Marriage & Divorce: Question: My 7 yr old is with her dad this week and i need to get her for a few hours on Thursday. he however is not wanting me to . what can i do ? |
- Question: My 7 yr old is with her dad this week and i need to get her for a few hours on Thursday. he however is not wanting me to . what can i do ?
- Question: My wife caught me watching porn?
- Question: Should I continue to pay 18 yr olds car insurance?
- Question: Everyone is engaged at 20, and my BF of 2 years hasn't proposed?
- Question: If my mother gets SS because of her age will RSDI be a seprated income?
- Question: Can I put a restraining order on my wife's new boyfriend?
- Question: If a married man and woman had an affair and the unholy ties broken by prayer can they be platonic friends?
- Question: 10 pts to honest opinion?
- Question: What does it say about marrying this guy? is this ok or even normal?
- Question: What would you do?
- Question: Husband said I dont wipe my a$$ properly?
- Question: When do you know if you want to separate?
- Question: Do you like your husband to always tell you what to do?
- Question: Girls if your husband or boyfriend gave you a wedgie what would you do?
- Question: Wife is mad at me....?
- Question: Is there a statute of limitation once you start the divorce process?
- Question: How do I introduce blindfolds into the bedroom?
- Question: Why do people try to make me feel jealous at them?
- Question: Is my husband Gay?
- Question: Can a marraige survive an emotional affair? Really wanting to here from people who have gone though one.?
- Question: Just married and a new baby, spouse cheats?
- Question: I need case de may husband and children?
- Question: Would you ever forgive a partner for cheating on you?
- Question: How to handle my disgust after husband went to a strip club?
- Question: Please help me, have a problem with my wife,?
- Question: If a guy tells you that he is unhappy in his arranged marriage?
- Question: Is this Friendly affection or Flirting?
- Question: How long can he hate ME? HONEST?
- Question: What kind of a legal document should I use to make a deal with my ex.?
- Question: If your husband was being investigated for looking up child porn would you leave him?
- Question: What should I do? Am I inlove with her? My son needs me?
- Question: How do I subtly, but firmly and semi-passive aggressivly ask my man to stop playing vidya so I can play vidya.?
- Question: Would you cheat on your husband if you knew he wouldn't know?
- Question: If you accidentally married a cousin without knowing?
- Question: Wife says she is not happy and is no long in love with me. She states a divorce is what she wants but won't sign the papers.?
- Question: Fathers day Ideas!!!?
- Question: Have a fiancee in Vietnam, she can't divorce because until her husband & her pay off a dept. Is this possible? Thank you, Danny?
- Question: If a guy tells you that he doesn't want to have an arranged marriage and that his marriage will just be 'something he has to go through with?
- Question: Am I being selfish to ask my husband to let some of his things go so we can get ahead?
- Question: Why do couples get married?
- Question: Is spending money from husband's card stealing?
- Question: I think my husband may be using drugs?
- Question: Is 18 too young to get married?
- Question: My husband has completely changed?
- Question: My wife doesn't wear her wedding band. This bothers me and she has said because it hurts her fingers. Maybe I am overreacting?
- Question: Is it ever okay for a spouse to have an affair if their spouse is on a long term downward spiral?
- Question: CAN MY HUSBAND FILE FOR A DIVORCE HE WENT TO PRISON FORASSAULTING ME?
- Question: Has anyone had an affair or know of anyone who did where they actually married?
- Question: How long will I keep pay alimony to my son while he is 18 years old and two months later was in it if legal action?
- Question: What makes a great life? Is it alot of money? Is it driving a nice car, or having a great marriage? Is it alot of food, or a great pet?
- Question: He lied to me about being married and guilty that I found out. So he blocked me. Could he still have feelings for me? It's been 2months?
- Question: MAJOR MARRIAGE ISSUE....?
- Question: My husband has a friend who cheats all the time with different woman?
- Question: Emotional blackmail?
- Question: Sad really?
- Question: How do i fix negative self worth?
- Question: Was I being unreasonable? Please answer! (Short question)?
- Question: I don't think I'm normal!!! HELP?!?!?
