Marriage & Divorce: Question: My husband goes to the bar with his friends? |
- Question: My husband goes to the bar with his friends?
- Question: Is it possible to file an annulment case against wife because of having an affair of another guy?
- Question: HELP!!! Husband going thru Extreme midlife Crisis.?
- Question: Are there woman,Females out there somewhere that would let her man,B/F ,Husband wear her Bikini Panties & love him as he is?
- Question: I caught my wife cheated on me I have a proop?
- Question: I feel trapped?
- Question: Can you be SEXUALLY smitten with someone?
- Question: Advice needed marriage.?
- Question: Am I wrong???!!!?
- Question: Been having an affair for 6 months now, im ready to stop but its gone to far. advice?
- Question: Is it normal to hate your sibling's spouse? Or is it just wrong?
- Question: Do you guys believe a cheater/abuser can change?
- Question: How many women would stay with their husbands if he only jacks off to porn.?
- Question: Help me with this Suicidal/abusive relationship?
- Question: Wife left me and i feel like ****?
- Question: Is talking online with other men considered cheating?
- Question: I want to do a councelling is this going to help?
- Question: Why would my ex wife need two facebook accounts?
- Question: I want to go back to my maiden name now that i am separated, how do i do that?
- Question: With more sluts/whores being born by the second how will men get married to a good women?
- Question: How would a wealthy guy feel about marrying a woman who used to be down on her luck and was temporarily forced to take the bus at one time?
- Question: Family Business?
- Question: I need answers on how to put it right losing my patience ! Should I marry my sons mother?
- Question: So is my husband gay, He asked me to lick hes butt hole?
- Question: I moved to a new city, got married, staying with inlaws, I am completely unhappy!! please help!!!!?
- Question: If a guy is going to get an arranged marriage but tells me that he doesn't want that marriage that it?
- Question: Why would my ex two facebook accounts?
- Question: Should we separate?
- Question: Do you and your spouse have established sides of the bed?
- Question: Can someone help? I feel like I m not attracted to my wife anymore.?
- Question: What happened to the man I thought I was marrying?
- Question: Should the wife peruse every now and then?
- Question: Should I marry my baby mama that loves me , asking again as too many unhelpful answers?
- Question: Can a divorce be changed into an annulment if there are fraud issues of insanity? Marilyn Bloch?
- Question: Do people have ulterior motives when they marry outside their race?
- Question: Just a sudden break up. What's is up with her?
- Question: Wife's mad cause I want to spend Father's Day with my dad instead of her. Why?
- Question: Do you think my military husband is cheating?
- Question: How do you know your marriage certificate is legit?
- Question: Why am I obsessed with stories of women cheating?
- Question: My husband said he regrets marrying me and that he has thought about being with someone else intimately and we only been married a week?
- Question: Do you think this is weird ?
- Question: Should I stay with a man who has no respect for my family?
- Question: How to reconnect with my husband?
- Question: My husband wants to get a divorce...what can I do to make him remember why we got married and that it can work?
- Question: What can i do to make my wife feel beautiful again?
- Question: How can I forget about my ex?
- Question: Should I leave?
- Question: Husband changed mind about having kids?
- Question: Why does it have to be a chore or a big production?
- Question: It is too late?
- Question: Need to stop thinkin of ex-wife what do i do?
- Question: Is my husband cheating?
- Question: Is there really a marriage crisis or is it a.another myth we create?
- Question: We just got married and we are going to get a roommate to help pay the bills and my husband wants me to me to pay 50/50?
- Question: Unsure about my wife's communication with a colleague?
- Question: Are you married to your true love?
- Question: Wife refuses to do most things in the bedroom.?
- Question: I think I hurt my husband's feelings and I want to make it right.?
- Question: Is it inserts to get married to your step brother. if one of his parents and one of my parents are married?
