Family & Relationships: Question: How do I gain confidence to hug my boyfriend at school? |
- Question: How do I gain confidence to hug my boyfriend at school?
- Question: Do I visit my Dad on Fathers Day or go to a Friend s Birthday party whom I haven t seen in ages?
- Question: Thirst to fight?
- Question: Hola tengo 35 años y nunca eh tenido novia y aun soy virgen esoty mal? que hago? P.D: NO SOY PUTO O GAY?
- Question: What can do about her harassing me and my 5 month old baby?
- Question: Is taking a day off a good idea ?
- Question: Can someone remove a retraining order after the guy is in jail over the domestic violence case?
- Question: What do teen guys think about?
- Question: I need general help in making myself feel better, please?
- Question: Is this considered emotional abuse?
- Question: WTF is up with society ? i'm a single lifelong bachelor...retired. but it seems to me?
- Question: I found out I was the other woman. I asked him why he lied to me and if he is happy in his arranged marriage?
- Question: I need suggestions on how to deal with my asshole brother in law.?
- Question: My ex is not the father of our child and I am scared the secret will come out?
- Question: Relationship advice...should I break up?
- Question: Should I run away?
- Question: My stepfather takes things too seriously?
- Question: I'm begining to loose interest and tired of this relationship?
- Question: Help me me friends serious matter :-(?
- Question: Short story about a girl sharing about her crush to her mom?
- Question: Is it possible to get injuction?
- Question: I am overreacting ?
- Question: I'm attracted to my doctor?
- Question: My girl is very jealous.I think it's connected with the fact she's very loving,careful,kind,tender to me.Do you agree?
- Question: How to get rid of girl addiction? Please help for 10 points.?
- Question: I played a terrible prank on my girlfriend and she sprayed pepper spray in my eyes!!!!?
- Question: What do I do?
- Question: Mils are so tiring and exhaustive to live with. Why is it?
- Question: Abortion Blues, can anyone help?
- Question: Muke, cake, or lashton?
- Question: Is this quote good or bad?
- Question: I accidently walked in on my daughter masturbating advice needed?
- Question: Do you believe in the concept of soul mate? Or do you think it's simply a matter of compatibility & conscious effort to choose life partner?
- Question: What are some flaws within the love story of The Titanic?
- Question: What should i do?
- Question: CAN A 23 YEAR OLD GUY BE FRIENDS WITH LITTLE KIDS?
- Question: Does this mean anything?
- Question: Girl ignores me on facebook but not in real life?
- Question: What family tradition is practiced when a guy gives a girl a ring but not representing marriage?
- Question: How likely is it that my mom will get custody of me?
- Question: What are the prices at guilty pleasures?
- Question: If you still hung out with your ex's friends, would that make her think about you or miss you more?
- Question: Why did they send me a eppic card is there any back child support are anything owe to me .?
- Question: Should a person feel bad if they dump their alcoholic boyfriend?
- Question: Is it ok for step siblings to "play" kiss you?
- Question: Does familiarity breed contempt?
- Question: I feel like my husband is being unfair and I don t know how to make him understand my point of view?
- Question: What's it like being a 50 year old woman living alone?
- Question: Is it normal to have brothers who are dirty?
- Question: Im so confused!?
- Question: What should I do? Am I in love with her? My son needs me?
- Question: Is he undecided about me?
- Question: Issue with romantic partner?
