Marriage & Divorce: Question: I have been sick a lot lately . I feel like I'm holding my husband back. I feel like I'm the reason his family doesn't want to come by? |
- Question: I have been sick a lot lately . I feel like I'm holding my husband back. I feel like I'm the reason his family doesn't want to come by?
- Question: How do I get my parents to get a divorce?
- Question: Wife found out her childhood molestor is back working at her dad's store while visiting her dad. Should I inform my in-laws about it ?
- Question: My Husband Never says NO to Anybody--especially Family---Why do I always take & stand for 2nd Best??!!?
- Question: Do you like being married?
- Question: Coping with a partner s previous relationship and a step-child?
- Question: My husband, son and daughter 11 and 5. Just left for vacation to my in-laws. My father in-law has been in live and sexually inappropriate with me?
- Question: Whose party should they attend?
- Question: To women who are married i need to know?
- Question: Why has my husband changed since we got married ?
- Question: Narcissist husband?
- Question: Wht is sexless marriages?
- Question: Do married women fantize?
- Question: If a foreign wife wants a divorce from her American husband and return to her original country, does the American have to split the property?
- Question: Do you ask yourself whether you should stay in your marriage?
- Question: Marriage problem plzzzzzzz help?
- Question: Problems after getting married?
- Question: Can we blame our child for ruining our marriage?
- Question: Is it a red flag to trust a husband who hides his conversations of his friends and ex's away from his wife ?
- Question: Am I overreacting about my husband always having money for his side of the family?
- Question: Husband cheated several times in his previous marriage, (not with me) is it more likely he will cheat on me?
- Question: Are these not somewhat similar situations?
- Question: Why won't the words, I'm leaving come out of my mouth?
- Question: Estoy realmente decepcionada ¿Porque las personas son asi?
- Question: What is something you and your spouse did with good intentions?
- Question: How do you know when it's over?
- Question: Can I have a pastor marry my fiancé and I without filing for a marriage license?
- Question: I want to know... Awkward subject!?
- Question: How to deal with my husband's crazy baby momma?
- Question: Does my husband sound emotionally abusive?
- Question: All of the decisions in our family have been pushed on to me and I need to put an end to our health related problems. What do I do?
- Question: What can i do to help my wife overcome what I have done?
- Question: MY HUSBANDS EX-WIFE KEEPS SAYING HE OWES HER MORE MONEY?
- Question: Please answer my question ..Im very much down..Please advice me how to get over this?
- Question: Why would he bring up the past then say he wasn't trying to fight?
- Question: Will my same sex marriage be recognized in Puerto Rico?
- Question: What is marriage?
- Question: Is this a sign my husband is cheating?
- Question: What to do about ex husband's apology after two YEARS?
- Question: Is my wife wrong for this?
- Question: Is it OK for one child that is 16 and lives with his mother, but get's visitation with his Dad at our home to take another child's video game?
- Question: MARRIEDS.....It's been real! before I burn this one down...One final question.....how to maintain a rock solid foundation in the home?
- Question: Poll: What would you do if you're married but your wife/husband....?
- Question: What should I do? unhappy marriage stay for kids? divorce and be happy? Im so very ******!?
- Question: What would be the total costs of marrying and flying a woman from Ukraine to the U.S.?
- Question: When a married man wants to talk to another women and his wife doesn't know...?
- Question: Why would my husband lie about what his kids mother said to tell me?
- Question: My husband Raped me after dinner. He Told me he has been staring at my Asian body for a long time. Why?
- Question: A player got married. Would he love his wife?
- Question: Please help me I am very depressed. We have been married for 2 year s and my husband works in abroad. our is a arranged marriage.?
- Question: When should I just give up?
- Question: Disown sister for wife?
