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- Question: How can I act like an adult?
- Question: How to get my mom to pay me my allowance? She says she will but rarely ever does?
- Question: How can I get my brother to stop "playing" with himself in front of people?
- Question: What is wrong with me?
- Question: How do I deal with an awful person in my life, I just can't avoid ?
- Question: My boyfriends parents make me feel uneasy?
- Question: Should I have my daughter's father's parental rights terminated?
- Question: How can I talk to my parents about this?
- Question: What do I give my father on Father's Day?
- Question: My son does not want to get with a woman?
- Question: Why does Nick poop?
- Question: How should I tell the local cops that my mom OFTEN verbally abuses me?
- Question: I feel really bad about being spoilt.?
- Question: Just about to give up?
- Question: I wanna split up with my brother's family to have peace of mind now that im going to uni in another city bt i want a clean break up.?
- Question: My father told me i was nothing to him?
- Question: Am I Terrible?
- Question: Usually answered in minutes!?
- Question: Is this because of jealousy?
- Question: Feel neglected hateing family list to these story?
- Question: My cousin touches me .what should I do ?
- Question: I have x2 enough money for this absolutely necessary kit for my turtle, but mom doesn't let me.?
- Question: My parents are divorce?
- Question: My brother and my mom fight constantly?
- Question: In your opinion is 8 children too many? Any other moms out there with a big family, do you like being a mom to a big family?
- Question: Constantly stressed in my boyfriends house?!?
- Question: I'm jealous of people with good mothers?
- Question: How do I go about healing my relationship ship with my mother?
- Question: How to switch parents I live with??
- Question: Me and my mom don't get along?
- Question: My mom is killing me!?
- Question: Is my dad a jerk or just being a dad?
- Question: Is it time for me to move out of my mom's house?
- Question: Choosing to have an only child am I selfish ?
- Question: My parents hid a webcam under my computer desk in my room to see why I was in my room so long. They thought it was drugs. I was jerking off.?
- Question: My 15 year old sister was raped 2 weeks ago, today we discover she is pregnant.?
- Question: I feel like giving up on my dream,I need some advice?
- Question: Was he dreaming or was he conscious?
- Question: Can a 17yr. old gain custody of two children?
- Question: My brother has domestic abuse traits?
- Question: 17 and pregnant what now?
- Question: Am I considered rich?
- Question: Is my mom being to strict?
- Question: My older brother never flushes the toilet when he's done.?
- Question: My mom is never at home?
- Question: I'm the black sheep of my family.?
- Question: What is a good punishment for my 15 year old granddaughter?
- Question: Made a Huge mistake with my mom?
- Question: Why do I get yelled at so much?
- Question: Can I leave home at 15 with my parents permission?
- Question: I feel like a prisoner in my own home. Is what my family does to me normal?
- Question: Insults to make my sister cry?
- Question: My dad is confusing me..?
- Question: If my mom is short but my dad is tall do I at least have a chance at being 5 5 5 6?
- Question: My sister wants to make others believe i'm mad and i'm 89 percent sure i'm not?
- Question: Sons driving me insane with his behavior please help!?
- Question: Why is my sister so bitchy?
- Question: HI I'm looking for some one name Dayveyon Smith his B-day is 1/28 i'm little sister im 15 yrs old he is 3 yrs oldwe then me plz help me?
- Question: Is it normal to want to punch a family member in the face?
- Question: How to get my mom to forgive me?
