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- Question: How do you tell someone you're depressed?
- Question: How to live without Netflix?
- Question: Ok so my brother is 9 all he does is play his iPad all day..I ask him to go outside and he says LEAVE ME ALONE how do I make him go outside.?
- Question: Why is my mom getting mad at me for saying this?
- Question: Is this unfair or what!?
- Question: Did I handle this badly?
- Question: Hello all, I need some help on how to tell my son that I wanted to abort him?
- Question: Will some one help me?
- Question: Why does my dad hate me?
- Question: My mom won't quit smoking?
- Question: How can I move out?
- Question: My mom is always gone, any help?
- Question: My parents are making me go to summer school what do I do?
- Question: How to tell my parents im pregnant?
- Question: Is it really healthy for a family to ALWAYS be together?
- Question: Me and my dad are fighting, what should i do?
- Question: Do I need to feel guilty?
- Question: How do I back out of a commitment nicely when something else comes up?
- Question: How do I tell my dad to stop calling me 'buddy'?
- Question: My sister has changed?
- Question: Why does every time I try to help all I do is make matters worse?
- Question: I get anxious around little kids and do not know how to interact with them, please help?
- Question: I always feel like their is someone waching me though my window !!!?
- Question: I really want to move, what do I tell my parents...?
- Question: Found porn and young teenager pictures on my husbands phone for the third time is it time to leave?
- Question: My little brother is out of control! Help?!?
- Question: How do i make 4 hours go by fast.?
- Question: My dad yells at me when I m sleeping?
- Question: Should I continue letting my mom to use my bathroom?
- Question: Do people remember things that happen when they're drunk?
- Question: What are some fun things for 13/14 year old girls to do at home?
- Question: Two birthday events on the same day, which one should I attend?
- Question: How come some inbred families are not deformed?
- Question: My children were taken from me and put in a worse situation being placed in the home with their Alcoholic drug addict father what can I do?
- Question: What are some fun things for 13/14 year old girls to do at home?
- Question: I hate babysitting my younger brothers?
- Question: What does born and bread mean?
- Question: I feel like I'm the "black sheep" in my family... what do I do?
- Question: Is this a bad idea?
- Question: Does my sister in law deserve to labeled the black sheep?
- Question: My dad made me feel worthless?
- Question: How to improve relations in family members?
- Question: My brother is constantly having sex publicly and loudly?
- Question: I can't decide on who to stay with. Divorced parents problem (also a pet cat is involved)?
- Question: So my dad is cheating on my mom.I hate my dad so much .what can I do to revenge ?
- Question: Why are my parents so rude to me?
- Question: My dad is cheating on my mom. I don't know what to do?
- Question: Am I bad for wanting my parents to divorce?
- Question: How much money a day is good for a sixteen year old?
- Question: How normal is it for my 16 year old son to always be peeking at me when undressing for bed or getting out of the shower?
- Question: Can I share this with my sister?
- Question: My mom and my sister won't stop fighting, and it's bad, what do I do?
- Question: How can I persuade my parents to let me drive to college?
- Question: Brother and sister sharing room?
- Question: If a boy disrespects his mother as a result of his mother always losing her temper due to alcoholic binges, is it her fault?
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- Question: How do I tell my parents I lied to them?
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| Question: How do you tell someone you're depressed? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 12:53 PM PDT |
| Question: How to live without Netflix? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 12:51 PM PDT My brothers annoying meddling girlfriend changed the password to their Netflix because I watched Orange is the new black and I'm 14. Though I would probably just watch it when I turn older so what's the point? I don't like watching TV in the living room because my parents are loud and intrusive. I'm an inside person, what can I do or watch on my tablet or iPhone to pass the time? |
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| Question: Why is my mom getting mad at me for saying this? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 12:42 PM PDT We were heading out to eat dinner one day, and she gave us options to choose from, like Chinese or Italian. Majority of us said Chinese (including dad), but she said we're getting Italian anyway. She often does this with other things. Vacation, lunch, etc. or if I want to get tutored for SAT. Even if I say I don't want to get tutored, she'll make me anyway or ask me until I say yes. I got fed up with it so I just tell her to do whatever she likes since she'll be choosing for us. She gets mad and starts yelling at me. Then whenever something is missing (like food), she blames me and will start yelling when I deny it. |
| Question: Is this unfair or what!? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 12:41 PM PDT I think my mother has favorites, she treats me like dirt if my sister does something to me and I tell her she ignores me if I hit my sister back I get in trouble, if I'm thirsty and I say it over and over she'll give my sister something to drink, I'm not even in school never have been, Do you think this is unfair? |
