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- Question: What can I do in the city with my sister? Is there any websites or daily events?
- Question: Will my boyfriends family think badly of me if I'm too sensitive and emotional?
- Question: 2 people came to my house and asked if my mom was home?
- Question: I keep hitting my sister, what do I do?
- Question: What type of social class am I in?
- Question: Can I marry my cousin since she's adopted?
- Question: Can my mom or I reopen or open a child support case? I m 22 years old but my father still owes C.S since when I was 5 years old.?
- Question: My step-dad and dad hate my boyfriend?
- Question: My niece and nephews don't seem connected to my Mum, they never ask to visit her, why is that?
- Question: Problems learning to drive - parents?
- Question: Why does my dad hate me?
- Question: Help! My daughter is a communist?
- Question: How to feel more confident and happy about staying on campus when....?
- Question: What do you think of parents who tell their son they wish he was never born?
- Question: Will my boyfriends family think badly of me if I'm too sensitive and emotional?
- Question: How can i get my stepdad to respect an spend time with me i have gotten so tired of his an his bullshit he says he'll try but has shown no effort?
- Question: Is it easier for me to add/sign my name to my child's birth certificate if i have her full legal and physical custody?
- Question: My mom wishes she had another daughter ?
- Question: My Dad is treating me like trash?
- Question: How do your parents refer to each other?
- Question: Do you guys have plans for your life when you were 19?
- Question: Is it bad or weird that as an adult I don t really like any adult/mature movies? Or that I like dressing and acting more like a teen?
- Question: My parents are always fighting, how do I face this?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: Am I a bad son?
- Question: Am i being selfish?
- Question: My moms mad at me and I don't know what to do?
- Question: I had a dream that I was eating cooked chicken with my family and relatives. It was sad for me because my relatives are far away.?
- Question: What's wrong with my niece ?
- Question: How do I convince my mom into lettting me move with my dad?
- Question: My mother took my kids for a sleepover and never came back.?
- Question: I'm scared to go to my dads house? Please help quickly!?
- Question: Is this a problem? HELP!!!?
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- Question: If our mom died, would my brother and I still live with our step dad?
- Question: Why is my sister and brothers are jealous and always concerned about mom being with her boyfriend?
- Question: What's wrong with my sister ?
- Question: My mom doesn't understand me AT ALL...?
- Question: How do I tell my dad that I only want to go to his house on some weekends?
- Question: I'm 22 years old and my mom thinks I'm selfish.?
- Question: Why does my mother hate me? i just cant understand why she is acying like a regular bitchy girl at school?
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| Question: What can I do in the city with my sister? Is there any websites or daily events? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 01:14 PM PDT Im planning a trip to the city with my 18 year old sister! However i need a little assistants in planning an all day event. We wanted to check out a hookah lounge, but that would be later at night. Nevertheless did the city change their age limit to 21 now? will research. But any advice? Any nice websites to check out? we are going this Monday the 29th. it is also her graduation/ 18th birthday gift Any advice? Anything will help! Thanks! |
| Question: Will my boyfriends family think badly of me if I'm too sensitive and emotional? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 01:02 PM PDT I'm with my boyfriend at his house a lot where he lives with his parents and sister and her husband. They like alright I guess. I've always been more emotional then others but ever since being on birth control it's gotten worse. If anyone raises their voice at me, sounds angry when talking to me or blames me for something I start crying. If I'm not upset by anything then I'm perfectly fine. I'm generally very happy and bubbly. But whenever something happens that upsets me or if I start crying for no reason I feel like I have to hide or else people will think I'm crazy. Recently I was walking from my boyfriends room to the kitchen when his mom swung open her bedroom door and demanded to know why my boyfriend wasn't answering his phone. (he's angry at her and not speaking to her for a while..long story). She was really aggressive about it and it startled me. I just started balling and my boyfriend said that this was why he was avoiding her. She picks on me a little but he always defends me and gets her to stop. I don't know why she does because I'm always nice to everyone. I always end up in tears when she gets randomly upset with me and I just feel like the rest of his family are starting to think there's something wrong with me. My boyfriend doesn't judge he just always tries to comfort me and I think he understands my birth control is messing with my hormones a bit. |
| Question: 2 people came to my house and asked if my mom was home? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 01:00 PM PDT 2 (turkish or moroccan) men came to my house and asked if my mom was home, my mom wasn't home so i told them no and they just walked away? I am 14 years old and I don't know what to do, I can't contact my mom and I'm scared that if they see her they are going to harm her or something.. Come on guys I don't know what to do :/ |
| Question: I keep hitting my sister, what do I do? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 12:57 PM PDT My sister is 13 and is going through that phase that all teenager girls go through where they're very bratty. We get in a lot of fights and whenever we do I usually end up hitting her or telling her to leave or swearing at her or something. I've made her cry before because I hit her so hard. My parents have gotten mad at me before and have talked to me before but I just always seem to lose my temper with her. I have 2 other siblings and I've never hit them before, it's just her. I love her and always feel bad right after hurting her, but I just can't seem to stop. I don't know if I have a problem and I'm scared that this is eventually going to progress into me hitting my children in the future. I'm tired of my entire family being afraid of me and thinking that I'm some moody abusive person who gets angry very easily. What do I do? I'm a 17 year old girl by the way |
