I live with this man he is my husband we have a child together he has bi polar very bad he breaks stuff in my house like earlier he broke my coffee table my laptop and crushed all my candles. I tried to give him a kiss earlier because I'm a very forgiving person and he bit me on the shoulder. I can't leave he tells me I can go but I have to leave my daughter and I'm scared. I'm scared of taking her because I know he will either hurt me or him and his mom with gang together and get her taken from me. He makes me feel bad because he can't so nothing he has anti anxiety and can't go no where or talk to anyone on the phone or nothing like that but I don't know how much longer I can live my life like this. What should I do .

My wedding band is solid white gold. My husband is European and I guess that is common woman to wear a solid band there...however I want one with diamonds...is it disrepectful to buy one for myself...my husband doesnt understand my point of view.

So I got engaged about a month ago and 2 days ago I went to my lawyer and had him write up a prenup stating that since she will be a stay at home wife and not contribute to my career or home (which I already own and have fully furnished) in the case that she seeks a divorce she gets nothing from my home and $0 from me except if the reason for her seeking a divorce is me cheating then she gets 5% of the amount that I make throughout the time married to her if it is me seeking the divorce then she gets 3% except if the reason that I ask for divorce is because she is cheating and I have solid proof then she will pay me back 75% of the approximated amount that I waste on her such as food, clothing, rent, travel, etc... during our marriage. In the case that a child is conceived she cannot put me on child support I will voluntarily provide for the child however no money will be given directly to her anything that my child needs will be bought personally by me and given to my child that way she cannot use any of the money intended for my child on herself. It's a pretty simple prenup but when I presented it to her she got upset and offended stating that I never said anything about a prenup before getting engaged I explained that it was pretty obvious that I would since she does not want to work I would not risk losing half or more of my fortune to her if she wanted to get divorced I see no reason to get offended and neither does my lawyer, why is that females get offended

And does he masturbate? Does it make yiu upset? Should it make us upset??

So this lady that lives in my apartment complex is married. I finally got the chance to talk to her she was very shy and nervous the whole time we talked. She says she has a husband but I never see, or hear a man she is always gone a lot so I'm assuming she is going to see him, but why do they not live together? Is she going through a divorce? Keep in mind she is a very shy person so I really don't get to ask her these questions she comes outside and runs to the car and drives away. I was thinking if it was okay to put some flowers on her balcony? I never get the chance to really talk to her I did not want it to seem forward should I talk to her more before I start sending gifts? Just wondering

A couple that my husband and I are friends with asked me to host a get together at my home for a visit with them and another couple. It was requested since I live midway between the location of both couples. I was okay with that. Both couples agreed that they would help with bringing some food.As the date approached I called one of the couples and discovered that they had already discussed what they and the other couple would bring.I was a little taken back by the fact that neither couple contacted me first as to what I would like them to bring but just decided on their own what they would bring. Although helpful I though this was inconsiderate . I didn't want to cause an issue and worked around this but would like to know what others think.

Long story short: started talking to a guy online and it felt like instant chemistry. he was honest with me that his 3 year relationship just ended in early May. we talked for 2.5 weeks, every day. then i asked him if talking to me so much was helping him heal or if it was distracting. he said his gut told him that we need to take a break from talking, and when he's ready, he'll come back. 3 days of silence later, he texts me. we start talking... and again, i ask him if he's ready, namely because 3 days before he wasn't. he said he wants to meet me. we set up a date for a week later. fast forward to now, and we've gone on 4 amazing dates. The chemistry is amazing, we have so much in common, and things seem to be going well. He said he wanted to take a day off work so we could go on a day trip together two weeks from now. I can't seem to shake the feeling that I might be his rebound... how can I know?! he's now 2 months post-break up. He did take the day off and we have the trip scheduled for early July.

My boyfriend who i have three kids with of nine years does not sleep in the bed with me. We use to sleep together but i would kick him out the bed because he would always pull the covers at night....but thats been awhile and its been sometime since we slept together lately. His been moody and when i ask him to sleep with me he refuse then he will remind me of when i didnt want to sleep with him i think something is up we still do have sex but somethings up

My step daughter is married with a baby on the way. We were told by the support kids people that he still would have to continue to pay child support for the nexted 18 years for compounded support and that it would do no good to talk to an attorney. His ex wife and estranged daughter is threatening to have him arrested if he doesnt continue to pay. Can they do that and does he still have to pay if she disnt go through the state?