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| Question: How do I get my parents to get a divorce? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 09:16 PM PDT My mom and I fight literally every moment we are around each other and it is complete hell. My dad and mom also fight a good amount and I would do anything to get away from all this drama and my mom. So how do I get them divorced? |
| Posted: 25 Jun 2015 08:58 PM PDT My wife was abused by an employee in her dads store when she was a kid. She has never been able to tell her parents about it. The guy did stop his advances and eventually quit the job. My wife is visiting her parents house and found out that her dad has rehired that guy. My wife is too scared to share about her past to her parents. One reason being she is fearful that her dad might beat up the guy and secondly that the guy might retaliate and harm the family. I am in a different country and can't be there. Should I inform my in-laws about the guy? I dont expect a police complaint but at the very least I dont want the guy anywhere near my wife/in-laws. My wife doesnt want me to tell her parents but I cannot stand it. Also, how should my in-laws confront the guy? |
| Posted: 25 Jun 2015 08:33 PM PDT |
| Question: Do you like being married? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 05:49 PM PDT |
| Question: Coping with a partner s previous relationship and a step-child? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 05:07 PM PDT Well, let me explain the situation first... My fiance and I had dated while we were in high school and broke up just before my senior year. Needless to say that I hadn t gotten over him and he apparently hadn t gotten over me however...in the five years since we broke up and reconciled my fiance has been married and has a daughter. I understand that becoming a parent to a child that is not your own is a difficult task, but, correct if I m wrong, I feel like I m finding it more difficult considering the fact that we had been together before his daughter was born. One of the issues that I m running in to is the mother. My fiance and I had been in contact with one another during his marriage to her as friends and I had become aquainted with her as well. Now that the two have seperated she is constantly messaging me and for her daughter s sake I try to keep my reply s friendly. However, she is always sending messages like I m so sorry I came between you two and I d really like to be friends . My second issue is with the daughter. She s 4 years old and I often get stuck with her while her father is at work. Even with reitteration she won t listen to what I tell her and then she ll start crying about missing her mother/father and I don t what to do. Any advice would be helpful. |
| Posted: 25 Jun 2015 05:06 PM PDT It all hit at once. He was just flirty and said I was his favorite. Then he stalked he and thing got worse. I talked to my doctor, I told him everything and he said to have no contact what so ever. Possibly a no contact order. EVERYONE thinks I should sweep it under the rug on my husbands side. Half the time my husband. My mother in law is fake. Lies behind my back and hates me truly. She said I hurt her! Anyways, they moved to Myrtle Beach. They invited us down for two weeks, and my husband expected me to stay at their condo and sleep there and didn't find any issues with that. ??? I told him no but him and the kids could go and have a good time and they could come back when the vacations over. I've barely heard from him saying photos and they look like they're having a great time. I has been acted like he cared that I wasn't going at first. But the day before I found out he was going and he acted all chipper and left with the kids and now I'm actually kind of upset that I told him he could go even though I meant it and I'm not sure why I has been acted like he cared that I wasn't going at first. But the day before I found out he was going and he acted all chipper and left with the kids and now I'm actually kind of upset that I told him he could go even though I meant it and I'm not sure why I'm hurting he left when I told he should go. I have been short. I'm so confused and hurt and I'm distant with him. I need some answers.. Please!! |
| Question: Whose party should they attend? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 04:59 PM PDT My husband's work schedule only allows us to do things on Saturdays. We have 2 children. 1 just graduated 8th grade and is off to high school and the other just graduated kindergarten. We wanted to celebrate with a party in our new home with a barbecue. After studying our calendars to no end last month, my hubby and I decided the only Saturday we can have a party is this weekend. We have 2 weddings, college graduation parties, birthdays, our family vacation and a zillion other things. Our next weekend we can celebrate is in late August. We sent out invites over a month ago. Everyone is coming except my in-laws. They are attending an adult birthday party of someone they see once or twice a year because that invite came a week earlier than ours. My 14 year old is so mad. Even telling my husband how insulted she is that they choose strangers over thier own grandchildren. We aren't people who throw a lot house parties. This is the second time in 18 months. My husband told his mother - our daughter is insulted and if they can cancel their other party and she refused. I am hurt by thier actions. My children are very hurt. I'm sure I'm the wrong one but need to know. Should my in laws have told the other party that they could no longer make it? |
| Question: To women who are married i need to know? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 03:23 PM PDT What would you do if you caught your husband cheating on you in bed with your best girlfriend? What would you do? |
