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- Question: Mother wont stand up to our depressed father?
- Question: Is this a good idea?
- Question: I put the wrong Maiden name on Social Security for my mom.?
- Question: Can a 12 year old boy decide if he wants to love with his grandma instead of parents?
- Question: Should I kill myself?
- Question: Why did my dad leave me?
- Question: What Can I Do About This Custody Situation?
- Question: I'm 19, and feel like i have no life and no sense of direction, do i have depression? what shall i do about it? What shall i do as a future?
- Question: As an adult, who should do the majority of the inviting to outings and dinner, the (now grown) child or the parent?
- Question: Parents PLEASE LET ME KNOW IF I AM MAKING GOOD POINTS!!! Because I feel no one will listen to me?
- Question: My mom slapped my arm?
- Question: My dad cheated on my mom?
- Question: How can I deal with this?
- Question: Not incest..but still wrong?
- Question: Help!? My mom!!! Problems!?
- Question: Is it wrong to be agnostic?
- Question: How do I convince my mom to move up north?
- Question: How can I not be lonely anymore?
- Question: I need a good excuse to why I have a lighter,, please help!?
- Question: My sister's friend is staying with us?
- Question: Does a godchild's last name change?
- Question: Turning 19 and going to college was the worst thing that ever happened to me?
- Question: How do I convince my parents to remove parental controls? :-(?
- Question: My father is emotionally abusive?
- Question: What is wrong with my mom?
- Question: Did I go too far?
- Question: My mom treats me like a child.what should i do?
- Question: Is my mum abusive? feeling suicidal?
- Question: Alone on my birthday as a teen?
- Question: How do I go about getting custody of my daughter?
- Question: Advice for attending a funeral under this circumstance?
- Question: Is it normal for my mum to act this way?
- Question: I want to be Vegan but my parents won't allow it!?
- Question: How to get a hardship license in Michigan?
- Question: MEAN OLDER SISTER?
- Question: Why won't my parents give me any freedom at all?
- Question: What do we do?
- Question: Moms, Dads, anyone, I need your advice.?
- Question: Why won't my parents let me have my freedom? I'm 20 years old.?
- Question: My mom and her new guy have really loud sex. My sister and I hear them doing it all the time. One time we heard him mention our names?
- Question: Do I owe anyone a second child?
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- Question: The Nerve Of This Australian Woman!!!?
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- Question: Should I step in for my younger brother?
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- Question: Why do I get in a lot of arguments often nowadays?
- Question: I want my own room so badly, but I can't have one?
- Question: My mother and step father are in the middle of a dissolution. Can I assume her loan (in her name only) before it is finalized?
- Question: Is it okay for my dad to hit me?
- Question: I feek like my parents divorce is affecting me now in life.?
- Question: Icloud Questions?
- Question: Afraid of grandmother?
- Question: My parents say im not getting my head straight after everything they tell me.?
- Question: WE want to have sex but dont know where to go?
- Question: I dont feel comfortable with my family ?
- Question: Should I contact my half brothers mom?
- Question: How would other women/mothers react to such news?
| Question: Mother wont stand up to our depressed father? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 01:44 PM PDT ok I need help. 5 years ago my parents pulled me and my 2 sisters away from our home to move to a new country for a 'better life'. well my dad did and my mom just went along with it. despite us begging not to go. they made us and yes it took a while but we settled in, made friends and were all really happy here. however my dad suffers very badly from depression and wont do anything to get help. he gets drunk and lashes out and my mom does nothing and makes excuses that its not him, its the depression. due to the fact he wont get help his depression is getting worse and wants to take my mom and 2 sisters back to where we use to live while I stay here. (as I refuse to go back) my 2 sisters are devastated and no matter how much they ask to stay my parents wont listen. if my oldest sister go back she wont be able to go back to school as shes already repeated due to moving the first time. I know it sounds selfish but im starting to hate my mom for not having a back bone and putting us all through this. how can I make her listen? is keeping my sisters living here with me a bad idea while my parents move? im 20 now |
| Question: Is this a good idea? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 01:40 PM PDT I have a plan to get my pessimistic parents to move up north. I hate Florida, and I feel like the area where I live is just getting worse. We are going to be renting a house in about a year. It will only be for 2 to 3 years until we buy a house. My plan is to get us to rent up north to see if we like it. Then, we will decide whether we want to buy a house up north or go back to Florida. However, there are some issues with this plan. My mom cannot leave my grandma. So, I would like her to come with us, and possibly live next door. Any ideas on how I can pull this off? If the plan doesn't work then once I turn 18 in 3 years I will go to college up north and live there myself. |
| Question: I put the wrong Maiden name on Social Security for my mom.? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 01:35 PM PDT |
| Question: Can a 12 year old boy decide if he wants to love with his grandma instead of parents? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 01:32 PM PDT hey guys i really love mt.shasta and the foriest and thats were my grandma lives and thats were i want to live but im only 12 i love the mt.shasta woods i want to go to college there is there anyway that i can decide if i want to live with my grandma insted of mt parents even if they dont want me to. |