Question: How do I gain confidence to hug my boyfriend at school? Posted: 16 Jun 2015 03:13 PM PDT I've been in a relationship with a boy for a while now, but we haven't done much because we can't socialise out of school. And recently I've been wanting to hug him more often when I'm around him, and to hold his hand, but I can't do it because I'm extremely shy and I'm worried I might do something he doesn't like... |
Posted: 16 Jun 2015 03:06 PM PDT Almost every Saturday, I go to my Dad s and stay over the night and leave the Sunday evening. Nearly all of the time, we don t do a lot, we just sit around and talk and then do our own thing. I was thinking of taking him to a restaurant and treating him for Fathers Day, but he ll probably be a recluse and want to stay in anyway. However, I have a friend who I haven t seen in a long time have a birthday party on that same day. I don t want to miss her birthday party since it s my only opportunity for a long time to catch up with her when I see my Dad almost every week, but again, it s Fathers Day that day. What should I do? |
Posted: 16 Jun 2015 02:53 PM PDT I feel a need to just go out and fight someome, I don't know why. I'm always calm although my brother and I do some fighting but it's never real (as in when we fight we're doing it because we agree to it). But I was wondering if there's a reason |
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Question: What can do about her harassing me and my 5 month old baby? Posted: 16 Jun 2015 02:29 PM PDT So about the question I just posted thanks for the answer Now she's been calling me and texting me harassing me my baby and my mother I don't want to end up in jail either She came to try to fight me at my house while I was pregnant I had gestational diabetes and preeclampsia it was a hard pregnancy i was so angry and I wanted to whoop her *** so bad but m baby is so much more important then her What can I do to keep her away from my baby and family if my brother wants to be stupid and stay with her ok but I don't want end up gettig I trouble behind this Can I put a restraining order? And how? |
Question: Is taking a day off a good idea ? Posted: 16 Jun 2015 02:19 PM PDT I am in 12th class. I am feeling gloomy from past 2-3 weeks. I have not gone for a trip for about a year. Shall I take a day off tomorrow and go out with family ? I have a test after 4 days, there is a lot to cover. |
Posted: 16 Jun 2015 02:10 PM PDT Ok no smart answer or judgmental answers or comments please!! My brother was a stupid a** and hit his baby mama I'm not saying she deserved it but she's a ***** Anyways he hit her and they put him in jail for a year which reduced to 6 months she is currently going to visit him in Jail knowing he has a restraining order to make him think everything is ok he's stupid in love with her She texted me making fun of him for being in there and pretty much saying that when he gets out she's going to put him back in there cause she always gets what she wants She told him that she removed the R.O So he's stupid and believes and talk about starting over with her but her plans are to mess with him so he can go to prison for 5 years because that's his consequence if he gets near her again or have any type of contact with her this was like a big case so is it possible to remove it? |
Question: What do teen guys think about? Posted: 16 Jun 2015 01:40 PM PDT Honestly. |
Question: I need general help in making myself feel better, please? Posted: 16 Jun 2015 01:17 PM PDT I have a horrible life, and I just can t take it anymore. Everyone I know hates me, even the people who I thought were my best friends. To add to that, all my grades are in the C range, and I just don t understand most of my schoolwork, and I have finals, starting tomorrow. I am always being compared to my brother, who is perfect in every way, super popular, and has straight A s. On top of that, I am ugly, and I am fat, and I am not allowed to do anything that will make me feel even the slightest bit better about my appearance (ex. wear makeup, diet/get weight loss products, dye my hair, etc.). I am not allowed to do pretty much anything, and I can t buy anything that would make me seem more popular like iPhone, or even the newest iPod, because I can t get a job yet, and I get barely enough to pay for school lunch every week. And then, there is also a group of boys at my school who throw food at me during lunch, and make fun of me. They guy I like pretends like I don t exist, and my friends rarely talk to me, and come up with any excuse they can to not do stuff with me, and I have no idea whatsoever as to why everyone might hate me. To those of you who are reading this, and are thinking I m considering suicide, no, I m not, I;m smarter than that, and I d never do that, unless it meant saving someone s life, so please don t tell me stuff about not committing suicide, and suicide prevention site, and stuff. I m looking for consolation and ways to improve my life. |