| Question: My husband goes to the bar with his friends? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 09:29 PM PDT So my husband works 2 jobs and he gets home around 11 pm on Friday night. But he's been calling me that he's going to go with his co workers to the bar he's been doing that lately. And I hate it. Idk if I'm wrong for telling him he needs to stop or should I just let him.. |
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| Question: HELP!!! Husband going thru Extreme midlife Crisis.? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 08:30 PM PDT I need some advice on how to handle this situation-- My husband and I married at a very young age I was 18 he was 19. We had children who are now grown and in college. We're both almost 50 at this point and I'm very worried about my husband. Suddenly my husband is listening to a lot of gangster Rap music. Won't leave the house without a Du-Rag ( Skullcap ) and usually wears a basketball jersey. He has also asked all of our family and friends to not refer to him anymore as " Cliff "-- He now wants to be called Too ILL .. Today Cliff got a Tattoo on his arm that says (2-ILL ). I'm not sure whats going on but this is getting more and more extreme by the day. Please help with any advise. Thank you. |
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| Question: I caught my wife cheated on me I have a proop? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 08:11 PM PDT We married for 4 years and our 2 kids stayin in the Philippines.I caught her cheated on me can I stop her 10 yrs green card still processing for renewal? and was approved. |
| Posted: 19 Jun 2015 07:58 PM PDT My boyfriend and I have been together 1 year and 7 months. It was good at first of course but then it turned awful. I got pregnant so we decided to stay together. Now I feel stuck. I was never an angry person until we got together. I can't contain my anger with him. I have a constant pressure in my chest and even the sight of him makes my blood boil. He is so mean to me. No I don't need someone to kiss my *** but Jesus Christ he is mean. We fight everyday because he is so mean to me. Then he tries to be nice. He makes me so sick. I hate him. When it's good it's good. But it's only good like 10% of the time. I've been nothing but faithful to him but my minds started to wander. Not in a sexual way but in a "would he treat me better?" "Would he talk to me like a human rather than a dog?" "What would he say to me?" "What would life e like with him? Would I be so mad/sad/upset/anxious?" Etc. But I feel so stuck. I have no job. No one to watch my child. He has threatened to take her from me if I left him. He said he will take everything he's bought for her. Said I will never see her again cause he will take her but the guy can't even give her a bottle even when I beg! I have nowhere to libe but with him.. I love my daughter so much she is my world but I always wonder why I had to get pregnant with him...😥 |
| Question: Can you be SEXUALLY smitten with someone? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 07:53 PM PDT I am not married, just didn't want to post this in the dating section where there are ten year olds. I am curious because a guy I know is smitten by as told by others. We've been talking for a month or so but I am confused because he knows nothing about me except for what I like to do as a career and the internships that I've done. |
| Question: Advice needed marriage.? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 07:48 PM PDT My husband got married without a car. We've been married about 8 months. We rely on my parents for a ride to & from work. We would have moved out closer to my husband job, but I wouldn't had a way to work so we're closer by my parents place. My husband has been complaining because he has to wait 30 minutes after he catches the bus home because my dad gets off work late. Sorry my husband has starting walking home. As this started my husband & parents don't have a great relationship anymore. My husband has anger issues & mood changes. In return when things don't go well I have to deal with my husband & parents & it drives me insane. We pay them gas money for everything. Sometimes that don't want to take him to work because of his attitude. Not taking my husband to work would place out on the streets. He has gotten a ride to work everyday except when my father was sick & I found him one. They threaten us about his ride or make comments that aren't helpful. In return my husband anger gets the best of him sometime & he goes & starts talking crazy & saying he wished he moved somewhere else. Then we wouldn't have gotten married because of his pay check couldn't paid everything alone. I'm so sick of all this. Some days I wish I could fly away with wings as a bird from all this. Having a husband with anger issues is very hard on me as well. I wish my parents would bend a little. I never lived with him before marriage. I knew anger was bad just not like this. Help please. |
| Posted: 19 Jun 2015 07:46 PM PDT When me and my boyfriend have sex or is about ready to I lose the urge to do it. He will be doing something and then I will just want him to get off of me....is there something wrong? then again on the other hand I thought I liked being forced to do things, like almost to the point of being raped...but when he did it I felt like I was violated and I was kind of scared in a way, now I keep wanting to do it and I don't know what's wrong with me....am I crazy or something?! |
| Question: Been having an affair for 6 months now, im ready to stop but its gone to far. advice? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 07:03 PM PDT 6 months ago i meet this guy at my workplace, he seemed so nice , so kind, he listened to everything i said. at he time i needed for someone listen to me. i had no friends , and my husband was always working and when we did talk it turned into an argument. this guy started inviting me to places and i always said no i was married. well once my husband and i had and huge fight. the next day this guy invited me out and i this time i took him up on his offer. we went to a club and danced around i had so much fun. nothing happened that night, a week later we went out again and that night something did happen he kissed me and ended up having sex in his car. i felt so guilty and told him to never speak to me again. at least 3 week after we were speaking again and the affair continued. im so tired of feeling guilty i want to quit and confess everything. but leaving him is hard he cries when i speak of it, he says he loved me. its gone to far and i don't know what to do. my husband and i have been married for 3 years . husband is 30 im 28 the other guy is 23 |