| Question: How can I act like an adult? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 01:21 PM PDT I'm 18 and I act like I'm still 3 when I don't get my way or when my siblings piss me off. I have mild autism/aspergers. My boyfriend has the same thing as me and he acts more mature than I. Like if you didn't know he had those things, you'd never guess he did. He threatened to leave me if I don't grow up. I only act like this with my mom and my siblings. If my mom.says I can't see my boyfriend after I've had a stressful week I freak out and scream at her telling her I hate her then I stomp off to my room. When my siblings (ages 11 and 9) tell me I'm a child and laugh at me I tell them to shut up. They yell at me and make fun of me and when I tell them to shut up I get yelled at bc I'm 18 and they're young so it's ok for them to tease me but it's not ok for me to stand up for myself. How can I act more like an adult? |
| Question: How to get my mom to pay me my allowance? She says she will but rarely ever does? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 01:12 PM PDT Im 13 I will be 14 in July. For over a year my mom has agreed to pay me $15 a week doing all my chores. (Taking care of the animals, doing dishes, vacuuming, etc.) but MAYBE once every 2 months does she actually pay me. Whenever I ask her (I'm supposed to get it every Friday) she either says "don't ask me that right now" or she will try to tell me that I didn't do my chores and I ALWAYS do my chores unless I'm at a friends house or if I'm REALLY sick! I really want to get a job but I live in a really small town and it's hard to find people that really need help. But it would be really nice if my mom could actually pay me what she told me she would! Whenever I talk to her about it she gets so defensive and it ends up in an argument. What do I do? Also I can't talk to my dad because they got divorced 8 years ago and we haven't talked in about a year. Also I'm sorry it sounds like I'm a mean kid when I explained the situation. I really try hard to be nice and I will politely ask for my allowance but it does get annoying when I always get told to stop asking for it and that u didn't do anything to deserve it. |
| Question: How can I get my brother to stop "playing" with himself in front of people? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 01:09 PM PDT Ok so I can't even believe I'm asking this question but it's really starting to get annoying. I don't think he really even knows what he's doing cause he's in the fifth grade! I don't want to tell my parents because I don't want that awkward talk but I will NOT come all the way home from Florida with him doing that just a couple seats away! He's literally doing it almost every time I see him! It disgusting and I don't know how my parents haven't noticed yet! |
| Question: What is wrong with me? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 01:09 PM PDT yesterday I left my family to go on holiday for the first time by myself. I got onto a plane and then flew to another city where I hired a car and drove 4 hours to stay with my grandfather whome I haven't seen in 2 years! Shortly after arriving I began to feel anxiety, I felt like I couldn't contact my parents, like they were far away and that I was very disoriented and I couldn't think properly. I had an uncomfortable night and felt better after calling them. What is the matter with me? I don't feel like I'm on holiday, I feel isolated from everything I know Thanks |
| Question: How do I deal with an awful person in my life, I just can't avoid ? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 01:02 PM PDT Hello, I'm 17 years old and I'm still in school. I have around 2 and a half years left, but I have a problem that has been tormenting me for around 3 years. Since I don't have any parents I live with my very old aunt and her 47 year old daughter. But her daughter is an awful person. She has made nothing of her life, and only finds ways to worsen mine, even leading to me thinking about commiting suicide. She's not only a thorn in my life, but such in my aunts. My aunt, however, tries to put up with her, seeing how she's her daughter. This person constantly picks on me, telling me I'm worthless and has sent me into depression more than once. I had told her a few years back that I don't have any respect for her, she expects me to worship her, because she agreed for me to live in the same house, but the price I have to pay is too big. I constantly try to avoid her, I've given up on reasoning. I don't look at her, I don't talk to her I just go about as if she didn't exist, but she won't leave me alone. I tried finding help, and I tried to leave, but they won't let me(my only option is an orphanage, I have other family, but I don't rely on them). In a few days I'm probably set to visit a shrink, the last time i sugarcoated my situtation, trying to excuse her behaviour, but this time I'm not keeping anything in. However, I really need some advice, this person is making me wish I'd die. |