| Question: Should I kill myself? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 01:31 PM PDT I don't care anymore. I'm tired of life. I'm tired of being poor. My mom's about to get everything cut off. No internet and no cable. And I'm tired of my sister breaking my headphones. We don't have money to buy more. I'm only thirteen. I shouldn't have to worry if I'll have something to eat tomorrow. Why is it like this? All the kids in my class have iPhones and tablets and everything and I have nothing. I barely have clothes to wear. I see all the kids wearing cool clothes and I go to school dressed like a bum. I'm sick of having nothing because of my stupid mom. Why did I have to be born into poverty? Why couldn't I have been born into a wealthy family? It just sucks. I hate my life so much. I'm just ready to die. I think I'm gonna kill myself. I have nothing left to live for. |
| Question: Why did my dad leave me? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 01:24 PM PDT When I was 3 days old my dad left my mum. They had a agreed to have a baby (me) and he was fine in the hospital. Then he left and never came back... He was addicted to drugs and jobless. He doesn't pay child support and never spoke to us again. Is there a reason for this or is he just a useless father? |
| Question: What Can I Do About This Custody Situation? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 01:24 PM PDT I'm sixteen years old. I live with guardians, and my grandma. My grandma doesn't want me in the house for superficial reasons, so she's arranging for me to reside with my mom in Texas. I live all the way in Wisconsin, and I prefer NOT to live with my mom because of neglect, physical abuse, and emotional abuse. I would really like to stay with my guardians, but my mom wants me there. It looks like her wants are going to happen too. |
| Posted: 29 Jun 2015 01:10 PM PDT I'm a 19 year old girl, I have a job in a retail store and I've just finished college my boyf knows and has always known his direction in life and about his future career however i'm struggling badly. This is my life at the mo: -sister has breast cancer and is getting worse -the rest of my family wont talk to me because of an issue i was having with my parents bad money issues. spending it on unnecessary holidays for themselves when they're saying they've done badly in their home business and then not supporting their children when it comes to further education -parents kicking me out and telling me to move out. (where i live, accommodation and living costs are very expensive) -losing close/best friends at college and now have none -constantly in a bad mood at my boyfriend no idea why, scared it might be depression. its making him feel bad and pushing him away from me, its breaking us apart. -I've had an abortion (it was an accidental pregnancy but i still think back and get sad. I don't feel guilty because even if i had kept the baby i'm too young and i cant even look after myself let alone a baby) -having to spend what little money i have on food and general commodities because my parents wont feed me or look after me. -college tutors have something against me and wouldn't let me hang my final piece in the end of course show. very bad feeling that they will fail me.(second attempt at A-levels study) Help me find direction and a bright side to life x |
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| Posted: 29 Jun 2015 01:04 PM PDT So I have been working at a gas station all summer, and with birthday money I have saved up 1K and make about 140$ a week. My dad lost his job in March this year and was recently hired by another company. His old job supplied him a car and paid gas, so when he lost his job, he lost the car. We had to buy a new car to replace it. Now that he has a new job and me and my mom have one we will need 3 cars in order to get from place to place. So they asked that every so often I throw in some money to help pay for insurance and to help pay for the car, WHICH I AM COMPLETLEY FINE WITH... But I want an XBOX One(Costs 350$) They keep telling me no. This is what I have said to them so far ARGUMENT #1 : They say " We need you to pay for some of the car, gas and insurance" Which, like I said, I am completely fine with doing, but I make 140$ a week and I will have this job until highschool baseball starts back up in February, and then I will get the job back in May. So by then, I am most certainly capable of earning back those 350$. ARGUMENT #2 : If I have a job and cannot get something that I want for myself, why am I working? Sure, I do not mind helping them out... times are tough, but if I cant get something that I want with the money I am earning, then I am basically working for my parents. Yes, I understand that the insurance is for me and so is the car, but that is also something that WE NEED,The Xbox is something that I want, again, why am I working if I cant but 1 thing I want. |
| Question: My mom slapped my arm? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 12:57 PM PDT i was getting dressed and she said I was wasting my time on my phone instead, but I was just doing my makeup but i had already finished getting dressed when she was yelling at me and I was putting my shoes on and i stuck out my tongue and made a face and she freaked and slapped my arm twice really hard and got in the car and left the house without me? this isn't the first time she's done this |
| Question: My dad cheated on my mom? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 12:56 PM PDT So.. My dad cheated a couple years ago. My mom found out that my dad is having an adfair on the 14th february 2013. We were so close, me-mom-dad and my little brother. I remember my mom cried and hugged me while telling that my dad had a gf. She was hurt. It hurts to see her sad, i cried everyday that year. I hated 2013 so much. In 2014, things are getting better. Soo much better, my parents are fine. Everything was fine. Untill the end of the year, my dad got fired. We were never poor, even now we're never lack of anything. Lately, my dad just angry all the time. He gets angry for a small thing. He yells so much. I felt sorry for my mom, my dad is so rude.i just realized that my damily are falling apart i . I can't stop crying. how can i stop crying? Help me please? Thank you :) |