| Question: Did I handle this badly? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 12:38 PM PDT I was at my boyfriends house overnight so I could go with them to this big family dinner the next day. He lives with his parents and usually my stays last about a week at most. We're both 18 btw. It was getting close to the time for me to leave when I got sick with a slight fever. So obviously they wanted me to go home sooner but then my dad (who I live with) texted me and said not to come home until I wasn't sick anymore because he is babysitting his friends child who has a weak immune system for the next few days. So then my bfs mom starts freaking out and getting onto my boyfriend for keeping me here when I have germs but he keeps telling her that I'm not allowed to go home and I heard him say "what do you wanna do? Dump her in the street somewhere?!" I felt so sick and the drama was making me feel worse. The next day my boyfriend and I were watching TV in the living room and when he left his mom came in and started yelling at me. Saying I was selfish, going to get everyone sick, making my problems their problems. I was stunned and didn't know what to do. I started crying and having a panic attack and I ran out of the room to find my bf and she followed me still yelling. I threw myself in his arms begging him to get her to stop being mean to me. I was still sobbing so much it was hard to get my words out. This was all in front of his sisters and, dad and brother in law. I don't know why I did that. Getting yelled at by her just scared me..I couldn't even yell back? |
| Question: Hello all, I need some help on how to tell my son that I wanted to abort him? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 12:26 PM PDT I'm going to tell but I need some help on how to tell him that I wanted to abort him, he's 10, I'm 28, I also have a daughter but I don't want to tell her because I know girls are more sensitive and deserve more attention and love. |
| Question: Will some one help me? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 12:23 PM PDT What kind of person takes part in nonviolent action, according to Dr. King? To what extent are they fighters? To what extent peacemakers? What part do politics and religion play in their thinking? What part do hatred and love play in their decision to act? Can you see yourself joining in a nonviolent protest? Please answer all parts of the question |
| Question: Why does my dad hate me? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 12:23 PM PDT I'm the oldest, the 'guinea pig kid' of my family, as my Dad calls it. He abused physical by throwing me at walls, punching, kicking, and hitting me when I was really little. He also would say mean things to me or would try to scary me in anyway he could, now I can't look through a dark window without fear. He was alright as I got older, he'd still curse at me or hit me every so often. Now I'm in HS. He emotional and verbal abuses me. Sometimes he's so rude that I sob in my room and feel as if I've just had my heartbroken. He still hits my younger siblings. Today I tried to hold something away from him and he ripped it out of my arms, scaring me so bad bc I thought he would hit me. I was so terrified, I can't even explain it. I know he has diabetes, bipolar, depression, and anger management issues. I have depression and I'm a bit anorexic, mostly because of my parents. I honestly think I will just leave for Uni and never return bc of him. I forgot to say that just leaving with my mom and siblings is not a solution bc my mom still loves my dad and she would never leave him |
| Question: My mom won't quit smoking? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 12:11 PM PDT I'm 16 and my mom is 39,she never smoked all her life and only started smoking 7 months ago ,she always says she will quit but never does she always has an excuse to smoke ,whenever I tell her how bad it is she always agrees with me .i always tell her to stop and sometimes she gets really mad and tells me to mind my own business ,I'm really worried about her and I'm so against smoking because I know how bad it is and that it causes death ,I can't loose my mother I love her too much :( , and I don't really have a dad because he left us a long time ago so it will just be me and my little sister :(,what do I do :(? |
| Posted: 17 Jun 2015 12:01 PM PDT I just graduated high school a year early and I'm trying to figure out everything I would need to move out before I turn 18. I live in some middle of nowhere ****-hole called Toledo, Washington, full of dumb rednecks and a select handful of people I consider friends. Work is essentially non-existent unless I could make a 40 mile round trip to Chehalis, the biggest town in this county. Can't do that, though, because I don't have a car or license. I'm willing, ready, and able to do any paying work so I could get a foundation for myself built up. What I'm basically asking is, what should I do now? Could I emancipate myself? Should I just join the peace corps and get the **** out of here? I don't really know where to go now. School never really gave me direction that would stick like that. |
| Question: My mom is always gone, any help? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 12:01 PM PDT She'll be gone between 10-11 hours a day and may or may not come home sometimes. When she does come home, she acts all innocent and kind which isn't "normal" in my household, because she usually doesn't want to talk to me and my siblings like that. I don't ask where she goes I only go off of what she tells me where she's going . however, today I'm getting really concerned because she told me she was going out for groceries and other stuff and left home at like 3 p.m. and while she was gone , several family members kept calling the house asking for her. One of them told us that she told them she was picking up my older brother, however that was a lie because none of us left the house the entire day. When she finally came back home at 2 a.m. (with no groceries) we all were concerned especially bc she lied and dragged her own son into a lie. We don't know how we should trust her nowadays or how to confront her without her getting hostile. It's bad enough that it's summer and we haven't gone anywhere but stayed in the house except her. Btw, she doesn't have a job. |