| Question: My boyfriends parents make me feel uneasy? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 01:02 PM PDT well about 6 months ago I began living with my boyfriend at his parents house. I've never had a problem with his parents and I've never thought that they didn't like me. well his mom is a cancer patient so we all help out around the house to make up for her resting. she's an awesome woman and I love her to death. but recently things have gotten out of hand. we have a "chore list" which I personally think is a little extreme but I keep my mouth shut and do it! I would never have any problem helping out around the house. I love his family like my own and only want to see his mom get better but sometimes I feel like if I'm not constantly doing something around the house or sleep in past 1030 I'm lazy. today out of no where my boyfriends little 6 year old sister told me their mom hides the cereal so I don't eat it? I am 20 years old and hardly even eat cereal. I've had maybe 3 bowls since living here. and that my boyfriends brother who is my age is saying that I eat all the organic food for his mom which is a lie as well. I can only remember one time I've eaten an apple or banana of hers. I usually spend almost all my paychecks buying food at the gas station every day to avoid eating their food (plus I'm picky). I'm actually really hurt and upset because I already was stressed that they were looking down upon me in the first place if I'm not constantly cleaning. I texted my boyfriend about it who is sleeping due to working midnights. what should I do? should i just ignore it? |
| Question: Should I have my daughter's father's parental rights terminated? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 12:53 PM PDT Long, long story somewhat short: My daughter's father and I were together almost 5 years when we got pregnant. He beat me up and left me one month after we found out. Stayed gone unless he wanted sex. I allowed it because I was hoping we'd patch things up before my daughter was born. By the time I was 7 months, he had met someone else. He took off with her and her son when my child was 7 weeks old. He stayed gone - no phone calls, no visits, no texts, nothing. Until my daughter was 3. He asked to see her 1 time for 1 hour... and I agreed to it. Then he disappeared again after a few weeks of us texting back and forth, mostly about our relationship. My daughter just turned 5 in Feb. Hadn't heard from him since that last visit, 2 years prior. He apparently moved back to our town. Fed me a lot of BS about how he'd changed, he wanted to make things right, be a great dad. I agreed to visits, and during that time I THOUGHT we were getting closer. He made me believed he loved me (by saying so), showing me he wanted to be with us by always texting, calling, being around. Then we had sex... and he slowly started to drift away again. He told me a LOT of lies about how he was breaking up with his GF and he wanted to make this work. All lies. Now it's gotten to the point that all we do is argue. He's more so lost interest in being a "father". When we communicate it's NEVER about our child, even when I try to make it about her. He hasn't expressed an interest in seeing her. IDK what to do. I really thought we had a chance at being a family, despite him abandoning both of us and it hangs so heavy on my heart. I had a LOT of hurt and resentment and anger built up and I was willing to let it go for the sake of my child having her father and being a family. And now that I see he has only been playing games, I am devastated all over again. And OF COURSE everything is MY fault, so he says. I want to cut him off, but he will not sign over his rights. He says I need to "deal with it". |
| Question: How can I talk to my parents about this? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 12:51 PM PDT Ever since I graduated high school, all that seems to revolve around my parent's head is college. They keep asking me if I'm excited and when it comes to questions like that, I like to be completely honest. So I told them that I really wasn't because one, I'm not one to get estatic about things and two, it's four more years of school. The only thing I'm estatic about is being on my own. Today my dad told me that he thinks I'm going to drop out my first semester because he doesn't think I'm taking it seriously which truly did hurt my feelings. He expects me to be preparing myself every day! I told him that I don't want to burn out or lose my sanity when it actually comes time for college. I just feel like they're putting a bit too much pressure on me. I mean some days they don't even say hi, they just go straight into lecture mode "why didn't you do this? Why is this still here?! When you go to college this won't or this will and you'll have to..." You know how that talk goes only I hear it constantly and it's pissing me off. I want my parents to be proud of me.... |
| Question: What do I give my father on Father's Day? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 12:46 PM PDT Ok he works away from home and he's coming this weekend and I want to give him a good ,late, Father's Day gift.I want to give him something customizable that says best dad ever or something but I only got $5 online on my PayPal.Any cheap sites that you know of? I also want to know what to buy him in real life like in a store here's what he likes -he likes outdoors stuff,he likes to play games on his phone,and he likes Starbucks. I have a $10 budget on that.Any ideas on what to get him? |