| Question: How can I deal with this? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 12:54 PM PDT My mom is manipulative, Mean, Embarrassing, Selfish, Cares only about herself, Doesn't listen to others opinions/Thoughts, Negative- she thinks myself & others are negative, Needy- yet says she is independent & needs no one, financially irresponsible, pushy, Treats some people better (a little) than her own family, You hardly see her good side, Jealous of me (???), & thinks she is better than everyone else. She feels the need to be in control of EVERYTHING. I don't get her. How to deal? |
| Question: Not incest..but still wrong? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 12:46 PM PDT My friend's dad just got remarried after dating a women for six months. My friend is 19 years old and her new step mother has a son that is 22 years old..which obviously makes them step siblings. The other day my friend told me that after living with her new step brother for a couple of months, they started hooking up and now have a relationship going on.....this is clearly not incest but in my opinion it is still very wrong and they should terminate the relationship ASAP. My friend, however, does not agree. Obviously it's her life and she can do what she wants but this situation just got me thinking about whether or not this is morally/socially inhumane. Thoughts about relationships between step siblings? |
| Question: Help!? My mom!!! Problems!? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 12:44 PM PDT A lot of text: My mom is always hanging out with drug dealers and ******* different guys every night. She won't take care of my 4 year old brother and she stays up all night every night and sleeps all morning every morning while I make me and my brother breakfast. My mom hasn't had a job since I was 4 and now I am 14. We have never had a car and she broke up with my non biological dad when I was 2. I have only met my biological dad when I was 7 and my mom overdosed. My mom takes a lot of medicines, more than she should. We have moved 9 times since I was 2. Sometimes there is no food in the fridge and she has borrowed more than 100 bucks from me that she won't give me back. She also drinks a lot of alcohol. I want my mom to get a job and grow up. I don't want to parent my mom (which I have done since i was like 9). I do good in school and I am totally against drugs and other ****. What should I do? I want her to be a bit more like other parents. I am a 14 year old boy. I don't want to get my mom in jail and even though all that stuff she still says that she loves me and I do love her a lot. |
| Question: Is it wrong to be agnostic? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 12:38 PM PDT My whole life I've been in and out of the church, but have honestly never really agreed with it or cared for it. So a while back my older brother decided to go back to church and really commit to it. I'm fine with that and that's his decision but we recently got in a argument and I told him I didn't agree with his beliefs and he just kept repeating why not and that I may have had a bad experience at a church to feel this way because I shouldn't. Idk I feel like he tries to make me feel bad because of it but I can't help what I believe in. He also said rapture is near because we're more technologically advanced, allowing abortions and now that gay marriage is legal in all fifty states. HELP!!! |
| Question: How do I convince my mom to move up north? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 12:36 PM PDT So I got very close with my adopted cousin who I met last year, and it was like we had been friends forever. I have never been this close to anyone else, and I want to live by him. I can't keep seeing him for a week and then being very hurt for 3 to 4 years until I see him again. That is a cycle that will only depress me. So, in order to move up north by him, I have to get either my grandma to come with us, or for us to leave her.My mother is so close to her and has trouble even leaving her for a couple of weeks to go on vacation. She feels like my grandma is always alone and has no one else, even though she does. They just don't visit her as often as we do. Also, my mom and dad had a big argument with my aunts and uncles last year when I met my cousin (my aunt and uncle's son), and caused us to leave them early. So, they would also have to make amends with each other somehow. I know there are a lot of obstacles and it would be a miracle to move up there, but I just have to see him again. I know we were meant to meet for a reason, and I hate Florida. However, my grandma is very dedicated to Florida and has stayed there ever since she was a child. That is what makes this so hard. I have no way to communicate with my cousin because I don't have his number and I just can't deal with this anymore. Please help! |
| Question: How can I not be lonely anymore? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 12:31 PM PDT Ever since my little sister was born in my sophomore year, my dad, sister, and brother have had to do crazy overtime at their jobs in order to make ends meet. This leaves me and my mom home with her all day. As a result of this, I have no way to invite anybody anywhere due to my lack of spare time. Going into my senior year of high school, it makes me feel depressed and worthless. I have made it clear to my friends that the only way we could ever hang out is of they invite me. None of them ever have. They all have lives and do things like normal teenagers, and I have known them for all of high school. All I want is to just be young for once and not feel like a dad. People seriously think I am her dad when they see me out in public with her. What can I do to fix my situation? I m starting to feel like there s no way out. |
| Question: I need a good excuse to why I have a lighter,, please help!? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 12:29 PM PDT so I have a lighter, and it was in my bag, my dad already found a lighter of mine before and now he s found this one, I sometimes do smoke but I don t want to tell him that. what s a good excuse I could use to why I have the lighter? |
