Marriage & Divorce: Question: 2wks ago the night before my husband was leaving out of state for his Job, I found he n his ex gf had been txting/calling each other.Advice? |
- Question: 2wks ago the night before my husband was leaving out of state for his Job, I found he n his ex gf had been txting/calling each other.Advice?
- Question: How can i leave my marriage when my family loves my husband and disapprove of divorce, they will hate me...?
- Question: How do I tell him that I want to move on?
- Question: What's wrong with me ?
- Question: How should I be feeling about my father marrying the woman he cheated on my mother with?
- Question: I m lock out of my mail. I cannot recall the answer to security questions (i.e. Where did I meet my spouse) I m not married?
- Question: My husband refuses to show me his FACEBOOK messages and would rather that I leave him over it…what do you think?
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- Question: How to help my wife with PTSD? if you want more detail, read my last question?
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- Question: Would you get married if you were not in love but you loved them?
- Question: My wife was diagnosed with PTSD today, which doesn t surprise me at all, but what can I do to help her?
- Question: Legal custody question?
- Question: My parents divorcing. Do I have a right to be angry?
- Question: Should I continue being a friend to this person?
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| Posted: 23 Jun 2015 09:40 PM PDT He doesn't know I know he's been keeping contact.he only believes I have a feeling. However, I saw tests and calls the night before he left. We have a one year old daughter and have had our share of problems. He leaves every month for 1-2 wks out of state to work and these past 2 wks have been awful for me. Just thinking if he's talking to her makes my stomach turn. How should I confront him and get him to fess up without him knowing I snooped? I know.. Shame on me. but I had to since he was acting differently. Also I would like him to change his number if he shows remorse and if I know cheating didn't occur. When we started dating we changed our numbers for this exact reason... To avoid problems. So how should I confront him and make sure this doesn't happen again. I know she had been looking for him because she wanted her car to be off his name. But even after that was done, they still kept contact. He returns tmrw. advice/sufggestuons are appreciated. Thanks |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2015 09:22 PM PDT Its not even one year since i had been married to my husband, we have so many problems already and a lot to do with him entertaining so many other women by calls/texts/facebook. He once talked smack about me being crazy to another female…also he hit me the other day in the face.At this point, I want to knave but my family doesn't believe in divorce and are very old fashioned…what is my best bet? I am just too unhappy in this marriage |
| Question: How do I tell him that I want to move on? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 09:13 PM PDT My husband is a good provider financially but he's not there for me emotionally. He can be mean to our 11 year old son and he hurts his feelings and I don't like it. He's said that we drive him crazy....he doesn't respect that I like different music and gets irritated when my son and I listen to "our music". I want to move on but I haven't had to work since we have been together, 15 years, we also have a toddler. I don't know what to do.... |
| Question: What's wrong with me ? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 09:08 PM PDT Me and my husband have been married for a month. We've been best friends since we were kids. We were together for a long time. He's the only guy I ever been with. I love him so much. I'm 22 he's only 17. I seem to cry for no reason. Even if we kiss , hold hands , cuddle or watch a movie. I don't know what's going on with me. I want to cry in front of him but I'm afraid he'll ask me why I'm sad I won't know why. I'm not pregnant or on my period. What's wrong with me ? |
| Question: How should I be feeling about my father marrying the woman he cheated on my mother with? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 09:07 PM PDT August 2013 my mother went to prison and my parents have had issues but at this time, when she was sentenced to 3 years in prison things were great. Fantastic. My father decided to begin cheating, which was as expected, since this has happened plenty of times before. I moved out 7 months later and he moved his other woman in. Here I am now receiving news that him and my mother's divorce will be final next Monday and he will be asking his other woman to marry her the following weekend. I am inconsolable right now.... But I dont know if this is how I SHOULD be feeling. I never wanted my parents together because all they did was scream at eachother, but its incredibly hard to grasp the fact that they will no longer be together... That my father is starting this whole new life with this other woman.. I guess what I'm asking is; should sad be the way I'm feeling right now about all of this? And is it OKAY if I don't want anything to do with either of them? I also have two younger sisters who live with my dad and mistress. My parents have had issues for years. August 2013 my mother went to prison. When she was sentenced....