| Question: What type of social class am I in? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 12:50 PM PDT My parents are divorced and my dad I know was in a upper class I would say but I dont live with him nor do I like him. My mom is a teacher and her boyfriend currently unemployed. We live in a two story house has a total of 4 rooms 6 if you count bathrooms. We have food and water along with running water and some TVs that weve had for a while now. Usually anything nice we have is from my dad like my computer and my moms those are things we got during the divorce. I have the clothes i have and we don't really get new ones unless it's needed. I know she can't just go drop 200 dollars on something and if she needs something she usually has to save up for a while. Our house is in a some what what i call nice area though if your stupid you'll get robbed (like leaving something in your car or leaving it unlocked) we've had simple things stolen and my sisters car broken into. Im asking this question simply because I have friends that assume im upperclass due to my dads stand point but they dont know i dont really visit him or talk to him. Sorry if its long and kind of jumps around. |
| Question: Can I marry my cousin since she's adopted? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 12:46 PM PDT |
| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 12:35 PM PDT I am 22 yrs old born and raised in California. My father left my mom when I was about 5 years old. My mom filed for child support. But they could never find my father. I was going to college but since I need to work to help my mother pay for rent I stopped a year ago but I really do want to go back. Is there any way my mother or I can file for child support since he has never paid nor bothered to see if I ve needed anything. |
| Question: My step-dad and dad hate my boyfriend? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 12:30 PM PDT I'm 18 years old, and my boyfriend is 19. He and I have been together for 3 years now, and we really love each other. (High school sweethearts) My boyfriend is sweet, respectful, and treats me like a princess. He's on the path to becoming very successful, he's smart, hard-working, and a very outgoing guy. My little siblings and my mother love him, he's very respectful of my family and has always tried to be "involved" with my family. Except my father and step-father don't feel that way. They don't like him, they don't even acknowledge him half of the time. He tries to reach out to both of them, but they always push him away. My step-dad and my mother are always fighting over this. My mother thinks he's wonderful, and my step-dad thinks I shouldn't be allowed to see him, that he's going to get me pregnant (we aren't even sexually active), that no good can come of me dating. His son (my stepbrother) had numerous girlfriends when he was my age, was caught having sex numerous times, and was an awful student, and he never gave it any bother. They have been fighting nonstop, and this has but a serious strain on their marriage. My father has gone to such extremes as to calling the cops on him for trespassing when he came over 15 minutes earlier than expected to do homework. (He got off work early and came over, my father knew he was going to be there). It's been three years, I feel like this is a bit much? I don't know what to do here, any advice? |
| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 12:28 PM PDT My Mum lives a 10 minute drive away and the older kids never feel compelled to go visit her because she doesn't believe in giving them tons of rubbish sweets in giant bags like their other grandmother does, also my Mum doesn't have other kid relatives that visit but their other grandmother does, they hate even just going for a 10 minute drive, but would happily go somewhere else, I feel a bit sorry for my Mum and when the kids are young adults she may be very old when they finally do bother to visit |
| Question: Problems learning to drive - parents? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 12:03 PM PDT I recently started driving lessons and my driving instructor is really nice. The problem is I don''t have a car to practice in because my parents said I should complete my lessons before I can get one, so I have to use my dad's car to practice as my mother doesn't drive. Whenever I make the slightest mistake he shouts at me and is really condescending. I haven't done reversing yet with my driving instructor yet he expects me to know how to do it. I dread doing any lesson with him because he just gets angry and yells. Any advice please |
| Question: Why does my dad hate me? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 12:02 PM PDT My dad hates me! He always acts like he loves me in front of my mom, but when she leaves in the day time for work, he ignores me. If i ask for a drink, the reply i get is "Get it yourself". I want to go hang out with my friends outside, but when i go to he gets all mad and gives me a 15 minute time limit. Last week, he made me go inside because i was the only girl outside with 2 guys bc my friend went to get a drink. Im not allowed outside right now, and I'm scared to even walk out to my kitchen to get myself lunch. I am hungry, but i just can't walk out. I want to earn my dads trust but that will never happen. I just want him to like me. I can't stop crying, and i think i have been suffering with schizophrenia but i am way to scared to talk to him or my mom about it. Some please help me find a way to get through this. I know i don't have it that bad, i just don't know what to do. |
| Question: Help! My daughter is a communist? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 11:58 AM PDT My 14 year old daughter is a commie! I first started noticing it when she put up a soviet flag in her room. I have no clue where she got all of this stuff! I investigated her room and I found a book called Communist Manifesto various books on the Cold War and WW2, a furry hat with the communist symbol on it, and even Propaganda Posters! She has Communism music on her ipod with artists like Red Army Choir. And I overhear her talking about Stalin and Lenin and Trotsky to her friends on Voice Chat and she keeps yelling about a "bourgoisie"What should I do? I am a faithful, conservative, republican Christian mother and I will not put up with this Communist bullcr*p! |
| Question: How to feel more confident and happy about staying on campus when....? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 11:54 AM PDT When my grandmother keeps being negative about it. She keeps saying that it's not a good idea to stay on campus and that i should major in what she wants me to major in because she fears that i will not get a job. Ugh. She's just being so negative and i'm not even as happy about staying on campus as i was at first. I'm slowly getting more and more nervous. She doesn't want me staying on campus because she fears that something bad will happen to me, like rape or something worse. I don't know what to do! Please help. |
| Question: What do you think of parents who tell their son they wish he was never born? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 11:50 AM PDT They don't say this to my older brother or sisters, just me, their 4th kid of 5. Is it me then or should they still not say it? |
