Working on planning a bachelorette party for my younger sister who is getting married . She loves to go out dancing, what are some great places to go?

I've grown up with a group of three other girls and we've all been best friends since we were eight. (We're 23 now). We've stayed friends even though we all went to separate colleges. Well one my friends is getting married and she asked one of the other girls to be her bridesmaid. She also asked her sister and her fiance's sisters, but me and one other girl was left out. She asked a girl she has known for two years from college to be her maid of honor with the excuse "she likes to plan things". I'm happy for my friend and I don't want to make the wedding about her consoling my hurt feelings, but I'm still pretty hurt about it. She didn't even tell me privately, she told me in the middle of a large group and acted like I shouldn't be upset about it at all. She's one of my best friends in the world, but she's been pretty callous to me and my other friend who didn't get asked to be a bridesmaid about it. I don't want this to ruin our friendships, but I'm really trying to find a way not to let this affect our friendship and I'm finding it very difficult. Any advice? Also me and my other friend who is also not that bridesmaid were not asked to be involved in the wedding at all aside from attendance.

To be honest I couldn't care less about a diamond. If anything, I'd love an opal on it. They're so beautiful. Plus diamonds are so unreasonably expensive. Why not buy a PC instead of diamonds?

So I am engaged, my fiancé has proposed to me and we had been talking about wedding bands and engagement rings. Now that I am new to this whole thing, I know men don't normally wear engagement rings but he said he wouldn't mind wearing one. So I know everyone has their opinions but I actually like that he would like to wear one. But, what finger would he wear it on? I have been told that when a man is engaged, they wear the ring on the right hand ring finger and when they get married that they switch it to the left hand ring finger. I know women are suppose to wear theirs on the left which I am doing. I wasn't sure which hand he should wear it on as I don't want people to get the wrong message and think he is silly for wearing it on one hand or the other. No judgement please, would just like an answer to my several questions. Should I do the engagement band for him? Which hand should he wear it on? Thank you for your time and comments !

Well my moms getting married in 18 days! And I'm the maid of honor and still have not wrote a toast.... Uhh I have no clue where to start. Can someone help me??? Please!!! Here's some info- My mom and I r really close She's liek my best friend and vise versa I think the groom is really nice (he lives with us) They are both outgoing people I want it to be kind of funny Btw my moms 43 Thank you for the help!!!!

Will i be letting people down if I don't want a diamond ring. I am not a fan of big weddings but my mum in law wants to pay for one, and I think that is actually a nice thing of her, I see some fun value in a fancy party celebrating how much I love my bf. I don't feel the same way about wearing loads of money on your finger that a scam artist in the 50s told us we should wear. I think diamonds are a scam. Can I insist that my bf proposes to me with my wedding band? My bf is from a wealthy family. He can easily buy me a really expensive engagement ring. I come from a wealthy family and was raised by a really cool man who came from wealth but enjoyed his life and worked for a living all of his life. We never got stuff coz we had to (society says so), or we can afford it, we could afford most things in life... We only got stuff coz we wanted it or needed it. I have had some personal circumstances that have made me see loads of poverty and suffering. When i was 23, if I got engaged I would probably opt for some engagement ring with a diamond around 1000 pounds, which is a pretty expensive piece of useless rock but still no where near people I grew up around spend on engagement rings. Things I have seen in live have put me completely off stuff I feel uncomfortable with. I think life is too short to spend it pleasing some a r s e who figured out how to make billions on useless chunk of rock that has no intrinsic value and that African miners are getting shot for if they go on strike for poor benefits and low wages. I am not trying to be political, I simply would not feel right wearing 4000 pounds on my finger that are by no stretch fair to anyone in fair trade or wages sense... My concern is really just not to upset my bf family unnecessarily... But I feel like a cheaper diamond would be the same as no diamond to anyone who cares about this sort of thing, so I might as well please my own heart. (If I would compromise with society and get a thousand pounds one) Will I embarrass anyone or look Gwenyth Paltrow pretentious if I do this? Sorry about the spelling. I am dyslexic and YA questions have limited number of characters. Forgot to check spelling from all the copy/pasting I had to do. Thank you for you input.

Though *most women do see a 40+ sexually and emotionally inexperienced man as a repellent, but would a certain minority ever consider him? Supposedly, if a guy in his adolescence decides to concentrate on his studies and subsequently his career till reaching early 40's, and then decides to enter the dating game, would the "women" of that age group view him favourably or be turned off by his lack of experience. Some even suggested that a man like that would probably get used by those women financially, and he should just stick with being single even after, do you think that's a better plan?

I've seen people chewed out on here over this. If people know the couple is already legally married (eloped, went to the court house,etc) yet they want to have a mock wedding to celebrate with family and friends whats the problem? Why do people get so angry over it? And if the couple doesn't ask for money or gifts does that make any difference? How is it any different than a vow renewal? I don't mean just celebrating they're married. I'm saying if they want to have a wedding, walking down the isle, the reception, the whole thing. Why is that a problem? Okay, I know vow renewals are very different from weddings as far as what happens at them. My point is (most) vow renewals are similar to weddings, and no one bats an eye over them.

My friend is getting married in July and the ceremony is on the beach at a marina and then the reception is going to be on a two story boat. Someone told me I wont be able to wear heels o the boat but I dont get why not? Is it true that you cant wear heels to a boat wedding? Its not really on a sandy beach, its just on a lake but where the ceremony is, its covered with brick pavers so I dont think sand will be a problem. The website says that the yacht is 117 feet long if that helps any. Its one of those rental wedding yacht things.

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