anything but on September 5, 2015. (Now) Im reading on wattpad 'Wonderland Magical Academy' on my room, the door was open (night) my mama look at me at the door then ask me what im doing, i said im reading magics, then shes gone. Then suddenly, on the corner of my eye, theres moving, i look at the door, then i saw my mothers hair then its gone, i go out on my room then ask my mama if she look at me but she said she didnt. I cried. I thought it was the end. But the shadow man is back. Im really scared. |
| Question: Family problems .. please help me? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 07:44 AM PDT See so I've been thinking of running away because of problems i have with my parents mostly my mom .. she would just scream and swear at me each day .. pull my hair .. kick me .. punch me in the face .. and I've gotten so tired of it .. i started scracting myself until i bleed .. and i get this feeling .. where i just want to hurt everyone or just break everything .. and i cant talk to anyone about it because i don't feel comfortable talking about that .. so i want to run away .. only problem is .. I'm 15 and if i run away id have no where to stay .. and if i get caught id be in HUGE trouble .. please help me |
| Posted: 05 Sep 2015 07:37 AM PDT My mom wants me to take my little brother and sister to the water park and go on the slides and stuff with them like **** no. I'm fat and god knows whos gonna be there. It's Labor Day weekend..... What do I tell her so she'll stop bugging me about it. The lines are long and the kids just don't listen. The slides are dull and it's hot and sweaty out there. What do I tell her? |
| Question: Parents forcing me to eat ice cream? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 07:25 AM PDT So yeah my parents were buying ice cream at the mcdonalds counter and i said I didn't want it even before it reached our turn to order when it was our turn my dad ordered one for me i was frustrated and gave mine to my mom and they're all angry now because I didn't want ice cream that they ordered which I specifically said I didn't want now who's right and who's wrong??? |
| Question: Why was my lil sis being a bit** for yesterday? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 07:19 AM PDT i was just going to say bye to her and i was calling her name like 2 or 3 times and she was in the bathroom blowing her nose acting like she couldnt hear me. and i was calling her name just bc i was going to leave the house. how rude ppl nowadays |
| Posted: 05 Sep 2015 07:17 AM PDT I'd like to get some suggestions for inexpensive (around $5 and under) gag gifts that would relate to each prize, such as a bottle of Excedrin headache capsules for the Couple with the most children. These are the categories we have so far: Who Traveled the Least Who Traveled the Furthest The Oldest The Youngest The Most Recently Married Who's Been Married the Longest The Most Children- bottle of Excedrin headache The Most Grandchildren- Please only answer if you actually have suggestions for specific prizes. I know how to search the internet for information and wouldn't have posted a question here if I could easily find what I needed using a search engine. Thanks! |
| Question: Is it OK what my buddies are doing with my sister? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 07:17 AM PDT I am a high school senior guy with a 14 year old sister Lisa that I really like. My high school buddies like to hang out at my house and they also like Lisa a lot. Lisa has a lot of homework and she often ask my buddies to help her with her homework. They are happy to help as they enjoy helping her. Since they have started helping her, her grades are much better. Lisa is a very affectionate person so after her homework is finished she thanks the guys for their help, hugs them and gives them a kiss. THEY LOVE IT. It is not a romantic thing with her. It is just her way of saying thank you. My buddies just like being kissed by a beautiful girl. They act like they are just helping their little sister. I am afraid my buddies will get the wrong idea of Lisa's intentions. Do you think they will? Should I tell her to stop the kissing? |
| Question: Is it unusual to only walk around in socks in the house? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 07:14 AM PDT My cousin won't go barefoot anywhere because he says he doesn't like the feel of the ground so he always walks around in his shoes or sock feet never barefeet. |
| Posted: 05 Sep 2015 07:11 AM PDT My dad smokes cigarettes and I have tried to stop him . He told me only smokes when he comes home , but today when I went with him to go out , I found a cigarette packet . When I asked him he said he smoked three in office . While for like six months he has been lying to me saying he only smokes at home . I thoght even if I couldn t trust anyone I could atleast trust my parents . Now my mom knew about this and she said dad will stop but that doesn t change anything . When I lie they get mad at me and hit me and punishe and ground me . But when they lie , have I no right to be upset . |
| Question: Do you think she really has good intentions? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 07:05 AM PDT We just invited over my parents in law and my sister in law with her family over for my daughters birthday. All my mother in law do was critize about the party. Where did we buy the food but did not want any to bring any home. Who has to clean up the party after we just setup. Said directly to my one year old daughter "I haven't seen you once smile today on your birthday. After two weeks from the party, she emails us if they plus my sister in law and family can visit and stay over because they "want to spend time" with our daughter during Labor Day weekend which is also our wedding anniversary. Who wants to spend their anniversary with their mother in law? Anyway, we agreed and she says we can celebrate her birthday as well as my husband's birthday during this weekend. then she mentions one day before their available that they like the food at the party and if we can order some. We have a baby to take care of, we don't have time to pickup their requests. Do you think she really wanted to see our daughter or just ruin our anniversary? |