| Question: Will my boyfriends family think badly of me if I'm too sensitive and emotional? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 11:47 AM PDT I'm with my boyfriend at his house a lot where he lives with his parents and sister and her husband. They like alright I guess. I've always been more emotional then others but ever since being on birth control it's gotten worse. If anyone raises their voice at me, sounds angry when talking to me or blames me for something I start crying. If I'm not upset by anything then I'm perfectly fine. I'm generally very happy and bubbly. But whenever something happens that upsets me or if I start crying for no reason I feel like I have to hide or else people will think I'm crazy. Recently I was walking from my boyfriends room to the kitchen when his mom swung open her bedroom door and demanded to know why my boyfriend wasn't answering his phone. (he's angry at her and not speaking to her for a while..long story). She was really aggressive about it and it startled me. I just started balling and my boyfriend said that this was why he was avoiding her. She picks on me a little but he always defends me and gets her to stop. I don't know why she does because I'm always nice to everyone. I always end up in tears when she gets randomly upset with me and I just feel like the rest of his family are starting to think there's something wrong with me. My boyfriend doesn't judge he just always tries to comfort me and I think he understands my birth control is messing with my hormones a bit. |
| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 11:44 AM PDT He does try to spend time with me but I think that's bull. Let me just give you an example, a few weeks ago I asked him can he spend time with me like play on my ps3 and I KNOW he likes playing on it because I went away on a trip and came back and found my ps3 on the main menu of call of duty mw3 and later on that day I asked him would he like to play he said "no I'm tired" and that was bull because he took the day off and wasn't able to play on my ps3 in the first place because the controller went off and he didn't know how to plug it in And the reason why I want him to respect me is because he thinks just because he's the man of the house ( he does pay the bills ) he thinks he can treat me anyway he wants but he doesn't put his hands on me but he is so damn rude he starts yelling and cussing at me like a sailor for ANYTHING I do wrong I hate his a** but i m trying to do the right thing but literally he is a rude a** mother****er. He is like a control freak and you can't help I'm to stop or start anything that's wrong Please any suggestions before I might send this a**hole to a better place (yes the situation is that bad) there's still a bunch of stuff I wouldn't even be able to tell on this post so somebody please help |
| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 11:44 AM PDT when my daughter was born I didn't sign the birth certificate because the mom didn't know who the dad was. We did a paternity test and she came out to be my daughter. I wanted to be there for my child but the mother left with the other guy. 4 years later I found them and my daughter was in horrible conditions. Long story short after a while my daughter got to know me and told me things that were going on so I filed for custody and won. When I filed for custody I also requested for the court to allow me to sign the birth certificate but, that part was left out when I requested a copy of the court order. So my question is this since I have full custody of my daughter is it easier for me to sign her birth certificate? |
| Question: My mom wishes she had another daughter ? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 11:43 AM PDT I am almost 18 years old female.Living with my mom and stepfather.I can't say that we have the best relationships.My stepfather always picks up on me without any reason.He thinks that it's just funny to make me feel bad about myself.I suffer from acne since 12 years old.I am being bullied in school for it.At home that doesn't become any better.I simply hate how my mom picks up on me because of my appearance and food I eat.She says that I am ugly scarecrow and I need to apply tons of make up on me face just to look at least bad.I don't use make up because of acne.I eat many sweets and junk food because they make me feel so good and forget about all my problems, and I can talk to them since I don't have any friends at all.So my mom always tells me to stop eat them or I'll end up with beingcrowned Ugliest person ever.When I say her that she had acne too, she becomes really mad and sometimes hits me in face.Last time she hit me with book.We had another argument today.She works at school and talks a lot about her pupils(and never about me).She always points how good are they.And then she said she wishes I wasn't her daughter and she had another one.She said I am big embarrassment to her and she's jealous that people have normal daughters.But God made her suffer from being mom to me.....I still crying.I can't say I hate my mom nor I love her.I don't have other relatives.My dad has a new family and he said that he doesn't want to see me anymore...What should I do ? |
| Question: My Dad is treating me like trash? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 11:41 AM PDT I am 19, my Dad went to abroad when I was 1 and came back for 1 month when I was 7 and I am living with him now since 2012 in America, I haven't seen him for 10 years, (we have no attachment because he didn't see me growing up), my problem is everytime he sees me his mood changes, when I do something wrong like doing the house chores he's shouting at me, he is short-tempered when it comes to me, he never treated me as his son, its like he wishes I never existed. Idk what his problem is, I'm not doing anything wrong, I always cry because of this, sometime I think of running away but I got nowhere else to go, sometimes I just wanna explode and yell at him but I won't do that. My parents are divorced BTW, I really don't know what to do, I am REALLY depressed because of this. I don't wanna ask him why he's treating me like **** because I know he's gonna be mad, not enough attachment and being away for 17 years is enough reason I guess, what should I do? run away? but how? |
| Question: How do your parents refer to each other? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 11:38 AM PDT If your father talks to you about your mother, does he say "your mom?" or does he say her first name? |
| Question: Do you guys have plans for your life when you were 19? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 11:31 AM PDT I just completed my first year of college, but I feel like I am still too young. I actually do want to take responsibilities of my own stuff like schedule my own dental appointment, eye doctor, and set up my own tax return account. Its just that my mom is a control freak and doesn't really trust me to do those kind of things. In irony, she kept asking me what is my plan for my life; when am i going to move out, what job am I going to get, and what is my plan for the summer... This gets in my nerves sometimes. I usually think very hard for the past four days, but all I am thinking about is all those happy moments, not reality. It gets depressing sometimes that I need myself alone a couple times. This summer also sucks because I do not have a job or summer school. All my friends are out somewhere taking internship already even though they are already freshmen. I did not expect that, I expected in sophomore year. |
| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 11:22 AM PDT I'm a 22 year old woman and I just find them boring and unappealing. I love Disney movies, videos games, anime and all kinds of cartoons. The only "adult movie" really like is 13 Going On 30. The weird thing is when I was like 14 I was really into watching movies for grownups and soap operas but when I started to become a young adult my interests completely changed. It's not just what I like to watch either. When I was a teen I was always trying to dress older but now I dress more like a teenager like never before. I wear T shirts with cartoon characters on them, studded belts, skinny jeans and/or bows in my hair. |
| Question: My parents are always fighting, how do I face this? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 11:17 AM PDT It's been 16 years since I was born and still they have not improved even a bit. They are always quarreling or fighting with eachother, every morning, every day, every night. And no matter how much I try to solve their combat, I just can't, and I give up now. I really dont want to hear them fight, sometimes I seriously feel like killing myself so that they know how much I hate them, their combats and will make them stop blaming eachother for nuisance, so that at least my younger sister will not have to face the same situation. Is there any thing, I can do in this situation, besides suiciding, since I have no gun? |
| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 11:01 AM PDT I am 18 and a college student. I will be graduating in 3 years and recieving my nursing degree. When I graduate I want to adopt my little brother. He is in foster care and has been his whole life. My mother is on drugs and his father just doesn't care so I want him. My grandparents raised me and my other sibling but times are hard for them so they could not take in another child for my mom. My little brother was born 2 years ago. He will be 6 by the time I get him out. My mom has never been to any of the court dates and doesn't even try to get him back. She just lies to people and tell them he's with one of our family members. The problem for me is, I'm young. Me taking in a child is going to be a stresser. I want to travel the world (I was going to be a travel nurse). And move state to state, country to country. This means I will have to give up my dreams and whole life to do this for my little brother. What should I do? I want him to be apart of my family but I don't even want a kid of my own until I am 30 years old. |
| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 10:44 AM PDT im 17 years old, a junior in HS. Me and my mom are always arguing lately as a result of some lying and drug use. she's constantly on my case watching what im doing. I smoke weed everyday just because it's summer and I have nothing to do since I've recently been grounded. my mom calls me an "addict". I completely disagree with this statement. I used to smoke weed once a week, if that, prior to my grounding. But now I have nothing to keep me occupied and no way to just get out. weed is the only thing That's keeping me from blowing up on her and ****. I lie to my mom about my drug use and stuff but doesn't every teenager? im not going to continue smoking into my adult years i know that. I just want to hang out with my friends and have a good time once a week or so. I don't think I'm a bad son. I think my mom needs to let me be a teenager and have fun responsibly. I think I'm pretty responsible. help me out? am I a bad kid? |
| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 10:38 AM PDT So my cousin and I are really close always have been. Her mom always looks to be to help my cousin with things like money once in a while or babysitting. Her mom has always treated me like "the help". She'll do anything for her daughter and will usually try to use me as a resource. It's never affected my relationship with my cousin. I didnt know prior to all this but, my cousin got off of her birth control 6 months ago to try to have a baby with her boyfriend because she had this naive idea that it would fix their relationship. She wouldnt get pregnant so she stopped trying but didnt get back on the bc. Now's she's pregnant but doesnt want to have it anymore. She's 25, financially unstable, working as a cna to support the 3 kids she already have. She had no business trying to have a baby because she cant even afford the abortion. Her boyfriend is crazy and she doesnt know if he'll give her the money. Now her mom is suggesting (not asking) that I take $300 out of my trust fund that my mom left me when she died. I only use it for emergencies. Ive never depended on it and im 23. I just feel like it's not fair for the finances to fall back on me when i wasn't involved in the decisions that led up to all of this. Her mom doesnt even know that she basically got pregnant on purpose. I don't want to be selfish but i feel like my trust fund that was a result of my mom's dealth and not some lottery win shouldn't be a "get out of the jam" card for someone who made a stupid decision. |
| Question: My moms mad at me and I don't know what to do? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 10:31 AM PDT My mom has been mad at me and I don't know to do! I'm sixteen almost seventeen. Mom is mad at me because both of the vehicles at our house are broken down and they have no way to go anywhere. She's mad because my dad won't send child support and she has kicked me out of my house. At the moment I'm at my grandmas house 300 miles away. My mom started to get mad at me the day after I left and I have no idea what to do! She doesn't want my five younger siblings to speak with me at all and my eight year old sister called me this morning and she got in trouble for it! My fifteen almost sixteen year old brother is the only one I can talk to Oma daily basis. Please help me? I'm so confused as to what to do! |
| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 10:30 AM PDT Cooked chicken My parents, sibling and close relatives |
| Question: What's wrong with my niece ? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 10:27 AM PDT My niece is only 14 shes been with her boyfriend for 2 years. She said she's engaged to him. Again she's 14 he's 37. She's lived with me almost her whole life. I tried to talk to her last night about it I told her she couldn't get married so young she got mad and said " you can't tell me what to do your not my father ! " then she went in her room and slammed her door and locked it. And her boyfriend was in there with her. Her boyfriend has 2 kids from a previous relationship. She's acting like a real spoiled brat and a real *****. What's wrong with her ? How can I help her ? |
| Question: How do I convince my mom into lettting me move with my dad? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 10:26 AM PDT I want to move with my dad, who lives in California because I want to go to college in California and I want a better eduation and where Im living now I wont get that. I SOO dont want to leave my mom at all! Trust me I dont perfer my dad, its just Im looking out for my future, My parens have joint custody but obviouslty my mom has the advantage since Ive always lived with her. How do I tell her? And how do I convince her? Im so scared she wont let me cause I really want to! ps. Where I am now is really far away from my dad, like the continent below it. Also Im 16 |