**** Thats what that first line should've said.. Sorry. Its late. |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2015 09:05 PM PDT I'm lock out of my mail. I cannot recall the answer to security questions (i.e. Where did I meet my spouse) |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2015 08:57 PM PDT I recently saw that my husband talks and entertains other women a lot on social media and he quickly started hiding things from me. I asked him to show his messages and he kept saying that he will not because i will take things the wrong way, if he had nothing to hide, he wouldn't hesitate, right? what should i do? I told him unless he shows me what he is hiding, I'm out |
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| Question: What to do with "racist" neighbors? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 08:49 PM PDT Well I ve been living at my house for about 3 years now and a family just moved in beside me about 6-7 months ago and I ve noticed that they don t like me since I m middle eastern when ever I would say hi or good morning they would look at me with a disgusted face and look back the husband is always smoking out on the driveway and is always disposing them on my front yard I want to know what I can do |
| Question: Have you purposely got buzzed or drunk to go up to a woman? Serous question? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 08:42 PM PDT Hi, I am 22 & last Saturday I was I was at a lounge. There was a really attractive woman & her friends down the bar from me. Even though I have a stable job (state job) & handsome. I suffer from low self a steam & didn't think I was good enough for her. But I kept drinking & I got realy buzzed or drunk & walked up to her, like I had confadince & she danced with me!!! Until I said something (I was drunk) that got her & her friends mad at me :( So have you purposely got buzzed or drunk to have confidence to go up to a woman?.... |
| Question: How can I Deepthroat my boyfriends Dick without gagging? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 08:39 PM PDT Me and my boyfriend has been together for a while now we have started having sex and I have been Sucking it but my gag reflex is horrible I just wanna know How to Deepthroat it better. |
| Question: Husbands Hurtful Facebook Posts? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 08:21 PM PDT I became aware of my husband messages on the photos a woman he went to school with is posting. He called her hottie,never called me that,natural beauty,pretty gal,cute,yowza, some just had 3 hearts ,he also signed his texts highs and kisses..u know xoxo. I do not co.undone this type of thing and am so hurt! I feel he has disrespected me and our marriage! That was hugs & kisses and condone. |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2015 08:14 PM PDT He definitely is. He enjoys men. He has told me so there is no question about it. I'm pregnant with his baby. I'm heart broken. I want an abortion so I can leave him scott free but I'm way to pregnant for that. We have custody of his niece and I don't work so I can't just leave on a whim. I'm at a loss. Suicide is looking pretty great about now. What would you do? Of course no help from this troll site. Abort yourself ronbo. |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2015 08:10 PM PDT She left me claiming I wasn't to affectionate. She still curse me like a dog and wished that I burn in he'll. Wasn't leaving me when I was in between jobs good enough for her. Why make me hurt |
| Question: How to help my wife with PTSD? if you want more detail, read my last question? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 08:02 PM PDT |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2015 08:02 PM PDT Husband and i just welcomed a baby boy and i have been nothing but good to this man, out of no where, i find him messaging another woman this…he doesn t even acknowledge me as his wife…what do you think? why would he tell her such a lie and bash me? I DO NOT EVEN KNOW WHO THIS WOMAN IS... I don't know what he was trying to accomplish by saying this but he claims he was frustrated with me when he wrote it... HE HAS BEEN BEGGING ME TO STAY, SAID SORRY SO MANY TIMES, CRIED….but i am in a lot of pain over this comment,specially when I just had his baby. |
| Question: Do husbands and wives normally feel attracted to the same females? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 07:53 PM PDT do married couples share the same tastes in lovers? |