Question: Is this considered emotional abuse? Posted: 16 Jun 2015 01:06 PM PDT I've been really worried about my friend lately. She's been telling me things about her mother, and I want to help her but I'm not sure if I can or not. So my friend has been doing gymnastics for a long time, and she really hates it. Her mother doesn't want her to quit, and if she does her mom has threatened to take away pretty much all of the things she loves doing. Gymnastics makes her depressed and gives her bad anxiety, and she's told her mom this several times. She tells her that she just needs to try harder, and she has no reason to feel the way she does. Her mom will also tell her that she does so much for her and she has to do gymnastics in order to "repay her". There is one more thing that doesn't seem right. You see, my friend has gotten injured in this sport quite a few times. Almost every time she broke a bone, her mom would tell her to ice it and continue working on it. Even when she'd have a cast or a boot on, her mom would still make her go to the gym and work out, even though it'd make the injury swell. She'd claim to forget to call the doctor sometimes as well. All in all, my friend has just been really depressed over this and I want to help her. Is this abuse, and if yes, what can I do to help? |
Question: WTF is up with society ? i'm a single lifelong bachelor...retired. but it seems to me? Posted: 16 Jun 2015 12:49 PM PDT women want to "saddle" me with all kinds of duties and responsibilities. that includes my mother, neighbors with children, sisters (not so much). but in all my years on this god-cursed planet i have very seldom received offers of non-aggressive affection, or even sax. when they start being more giving THEN i'll start thinking about sharing the "load" society puts on socially active men...if u get my drift. until then they can all take a hike. comments ? rudeness not welcome and will be reported. |
Posted: 16 Jun 2015 12:27 PM PDT He replied 'i know that you are annoyed let's leave it at that' What does that supposed to mean? Is he happy in his marriage or not???? He didn't answer my question. He is only recently married and knew me even before his wedding. He has been married 1 year and his wife is back home in Pakistan |
Question: I need suggestions on how to deal with my asshole brother in law.? Posted: 16 Jun 2015 11:24 AM PDT My hubby and I have been together for 18 years, since day 1 I have tried and tried to have a good relationship with my brother in law but he consistently treats me like garbage, it s obvious I care more than he does. When his wife left him I took him in (even though my hubby didn t want to) I listened to him cry for hours....on numerous occasions. He has never attended any of my children s birthdays, or special events not even a card...(it s not about the gift at all) he s in no photos! When called on it he said hurtful things about my family and used them as the excuse for why he doesn t attend. Since hearig this I have stopped contact, I deleted his pregnant girlfriend from fb (no better than he is.) since I stopped contact he now calls my husband and rips into him about how this is what I want, how im purposefully driving a wedge between them and this is alllll my doing. I ve always tried to foster a good relationship but after so many years im done trying....now I get the parents in law telling me to "let it go"...what should I do here? I really wanted to be there for this baby because with assholes for parents it will need good influences however do I just keep allowing myself and my kids to be **** on? |
Question: My ex is not the father of our child and I am scared the secret will come out? Posted: 16 Jun 2015 11:19 AM PDT I was married in the late 90's,and divorced in the early 00's, and behind my husbands back, around the time of my daughters conception, I had a affair lasting for many months. My daughter is definitely not my ex husbands. She looks mostly like me so my husband has not ever questioned her paternity, but also I have noticed as she has gotten older, she looks a lot like this guy I was having a affair with at the time. My daughter has both his eyes, and freckles. My daughter turned 16 a few months ago and she was recently signed up with some modelling agency, and this guy who I had a affair with, saw her picture somewhere, calls me out of the blue, and tells me he notices my daughter looks like him. I denied everything, but I am scared he will say something very soon to either my ex husband or my daughter. I understand I have done wrong but this was years ago, and I wanted my marriage to work at the time, and later, I found out my daughter had scoliosis and there were a lot of medical costs associated with that. My ex husband was the bread winner, so I needed him around to help. I am also afraid that if the ex husband finds out, he will get back the money he paid for the house and child support. Money I just cant afford to pay him. What do I do? |
