My husband transferred the money in the bank and hid my bags I love my bags. I feel like this is very immature of him. He was upset because I didn't take my older daughter with me when I went to cool down and go for a walk so I wouldn't fight. By the way we argued about a text he had sent his boss a flirting text message. I'm staying tonight and sleep on it but how long should I give myself to know for sure? I acted immature before but I changed I'm ready to be civil and not let him continue to make me unhappy.

Him and I share our son on a weekly basis. We were broken up for 5 months and I had to find out by seeing his wedding band and through his mother that he got married. I thought this was selfish since I don't even know the name of the person who will be watching my son. Am I being overly paranoid. I know you will say you should have communicated with him but he refuses to. I asked him mom why she didn't tell me and she was like she did not feel like it was her place. This is understandable but since my 4 yr old will be with this new person for weeks at a time, dont you think I deserved to know? It's like this was kept a big secret. Opinions and tell me if I am over reacting.

Seriously, it never ends. What the crap? Is it over? How do I explain that to the kids? Will they every trust their mother again?

Me and my husband have been married for a little over a year, but have been together for over 5 years. He is 23, I am 21. In the beginning and about up until a year ago, I surrounded my life around him in every way. Cooking, cleaning, making sure he has food to eat for every meal, buying him everything he needs. In return, he has always been there for me in my darkest times in life..dried my tears. At the same time, I have never been able to depend on him when it comes to paying bills, keeping a job, and helping me around the house.. He also does NOT communicate with me at all, its like pulling teeth with him just to get a small bit of information. For so long, he was consumed by video games. I still stuck by him. Now, I feel like I am no longer IN love with him like I was. I want to move out and start a life on my own. I have no desire to have sex with him any longer, nor do I even want to express my feelings anymore because they have gone on deaf ears so many times. I feel like I am too young to be going through this and I want to live my life peacefully. What do I do? He has improved a lot in the past year, but I feel the damage has already been done. I really feel like I am having a delayed reaction to all of this, but now it's become clear to me that I am not happy with him anymore. Is it unfair to him to leave just because I want freedom and a stable life? I feel like I need to do some soul searching, on my own. Any input/suggestions would be helpful.

so my neighbors are always fighting and they seem very unhappy in their marriage. so i thought i would take it upon myself to help them out. she even sometimes complain about her marriage to vent to me. I felt so bad so i called a divorce attorney and a marriage therapist to help sort out their problems. she got really mad at me and i think she's just taking her "anger" and aggression out on me because of how unhappy she is in her marriage. she needs help. was it wrong of me to do so? i lied and told them it was about me. i used HER name and told them the address and phone number. idk what happened after that or what's going to happen but she was really frustrated with me about it ALL i did was, want to help :(

I am on my second marriage and we both have two kids from out 1st marriages. My kids are older but their real mother abandoned them at a young age and I have raised them the best I could. While I was away on a trip my wife evesdropped and heard my son saying she was the course of a lot of the family blending problems. So she threw a fit and kicked both my kids out of the house for good. When I got home, all my friends and relatives said stay with her because the kids needed to mature being 23 & 24. But never having a mom to nurture them they were more like teenagers, lazy but never mean . So I felt violated and angry and met a woman who felt sorry for me so I had an affair. Then came the guilt and I confessed and tried to make things work. The problems are multifaceted 1.I'M Still angry at her. 2.I'm angry at myself. 3. I love her as a friend but do not find her sexually attractive. 4She is convinced she is always right and jumps to false conclusions which I struggle bringing to her attention. I am at the end of my rope. Should I continue to peruse a resolution or move on?

I have been married to my husband of 4 years for about half a year now, hes not exactly the romantic type which I have been ok with because I love him. But sometimes my self esteem gets low and I don't feel good enough for myself or him, and its harder when hes not the type to buy me gifts or flowers when Im feeling down on myself. Hes not exactly a verbal romantic either, he just says im good enough and moves on with his day and sometimes that bothers me and wish he was more understanding and romantic to help me. What can I do? I don't have the money for a counselor and am out of work for now. Thanks for any help

Ex-Wife called me yesterday asking for some work advise about her new job. I have no problem giving advise and helping people out, but the only reason I answered her questions was because I felt it the right thing to do. I just don't want to have any contact with that woman and I've expressed that to her before time and again. She made her choices and went off to do what she wanted to do, it just feels like she is taking advantage of me for wanting to be a nice guy.

My husband is currently on a 10 day trip internationally for work. We have two children. We talked on the phone last night for a good 20 minutes and about an hour later, he texted me and the gist of it was that he wanted to know my thoughts on having another child and how he really wants a girl, etc. My first thought was "is he drunk?" who sends something like that in a text after we already spoke for the night? Anyway, I am very perplexed at why he would think to *text* about such an important thing.