| Question: My parents are making me go to summer school what do I do? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 11:56 AM PDT So me and my brother were 'fighting' and my dad said he's making me go to summer school. I passed all my classes with C's and B's and he's making us go just for an argument between me and my brother. What the actual **** do I do? I'm a freshmen btw |
| Question: How to tell my parents im pregnant? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 11:44 AM PDT I am 24 years old, engaged to be married in October, own my own home, have a full time job, and have a degree. I am currently expecting a baby with my fiance and while I didn't want to be pregnant at my wedding, we are happy about our gift. I have no idea how to tell my mother. I wanted to write her a letter but is this a bad idea? My problem is my mom likes to think about things, let it sink in, and then talk about it. I am more of a let's discuss and get this over with now person. However, these two differences often get us in trouble where my mom says something the wrong way or I take it wrong. My relationship with my mother has come a long way over the years and i don't want this to ruin it! Help please! |
| Question: Is it really healthy for a family to ALWAYS be together? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 11:36 AM PDT I'm a 29 year old single guy and you'd think, as a single guy, I'd have freedom. But I don't. My dad believes that families should ALWAYS be together. So, he always wants him, my mom and I to always be together when we do thing. When shopping, all three of us must be together. When going to do the laundry, all three of us should be together. When strolling just to take a walk and get exercise, all three of us should be together. EVERYTHING we must do together and it's driving me crazy. I'm a single adult and want to live my own life too, but my dad insists that it's very unhealthy for a family to be separated and do things on their own. Whenever we walk outside and people always see us doing things together, all of our neighbors compliment us that we look like such a nice family because we're always together. And that's why my dad feels encouraged to keep doing things together. People look up to us because of that and so, I'm being pushed to always be with my parents instead of living my own life. So, is my dad doing the right thing by making us stick together all the time? |
| Question: Me and my dad are fighting, what should i do? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 11:27 AM PDT Okay let me start by saying i love my father to death, and we never fight. Im 15 and my dad has a drinking problem, and its been getting bad and this morning my father and mom and fighting really bad and they started cursing eachother out and started fighting in front of my sister who was sleeping i told them to stop but they didnt so my sister woke up and started crying and freaking out. I got mad at both them and told them if they wanted to fight they shouldnt do it in front of us. So since i had school my dad was driving and told him that they shouldnt fight in front of us like that, and he called me a ***** and slapped me in the car so out of anger i told him to fuq off, and i slammed the door. Since then we havent spoke. I feel bad what should i do? |
| Question: Do I need to feel guilty? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 11:24 AM PDT I'm just confused as to whether or not I should feel guilty or bad. I'm 22, single dad, my daughter Danielle is 5. Thankfully, a great friend of mine moved in with me. So last night was his 23rd birthday. We had a party in the apt with our friends, she was there too. He and I, both got really hammered. First time in forever, I partied like that, I've had social life on the backburner for 5 years, no regrets, no complaints. Anyway, we got drunk and we were so affectionate with her. All night she was getting lots of hugs from both of us. I was giving a barrage of kisses, tickling, she was giggling all night. I told her whatever she wanted, she could have. I set no limit on how much dessert she got, nothing. She was up until 4 with the adults. Should I feel guilty for giving my daughter the night of her life but I was drunk while doing so? |
| Question: How do I back out of a commitment nicely when something else comes up? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 11:15 AM PDT OK. So here's the situation. I was invited to my husband's cousins bachelorette party. It's a destination party and I said yes and made arrangements for travel and all. Today, my uncle offered to pay for another trip somewhere at THE SAME TIME. It's a once in a lifetime travel opportunity for me and my husband. I don't know what to do!!! I love his cousin but this other offer is something we'd really regret not taking. HELP!!!!! |
| Question: How do I tell my dad to stop calling me 'buddy'? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 11:01 AM PDT He has always called me that growing up and I really dislike it. I would much rather he just call me by my name. |
| Question: My sister has changed? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 11:01 AM PDT So my sister was in a different country for 4 years,she came back today and is so different! She fluently speaks the language but still knows English. Her voice is deeper and she has an accent. She's also pregnant,she's in her late teens. We used to have a great sibling relationship but now it's just awkward. She's all serious and not as fun and lively as she was 4 years ago. She hasn't even asked about her friends. She missed 4 years of school while she was in the different country and is supposed to be in college now and she also missed her GCSEs. What should I do? |
| Question: Why does every time I try to help all I do is make matters worse? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 10:59 AM PDT Everytime I want to help or do something so my parents dont have to, all I do is break something or ruin it or something. BTW im 13 |
