Marriage & Divorce: Question: I dont want to get married in the future? |
- Question: I dont want to get married in the future?
- Question: Should I tell my husband the truth?
- Question: So today same-sex marriage law have passed and I saw that 50 States are now legal about it. What about the rest state?
- Question: Am I the only one?
- Question: I am married for 4 years, after the first two weeks of married life there has been hardly sexual activity.less than 50 times..is it normal?
- Question: I'm being sued by a debt collector over 1800.00 dollars.?
- Question: As a Muslim , would you marry a woman who has 2 kids ?
- Question: Why does my wife keep cheating on me?
- Question: Now that homosexuals can get married?
- Question: How to prevent ex husband from letting my dad visit my kids in his custody?
- Question: How does my home state know of the existence of my marriage performed out of state?
- Question: Would you be happy and okay if you found you were a second choice girl after you got married?
- Question: How will the daughter be effected if her mother and father are to divorce (in Saudi/Middle Eastern cultures)?
- Question: Same-Sex marriage is not marriage, when will you people quit calling it that?
- Question: Would it cost more to pick out stones and a ring setting separately or buy them already together?
- Question: How old do you have to be to get engaged?
- Question: I want my own family but don't know how to have one and why am i being treated as an outcast because of my situation?
- Question: My wife keeps putting my check into her/our bank account but she's the only one with the card and its almost gone when I go withdraw some.?
- Question: What qualifies as a small penis for you personally?
- Question: What are the reasons some people don't want gay marriage?
- Question: Im scared that my father will leave my mother...?
- Question: Why are people so exited that Gay marriage is legal?
- Question: In Texas, how do we go about changing a child's surname after being ordered to do so in a court order?
- Question: Arguing over financial arrangements?
- Question: My wife is very emotional, how to deal with it?
- Question: Is same sex marriage legal now in the U.S?
- Question: Is it Still Ok to Aplogize to my Ex?
- Question: Why after you get married does making out stop ? we havet only been married 3 years?
- Question: How do I tell my elderly, conservative, Christian parents, who have been married for 64 years that I am getting divorced?
- Question: I'm battling weight issues I feel like if I don't lose weight I'm never going to Get married and have kids but that's the sane part of it!?
- Question: My 29-year-old daughter says love is a "waste of time". Should I be worried?
- Question: Should husbands give their wives all their passwords and account information?
- Question: Have you felt like this before?
- Question: What would it make me if I have sex with this 70 married guy?
- Question: How do I continue to be intimate and have sex with husband when his Parkinson s has progressed?
- Question: One the News, they said it was good for a marriage if the couple slept in two separate beds. What are your thoughts on that?
- Question: My mother in law hates me , help?
- Question: My husband's ex-girlfriend keeps stalking him at his job and he keeps telling her to get lost, but she doesn't listen. What should he do?
- Question: When you go through a divorce what happens to thd kids?
- Question: Partner sending cards to ex wife.?
- Question: How to get through a divorce?
- Question: Is my husband wrong for abandoning his own wife n kids for Father s Day weekend?
- Question: Suggestions on what to do as a family on our first anniversary?
- Question: Am I a horrible wife and mother?
- Question: How do you get married?
- Question: What's involved in a divorce?
- Question: Would you leave your spouse if he/she became paralyzed?
- Question: Did marriage work out the way you envisioned it would?
- Question: I'm feeling hurt by wife emotionally, is it me? I need opinions as am not feeling well about this.?
- Question: Can my husband's mistress get him in trouble in the Military?
- Question: My wife insulted me with my efforts to join USANA, told her that im doing this for us, for our future in order to succeed,?
- Question: Why do people get fat after they get married? Then complain their mate no longer compliments them?
- Question: My husband William left me 2 months ago is he coming home if so when?
- Question: Am I crazy to think she is cheating?
- Question: Gay marriage is a done deal, it's solid now. How do you feel about this? Opinions?
- Question: My marriage has come to an end and I feel depressed?