| Question: Why has my husband changed since we got married ? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 02:48 PM PDT |
| Posted: 25 Jun 2015 02:29 PM PDT My husband always blames everyone around him when the smallest thing goes wrong. He is always telling people the right way to do things and just always thinks of himself as a victim. He will embelish things to make him look impressive. I feel like i don't let people in anymore. Sometimes i can't take it and have a Mini breakdown and spill to a friend or my mom about things. But i don't feel like i can get close to people anymore and a lot of times i just want to he alone. I don't want to spend time with my husband. If i do, i start to feel extremely overwhelmed. I guess I'm just seeking advice from people who have been through it. Thanks. |
| Question: Wht is sexless marriages? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 02:15 PM PDT |
| Question: Do married women fantize? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 02:11 PM PDT |
| Posted: 25 Jun 2015 01:52 PM PDT Basically, she wants a divorce and permanently settle back in her original country. Does the American husband still need to give her half the property/assets as if she was an American woman? |
| Question: Do you ask yourself whether you should stay in your marriage? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 01:45 PM PDT I have been married for almost 3 years. While my husband & I have some things in common, I am realizing that the reason I am not happy with him is because we have a lot of differences. I like to travel & have an intimate relationship while he likes to have a lot of space, not travel, do drugs and just stay around the house. I do not like a lot of his habits. He is a good person, not a good husband. I ask myself all the time whether I should stay with him. His personality really bothers me. I do love him yet I feel so unhappy with him. I always wish he was a different person. He is never open about things with me. I do not feel like he is my family. I don't even feel like having kids with him. Are all marriages like this? I am really afraid of the unknown. Getting out of this marriage. What if I do not find anyone else? FYI..I love my own company and I formed this relationship with myself after I got married and my husband did drugs and spent time by himself. I am not afraid of living by myself, but I am afraid of never finding another person. |
| Question: Marriage problem plzzzzzzz help? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 01:20 PM PDT My husband had girlfriend with 7yrs ka relationship... She dumb him and he fall for me.. And we were in relation for 2yrs..then we got married... You can say it as love marriage..now it's 5months we are happily married together..last week I caught his sms text with his ex which were sex chat, her naked pics and caring and pampering kind of msges... And when I asked him then he was I need time to move on in life...and let her get married till we will be in contact.. And he said he nvr evr been with physical relation with her after marriage... Now m not able to get what to do...plz help me and suggest me wht to do |
| Question: Problems after getting married? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 01:10 PM PDT Hello, I got married 5months back. Married to a boy who had relationship with his ex for almost 7yrs. And my husband got dumbed by his ex and he fall for me and then we were in relation for almost 2yrs...so this is kind of love marriage.... Even we were in relation with each other his ex was in contact... And when evr I take objection then he used to say.. As they were in relation for so long she will b my friend. After that we got married... And I was in misunderstanding ki after marriage my husband is not at all in contact at all...but after 5 months I caught his and his ex's messages and some sex chats...and when I asked him about...he said he need time to forget his past. What to do now plz help |
| Question: Can we blame our child for ruining our marriage? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 12:43 PM PDT at around age 13 he started acting horrible, he yelled at us, broke things and used horrible words. He screamed loud enough to shatter a window. He tore us up verbally. This lasted until he got medication, but it already happened a few times a month for years. The thing is we never punished him. Now we feel that our marriage is ruined. Can we blame him if we never did anything about it? We didn't do 1 single thing to help the situation either. My husband was suppose to be one who punished him but he didn't. He got on medication for Bipolar and Intermittent explosive disorder- a real nasty disorder |
| Posted: 25 Jun 2015 12:35 PM PDT |
| Question: Am I overreacting about my husband always having money for his side of the family? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 12:30 PM PDT A while back I bought a dress for my niece as a birthday gift. It was about $25. My husband told me I shouldn't have done it because we didn't have the money for it. A week later he gave his sister $100 for the second half of her wedding. It was a cultural wedding and she did the first half a few years ago and we purchased her a gift then. We argued over this because I said we wouldn't be giving her another gift if she completed the second half like most people did the day after the first half of her wedding. Plus, we agreed the first time around that the one gift was enough. A few weeks ago I told him our children needed clothes for the summer. We budget our money so we discuss all of our purchases. He told me we did not have the money for it. About a week later he tells me we are going to contribute $200 to his side of the family's joint graduation party. I asked him where that money is coming from because if we don't have money to buy summer clothes for our kids then we shouldn't have money to help throw a graduation party. He told me it's fine because he already planned ahead for the graduation party and that we do have money to buy clothes. I felt this was a lie and he only said it was okay because I brought it up. I asked him, why is it that we never have money for anything but the moment his side of the family needs money, he has all the money in the world. He told me I'm overreacting. |