| Question: My son does not want to get with a woman? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 12:44 PM PDT My son just turned 18 and graduated high school. I awarded him to a nice dinner for graduation. We started talking and he said he doesn't want to get with a woman either by marriage, date or a one night stand. He doesn't want to take the chance of getting a girl pregnant. I never really told him what to do with girls just to use common sense but he did this on his own. He then told me he doesn't need girls because he's got his left hand and a couple of fleshlights (I had to ask him what that was!) and he's set for life. Is this normal? He's going to move into a cheap apartment in a couple of months. |
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| Question: How should I tell the local cops that my mom OFTEN verbally abuses me? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 12:34 PM PDT Ok so first of all, I want to call the local cops because people say it's the best choice. So, my mom, recently, has gone very very insane. She will suddenly scream at me RANDOMLY FOR NO APPARENT reason. Or for some VERY stupid reason she made up. Like for example, the most recent one is just half an hour ago. We were in the car, and suddenly she starts yelling at me, because she thought my face expression looked DEPRESSING. And that is just my normal face. But she gets more and more angry and she just explodes. And then she takes my phone away, lol. This cycle continues. She threatens me too. And this is only one ridiculous example out of all. Usually I will try to explain to her(although it never works) but this time, I'm done. Screw this I'm calling the cops. I need to put an end to this. And she doesn't only scream at me, she starts insulting me in every way she can as she screams. And she will add some other ridiculous reasons to yell at me too. I am so sick and tired of this. The thing is, I don't want the cops to take her away or something, because when she is normal or sane, she is the best mom in the world I swear. I love her, but when she's insane again, NO one on this planet can tolerate it. It's not just screaming but insulting and it's ridiculous. No one should ever go through this. Because she's at the casino now so I can have a chance to call the local cops. But how should I tell them? I have no evidence since she's not home now. What's more RIDICULOUS is that she acts like NOTHING happened 10 minutes after she screams at me. No I'm not going to get screamed at for no reason or some idiotic reason and then live like nothing happened. She used to physically hit me violently, but now it has stopped. But trust me, her random bipolar yelling is WORSE than physically hitting me. It's like an obnoxious psych just ran out of mental hospital. |
| Question: I feel really bad about being spoilt.? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 12:32 PM PDT So recently I started getting into pc building and decided to build one. I paid for some of the parts but my parents paid for the majority of it. I started to think why I needed another computer and realize I didn't. I already had a good laptop, tablet, phone, and pretty much everything I need. So every time I think about I can't help but feel bitterly guilty about being so spoilt by my parents. Is there anyway I can stop feeling so guilty? Is there anyway I could help out or repay them? It's been really bothering me and I don't know what to do. |
| Question: Just about to give up? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 12:30 PM PDT My dad has custody of my niece because DSS took her from my mentally impaired sister. She has been a joy and I love her. However, my dad's fiance treats her terribly. While my dad works, she puts my niece in her room, shuts the door, and barely checks on her until my dad comes home. She hates me and my siblings to the point that she tries to drive us off and makes an issue of everything. If I don't speak to her first, she makes an issue of it and yells at my dad. She goes out of her way to show us that we are not welcome. She has even, on many occasions, had my niece shut off in the room until I come over, but will be playing with her own granddaughter. My dad is scared she will leave and he will have no help with my niece despite the fact that I have offered several times to babysit her for free. She is driving a wedge between my father and I, but I am scared of what will happen with my niece if I don't come around. She has even hit my father over being mad at me and called the police because she knows he is scared to lose my niece. Should I give up or how can I help? |