| Question: Would you get married if you were not in love but you loved them? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 07:46 PM PDT |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2015 07:36 PM PDT Her father was extremely abusive throughout her whole life, her dad was constantly yelling at her, calling her retarded because of her speech impediment, hitting her, punching her, pulling her hair, and though she has not lived with them for almost 2 years now, its very clear that the emotional scars still remain, she has some severe anger problems, the littlest things can set her off, and sometimes it gets to the point where i have to physically restrain her to keep her from hitting, scratching, kicking and even biting me, and also to prevent her from hurting herself until she calms down, when it gets to that point shes not herself at all, normally, shes the nicest sweetest person youll ever meet, but she frequently has nightmares about her parents abusing her, and on the day after shes had a nightmare, that is when she has her anger problems(she always tells me when shes had a nightmare, and has even woken me up crying from a nightmare), so the psychiatrist diagnosed her with PTSD, which is exactly what I told her she probably had before even going to the psychiatrist, i just figured that was the most likely thing, given how her father treated her, so the psychiatrist gave her a medication to stop the nightmares, which he said should fix her anger problems, but is there anything i can do myself to help her as well? |
| Question: Legal custody question? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 07:32 PM PDT So I've been in a bad relationship for a while.. We have a chid. I Am miserable its constant arguing he calls the cops just Bc I leave with my daughter to get away from his drama. Also claims he's unhappy aswell... But now I want to live seperate and not involve courts and still share custody.. Issue bein.. He is now saying he's gonna take her from me Bc im a bad parent. I have my my daughter and take care of her and buy her everything she needs Im the one who takes her to dr APPTS daycare etc. he isn't on her birth certificate but he is her biological father. He was arrested before for domestic issues. Basically what can happen in this situation. I just want out with no issues but seems impossible |
| Question: My parents divorcing. Do I have a right to be angry? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 07:30 PM PDT Basically, my mom and stepdad have been arguing the past year and it's been hell. He hasn't spoken to either of us and has always eaten dinner somewhere else or was at his children's house tutoring them or some **** like that. The only time they do talk is when they are arguing. Sometimes the things he says make me so angry that I could punch him. So last night my mom basically woke me up and said she had enough and that she was getting a divorce. Today, all of a sudden they're on best terms like nothing happened (which pisses me off even more). I was seriously getting ready for her to divorce this weird jackass b***h and thinking about what would happen if I left for college and how I could help her if something happened, then I worried about my college finance and if she would be able to pay it, then I worried about how everyone we know would deal with it and what life would be like, then this **** happens. I know they're suppose to be happy together, but honestly my family is so dysfunctional sometimes I wish I was a different person. Now I don't want anything to do with them because they can't make up their mind. I am more pissed off because she is a victim of domestic violence (one time incident, but still). I hate worrying about when they are going to argue and if he is going to hit her. I hate her for pretending like **** isn't okay. I wish I could just run away sometimes. I just want to know, do I have a right to be angry? |
| Question: Should I continue being a friend to this person? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 07:23 PM PDT I've known this person for 20 years.We started off as coworkers.I stopped working when I had my kids but we kept in touch.Our friendship I thought grew stronger since we spent a lot of time together laughing and also sharing about our personal lives, in my case, my conflict with my husband and her loneliness for not having found someone special after having been divorced for a long time.There are things about her that make me doubt about her sincerity.So, while we spend hours talking about life, including spirituality, religion, relationships, etc. she has been vocal on how she disagrees with how I do stuff in my life.She'll also asked me with disdain and wonder, what do I do the whole day when the kids are in school. Its like she wants me to feel bad or something about my situation.She also says how she admires my husband. She sees the good in him and seldom sees me in the same light.She has said I'm a good mom.Recently over dinner, she told my husband how much she admires him and how she always sides with him in our my marital conflicts.She had to say this because she needed his help in getting her a job at his workplace because she is was laid-off from her job. I don't know what to think of her because the stuff she says offends me.When I told her how I felt, she said I'm over-sensitive.She's said this many times before and I just accepted it but now I think as a friend, she should consider how I feel. She expects me to adjust to her but she won't with me. Pls. advice. |