Question: Relationship advice...should I break up? Posted: 16 Jun 2015 10:06 AM PDT I've been dating my girlfriend for three years. Lately things have been different. Her behavior has been changing. She is less interested in sex. Last night we were in bed and she fell asleep, and I just had this feeling I should open her phone and check it out (I know this was wrong). So I did. I found out she was having a conversation with a guy and, she was saying, that she liked his hair and giving him flirty emoji's. He asked her for dinner and drinks, and she said yes. When I confronted her, she told me she only talked like that because he gives her free adderall and you have to "play the game". I messaged the guy and he told me nothing was going on and apologized. He told me he did not know she was with someone. I basically told my girlfriend it was over last night, but I love her very much, and truthfully I'm so confused and don't know what to do. Everything is a mess...her sister is getting married, and I was supposed to stand in their wedding, and I canceled because I was so angry. |
Posted: 16 Jun 2015 09:41 AM PDT I have been abused by my mom's boyfriend. My mom is always away because she is a traveling photographer. She doesnt know the abuse that has happened when she is not around. Her boyfriend has abused my phyically,emotionally, and sexually. He hasnt raped me, but im afraid he might be. Should i run away? And where should i go? Please help |
Question: My stepfather takes things too seriously? Posted: 16 Jun 2015 09:29 AM PDT Am 17,me and my littlegs brother had an argument because he hates when somebody doesn't ask to use his stuff,and I did ask him to use his charger to charge my phone and then he said that I never ask him permission to use it, I know it's a stupid argument but then my stepfather comes in the conversation and said why I don't you use your charger but I didn't have mines with me,but when my brother ask me to use my stuff I never say no to him,I let him use my charger,I buy stuff for him,I let him use my videos games,when his wasn't working. But my stepfather says that am arguing with a mentality of a kid, and he also said domy talk to me that way am not your mother (wtf) I accept I always answer back to my parents because they think I don't accept the truth when they tell me something, I don't know who he think he is not my father for sure, but the problem is that he takes it to seriously and now he doesn't even talk to me and he ignores me it was just an argument,he does that all the times we have an argument,I remember when I was 15 years old and we had an argument me and him, and he never talk for two weeks,then I came up to him and apologize and I said to him to give me a chance and I was begging and he said man up!! I was shocked because I always wanted a father figure and I don't think he could be a father figure with me,am looking for a job and studying for my permit test because I don't want to relied on him all the times I want to be independent what can I do? Thanks |
Question: I'm begining to loose interest and tired of this relationship? Posted: 16 Jun 2015 09:26 AM PDT I love him a lot. We are in distant relationship for many years now. We met several times but each time has a long gap in between We argue, misunderstand each other a lot. To me I feel we are in 30s and still argue on some crazy silly things about the time spend on each other. The time zone is different which is already hard. But I feel like he is always the one to create SOE sort of stress..distance.. I would bring him problems when i m.intocuh with my fear But I feel.the amount of stress more than happiness with him. He is very deep person, isolate himself, doesn't hang out with friends at all. Has one good friend. Meet ones in a long while. He works freelance. But that was what he wanted to be before. Now he prefer to be socialize but UE doesn't know how. His has no skills. He didn't act well meeting my friend. He eat like kid. Looks odd. In the beginning it looks cute but in front of others I feel.embarrassed. I love him. But I don't know where will he take me to in life. I know he will love me but this love is so difficult to handle. He is not rich and working hard to find money and often still picky with his work because his aim is to be happy in life and sometimes work doesn'tgive him that. He loves pphilosophy. I don't kno. I'm.confused and I being abused mentally to be all confused or am I the odd one cause I couldnt handle his deepness and difference in lifestyle. |
Question: Help me me friends serious matter :-(? Posted: 16 Jun 2015 09:09 AM PDT My boyfriend's sister (19yrs) got engaged on 12th of this month and today morning she ran away with her love. Already she had cleared before that she was okay with her engagement and my bf's family trusted her. But now they were totally collapsed. She texted that "she want to be with her lover and thats y she ran away and she didnt want to marry someone else" it was very tough situation to my bf that he cannot find her anywhere and I really want to help him and his Family with all your support please give me some ideas and help me how to get out of this situation and no rude answers as we are already in hard time. Plz try to help me asap!!! Thankyou in advance... |