My wife doesn't feel very safe right now. She's been hearing about 2 bad guys who escaped from a prison in New York now no one knows where they are. Now they're saying there might be a serial killer here in south eastern Ohio where were from. She just read online that at least 6 women with kids have been gone missing and ending up dead in the last 14 months. She just found out she's pregnant she wants to post it online to tell her friends but she's scared the killer might find us. We live out on a country road in the middle of no where in the woods where anyone could show up out here. She hasn't been able to sleep well the last few nights because of this. I leave the tv on for her she's still scared and yes we do have a night light but she's still afraid and can't sleep. The killers name hasn't been released yet he might be working with the guys that escaped from New York we don't know but New York isn't far from Ohio about 9 or 10 hours. She hasn't been sleeping at all the last few nights. She said she also has nightmares too about them finding us. She's worried about her walking in our room and seeing them through the window and she's worried about getting phone calls from them and she's worried about them coming in and stabbing us while we're sleeping. She can't sleep at all. How can I help her feel better ?

I'm dating this 38 year old separated man and he cheated on me with a prostitute I looked through his phone and found out he's been messaging all these escort girls and going on escort sites I'm mortified and yes I know our age difference is crazy but I'm so mad I want to message his wife so she can use our affair against him in court and I want to go to the police so they can arrest him I don't give a **** about ruining his life tbh he hurt me and I will end his ******* life btw I'm not a troll I even have screenshots of him messaging the escorts

At work we are allowed to wear shorts. I am a bit older and I really don't think I have the greatest legs... but some men have told me I do...I work at a home improvement store,, which a lot of men buy things... but why do other women have to make comments to me like. out of the blue.. my (meaning their) legs look great in heels or another girl as we are just standing keeps telling me to look at her legs that it has a muscle towards the ankle.. and she said her legs look great and she looks good for her age. IF I wanted to compliment her I would, but I don't I only do if I think something looks good. I am not being mean just truthful.. so why are women like this.

His son said to his dad that if his dad doesnt give him $300 or $400 a month then he is going to cut his relationship with his dad and will never talk to him again. His ex who agreed to have alimony terminated threatening to go back to court and say she never agreed and she didnt know what she was signing. Supreme court already had it so ordered and i have a recorded msg from her saying she doesnt want anymore money from him. She always leaving harassment message to him all the time. His son dared to ask him to tell me to ask my father to send him money monthly. He works full time and spends money on his band without saving a dime. He only calls his dad when he needs money or help. He turned down all the efforts his dad made to trying to see him when his son doesnt need his dad. We are going through financial crisis and barely making our needs met. My husband has severe depression which prevent him from getting a job and his therapist said my husband is not ready to go back to work force. My husband is on heavy anxiety and depression medication everyday. I love my husband but All this BS is putting down to my throat. I have no idea what i could do. Any idea? His son is 19 year old. He is not going to school full time. He works full time but spend all his monies on his band and doesnt save a dime.

some middle-aged woman Next-door neighbor with three teenage kids is very inappropriate when it comes to "Me and my Husband" every time my husband walks are Chihuahua dog she's always making long conversations making him uncomfortable to where he has two escape through the door and shut it in her face as she still talking.she is constantly leaving weird items and worn out shoes,food by the front door. It's been happening since she moved in 2months ago now we do live in Apt complex and I was wondering would it be mean if I told the manager that she was leaving all kinds of things at my door? 😤😤😷 The situation is getting annoying and I don't want to disrespect my elders. Because my mom has taught me better than that but sometimes man I just want to pop her in the head but I will be wrong so I'm reaching out to see what I should do?

No es la primera vez, el no sospecha nada pero no es justo para el y si el se llegara a enterar le rompería su corazón en pedazos, el es un excelente hombre y no se merece lo que le estoy haciendo, pero es algo que no puedo evitar, me gusta sentirme querida y deseada por alguien! Mi esposo por el trabajo no tiene tiempo ni ganas de nada de nada! El sabia cuando nos conocimos que yo era activa sexual mente y eso le gustaba mucho, pero de un tiempo para ya nada mas es un rapidito a la semana o aveces cada dos semanas, aparte es una persona frío, sin embargo el otro hombre es muy cariñoso y detallista algo k mi esposo jamas va hacer! Aunque me deje de mi esposo no significa k voy a ir volando a los brazos del otro. Ya ni se lo que quiero.