| Posted: 25 Jun 2015 12:21 PM PDT im18girl my sister inlaw is so jelous& picks up fight cos my brother likes me too much for her liking.Last night my nephew said shut up to my dad &he's a little boy who doesnt understand it but anyway respect is very important to me so to insist that its a major problem i said he needs a slap to not forget to respect & i immidietly regreted it(i must mention she usually hits and insults the kid when he doesnt listen to her)bt she exploded &said he's just 2& angrily left.next day iwanted to clarify that ididn't mean to say that &i wasnt thinking right & wanted to say that he's only copying her attitude towrds him &he's like a parrot so i started talking:"i said that because he was rude &" then she interupted me &started screaming in my face"he's just two"she didnt even let me continue i started to tell her calm down so icould say i didnt mean wat i said b4 bt she again screamed &said"you want me to hit him?here"& she slaped my nephew hard(i only could shelter him from the blow abit)Iwas shocked &said"have u lost ur mind"& again she angrily left and then my brother said its all because of me that his child was beaten and i said all parents r not healthy some moms r sick even b4 becoming one.my brother told me dont interfere with my life.when he was about to leave i told him at least treat ur child right dont hit & insult him and i told him when his son was playing with his dolls said to doll"sit here and dont make a sound"(the way his mom treats him)& told him hes just copying |
| Question: My father told me i was nothing to him? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 12:20 PM PDT He told me too **** off... and never speak to him again... He drinks a lot he has a partner he spends his time with her kids and her and never really talks to any of us... Has anyone had a bad dad... That has life been destroyed by alcohol... He is not the person i used to know he left and have not spoken to him in a week |
| Posted: 25 Jun 2015 12:15 PM PDT me and my cousin were friends when we were young. we always had fun running around and playing. but now We're teens and we're both different. she has a good type of personality and she likes rap music. I have a shy personality and I like anime. we hang out with our friends but not together. Recently my best friend talked to her and she told me my cousin feels like she gets in the way or I never want to hang out with her. I try to hang with her and we sometimes laugh but she turned into a hood girl dating boys. I'm not about that life but I don't want to make my cousin feel some type of way. I love my cousin but now that we're older we've grown apart. Am I Terrible ? |
| Question: Usually answered in minutes!? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 12:14 PM PDT |
| Question: Is this because of jealousy? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 12:14 PM PDT My family members don't encourage me to apply for graduate programs even though the one I want to enter has great opportunities. It makes more than their salaries, or for one of them just as much. the career is less stressful than theirs and I could even work from home. It means more to me to really think over what I want to do (this or something else) rather than jump in so I took a semester off before applying/ I didn't get in and have to reapply (programs are impacted). I have good grades and participated in activities in college. It confuses me - but I know better... I'm getting myself into a decent career. Shouldn't family be happier about this or see opportunity? They encourage me for a lesser paying job (don't understand why). |
| Question: Feel neglected hateing family list to these story? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 12:14 PM PDT Started about age 13 I was loved a long time ago but moving at age 8 to a new place and haveing siblings made it wrost for me being a middle child sucks so much for me and I have no respect my own family says things about me how they don't love me calling me stupid, ugly, nasty, whore so many things trying to make them proud of me but nothing at all they say I won't make it in life that my choices where stupid and laughed at me I would defend myself from these harsh words they say to make me and I would lock myself in my room not eat at all while I listen to them haveing fun and laughing I would just be in a dark room listening to my music they called evil and demonic when it was just punk rock and mental they look at me like i was the bad guy who know one would ever love those feelings in my chest I couldn't let go I would scream at them and tell them how awful parents they where they never love me they hate me they told me to kill myself and I wanted to so bad the my music was on full blast and I would cut my rest and take as many pills as I can and waited to die slowly but it never happend it drove me crazy I'm just waiting for the day where I can just say no and leave start a life for myself one day start a family and never have to see them again but thinking about it in my head over and over won't help my pain I have a dream and I'm waiting to see if I can make it for one more year of I can reach I'm just a stray and always will be just want into change |