| Posted: 25 Jun 2015 12:17 PM PDT |
| Question: Are these not somewhat similar situations? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 12:00 PM PDT https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20150625072853AAo8gmE&sort=O I posed a question this morning about my situation with my wife and a beach trip. Explained that my wife is allowing her son to go with his girlfriend's family to their beach trip but my wife didn't want to my daughter's friend to come with us on our trip. I mentioned that I felt that was a double standard and those who responded said that it wasn't and I couldn't compare the two. I think you can. What do you guys think? |
| Question: Why won't the words, I'm leaving come out of my mouth? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 11:41 AM PDT I've asked questions before and I know what to do. I have to leave my husband. I'm sick to my stomach, the words are right there, but they are not coming out. My family says just leave with out saying anything. I can't do that, I'll feel like a horrible person if I do. I'm going crazy. The history is that my husband has mental issues, controlling, verbally abusive, manipulative, mental abusive, emotional abusive, had a girlfriend, went out on me, plus a lot more and I don't want to post it, it's pretty bad. I feel horrible because his daughter just left her husband who was the same way and she's come to live with us with her kids. How do I leave my husband while him and his daughter and grand children are in such a bad situation also? I've told him once that I was leaving, now I'm ready to say a date. Why can't I say it? |
| Question: Estoy realmente decepcionada ¿Porque las personas son asi? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 11:13 AM PDT Pues hace 6 meses empece a salir con un hombre al que conozco desde hace 2 años y desde que nos conocimos nos echamos el ojo, pero por diversos motivos no habiamos buscado estar juntos, hace un año el tenia novia y aun asi me beso, empezamos a salir, pero no lo tome muy en serio; me fui a vivir a otro estado, conoci a alguien y tuvimos una relacion, que aunque duro 3 meses fue bonita teniamos planes de matrimonio y viviamos juntos, pero se termino porque realmente yo queria al hombre del que les hablaba en un principio; después de muchos mensajes decidimos vernos, y hablamos sobre estar juntos, al mes de eso, el fue a buscarme a mi casa en otro estado, viajo mas de 12 hrs y me pidio que fuese su novia, yo acepte y la pasamos muy bien, se que fue muy precipitado pero decidimos tener un hijo y milagrosamente se nos dio, estabamos realmente felices, hasta que el embarazo se empezo a complicar, viviamos muy lejos, pero yo pense que podria sola, el adelanto sus vacaciones para ir a verme y justo esos dias tuve la primera amenaza de aborto, le pedi que estuviese conmigo y el se enojaba porque yo queria toda su atencion, la verdad es que no supe como afrontar la situación, tenia mucho miedo de lo que podria pasarnos a mi hijo y a mi, yo me di cuenta de que el empezo a buscar a su ex novia, le reclame y empezaron los pleitos, ya peliabamos por todo |
| Question: What is something you and your spouse did with good intentions? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 10:23 AM PDT ...that turned out to be a disaster? Think hard, the answer could be anything |
| Question: How do you know when it's over? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 10:01 AM PDT My husband and I have had a great relationship up until now. We used to be over the moon for each other and you coudn't keep us apart. Now it seems like he doesn't want to spend as much time with me. He'd rather go hang out with his friends or smoke a cigarette. Ever since I became pregnant I can slowly feel him pulling away. I really don't want to lose him and at this point I will do whatever it takes to keep him. The only time he shows any interest in me is when we are having sex. |
| Question: Can I have a pastor marry my fiancé and I without filing for a marriage license? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 10:00 AM PDT I want to marry my fiancé but can if I get married it will affect my visa. Is there a way to have a pastor do it but not file for the legal documents? I don't need it to be legally official but we're christians and want to do this asap. Also... this would be done in California if that detail is important. |
| Question: I want to know... Awkward subject!? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 09:58 AM PDT This might be stupid, but I want to know! Okay, so I see that most married couples always say that they have sex 3-4 times a week, sometimes more, or even everyday and night! I mean, I understand that sex is important for a happy marriage, but seriously, do you have to have sex THAT much?! I find it okay for at least once or twice a month, but all the time?! Seriously?! And what if you already have kids? Sometimes I feel that people put sex before their children, and that just irks me! And wouldn't you hate it if they walked in you and your partner getting it on? Would you even care that they would be scarred for life? I'm 16, so some of you will probably say that I'll find out when I grow up, but I just really want to know! Also, even when I do get married, I'm probably not even going to have sex twice a month, because I feel that it's just not that important, just sayin... |