| Question: I get anxious around little kids and do not know how to interact with them, please help? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 10:49 AM PDT Hi, I'm an 18 year old girl. Growing up most of my cousins were older than me, and if they were younger, it was only by a few years. My only sibling is two years younger than me so it's not a big deal either. I have anxiety and something that really triggers me is having to interact with younger children--anywhere from like 1-8.I think I am this way because I've never really had to interact with them for a long period of time and I panic because I don't know how. I will be meeting my boyfriend of eight month's younger sister ( who is about three or four) this weekend. I really want to make a good impression and not have him be put off if i act awkwardly. Does anyone have any advice or tips for getting along with younger children? Thank you =) |
| Question: I always feel like their is someone waching me though my window !!!? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 10:44 AM PDT Ok so exactly yesterday night my brother was coming home and was parking his car when he said he saw somebody biking away from my window. in the past both me and my brother have literally seen someone standing inches away from our window. It happens to be the same bedroom too. I don't know I'm really freaked. This has always happened at night. i don't sleep easy so I'm probably always up til 11-2 which probably isn't a good thing because whoever it is probably has all that time to watch me oh god. my parents are fully aware they even checked around the house. what do i do ? |
| Question: I really want to move, what do I tell my parents...? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 10:44 AM PDT I live in New York and I absolutely hate it here. I used to be really close with my friends but I'm not anymore and I feel alone and bored and I just want a fresh start. I'm going to be a junior in high school next year. I want to move to somewhere like Rhode Island because I know a lot of people from there and I fit in way better there, as a lot of people in New York are materialistic. Also, I almost kind of feel like I was born in the wrong state as I love being near water (the ocean) and New York has nothing like that. I would wait, but I don't want to ruin the rest of my HS years. The only problem is that my dad has a job in NYC that he can't really get anywhere else. Should I talk to my parents? What do I say? |
| Posted: 17 Jun 2015 10:39 AM PDT So I've been married for 5 years and Were both in our twenties. Recently I noticed my husband had many pictures of young girls and cleavages all over his phone. Also I found a picture of my young teenage sisters a cousin and a close friend of mine. It was pictures he found off Facebook. Anyway I confronted him about it and he said its a virus. He's acting very convincing. Can this really happen or is he lieing to me? This has been the 3rd time it happened. He never wants to have sex with me we haven't in weeks. I need some advice :( I love him and I feel so sad and betrayed by this.i also forgot to add that I found a picture of a little girl that was waiting outside for the bus. Is he obbess with little girls?? Or virus? |
| Question: My little brother is out of control! Help?!? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 10:37 AM PDT My little brother is 8 yrs old and I have to share a rool with him 😒. Anyways, because we share a room I see him a lot more than my parents do and the kid has some issues. He "invented" this thing called 'spread the butter' where he pulls off his underwear and shorts under his covers aid swirls his hips around. Also he cusses like a sailor. My parents know none of this , in fact they think he is this cute little angel, when he verbally and sometimes physically abuses me at night (throwing soccer cleats or other objects at me) calling me names and such. How do I tell my parents without them thinking I tought him any of that or making my brother hate me (making sharing rooms even more misrable)? |
| Question: How do i make 4 hours go by fast.? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 10:26 AM PDT im at my grandparents house and im with my papa, i dont like my papa because hes grumpy and old. my phone is dead and i have 7 percent left on my laptop. i still have about 4 hours till my nana gets home. help me? |
| Question: My dad yells at me when I m sleeping? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 10:25 AM PDT |
| Question: Should I continue letting my mom to use my bathroom? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 10:16 AM PDT So my mom recently started using my bathroom BECAUSE her shower is taking so long to warm up and so she wants to use my shower which is warmer than hers. I really don't like how she is invading my privacy..but I don't want to let her to continue taking the cold shower and get sick..I'm in such a dilemma..what should I do? nvm about the invading privacy thing lol |
| Question: Do people remember things that happen when they're drunk? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 10:15 AM PDT I've done something bad to my sister and I hope she never finds out. I have this big crush on his fiance, he's very attractive and nice. He has low alcohol tolerance and just for the fun of it I mixed a strong cocktail for him saying it's nothing really (I was staying at their place for a job interview near where they live, but my sister was attending a conference out of town so it was just the two of us). I myself have never got drunk so I don't know how it's like to black out totally. When he did I just sorta kissed him and did some other little things (nothing really bad, though). I think he was half awake and half asleep but more asleep; at one point he called my sister's name and I said yes. The next morning I went out without him noticing but returned for dinner in the evening with my sister also, and about the previous night his fiance only said: what did you give me yesterday, it was too strong I had a lie-in this morning. Actually he and my sister even had a laugh about it. I think he doesn't remember anything, but I'm afraid that he'll remember all of a sudden (but I don't think it's possible?). I read that alcohol disrupts the part of the brain that remembers stuff so I hope it won't come to him ever, because my sister will be furious and cut me off, and he will too. I also feel guilty about it but I think I also had a bit too many drinks. For you who have passed out some time or another in the past, do you ever remember things that happened when you're drunk? |