| Question: My sister's friend is staying with us? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 12:22 PM PDT my sister's friend, who is around 16 and I'm 20 is staying at our place indefinitely due to abuse at her home so my sister convinced my mom and her parents to stay at our place. Well my Dad took a good amount of furniture and my mom is having to save up for new stuff. Meanwhile, we have nothing but a old couch and my sister's bed is small but I have a king sized waterbed. I got it for my 16th birthday. I wanted the biggest waterbed ever so there is plenty of room. I didn't say no to my mom, and she is good looking but am I going to be safe with her next to me? Maybe nothing will happen I don't know. Should I buy condoms just in case? |
| Question: Does a godchild's last name change? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 12:09 PM PDT I was wondering if a child must be looked after by their godparent, for whatever reason, does their surname change to that of the godparent? Or will they retain their original surname? Thank you in advance :) |
| Question: Turning 19 and going to college was the worst thing that ever happened to me? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 12:03 PM PDT Since I've returned home from college my freshman year its like I am completely invisible to my family. I know I was gone for quite a bit but its like they do things and its like I'm a complete ghost. I couldn't have a job during school my freshman year for several reasons couldn't have a car..etc..blah blah blah. I was struggling to get by and I return home and my brother has an entirely new wardrobe, keep in mind he's 17, misbehaves a lot, makes horrible grades in school.. I even sent him a pair of shoes because we didn't get anything for Christmas I felt like i had to make it up to my brother. Then I find out all this time he's been getting literally a new wardrobe. But my thing is Im not jealous its not like I care but the thing is my dad was acting like he was struggling so bad and couldn't help me much at all. But it seems like my brother gets nearly $500 a month. My dad will wait until Im sleep and take him shopping. The part that just upsets me is here I am in college struggling I came home first semester much skinner than when I left. My brothers birthday he got over $300 worth of clothes and for my birthday is the day I came home from break and i just get an attitude... My grandma will even wake up oop have to fix my brother something to eat and forget i'm even here.. Does anyone see where I'm coming from? Please no harsh answers Im suffering from depression and anxiety and it just keeps me in bed a lot of the time no matter how hard i try to do anything.. I do make money online probably more than I would make in an actual job my age I started this summer..so I'm not broke so please don't say that either. I try.. Also i take out all loans to go to school and i recently got a small scholarship.. |
| Question: How do I convince my parents to remove parental controls? :-(? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 12:00 PM PDT I am a teenage girl and my parents have recently installed an app on my phone and tablet that i can't install. The app limits my time on my phone and tablet to an hour a day, which i think is far too little time. After this hour I can't text or call, which I think is actually dangerous. I am also struggling with my social life as i can't access oovoo,snapchat or insta. My parents have no reason not to trust me and i want to grow up learning from my mistakes and with freedom. any answers are appreciated. Thanks. i meant that i cant uninstall |
| Question: My father is emotionally abusive? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 11:57 AM PDT I don't really know the EXACT defintion of "emotionally abusive", but I'm pretty sure what my father does would count as it. My father, ever since I went into a high school, has behaved like a **** to me. He blames me for everything (even stuff I'm not involved with), continuosly calls me a horrible son, stuff like that. I'll just put in a few examples of his conversations with me to explain better. Him: Why the hell don't you take the dog to go get vaccined. Me: Because you refuse to let me get a permit to drive him to the vet YOU booked him for? Him: No, it's because you give a **** about him, while I care about him much more than you do! Or. Him: I saw your teacher and he didn't say hi. Strange, right? me: I guess... Him: It's probably because you've been spreading rumors about me, right? You're horrible. And also: Him: There's no shade to park the car in, its all your fault! Me: How is it my fault? Him: Because you don't give me enough emotional support! You horrible person. And more stuff like that. Well, he himself told me to ask the internet about his behavior. So I'm asking you people, how do I deal with this idiot? |
| Question: What is wrong with my mom? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 11:50 AM PDT so my mom was really mad at my dad so she spend the week at her sisters house for the week. On the middle of the week I went there to just to hangout with my cousin my mom was sleeping in my cousins room and she was sleeping on the floor and she didn't care. And I geuss we were being loud when she was sleeping and she got up and screamed at us but like it's their house they can do whatever tf they want and that morning my aunt bought us food and my cousin want hungry and my mom yelled at her and told her to grow up. What's wrong with her. And she is so lazy we have been living in our house for 2 years and it's big and we have NO furniture and it embarrassing when my friends come over cuz they r always like why is your house empty?and I don't know what to say |
| Posted: 29 Jun 2015 11:44 AM PDT So my sister has been making fun of my penis size ever since she walked in on my jacking off. She's even told her friends about my dick size. I'm 5'11 in height but my penis is about average I guess. I don't know what her problem is. Any way her friends started calling me "baby dick" and "chode" so I decided to get her back. Right before she was about to shower Iwent into the bathroom we share and jacked off into her towel and put it on the rack so she'd use it. Well I went to take a nap and she got into the shower. Not too long after she comes into my room and pushes me off the bed and asks me if I think I'm funny. I laughed and asked her how my gizz felt rubbed on her body. Then I told her to **** off before I jack off into her clothes. She then kicked me in the balls and told me to watch my back and walked out of the room. Did I go too far? What does she mean by watch my back? Is she going to do something? |