| Question: How to deal with my husband's crazy baby momma? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 09:52 AM PDT They were together for 5 & 1/2 years and have a 19 month old daughter. When his ex found out that he and I were dating (we met after they'd already been broken up for a while), she stopped letting him see his daughter. Then she started harassing us. She'd make fake social media pages and message both of us every single day. The day after Valentine's Day, she broke into our apartment and went through my purse, trashed our room, and ripped up my flowers he'd gotten me. After that, he got a no-contact order on her and the harassment stopped, finally. Then after we got married, she still won't let him see his daughter. He's going to take her to court, since he pays child support, but he's so sad without seeing his daughter. How can we deal with the baby momma? She's unreasonable and immature. The harassment stopped finally but she still won't let him see her. Everytime he's tried calling, she cusses at him and hangs up and is just terrible. How to deal with the baby momma drama? And yes, I knew he had a baby before we started dating. I LOVE kids. It doesn't bother me. It just bothers me that he can't see her and it breaks his heart. |
| Question: Does my husband sound emotionally abusive? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 09:34 AM PDT I've been married almost 3yrs been with him on and off for 10yrs. I fell in love with him at 17 he was 20. It was great at first. Then I thought was too young to settle down so I left him. He says I broke his heart. We kept in touch and dated on and off for yrs. Fast forward... 4 yrs ago he had a daughter by another female we got back in touch shortly after she was born. But he seems to have changed well some days are great others he makes me feel so low. He will call me fat, say I don't mean anything to him. He never wanted to get married or have kids (we have one together and I just found out I'm pregnant) before I got pregnant I was trying to lose weight for him I thought it would make our relationship better. I was on a strict diet and taking adipex. I'm a stay at home mom so I was working out daily and losing a pound a day some days more. But shortly after I found out I was pregnant It isn't safe to take the pills or do the strict diet so I stopped. Now all he does is bring up that I'm gonna gain weight and he is never gonna have an attractive wife. I'm miserable. I cry all the time and between him and morning sickness I feel like I'm not gonna be able to be happy about this pregnancy... I love him and he is a great dad but I don't know how much more I can take of this one min he loves me and the next he wishes he would have left before I had our son... I just feel stuck and unwanted |
| Posted: 25 Jun 2015 09:15 AM PDT My wife and I are dual income and work the same hours. We work 45 minutes from home and have no interest in moving closer to our work. We have two children who both have developmental delays so they aren't at age level and need special care to get them where they need to be for their age. Because everyone is out of the home for 9+ hours a day (plus getting ready in the morning), there isn't much time/energy to do domestic labor around the house. What's worse, is that even though I buy organic & whole foods, we rarely eat it since no one cooks! The weekends are used to catch up on chores; which eliminates quality family time and special education to get the kids where they need to be... *sigh* It's an infinite cycle, and I've been taxed with the duty of fixing it. But how? I don't want to maintain the status quo because all it's doing is making my waist expand, my cholesterol go up, and my cortisol stay peaked. What I'm trying to say, is I'm getting fat. And I'm not the only one, my daughter is at risk too. So change is DEFINITELY needed, but I have no idea where to start. One of us quitting our job would create more problems due to the income loss, so a SAHP is not an option. We don't have family/relatives to help us, and our friend who's moving in after her marital separation is resolved is expected to be a really crappy in-home nanny since she was a really crappy wife. What would you do? Are there resources I'm overlooking? What shortcuts would help us live/eat better? |
| Question: What can i do to help my wife overcome what I have done? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 09:02 AM PDT Sense I was 12 I have been addicted to porn. I met my wife nine years ago. I never told her about the things that happened in my childhood. i was molested as a child and then the porn addiction started then it started to take over me and i kept wanting more than just porn. long story short. My wife found out about all the emails with other women and strip clubs and lap dances. It has crushed her. She has days when she wont get out of the bed.She wants to work on our marriage but I can still see the pain in her eyes when she looks at me. What can I DO TO MAKE IT BETTER? |