| Question: What are some fun things for 13/14 year old girls to do at home? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 10:13 AM PDT |
| Question: Two birthday events on the same day, which one should I attend? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 10:07 AM PDT My niece is turning 2 the same day my sister in law is turning 38. They are both lunches at the same time. Which party would you go to? We can't do both. |
| Question: How come some inbred families are not deformed? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 09:59 AM PDT Supposedly older royal families (various kings and queens, princes, princesses, nobles) married their own to keep the royal bloodlines pure. If they had children with each other then would they not have lower IQs and deformities of some sort? |
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| Question: What are some fun things for 13/14 year old girls to do at home? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 09:53 AM PDT |
| Question: I hate babysitting my younger brothers? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 09:43 AM PDT Every other week of summer vacation I have to babysit my little brothers (9and 7). They don t listen, trash the house, and almost broke a lamp once. I m 12 turning 13 in a couple weeks by the way. This morning I accidentally slept in and got a ton of missed calls from my mom. She was pissed and I don t understand why. Shes always mad i think she needs anger management (even my step dad said so but not in front of her). Were all fine but she doesn t even wake me up she just screams that shes leaving for work from the other side of the house. And its not like i choose to do this im FORCED. And shes always nagging about how I don t hang out with people enough. IM BABYSITTING THESE BRATS ALL DAY??? And I don t even get paid for any of this. I feel like my summer is being thrown away. I m also scared to death about being home alone most of the day. I m scared of bad things happening while a parent isn t home. |
| Question: What does born and bread mean? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 09:19 AM PDT i had to ask this question its been bothering me for a while now. My dad and I were at this guys house and he asked us where we were from and my dad said were from Boston then he looked at me and said well bread. So what does born and bread mean? Does it mean from? |
| Question: I feel like I'm the "black sheep" in my family... what do I do? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 09:18 AM PDT When I was born, I was basically destined to be the black sheep. My sister is 8 years older than me and my brother is 12 years older than me. I lived a majority of my life feeling like an only child rather than the youngest.... my sister at college and her own apartment, my brother with a wife and kids when I was barely in high school. My family is so close minded (in my opinion). They are SOMEWHAT racist and sexist, though they don't think they are, whereas I strongly believe in equality for all races and genders. They're catholic, whereas I see no point in religion. My family thinks my dreams are a joke. I want to take care of animals and maybe move to a different country one day. I want to get married and not have kids. They act like I'm Satan for not wanting kids. They laugh when I talk about moving to Spain or Italy for a year. Since I'm the youngest, it is true that I've been "spoiled" a lot. My older siblings are constantly saying negative things about me and it feels like the whole family has something against me simply because I didn't have to pay my cell phone bill in high school, was allowed to go to senior week etc. My family never understands why I don't wish to spend more of my time with them. When I try to explain these feelings their answers are like "oh shut up you know we love you." I definitely feel like I'll be better off someday when I have my own house and am able to distance myself. I just don't know what to do. |
| Posted: 17 Jun 2015 09:17 AM PDT I plan to leave home and travel 2 hours away to live with my boyfriend. Yes I am 18. But he doesn't have his own place yet. Most likely I'll be staying with his God father. I'm leaving because I'm fed up with my parents and especially my dad for trying to force me into joining the army , I feel like this is my only chance to do what I want to do in life and be with who I love most in my life. I'm not telling them I'm leaving but I plan on telling them what's going on after I leave. |
| Question: Does my sister in law deserve to labeled the black sheep? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 09:13 AM PDT Here's the thing my wife is a twin and her sister is the complete opposite of her. She's not as die hard religious. Essentially my sister in law is estranged because of her sex life she's openly bi sexual and has dated men and women. Also unlike my wife my sister in law never finished college because she didn't want to be a lawyer or doctor like her parents wanted. My sister in law would never admit it but she wants to be closer with her sister. Sadly my wife can be close minded. My wife has a way of not accepting people. That's not to say my wife is a bad person but she's very set in her ways and it's caused conflict in our marriage. The sad thing is I've kind of allowed myself to become more emotionally involved with my sister in law than I probably should be. Does my sister in law deserve to be called the black sheep or is she just from a closed minded family I mean I get the sense there is more to the story but from what I can tell my is sister in law isn't so bad. |