My husband is a good person that did a bad thing. We were at a point where we we're both arguing a lot in our marriage. I just assumed that we were in a rough patch. We had been together almost 3 years. I was stressed because I never got out and didn't know anyone where we had moved and he was stressed about work and bills. I had finally gotten a job. He said it would be good for us to have extra money and I was happy I would be out of the house. After my first day at work, I come to his "cousins" house to pick up my child and husband because she was watching our child and he got dropped there and I had our car. He seems pissed at me and we start fighting and I go home alone that night. Over the next couple days he says we need a break. So I say ok. he stays at his "cousins". When he would stop by the house he was always angry with me when his cousin was around. I couldn't do anything right. Then he tells me to move back with my family. The day after I move, he tells me he just needed time and wants his family back. I said we needed a break and to work on it from a distance. 2 days later he posts the he is in a relationship with this girl Courtney. I found out he was sleeping with his "cousin" while I still lived there and now he is back with her. He left Courtney and is now with his"cousin"who I found out is just a family friend. He says he is happy and in love but still wants sex from me. I told him no sex, but I want to work on our marriage. He said no, he was too unhappy

I was in a relationship for approx 2 years off & on. Sept 2014 my ex moved his dogs to my back yard so he could prepare his house to sell. (This hasn't been the best relationship) It's been 2+ weeks and our relationship continues to go nowhere. I've asked him several times in the past 9 months to find a home for the dogs and he refuses. It's one excuse after another. These dogs are friendly but I cannot afford to take care of them as I already have a 9 year old, a dog and 2 cats of my own that I take care of. Since the dogs moved in he hasn't even offered to pay for food or any of the damage they've caused in my backyard. I want these dogs OUT can I take legal action in CA, make him come get them, or do I have to take them to the pound?!? Any advice would be appreciated.

I bought myself a new cell phone because mine was already cracked. I got it for fathers day since my didn't get me anything. She is a stay at home mom that takes care of the kids and appointments etc.. etc..... I bought her an iPhone about two years ago but I didn't like the monthly bills. So I cut it off and bought her a phone from metropcs. Its an lg f60.. her phone shows that she doesn't have any storage and messages don't send sometimes but other than that it works fine. Mine had a cracked screen. Now this is my problem.. she is mad because I got myself a new phone from T-Mobile and lowered her plan to be able to pay the phone off by month. I show her my phone so she can see it but she doesn't want to. I got home very happy because I finally have a good phone and she told me, "thanks for my mother's day gift. I see you got yourself one too." I admit I forgot it was even mothers day but can't she tell her dad to buy it for her? I don't know why she is mad at me for getting myself a new phone. What should I do? What do I do to make it up to her?

My wife is a child services case manager and has been assigned to travel 6 hours with a male coworker in a rent a car. Then spend the night at a hotel and drive 6 hours back with a child to the state of tn department of child services for a court hearing .... My wife feels uncomfortable doing this with a male coworker

after walking on egg shells for years and putting up with what I think is emotional abuse..im wondering if i finally hit my limit. my husband got into a verbal fight with our 7 yr old. my 7 yr old slammed his door and dad said he would call the cops and have him arrested and that he could get out of the house. that night when i came home, my 7 yr old says to me, Dad doesnt want me anymore. then the next day he told his grandma. the next day, his dad bought him some toys and my 7 yr old said he knew his dad was sorry even though he didnt say it.. i looked at houses in my school district and found a rent to own one that I can afford. is it time to leave? or is this normal behavior when people get upset? ive been in really bad physical and emotional abusive relationships all my life, so it's hard for me to understand anything different. he is not physically abusive at all. he has gotten right into my face thought and screamed at me that he could make me leave and once threw most of my clothes outside on the ground. one day he grabbed my oldest (21) and threated him and that he needed to get out of the house too.

If your husband was sending sexual messages online with another guy? Especially if the other guy was sending pictures of his private parts?