| Question: My mom treats me like a child.what should i do? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 11:38 AM PDT My mom treats me like a child. She always wants a hug. Its annoying. She says when she sees me she sees a little girl. Im a teenager. Ive told her countless times. She just shrugs it off. |
| Question: Is my mum abusive? feeling suicidal? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 11:38 AM PDT She shout at me, hits me, punched me, belittles me, threatens to kill me, blackmails me and makes me believe that every time something goes wrong, it's my fault. She even shouts at me and threatens me sometimes in public places, causing a very embarrassing scene, but when she speaks to friends she tells them how amazing I am and acts like everything's perfect. She is very nice to other people to the point of sometimes allowing herself to be walked all over, but when it comes to me she turns into the hulk. Why is this? What am I doing wrong? Feeling suicidal. I feel like I have no value. shouts** |
| Question: Alone on my birthday as a teen? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 11:27 AM PDT I'm turning 14. I want to have a party, but I have too many 'friends' and don't want to leave anyone out. Any fun activities that I could do? It can also include my direct family (I'm an only child, living with just my mother and step-dad.) Thanks |
| Question: How do I go about getting custody of my daughter? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 11:23 AM PDT Her father an I have made a verbal agreement on visitation that he doesn t stick to. He constantly come up with excuses on why she can t come back to me on the decided dates. He is in no way a bad father as far as I know. I am the only one making trips back and forth to pick her up and drop her off. Mind you I live in Georgia and he lives in Oklahoma. He made one trip while his mother made another. The rest of the time I have been doing all the driving. I ask for help with gas I get 60$. It s becoming very difficult because I have a 2 month old son now and I would like to make sure he has to contribute to the agreement. Any suggestions or help would be greatly appreciated. |
| Question: Advice for attending a funeral under this circumstance? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 11:12 AM PDT My boyfriends uncle just passed away and the funeral is later today - I was invited by he and his parents. I have not been to this kind of funeral; the last one was 15 years ago; a church service with no coffin. Because I never met his uncle, I'm not sure if it would be disrespectful to him for me to attend, especially since it will just be his closest friends and family. And even more so, since it's an open casket. I'd imagine it's extremely disrespectful to be viewing the body of someone who may only want to be seen by their loved ones. Of course I will go to be of support to my boyfriend and his family since they put out the invite, but is there any advice I can get? |
| Question: Is it normal for my mum to act this way? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 11:11 AM PDT I drove to the grocery store and she asked me to get out and the shopping while she sat in the car. I thought it wasn t fair that I do all the shopping alone so I asked her to come out with me. She agreed and came out then started shouting at me quite loudly in public, when I didn t respond to her she stood up next to some trolley with her arms folded, refused to move and continued shouting. People were staring, I was so embarrassed, so I just continued into the store and began the shopping. Is it normal for a 55 year old woman to react in this way to her 20 year old daughter? and do the shopping* |
| Question: I want to be Vegan but my parents won't allow it!? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 11:11 AM PDT I honestly hate mistreatment of any animals... But my parents eat meat EVERY DAY! It sickens me that they find it delicious and ohhh it's only one pig it barely puts a dent in the population! Of course it does! It's an innocent life you've taken! My stepdad talks all the time about ohhh Bison tastes really good! Things like that, or when I start talking about this he's like oh no we only get grass fed and roaming free animal things! But it's still taking a life! People say animals don't have feelings... How can they say that? Of course they do! Alright back to the point (this is turning into a rant) whenever I talk about killing animals is horrible they completely shut me down and say oh you don't know anything and look at me with pity because apparently I have no idea what's going on in the world... I mean yes if I become Vegan I'll miss bacon and tacos and other stuff like that but if it means that I won't take some innocent animals life? Of course I won't! They always say oh Bella you'll get so skinny and unhealthy people like that aren't really healthy they just think they are, you need meat and protein! I can get protein from other things but they refuse to let me... I'm 13 and I guess I may just not know what I'm talking about but I really want to be Vegan and stop hurting animals... Any suggestions on how to persuade my parents? I'm not asking them to turn vegan I'm asking that I can but they still don't listen. |
| Question: How to get a hardship license in Michigan? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 11:03 AM PDT I don't live in the same state as my sister and mom anymore. My sister is in highschool. She doesn't have a way home after schoo . The school that she goes to doesn't have school buses that come to their area. And its too late to go to a different highschool. My mom nor my sister feels comfortable about her taking a public bus . She has to come home after school to let her little brother and sisters in. How would she be able to apply for a hardship license?, |