| Question: My dad made me feel worthless? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 09:12 AM PDT Yesterday, my dad and I got in an argument (kind of, he was the one yelling and I just sat there listening). He yelled about how I was useless and never happy, and how I never make him or our family happy. He says I'm always mad and that I'm never fun and constantly compared me with other families. He kept pointing out that I was worthless and that I made his life "sad". This went on for about 1-2 hours.. I didn't say a word because I felt that if I had said anything he would become even more outraged (because that has happened in the past). After all of that I felt like I had a hole in my chest, it really hurt me inside hearing that I am worthless and that I made his life "sad". I try so hard to make him proud; most of things I've done was JUST to make him feel proud. Today, I feel awkward just thinking about talking to him because I don't feel like we have a bond anymore. I'm just aching all over.. I even had thoughts of running away.. I had to post this because I feel like I needed to vent because I don't thinking holding all of this in was too healthy for me.. It's funny though, because even after that fight I'm still looking for a father's day gift for him... |
| Question: How to improve relations in family members? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 09:09 AM PDT My wife was suffering from bi-polar disorder and she made some insinuations on my daughter-in-law, and then her bro/sis-in-laws' also supported the mother and this son and his wife moved out of the house – naturally. In beginning of 2014 my wife expired, and then her sis-in-laws' tried to make amends, but daughter-in-law is unmoved. In the past 4 years I have been living with my this son and daughter-in-law, and they had been very sweet, but last year my daughter was admitted in hospital and they did not come to see her (hospital was about 10 mins. drive from their home), for which I remarked that it was not the right thing to do, which has upset my daughter-in-law and since then there is marked change in her behaviour towards me. As all are aware, it is the wife who makes up the mind for husband, so is there a way to make daughter-in-law understand that now circumstances are not same since MIL is no more, hence past should be forgotten or buried and forgiven, a family as a unit is more effective than isolating out. I am in mid 60's and planning to move out and live on my own because I can't stand DIL insensitivity. Thanks |
| Question: My brother is constantly having sex publicly and loudly? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 09:08 AM PDT So I just went to the kitchen to make myself something to eat, and as soon as I walk in there I can see his girlfriend giving him a *******. I walked away and they didn't notice me but i'm pissed cause they do this all the time. Our living room is connected to our kitchen and they're doing it on a couch where people sit on, fall asleep on, etc. They've done it like 5 times before (full sex, not just a *******) and the worst part about it is they have 2 kids who are sitting there,wide awake, WATCHING THEM. One is a year old and another is about 4 months and they both were accidental (don't get me wrong, i love em) because they don't know how to use a condom. Sometimes I can hear them moaning and that's really what annoys me cause if they just did it in their room I wouldn't hear anything and i'd be able to eat.. I don't care if they're having sex, but when I can't go into the kitchen to eat something when I'm hungry it's pretty annoying. I just wish they'd do it not infront of their kids, and in their room... idk what to do about it |
| Question: I can't decide on who to stay with. Divorced parents problem (also a pet cat is involved)? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 09:07 AM PDT My parents divorced 3 years ago, since then I've been living with them both. When I want to stay with mom, I go to her house, when I want to spend time with dad, I go to his house. I spent past 3 years just like that. But it's really exhausting. There is 45 minutes (if lucky) of distant between two houses. This is reason 1 why I want to settle with just one if them. But the real reason is that my dad's house is a mess. We don't clean up. The house itself is really ugly, depressing and gloomy. I feel like I don't like myself here. I feel uglier and all. Compared to my dad's house, my moms is wonderful. It's always clean and heartwarming and all. I feel better there. Another reason is that I will take university exam this year, so I need to settle down and start studying appropriately. I can't do that while swinging between two places. So the answer seems simple right? "Go to moms place." But it's not that simple. First of all, I have a cat. At my dad's place. I can't leave her with my dad. I can't just make him take care of her. She is my responsibility, even if my dad likes her. And I'm not sure if my mom can accept her. Another problem is my dad himself. I'm afraid that he'll think I'm leaving him and he'll be sad. I'm afraid he won't make it alone. I know he is a grown man but I still know him better and I think he won't feel good about this and try to convience me to stay. I don't know how to make him understand that I feel bad in his house. Please give me advices. |
| Question: So my dad is cheating on my mom.I hate my dad so much .what can I do to revenge ? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 08:48 AM PDT |