| Question: My cousin touches me .what should I do ? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 12:09 PM PDT Ok I'm 15 and my cousin is who is 14 is a male ..he is much taller than me and strong. But anyway he keeps touching me for no reason like . He asked if me and him and some more of my cousins wanted to race so I did and every time we started he slapped my butt .we raced about 4 times .And then afterwards he keep telling me i was cute and if he can do it to me ..I laughed thinking he was playin and he said he was serious ..so I kinda walked away . And sat on the porch then he came and sat beside me and asked if I had a bf then I said no then he grabbed my boobs over and over again but I didn't say stop idk y though. Then later I was in the house sitting on the couch and he came beside me and started to feel my butt and boobs i kinda liked it but I knew it was wrong so I slapped him and he keep doing it till I left. What can I do to stop this? |
| Posted: 25 Jun 2015 12:00 PM PDT There is this thing for my turtles that I need to get (I can afford) that cost 50$ and I have 116, I can afford it but mom doesn't let me, plus my mom took away the 100 dollars that I got from my dad, just to buy some shoe or something for herself (divorced parents). It sounds like I super sugar coated it but I didnt. Btw I'm twelve and I know that all my money belongs to her until I'm 18, but like seriously |
| Question: My parents are divorce? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 11:54 AM PDT I wnt to go to Canada to visit my friends that I met there along time ago with my youth group , but I heard I need my parents permission cause since im only 17 , but the problem is they are divorce and the have joint custody , and I live with my mom do I need both parents or just my moms since I live with her ? |
| Question: My brother and my mom fight constantly? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 11:48 AM PDT ok so here's some background: my parents are divorced and my brother and I both love with our mom. we stay with our dad (who lives in the same town as us) every other weekend. my brother is 16 and I'm 14. so my brother and my mom and incompatible. we can't go a single day without them fighting and I'm sick of it. they can't even has a conversation without turning it into an argument. my brother tells my mom she treats him like ****, even though she yells at him only because he won't do what she says. for example: he is laying on the couch and my mom tells him to clean his room. he keeps saying I'll do it later and that spirals into a huge fight. he doesn't respect her at all and he has even said that to her face. I, on the other hand get along pretty well with my mom because I actually obey her. my brother tells my family that he wants to go live with our dad. but the thing is I like living with my mom. and my dad doesn't want to take only one of us he wants both of us. so if we move in with our dad, my mom won't get child support, so she won't be able to afford to live in our town anymore because she only works a part time job. so if we move in with our dad (which I don't want to do) our relationship with our mother would be destroyed. I don't know what to do. our family has suggested councilor for them but my brother refuses. when they're fighting I always try to point my brother in the right direction to try to avoid further conflict but that never works. please help! |
| Posted: 25 Jun 2015 11:46 AM PDT I'm 31 and love being a mom! I have been married for 10 years now! We have 8 kids! 9,8,6,4,3,3,1 and a 2 month old! I am a military wife. I ask this questions because once I went to the store with all my kids whiel I was 6/7 months pregnant and a lady asked "are those all yours?" Wait those? And I said yes she said "wow and you're having another?? Crazy" I laughed and walked away I mean I understand I have a lot of kids but why even ask me like that or why ask at all And last week I took all my kids to the mall for summer clothes and a lot of people starred one even asked me if I was on welfare I wanted to slap her! But I wouldn't do that in front of My kids Anyway I'm not on welfare! Me and my husband have enough money for all of our kids! No they don't all have their own rooms they all share 2/3 kids to a room but it doesn't matter they are loved and very well taken care of! I just wonder if there are any other moms out there with big families who get looks and get talked about because I don't know how many more times of that I can take before I flip out! Just in your opinion is 8 kids too many? Any other moms or dads with big families? |
| Question: Constantly stressed in my boyfriends house?!? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 11:46 AM PDT well about 6 months ago I began living with my boyfriend at his parents house. I've never had a problem with his parents and I've never thought that they didn't like me. well his mom is a cancer patient so we all help out around the house to make up for her resting. she's an awesome woman and I love her to death. but recently things have gotten out of hand. we have a "chore list" which I personally think is a little extreme but I keep my mouth shut and do it! I would never have any problem helping out around the house. I love his family like my own and only want to see his mom get better but sometimes I feel like if I'm not constantly doing something around the house or sleep in past 1030 I'm lazy. today out of no where my boyfriends little 6 year old sister told me their mom hides the cereal so I don't eat it? I am 20 years old and hardly even eat cereal. I've had maybe 3 bowls since living here. and that my boyfriends brother who is my age is saying that I eat all the organic food for his mom which is a lie as well. I can only remember one time I've eaten an apple or banana of hers. I usually spend almost all my paychecks buying food at the gas station every day to avoid eating their food (plus I'm picky). I'm actually really hurt and upset because I already was stressed that they were looking down upon me in the first place if I'm not constantly cleaning. I texted my boyfriend about it who is sleeping due to working midnights. what should I do? should i just ignore it? |