- Question: My husband s ex is still friends with his family. Should i be concerned when she s at family event s?
| Posted: 14 Jun 2015 09:50 PM PDT My daughter is 7 her father and i have joint custody and during the summer he has her one week Fri - Fri and I have her one week. However i have discussed with him that i will need her for a few hours this Thursday (his week) so that i can sign her up for ballet and jazz classes for this up coming year. I have already promised her i was coming . I am thinking about just showing up at his house and getting her on Thursday morning. He will mot be there but his wife will. Can she tell me no or can i get her anyways since she is my child and i am the main parent ? What can i do without getting in trouble ? It shouldn't be a big deal but with him everything is. |
| Question: My wife caught me watching porn? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 09:40 PM PDT So my wife caught me watching porn and masturbating but we haven't had sex in a month so what should I do. |
| Question: Should I continue to pay 18 yr olds car insurance? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 09:20 PM PDT Should I continue to pay my 18 yr old sons car insurance $160 a month? He lives with me & my new husband. He doesn't pay rent or bills or pay for any household items we never asked him to since he was a Senior in High school & just graduated last week. He has a part time job & does pay his own phn, gas, clths & other miss items or gng out things with his money. When I gave him his insurance statement he said he shouldnt have to pay it since he buys all those things for himself & he is saving most of his paychecks (isnt much wking part time) for college. I dont feel like I should be responsible paying for it anymore even if he is saving for college. I told him welcome to the real world he should be thankful we dont ask for rent. Now I feel bad, what should I do? |
| Question: Everyone is engaged at 20, and my BF of 2 years hasn't proposed? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 09:07 PM PDT have been dating this guy for 2 1/2 years. We are inseparable. I stay with him 4/7 days a week, we have date night every weekend, we take long vacations together, i've met his family recently and i've met his friends. However, I am only 20 years old, and he's 29. Not a big deal to me anymore, or really never had been, but anyway... I am from Alabama, and all of my high school friends that I know (should I say..knew) are mostly either married, pregnant, married and pregnant or a single mom. It's hard to explain how I feel, but I feel out of place for not getting engaged yet, especially after dating for so long. I attend a wonderful university with a mindset to graduate, and I am sorry for twisting the original question, but I guess maybe I feel out of place is because I feel like out of all of my friends, I am the only one who made it so far. I am not wanting to sound conceited at all, but when I log onto social media and see how someone is getting married or expecting a child, I have mixed emotions: I either say to myself, "wow, how could you manage to do that at such a young age, you're throwing your young years away to achieve anything personal," and the other hand I thinking, "wow, I wish I was engaged." Is this normal?? |
| Question: If my mother gets SS because of her age will RSDI be a seprated income? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 09:00 PM PDT |
| Question: Can I put a restraining order on my wife's new boyfriend? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 08:33 PM PDT My wife and I are separated and we're both seeing other people. We have two kids together. I found out her new boyfriend has an extensive criminal record. Can I get a restraining order to keep him from being around my children or should I just keep the children from him and my wife all together until we file for divorce and go to court and figure out the custody issues then? |
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| Question: 10 pts to honest opinion? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 08:20 PM PDT Through works, I knew a man who is living in another city. He is a friend of my friend. I have not met him but we often chat on Viber. He said "do you have a bf? I think you should get married". He asked for my photos but I did not send him one. I told him to view my clear profile photos on Viber. He said he will invite me for dinner when he visits my city. He said he got a son but did not tell any about his marital status ie divorced or married. What would ya think about him? |
| Question: What does it say about marrying this guy? is this ok or even normal? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 08:01 PM PDT i got married to a guy, but i found out he asked his ex back a lil less than 3 months before we got married. his ex didn't want him back. apparently she was a real sweet girl, but he hurt her a lot from what i hear. |