| Question: Why are my parents so rude to me? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 08:46 AM PDT My mom is always rude to me by yelling at me for really stupid things like not knowing where something goes or forgetting to do one little thing after I cleaned the whole house. She makes me feel like crap and I try to hard to understand because she's stressed because my older sister just moved out because they fight all the time. She's seventeen and always posting drunk videos online and it stresses my parents out. And speaking of my sister, my step dad always compares me to her. He always tells me to stop acting like her. Yesterday I asked if a friend could come over and it was a little last minute because he was already about to come over and my step dad said "you're just like your sister, pulling the last minute ****." And I'm nothing like my sister. She's a loser. I try to understand that they're stressed but they're just crossing a line and I can barely handle it anymore. And don't tell me go try to talk to them because that will only lead to being yelled at and accused of being disrespectful. I really need advice, though. I can't deal with it anymore. |
| Question: My dad is cheating on my mom. I don't know what to do? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 08:34 AM PDT He's always protective over his phone which is where I came up with the idea in the first place, but then today I actually caught him cheating on her online. He doesn't know I know and my mom doesn't have a clue. I am so confused and don't know what to do. Plus if they get a divorce my mom gets none of the money and would have to work, and I'm just so scared. Help?! |
| Question: Am I bad for wanting my parents to divorce? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 08:29 AM PDT (Please don't tell me I/we need therapy. I know I could use professional help.) So, straight out I don't like my parents marriage. It seems toxic and it really aggravates me. I'll try to give as quick a summary as possible: My mum and dad fight then they make up, they separate then my father grovels and my mum more than willingly crawls back to him. He is intolerant to alcohol, yet he drinks and becomes the most moody drunk you DON'T want to deal with. My father has been on and off again with alcohol, promising us about ten different times he would quit (I keep promises with my life. He just does not keep promises). This is the fourth time my mother has threatened divorce with empty words. Now she is telling me that they are trying to work things out. I love my parents, I've forgiven my father. Yet I can't shake the feeling that they are together because my father is pathetically dependent on others, and my mum is clingy, unable to handle change or independence. I honestly feel they could benefit from divorcing and becoming their own people again. I could also benefit from not having to go back and forth constantly (Yes, I am very aware I'm selfish). But these are just my thoughts. Now I ask for your help to evaluate my views and the situation to please help me figure if they are doing fine with what they're doing and I should just accept it. Or perchance I'm actually not crazy. Just anything, help me out of my confusion to simply understand where I should stand. Thank you How can I deal with this? Personally I mean. How could I just suck it up and let them be? I'm hoping to move out by 21 years (18 would be nice). For another 4 to 5 years I'd be home around them. How can I be less of a little b*tch when it comes to this issue? |
| Question: How much money a day is good for a sixteen year old? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 08:22 AM PDT I am a sixteen year old. I just started work a month ago. However, I am currently making $740+ on a daily basis. Is that too much for a teenager? I will be saving a lot of it. I am not like the "average teenager." I am not trying to brag. I just want to try to help my younger siblings out (they live with their dad), and maybe move my mother and I to a better neighborhood. Please, do not come with negative comments. |
| Posted: 17 Jun 2015 07:57 AM PDT We only have one restroom so I leave the door unlocked in case he must use the restroom. He seems to come in lot during my shower time. |
| Question: Can I share this with my sister? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 07:47 AM PDT I have a sister Ann that is 1year younger than I am. I also have a great boyfriend Bob. He is the kind of a guy every girl would want for a boyfriend. He is friends with Ann and she is crazy about him. Ann is also very shy and she asked me if we could share Bob. My first reaction was no way but after thinking about it some more, I said why not. Ann and I are very close and have been sharing most things all our life. Bob thinks it is a great idea. He said 2 beautiful girlfriends are better than one. Has anyone ever done this? I know we will not be jealous of each other. Neither of us is looking for a serious relationship. We just want to have some fun. Do you think it will work? We don't want this to be too hard on (no pun intended) Bob. |
| Question: My mom and my sister won't stop fighting, and it's bad, what do I do? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 07:14 AM PDT My mom is 41 and my sister is 16, it all started when my mom divorced my dad and we moved to a smaller home in a wealthy community. My sister was fine since 14 but ever since she became 15 and 16, its bad. I'm really frightened and don't know what to say. Sometimes my sister is so angry she throws all of my moms stuff on the ground and will scream at the top of her lungs and it makes me think if my sister might attack my mom and it scares me. The fight about 2 times a day and they can last about 30 minutes each. What do I do? |