There must be some sort of correlation since the odds of getting divorced in today's society is really high in comparison to yesteryears when people hardly got divorced. Is this because of sexual revolution that is prevalent in today's times?

In a serious relationship, we are talking a lot about marriage lately. Pretty soon I will be faced with that life changing question. Honestly, I'm terrified. I imagine losing my individuality. I imagine losing who I am and what I want in life. I imagine losing all my independence that I cherish so much. I imagine losing the good relationship I have with my parents. I imagine losing my life as I know it, over tying the knot. In summary, I don't want my life to change, at least in those ways. Am I letting my imagination get the best of me? Or is there truth to my worries?

Been married 4 years. Wife has two grown children 25 and 28 y.o. who both work menial jobs and decided to have children they can't afford to raise. I do not work, wife pays all the bills, I am renovating our home, requiring lots of cash. Have had major fights over money. I recently found out that my wife co-signed a vehicle loan for her son. We had a MAJOR argument after she did this 3 years ago, but she went behind my back and again signed for him after his girlfriend totaled his car. He makes late payments and we end up getting notices for it. She transfers money from her private direct deposit account to her kids whenever they complain about a bill they have to pay. This is ruining our marriage. Her kids are taking $1,000s a year with no accountability. She refuses to sit down with me and go over our bills. She gets very defensive and will not discuss our finances with me. Am I being ridiculous? She makes the $, should she be able to keep it secret and give whatever she wants? I am hating her kids for being irresponsible spoiled brats. They will never learn to live within their means. I do not want us supporting her kids for the rest of our lives.

So my husband comes from work, he is already tired as he couldn't get a good night sleep...takes me to chiropractor, then driving lesson and then Walmart to buy our sons milk and some stuff to fix our ceramic tile. We come home around 10pm. He is putting garbage outside, I carry my son (who is in his car seat - I had a c section) and put him outside the door. He comes and asks me to take him inside. I'm like help me, I can't pick him up. He says u took him out of car and carried all the way to the door, why can't u take him inside. There is lots of stuff on the hallway and I'm already carrying my purse and his heavy diaper bag..I see he is wearing slippers and call him lazy to remove the slipper and pick his car seat (I tell him naggingly and smilingly)...he gets mad and starts shouting on me..I ignore him and go out to keep the last bag of garbage. He gets super mad and slaps me. He says I ignorned him...I start crying and start my rant infront of my 3 month old son while changing his diaper...he hears that and then I ask him to give car keys as I need my sons formula. He gets mad and throws the keys on me..the keys hurt me at my incision area and then I start shouting and crying and he goes to my son who was asleep and shouts in his room and my son wakes up crying and scared...i pick him up and he cried so much,..after so much difficulty I made him asleep... Then I apologized my husband and we did the garbage, fixed the ceramic tiles and slept around 2pm....who is wrong?

Im a stay at home amd my husband works 6 days a week his job is physical so i feel bad for him so i do everything. Care for four children all day. Wash dishes . Floors. House. Cut grass. Wash clothes. Make lunches. Pay bills. Do everything for him. Wash his clothes. Wash his dishes. Make his lunch. Ånd make him coffee every morning .im to the point where im sick of it. On top of all this he has a slight anger problem where he yells loudly at me and at times tells me he works his *** off. N im acting like a loser. Like a asshole. And i feel like ivehad enough. But other then this he is very nice and he gives me his check every week and only takes 30$ for himself a week. Purchased me a.car.to get a round with the kids and so on. But i cant handle how when he is upset he deals with bis anger and how he expects.me.to do it all. I find ifni left him i would be happier and the kids. But i cant bare to rip the kids of the life.the know. It breaks my hearts

So my wife said she met a fireman at the grocery store and that she s going to start having sex with him in our bed once a week or more. She said there s nothing I can do about it and that I can either accept It and stay or not and go, I have two daughters that are very young I don t want to just leave them knowing what their mom is going to be doing I am torn What should I do?

Well my best friend confided in me that she had done this a couple times with a former old flame. However, she in her own words says she didn't committed adultery because she never slept with him. She has done oral and 69 position.

My husband has a 2-year affair almost 2 years ago. I took him back, this women has been a nightmare to us court etc. she did so much harm with detail information about their affair to me over. that has the case so many wages with both of us. No, I found a look like pictures of her in my husband phone. I ask him about it. He tells me that he going to expose her and do cyber bullying as she done to us. I'm sorry not falling for that one. I told him it was over and DONE!!! I feel he still has felt for her. What else does it look like? He keeps tell NO! I'm done

Thanks