| Question: Is it normal to hate your sibling's spouse? Or is it just wrong? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 07:01 PM PDT Because I really don't like mines because she's annoying and thinks she knows everything. Plus she's really judgmental and just because she works with kids she thinks she knows everything. I can't help but hate her. And what makes it so bad my brother told me that he hated my husband when he realized how much I didn't like his wife. But I never knew that though nor do I understand that since there is nothing wrong with my husband and he's a great guy unlike his wife. But is that kind of thing normal in families though? I'm kinda new to all of this. |
| Question: Do you guys believe a cheater/abuser can change? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 07:00 PM PDT My ex husband was abusive with his ex gf. With me he's abusive also and he's trying to change. Do you believe a person that says that they've changed? How do they even prove that they changed? |
| Question: How many women would stay with their husbands if he only jacks off to porn.? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 06:45 PM PDT My husband said he may never sleep with me again because he came home & I was in the shower talking outloud about all mine & my husbands problems to God. I always talk to God when I'm in the shower I tell God everything, I ask him to give me the strength to face whatever it is that I must go through in my life. Now after a month of me wanting sex he tells me he didn't like what I was saying about him while I was in the shower. (The Truth Why Would I Lie To God) so I asked him how long will it take for him to get over it & he said maybe never. Should I let him stay or make him move out. Please honest answers only. |
| Question: Help me with this Suicidal/abusive relationship? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 06:31 PM PDT How would you feel if your husband cheated on you with someone who was a lot younger and looked like his ex girlfriend? What if you contacted that girl that and your husband got mad? What if he lied that he was single? What if she text you that he deserved better? What if his old abusive self came back? Would you give third chances? 1st chance was when he was verbally abusive and partially physically abusive (calling me psycho, *****, insane (since i was suicidal at age 14....) poked my eyes, pushes or shoves me. ...). He did stop for a while. .. The 2nd chance was him talking to another girl behind my back.and I went back hoping he changed, but didn't and his abusiveness came back.. (wayyy more physically and very verbally) This will be the third chance, if I give it to him. Honestly I'm scared and hurt and I have tried to open up again recently but something about this relationship doesn't feel right to me. Don't get me wrong, there are good times and he isn't abusive everyday, but if he was still all of the above, I don't think I'll give him a chance. I spent 2 months away from him, 2 months back with him (living separately). He's sweeter but I feel like anything I say can trigger him off. Plus he's kind of suicidal when I tell him I don't want to be with him. I'm honestly scared he's going to take his life if he doesn't get me. But I know this isn't a healthy relationship and 2 months is too early to tell if a person changes. How will you deal with a suicidal partner? |
| Question: Wife left me and i feel like ****? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 06:27 PM PDT im 36 years old, im a bio engineer, shes a nurse.we were married for 8 years and together for a total of 12. she was my first gf, and first everything. she said i was "bad in bed" and sex was too important to her to waste her time with me and filed divorce. she never spoke up about me being bad so i always thought i was doing something right, but i guess not. i was always attentive and made sure to be a good husband and father. i feel like i have been living a lie for the last few years and in all i was a bad partner. after divorcing with me she got with some other guy, who is a doctor at the hospital she works at ( i know because my kids talk about him all the time). the new guy is better in bed i guess. I know the right thing is to move on and find someone else but if im bad at being a lover whats the point. i wasted 12 years for this women and she leaves me for something so superficial. i wish i could take something away from my former relationship but i don't have anything, its like i never even dated anyone. i regret meeting her, dating her, marrying her, losing my virginity to her and even having kids with her. i never would off thought she would be one to leave me for something like this, i always thought it was gonna be for falling out of love or something not sex. ever since shes left i have been spending extra time in the gym, because i hate going home due to the fact that i keep thinking about her when im alone in a quiet place. i feel so inadequate... |
| Question: Is talking online with other men considered cheating? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 06:15 PM PDT Hi. i have been in a relationship for 10 years but he doesn't exactly treat me right, we don't have sex anymore so i went online because the other day he got me so angry. and i lied and said i was cheating. when i wasn't he didn't believe me calming nobody wanted me, i went on craigslist and posted an ad to chat. I explained about my relationship actually intending to cheat swapping pics (No nudity on my part) i got a lot of emails on my Yahoo mail some wanting to hook up but in discreet manner, one was a brother and sister in their 30's and 40's wanting me to participate with them which i turned down. so i ended deleting the post changing my mind altogether. but is this considered cheating? Thanks for any advise! |
| Question: I want to do a councelling is this going to help? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 05:57 PM PDT I was single parent has 2 kids before my wife and I got married she is 30 yrs younger to me and my daughter only 4 yrs younger to her. My wife got 2 kids of our own she hated me and my daughter for too close together and blaming my daughter of giving my wife a hard time while she was pregnant they never get along until our son born premature. We seperated abandoned my kids now living in a foster bec is not working out until now, everytime my wife upset she keep going back about the pass she want me to keep hurting my daughter by sending her a bad message as long as she still live and how can can I get her to forgive my daughter. |