| Question: I'm jealous of people with good mothers? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 11:32 AM PDT My mother is an awful person, to say the least. When I see people with good mother's that love them, it upsets me. It's like I feel as if it's not fair that they have a good mom and I don't. I know it's not right to be jealous but I can't help it. |
| Question: How do I go about healing my relationship ship with my mother? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 11:27 AM PDT My mother left when I was very young. No one knew where she was or if she was even alive. Now that I'm an adult she has come back into contact with the family including me. I'm still feeling uneasy about the entire situation and I don't know if I should set aside the hurt I still feel to give her the chance to make it up to me. Should I try to make a friendship connection with her, should I completely cut her off saying you had your chance and you chose to leave, or should I treat her like I would have if she had stayed? |
| Question: How to switch parents I live with?? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 11:21 AM PDT I m 14 and live in Washington state with my dad. My mom lives in Virginia. My dad has literally ruined my life, all we do is argue. My parent divorced when I was 7. I ve wanted to live with my mom since I was ten but the first time I asked if I could live with my mom was when I was nine. My dad and I lived in Virginia until I was 12 so I saw my mom every other weekend and was okay with it. Now I only see her three weeks per summer when I m suppose to see her half of winter break and half of summer vacation. Am I old enough to switch parents I want to live with? How do I do that? Both parents know I wanna live with my mom. Do we have to go to court for this? what if my dad still doesn t want me living with my mom? |
| Question: Me and my mom don't get along? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 11:13 AM PDT I'm a 16 year old girl who lives at home, not that I would if I had a choice and not that I will the day after I turn 18.Me and my parents specially my mom don't ever get along. she has her own rules that she stands by and has stood by all her life and I do nothing but respect the ones that include house keeping because we do share an apartment after all.What I can't accept or understand no matter how much effort I put in is the need she feels to interfear with my personal life,disrespect my privacy by knocking on my door and walking in to my one and only personal space aka my bedroom and shoving her old fashioned weird boaring opinions down my throat. And I have never given her a single reason to not trust me. I in fact have never been grounded. We don't have the typicall mother daughter fights because I am way too mature for that sh*t to be honest. The problem is that my mom gets hurt by the fact that I simply don't want or need her help at all.I can take care of myself, I can cook, I can clean, I can do my homework. And she just won't leave me the hell alone. And she gets super irritated when I talk about moving out for college which I plan on doing no matter what she thinks. She makes comments that seem like an attempt to hurt my feelings just like me not needing help hurts ger feelings ( Weird, I know) and though her comments never really get under my skin due to the fact that I am fully secure and know who I am they really annoy me. Any tips on how I can deal with this |
| Question: My mom is killing me!? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 11:00 AM PDT She makes me do everything at home. And I'm not a spoiled girl that has to do dishes once a week, I do dishes 3 times a day. I clean the whole apartment, I do the laundry and I cook every day. My mom only goes on dates with her boyfriend and she never does anything to help me. My brother had the same before he moved out and he won't talk to my mom. He is like my dad. He helps me with homework and everything. My mom said to me that if she and her boyfriend is getting married she will put me up for adoption. I told my brother and he actually yelled at her in phone and he said he won't let her do that. My mom doesn't work with anything, her boyfriend gives her money. My brother promised me that he would take care of me as my dad would have done. My dad died in a plane crash. I am 12 years old sorry if the text is bad writen but I am on a phone |