Question: Short story about a girl sharing about her crush to her mom? Posted: 16 Jun 2015 09:08 AM PDT im looking for this particular short story were this girl told her mom she loves this boy. then her mother ask her to read a verse about love were she has to substitute the name of the boy to the verse. then after reading the girl realized she does not love the boy. |
Question: Is it possible to get injuction? Posted: 16 Jun 2015 09:06 AM PDT Is it possible to get a injuction to get my daughters pictures taken down off her dad's girlfriends facebook. My exes girlfriend takes the joy of me being a mom especially since my daughter calls her mom and I see my daughter every other weekend. When I'm around my daughter and her dad and his girlfriend they treat me like I'm just the fun loving aunt |
Posted: 16 Jun 2015 08:00 AM PDT i get jealous and i feel like crap when i see that my boyfriend likes some other girl's photos. Like i have self-esteem issues and he knows that because i always struggle with being confident. Like i don't understand why would a guy in a relationship be liking another girl's pictures? i am overreacting? it just gets me mad because well first he is my boyfriend, second he barely likes my pictures. What does that tell me ? just makes me feel less.. like alright , and also there was this incident were i was hanging out with him and i was going to take a picture of him with his phone, so as soon as i went to camera. . since he has an Iphone i saw that the last image what a screenshot of a snapchat of a girl in her bra and then there where other like a girl in a thong and i was like WTF is this S*** AND he said this guy had sent them to him through bluetooth and that they saved to his phone, he kept saying sorry , DOES this happen if someone sends pictures through bluetooth do that save? UGHH someone please help like i know that this probably sounds like a childish situation and as a couple we have to fix this or whatever maybe its not a big deal.. so that is why i want to know like i am being too jealous or wth.. i just cant stand it, i decline so many guys request because of him and he just adds a bunch of girls. |
Question: I'm attracted to my doctor? Posted: 16 Jun 2015 07:46 AM PDT I went into for my ankle to see a new orthopedic today. The assistant asks me some questions then I wait for the DR. Walks in, a beautiful,tall white man. I was looking around like are you the doctor! He was young, beautiful and beautiful. We kept looking each other in the eye so much that I had to look down for a second so I wouldn't make t too obvious (too late). Then he lays me down and starts to excersize and stretch my knee then sits on the bed and continues talking. When all I wanted to do was take my clothes & his suit off. I've never been this attracted to a man. I'm 22 & he's maybe 30?. Should I say/do anything ? Not tooting my own horn but I'm attractive so I'm ok with rejection- worse case scenario. But the eye contact was real. |
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Question: How to get rid of girl addiction? Please help for 10 points.? Posted: 16 Jun 2015 07:00 AM PDT I am 17 year old boy who will turn 18 this week who got addicted to morgan lily actress of flipped movie. I am already addicted or in love to 5 year younger girl than me who is 8 th standard. I am trying to find her but couldn't found her yet because she was in my older school. What to do? Feeling addicted, confused, guilty, paranoid, depressed and suicidal. I also wants to adopt a girl child for myself. Please reply soon. Thanks. |
Question: I played a terrible prank on my girlfriend and she sprayed pepper spray in my eyes!!!!? Posted: 16 Jun 2015 06:18 AM PDT I told her I was going to take out the trash but in the bag I had a black ski mask, black sweatshirts and black pants. I put all of it on and knocked on our door. As soon as she opened it I pushes my way into the room and yelled at her to give me all of her money. She went over to her purse crying and she handed me her stuff and then pulled out pepper spray and wouldn't stop spraying it in my eyes. My eyes were burning so bad and I couldn't see and then I heard her unsheathing my machete and I started screaming her name and torn off my mask. I was terrified and she put the machete down and punched me in the face. She said that she would've killed me if I hadn't of taken off the mask. She's so mad at me and keeps saying that I'm a retarded ****** for doing that. It was supposed to be a prank to scare her and also see how she handled herself in those situations. I think I went too far. What do u guys think?? |