| Posted: 29 Jun 2015 10:56 AM PDT My older sister was really mean before but now she's nice. However yesterday she saw something mean I wrote about her and she called me two faced and punched me and today he called me a retard. I can't tell anyone because she keeps acting nice in front of my other sisters what do I do he keeps sneaking up behind me but everytime my sister comes she becomes nice then gives me sweets |
| Question: Why won't my parents give me any freedom at all? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 10:53 AM PDT this weekend all my family is going camping. We always go camping and it's so hard to get the 4th of July weekend off at my job but I got it. All the family friends are going, and I told her I wnt to go. It's only a 2 hour drive from my house. She doesn't want me to go only because they're not going. She still thinks imma little kid that's not going to take care of myself. I can easily make the 2 hour drive. I just don't know why She won't let me go if all my family is going and I know if I don't go this weekend I'm not gonna be able to go because I'm going to be busy with school and work later on. I just would like to go once. I want to have a talk with her about this for a long time now but it never works. Mostly because she has a BIG attitude problem that she's been developing lately. Any advice on how I should start it? Or what do you think am I wrong for asking her for a little more freedom? I put more on the picture below. |
| Posted: 29 Jun 2015 10:52 AM PDT Ok so I'm 14 and my little sister is 13 and we r stuck at home my parents won't even let us go outside and we are bored to death and there is nothing we want to watch on tv what do we do |
| Question: Moms, Dads, anyone, I need your advice.? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 10:37 AM PDT Long story short: I'm going through a breakup with my lover of 7 years. We have a 2 and a half year old son. We had a house we were renting together. He was the one working all the time, while I was a stay at home mom. The night we broke up, I had a terrible meltdown and left to stay with a friend. I KNEW I was going to be in a major deep depression about the break up, and I wanted to be away from my son because I didn't want him to be around me like that. I knew he was safe with his father, and he moved out of the house and back into his parent's home, where his mother now watches our son during the day. One month later, I started wanting to see him. His father did not want to let me see him because he thought I was going to 'steal' him or 'hurt' him. I got very, very angry. Weeks later after many attempts at wanting to see my son, he agreed to meet at a public place, where we all ate together. My son could not take his eyes off me and I could tell he missed me, and I missed him. When that visitation was over, my ex told me when I could see him again, and that it'd be on HIS terms. I got angry. It has been a week since then. I am still not on my feet, I live with my mom again. My ex still has my son, and he works a steady job. I want to move on, but I know we will be linked forever bc we have a kid. What next steps should I take? Will he always have the upper hand and have the say-so over my son? I'm so lost. I'm broke too. No lawyers. |
| Question: Why won't my parents let me have my freedom? I'm 20 years old.? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 10:34 AM PDT |
| Posted: 29 Jun 2015 10:26 AM PDT We share a common wall. I'm 17 and my sister is 14. We heard him mention our names while he was doing it. He was saying stuff like don't you wish blank and blank where here watching? Maybe they should join in? Would you like to watch them suck my you know. We don't know what to do? We can't talk to my mom about this. He hasn't touched us? We can't talk to anyone because its so gross. |
| Question: Do I owe anyone a second child? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 10:24 AM PDT |
| Question: What to do about mother in law? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 10:19 AM PDT My oldest daughter is 3 and I just had a baby girl 2 weeks ago. My mother and father in law have been working on the road since my oldest was 1 so they haven't really been around, and we put a trailer on their land thinking it would work fine since they're always gone. Well they have been home since April and my oldest has gotten really attached. My mother in law takes her almost every day to do something, so of course she always wants her and not me. I have a hard time saying no because I know my daughter would have more fun swimming or going to the park or zoo than sitting inside with me and a newborn all day, but I miss my daughter and I think 1-2 days a week of those activities is plenty. She is just bored and has nothing better to do, than play with my 3 year old all day every day and he has plenty of money to take her to do whatever they want. I just need advice on what to say so it doesn't hurt her feelings, because she is very sensitive and she thinks she is helping since I have the new baby but really I feel like my daughter never wants to be around me because she constantly asking for her grandma. My biggest issue is they will be going out of town again and it's ping to be really hard for her to adjust back to being with just me every day. (Although my MIl says she isn't going to leave again) |
| Question: The Nerve Of This Australian Woman!!!? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 10:18 AM PDT While I was in Australia for a trip yesterday this "Australian woman" came up to me and said good day, and I said yeah it sure is a good day. But she finished the sentenced with "mate". I couldn't believe this woman asked me if I wanted to mate with her, and I fixed her and said I am not your mate and I walked off. Smh people these days, thinking if they just ask a random stranger to mate they will do so. |
| Question: How to get father to let boyfriend move in? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 10:04 AM PDT My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. We are expecting a little girl this fall. My father is aware of the situation and is now very excited. My boyfriend's family got evicted from their house today and my boyfriend has no where to go. Seeing that he is the father of my child I want him to be here with myself and our little girl anyways, now he needs somewhere. I don't know how to have my dad let him move in. Please, any help would be wonderful. |