| Question: My mother took my kids for a sleepover and never came back.? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 10:14 AM PDT My mother was on vacation this week and asked if the kids (6 & 9) could spend a night with her. I didn't see why not and let her pick them up. The next morning I got a phone call from her screaming at how horrible my kids were. I was at work. left and started driving very fast towards her house 50 minutes away. Halfway there she called and said she'd drop them at the house. I turned around went home and waited an hour and I called her. She claimed she was on her way somewhere and couldn't drop them, I'd have to meet her off the highway somewhere. I told her to meet me off an exit. I drop 90mph to get there so she couldn't come up with an excuse and she never shows. I waited 2 hours. I called and called, she'd pick up the phone and hang up. Finally she must have shut her phone off. I went to the police they told told me since I let her take them the night before they couldn't do anything. To wait a few days and see if she brings them back. If she doesn't I can call them again. She still hasn't shown up a day later. I don't know what to do. She's not at her house. She's not at work or anywhere else I could think to call. I tried sitting in my car outside her condo figuring she'd go back last night. |
| Question: I'm scared to go to my dads house? Please help quickly!? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 10:05 AM PDT I'm 17 (will be a senior next year) and my dad had been emotionally abusive for years. He always tells me how worthless I am, how I will never grow up or amount to anything. He mocks me because I don't have a boyfriend. He had threatened to kill my mother before. My parents split custody and I am supposed to go back to his house today. I am scared to go because he is teaching this summer school class that he wants me to sit in on (I'm not enrolled in it) and I didn't go. Before I came here he was yelling at me and telling me that I wouldn't go because my mom wouldn't let me and called me a coward for not standing up to her. The reason I didn't go was because I didn't want to. I didn't do any of the work for it either and I blocked his number from my phone so he couldn't text me. I'm really scared of what will happen when I go over there, he was arrested for domestic violence before and although he has never hit me, I'm scared. He has kidnapped me before though and made me miss finals on the last day of school. I really don't want to go over there but I am scared he will just come to my moms house or call the police. I don't know if I should call CPS or what but I do not want to go and I'm afraid if I go he will take my phone so I can't call for help if I need it. I'm sorry this is long but please tell me what you recommend! Thank you! PS I live in California if that helps |
| Question: Is this a problem? HELP!!!? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 10:00 AM PDT I have learned that in order to have a happy marriage that when in love he will be what makes you stronger and you will be his weakness. I agree, but the thing is that I hate my family. They are extremely racist and very negative. Whenever you talk about bettering yourself, they will tell you to "get a real job". I want to be a surgeon and I have both educational hobbies and artistic ones.. I believe that I am making myself out to be well rounded, but they discourage me from doing anything other than working at walmart. I dont want whoever I marry to meet them.. ever! And I don t want my children to meet them either. There are 3 people on this side of family who would be a part of our lives and it is my mom, sister, and grand father. Is this a problem? It is really eating me alive. |
| Question: Woman's and girl's what opinan od my personality? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 09:54 AM PDT Hi I am a 20 year old and I was born 5 months with you dysplasia broncopulminar, and I have bronquiectacias, I liked football and was good playing even win a Championship and yet I still play wanted to be a footballer I am silent, it seriated and somewhat reclusive, I don't show my feelings or give hugs or kisses, almost have no friends, and the little that I see I'm not talking about , or less wedding, always am alone in my room studying, and also analyse people well and see their actions, I ignore people and more to the girls, do not go out to parties never have come out of echo, and sometimes usually answer with Yes, no, ok, aja, bn and I'm good at math to the extent that congratulated me I was the best in integral calculus. Is algebra de baldor, integral and differential, some of differential equations, geometry and trigonometry, calculus and algebra linear method Russian, Egyptian, Mayan, Indian, Japanese, to multiply, also are arithmetic and integral of binary boxscore, will make operations with English also will speak English, physics and chemistry, and also little French and German (very weak) in high school I was the escort , but I did not like, and study computer science in high school, in addition to study a course of electronic badica(se me dificulta) and I think study ing in Mechatronics specialise in robotics, and to travel to several countries in Europe and Asia, I like listen to music in English, rock, heavy metal, disco, German rock, salsa and cumbia also instrumental, who think of my? What is my personality? |
| Question: Divorced parents and don't know who to live with? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 09:53 AM PDT So my parents divorced last year (and I'm a 14 year old girl if that helps). Last year I moved to Texas with my dad and brother from New York and my mom was left in NY. After going to school there for a year I realized their school program is really good. I play tennis and have been playing for a while and their team for high school is top ranked in the state (unlike my old school). Also, my dad is a lot more financially supported than my mom. My friends, family, mom, and memories are all in ny though because I grew up there. Since she's my mom and I'm a girl I can also relate to her a lot especially as a teenager.. I'm asking for help who I should move in with, should I stay in tx or move back to ny? |
| Question: Sister in law staying at the house and her kids are obnoxious? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 09:49 AM PDT My sister in law is staying with us for a few days and her kids are absolutely obnoxious. They scream and yell, make demands, slam things around our house, put their grubby sticky little hands all over our furniture, dont listen to their mother, raise their hand to her like they are going to hit her and although she tries to correct them they don't listen. She makes threats that she doesn't follow up on and they know it. My wife is good at disciplining them but I can't stand spolied children and it's painful to watch the mother fail at raising her little hell hounds while she laughs it off. I really just wanted to vent but if you have any suggestions I'm listening. I'm keeping myself busy and out of the house as much as possible but I don't want to be rude either. I like my sister in law and I don;t blame the kids...they have no structure and take advantage. |