Posted: 16 Jun 2015 05:44 AM PDT I have been in an on and off relationship with a man for 4 and a half years now. Now that we are getting older (mid twenties) we talked about getting married and having a family. I love him so much and I am so happy he wants to have a future with me. However, I am from Northern California and he is from Southern California. We have always had a long distance relationship but we made it work for this long. We both know one of us has to compromise and move. My dilemma is...he wants to stay in SoCal and wants me to relocate for my career. The thing is, I just started my career here up north (5 months) into it and I love it! It pays so well and I even have my own apt up here. This job has been a blessing and I don't want to l relocate so soon. What would you guys do? Help ): |
Question: Mils are so tiring and exhaustive to live with. Why is it? Posted: 16 Jun 2015 04:30 AM PDT why I hate hearing my mother in law shouting orders at my husband and telling about home cleanliness. She is good hearted , smart n successful lady and has herself faced lot of hardships in her life. I respect her strength. But that doesn't stop me from hating to have her around and being bossy. Im actually a straight forward person and whenever something upsets me I speak directly and refuse any help from her. Because my happiness is important to me. Will this cause my husband to think Im a bad attitude lady? (Husband is a honest and bold guy with very good human understanding and not a mama boy. He just respects and loves mom in a healthy way but does things his way) i dont want to look bad in the eyes of such a loving and brilliant husband |
Question: Abortion Blues, can anyone help? Posted: 16 Jun 2015 03:59 AM PDT Last February (2014) i split up with my boyfriend of 2 years. A couple of weeks after we split, i found out i was pregnant. i told him, and we agreed that we are not ready to be parents and werent getting back together for the sake of a child, as we wouldnt be happy. Im only 22 and im not ready to be a mother. My ex and I are still really really good friends, and still tell eachother most days that we love eachother. But i cannot stop thinking about having a termination, i feel awful for it to be honest, and dont really want to talk to my ex about it, as i dont think it is appropriate seen as we are not together. What should i do? I think about it often, and dont knnow what to do?! |
Question: Muke, cake, or lashton? Posted: 15 Jun 2015 11:11 PM PDT what 5sos ship do you ship? |
Question: Is this quote good or bad? Posted: 15 Jun 2015 11:00 PM PDT "been about you, since i met you" it could be seen as good like nobody else could take me away because i'm about you. or it could be seen as someone who is telling someone that they're selfish and everything is always about them..what they want and feel, |
Question: I accidently walked in on my daughter masturbating advice needed? Posted: 15 Jun 2015 10:56 PM PDT I was bringing my 14 year old daughter her laundry, I knocked on her door and there was no answer so I figured she was listening to music and couldn't hear me. So, I walked in and then found her with her legs up masturbating. I instantly shut the door and walked away. She has not talked to me since. I feel really bad and I am her mom what should I do about this? |
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Question: What are some flaws within the love story of The Titanic? Posted: 15 Jun 2015 10:32 PM PDT Either things that make it too unrealistic, or that make you think it wouldn't last had the ship not sank. Go. |
Posted: 15 Jun 2015 10:23 PM PDT I'm about to start my senior year of high school and I still have no license or state id or job experience because my parents continue to put it off and hold me back. My best friend offered to let me come live with him because him and his grandparents would be willing to help me out and I'm seriously considering it because I'm afraid of leaving school and having zero job experience and no way to get around. I hear all too often "just do it without their help". If that was possible I would have done it by now god damn it. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks. |
Question: CAN A 23 YEAR OLD GUY BE FRIENDS WITH LITTLE KIDS? Posted: 15 Jun 2015 09:45 PM PDT |
Question: Does this mean anything? Posted: 15 Jun 2015 09:26 PM PDT Ok so yesterday I was at my friends party right & my friend invited my crush while we walk past each other we looked at each other while we walked by |
Question: Girl ignores me on facebook but not in real life? Posted: 15 Jun 2015 09:05 PM PDT So I like this girl at work... I have talked to her in the past a couple of times..in a very casual way but I wanted to know more about her so I added her on facebook (she accepted it) I sent a msg saying hi...she said hi 3 days later....I sent her a photo of the a sunset I captured earlier that day at work...she saw the message hours later (at 4:30 AM ) and didnt say a word...2 days later I said Hi again and she saw it and ignored me again...so I decided to ignore and avoid eye contact with her at work but today I was walking close to where she sits and I was talking to a co worker...and she started shushing me and giving me stares( she had never done this in the past), minutes later my boss gave everyone chocolates and she took mine away from my hands and said "there is no chocolate for you" and left...my coworker said she was evidently flirting with me...so I sent a message to her on facebook asking her if she ate my chocolate lol...but once again she ignored me....why??? I'm confused |