| Question: Wife cheated on me, and kids keep asking me why i dont lover he anymore? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 07:17 PM PDT Im 36, and my wife of 6 years (10 years together) cheated on me with a guy from her work.they had sex on our bed, so um yeah. Me and her both see the kids but dont keep contact with each other at all not even verbally when she drops off the kids, she waits by the car and waves good bye to them, and i look at the ground like an idiot. i got the kids on weekends (cause thats the only day i have off, so my social life is gone and dating is basically a no) and i basically try my best to be a good father. my daughter is 6 and son is 3. The curiosity is mostly from my 6 year old. She says that she misses when we were together and when we were a family. She also tells me my ex wife (her mother) often cries over me ( the guy from her work left her shortly after we divorced, turned out he had a wife too and they decided to go to counseling, ik because one of our mutual friends told me). she asks me if i still love my ex, and i have no idea what to say, because i dont, she ruined my life, and i mean that in terms of the emotional pain she put me through. I cant even move on and date because of this split routine i have with having the kids on my only days off. i love my kids but i need help explaining this to them without talking **** about their mother. sometimes i feel like im put out to be the bad guy, so any tips? |
| Question: I am confused. 10 pts honest advice? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 07:12 PM PDT Through works, I knew a man who is living in another city. He is a friend of my friend. I have not met him but we often chat on Viber. He said " I think you should marry a strong man". He asked for my photos but I did not send him one. He said he would invite me for dinner when he comes to my city. He asked how long was the relationship with my bf if I had one and even asked where my house is. He said he had a kid but did not tell any about his marital status ie divorced or married. He refused to reveal his kid age when I asked, that made me thought his kid is going to be born. What would ya think about him? |
| Question: How should newlyweds share expenses without pressuring the other? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 07:02 PM PDT I'm 2 months married & 6 months pregnant. Due to pregnancy i stopped working in labor jobs & im waiting for my office job to start in 2 months. My husband was working before we got married but we weren't living together yet. I can honestly say i feel like i paid most of our wedding due to him always saying that he never had any money left after every paycheck. worked overtime most days and still managed to say his checks were less than 200 a week sometimes 100. Now we live together, he lost his job, but has a side job that pays him under the table working 7days a week for 5-10hrs/day. Im still not working yet but i stay home with our 3year old, so far his mentality of marriage isnt there yet. I get unemployment not much less than 300 every 2 weeks i have a car note, bills, &CC that i need to pay. Rent is 500 he only gives me 250 and thats it. When i try to talk to him that im not working and i need more help he gets annoyed and mad that im trying to get money out of him. Which in reality i am not the type to ask for money since ive always worked at great paying jobs and would always end up buying us food, shoes, clothing becuz i like to see him happy. But now i asked for help with the cable cuz i dont complete for my car note. He asked for an exact # for him to help me with and thats all he gives me. My moms been buying me maternity clothing and pushes me on talking to him becuz he supposably never has money. And i never have money in my pocket. Any suggestions or advice? |
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| Question: Are most wives (when wearing their highest heels) taller than their husbands? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 05:36 PM PDT My wife is my height or taller quite often and is drop dead gorgeous, I am 5'11" she is 5'7" or a little above, and half the time when she wears high heels she is slightly taller than me. Is this pretty typical or am I a little short for her compared to most couples? |
| Question: What is the legal process for divorce in the state of Indiana? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 05:12 PM PDT A friend of mine was served with divorce papers in April 2015 and found the divorce finalization papers on her door yesterday (6/22/15). We are totally blown away. She never signed ANY divorce documents and its stated In the petition that they've been separated since October 2014, which they've lived together to this day. I did a little research on Indiana divorces but really need clarity. I'm sure she'd appreciate it too. Here in California, the shortest divorce is 6 months and that's a Default Divorce. |