| Question: Why would my ex wife need two facebook accounts? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 05:56 PM PDT My wife and I split a couple weeks ago for the second time. After we split she change her facebook password that I had access two and also blocked me in the process. Now this week I notice she have another account she just open in which I'm not block or anything. What is up with that. Why in the world would she needs two facebook accounts |
| Question: I want to go back to my maiden name now that i am separated, how do i do that? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 05:49 PM PDT |
| Question: With more sluts/whores being born by the second how will men get married to a good women? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 05:45 PM PDT Good women are pretty much under replacement level,what's going to happen. |
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| Posted: 19 Jun 2015 05:15 PM PDT I'm wondering if I should quit working with my husband on his business that he is trying to run. For the last few months, I noticed that he has been at times, very disrespectful towards me. At first, I thought that it might have been stress on him but now I'm considering that he and I are not good business partners. The final straw occurred today when I went to our shop to have a few pictures placed on the walls in my office while he was out doing other errands. When he found out that I was at our shop, he became very upset with me because I didn't call him to tell him that I was going to be going to the shop. I honestly didn't think that it was a big deal and I told him that I was sorry and it wouldn't happen again. He then went on a rant saying that he doesn't need me and that I don't ever have to come back. This has been probably third time that he has said this to me. I am very happy for my husband that he is fulfilling his dream to open up his own business and I believe that I have done a good job in helping support him but I'm starting to think that perhaps he really doesn't want me involved and that I may be wasting my time and effort in trying to help. Any suggestions? |
| Question: I need answers on how to put it right losing my patience ! Should I marry my sons mother? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 03:20 PM PDT Should I marry my sons mother , am I searching for what I already have? So I was with her for five years, she's hot and sexy and the sex blew my mind , but then she told me she was pregnant a week after we moved in together I was shocked scared as I didn't want kids we ended up in fights and arguments and I hit her in anger once, she decided she didn't feel safe and left me . Everyone told me I did the right thing dumping her and getting out if I wasn't happy with the pregnancy but I felt guilty after. She invited me to the birth and I declined I heard she had a c-section so must have been hard for her to do this alone , so I went out dating when she was pregnant and none of these relationships worked out. I reached out to her this year and she has been so good to me almost like nothing happened we are getting on , like good friends , I know she's dating but she isn't with anyone and single . I'm starting to love her again , I'm not getting younger I'm almost 50 and she's 24 and loves me enough to have my child and yet I'm looking for a woman to settle down have kids and a future when I have this woman who seems to be the only one who can put up with me after what I put her through I'm thinking of proposing will she ? Im not paying child support because she says she doesn't want any , she has told me she will always love me and can't be with anyone else , she was 19 but an adult when we met I was her first. So I taught her a bit like 50 shades if you know what I mean |
| Question: So is my husband gay, He asked me to lick hes butt hole? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 02:52 PM PDT |
| Posted: 19 Jun 2015 02:52 PM PDT I am 19years old, moved to a new city with my husband got married here.. iam living with my inlaws, but I just feel like living with them is really affecting me... iam very emotional and sensitive... iam very talkative as well.. there's not much communication only time there is, is when they wanna dictate to me and my husband about how to do this and how to live our lives, I iron the washing, I wash it too, I hang it out, take it off, I sweep and mop everyday, I wash dishes.. I clean up me n hubby's room, he helps me, I clean up the store room where their little child that is so undisciplined always make untidy I clean up after him, I get told how to live my life, and how to treat my husband.my mother inlaw always wanna get involved in our things.. I feel like I don't deserve to live this life at all.. I wanna go home to my family, I am only here for 3months, please help..this is totally affecting me really badly!!! I hate my mother inlaw her life is so miserable so she wants ours to be.. we just have to do what she asks us too, when I tell how I feel she ignores me she doesn't speak to me at all.. I love my husband so much, he hates living here too, him nd his mom doesn't get along 4 very long and now I can see why.he wasn't living with her for all his life cos she left him to marry someone else she married this man for the money and now he went bankrupt so now they so unhappy,she is muslim coloured,married a Pakistan man that she met on a website how messed up. Please help |
| Posted: 19 Jun 2015 02:21 PM PDT Is a marriage of convenience and so on. What does it mean? he also wants to be friends with benefits with me. What does that mean? Is he saying these things because he really doesn't want his marriage ? Or is he saying these things just to get sex on the side? Thanks |
| Question: Why would my ex two facebook accounts? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 02:09 PM PDT Since my and I separated she have change her facebook password that I had access too and she also block me. But also a week later she open up a new one in which I'm not block. Why in the world does she have two facebook. |