After 10 years, I am getting married to a wonderful man, yet his family ALL spells my name wrong. No matter how many items they have received with the correct spelling, it never seems to click that they are spelling it wrong. With the wedding, I am TERRIFIED that any engraved items or personalized items will all have the wrong name on it. How do I fix this please without being rude and saying, "hey, did you know for 10 years you have spelt my name wrong?" Please help!

only been married since April but feel like I am a bad wife and my husband says I am not so i dont know just confused a lot.Want him to be happy like I use to like how do I ask him were he tells me the truth he doesnt really spend time with me unless its sex i know he isnt cheating and i trust him so that has nothing to do with it.How can i make it up to him really show him i care truly and dont want to lose him.i had a REAL badly pass maybe i am trying into the bad person?Like I am only 24 so what can i do?I know i love him and want him happy please try to help out no badly comments please.,,

My wife back in November randomly one day quit her job and left me to have an affair with one of my best friends. After running around with him for two weeks she came back it has been 5-6 months and now she is randomly leaving again and put in for a job transfer. To move an hour or so away. I believe she may be having another affair. My wife was only one working for a last year because I was in school and test prepping for state test. Our child Is almost 3. And both times when she left she left him with me for first few days she runs around and then wants her time with him For past year I have been the one home with him and the primary caregiver I feel she is more worried about her own "needs" then the needs of our child and if that is the case I would like to get full custody with visitation maybe every other weekend or her days off. What would I need to accomplish this.

Years ago my ex wife started smoking a short while after we got married. She was hanging out with friends and she got into the habit, wanted to be popular. At first she smoked a few a day, then a whole pack on average each day. It got to the point where she'd be smoking in the car. I'm a nonsmoker, and I couldn't stand it. I asked if she could smoke in private and far away. But she said it was her house and she could smoke wherever she wanted. I was really concerned about my health and hers. I tried asking nicely if she could at least cut back. But she was so addicted it changed her personality. Eventually she tried getting me to smoke too, but I refused. My wife said I was embarrassing her in front over everyone, but still refused. She kept putting me down and calling me a wimp. She even threatened divorce. I ended up filing for divorce myself and got the hell out of there. It hurt, but part of me was just happy to get away from the smoking. Was what I did wrong?

so last Saturday me and my wife got in a fight. she came home with her friends at a bar and she seriously looked like a prostitute so I called her out on it. She's never dressed like that ever. I misspoke for sure and made her feel very bad. She then decided to go back out at 11pm and said she was going to find a guy at a bar and screw him. Well, about 3 am she came home and that's what she did and told me she did. We went to sleep, I woke up and she felt guilty. I forgave her as it was my words that let her do this. We have been quiet with each other these few days but she wants to make it up to me by going to a nice hotel for the weekend. I'm fine with that and gives me a chance to get sex but I'm very uncomfortable some random guy stuck his penis inside my wife. I feel grossed out by even thinking about it. What should I do?

My 18 year old step=daughter has to be invited to everything. If she can'y go on a weekend, then the wife makes it that no one go. The only time my wife ever makes a planned weekend is when her daughter is working. My wife can't seem to leave her daughter at home and plan trips with me, her husband. We never had a honeymoon because she felt bad for leaving her daughter at her mom', making her feel like she missed out. I want so bad to take a vacation alone to get away from them. They are both like chewing gum now. I can't separate the two, BUT of course, her daughter doesn't hesitate to go to places alone with her friends. We haven't been on vacation for three years because the daughter's schedule. This year, after school ended, the daughter left for two weeks with friends to hangout with no thought to the parents. Parents who? Yet, mom will still worship the ground she walks on.

My husband tends to buy anything he wants and everything else he wants is ridiculously expensive. We just bought and moved into a new house so we don't have a lot of money because we have been working on the house with our extra money. He's been telling me he doesn't want to do anything for his birthday which is a crock because I know him and I know he wants to be celebrated. Don't say give him a BJ because that is a given. I want this day to be special and I can't even think of a gift to get him! Any suggestions?

my husband and i separated for 3 weeks last December. I kicked him out because of some things i found .Then when i asked if he was ready to come home a couple days later he was acting shady and horrible and refused to come home .i asked if he was seeing someone and he denied it every time. On January 13 he starts calling wantimg to come back so we try working it out and he admits to taking someone out on a date and that was all it was. Then in may ,a few months later, a friend sends me screenshots of my husbands messages to the mother of the girl he supposedly just went on a date with , tjese messages were back in january,january the 5 which was a week before he was begging to get back together .the messages he was sending were talking about how she ended things with him and he was so hurt cause he never fell for someone like that and that he knows deep down shes meant for him and blah blah talking about how he wants to send her money so she wont have to work and so on . so i confronted him about them amd all he kept saying was he was just saying stuff like that cause he didnt think we were getting back together but that he didnt or never felt that way for her that it was all a mistake that he wishes never happened im confused because we were only separated for 3 WKS how could he been so into it with her especially so comfortable with her mother in just a short amount of time .also i feel like a second option to my husband since that girl ended it with him

Saying "I love you" or having sex? And if you can recall, about how long were you together before exchanging those three words that change everything?