| Question: How do arranged marriages work/happen in India? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 05:07 PM PDT First off, please don't say "oh I'm just being used, he doesn't care about you" or anything like that because he cosigned for my BRAND NEW car a few months ago and has helped me when I needed it. I've been friends with him for about 2 years but just recently (in the last year) realized I was in love with him. We had a talk recently where we both admitted our feelings for each other and let me say, I've NEVER felt this way before. I thought I knew what love is when all I had learned is what love is not. Anyway, during our talk after we both admitted how we felt, he explained that he's not going to be able to be with me because his mom is facing social pressure (he's in Brahmin caste in his 30s and apparently it's bad if you're not married by then?) and his mom is in the process of finding matches. His mom was just here in the states for 6 months and I met her a few times, even bringing a "traditional southern vegan meal" to her. I was very respectful and wore extremely modest clothing because I certainly did not want to offend her. While I know I'll never find love like this again, I just find myself wondering about the process. We decided to just spend as much time together as possible and then when he goes to get married, all ties will be cut with him because I respect marriage, even when I do not agree. I just want him to be happy even when I know I can't be included in it. I just wish things could be different. Thanks in advance to those who answer. Let me add this: I know that he *might* could stand up to his mom and say he wanted to be with me but I honestly don't want that because I know it would cause nothing but problems for him and I don't want that. He's the kindest, sweetest and most loving person I know and one girl is going to be very lucky. I just don't understand the process. He lives in the states and is about to have his green card. We were both holding each other crying because we want to be together. I just know we can't. |
| Question: I can't take my wedding ring off? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 05:01 PM PDT My husband died in March. I'm young only 25. We were married 2 1/ years together for 6. I still wear his wedding band but on my right pointer finger instead of my ring finger. I can't not wear it. When he died they gave it to me. His mother has mine I gave it to her. My friends keep telling me it's time to take it off but I'm still hurting so bad. Is it weird to never take it off? Like to leave it forever on my opposite hand? It makes me feel like he's still here with me. Should I buy a different ring in his memory? |
| Question: I have one question about marriage certificate? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 04:24 PM PDT Hii folks i want to get divorce in canada i married in india. I have been living separately since 2011 and husband lives in india. Can i get divorce here? I have a photocopy of my marriage certificate not the original one. Would that work or i have to have an original. |
| Question: I feel like im walking on eggshells whenever my husband near me. what will i do? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 04:24 PM PDT my husband is a perfectionist. he wants everything to be perfect. he'll shout at call me ******* stupid whenever i didnt know something and i ask him. he always bring up divorce and always telling me that he should pursue the other girl that he really like instead of me because she is a virgin and i am not. hes calling me ******* whore, ***** and a lot more bad words. he even have a picture of my ex on his desktop saying that im ******* whore who make sex with that guy. when he's mad he is really mad. but when he's not he is very sweet and it makes me forget anything bad that he told me. what will i do?please help. i am not financially stable right now |
| Question: About marriage certificate? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 04:19 PM PDT Hiii folks i have question about my divorce. I want to get divorce in canada i was married in india and my husband lives in india. I have not my original marriage certificate but i do have photocopy would it work if want to file my profile or i have to have an original certificate? |
| Question: Its all about him nothing about me? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 03:54 PM PDT I've been married for 5 years to him its always been rocky everything is my fault. I keep '******* up' as he says it. I want a divorce he says he wants to make it work for our son but he wants a open relationship. What is your take? |
| Question: What if your spouse asked if you they could start dating someone else? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 02:38 PM PDT Okay, lets say you and your spouse have a great relationship and you guys love each other and all, but your spouse met someone else they thought was their perfect match (even more than you). You're grade A, but they claim this person is A+. Problem is, your spouse can't know for sure because they can't date anymore and find out. The only reasonable way would be to separate/divorce you first. But there's no need for a divorce because everything is great. The only problem is that he/she might have found someone who is more their match, and they want to test for a month or two (before deciding to get serious in which case then they will divorce you), before they leave the great relationship you guys share. So, do you let them try for a month or two, even though it's painful for you? Or do you just divorce them, and let them do what they want afterwards? Or do you tell them "NO, YOU ARE STUCK WITH ME MOFO". |