| Posted: 19 Jun 2015 01:44 PM PDT me and my husband been together for 7yrs married 6 months. We had problems before we said I do.The thing is his baby mama,his mama,daughter. I been through so much. I have 4 kids 3 of them belong to him. we have gone on dates with her I mean special dates(us time) Me and her mother don't get along so she will walk in the house and not speak. He always say I'm jealous. Now his mother is a different story this women has call me a *****. She wanted to play mama to my kids when I'm sitting there. She did it with her other grandchild the difference is I'm here she wasn't. I took care of here when she was sick. I I even touch her feet and I help her to walk again. I still got no respect from her. She told my baby she didn't like her, she will talk about them in front of their friend. Baby mama and mama are best of friends. my husband has this unnatural relationship. They think it's okay to talk to each other about each other relationship. We had so many problems with that. She use to call7/8 times a day. Our recent incidents the little girl is graduating from 8th grade. He asked her mother how much is everything she said $700 and they slip it ok witch is $350. He gave her the money and the next week she call I need $250 for her hair and class trip. I didn't say nothing about the $350 but I did have something to say about the $250. This men want off!!!!! I'm jealous, I don't like her etc it was a lot to handle I want him to leave. This is10% of the stuff I been through |
| Question: Do you and your spouse have established sides of the bed? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 01:42 PM PDT Or do you ever rotate? Lol totally random question but I wonder what others do |
| Question: Can someone help? I feel like I m not attracted to my wife anymore.? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 01:36 PM PDT We've only been married for 4 1/2 years and I'm not as happy as I used to be with her. Sadly, sex isn't fun anymore. I want all of the fun and love back. What do I do? I feel like I've tried everything. |
| Question: What happened to the man I thought I was marrying? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 12:21 PM PDT Let me start off saying there is so much to this story. We just barely got married, April 4th 2015. I found out that my husband was texting another girl two weeks after we got married. He met her in a bar a couple weeks before we got married, they danced, took a shot and when she asked for his number he gave it to her. He told me a few days later that he got a text from her and he didn t know who she was. He didn t start texting her until after the honeymoon. He had several chances to meet up with this woman and never did, so as far as I know it didn't go any farther than a kiss. I found out about it and the texting stopped. I can;t go into full detail, too much to type, but he has become selfish, mean and very critical. I have no idea what to do. |
| Question: Should the wife peruse every now and then? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 12:08 PM PDT Kind of a part two question with my wife. Why do I always have to be the one these days to try and start sex? When we were first married she would be the one many times to get laid by me now I'm the only one who does. Is this fair? Every now and then wearing something sexy or get on my lap or by golly unzip my pants and suck me. What's so hard about that!? |
| Question: Should I marry my baby mama that loves me , asking again as too many unhelpful answers? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 11:56 AM PDT Should I marry my baby mama, am I searching for what I already have? So I was with my baby mama for five years, she's hot and sexy and the sex blew my mind , but then she told me she was pregnant a week after we moved in together I was shocked scared as I didn't want kids we ended up in fights and arguments and I hit her in anger once, she decided she didn't feel safe and left me . Everyone told me I did the right thing dumping her and getting out if I wasn't happy with the pregnancy but I felt guilty after. She invited me to the birth and I declined I heard she had a c-section so must have been hard for her to do this alone , so I went out dating when she was pregnant and mine of these relationships worked out. I reached out to her this year and she has been so good to me almost like nothing happened we are getting on , like good friends , I know she's dating but she isn't with anyone and single . I'm starting to love her again , I'm not getting younger I'm almost 50 and she's 24 and loves me enough to have my child and yet I'm looking for a woman to settle down have kids and a future when I have this woman who seems to be the only one who can put up with all the crap I put her through I'm thinking of proposing will she reject me? |
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| Question: Do people have ulterior motives when they marry outside their race? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 11:37 AM PDT Usually if a white female gets married a black guy, I automatically assume there's an ulterior motive. I'd be wondering if she's getting married to spite her family, or is she intending to make false accusations somewhere down the line? Or she's planning to rob him blind? Do people, usually white females, have ulterior motives when they get into IR relationships? |
| Question: Just a sudden break up. What's is up with her? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 11:22 AM PDT Two weeks my ex wife and I split up. The split caught me off guard because the day before she was just telling me how much she love me and we was planning to take a cruise. I must admit the days leading up to split I was putting my time and effort so much into finding and starting a better job. I admit I kinda ignore her but it wasn't internationally by the time I got home the day after all her things was going. She told me that she went to stay with her cousin for a few days to give me time to move my stuff out so I did. She change her password on facebook and also blocked me from messaging her. I'm assuming the reason why she change her password is because I had access to her facebook while we were together. Every time I call she answers the phone but she seem to be so cold towards me, expressing she doesn't want to be with me,then she block my number. During that time I found out that her and my mom was having conversations on the phone and through text. My mom fail to inform me of those conversations. I then try to seek my ex out on why and my mom was almost talking daily when then I notice she open another facebook account.I felt it was some kind of mistake because she also have her other facebook account,so that makes her with two accounts. This doesn't make sense to me but I end up messaging her asking her what's the deal ;between her and my mom and then she starts to carry on about me being affectionate enough to her, that she was bitter because that, that I love |