I ve tried listening, agreeing, standing my ground. Nothing works. I talk to people from church he gets mad, I apply for a job and he got in first,I was offered more he told me to turn it down. I told him things about my past he throws it in my face in front of my children. I m lost and an not sure what I m to do,I love him but nothing works. He s even gone to therapy with me then gets mad layer because he doesn t like to talk. After he had his moments a few hours later everything is fine. But already one a month he states it s over. Plz help I have no one to talk about this with.

My wife is leaving me for another man. Apparently, I'm supposed to move on with my life. Which would've been much easier if she had just left me before she had a man. She still lives with me but they are now officially together. How F'd up is that. She's moving out in 4 weeks. So 2 questions. What do I do with myself while she's still under my roof but with another man. How do I move on after she leaves me in an empty house with myself and my son.

I just became a military wife, and I'm feeling a little down about something. So before my husband and I tied the not, we did have sex. But now, we haven't had it since we got married. We got married on this past Monday, and now today is Wednesday. Is this normal for most military men ? Am I over thinking ?

I have no clue how to start to leave with my kids as he will make it so miserable and maybe not let me leave, my kids are 3 & 2 and I am trying to shield them from any of this but I know I need to find some way to get out and get my own place with them. Any ideas? I would love a support group or someone to talk to as I feel so ugly defected lost, just everything bad, i feel. My poor babies, he is a great dad but horrible husband. I have no relationship with my mom what so ever and father is passed. I am only close to my sister and cousin. Sister is busy with 2 jobs and school, my cousin knows most but I keep it all to myself...and I want out but I have no money although I do work but pay rent and bills you know so I don't know how to start to leave

I am a married woman and have been with 20+ years. He is 10 years older than I. He is experiencing health issues where meds don't allow him to please his me. This has been an issue for a few years now. Anything that can be taken that's on the market for this issue he can't take because of his heart. I understand all these things and love him dearly, but MISS KITTY doesn't understand all that. I have NOT and do not desire to cheat on him. I have experimented with things but it is not the same. I am desperately in need of some man handling...lol. I have asked him to accommodate me other ways but I have to admit that I feel guilty and selfish asking knowing that there is nothing in return that can be done to help get him there. So I try to handle me on my own but it's becoming tiresome. What's a girl to do when she's still madly in love with him but are not having her needs met?

She isn't cheating I think. Bit she has become very withdrawn and preoccupied with herself and her work. We barely talk and I take it personally. I hear contempt in her voice. We don't go out and she rarely seems to care anymore. Every now and then she talks of having kids but she hardly talks to me. I feel like I am wasting my time to continue to live with her. She hardly bothers with me and five years of marriage hasn't changed a lot. I'm not sure if she is cheating but she is always living a life separate to mine. We want such different things that I cannot stay married. I'm at breaking point and she isn't listening. I asked her today ehy she ignored me after dhe soent an hour talking away with her aunty. She made some excuse that she hardly talked with her client either. I do not believe that. She is becoming more and more self absorbed to the point where ai feel like I am not wanted anymore. Certainly, I'm craving mord attention and true companionship. She doesn't seem to be interested in trying to achieve that to save our marriage. It hurts but I want to throw away 7 years of history because my emotional needs are ignored. Every day is the same with her absorbed in the phone for work and pleasure. The point of a relationship is to have friends in common and to talk. That doesn't happen here. Separate social lives and hardly communicating. We haven't dated in so long. She doesn't include me like before. She is too busy to go out with me! I don't know what to do. She used to be very outgoing and used to laugh and joke. Now she is nasty. I told her I think she needs to go to the mentsl hospital and I said it as a joke and she threatened to tell her family! It felt like a reversal of what happened in Ch8na where she literally said that many times to wear me down :( Thanks for the great answers! I woild eather be single than to be fed the scraps anx leftovers. She has issies with talking to me despite the fact I'm open and encourage s safe environment to chat. I will try again to open communication and take her out. Otherwise it looks like she has plans to be open to other men behind me? If so, then I may as well leave her for the next sucker. I know she went out to lunch for her business today and she brought back a cool glass from the hard rock cafe in the city. She never showed me. I strongly suspect dge is cheating but cannot prove it. Either way, it has been months since we have gone anywhere together and I intercepted a message on her phone from another guy that looked like he was coming to her company. I need to know the truth once anx for all before property comes into the picture. I'm to the point where I want to consider shopping around for a gf to go out with. Time to start looking for that companionship and company to spend time with!