| Question: How can I persuade my parents to let me drive to college? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 07:07 AM PDT I am a girl and will be 18 years old in a few weeks and am already in college, but my dad won't let me drive. Every morning he will drop me off and I depend on my mom to pick me up. I'm not a bad kid. I follow rules and listen to my parents but they seem unwilling to let me go. I focus on my studies and get good grades. I am the youngest in the family and the only girl so I can understand where their concern comes from, so I will completely understand if they don't let me drive to unfamiliar places or stay out late alone, but I've been going to college for months now and I'm like the only person who can't drive. I can only drive if one of my family members are sitting in the car with me. I don't really have curfew because the only way I can get out of the house is through my parents, so they will fetch me to places. They won't let me walk or take the bus or train. They are mainly afraid that I'll get into an accident and I won't know how to handle the situation, so I practised driving a stick shift around the residential neighbourhood every other day (only in this case do they let me drive alone, and aside from this practise I drive an auto car), and I even asked my dad what I should do if I ever got into and accident. So what can I do? I feel so obliged to fix specific times for my mom to pick me up, and in college timing is so unpredictable. I just want to have some independence and not have to rely on everyone so much. Is there something I'm doing wrong? |
| Question: Brother and sister sharing room? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 07:06 AM PDT my son will be 8 on aug 31 and my daughter will be 3 on aug 1. they are sharing a room now, but was wondering if its ok that they are sharing a room? my daughter loves to be with her brother playing |
| Posted: 17 Jun 2015 06:18 AM PDT My sister, who has a drinking problem, has one son who she raises on her own. As my nephew got older, he gradually grew disinterested in school. But with the way his mother would react about his report cards, you'd think she had to bail him out of jail or come to the school in regards to beating up a classmate or cursing out a teacher. Ironically, he's a good kid who stays out of trouble. However, his bad grades have caused my sister to yell at the top her lungs to the point where my nephew would cry. She never once hit him, but words hurt too (especially loud words). As he is now in his teens, I notice that he's quick to backtalk her, and sometimes yell at her. He never curses at her or calls her a b*tch, but he is sassy. And I sometimes don't find it fair when our other relatives take her side when they gossip ("what a spoiled brat" and such). I think they tend to judge simply because my sister has a college education, a successful career, and became a mother at 25. Therefore, she and her son live VERY comfortably, hence the family perceiving my nephew as someone who has some nerve to raise his voice at someone who not only provides for him, but lavishes him. I keep my mouth shut though, particularly because nobody excepts me knows about my sister's drinking problem. Yes, my nephew is spoiled. But I think if his mom didn't drink, he wouldn't have ended up so disrespectful. I don't endorse his verbal behavior, but I also think it's not his fault. Keep in mind that my sister is not the cliche alcoholic in the movies/TV. Like I said, she's 100% in her son's life and didn't drop out of school/become a teen mom. So because of the fact that she has no faults in that department, the family always looks at him as the bad guy. |
| Question: Question about a friend having a bad day and kinda pushing me away...? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 06:16 AM PDT So I'm a young woman and I'm friends with an older women (40 yrs older then me) I look up to her. But I went to visit with her today at her work like I do a few times a month cause its the only time I see her... but she said she can't today, she having a bad day, her mom is in the hospital and is trying to figure out if she need to fly out and go see her and the blew a kiss to me or maybe my 8 month old son as I was holding him. But my question are should I give her space and if so for how long? Or just I text her in a couple days or ? To see how she and her mom is doing? Or give it a couple weeks? I am kinda sad she just kinda pushed me away and not talk to me cause i know when i have bad days i always want someone to listen or just a shoulder to cry on etc and she has never blown a kiss and waved before, what does that mean? Thanks |
| Question: How do I tell my parents I lied to them? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 06:09 AM PDT |
| Question: Should I try to ask my family for support on getting a tombstone for our mother ? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 06:07 AM PDT My mother needs a tombstone where she's buried. She died over 10 years ago. Over the years me and my sister never discussed it And I feel awful for it because she's our mother. I have a better paying job now and I was just gonna go and buy a tombstone myself, but my boyfriend said to get my sisters involved so that everyone can chip in since she's all of our mom. My boyfriend thinks my sisters will try to take advantage of me and don't give me their portion of their payments in which I would have to flip the entire bill. What's the best way to approach my sisters with this so that way I can make sure everyone chips in ? |
| Question: What kinds of things should I talk about with my dad to have a conversation? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 06:06 AM PDT My dad and I spend time together a lot, and I need some things to talk about with him for when we do things like board games, or when we're in the car alone together, etc. I never know what to say but I want to have conversations so we can get to know each other better. I mean, we know each other, but obviously we don't know EVERYTHING about each other. What are some things we could talk about? (I'm a girl by the way) |
| Question: Y my son dissapoint me rihgt now ? Posted: 17 Jun 2015 06:02 AM PDT he get the titoo on hs face and he luk so bad right now. He make me so dessapoint. Shuld i beat with belt or car? he luk so ugly, this last time u see he ugly face, say gud bye to this boi but he not a gud boi he a bad boi so say bad bye to this bad boi he is vry bad boi how shud i punish? |
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