| Question: I truly want to marry, but I don't know what to do... It's been 5yrs.? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 02:25 PM PDT I am a man who finally wants to settle down with the love of my life, but I've made so many mistakes in my life that my credit was torn apart. Now, I truly want to propose to her, but the money that I make is only enough to truly pay the bills. I also have 2 children. It's not easy to save nowadays. It hurts my heart that I don't even have the money for an engagement ring - yet alone, pay for a wedding. I just don't know what to truly do anymore. Maybe anyone have any suggestions, tips or advice would truly help. I truly want to give her forever, but people always said not to start marriage off with financial problems. We've been together for 5yrs BTW. Please help? |
| Question: Gender Studies: Marriage in the U.S. is at it's lowest since 1870. Why? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 02:18 PM PDT Is it the economy? Feminism. MGTOW. Delaying marriage? @David. 68 % of millennials haven't married. 29% say that can't afford to. |
| Question: What if you're happily married, but along came a better person? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 02:16 PM PDT Hypothetically speaking: What if you were married to someone whom you love, and you guys have a great relationship and all, but later in life you met someone who was a better match for you, more so than your current spouse. If one was dating, usually it's fine to break up and pair up with the better person (if you are able to of course), right? But if one was currently bound by marriage, what should one do? Is it wrong to leave your current spouse whom you have a happy marriage with, for the new person who is everything you dreamed a perfect spouse could be? Some may say it's infatuation/lust and we should just avoid it, but didn't your current love/relationship with your spouse stem from infatuation? It's risky to leave the nice relationship you currently share with your spouse, but what if it could end up being an even better relationship with the new person? Thoughts? |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2015 01:57 PM PDT How long will I collect these check to help support my children. The papers did not say. I don t want to wait on the phone forever to find out. Does any one have experience with this? |
| Question: I hate sharing my money with the wife? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 01:36 PM PDT Ok we used to have a good marriage until a few years ago I wanted to remain fiscally responsible. I didn't want to get into credit card debt like I used to be. I await to save or get bonuses from my work to by stuff. We already had a understanding of having a joint account for bills and she had direct deposit and a certain dollar amount would go into the joint like I have been doing. She made less then me so I actually paid for over half the bills. But when it came down to buy a washing machine or something I would be the one that would fork out the money. She's never bought an expensive item ever. So after fighting about it we decided to just have 1 account and 1 savings and got rid of our individual checking accounts. So far in 3 months this has been disastrous. She spends too much money which calculated is a good chunk of my money. I can't splurge on myself anymore because she spends too much money on all kinds of garbage. When I bring it up, she gets mad and says I'm selfish. Some guy that is a also a counselor and helped our marriage out brought this up what we need to do. Now I'm behind on my car payment and cable bill and I'm always the one that buys most of the groceries but cannot buy much anymore because she spends a lot. She also has really high CC bills.If I buy a bottle of whiskey then all hell comes loose and how I shouldn't drink and it's a waste of money while she buys new shoes every weekend. We were better off having a joint account for bills only. |
| Question: Husbands: How Would You Feel If Your Wife Told You...? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 01:30 PM PDT How would you feel if she told you that she had an eating disorder (anorexia or bulimia) and had it before you both were married? |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2015 01:29 PM PDT Hi all, my husbands ex has a massive issue with me, we have been together for almost 5 tears married for 2. They split up over 5 years ago but she won't let it go! She uses my stepson as a weapon. Now she is saying when my husband has his son, he has to be present all the time during the contact! I would not have it that he was out all the time during contact, but surely she can't have this control over my husband and our life? Surly if my husband decides to go out for a few hours or I decide to take my stepson out with his half sister there shouldn't be an issue? It seems she just wants to control my husband and our life? |
| Question: How is it macho for a man to forgive his cheating wife? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 01:10 PM PDT It puzzles me how people in these forums and otherwise advice guys to forgive and give their wifeet another chance? It seems insane the thought of her being naked with another man using her body and purely disrespecting the marriage!! How can any sane human being say and advise for forgiveness? Kindly explain (wen there are no kids involved) |
| Question: What are other ways to say "I love you"? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 01:03 PM PDT Besides You are beautiful in every single way We belong together I will always love you |
| Question: Help with child custody/vistation/stepmom? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 12:58 PM PDT |