| Question: MY HUSBANDS EX-WIFE KEEPS SAYING HE OWES HER MORE MONEY? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 08:51 AM PDT My husband pays over 3k a month for 2 children in child support payments - he pays for school activities and all the extras. He received an increase and writes her a check for her portion weekly rather than going back to court to adjust the payment. He received a bonus at work in which he did not tell her about - She just found out about it and started asking for all this documentation. She then comes back and says he owes her 10k and if he doesn't pay 5k by end of June and 5k by end of July that she is going to the state. 1st off he doesn't owe her that much - he owes about 3k from the bonus. He put all the information on a spreadsheet to show her that he doesn't owe 10k - now she says she doesn't want to look at it and they need to meet face to face to discuss....or she is going to the state - He says he doesn't want to deal with the state and is trying to work the financials out with her. What is the big deal about going to the state? is there something I don't know? One would think it would be best to have everything in writing and clean. Would they make him pay the 3k in one shot or in payments? |
| Question: Please answer my question ..Im very much down..Please advice me how to get over this? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 08:35 AM PDT Im married and have a husband .No kid yet and nice also..My husband is a nice man also.There is another man he is a big businessman and very charming and nice also.Hes a multi millionare and very successful.Hes very famous and has a glamorous lifestyle .He has a beautiful wife and kid also.Has more parties and more friends..I was attracted to him.I always think how awesome his life is..with that kid of money and relatives and everything...I feel like I'm not worth..because have a kid and a job.I always thought about him..like how awesome my life it would be if i marry him.Even I also have relatives and friends..But everything is lesser than him..please help me how to get over this..He even asked me to have affair with him |
| Question: Why would he bring up the past then say he wasn't trying to fight? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 08:30 AM PDT Ok so my husband has this cuckold fantasy and he told me a little over a year ago. I wasn't into at all at first bc i am completely satisfied with my husband he is the best i ever had and love him so much. But he started talking about it during sex and i got use to the idea bc i love to satisfy him. Well he started looking on craigslist and it was looking more abd more like he might actually get one of these guys off the internet which i was not comfortable with. About that time i met a woman thro a mutual friend and later met her husband. My friend tells me that they are swingers and this idea pops in my head. I know swaping is not the same thing as cuckold but my husband and i discussed maybe swapping would be best for the first time. Any way the husband of the other couple Jay, would text me from time to time wanting me to come hang out with him and his wife i always said no and really only responded bc i was working up the courage to ask if they wanted to swap, Finally one day jay tells me his wife is bi and wants me basically,i saw my in and asked him. Long story short we texted eachother for 2 days sexual in nature i told him i wasnt looking for an affair he acted like he knew and underatood but i run into him b4 i get a chance to tellmy husband and he kissed me. This was in dec. 2014 I told my husband and we've moved past it then lastnight he comes in with my old phone which has the email telling the guy we were wrong and couldnt see eachother anymore on it, why? |
| Question: Will my same sex marriage be recognized in Puerto Rico? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 08:28 AM PDT Me and my partner are curious about same sex marriage and Puerto Rico. We have planned to move to Puerto Rico and yes we know that same sex marriage is legal now but what we are confused about is if we get married before we move there will our marriage be recognized because some sites are saying that although SS marriage has been legalized it won't be recognized unless done there. Our delima comes because we already have in play to marry here so that I am able to do a second parent adoption here that is not legal in PR. Please help. |
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| Question: Is this a sign my husband is cheating? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 08:02 AM PDT This is not a joke... my husband was never a big groomer, and now as of a few weeks ago he has begun waxing his chest |
| Question: What to do about ex husband's apology after two YEARS? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 07:30 AM PDT Last night I got the apology I thought I would never receive. My ex husband e-mailed me... to summarize, he admitted in detail everything he did wrong. How he hurt me. How he only now realizes all that I meant to him. How he didn't know how to love. How he is sorry and knows sorry is never enough. It was a relief to finally get that. However, he also included a bit about how thoughts of me and our past consume his mind and he wonders if I would be willing to slowly reintroduce ourselves into each other's lives. We got married at 23, which was the biggest mistake I've ever made, but we were just young, dumb kids... Thankfully we never had any children between us, so the contact ended when our divorce was finalized. It took me a while to "move on" and just about last fall, I felt I fully did. I don't know what to say to him now. I appreciate the apology, very much. Like I said it's something I never thought he would say to me. But I know I can do/deserve better, I have dated much kinder men since, and I have no desire to go back and try again. |