| Posted: 14 Jun 2015 07:59 PM PDT I am a mother of 4 and about to go thru divorce and daughter who is almost 9 came to me few days ago and told me daddy got mad at me and threw me down to the ground and against the wall but she said she deserved it cause she was being bad. ~ this is not the first te he has lost his temper with kids or with me. Couple days ago my 4 year old wasn't getting in the tub so he forcefully threw him in and now he has bruises on his back and arm. He told me tonight if I told anyone he would take the kids and house away and I would loose everything. His parents and family think he is so perfect and won't even talk to me or even hear anything I have to say, npr would they believe me. What would you do? |
| Question: Husband said I dont wipe my a$$ properly? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 07:57 PM PDT He said it marked his car seat I am really embarrassed and upset but he wont say sorry I always wipe well after I do a poo Is there a better way or is he being unreasonable? |
| Question: When do you know if you want to separate? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 07:22 PM PDT So I have been with my now husband for over 5 years. We have been married just over a year now. We met when we were in high school Our relationship has had its trials. His parents didn't approve of us dating at first, my religion disowned me for being with him, pregnancy scares..but through it all we have always been loyal and faithful to each other. Years go by and we are growing up trying to become adults. I'm naturally very ambitious and he is to be frank, lazy. I've always had to push him in life, everything from getting his license to getting a job. We move into out first place together and two months later, he decides to just walk off his job because he didn't like it anymore. Ever since then, it's been a train wreck financially. All the while, my love never fades, if anything it got stronger..Fast forward to the past 6 months and I do not have that same love for him. All of what he has done and continues to do has put me at my wits end. I'm not going to bad talk him, but I feel like I am raising and teaching a small child how to become an adult. And I'm over it. He loves me with all his heart, he would do anything for me. I know this to be true because of the things he has done for me over the years and what he still does today. I love him as well, but I'm not sure if it's the same love. I always communicate with him when something upset me, but this will send him over the edge. What should I do? I'm feeling more that I would rather struggle on my own. |
| Question: Do you like your husband to always tell you what to do? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 06:58 PM PDT |
| Question: Girls if your husband or boyfriend gave you a wedgie what would you do? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 06:50 PM PDT |
| Question: Wife is mad at me....? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 06:36 PM PDT I caught my son in bed with one of his best male friends and kicked him out of the house. He knows I'm a devout Christain and just decided to go against my wishes. But yet my wife is mad at me for enforcing MY rule and wi probably end up leaving me. How can I reason with her? |
| Question: Is there a statute of limitation once you start the divorce process? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 06:34 PM PDT |
| Question: How do I introduce blindfolds into the bedroom? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 06:26 PM PDT I m super shy about sex. I just have a hard time talking about it, which my husband knows. I ve been working on it a lot, but it s still weird for me. Anyway. I came across the idea of being blindfolded and I m really intrigued. I think I d like to be blindfolded. I wouldn t be into the kinky stuff that could come with it (tying up, spanking, etc.), but just losing that sense of sight could be interesting. How do I bring this up with my husband? Like I said, I m super shy. I don t do stuff like this haha I m rarely the one to come up with a new idea for in bed. So neither of us would be used to it if I just brought it up. He d probably be shocked. How should I approach it without it being super weird? |
| Question: Why do people try to make me feel jealous at them? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 05:57 PM PDT I got jealous of this couple because I wanted my own ordained husband and I had been looking for my husband. This, one day, came out of nowhere a small while back, and he said he liked the way I was playing the piano in the chapel. So, he played a little bit and I was impressed because he could play very well than I could. However, his girlfriend came in and that is when the awkwardness started to unfold. I really felt like she was showing me this was HER man and I couldn't have him. However, I didn't notice the band on his finger that they where married. On top of this, it just felt so awkward, I felt really jealous because I didn't have my own husband to be with at the time. However, the way she treated me was as If I was bloodthirsty for her husband in the beginning which I wasn't. He was a attractive but I want a husband who knows the LORD GOLD ALMIGHTY EL SHADDAI YAHUVEH; nothing more or less. Why do I feel so angry and upset still about this thing that went down? You know the only woman in their that really enjoyed me was the girl's mother. She is a sweet person. :/ I really feel hurt in so many ways. Why do people try to make me feel jealous at them? What did I do to deserve that type of response to the couple in the room? |