| Question: Wife's mad cause I want to spend Father's Day with my dad instead of her. Why? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 11:10 AM PDT My wife has this idea that whenever she wants to do something everything else should stop and you do whatever she wants. Sunday is Father's Day and we don't have kids together. She has kids from her first marriage and I have a child from a previous relationship. She mentioned us going to the movies tonight cause she knew I wanted to see the new Jurassic Park movie but the earliest she could get tickets was like at 10:30 PM. We're not young anymore so I told her that was a little too late. She then suggested Sunday afternoon after church. I told her I was spending the day with my dad. This was her reply. "I'm just going by to see my dad so why can't we go after we get home?" She expects me to jus tgo say hi and bye. We both have to go to work Monday so again, I do not want to be out at the late showing of the movie. She said that even though we don't have kids together she wants to do something nice for me. Ok, should I tell my dad I can't spend the day with him because I need to spend it with my wife? Yes, she's placing her needs over those of the day, Father's Day. I suggested we go to the movies tomorrow. Her feelings get hurt so easily when she wants to do something and she doesn't get her way. Well, tomorrow she wants us to drive an hour out of town to a wedding of a cousin of hers that she hasn't seen in several years. This whole weekend she wants to make about her and her needs. We're doing her cousin's wedding tomorrow and now she wants me to cut my father's day celebration with my dad short simply because she wants to go to the movies. Oh, she wants us to go out to dinner tonight and she's already picked the restaurant. |
| Question: Do you think my military husband is cheating? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 10:53 AM PDT I have a sneaking suspicion that my husband is cheating on me with one of his coworkers. He gives her rides to work. She sends him messages like " I need to talk to you." Etc. One incident where something strange happened and I told him to call her in front of me and say nothing is going on. He wouldn't do it. His excuse was that we were going to a work picnic and he didn't want to be embarrassed. Well I find out he goes to work next day and tells her what happened and how I wanted him to call her in front of me. So wouldn't he still be embarrassed? Then he goes on his Facebook and removes all of his military coworkers including her and deletes all of their messages. He also keeps hiding the fact he is watching porn. Do you think I have nothing to worry about? I'm pregnant and he's about to deploy soon so I'm thinking about packing up and leaving when he goes because every time I mention leaving he says No other man can have me. I really don't want to bring a baby in this situation. |
| Question: How do you know your marriage certificate is legit? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 10:50 AM PDT |
| Question: Why am I obsessed with stories of women cheating? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 10:43 AM PDT I'm a 16 year old guy. When I was 6 years old, I found out that my dad had an affair. He greed instant from the rest of the family, and I lost his influence in my life. It was hard growing up when your dad babies your sister and puts no effort into raising you. My mom made the family move from India to the U.S. to get away from it, and I forgot about the affair. I knew what cheating was before I learned about the birds and the bees. Anyway, for the past few months, I've been increasingly thinking about cheating. I've been voluntarily seeking out stories about women cheating on men (like this: http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/6502892 ) and it depresses me. I'm sad for hours on end. But, I can't stop. It's like I want to feel bad. I honestly can't understand it. To be honest, the one benefit of this was that I found something about about people: most people don't fall in love with their husband on their wife, but what their husband or wife does for them. It's all selfish and need-based. The second that fine balance is gone, the majority of people don't have the grit or the discipline to communicate, so they just go fill their needs from someone else. The majority of people who do this are women,. Men cheat more often on average, but that's just because a lot of us are mindless sex addicts. It hasn't really affected my life. I have a 4.3 to 4.4 GPA. I took 3 AP classes this year. I have an app on the App Store and an Amazon e-book and invest in stocks. I got a 2280 on the SAT. I know I'll NEVER EVER EVER get married. I don't want to be hurt. People take their spouses for granted. So, technically cheating doesn't apply to me since, in the perfect world, I'll just go from person to person. Plus I have trust issues because of my dad. But I honestly hate how I'm so tempted to search out these stories. It's depressing me. First of all, why do you think I'm like this, and what steps can I take to stop. PS: My dad doesn't know I know about the affair. But, whenever I try to provoke a fight with him, it's because I'm angry about it. ALSO, please don't tell me that my problems are stupid. They might seem stupid to you, but they're very real to me. Thanks! |
| Posted: 19 Jun 2015 10:14 AM PDT He called me an idiot for not being about to find a place he gave me directions to and I called him arrogant and then he said I have no logic I said you think your better than me and your not your a 48 year old man who never did anything with his life and he called me a b$&!h said f$&ck you go back to California I want a divorce my life was better without you and that he has thought about being with someone else intimately. He said he has forced himself to be with me and that he doesn't love me and that he doesn't respect me. Should I just call it quits |