| Question: Moving to the UK with my daughter... Got a question....? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 09:56 AM PDT I want to move to the UK with my daughter, her father is in agreement with it. We are separated and I have full/sole legal and physical custody. We live in California. What forms should I file? We aren't moving now, we are moving within the next year or two. Only serious answers please?! Thank you. |
| Question: Should I step in for my younger brother? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 09:51 AM PDT My parents divorced for the second time in 09'. My mother have custody of my brother (now 17). Ever since I moved out last year this have gone down hill. My brother does very poorly in school and is repeating classes his senior year. My mother works an hour away where her boyfriend lives. She has completely neglected not only my brother, but her house, and her pets. She is usually only home twice a week. My brother has been having lots of females over, etc. I have to go check on my mothers pets from time to time because I never know if they are feeding them or bringing them in with the heat. Her house is horrible, grass never cut, in ground pool a disaster/sewer, fence broken (dogs keep getting out and called on) etc. Neighbors are getting very annoyed as this is a very nice suburban home. She fought my father tooth and nail for this home, but fails to take care of it. My father knows what is going on but chooses to "watch it crumble" so she and my brother can beg him for help. I feel like a terrible sibling sitting by while all of this happens. I already have two pets at my apartment so I cannot take over one of my mothers dogs. I feel like I neglected them when I left as I grew up taking care of all the animals. I have my own life, etc but my mother is not keeping up her end. How can I help her open her eyes before it is too late? She makes great money and can afford to do better but chooses not to. |
| Question: My sisters thug boyfriend is tearing my family apart?? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 09:45 AM PDT My sisters boyfriend is a 35 yr old NYer who grew up in the working class northern suburbs. Hes of Irish(his dad) and Sicilian(his mom) descent, and a Catholic. Hes a handsome guy(more of a pretty boy with bright ice blue eyes, olive skin, full blk eyebrows and lashes, thick brown hair, strong jaw, pink lips and high cheekbones, he modeled in Los Angeles and lived there for 10 years) 6'1 height broad shoulders hairy and slim but well built with tattoos on one arm sleeve and tattoos through his back and chest and NY yankee logo on his neck. Hes more of the uneducated type whos not patriotic, he served in the USMC but said he only did so for structure and a job in the late 90s at age 20 and he has been locked up several times. She met him in Los Angeles and brought him back to Orlando FL ,we are WASPs and have been in FL for many generations. He is not a fan of the south despite living here. We had talks about religon, hes devout Catholic with a large celtic cross tattooed on his calf. I told him Catholics are wrong for worshiping saints and mary. i was drinking, he doesnt drink but smokes dope and pops pain pills. He snuffed me after he claimed i Said his dead father was burning h.ell cuz he was Catholic. He broke my nose. He was arrested and has been in jail since. He also called the cop a "f*ggot" for patting him down and touching his buttocks. She sure picks them well. He also considers himself an "open minded" person who hates rednecks, which is the most funny part of it. He has a deep voice with NY accent and sounds like a thug. Total lowlife and im pretty sure he sells drugs. Im taller n heavier but not a fighter and he could have hurt me worse if I went at him. I'm civil. Also, the sherrifs dept here is a joke. They were laughing about the incident and one fat f*** said to me "You did instigate it and I'd be embarrased if I was you, but he has no right to hit anyone and will be going to jail, hes been around the block". Why would I be embarrassed? Because I was the stronger man and did not stoop to his level? This whole things a joke. He was high as a kite and cursing out the cops for making his cuffs tight and "roughng him up" for being unruly. |
| Question: How do i survive in the ghetto? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 09:44 AM PDT my parents are threatening me that tonight they will send me to a ghetto neighberhood because i cant get my act straight. they might send me to compton inglewood carson or someplace. i need help or should i just give up and run now |
| Question: Why do I get in a lot of arguments often nowadays? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 09:41 AM PDT I'm in college and I realized that my conversations usually end up in arguments even if it wasn't intentional. Is there something wrong with me? How do I change this? |
| Question: I want my own room so badly, but I can't have one? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 09:37 AM PDT I'm a 13-year-old female, and I've always had to share a room with my older brother. I'm sick of him, and I'm sick of not having any space. I just want privacy. It feels like I never have any. The main reason I feel this is a problem is because I am going through puberty, and so is my brother. I /need/ my space. Our room doesn't even have a lock on the door, and my brother has walked in the room a lot of times while I was getting dressed. :/ There isn't really any other place I can live in, and there aren't any spare rooms. I really want my own room, but I guess I'll never have one. I asked my parents why I can't, and they just said "it's obvious". Is there any way I can cope with this? |
| Posted: 29 Jun 2015 09:34 AM PDT I am in a better financial situation and would like to help her out by taking the mortgage off her hands. They do not have any children and live in Ohio. Also, their finances have remained separate if it helps. I greatly appreciate any advice you can give. |