| Posted: 14 Jun 2015 05:13 PM PDT So my husband and I went out to a club this past Saturday with my 2 gay friends. We had a great time, but I noticed my husband was dancing very sexually with one of my gay friends. It caught me off guard and i confronted my husband about it when the night was over. He said he was just dancing and sometimes he enjoys dancing sexually with men as long as it doesn't go too far. He then told me my friend whispered in his ear "I would have done you, but its too late". I was shocked at what I heard and then asked my husband what his response was. He said he didn't say anything...Should I be concerned my husband is gay or Bisexual. Im totally confused by the whole situation and can not even bear to look at my husband the same way. Am I over reacting? |
| Posted: 14 Jun 2015 04:18 PM PDT I recently found out my husband contacted his ex fiance on fb. They were planning a future together. To divorce both their spouses and live happily ever after. They started sending very explicit texts and photos. I am so hurt and angry. I moved out but my husband is begging for me back. He has cut all contact to her and has given me the passwords to everything. He swears he can change and will wait as long as it takes and do whatever he has to not to lose his family. We have a one year old son. He started going to church and doing everything i asked but i dont feel anything but hurt. Everytime i look at him i see her and the photos. Is it possible to heal and make your marraige work? I dont want to lose my family but i think it would kill me if this ever happened again. |
| Question: Just married and a new baby, spouse cheats? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 04:10 PM PDT I'm at a loss of words because Ive never been cheated on before but 6 months into marriage and our premie baby has been home a week and in the hospital for 3, now he cheats. I don't know if I should be mad at him or myself because I told him again and again I wouldn't mind under certain circumstances but it hurts. I don't know what to do or how to feel? Our son just turned a month old. I know he's cheating because I saw his family memebers txts on the headline of his phone but when I opened it there were texts to another woman. I can't believe it. |
| Question: I need case de may husband and children? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 02:39 PM PDT |
| Question: Would you ever forgive a partner for cheating on you? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 02:27 PM PDT Can be quite varied, like a husband cheating on a wife may be more significant than a girlfriend cheating on a boy she's dated for a week, but would you forgive them? If so, under what circumstances? |
| Question: How to handle my disgust after husband went to a strip club? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 01:42 PM PDT My husband had an old friend visiting from out of town this weekend. I don't know that friend very well, but I learned too much about him during his visit. He likes to go to strip clubs apparently and persuaded my husband to go to a strip club with him. Truly, I don't care if my husband Goes to a strip club, but I trust that he will set boundaries. He didn't! He paid for a lap dance. I'm so disgusted with his behavior that I don't even want to touch him. I'm scared of what kind of diseases he caught while there. They're probably so rampant they're airborne. How can I get over this? I'm sickened at the thought of touching him after he disrespected me. @Natalie... I'm definitely not jealous! No way would I want to subject myself to that kind of lifestyle. I've known many strippers and "bartenders" since I live in dirty South Florida, everyone of them has psychological issues (mostly daddy issues). I am not jealous at all. I just find my husband to be disgusting. He should be turned off at the thought of a women who dances naked in front of other guys 20+ hours a week. It's not classy, no matter how expensive the club is. |
| Question: Please help me, have a problem with my wife,? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 01:42 PM PDT hey every one, i run an own biz, usually the money is good but sometimes i have downs, like couple of months every year, the rest of the year is fine, as long as the income is good, my wife treats me like a king, when the income becomes low and money at home drainsout, she turns to a monister, we start having hige fights, she keeps shouting infront of our son and just gets crazy, what should i do? |
| Question: If a guy tells you that he is unhappy in his arranged marriage? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 01:38 PM PDT And that I am lucky i can chose who I want to marry. He is also Muslim and tells me that he is allowed to have many wives. And wishes that more people believe in polygamy? What does that mean? Does he want me to be his second wife? Or does he just want sex? All i know is that i am literally turning right round and running away from him as far as possible |