My husband recently died. I don't know how to go through the grieving process. I don't know how to move on without him. I got to the point where I really needed him with me, but now she isn't. I need him to laugh at my dumb jokes and to be with me when I feel bad. I need him to make love to me. He's the only one I felt like completely understood me. There were so many days when the best part of my day was going home to talk to him, but now he's not there anymore. Everything I see seems to remind me of him in some way. I don't know what to do without him. I know we both are getting old, but in some ways it makes it worse. I married him at 19. We were married for 64 years. I lived my whole life with him. I never thought he would go first, but that's probably because I knew I wouldn't be able to take it if he did. I can't talk about this with my kids because I feel like I need to be strong for them after their father's death. How can I move on after my husband's death?

In American culture where love before marriage or love marriage is considered. Then how people there get married if they are not able to find or get spouses. I mean due to many reasons people get rejected. And sometimes the reason for rejection is very common like their appearance, financial stability, shyness, lack of confidence etc. Like in India mostly marriages happens only by arrange marriage. So in India if a person is not able to find a love for love marriage, then unwillingly he/she have to go by their parents choice for marriage i.e. so called arrange marriage where third party people like their parents select their spouses.

in a cheating / having children with other people , abusive marriage as this is considered as the worst??

Following his mother's early death from Parkinson's disease, my husband cannot go a day without saying things like - If I ever develop that, just let me die - Would you be willing to care for me if I developed a disease like that? - Here's how I want my funeral to be... We are only in our early forties and I would rather cherish the time together than allow negative thoughts to penetrate my mind day in and out.

My husband has so much stuff, paper and reciepts, old mail, clothes he never wears..just junk! It's so much stuff he loses things, and I tried to tell him over snd over to take an hour each week to organize himself but then he just throws everything in a box. Is it my job, as the wife, to organize his things?

husband and i just welcomed a baby boy and i have been nothing but good to this man, out of no where, i find him messaging another woman this…he doesn t even acknowledge me as his wife…what do you think? why would he tell her such a lie and bash me? I DO NOT EVEN KNOW WHO THIS WOMAN IS... Update: I don't know what he was trying to accomplish by saying this but he claims he was frustrated with me when he wrote it… HE HAS BEEN BEGGING ME TO STAY, SAID SORRY SO MANY TIMES, CRIED….but i am in a lot of pain over this comment,specially when I just had his baby.

I have asked him to stop doing this, as it looks suspicious. He quickly closes out the window and quickly turns away from the screen. I don t suspect him of cheating, and I m not a suspicious person. He works late and sometimes works all day on a weekend, and I m never suspicious. But this behavior of how he is with the computer really bothers me. I have asked him to stop and he is mad at me. Am I wrong here? No, I don't make a point of looking at what he is doing. I never thought about what he was or was not doing when he was on the computer until he started doing this. I'll walk in the bedroom to get something from the closet or whatever, and immediately he is clearing the screen and turning away from it. I am not causing this. I asked him one time, about three months ago, to stop, and I asked him again today. Thanks for the answers. Once my husband saw that other people also find this behavior suspicious, he stopped being offended and mad and showed me what he has been doing. He is an IT professional and he is updating/patching servers, which requires a LOT of opening and closing windows quickly. So when I walk in the room and he closes a window quickly, it means nothing since he does that when I'm not in the room too. When I come in, he turns away from the computer to give me attention. Thanks all!

We are exactly the same height. I always hear about how women prefer men who are like 8 inches taller than them. My wife was always one of the prettiest girls in school and people always ask me how I managed to date someone like her. When we were boyfriend and girlfriend, and even now, she would wear huge high heels and platform shoes and tower over me, even on our wedding day. I don't mind, I think she looks really how. A "friend" of mine told me to watch out, because no girls always go for taller guys and pay attention. I would like to believe that he is full of it and just jealous. Thoughts?

My husband and I have been together for 7 years now. I took in a friend into our who was having marriage issues. She has been with us for 2 months now and we all started messing around. Having threesomes but then they started to have sex while I was at work. I've been jealous and told my husband this is getting out of hand and he said but I want this. So I said fine let's keep doing this. After a week I just don't want I felt the same and he told me he was in love with her and doesn't know what he feels for me anymore. He says I have an attitude and he's been tired of it for a long time. I told him if that's the case I would change. But he's still with both of us. Idk what to do anymore