| Question: Is it okay for my dad to hit me? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 09:31 AM PDT I'm 17 years old and has always been a victim of abuse. When I was younger my dad would always hit me, slap me, push me into things and would always swear at me and belittle me, my mom too would also hit me. When I hit 14 they kinda backed off of me, they would still call me terrible horrible things but it's better than getting physically hurt, but they would still beat on me here and there, and my brother joined in too by breaking my glasses and beating on me by, attacking me, lightly puching my face, and banging my head onto our kitchen table, and our wooden deck outside. My parents adopted 6 children (including me) and had there own child. Thats what kinda kills it for me, they adopted me and treat me like this. My brother is my biological brother and as you can see, he hates my guts. I have no life, my parents won't get me a phone, won't let me take drivers ed, won't let me go to any school dances, and I plan on going to JWU and they won't even let me go for a tour, even though JWU is 40 mins. from where I live. I'm always lying to my friends about my life because I don't want them to know the truth. I don't even have a bed, I sleep on the floor. What should I do? |
| Question: I feek like my parents divorce is affecting me now in life.? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 09:30 AM PDT It happened when I was about 9 years old ,it really didn't bothered me that much then . I actually enjoyed been alone at home , I lived with my dad till I turned 15 years old . Then I went to live with my mom , right now I'm 18 years old and living alone . My mom is living in another city due to her work, she pays the apartment I still go to school but lately been missing a lot , I feel alone not having nobody there for me. I feel like the divorce is actually affecting me now in life. I really don't know who to talk too, or what to do if I should go to counseling or something please help! |
| Posted: 29 Jun 2015 09:29 AM PDT My mom told me today that she would periodically be checking my internet history on my iPad. She told me she could see things even if I thought I deleted them from my history. What does this mean and how could she still see them? Also any ideas on how I can get her to trust me with things like this? Thanks for your help. |
| Question: Afraid of grandmother? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 09:26 AM PDT In December, my grandmother passed from stage IV Cirrhosis of the Liver. There's not a day that I don't think about her. But for the past week or two, I think strange things have been going on. And I'm pretty sure its my grandmother. My sister says she keeps seeing stuff like shadows and she said she feels like something is touching her from time to time. My mom says its my grandmother (her mom) and she finds it comforting if she is actually around the house (spirit wise) and my sister seems kinda ok with it too but I'm freaking out. I know I shouldn't be scared but I cant help it. I pray about it and I'm putting my trust in God to protect me but it seems like it still doesnt help. I dont want to see anything or feel anything. That's just creepy to me. I'm not ready for that yet. I havent been seeing anything like my sister but I do feel a strong presence sometimes. Is it just our nerves? How do I stop being so afraid other than keep praying? Anyone had any similar experiences? Please help. I'm losing sleep over it. |
| Question: My parents say im not getting my head straight after everything they tell me.? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 09:26 AM PDT Tonight they will either abandon me or drop me off in a ghetto city like carson ca, or compton or inglewood. Number 2 is more likely, they say ive used all their chances. and they say if they can find me tomorrow than theyll take me in. i dont want to go. i dont think i can make it. i want to change my ways but i cant. help please |
| Question: WE want to have sex but dont know where to go? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 09:25 AM PDT We can't go to her house bc her parents have outside cameras connected to their phones so they'd see me come in. We could do it at my house but idk how she would get here and back home before her parents get off of work. My house is always empty but I don't have a car. Any ideas on where we could go? |
| Question: I dont feel comfortable with my family ? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 09:05 AM PDT hi guys im 20 years old boy and my problem is i dont feel comfortable with my family at all , like i cant open up to my parents or even eating dinner with them is not what i want , dont get me wrong they are very nice people but still i rather just eat at my room ? also they are kinda religious (my father more ) so i cant even watch tv with them without feeling awkward since all the channels except news channel have some sexual thing even the smallest make me uncomfortable like even a boy and girl kissing ! is this normal ? why am i like this ? |
| Question: Should I contact my half brothers mom? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 09:02 AM PDT My half brother passed away due to illness in October. I just only found out he died last night, though Facebook. Because yesterday was his Birthday. His mother kept this from us and never told us what happened to him. He's my fathers first born son. My father had him when he was 17 and their relationship drifted in the mid 90's. All we want to know is WHAT illness he had, because his obituary is obviously discreet, which is understandable. But my twin sister is also sick right now, and all we want to know is if they had the same illness; if it's hereditary from my fathers side of the family. Should we reach out to her? It's touchy but I think it's also important. I also never got to meet my half brother. |
| Question: How would other women/mothers react to such news? Posted: 29 Jun 2015 09:00 AM PDT if you were to read in the news about a mother who sawed (yes, sawed) off the penis of the man who was convicted of raping her little girl, what would your reaction be to what she did to him? |
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