| Question: Is this Friendly affection or Flirting? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 01:00 PM PDT Yesterday at a dinner gathering, my wife's cousin sat next to me at the dinner table. Then I felt something touching my leg and I thought it was my niece or nephew because they were running around and hiding under the table. But I realized it was my wife's cousin's leg. Then a little later she put her hand on my knee under the table and left her hand there. I was surprised stiff. I thought if I say anything I might cause a scene. I know she has been having problems with her husband. Can anyone tell me why she put her hand on my knee? |
| Question: How long can he hate ME? HONEST? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 12:43 PM PDT I kicked my husband out after discovering he was being inappropriate with the same skank that he was inappropriate with days after our son was born. He's decided to stay gone. He was claiming we would work toward building our marriage, but I discovered he was on dating sites and filed for divorce. He doesn't contact me at all, nor does he acknowledge the existence of our 8 month old son. I had to file a motion to proceed without service because he wouldn't sign or give me an address. How is it he treats ME like the one who destroyed everything? How could he so easily desert us? And make no mistake, it is US. Will he regret this one day? |
| Question: What kind of a legal document should I use to make a deal with my ex.? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 12:27 PM PDT Recently went through a messy divorce & as part of the settlement deal, I was supposed to give my ex half of my retirement. But now she is willing to forego her share of my retirement money for a specified amount of money & I am fine with it. But I just want to make sure that she does not dupe me. What kind of a legal document should I use to make this deal a legitimate & legal. And do I need a witness the day she signs this deal. Thanks... |
| Question: If your husband was being investigated for looking up child porn would you leave him? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 11:46 AM PDT If your husband was being investigated for the second time in four years for looking up child porn would you leave him? Say he is just being investigated but has not been charged and the cops showed up at your door twice in four years and seized his computer? What would you do? Would you have him around the kids? |
| Question: What should I do? Am I inlove with her? My son needs me? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 11:00 AM PDT Im married. It was ok at first but now she hits me, belittles me, hates my family and was seeing someone else.I left but went back. She got pregnant a month later. I think the baby is mine. wedecided to work on our marriage but the abuse and illtreatment continues.A couple week before the baby was born I met this woman. I hadnt noticed her at all but then we started talking and I quickly realized that she was Amazing, but different. I had never cheated on my wife before and although my love for her was fading I made a vow to her and the man that raised me thought me that I should never leave my family behind. Im talking to this woman. i tell her everything thats been happening in my marriage because I feel so comfortable around her. we finally agree to see each other. A day before we are supposed to meet she texts me and says she cant see me anymore but i call her and tell her I need her and she has a family too but its wrecking her because he beats her and she cant get out but we both feel like this might be a way out. We see each other, I had no intentions of having sex with her but she initiates it and we do,Only to find out she is all I want and I ve never had sex like this before. I go home thinking I can never see her again. I tell her that my wife and I has decided to work it out because it is best for our son. I feel bad that she feels used but I cant leave my son behind I grew up with no parents only an old grand uncle who taught me to do the right thing. |
| Posted: 14 Jun 2015 10:57 AM PDT I want him to play less games so I can be the man in this |
| Question: Would you cheat on your husband if you knew he wouldn't know? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 10:56 AM PDT Why or why not? |
| Question: If you accidentally married a cousin without knowing? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 10:10 AM PDT Could you stay married? Will the kids be deformed or have mental illness? |
| Posted: 14 Jun 2015 10:09 AM PDT I love her but we have been going through this the last year and a half of our four year marriage. The attraction just isn't there between us and we are just very awkward intimately.I tried going to counseling and taking her with but she just went the one time and that was all. I've prayed on it but I don't like the constant feeling of being unloved and our communication is awful. I'm just not sure what to do. We have a three year daughter together. Should I just file for divorce or do I continue to wait? I'm so lost. |
| Question: Fathers day Ideas!!!? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 09:47 AM PDT So, my husband and I have been together almost 9 years and we have one beautiful 5 year old daughter and im currently pregnant with number 2, so money is a little tight! However, I really want to do something special for him because he really is such an amazing father and husband, I feel blessed to have him. What are you doing for fathers day? Any budget friendly ideas? |