- Question: I feel like my husband is jealous of me being the breadwinner?
- Question: Ex husband refusing hotel?
- Question: Could i possibly get them back?
- Question: Is marriage pointless nowadays?
| Question: I dont want to get married in the future? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 09:36 PM PDT Im still 17 no boyfriend and i already planned about my future. After i graduate i want to tour around the world, improving my art skills, to have a fine job, to help other people who's in need. My mom is so happy about my plans to my future self but when i said i want to be single forever my mom disagreed she really wants me to get married she said "Its hard to be alone, so you really need someone you can grow old with". Does getting married is really necessary? I dont have a problem being alone i already can handle myself since i was young. But seriously i love being alone i can concentrate on what im doing. Sorry for my english mistakes. |
| Question: Should I tell my husband the truth? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 09:17 PM PDT I didn't marry my husband because I loved him. To be honest in the beginning I didn't really care about him. I thought he'd be like every other man I'd been with abusive and cruel but I wanted a better life for my daughter. To my surprise he was nicer to me than anyone ever had been. I know I should probably keep my my shut but I feel like after being with him for ten years I owe him the truth. The truth is I've lied about a lot of things to him. I told him I was twenty when I met I was really eighteen. I told him I was a high school graduate but I'm a drop out I dropped out when I was 15 to raise my daughter. I told him I was raised in the foster system and never knew my parents the truth is my Dad is an abusive alcoholic and my mom abandoned me when I was seven. I know he'll probably divorce me but including my daughter we have four children now and it's not fair to any of them I keep lying. I mean I tell my children to be honest but how can I say that if I built my marriage on a lie? |
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| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 09:15 PM PDT Am I the only one that thinks that gay marriage should not be allowed in 50 states. It just sounds wrong to get married to the same sex. I don't care if it's for love ****. I don't agree who else is with me. I hate gay people. Personal opinion. F u c k you gay people. |
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| Question: I'm being sued by a debt collector over 1800.00 dollars.? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 08:49 PM PDT I'm a stay at home mom with my two children, a full time college student, and live with my fiance (father of my 3 mo. old daughter). His pay check is what we live off of. which is around 1600-1800 a month which leaves us very little money to get by for the remainder of the month after bills. I've been legally married for 5 years but we've been separated for 4 years. I don't know my husbands address or phone number and he refuses to speak with me on facebook. He doesn't pay child support for my 3 year old and I have failed at filing for divorce. Is there anyway to get this turned around so they make him pay it? I've done everything for him when it came to helping him get his money from the army when we separated without asking for anything, He won't bother answering a question for me so I can file for divorce or help with anything then the way I see it he kind owes me. |
| Question: As a Muslim , would you marry a woman who has 2 kids ? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 08:49 PM PDT |
| Question: Why does my wife keep cheating on me? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 08:39 PM PDT I love her SO much, but my job keeps me away from home for much of the year. There is nothing I can do about that. I have never cheated on her, but she has cheated on me many times. Why the imbalance? Thank you |
| Question: Now that homosexuals can get married? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 08:33 PM PDT Can i marry a dead person? Can i marry my pets? Can i marry siblings? can i marry more then 3 people? can i marry a child? can i marry my grass? can i marry my house? |
| Question: How to prevent ex husband from letting my dad visit my kids in his custody? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 08:31 PM PDT Long story short: Bitter ex towards me My father and I argue because of how he treats my children, especially my middle child. (screams at them like dogs (calls them really mean names) and hits the middle one, although he doesnt beat him) It got really bad that I stopped letting my children see him. They don't care for him either. My bitter ex found out about this and now he calls him to see our children just to spite me I'm sure. What can I do? I live in Texas. |
| Question: How does my home state know of the existence of my marriage performed out of state? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 08:30 PM PDT We were married in June in Minnesota because our home state (Michigan) did not allow us to marry. At that time Michigan said we were single. Now with the Supreme Court's momentous ruling how does Michigan know we are married? |
| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 08:29 PM PDT couple of months before the marriage, apparently there was another girl my husband had a relationship with they broke up but few months before my marriage he asked her back.. she didnt want to get back |
| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 08:25 PM PDT Long story short, my husband had divorced his wife 3x making it an irrevocible divorce in Islam. First he divorced her some years ago by declaring it 2x in one sitting and again he had divorced her by declaring divorce 3x in one sitting (for a total of 5x)plus he had made it clear he was divorcing her in the US by obtaining a divorce eventually stopping it. Needless to say he left me going to the woman he divorced cause he has 3 children with her and they need him...and how he is not divocred from her because some Imam told him that he has only been divrced from her2x. In all my readings I find this to be false and that he is divorced from her. He continues to tell me he is divorcing her and he will be with me, but he's come up with the excuse of the children again saying what will happen to them. His newest excuse happens to be howhe has to think of his daughter he has there with her cause if he leave then she won't be able to find anyone who will marry her because she is from a broken family and no one wants that. I don't get it...is it better to stay in a marriage where you are treated badly and display that for the kids to think is normal and live in sin...or is it better to get out and give the kids happy homes on both sides. Someone, Brothers or Sisters, please help me understand because I am new to Islam and I don't understand how the culture over there works either as I have been raised in the US. Thank you PS we are married and have children together as well |
| Question: Same-Sex marriage is not marriage, when will you people quit calling it that? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 08:21 PM PDT Calling something marriage does not make it marriage. Marriage has always been a covenant between a man and a woman which is by its nature ordered toward the procreation and education of children and the unity and wellbeing of the spouses. The promoters of same-sex "marriage" propose something entirely different. They propose the union between two men or two women. This denies the self-evident biological, physiological, and psychological differences between men and women which find their complementarity in marriage. It also denies the specific primary purpose of marriage: the perpetuation of the human race and the raising of children. Two entirely different things cannot be considered the same thing. |
| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 08:14 PM PDT I've been looking at rose gold, 14 or 18 carat, one round untreated peach or salmon morganite around 6mm, and two round opal stones around 4mm to go on either side of the morganite. I came up with this idea after researching gems and stones and found one that fits my description on Gemporia. The one on stones on the ring on Gemporia are a little large and I'd like a more delicate setting. How much more might it cost to pick out my own stones and setting separately? Can this be done online securely and reliably? I know there's rock tumbling stores around; could they or a jeweler help me find what I'm looking for even if they don't have it on hand? |
| Question: How old do you have to be to get engaged? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 08:13 PM PDT I was just curious as to what the legal age in Quebec was to get engaged. I know the age to get married (16). But, surely, you can get engaged before then, right? |
| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 08:07 PM PDT Am a 48 year old single man and i've been trying to find a wife since 1991. A long time ago when i was 21 i started college. I moved out of my parents house at 23 with a part time job to do with college. I finished at 28 with my masters in electrical engineering. From my early 20s to early 30s i was very enthusiastic about meeting women but they always reject me, No matter how many times i got rejected i always think it was their loss and felt like i was better than most people because i had a big future ahead of me and i love being successful at everything i do. This went on and on as time went by until i was in my mid to late 30s. I realized I've never been kissed or even been in a relationship. Plus my family and relatives were worried about my marital life because they never saw me introduce any woman to my family members and relatives. The crazy thing is i never stopped trying to talk to women when i was in my 20s till early 30s. I have 2 sisters and 3 brothers and they are all married. Am the oldest child that's never been married in my family at the age of 48. My father's side of the family are starting to see me differently even though they know me for years. My friends have abandoned me cause they find my situation embarrassing. When my female co workers heard am not engaged or married, they started to avoid me even more than they use to before. I don't see anything wrong with me. Everyone is treating me like an outcast because of my situation. Why? |
| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 07:54 PM PDT She forges my name. I've been considering divorce and moving out before this happened.e only makes half what I make and is on summer vacation but doesn't do anything around the house unless I threaten to leave and I hate doing that. She also doesn't look for a better job. She hardly makes 12k a year. She did it for the third time yesterday and I told her not to two weeks ago. I told her I'd be mad if she did. I am. I don't know what to do other than open another bank account and do direct deposit. I don't want to take her to court but she has no limits but I do when it comes to our(her) money lol. What should I do? We have a 4 year old son and I would hate to divorce and do that to him but sometimes it's too much. She cheated on me and was talking a guy on the phone while I was at work for 6 months before I found out. I don't want to miss my son everyday but I don't want this. I can't trust a word she says. What do I do? I also have no family in state(they live halfway across the country) and don't have a vehicle that actually belongs to me so if we divorce she could take everything from me because the titles are in her name on all two cars and I'd be walking to work and sleeping in a sleeping bag in a trash apartment somewhere, or worse, homeless with child support payments due. I wouldn't mind being with her but she's not going to change her nasty habits. I can't buy anything super special on my birthday but she can blow 400-500 on a random weekend Comic-Con party. |
| Question: What qualifies as a small penis for you personally? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 07:53 PM PDT I don't care about what is medically described as a small penis, I mean what do you actually think constitutes a small one? Anything under 5 inches? 5.5? 6? |
| Question: What are the reasons some people don't want gay marriage? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 07:43 PM PDT I was heard the reasons behind pro-marriage but non anti-marrige |
| Question: Im scared that my father will leave my mother...? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 07:38 PM PDT My mom and dad recently got engaged after an on and off relationship of 15 years ( I was born out of wedlock but I didn't meet my father until I was 13) My mom was diagnosed with MS (multiple sclerosis) yestersay and she won't tell my dad because she fears that he would leave her like in the past when she told him she was pregnant with me.. My dad's going to eventually find out but I feel like he'll run off again with another woman because he doesn't want to carry our burden... What should we do...??? I don't want my mom to suffer |
| Question: Why are people so exited that Gay marriage is legal? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 07:05 PM PDT By allowing homosexuals to marry, it is destroying the holiness of marrige. Marriage was intended for one man and one woman. And where will the human race draw the line? What is next? Will people be able to marry their brother or sister? Their own mother? Marrying our own gender is wrong on so many levels and America is celebrating? This nation is going to hell. How dare we put 'in God we trust' on our currency. |
| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 06:58 PM PDT I have a 7 year old daughter who I finally get to spend time with after taking her mother to court for many years. In this new order, I have extended visitations and I'm also a joint managing conservator now. :) The order states that I must change my child's surname. Although I am excited for this change, how do I go about doing so? Should I leave the mothers surname and hyphenate mine on or what? I'm lost... Thank you, Everyone! |
| Question: Arguing over financial arrangements? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 06:43 PM PDT I'm 32 and she is 29. I'm Aussie and she is Chinese. We have been married for four years. We have been renting for the 4 years to now. Her parents used their life savings to contribute to a 2 bedroom property off the plan. It will be built within 12 months as building has already commenced. Prior to marriage she said that she needed to help use her life savings from before she met me to secure a home for her parents in their hometown back in China. Since coming to Australia 4 years ago, she has earned enough to cooperate with her friend to secure a second apartment - a studio. I haven't contributed to the deposits because my wages cover all the other bills and expenses such as car loan, credit card, rent, health insurance etc. This is fine but the real argument has been over the 2 bedroom apartment which will be built first. Both properties are in my name at the moment. That way my first home buyers grant was used. Now she wants to sign over the 2 bedroom apartment to her parents' name and she has point blanl told me that I never contributed to it so why should I have access to it in a divorce... I don't like the way this is heading. Because she doesn't understand that her income isn't regular enough to support maintaining the bills for the property like insurance and strata etc. And I argue that I shouldn't contribute anything at all to that property if it is in her parents' name. I don't know what to do. I planned on getting a lawyer to find the contracts for me so I have copies in my name in case she tries to copy my signature. |