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Question: How likely is it that my mom will get custody of me? Posted: 15 Jun 2015 08:41 PM PDT She has just started work again and shes has her own house but shes struggled with alcohol and depression. I moved in with my dad when I was 9 and CPS came to my school to talk to me so she sent me to live with my dad just in case. But now I am 16 and I am failing almost all of my classes and he and his girlfriend make me feel like ****. But they physically abuse me or anything like that. I want to live with my mom but is that even still a possibility? A few years ago they found out that I wanted to live with my mom again but they told me that it was impossible and that she would never win in court. Is that true? I meant they do NOT physically abuse me. also could I just pick where I want to live or do I not have a say? |
Question: What are the prices at guilty pleasures? Posted: 15 Jun 2015 08:37 PM PDT so im looking for a descent product and was wondering what the prices where. it doesnt show on their site or anywhere else that ive looked. |
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Question: Should a person feel bad if they dump their alcoholic boyfriend? Posted: 15 Jun 2015 07:38 PM PDT My BF is an alcoholic who loves to drink. I am tired of him wanting to always drink and try to pressure me into drinking. His Whole world revolves around drinking!! The weekend is a blur for him because he wakes up drinking and goes to bed drunk. When I get on him about his drinking he tells me he will work on it. The following day he will not drink but complain that he needs a drink and if I will go get him a drink and I tell him hell no!! Sometimes he will just go to sleep majority of the time he will just give in and go to the bar. Instead of just going to get help at a rehab he prefers to keep trying to fool me with this endless cycle of stop a couple days then go back drinking in full speed. He tries to control what I do. He doesn't want us to have a fb page or any type of social media. My family lives on the west coast and he is from where we live in Nj. I hate this particular area we live in he is okay with it because he grew up here. There is a bar on almost every corner. He doesn't drive due to multiple DUIs. I hate taking him to work!!!! When I get paid I want to just take my $$ and get the hell out of here with our 18 month old daughter and move to California. Part of me feels bad to leave him with bills but part of me feels like he caused this on himself!!!!! Is it right to stay in this type of environment that he has created and continue to help pay the bills and be miserable!!!! |
Question: Is it ok for step siblings to "play" kiss you? Posted: 15 Jun 2015 07:19 PM PDT the other day my step brother was tickling me and he kissed my forehead. I didn't think mhch of it and got back to tickling him. then he kissed my nose and I smiled and did it back still not thinking much of it. then he kissed my lips but real quick. I just smiled not knowing what to do. does this mean anything? help. |
Question: Does familiarity breed contempt? Posted: 15 Jun 2015 07:16 PM PDT Friendship or relationship wise or anything wise. You have to admit you like a person better if they've been gone for a while. Dan, Yeah I definitely agree with the out of sight out of mind saying. Its so true. |
Posted: 15 Jun 2015 07:14 PM PDT My family is big on camping. We go camping several times each summer, and my husband and I bring our dog. Our dog has some special needs, and also has severe separation anxiety. Basically boarding him at a kennel for the weekend is not an option. We ve tried it, and it doesn t work. So we bring him with when we go camping. My husband is an avid fisherman. When we go camping he and my dad usually get up early to go fishing and spend most of the day on the lake, leaving me at the campsite with the dog. I usually have no problem with this, as my sister is usually with me and we re more the type to sit back and chat and have a few drinks. So I don t mind having the dog while he fishes. We have a camping trip coming up this weekend and my dad is bringing the canoe. I told my husband that I would like it if he could stay with the dog one afternoon so my sister and I could go canoeing, and he basically threw a fit. He said if that s the case then he might as well just stay home with the dog and not go camping at all. I tried to explain how unfair I thought he was being, but now he is just trying to guilt me into finding another option. I know none of you know my husband, but he is normally not like this. Why might he be acting this way, and how can I make him understand that it s only fair that he takes a turn hanging out with the dog? |