| Question: My mother found out I lost my Virginity!? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 09:44 AM PDT My parents are very trusting of me lately. Letting me out really late and not asking where I am or who I'm with. I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and I lost my Virgnity to him. My mom found out when she found a condom wrapper in my room I am 19 and I lost it not long ago. She didn't tell my dad but she had a talk with me told her that if I was going to act like an adult I was going to be treated like one. I work 2 jobs and go to school and get good grades. But now I have to pay for rent at my house, my phone, car payments, car insurance, and braces bill. Adds up to about 500$ a month. I don't know if she's over reacting or she just made this decision bc she was upset. I would love some insight maybe from any parents or just people who went through something similar. Thanks for reading and would appreciate a kind insightful response. |
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| Question: Quero perder a virgindade, tô confusa!? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 09:39 AM PDT Tenho 17 anos, e meu namorado 23. Namoramos à um ano e meio, e o nosso relacionamento e muito bom, temos uma conexão muito grande. Ele não me pressiona para ter relações, me respeita muito, meu tempo, meu limite... Mas quantos estamos a sós aquela vontade de me entregar é muito forte, Porém, bate um certo medo. Sou do tipo que consideram meio ''careta'' , pois penso que sexo só depois do casamento, e também penso na reação da minha mãe, fico meio perdida. Tenho muita vontade de me entregar em seus braços, mas, na mesma medida vem o medo... Por favor conselhos pro bem |
| Question: Is this child abuse or is this normal? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 09:31 AM PDT Ok my family is known as to sleep late at night, and I went to sleep around 3am. I was planning to wake up around 2pm, but then my mom says to go to care of my baby brother. then she says, "you know what? you could go back to sleep I'll just take him to his grandma". so the I went to my bed and my mom comes also she she yells at me saying I should have least say sorry and get off bed. after 10min, she gets her sandal and starts hitting me with it, even on my face, and she also slapped me. I cried though, and I was also mad because I'm 13 and I shouldn't be getting hit.mi have a severe medical condition, and I'm suppose to go to the doctor next week, and my mom tells me she's not taking me, because I have no respect. what do I do? |
| Question: Where should I hide my playboy magazine? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 09:20 AM PDT Im 14 years old we just moved in to a new house, but me and my two sisters have to share a room until my dad builds me a new room, so where should I hide them while my dad biulds me a room? |
| Question: Okay so why am I the bad guy here for wanting my money? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 09:14 AM PDT There's a 35 yr old man living with us for 3 years. My parents divorced and me and my brother stayed with mom, my father moved into a retirement home. My mom found herself this new boyfriend and she moved him in with his oldass son. They do not pay rent and they live a perfect life. All things are being taken care of by us. They are foreigners, and they do not speak english and we cater them like ******* kings. Now I noticed that that son of that man was using my old phone! He found it and started to use it without my permission. So I said you will have to pay me 50 bucks ( I looked up the price for a used phone like that ) and he said "Okay, so have your ******* phone back!" How am I supposed to defend myself, when these strangers whom I didn't want here in the first place talk down to me and ignore me when I tell them to do something or try to protect my property... My mom doesn't give a bullshit cuz she's afraid she'll be alone for the rest of her life... she always talks about how she doesn't need them and how she'll break up with her boyfriend and kick him out... then he goes home to his country and comes back after a month and she awaits him with a hot plate and her legs spread wide... how I hate my life now! Imagine being in your safe home enviroment, the place you're supposed to be secure and someone just comes over and you can't do nothing about it! I'm a 20 yr old female and I have to do all the chores around the house, and these people don't. |
| Question: Failed subject twice. Suicide my only option? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 09:06 AM PDT So I failed the same subject twice... (maths) Got the news today. Yay.Guess this is my last call for help. Not being overdramatic. The last time I failed I only made it through cause of my mom. But today she texted me that I am now out of all her kids the... WORST! It destroys me. Failing this subject twice means I probably can't become a doctor. My mama had so high hopes for me. I used to have amazing grades before I turned 16. I see NO other option. Maybe I can drop out and get a low payed job but I'll always be the big disappointment in the family. The talk of the family. Because I've seen how it woks. If u don't have success in school u are a failure (not my personal belief) I am supposed to travel to thailand in a couple of days. But I have to end my life. I can't go home because I know I'll be kicked out or treated badly until I move out. The trash of the family. That's me |
| Question: What should I do? I'm really worried for them. Please help!!? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 09:04 AM PDT My sisters friends had been 15 minutes late and she brought them home, but when she walked back up to our house, which is 3/4 a football field away from theirs. She heard the girls crying and loud bangs coming from their house. She came in crying saying it was her fault that they are being punished. The father had said they are grounded all summer. She heard ten or so bangs. Later on, when we went to see what was going on, our two neighbors who are my age, 15, were outside one of them threw a football at us and I told them to shut up and come here. It was quiet, but the girls bedrooms lights were out. Eventually, we saw the mothers car park in the drive way she got out and yelled the fathers name and went inside and by then we were all up at my house but farther away. Two bangs went off and I heard "I'm calling the cops" or "Call the cops" The house was dead silent. They should've gotten up from bed and at least turn the light turn on. After awhile, we were closer, like across the street. Then all of the sudden the lights all went off. It was deadly silent and I was on the verge of tears, because I knew the girls they told me they had been beaten before, but that was years ago. They also told me that he was often drunk. The cops were driving by because one of the boys' was a cop and My sister and I waved them down. They talked to them, and the step-father wouldn't come out. The mother defended him. She said she was there for an hour. She was only there for 17 minutes. help! |