| Question: Being mad at someone with cancer? (Read description!)? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 07:00 AM PDT I'm a teenager, and teenagers get mad at their parents, say they hate them, silently wish they were dead, ext. But what if your parent has cancer? I get mad at my mom a lot, even when it's over something stupid. I never tell her that I hate her. but in those heated moments, I want to. After I cool down, I hate myself for ever thinking of it. Am I a terrible person? |
| Question: I REALLY HATE MY BROTHERS!!!!!? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 06:44 AM PDT Hello, I'm a 14 yr old girl, and I hate my brothers. Early n the morning they always come n my room!! Without at least knocking!!! And I tell them every morning 2 get out!!! But I'm so pissed right now that I might jus start saying,"get the **** out u creepy little ******!!" I time I was jus laying down n bed and I heard a noise, I got a little scared st 1st, until I found out it was my brothers who crept n!! And another time I went 2 the bathroom n the morning coming from my room, when I went bck 2 my room my brothers were there goin through it!! And they don't jus do this n the morning!! They bother me every 5 min. Of the day!!! When I'm on my phone n my room smtimes they would jus run n there, look at my phone and wat I'm doin on it, and then run out. Now this REALLY gets me mad, like wat I'm doin is my business. When I tell my parents, and try 2 explain that they bother me, they either don't care, or say u should b able 2 share the room, and be nice 2 ur brothers. So idk wat 2 do. Any advice? Btw my brothers r 8 and 9. |
| Question: Why does my mum hate me? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 06:43 AM PDT She married to another man and they have a daughter and we all live together I don t know my dad because he abandoned me when I was still a baby, I feel like I was a mistake, every time she does stuff, it always my step dad and my step sis, leaving me alone, she s always mad at me for no reason, if I want to go out or do anything I want to do, she thinks it s not good even if it just going out to play football with some friends, or simply taking a walk, if I do something wrong she shouts and doesn t give a chance to explain or say sorry, she always threatens to kick me out the house because she doesn t want me anymore as she has her own daughter, if I have an important day that I ve planned for some time and she knows about, she will make sure that I don t go through with it, why tho? I do everything that she tells me to do, whether it be chores or make her a cup of tea or even grab the remote for her while it s sat next to her, I feel so unappreciated and unloved because she has never given me a hug or even decent advice without a threat in the end, every time I think about why she gave birth to me, why she treats me like I m nothing to her, she tells me she doesn t even love me, I can t go anywhere because everyone I live around with is judgemental , I can t talk to anybody because I will always be the one in the wrong What can I do, should keep on taking all this abuse for another two year till I start uni or should I just go and become homeless? I really don t know |
| Question: Really bad relationship with my dad? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 06:31 AM PDT My father left home for work twenty years ago.We barely talked since I was a child.I suffered a lot in the absence of him,the lack of love and security,being bullied by classmates and teachers really made me sad and helpless.But I have been used of that with time goes by without him.All the things I got from him these years are simply money and yelling.I want to change this situation.What should I do? |
| Question: My parents are racist and religiously strict. Help? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 06:21 AM PDT So I'm 18. I'm dating my boyfriend of almost two months who is Brazilian. My parents are the old fashioned "we want you to marry a good Christian boy who wants to be a pastor etc..." But I'm not so religious and that's not what I want. My boyfriend is catholic yet not extremely religious but he's a great guy and treats me well. How do I break it to my parents that I'm dating him? |
| Question: How to stop my sister 'singing'? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 06:05 AM PDT My older sister thinks she can sing, so she makes literally the worst ******* noise I've ever heard. It's been going on for years now, and it seriously makes me cringe, what do I do to shut her up? My parents have tried to tell her that her droning is distracting too, to no avail. |
| Question: Twins in love at 15. HELP? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 05:55 AM PDT Ok so this is a very complicated matter. Recently I've been fostering twins, Ana and Ben (not real names) who until recently were living with their mother. I only know the basics of their past. When they were 5, their 7 year old sister went missing. Her body was never found but her blood was found along with a strand of their fathers dna. He was arrested for her murder and their mother naturally had a breakdown. The twins continued living with a depressed mother, who over time paid less and less attention to the twins. They only really had eachothers love and a few weeks ago they ran away from home. That's when social services finally got involved and they ended up here. I believe that their mother was undergoing mental treatment for many years but it was decided she wouldn't cope loosing anymore kids so they stayed with her. Anyway since being here I have noticed the odd relationship between the twins.I've caught them kissing and holding hands but I do not believe they are sleeping together. I've spoken to them and they claim to be IN LOVE. I've explained how inappropriate it is but I don't know what to do. They've only had eachother so its natural to be close, but this is too close. I'm considering having them go to counselling but I fear them being judged. I care about them and I don't want their lives being any harder than it is. What do I do? |
| Question: My dad is getting treated awful? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 05:52 AM PDT they treat my dad very bad even his brother trash talks to him and even ******* cousins talk to him like he is trash iv many times said to them- if u dont stop talking to my dad like that i will tear out your tongues. my dad always been good to them i dont get it why they are doing this? im going to kill anyone for my dad and i swear if this will not stop i will beat living **** out of them. how i can stop this?without using force |