Question: What's it like being a 50 year old woman living alone? Posted: 15 Jun 2015 06:52 PM PDT What's it like being 50 years old and living as a divorced woman? Any personal experience? Be as detailed as possible please. |
Question: Is it normal to have brothers who are dirty? Posted: 15 Jun 2015 05:57 PM PDT My brothers are 10-15 and they never clean up after there selfs whenever they are done eating something or finished up a box of snacks that was filled with cakes they just leave it there, they never throw anything away..you would think they were babies they leave boxes empty sitting there on the counter..they leave food around everywhere..my brother just drunk up all my juice mix and didn't even ask or thow the box away he just left it there..they don't wash dishes my mom,step dad and I have to do everything you would think they were new born ..why is this? Btw what irritates me is everything that they do I get blamed for it.. |
Posted: 15 Jun 2015 04:42 PM PDT Long story short my boyfriend and I had a great relationship..we were together a year. I am now pregnant (13weeks) he was happier than I am. We plans to get a new house. We even put down out deposit on the house and furniture. Everything was going great and he treats me good. I found out he was cheating and the girl sounds like she wants to be with him and that is what she told me as well. Me and him had a huge fight and i left him. He never apologized at the time. I know that he wanted nothing to do with me because the girl told me he said that the day after and he was ignoring me that same day because he was with her as well. Long story short i ignored him for 6days. Atleast 20calls amd texts a day. I finally decided to answer yesterday telling him i was fine and thr baby was fine. Wea talked a little bit and met up for church and we agreed that we were supposed to meet up today and talk. The nighy before he was saying how he loves me and needs me and how he is not with her and how mucb he missed me. So i texted and called him today and no reply..im so confused and now ifeel like i should have just kept ignoring him and that he wont change |
Question: What should I do? Am I in love with her? My son needs me? Posted: 15 Jun 2015 04:18 PM PDT Im married. It was ok at first but now she hits me, belittles me, hates my family and was seeing someone else.I left but went back. She got pregnant a month later. I think the baby is mine. wedecided to work on our marriage but the abuse and illtreatment continues.A couple week before the baby was born I met this woman. I hadnt noticed her at all but then we started talking and I quickly realized that she was Amazing, but different. I had never cheated on my wife before and although my love for her was fading I made a vow to her and the man that raised me thought me that I should never leave my family behind. Im talking to this woman. i tell her everything thats been happening in my marriage because I feel so comfortable around her. we finally agree to see each other. A day before we are supposed to meet she texts me and says she cant see me anymore but i call her and tell her I need her and she has a family too but its wrecking her because he beats her and she cant get out but we both feel like this might be a way out. We see each other, I had no intentions of having sex with her but she initiates it and we do,Only to find out she is all I want and I ve never had sex like this before. I go home thinking I can never see her again. I tell her that my wife and I has decided to work it out because it is best for our son. I feel bad that she feels used but I cant leave my son behind I grew up with no parents only an old grand uncle who taught me to do the right thing. |
Question: Is he undecided about me? Posted: 15 Jun 2015 04:12 PM PDT We work in different departments. We've gone out for drinks and the conversation was pretty blunt about what kinds of sexual activities he enjoys... We had lunch a couple days later... We've briefly texted and he's asked me twice for a follow up. Today when he asked me if I want to go for a drink again, I said yes. Then he said he invited another guy as well... When I said to him I thought it was 1on 1, he said he'd uninvite him. I told him it's okay it that's what he wants to do, so he said he still would cancel the third person. When I called him later he was discussing his summer plans and asked what mine were, then he had to get on the train. I don't know what to think, I'm obviously interested in him... I think im good looking, I'm mid 30s and he's mid 50s.... Anyone have any ideas? |
Question: Issue with romantic partner? Posted: 15 Jun 2015 03:26 PM PDT After an argument, my now ex-girlfriend has been ranting to her friends and random people about how poorly I treated her to seek validation. She's purposefully leaving out vital details and now, I'm being perceived as some sort of horrible human being while she is a mere victim. The information I hold would literally destroy her social life but that's not what I wish for her. How should I proceed ? |
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