| Question: Husband still invested in ex's life? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 12:20 PM PDT My husband still brings up his ex at least twice a day, still follows and likes things on her art page on Facebook, said recently he wants to watch something she made, insists on displaying a figurine she made for him... It's really hurtful and I feel like he's not over her. They only dated two years. His argument is my ex gets brought up too but I was with him for six years and he's the father of my children so he's kind of still around. He seems to think it's fine to keep tabs on his ex's life and stay involved with her |
| Question: What's the kindest way to tell your wife to stop texting you all day while you're at work? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 12:06 PM PDT She has a desk job I do not so replying is a bother |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2015 11:58 AM PDT Well to begin with, we should have been a happy couple since its begining......, just as i imagined it would be... He use to be a fun loving person before but after getting married....., he stays quit most of the times, doesn't listen to or do thing i ask him to do. In other words, i think, he doesn't care about me. He wouldn't even ask me if i'm doing okay. He keeps on playing his mobile games. He comes to me when he wishes to have sex. We get into fights most of the time. When he's out of town for some business trip, He'd call me just to say he's tired and that he needed to sleep but he lies. He stays online late night. When i ask him the reason he'd get angry so i wouldn't dear ask him again. And He 'd tell me not to call him because he'd be calling which he doesn't, he keeps me waiting for his call. I know he's all stressed out after work but... I don't know how to handle this situation. I'm finding it hard to settle this.I'm falling out of love towards him. I wish i hadn't been married. I tried talking to him about this but he takes it too lightly. It hurts my feelings. What do i need to do to encourage myself in-not-thinking about divorce. Am i loosing myself. Please help. |
| Question: Hurt my wife, how do I bounce back? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 11:28 AM PDT My wife and I have together almost 4 years. While she doesn't mind that I will indulge in some porn every now and again, she DOES mind lately because we haven't had the best sex life, and I still watch it like, 2-3 times a week. It's not her at all, I just have a low libido. I will admit that I wanted it a lot more than I do now, sure, but now she feels like I'm taking her for granted and that I'm not attracted to her anymore, when I am. She flips out, says that I'm not attracted to her, and what can she do to be more attractive. I tell her nothing, but she doesn't believe me because I'm "depending" on porn to get myself off when I could be having sex with her. I'm just not vocal about it, but I used to be. I don't know what happened, but maybe I got myself in a rut and need to get out of it. Any ideas? She is not fat at all and is actually smaller than when we got married. I like them thick, and her body is great. I'm still in love with her, but I just feel like what Mrs. Frankie said hit home; I think I'm just tired of the same old sex. How do I talk to her without hurting her feelings and making it sound like she's the boring one? She's not...I know this is all me. |
| Question: Why do people still get married? When will this institution die off? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 10:37 AM PDT Modern marriage is mostly just a gimmick used to sell insanely overpriced jewelry. People still take it seriously and often end up ruining their lives. I have seen it happen. I have a good friend whose life is just pure agony after his divorce. He was ecstatic during his wedding ceremony just a few years ago. Why can't people stay together out of love and not because of a legal contract? What is the purpose of marriage? Am I the only one who sees this clearly? |
| Question: Four year anniversary is coming. What....? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 10:30 AM PDT Do I get the wife? Been together since 2006. Married for four years in two days. What to get the wife. Real answers please, not a boot, divorce papers, or something stupid. Women ideas please. |
| Question: Why did she light up and get happy? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 10:29 AM PDT Me and my wife have been together 7 years and Been married 4 and recently we were about to go to sleep then she asked me what is her birthday and when did we meet and when was our first date and I told her all the dates and she lit up like a child who's about to receive candy and she giggled a lot then she told me she loved me so much why did that make her so giggly and happy? I'm 30 she's 26 btw |