| Question: My brother annoys me? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 09:00 AM PDT My 10 year old brother goes out of his way to make my life a misery. For example, right now he kept staring at me, despite me telling him to stop. Then he started screaming insults at me as loud as he could. He does **** like this everyday and I'm getting tired of it. No matter how many times I tell my parents, they still can't be bothered to make him stop. What should do? |
| Question: Is this too controlling or am I delusional? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 08:53 AM PDT So i'm 17, Living with my parents, im not supposed to go on facebook, twitter, or instagram unless they "know who my friiends are" ive explained to them that this is impossible because its I dont talk to everybody who im following on these sites, secondly i'm not allowed to go on the computer (my only source of entertainment because we dont have a tv) for more than 3 hours a day and even then they are always suspicous that i'm going to some bad websites, i explained to them that they cant control what websites i go too all of the time its impossible, you're just gonna have to trust me, plus thats an invasion of privacy i think, whenever i express my opinion about the situation they'll just get mad and take it away completely. I'm going to a psychiatrist and ive gotten his opinion and some other peoples opinion and they have agreed that this is too far, just wanted to get an outside perspective, also they won't give me a phone unless they have parental controls installed. The computer i use is not even my own because they dont trust me with my own, i havent done anything like terrbile that would make them do this, they caught me with nude pictures like 2 years ago and i understand the legality of it but the issue with them was religious, not my safety, they were offended and have held a grudge ever since, they are conservative christians part of the upci and are very judgemental and close minded. Sorry for all of the typos also not supposed to grow out my hair, get piercings or tattoos, listen to any music that is not christian, go to the movies, watch tv and a hoard of other outrageous rules, most of which come from their church |
| Question: What do I do about my mom...? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 08:49 AM PDT She went through my text messages she thinks she knows everything about me, about my style but she doesn't!!! I lie and put up a veneer for everything I do, I told her my style was bohemian but really it's rock!! If I tell her anything about myself she makes fun of me and calls me goth! All she does is make fun of me and she never says anything encouraging to me, everything's a put down |
| Question: If our mom died, would my brother and I still live with our step dad? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 08:47 AM PDT I have 4 brothers. 1 is 18 and moved out, but the other 3 live with me, and the 4 of us live with our mom and step dad. Two of them are actually my mom and step dad's, but my brother and I are his step children, but the step dad is more of a dad to all of us, than my brother and i's and 18 year old bro's biological dad. So if my mom died, would my brother and I be allowed to choose to stay with our step dad? (My mom isn't dying and I don't believe she will for a while but I'm worried because I love my step dad so much and don't want to live with my biological dad.) |
| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 08:47 AM PDT My 16 sis,18, 19 brothers always fuss about my mother 's boyfriend. They're always complaining and always concerned (not in a way they should be either), about what they're doing. Why should they even care? I'm 22 going on 23. Also, have a bro who is 15, and he's our youngest and he stays to himself. |
| Question: What's wrong with my sister ? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 08:33 AM PDT I really hate my sister sometimes. She's always running my life. She's only 16 almost 17 I'm 27. She always hacks into my Facebook account thanks to her I lost my password so I had to get another one but she over heard me say it now she knows it and she's been going on there messing around on my profile liking over a million pages I don't even know what they are then I have to unlike them then when I try to go back to liking my own pages it blocks me so I have to wait 24 or 48 hours to like them again. She also sneeks into my phone and deletes apps and installs random ones I don't even know how to use. She deleted my Facebook , Messenger , Twitter and Instagram and for some reason when I'm on wifi those apps take for ever to redownload sometimes they don't at all and I have to keep trying. I have Verizon unlimited internet were on the end of the line and our internet is super slow sometimes when I'm on wifi but when I'm not connected it goes super fast. That pisses me off. She also deletes songs from my phone and my photos too. Our mother died when she was 5 she never met our father so she's been living with me and my husband since she was a kid. She's a real pain in my *** sometimes. Why does she do this to me ? How can I make her stop ? |
| Question: My mom doesn't understand me AT ALL...? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 08:23 AM PDT So my family and I are moving to Florida in two weeks time, and finally I'm getting my own room. But I have a problem (or many problems) with my mother. I am going into 8th grade and let's just say I'm 13 and I act 20. (I'm smarter than most people my age...) I'm not really sure HOW to act my age though. All I do is study marine biology, which is good considering all of the future job opportunities in Florida, but something's not right. My mom constantly yells at me for nothing, she takes away my phone for nothing whatsoever. I could do something as simple as not reply to a question she asks and it'll get taken away. Btw this happened the other day at the dinner table when my mouth was full. Nobody needed to see that... As well as my phone being taken away, I'm also being kept away from my style. I listen to a lot of rock/punk music, ex. Paramore, and over the three years of living my life on Pinterest I've loved the idea of switching over to the punk rock style. I love things like unnatural hair colours, lip piercings, graphic t shirts and other things. My mom discovered this by reading my text messages between me and my ex-best-friend. She broke us up, saying that my friend, in a way, influenced my "demon behaviour" but she didn't. I'm not a demon. These are my choices, it's me. She can't accept the fact that I'm not girly, and she's constantly putting me down making me feel ugly, making me feel bad about myself. I don't know how to deal with that... |