| Question: My wife is very emotional, how to deal with it? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 06:25 PM PDT Im gone for 2 months. She says she misses me all the time and always thinking about it. She gets on me and asks me if I miss her and I say I do and she always tells me I dont seem like I miss her as much as she misses me. This is starting to irritate me. I constantly to tell her to find a hobby, go to the gym or something to keep her mind occupied while Im away. Still seems nothing has changed. There is nothing in my power I can change in the duration Im gone since its due to work. So anyone with suggestions on how to deal with a emotional wife? |
| Question: Is same sex marriage legal now in the U.S? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 06:07 PM PDT |
| Question: Is it Still Ok to Aplogize to my Ex? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 06:05 PM PDT he used to be my ex then a friend but i messed up last year and been a year..is it stil ok to say im sorry even he has a gf? if i say im not askin for friendship or nothin since i was horrible? |
| Question: Why after you get married does making out stop ? we havet only been married 3 years? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 05:55 PM PDT |
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| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 05:49 PM PDT I want to get married but only stay married for like 5 yrs and have 2 kids then Divorce and go out and party and make up for not being able to have fun when i was younger then find another guy and get married for Love! I'm have issues ! |
| Question: My 29-year-old daughter says love is a "waste of time". Should I be worried? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 05:49 PM PDT She claims relationships are a "waste of time" and would prevent her from having the career she wanted. she says she isn't "domestic" (which she isn't. She never cooks, has no furniture, even though her house is always clean) and no man would put up with her. She says she loves being "free" and she makes too much money to "need" a husband. She is very successful in her career, makes $70,000 a year, is slim and reasonable attractive. She says she's never been involved with a man (or woman, for that matter ever) and has no interest in dating. Her dad and I are married to eachother and I don't understand why she thinks she cant have love and a career too. |
| Question: Should husbands give their wives all their passwords and account information? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 05:49 PM PDT |
| Question: Have you felt like this before? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 05:39 PM PDT There's this woman (21, I'm 22) & she has everything a guy would want. She has a funny & great personality. Blonde hair & has a career & stable (but has collage debt) & now she's realy interested in me & things I'm all that & always has a smile when she sees me. Even though I know she can make me happy, I just can't see myself with her & it's not just because a lot of men are realy head over heels over her & I feel she can find a better guy then me, but I just can't see a future with her in a million years.... Why do I feel this way & have you ever felt this before??? Thanks |
| Question: What would it make me if I have sex with this 70 married guy? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 05:34 PM PDT I'm 34, and he says he's looking for somebody, because he's not getting any at home. |
| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 04:54 PM PDT I love him, but our roles have changed. I have worked 8 years since he couldn t anymore, he freezes up... Even though I think his drive has been ridiculous due to side effects from meds. I just struggle because it isn t the same and I don t feel attracted as I did. I ve got no physical problem but the mental emotional is what s getting me. |
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| Question: My mother in law hates me , help? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 04:32 PM PDT I went through a depression phase where I flirted with other women besides my wife (nothing happened, it was just flirting). Well my mother in law found out, told my wife, and she and I separated for a couple weeks well we made up. I m going through therapy for my depression , and my wife and I are really happy now and even trying to have a child. But there s one problem. My mother in law hates me, and I mean really hates me. She won t come over if I m here, she even refused to come to my wife s birthday on July 4th. I know it s hurting my wife but there doesn t seem to be anything I can do, any suggestions ? |
| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 04:00 PM PDT He already called the sheriff and had her escorted off the property. Do not suggest that my husband is having an affair because I know he's not. Thanks! |
| Question: When you go through a divorce what happens to thd kids? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 03:32 PM PDT |
| Question: Partner sending cards to ex wife.? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 03:18 PM PDT I have recently found out my partner for the last 10 years of our relationship has been sending a card to his ex wife on wedding anniversary. Not only this he's sent cards saying thank you for the times they had and things like that. Any advice. |