| Question: Do you think this is weird ? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 10:07 AM PDT Me and my wife will be married 1 year in September. We don't have any kids yet. There's one problem I have with it. She's 2 years older than me. I always thought men were suppose to be older. She's 27 I'm 25. People think she's my older sister. She treats me like it. She bosses me around she yells at me she may be annoying sometimes but I still love her. I never knew that a woman could be 2 or 3 years older than her husband. I love her very much but it doesn't seem right to me. Is it weird she's 2 years older than me ? |
| Question: Should I stay with a man who has no respect for my family? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 10:04 AM PDT I m married for 1n 1/2 years now. Since my engagement my in laws have been pressuring my parents and insulting them in one or the other way but we have kept quite just because my husband was good to me. Recently I gave birth to my daughter and I am in my postpartum period. The second day of my delivery my in laws and my husband created a big scene in the hospital regarding some minor issue . Since then both the families are having arguments. I showed all the respect I could towards him and his family and tried to put the matter behind for my daughter s sake. But my husband constantly has disrespected my parents and me . I have kept quite until now but I can t tolerate anymore. I have no feelings for him anymore and if I give this marriage a second chance it will be only for the sake of my daughter.I am confused as to what to do? |
| Question: How to reconnect with my husband? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 09:48 AM PDT |
| Posted: 19 Jun 2015 09:15 AM PDT My husband sprung the fact he wanted a divorce on me last week. It was very sudden and I had no warning. Just the week before we had been making plans for later this year. Are there any ideas of what we can do to help rrefresh those feelings of why we fell in love? Romantic things? I'm literally grasping at straws. I love him dearly and will do anything to fix or relationship but he hair seems apathetic and sad. |
| Question: What can i do to make my wife feel beautiful again? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 08:41 AM PDT I HAVE BEEN AN IDIOT! My wife has found me watching porn and communicating with women online. I didn't think about what it would do to her if she found out. My wife not by any means unattractive. In fact I find fer very beautiful. I don't know why I really watch it.I have always just used porn to get me by when she wasn't available, but I have crushed her and I don't know how to fix it. |
| Question: How can I forget about my ex? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 08:25 AM PDT Im happily married but for some reason i cant find a way to forget about my ex whom i met back in 2011! I really loved him but because of many things we couldnt be together. Now its 2015 and he just cant leave my mind when Im alone or when Im doing chores. He has also texted me on various ocassions and i havent told my husband because Im scared of what he might say. What can I do? I really want to live a happy life with my husband because he means the world to me. |
| Posted: 19 Jun 2015 07:37 AM PDT Long story short, I sent a topless picture to an ex while I was drunk. I'm married, and I can't bring my myself to tell my husband.. I think I need to, but I don't think he should stay with me because of this, even if he forgives me. The only thing is that I'm pretty damn sure if I leave him, it'll lead me to hurting myself or suicide. I'm stuck and I don't know what to do. This situation is eating me alive. |
| Question: Husband changed mind about having kids? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 07:02 AM PDT I simply don't care for kids. I don't even like being around little nieces and nephews for too long. I made sure to marry a man who no doubt felt the same way. 4 years later I've got a problem. He now keeps bothering me about having a baby. We are arguing constantly about the issue. He even left for a couple days he was so frustrated. Even worse we are both strongly against day cares and nannies so I would have to stay home until the kid would be old enough to go to school because of my own convictions. But I would not enjoy it. What can I do? I. Don't. Like. Kids. |
| Question: Why does it have to be a chore or a big production? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 06:33 AM PDT I don't understand my wife. We've been married for 8 years, were together 7 years before officially married and I can't stand our sex life. I've been more horny then ever to be honest and if I'm not getting any I'm jackin it. It seems like we never go to bed at the same time so one of us falls asleep. If I try to get any then she goes like "no, I'm tired, not tonight, I just want to cuddle, I'm on my period, I'm not feeling well, I'm not in the mood". So when I try to look to get some before bed, daytime, morning it has to be some big production on my part and hers. I can't get normal sex. She's now into biting me and I told her I don't like that. I would like my cock sucked, maybe eat her out then *** her. Then sometimes she like *** on her and sometimes doesn't. Sometimes I only last a minute then ***, sometimes its longer. If she doesn't orgasm then she gets mad then sometimes I have to eat and finger her forever. To be honest I cannot tell really when a girl cums so I"ve messed that up. Then she gets mad if I put on my boxers afterwards because she wants to be naked with me. The only good sex is the little amount of times I catch her in bed and do it then go to sleep. What am I supposed to do? I don't want a divorce but sure would be nice to have a woman with the same sex goals as me. Oh and I'm fixed and she's also on bc and we have no kids and never will. So no excuse for that. |
| Posted: 19 Jun 2015 06:06 AM PDT For years, I have been trying to get my husband to communicate with me more and to show me more attention, and generally open up more to me. He didn't really want to just hang out with me, we would have to be doing some sort of activity like going out or playing video games or something. He switched jobs and ended up working 2nd shift and I worked 1st, so we barely saw one another. I would text him throughout the day to see how he was, and I rarely heard back from him. He would get irritated quickly and almost as if didn't want to hear my mouth. He would go out to lunch with his friends and talk to his friends online but was disconnected from me.. If I did something to upset him, he wouldn't tell me, he would just be very short with me and I would have to deal with this tension for as long as it took for me to get him to open up. This went on for like 2 years. I gradually got used to him being this way, and I learned to entertain myself and find things to do. Present day, he wants to do all those things that I needed from him before but now..I don't want it. I've kind of moved on emotionally and no longer want him to do the things I once wanted. What does this mean? Thank you. |