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| Posted: 14 Jun 2015 09:33 AM PDT Is he probably telling the truth? He said that his marriage would be a marriage of convenience. He wanted to have sex with me. He is Muslim so u know how strict their religion is. There is no way he could have been with me. (Or any ther girl for that matter of fact). Isnhenleing when he tells me all of this in the hopes that I love would have sex with him and believe what he says? Or is he really that unhappy about his wedding (to his cousin back in India) |
| Question: Am I being selfish to ask my husband to let some of his things go so we can get ahead? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 09:28 AM PDT I am going to have our third baby and despite saving for my 12 week leave, we still need $5500 for bills and expenses. My husband had three cars and he won t part with any of them. He hasn t touched them in 3 or more years! Am I selfish?! |
| Question: Why do couples get married? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 08:20 AM PDT |
| Question: Is spending money from husband's card stealing? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 08:12 AM PDT It's not about me or anyone else. Just asking. |
| Question: I think my husband may be using drugs? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 07:48 AM PDT My husband has a history with addiction. Through his teen years he abused pills...He even ran drugs for a while. He decided in his early 20s to get clean. We've been together for 2 years and there have been times that I've suspected something was going on. Recently, we just moved into a house and he got a new job. The people he works with seem...A little shady to me. Anyway, recently money has just been disappearing. Any time there is cash anywhere he takes it, then the next day asks for more. Sometimes he gets home and goes straight to the bathroom and locks the door. We don't have a counter...just a square sink with corners...i put my hair up for work every morning, so i always have hair spray on one side, soap on the other. I might have pins or something too. When he goes in there, he always puts my stuff on the floor...lately there's been powder in the sink after his bathroom time. Then, he gets really itchy...really itchy. He'll get really focused either on games, or cleaning, or something...then he crashes and can barely stay awake. His nose gets runny and he refuses to blow his nose. He gets angry if I pick up his phone for anything. If I try to do his laundry and start emptying pockets, he freaks out and takes them. He almost had a wreck yesterday. I woke him up when I screamed and grabbed the steering wheel. His moods are erratic to say the least...I just don't know how to confront him. I don't know what to do. Help. |
| Question: Is 18 too young to get married? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 07:44 AM PDT I am 18 and he is 22 we have been together 3 years and I have lived with him for the past year. we are not getting married for any other reason then we lave each other we don t have kids and I am not pregnant. So I think that makes a difference. Both of our parents are happy for us and we have a house of our own and both have jobs. And we already pay all of our bills on our own with no help from our parents |
| Question: My husband has completely changed? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 07:41 AM PDT I'm sorry, I'm gonna rant for a minute. When my husband and I were dating, before marriage was even an option, he would take me to church with him when he would come in to visit (he was in the army, stationed out of town), he was very kind to my family, and he was the perfect man it seemed. When we got married, things were fine for a couple of months, we hit some hard times with finances and living situations, and then the "real him" started to show. We found out I was pregnant, we moved home. He refuses to go to church with me or my family, he won't go at all. He cusses at my little sister, who is 7, tells her that she won't be welcome in our home when we get our own place, he constantly bashes on my mom about her parental decisions to the point to where he will stay away from my family for weeks at a time. He believes that my mom babies her children (I agree) but that is not his business and I feel that I shouldn't have to suffer because of his decisions. His mom has accused me of stealing their truck, takes my prenatal vitamins away and tells me I don't need them, tells me it's okay to have a beer every now and then while I'm pregnant, it's literally affecting me to stay there instead of with my family, but he chooses not to come around my family. It's causing us serious problems.. idk what to do. He gets angry and broke his phone that my dad bought for him, I'm on bedrest and he tells me I need to suck it up and go to work, hes not the same. What do I do? |