| Question: How to get through a divorce? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 03:14 PM PDT |
| Question: Is my husband wrong for abandoning his own wife n kids for Father s Day weekend? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 03:05 PM PDT My husband is very insecure and always accusing me of cheating on him while he s away at work , Father s day weekend after starting fights n throwing my ex boyfriend in my face for the 100th time , he starts a fight over as Facebook post and ask did my ex treat me better than him , well since he kept asking I told him the truth , Yes! So he blocks me off his Facebook. Page ,say fick you ,if he treated u so much better go be with him , packs his bags and leaves to a hotel room for two days no call or text , spends all of our bio and food money , them returns the day of Fathers day , upset that I didn t cook him a fathers day dinner . is he wrong or am I ? Thus really hurts , I feel he cheated on me as well n now all of our bills are turned off . |
| Question: Suggestions on what to do as a family on our first anniversary? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 03:01 PM PDT My husband is disabled and I have a 22 year old special needs daughter our anniversary is August 1st I can stay home have a nice quite family dinner. I have mentioned going somewhere but can t seem to get it together and then money I am sure not into going out with my sister in law and husband to a show and dinner I am not sure my sister will watch my daughter. If we do go out of town we would take my daughter what are some good places for both of sense they are disabled I live in Roanoke Va answers ASAP |
| Question: Am I a horrible wife and mother? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 02:42 PM PDT I was abused growing up, I dropped out of high school, I made money by selling my body, stealing, picking pockets, I had my oldest daughter when I was 15 (which is why I did what I did) I never was able to hold down a job I don't know why but I'm not good at handling people not with out a drink. I stutter, cant look people in the eye, I flinch when someone touches me, I have mini panic attacks and on my worse days. I was using my husband in the beginning I saw this well off guy and found out what he liked what he didn't. I became the kind of girl he was into I made up some sob story about a dead boyfriend. I sound horrible but what was I supposed to do? I couldn't just abandon my daughter to the system and I couldn't let her grow up with a mom that danced on a pole and did porn(started as soon as I turned 18). It's funny there was a time when I didn't even care about my husband I just saw him as a means to an end. Now his opinion means everything to me. I worry about hurting him and I don't think he could love the real me. I'm not a girly girl I'm a tom boy I am bisexual. I'm afraid to trust things will work out and will do whatever it takes to make sure they do work out. I tell my daughter not to do things like drink, or do drugs but I have secretly struggled with both My husband infuriates me he's so good it's unbelievable there is literally nothing wrong with him. The one good guy I find and he has every reason to leave me. |
| Question: How do you get married? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 02:32 PM PDT I've been trying to have a formal wedding for years but keep getting laid off at jobs. So I haven't even had money for an engagement ring. Now I have 2 kids and feel like I should get married and screw the formal wedding. How does someone do that? All the guides on the internet are chock full of laws and regulations. I'm no accountant when it comes to reading boring things. How do I simply get married? Minus the convincing her part of it. That's something I can easily do. |
| Question: What's involved in a divorce? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 02:31 PM PDT ok I'm seeing a woman as friends only and we are going to be more serious but I cannot do that morally until I get a divorce. I've been separated from my wife for a year and it's not going to work out. I wanted to try, advised of counseling and she is too good for that. She moved out and seems to be doing just great I guess. What is involved in divorce filing one? The costs? Can I sign the decree, send it to my wife with a self addressed envelope to a county clerk or does it have to go through a lawyer? |
| Question: Would you leave your spouse if he/she became paralyzed? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 02:24 PM PDT This lady at work is 68 and her husband had a fall and broke something and now he's paralyzed. She plans on leaving him. Ah, the joys of marriage Part of her reason is he only brings in $800 a month SS. She has a government retirement and a full time job at SAMS. They have not paid their house off yet. She said he can keep his little $800 and be on his way |
| Question: Did marriage work out the way you envisioned it would? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 01:50 PM PDT |
| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 01:24 PM PDT I'm in my 40s with two children from previous marriage in college. I'm a professional business man. I'm described as humble, easy going, loving, and caring. I have awesome relationship with my kids. I met someone after my divorced and decided to move in with them. I had her and her daughter (6 years) old move into my house. When I met person she was with bad credit, and some other issues, minor which have to even be with the law. They surpassed that and we are in a realtionship, problem is that whenever i speak up or disagree with her, she becomes quiet, does not want to address the matter and if I raise my voice(which I shouldn't) she gets angry for day and weeks. We are at the point where she has withheld affection, communication, sex, for the last 4 months. I invited her on a get away weekend to the beach and hotel and she said she was hurt by something i said a week prior, when i reach to her for affection, sex, etc she says she can't cause she is hurt. When i try to talk to her about anything i may be feeling she discards or becomes cold, then at times i may speak up or get loud (which i apologize after) cause she will not talk at all so this hurts me. I felt I offered her a house, love her daugher as my own, want marriage, when she thinks marriage is just a piece of paper, am always initiaing, so now without the love, affection, nice words form her, I feel hurt and unloved. Is it me? |
| Question: Can my husband's mistress get him in trouble in the Military? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 01:22 PM PDT My husband cheated on me when he was in San Diego. He said that he was sorry and he wants to make things right this time. People may call me stupid but he is my husband and I will try to make things work as much as I can. For me, the marriage is still worth saving and I am willing to do everything I can to the best of my abilities to make this work. However, I dont think that I can forgive the mistress. I want to feel bad for her, but I really cant. I told my husband that I wont do anything and put too much effort on her. I wont seek revenge because I know that Karma will make its own way. But I told him that when I see her, I cant promise I wont say anything. (I hope some women will understand) My husband said that he'll get in trouble if she tells his command that she became a mistress. So I wanna know, if the mistress tells the command about my husbands infidelity, will he get in trouble still? I mean IM NOT OKAY with the whole situation obviously. BUT at the same time, im more mad at her because she came onto him. Yes, he had a choice, BUT she wanted more. She actually thinks that she will replace me, even after my husband told her that he wont leave me. I have the text messages, and I believe that he made it clear that it was nothing but physical. Please let me know. |
| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 01:15 PM PDT but she yelled at me saying.. "take all your success with you", then i left the house to avoid fighting, went to my moms house, told her that il get online to read and learn more about USANA which i did, but i overstayed, i left at around 8pm and i did not go home until past 12 midnight, then she texted me to come home already and i replied that "il go home once im done" i didnt want to go home yet because once i see her we will just fight again.. then she started talking stuff thru txt and we brought back again old issues in the past and after throwing a lot of words to each other i told her that i am no longer happy with her. i love her of course but how can two people stay with each other if they are unhappy? she told me she'll keep he kids, we agreed that they will stay in the house and that il move out. been married for 6 years. i told her we'll seek help from a marriage councelor but she said no. she said we should be the one to decide for ourselves. my wife doesnt trust me ever since she found out that i have a duaghter before our marriage, she always use it against me. i never cheated on my wife but she's always possesive, she doesnt want me to go anywhere without her, she wanna be with me all the time as she thinks il play around if she's not around. need help please.. am i doing the right thing? i pity my 2 little boys. what shall i do? Today, my 6 years of marriage ends. Me and my wife agreed that we no are longer with each other. whatever seems to be important to me is not to her and vice versa. i hope i m doing the right thing. god help us |
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| Question: My husband William left me 2 months ago is he coming home if so when? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 12:57 PM PDT |