| Question: How do I tell my dad that I only want to go to his house on some weekends? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 08:03 AM PDT I am not very close to my dad. I love him because he is my dad but we have very diffrent views. He is a Christian and I am question my views on it and do not wish to contune going to church. This is not the only reason I want to stay with my mom. The thing is i think he thinks we are closer then we really are. I want to live with my mom close to full time but I dont want to hurt my dad. What should i do? |
| Question: I'm 22 years old and my mom thinks I'm selfish.? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 07:46 AM PDT I am 22 years old, I live at home with my mom. I work an under the table job at a store and make about 80-100 a week. My mom expects me to buy food for the house and we recently agreed that I'll pay the electric bill. She say I'm selfish and don't show consideration to her or my two little brothers. Like all I do is come and go as I please. I only buy food for myself and my own clothes ect. I'm so confused because I think that I should only be worrying about myself at this age. Am I wrong?? |
| Posted: 26 Jun 2015 07:44 AM PDT me and mum have a very up an down relationship sometimes normal then she says little things which she knows hurt my feelings like "why do you never meet up withn your friends?" "do you even have any?" its hurtful and i really hate it. shes always desperate to have the last word like she ll say these things then i go up to my room in tears and she ll follow me up saying "you ll get depression if you always stay in your room" "no wonder you have no friends". i cant stand it and i really feel like im gonna hit her or someting awful if she doesnt stop. my dad (who i love so much) usually takes my side and shouts at her and her for a day she is over kind and sweet like buying me things makeing my fav food etc then it starts all over. i dont want to have to scream at her or m dad to but it tearing our family appart and i cant deal with the remarks and having insult her back please help me thank you |
| Question: Why this this such a big deal to warrant the punishment I'm going to be getting? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 07:29 AM PDT I missed my curfew last night and one too many times I keep having told to me. I'm grounded and I don't know until when. My dad said probably a month. My mom absolutely embarrassed me with my brother's older friends over. Using the belt on me. You can hear it even downstairs. ****** 15 years old! BS! Times have changed and they don't know! Am I right or what here?! |
| Question: What do you think of this situation? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 07:27 AM PDT Ok so my dad put my diploma on a social media without my permission for everyone to see and I don't want certain people seeing it. I then saw the picture and went off on him. Saying things like what the f**k is wrong with you and if he knew better he wouldn't have put it as his picture. He didn't even attend graduation and he doesn't do his role as a father. The reason I sent the picture to him was because he said he was going to buy me a new phone. Which seems false because ever since I passed he doesn't want to buy it and he said he will buy me the phone when I pass. He doesn't keep his promise.(I don't remember him ever keeping a promise). I regret saying this to him now. What do you think of this situation? I'm 15 by the way. |
| Question: My mum won't let me choose my university choices? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 07:18 AM PDT Next year I'm in my second year of sixth form (which is also the final year). I've chosen 5 universities which I wanted to go to - Bristol, Aston, Leeds, Edinburgh and Liverpool. Next year we start our UCAS application. If you don't know what it is, it's a university application where you choose 5 universities and other stuff like your extracurricular activities. I've told mum what my university choices are, but she said "no no no no... you are not going to any of them!" I asked why not, but she said, "I'm paying for some of it, therefore it is my decision where I go." I even said to her you have an unlimited time to pay the university fees, so I can pay for it myself. But she said "no no no no" again followed by "it is my decision. You're going to one I'M choosing!" I said, "YOU ARE UNBELIEVABLE. THIS IS MY FUTURE. THIS IS MY LIFE. I CAN DO WHAT I WANT WHEN I WANT. STOP BLOODY CONTROLLING ME!" But she shouted at me and sent me to my room. Can my mum do this? Is she right to not let me choose? |
| Question: Would I get in trouble with my wife if I did this? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 07:16 AM PDT My wife's mother is a wonderful person that is a joy to be around. She is divorced. We all love her and want to help her in any way possible. She went on a diet and lost a lot of weight and now has a gorgeous figure. She had to buy a whole new wardrobe. She likes to try on her new clothes for me go get a man's point of view of them. I am happy to do this for her but it took an unexpected turn when she started modeling her bra and panties for me and asking me if they made her look sexy. I told her she should not be doing that as it might cause me to get a b0ner. I would get in BIG trouble with my wife. She said "You getting a b0ner for me would make all dieting worth while. It would be the greatest compliment you could pay me". "It would make me feel young and sexy." Gals, if this was your mother doing this, what do you think I should do without causing a problem with my mother in law OR my wife. If it happens again, I am going to immediately get up and leave the room. I am afraid this is going to come out badly no matter what I do. Is it? Should I tell my wife what her mom is doing and ask her to put a stop to it? If you were my wife, what would you want me to do? |
| Question: My mom bullies me for being skinny? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 07:16 AM PDT My mom is short and overweight and is most likely insecure about her it, and so shes always undermining skinny people like myself by calling us anorexic and bullemic. If she sees thin people, especially women, on tv she will yell about how disgusting they are and how they look like 12 year old boys. I am 14, 5'7, weigh 105 lbs, and have small boobs. I don't have an eating disorder or starve myself, I just eat very healthy plant foods and ride my bike every day. My body is naturally tall and athletic. She always says that boys will only like girls with curves and that I will never get a boyfriend. She tries to feed me really disgusting and fattening foods (bacon, ice cream) to make me gain weight. I'm sick of her shallowness! She made our family believe that I have eating problems and now they're always trying to sneak food into me when I'm over. What should I do? |
| Question: What is a Terumo Syringe? What is it used for? What does it do to your body? Posted: 26 Jun 2015 07:10 AM PDT I was looking through my moms boxes while she is away and I found about 6 (so far) Terumo Syringes. My mom is a pretty big heroin addict, do these Terumo Syringes have anything to do with that? Please give me some successful answers |
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