| Question: How Should I Tell My Husband About My Eating Disorder? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 10:26 AM PDT My husband and I have been married a few months but we've known and dated each other for 5 years. I am 33, he is 34. I want to tell him that I suffer from anorexia/bulimia(since I was 15) but I'm scared that he'll be mad or disappointed. I know I should have mentioned it before we were married but I didn't want to run him off. Now, he is starting to question my weight loss and why I never eat the dinners I fix him. I am more than willing to gain weight and eat better if only for him and our marriage. He means that much to me. But I know that the thoughts and feelings will never go away. He's a great guy but I'm afraid he will no longer trust me because I chose to wait this long to tell him.How should I tell him?What should I do?What should I say? |
| Question: Is the user GUY bein A GUY a women hater? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 09:39 AM PDT |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2015 09:25 AM PDT they are a big family so you can imagine, the calls never stop, it's gotten so bad that they are calling in the early hours of the night 1am, 2am and keeping her up, and just when she catches an hour or two of sleep, they call again. My wife gets violently furious at me when I tell her she needs to stop taking their calls. She said she will never stop supporting her family. Her nephew got drunk and they couldn't find him, they were on the phone for hours. Logically he showed up, he was at a friends house. One of her sisters husband is having schizophrenia and he's saying he wants to kill himself, it's been a week of non stop calls and little sleep. We have 3 small kids, they sleep but I'm not sleeping. I've told her things need to change and she says the inky change will be getting rid of me for being insensitive and not respecting her wishes. I have a big family with problems like everyone else but I never ever get calls from them. All I want is peace, is that too much to ask for? My dad says bury a loved one when they pass, but don't ever allow them to overwhelm you with their problems To the idiot that keeps editing the category, stop it! |
| Question: Please Help me dig myself outta this one before I get married? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 08:41 AM PDT I have twin boys from my first marriage. My ex wife asked me to get a vasectomy and I did. Fast forward seven years and I've met the new woman of my dreams... We have been together for two years, just got engaged last month. I have never told her that I got a vasectomy. When kids came up I just went along with it because I didn't want her to realize I can't make them anymore and break up with me. I know it's wrong but I hoped my boys would stress her out too much for her to actually really want any of her own. She just told me on Father's day that because I'm so good with my sons, she can't wait until she and I have a baby together. My doctor already told me the reversal is only effective 50% of the time. What do I do now? I love her and feel bad lying to her, but wonder if I take this secret to my grave, we could just pretend one of us must have a fertility problem when she doesn't end up pregnant in the future? |
| Question: How Should I Tell My Husband About My Eating Disorder? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 08:21 AM PDT My husband and I have been married a few months but we've known and dated each other for 5 years. I am 33, he is 34. I want to tell him that I suffer from anorexia/bulimia(since I was 15) but I'm scared that he'll be mad or disappointed. I know I should have mentioned it before we were married but I didn't want to run him off. Now, he is starting to question my weight loss and why I never eat the dinners I fix him.How should I tell him?What should I do?What should I say? |
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| Question: When you stay at your in-laws house, is intimacy of any kind a no-go? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 08:06 AM PDT We were just away for a long weekend at my in-laws (large) vacation home. They were there, along with my BIL/SIL and their children. My husband and I were on the lone bedroom on the first floor, everyone else slept upstairs. He REFUSED my advances because of who was also within the home. Mental note to book a hotel next time, but am I really in the minority here in thinking this is okay? |
| Question: Predicament with husband's family. Husband's answer: "Learn Italian"? Posted: 23 Jun 2015 07:20 AM PDT Hey all, I married a man who is half Italian. He grew up speaking English at home, but knows Italian as a second language. His family ordinarily speaks English. But this past weekend we were at a family party and his two (single) sisters, aunts, and mother all kept speaking Italian amongst each other while I was sitting there completely not knowing what they are saying. This is not at all the first time this has happened, but usually my husband is also sitting with us when it happens so I don't mind much. This time I was alone with them at a table while he was on a "beer run." I know there's not much I can do about it, but my husband is close enough with his sisters that I don't think it would be a major issue for him to say -since Rachel doesn't speak Italian, would you mind not switching over to it while she's the only one at the table not following along?- Something like that. Because as I said, their main language day to day is English. My husband says I'm being paranoid and if it bothers me so much I should learn Italian. Any help? |
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