| Question: Am I crazy to think she is cheating? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 12:06 PM PDT I joined the military service.Finished training and my family (wife and two kids) moved to are first location. Shortly she went back home. Separated for nearly a year and a half. During that time I was being told by family and friends they had seen her with other people. She denied but later kids would bust her out on lieing. Resulted in her telling me she was afraid to tell me cause I would be mad. I was Months past then I find out she overdosed. Then find out she is pregnant cause she claims she was raped. I took her back so I could have my kids and she moved back in with me. I deployed and came back. I find out that she was helping my neighbor through a divorce. He is the one who told me thanks for letting me talk to her and everything. But I didn't know about it..... Months later she says she is going to the store and doesn't return till really late. I find out she went downtown. Downtown is a really rough area where a lot of crime happens. I think find on her phone records the number to another guy. She claims he is a tattoo artist who made a deal with her to promote his business for a free tattoo. However, why did she have his personal cell and they are calling each other...,? I recent found out my wife has been helping a friend cheat. She admitted she was doing it behind my back. She would tell me she was going to the pool. But would go to this guys place who is with her cheating friend. Supposedly. Nothing adds up she says I'm the bad guy. What do you think? |
| Question: Gay marriage is a done deal, it's solid now. How do you feel about this? Opinions? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 12:06 PM PDT |
| Question: My marriage has come to an end and I feel depressed? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 11:46 AM PDT I have been married to a woman, whom I loved very much, since two years. We were both twenty years old at the time. Despite all the good things that I had done for her, including partial payment of her university fee, maintanence etc, through my internship salary, she had perceived me only in a belittling and disparaging way. I was never really loved but used and this is the worst kind of abuse that a marriage can throw on anybody. She now thinks that since she has a medical degree, and I have an English degree, I am not worthy of her. Tiny arguments imploded to form big ones that not only made me lose my confidence, but also my life. It is then I found another woman, a colleague, who solaced me and helped me regain my vitality back. I have become engrossed by her and so has she. Would you consider me a sinner, cheater, or a cynic if I go ahead with what my heart tells--which is to start a new life with my colleague and end my marriage? |
| Question: I feel like my husband is jealous of me being the breadwinner? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 11:29 AM PDT I spent 6 years as a SAHM, during which time my husband bounced between jobs (restaurants, roofing factories) to support our family of 5. I awill be the FIRST to admit, he was a great provider and I never took him for granted. Fast forward---he begins getting his checks garnished and a lien is put on his bank account. So, I go out and get a job. now, I have my bachelor's and was able to become gainfully employed with a company making TRIPLE what his income was. He continued working at he factory, but recently quit---due to him being too tired. (He worked graveyard) Since beginning my job last year, I was able to get approved for mortgage and we purchased a house (that only is in my name due to his financial issues) and as of recently, bought a new family vehicle. (again in my name) I do NOT rub anything in his face, but have been making decisions to propel our family forward. Yet, he has become sullen, moody and easily agitated. especially, whenever I mention him aspiring for a career. He uses the excuse of not having a college degree---to say, he can't get but certain types of work...or attempts to pursue a music career. I feel resented by him, as if I expect too much or that I am doing too much in the way of being the "leader" of our family. But I don't know what he expects. Even as full-time dad, he doesn't clean, or cook. And I am still expected to come home and do all of this. I am starting to find myself repelled by his disposition. * Just to be fair--he DOES do some chores. He washes our sons clothes and he loads dishwasher. But outside of that---I almost always have to ask him or create a "hunnie To-do" list. I just want him to be fully invested if he's home and a self-starter. And to do a thorough job of cleaning bathrooms, sweeping/mopping, mow lawn and cooking sometimes. It feels like he does the bare minimum to get by. |
| Question: Ex husband refusing hotel? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 10:43 AM PDT Me and my ex are amicable we share a 18 month old daughter , he lives out of state and stays with me when he visits his child . However he now has a new gf and I'm in a new relationship I have asked him to start using a hotel for visits as it's now inappropriate as we have both moved on. , he says he can't afford it, am I supposed to break up my relationship over this , unsure what to do as he's making me feel guilty if he can't make the agreed visits |
| Question: Could i possibly get them back? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 10:33 AM PDT A few years back i left my abusive husband of 4 years with my children, leaving everything i had with him, including the pictures of my children. i only have a handful of them out of the hundreds that i believe are still in his possession. Could a court enforce that he return at least half of those pictures back or will i have to just cut my losses since he refuses to compromise? |
| Question: Is marriage pointless nowadays? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 10:25 AM PDT Divorce rate is so high, is it even worth the risk or trouble? |
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