| Question: Is my wife wrong for this? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 07:28 AM PDT My daughter graduated high school a few weeks ago and she has a summer job at an amusement park. She told me the other day that she wished she could go somewhere like her friends are going before they go off to school. I mentioned to my wife this morning about possibly going to the been for the weekend in a few weeks and mentioned taking my daughter (my wife's stepdaughter) along with us. She said that was fine but she said she knew my daughter would want her best friend to go. My wife isn't too fond of her best friend for some reason. We'd get an adjoining room and my daughter would be in the room by herself and we'd be in the other room. I don't see the problem with her going because I'm sure my daughter doesn't want to hang with us "old folks" the entire time. Well, she also mentioned to me that her son (my step-son) was going to the beach with his girlfriend's family the week before and she had no problem with that. However my daughter's friend can't go with us. Am I seeing it clear. It's okay for her son to go with his girlfriend's family but not okay for someone to go with us and our family? How should I approach this with my wife without it looking like I'm comparing one child to the other? My wife's son failed out of college this year (his freshman year) and he is allowed to just go off to the beach with his girlfriend's family but my daughter (who got accepted into 3 colleges ) can't take her best friend with us for a weekend beach trip cause my wife doesn't like her. Why does my wife really care about an 18 year old girl anyway? It's not like they're in competition or anything, plus they wouldn't be hanging with us anyway. This girl will have her own money. We're just be paying for the two rooms which we were going to do anyway. The reason I mentioned her son is because she has no problem allowing him to go with someone else and intrude on their family trip but doesn't want someone to come on ours? |
| Posted: 25 Jun 2015 07:05 AM PDT My husband and I were married 3 year's ago. He has 4 children which one is still a minor age 16 and another that still comes for every other week visits that's 19. I have 3 which are all adults. My oldest has had to move back home to to losing his job. My oldest that lives in the home has a game system and the 16 year old took one of his games back to his mom's house without asking or telling us or my son. I asked my husband to ask his son if he knew where the game was because we couldn't find it. His son told him he borrowed it. My husband acts like it's not a big deal and didn't say a word to his son. I believe he should have disciplined him or at least got onto him for taking it without asking. We have fought over thing's like this non stop. He refuses to discipline his kid's, but if my kid's say or do something he doesn't agree with then he has no problem saying something to them. He will let the 19 year old run his mouth about my son, which also happened this weekend and not tell him to stop or say anything to him either. My husband say's I'm getting mad over stupid thing's, but I feel like he is favoring his kid's. He is a good man and works very hard and I love him. I love his kid's to pieces. All the kid's have always gotten along for the most part especially for a mixed family. I do alot for his kid's and he does for mine, but I feel like the favoritism is tearing the whole family apart because he doesn't see that his kid's are ever in the wrong. |
| Posted: 25 Jun 2015 06:54 AM PDT And GO! give me your best answers! Another Crone RYDE ON No Mercy Happy-2 Guy be in a Guy BABE HEART Blackadder Fireball City Zealot so MANY more I'm sort of sad to do this, and I know there's others who I did not mention that have helped me along my path. I'm sorry for offending a lot of you. (No really, I am). I know some of my answers were not nice or polite and I should not have been a jerk to you....I'm no better or worse than anyone. AND.....at the end of the day, we're all human, right. Just as prone to error and mistakes. Farewell friends! 👍 |
| Question: Poll: What would you do if you're married but your wife/husband....? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 06:11 AM PDT Doesn't want to do a sexual act that you fantasized about all your life? Would you cheat or just live with your crushed dreams? |
| Posted: 25 Jun 2015 05:02 AM PDT We met when we were 13 we married at 20 and now have 2 kids at 28. Now my problem is i have taken care of myself and look better now at 28 then i did at 18. on the other hand she has gained and im not kidding 100lbs since we met she doesn't have the willpower to lose it we've tried everything. I don t find her attractive anymore and she can tell (i always lie of course) but she can tell. Also on a completely separate situation we both are alpha dogs of our gender so we butt heads everyday about decisions and we argue a lot. our kids 1 and 7 don't like to hear us argue ( the older one of course). We have been at each other throats for the last 8 years or so we don't agree on anything and have nothing in common as she keeps telling me. I'm in the dog house everyday for some reason or another i believe she has anger issues but she wont admit to them. (ok now that you have a little info) my problem is this...I recently met a girl (during one of our arguments about getting a divorce) figured i needed a backup in case things were to end.. I met this chic shes single no kids 4 years younger We went out a couple times over a month or so sparks were flown she now tells me she falling for me and to be honest i feel the same way. I love my wife (like a friend) she feels the same. Im attracted to this new girl which is a nice feeling. new girl thinks im separated, i wanna make work for family but i cant get new girl out of my head i think i love her (now im ****** huh) |