| Question: Need to stop thinkin of ex-wife what do i do? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 05:52 AM PDT |
| Question: Is my husband cheating? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 05:41 AM PDT This has been happening over time. My husband would talk about his boss all the time he even said once he loved her because she is laid back at work. She is a older woman but still pretty. I told my husband to stop talking about her that I got along with my boss before but I wouldn't go to the point of saying I love him. He stopped but recently he started doing things different in bed. I had a bad gut feeling but since things were okay in our marriage I didn't bother him. Then the other day I found a text message in a text app that he wrote his boss. He told her to get her *** there because he's bored and it's slow and that it was going to get busy at work. And she wrote back sorry I'm running late and then wrote I know :). My husband never talked to other women like that since I confronted him we haven't got along there's not a day goes by that we don't fight. I found another thing odd my husband normally grooms himself before sex and he did last night today he is supposed to go to work even though today is normally his day off. I feel like I'm going crazy what makes me upset is if he is I don't know how I would handle it. |
| Question: Is there really a marriage crisis or is it a.another myth we create? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 05:22 AM PDT I think the media blows this issue up and it's not as a.big a deal as it presents. It's just marriage people. |
| Posted: 19 Jun 2015 04:53 AM PDT I don't think that's fair but am I wrong his friend is pay 50 percent of the rent and he wants me to pay 50 percent of the rent utilities and food he is 48 I'm 28 |
| Question: Unsure about my wife's communication with a colleague? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 03:43 AM PDT Just a quick question. We are both around 30, married for 4 years and no kids. She works in the Chinese real estate business here in Australia. In the past she has overstepped the line by borderline flirting with other young Chinese guys. I looked on her phone recently and found that since before Xmas she has been getting along with a colleague that she introduced to her company. I think she wants business from him. But the thing is he sent her a pic on her chay of a bunch of roses for valentines day...last week tood her he went to her company looking for her to take her to lunch but she wasn't there. Last night left her messages saying he waited all night for her phone call. Last night she was alright to me at first but because I was drunk from some celebratory drinks she hit at me at one point. I woke with her lying head to toe to me. It's been a couple of years since she has done that. I am pretty sure she went to dinner with him. I rang while she was at the restaurant she spoke very rudely to me and told me not to call her while she is at the restaurant. We had a really bad fight last year about me being caught checking her phone. So this time I can't let her know what I have found. But I hinted at sensing something was off in a text this evening. It's so tiring. I just want a normal life. I have no patience left for any drama full stop. I don't know how to talk with her this evening. Because I cannot reveal that I looked in her phone. I need some help here please! |
| Question: Are you married to your true love? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 03:40 AM PDT |
| Question: Wife refuses to do most things in the bedroom.? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 02:07 AM PDT It feels like my wife is slowly but surely cutting off sex. She used to do everything that I honestly believe is part of a normal sex life. (And a few other things too). But now, after the baby, she says either, she doesn't like that anymore, or that is disgusting. It almost seems like now that she got what she wanted (the baby), she's pulling back what she's willing to do in the bedroom. We still have sex, and a fair amount of it, but that's because she wants another baby, and she refuses to really put any effort into it, I can hardly get her to flip over. Am I wrong? Or being unfair? |
| Question: I think I hurt my husband's feelings and I want to make it right.? Posted: 19 Jun 2015 01:44 AM PDT I love my husband so much, he's the strongest and kindest most gentle man I ever met. Our love life is fantastic and we have two beautiful little boys. He even works from home so he can take of them because I'm still a full time student, it's a good deal though, his kids mean the world to him and he's such a good daddy, he's so gentle and patient with them, he's our gentle giant. It makes me love him more. I was showing classmates pictures the other day and they asked me why a girl like me was with a guy like him. My husband stands at 6ft 6in and I stand at 5ft 10in (I know I'm tall for a woman) and we weighed 220lbs and 125lbs respectively when we got married. I weighed 127lbs the last time I weighed myself, my husband went in for a physical about a month ago he weighs about 285 right now. He was always a big man, even now I wouldn't consider him fat, I don't even think I would consider him chubby, he wears the weight well with the combination of his big frame and confident swagger. His muscles are still visible in his arms, chest and back he just has a belly now and it makes him all the better to cuddle. I still find him very attractive and more huggable than he ever was. When we were lying in bed that night, my husband knew something was bothering me and he kept asking me what it was. Initially he laughed it off, but lately he seems insecure. I even caught him cursing himself out on the scale the other day. How do I show him that I still love him and still find him sexy? |
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