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| Posted: 14 Jun 2015 06:38 AM PDT I know it sounds bad, but lack of communication, lack or normal activities, the change in roles over a long period of time really just gets me down. Physical contact is no longer the same... I've held off for ten years and resisted, but I've needs as well. I think I'm getting depressed. So, I thought I'd just vent a minute here. |
| Question: CAN MY HUSBAND FILE FOR A DIVORCE HE WENT TO PRISON FORASSAULTING ME? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 06:37 AM PDT MY HUSBAND WAS JUST SENT TO PRISON FOR DOMESTIC ASSAULT ON ME & WE HAVE TWO NEWBORN BABIES TOGETHER. NOW ALLTHE SUDDEN HE WANTS A DIVORCE. I WAS HOPIMG WE COULD GET MARRIAGE COUNSELING WORK THINGS OUT. WHAT SHOULD I DO & CAN HE JUST UP & FILE FOR A DIVORCE LIKE THAT BUT IF I REFUSE TO SIGN THE DIVORCE PAPERS WHAT HAPPENS THEN?... |
| Question: Has anyone had an affair or know of anyone who did where they actually married? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 06:26 AM PDT |
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| Posted: 14 Jun 2015 04:40 AM PDT He always told me he was going to get an arranged marriage and that it would never work out between us. He wasn't keen on getting married and would always tell that to me. He would tell me that he would cheat on his future wife. And that he wishes that the day he gets married is not anytime soon. He wanted to be fwb with me and made it clear that he couldn't promise me anything. We kissed and saw each other naked but didn't go further. Partly because at first i plain out REFUSED to put out (I wanted a relationship) and secondly because he also realized that it was wrong of him to ask me to be his fwb because he knows I'm the good girl type and he even said he respects me and that we shouldn't do it . So we didn't do it. But later I found out he had been lieing to me from he very beginning and was already married. He said its best we don't speak. But clearly he is not happy with his current situation otherwise he wouldn't have cheated on his wife with me or he wouldn't have continued to tlak to me. Do u think he will still have feelings for me? I know I should move on but he is not happy in his marriage.. |
| Question: MAJOR MARRIAGE ISSUE....? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 04:05 AM PDT Plz help With Any advice you can give me about this issue I had no intentions on experienceing......LONG STORY SHORT: I have been Married since May 31,2015 & dated 4&1/2 years prior to that Also have a 6 & 1/2 year old daughter together. Anyhow we talked 1 day about some ideas on what we could do to have better,happier and Honest marriage. My MAIN Suggestion was for him to Stop allowing all of his Free Spare time to being on his phone!! So he agreed and I was SOOOO SUPER HAPPY&EXCITED That our marriage would start to get much better. After a FEW DAYS, for whatever reason idk, we had an argument and he Went STRAIGHT BACK TO HIS ADDICTION!!! UM OK @ THAT POINT I STARTED THINKING 2 VERY IMPORTANT THINGS #1 DO I REALLY WANT TO CONTINUE IN MY MARRIAGE WITH A MAN THAT HAS JUST SHOWN ME HIS HAPPINESS IS HIS PHONE, WELL IT DOESN'T WORK LIKE THAT MY WAY. & #2 HE JUST BROKE A PROMISE THAT WAS VERY IMPORTANT TO OUR MARRIAGE **?BECAUSE OF A PETTY ARGUEMENT??** |
| Question: My husband has a friend who cheats all the time with different woman? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 03:27 AM PDT His gf is 6 months pregnant which he wanted her to abort! He cheats all the time!! The problem I have is that he tells my husband all his seedy sex stories and it's ppl we both know and I don't want him to be telling him stuff like that!.. about people we know! .. now my hubby thinks everyone else has a better sex life than us ! I don't think hubby would cheat but this guy treats women awful he got 2 women pregnant at the same time!! He disrespects women so bad! I hate my husband having a friend like that.. He causes arguments in our marriage and I want shut if him but hubby doesnt!! HELP!! |
| Question: Emotional blackmail? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 03:27 AM PDT My girlfriend ditched our plans to hang out with her friends on purpose to spite me because she feels I work too much an always tired so I don't spend enough time as she needs with her. I work 64hrs 5 days a wk. Then says she feels I don't care about her at all and when I do make extra time (sacrificing sleep) in order to fix the issue I'm doing it not because I want to but because she bitched and moaned about it.I'm pretending. I got offended and hurt bc I work hard professionally and I work hard to give my relationship the time it needs and she makes it clear it's not enough. I also cook, clean and during the day howl with our kid. I feel unappreciated and taken for granted. I told her how I feel and Instead of trying to understand where I'm coming from she adds that I'm selfish and if I don't give her all the time she needs she will get it from elsewhere. She's said this to me a few times before during arguments. I told her to go ahead and do what she has to do and to leave me alone. She turns around asking me to tell her that I love her. I said no I don't feel like soothing her with those words because I feel disrespected and I'm hurt. She asks again saying she needs to hear it because she's feeling suicidal(she has a history) Immediately instead of compassion I felt annoyed because I felt like she used feeling suicidal to manipulate me so I'm no longer upset turning my focus to her. Am I wrong or does this seem like emotional blackmail? |