| Question: What would be the total costs of marrying and flying a woman from Ukraine to the U.S.? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 05:01 AM PDT I have heard all the skepticism about mail order brides and what not. I just want to know the costs of what it would take to have her get her green card and background check as well as any other hidden fees. Flight tickets and the marriage certificate I can find out. Just need to know what the other costs are. |
| Question: When a married man wants to talk to another women and his wife doesn't know...? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 03:16 AM PDT Man wants to talk to womens either because they need emotional support which if they are not getting from home or its sex talk.... Do u agree? Otherwise if u work with ur colleages why would u wanna talk to them on the phone 10 times a day? And Ur wife doesn't know isn't thar cheating? |
| Question: Why would my husband lie about what his kids mother said to tell me? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 02:27 AM PDT The kids live with us full time and go to her house 2 days a week. I have never spoken to her except for saying hi at functions. The other day he tells me she said to tell me hi..I went through his messages and saw that what she actually said was to tell me thank you for all that I do for their kids...why would he lie? Does he not want me to have recognition..or does he not want her and I to get to know each other better, because this opens up more communication between her and I. |
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| Question: A player got married. Would he love his wife? Posted: 24 Jun 2015 11:23 PM PDT He married his cousin in an arranged marriage and already cheated on her with me (I didn't know he was married but we kissed. Nothing more). He was the one that didn't want to go further. It's only been a year that he is married. and he wanted to cheat on his wife with me just days into their wedding. Helps wife was back home in Pakistan. I think that now he and his wife have had sex. Do you think he could ever like her? Or does he like her? He was just using me for a year (talking sexting asking for nudes) while she was still back in Pakistan trying to arrange her for visa to come to England |
| Posted: 24 Jun 2015 11:16 PM PDT He promised me to take abroad along with him before marriage. I am also go to dubai and lived there for 2 months.and after I came to know his real situation. He is full of debts and credits it was huge. So he went to iraq to clear his debts. he sent me back to India After 2 months. My marriage life is over. Then he came to India every 6 weeks and stays for 10 days. In that days he always went to relatives house and spends time with his family members. He always meet me in night time and take sleep .he says that he will work for only six months and after take me back to dubai. But 1year six months finished. No debts cleared. My in laws and his relatives also draining his money and he doesn t understand s that. He says family and relatives are very important than you. It is a very hurting answer.he always says family family family in all conversations.its very annoying. marrge life is a question mark now. I feel very depressed. I am also thinking about divorce. But my family members are against this decision. I dont even have a job and financial assistance. Please suggest me whether I broke my marriage or not. |
| Question: When should I just give up? Posted: 24 Jun 2015 10:46 PM PDT So I've been married for about a year. And boy is it rough, my lovely husband told me in the beginning of our marriage that it should be a open marriage. I thought hey why not so I want out on a "date" and I came back and he said I cheated on him. So he said I'm gonna get even so I was fine whatever. So he went out the following week but what was different was that he didn't come home until 8am the next day. And I knew he has sex with her, so I asked and he kept say no he didn't. But he got mad and told me he did and how many times he did it. I know what a beautiful start right. But here is where I messed up. I felt lonely all the time like legit I was always stuck at home ( and still am,) so I started talking to my ex and things happend that I'm not proud of.... But we kind of climbed that giant hill and is sorta over it but you never really get over it. But a cue mts ago we had a big fight and I called the cops and he hasn't forgave me yet. But Im trying so hard to make up for it like coming out of my comfort zone and went to a nude swingers club (that I still have nightmares about) and other stuff. But all I get is "**** your depression I don't care" or " your annoying and everyone is going to tell you to go away everywhere you go".... so what should I do? Just leave or still fight for this marriage? |
| Question: Disown sister for wife? Posted: 24 Jun 2015 10:35 PM PDT I don't have a mom so for me and my 5 sisters growing up all we had was each other my wife is not very fond of one of my sisters my sister caused us to break up by telling a lie then after I got back with my wife and married her my sister admitted she lied recently my wife and I had an altercation with my sister I was trying to take pills I shouldn't be taking my wife was pulling me away from the pills my sister seen from outside thought my wife was trying to hurt me and barged in my house grabbed my wife by the hair pushed her and punched her in the back of the head I come from a very dysfunctional family where this stuff Happened all the time my sisters and I would fight physically and be so mad at each other then make up the next day my sister thought that her and my wife were going to magically make up my wife says choose me or your sister or were getting a divorce. |
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