| Question: I caught my dad watching porn? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 05:51 AM PDT I'm a thirteen year old boy. It was nine in the morning. My dad probably thought I was asleep like other lazy *** teenagers. But little did he know I was awake, looking at the crap I missed the night before on Twitter. And then suddenly I heard moaning from next door? I was like "What the ****?" Then I walked into my dad's room and saw him watching a hardfuckingintheassbang.com video. I was too shocked to call my mom. I quickly walked out before my dad saw me. Should I tell my mom? Should I talk to my dad? Should I ask someone? |
| Question: How do I say this in German? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 05:26 AM PDT "While I can be sociable at times, I am also very shy. I think that this is not bad but it is not good either. Sometimes people say i am cheeky too." "My sister is called Lydia. She is very funny, I think this is great! We can have lots of fun because of this. Every now and then she can be moody, I find this bad because it makes her annoying. Lydia is older than me and is very clever, she can teach me things I need to know which makes her helpful too. I love my sister because she is very likeable." "My mum is nice, although every mother has some days where they are moody. She is very friendly especially when my friends come to my house, this is good because they feel welcome. Sometimes she is annoying because she tells everyone what to do but most of the time she's funny and likeable." |
| Question: I'm scared to ask my parents if I can do normal things? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 05:24 AM PDT I'm 14 years old and in England. I've had this 'problem' for a few years now and it sounds really stupid from some people perspectives but I'm scared to ask my parents really normal things like 'can I go to my friends house' 'can you teach me how to straighten my hair' just normal things. I need advice from parents or people who have/are in the same situation as me. I find good moments to ask my parents but when I do nothing comes out like my brain's not letting me say anything out loud. It comes to the point where I just want to scream and pull my hair out. A lot of the time I'm sure my parents would allow me to do things but it's like there is a mental block that prevents me from asking which can result in me lying about things which I hate. But it's just the thought of going back to school on a Monday and hearing your friends talk about all the things u couldn't do on the weekend! I WANT to be able to take the bus or walk to the village and I know my parents think that they are doing the best thing for me and I appreciate that but I feel trapped. I don't know whether it's stress or anxiety but it can make me cry. I feel bad for my friends to because if they ask me to hang out I just say no straight away because I'm too scared to ask my parents. It came to the point where I had run out of pads but was too scared to ask my mum if she could buy me more! I try talking to my friends about it and they try to help but they just don't understand. My bros don't have this problem |
| Question: What shall I say to my mum? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 05:03 AM PDT Hi recently my dad left my mum like a few months ago nearly a year ago and my mum was fine because she knew it would happen so yh. When he left he left his car and laptop my sister has the laptop and mum has the cat and in his laptop bag he had his credit and debit cards and I asked my mum if I could use it she said there s probably not anything in it and that I don t give a crap tbh she was stressed so yh I ordered something it was a dell u2715h monitor which costs £399 so yh but when it comes what shall I tell my mum or how could I edit a Web page so it says 27 inch monitor instead of 22 on ebay so I can fool her I know sounds mean but yh and the 22 inch one is only £75 so please help me!!? |
| Question: How to convince your parents to let you go to a festival at night before a school day? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 04:36 AM PDT Basically my friend's dad's company is sponsoring a festival on a Sunday, and she's bringing me so I'm really looking forward to meeting all the DJ's and stuff. But my parents don't think I should stay up late on Sunday, and they say that they aren't going to let me go. How do I convince them to?? |
| Question: What do child help lines do? Can they call the police on my parents? Posted: 05 Sep 2015 04:09 AM PDT my mom is sometimes physically and a lot of times emotionally abusive towards us. She is absolutely crazy and I can't stand her anymore. She beat up my little brother just for dropping a wrapper on the floor. She fat-shames me (even though I'm not even overweight). I am typing this is at 7am because at 6:30 am, I wake up to the sound of stuff being thrown. I get up, and all of the stuff that were in my drawer are now on the floor. Apparently, she needed something from my drawer and so this is how she handles finding it. Just a couple days ago she emptied my entire closet just because a few shirts were out of place. She's an outrageous liar. So many times I hear her saying stuff about me that aren't even true, especially to my dad, and then when I tell her that never happened she yells at me to stop arguing. Same thing with my brothers. They're always like "no that's not true" and then she yells at them. I don't think all 4 of us are the liars. I think it's her. If she tries to hit us while my dad's home he stops her and keeps her off of us, but when he's not home there's really no protecting us from her. If I put her behind bars I'm pretty sure my dad (along with my mom) would never talk to me again, along with my extended family. I'm just waiting for the day she turns a knife on me or something so I can have an excuse to call the police without losing anyone. So, what do help lines do exactly? I'd appreciate any help that doesn't require jail. thanks in advance :) |
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