| Posted: 14 Jun 2015 03:12 AM PDT Hi I'm feeling sad isolated Well I'm married and have 2 daughters I have recently lost a lot weight for myself and for my husband and call me crazy he hasn't taken me out for me to feel proud or his proud of me we stay home most of time and we can have date nights I have my mum but we do nothing. |
| Question: How do i fix negative self worth? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 02:38 AM PDT I've been with my fiance now for almost 2 years. We have dealt with alot of problems mostly in the beginning because the last man I committed to had an affair with a younger woman and I have always had trust issues due to feeling abandoned by anyone I've ever been close to. I tend to push away to see how soon they will leave... Anyways back to my problem.. My fiance has never been unfaithful even though I have. He proved he loved me by actually flying me back home after I left state with another man. I feel as if he is going to cheat now just in spite, I've caught him watching porn, checking out other woman, and even stating my sister, whom is 7 years my jr, has alluring eyes.. My problem is I don't feel worthy of his love now. He swears he is happy, will/ would never cheat on me, and I am still he wants. But the woman he checks out and watches on tv ( porn) look and act NOTHING LIKE ME. I don't know how to fix this aching feeling of NOT really being what he wants. I feel worthless.. How do I fix this???? |
| Question: Was I being unreasonable? Please answer! (Short question)? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 02:37 AM PDT So I messaged my boyfriend on Facebook and asked him if his son who is 13 could just come over for one week then one week with his mom then one week with us, etc. because my boyfriend isn't working and hasn't worked in over a year. He got all pissy with me and said "what a nice way to wake up" then didn't talk to me for a couple days. I then said I don't like being ignored and he said that what I said was a stab in the heart and asked me if i would have stood for it if he said the same thing to me.. Was I out of line? I've been going through a lot the past year. I lost my job of 20 years, both my parents within 30 days apart then my own sister evicted me. I also support him. Just tell me if I was really out of line? And the only reason I asked him on facebook is because I'm working 12 hrs a day, one day of a week and he's been so hard to talk to lately. and I only asked becausse I cannot afford the food!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! my 20 yr old son lives here, doesn't work, my boyfriend doesn't work... I wasn't asking him not to see his son but it's expensive. and yes my son lives here free but my boyfriend has no right to be mad because me and my daughter pay all the bills. i'm saying he stays at our house all week, i don't care. he wanted him to stay all summer, i can't afford it! i make $9 an hr what the **** am i suppose to say |
| Question: I don't think I'm normal!!! HELP?!?!? Posted: 14 Jun 2015 02:13 AM PDT I had an uncle who was a big part of my life for the first 14 years. When I was 7 he met this woman who he married when I was 8. She was cool for a while but then she started talking $h!t about our family. This family had problems of its own but she made them worse and I understand that she's his wife and he loves her but when she started talking about my.mom in a bad way he took her side. We had moved and within 5 months he cut all contact with everyone except his dad because he gave him money when he asked for it. I'm a mother and a wife with a great career but when I was a teenager when he first left I used to think about seeing him because I missed him. I used to think about telling him off for leaving me the way he did, without a goodbye. Well eventually I grew up and it didn't bother me until I ran into him at Starbucks, I didn't recognize him at first but I could tell he recognized me and we both went our separate ways without a single word. Then all those teenage abandonment thoughts came back..I don't know if this is normal!!! Please someone help!!! **My abusive father left when I was 10, so I guess you could say I had abandonment issues and trust issues** |
| Posted: 14 Jun 2015 12:31 AM PDT My husband s family had a get together and his ex came to it. His sister could tell i was having an issue with her being there. So she told me that s still her friend and she invited her. His family and including my husband seems to not find an issue with her coming to the get together. I just find it somewhat disrespectful that his single ex is allowed at my in laws homes while my husband s there. I don t know should I be concerned?? My husband s never really given me a reason to not trust him. However i do not trust her at all. For the most part she has let me known that she is not over him. Please help i don t want to make an issue out of nothing, but i feel there is an issue you here. |
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