| Question: Is my dad a jerk or just being a dad? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 11:00 AM PDT I'm 19.me and my dad have bad problems.he also fights with my 3 younger brothers (but that's another story) my dad constantly yells and bikers about the littlest things.my dad is on health care, doesn't have a job cause he has bad diabetes and only one kidney . he's gotten angrier since then.he is bully, he is always mad.he never seems to stay just happy .I know he is ashamed of me, I'm no sports kid, I'm an aspiring filmmaker and he thinks that's a joke.he doesn't understand my love for films/filmmalers.i think he thinks it's for wussies, cause he pays a lot of attention to my three Bros who all play basketball/football.i don't know if I can do it with him anymore.i can't just move out either, it's not financial that easy for me right now.am I the only one who feels like they just can't be around their own father? I sometimes truly hate, want to kill him, but I calm down cause he's not worth me going to prison or a life of guilt.im not being dramatic, me and my dad are toxic.am I alone on this one? Do u guys suffer too with your father or mother? |
| Question: Is it time for me to move out of my mom's house? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 10:47 AM PDT I'm a 22 year old girl, I'll be 23 in November. My twin sister moved out in January because of complications with my mom. My older sister is about to move to China in August so it will just be me and my mom living at home. There has been tension between us since December because I went to a bonfire even though she didn't want me to go. (I don't know why. I don't go out much). Also, my sister moving out really hurt her and she went through depression. I pay her $200 a month and pay all my own bills and I still have rules to follow and my curfew is 11:00 PM with the exception of some nights that I go out, which only happens about once a month. I would move in with with my boyfriend and my twin sister and a friend and I think I would be paying about as much as I am now but I would have my freedom. I feel like I'm never gonna be good enough for her and she doesn't like my boyfriend because he's half black. I think my happiness is all that should matter to her but apparently not. She has said that if we all move out, she would move back to Colombia, South America and I know I would miss her, but I'm tired of her being so strict and not letting me do what I want. I'm responsible and I make good choices. So should I move out? |
| Question: Choosing to have an only child am I selfish ? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 10:46 AM PDT I m a 26 year old mom with an 8 year old child. I have an only child by choice. I love my DD so much but I don t want to have anymore children I hate the pressure I get from family and friends and to be honest I love the way my life is and don t want it to change .. Is it wrong to feel like this. Am I wrong for just have one .... Am I selfish |
| Posted: 25 Jun 2015 10:46 AM PDT My mom challenged me just now because she said "If you're doing drugs in there then we will know because we have a webcam under your stand." She hasn't watched it but I found the cam and it was aimed at my junk. Do I run away? I am so embarrassed I could die. |
| Question: My 15 year old sister was raped 2 weeks ago, today we discover she is pregnant.? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 10:40 AM PDT She wants to keep the baby to adopt to parents who cant have their own children, but my parents are being pushy for her to have an abortion. I think this is her decision and its a lovely idea, but my parents just wont drop it. Is there anything that I can say to get them off her back? The rape really affected my sister, but since finding out that she has a baby inside of her, she seems really different, as if she is trying to be strong for the baby to avoid putting stress on it. Of course, if she has the baby and falls in love with it, she'll have to choose whether to keep it and change her life forever (She wants to go to uni) or give it up for adoption still and be heartbroken. I really dont know what to do in this situation. She is such a lovely young woman, she really didn't deserve any of this. Advice? Thanks. |
| Question: I feel like giving up on my dream,I need some advice? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 10:39 AM PDT I'm 19.an aspiring filmmaker.i'm not going to film school of college.I'm self taught (many self taught filmmakers like quentin tarantino,paul thomas anderson,robert rodruigez have made it by being self taught) i have 1,200 worth of film quipment and friends who are ready to help me make my independent films/shorts.I know i'm young,but i can't take it anymore.I live with my parents and three younger brothers.i just lost my job last week,so im broke.my parents want me to get another job (which is reasonable) but they clearly want me to forget about my dream of being a filmmaker and it bothers me so much.I've heard other filmmakers talk about their rough experiences,but sometimes to actually go through crap that make you feel alone and worthless make you wanna give up.I on't wanna give up,cause i know im very young and just starting in this world,but my dad is ashamed of me and thinks i won't make it in this world,that puts a lot of mental depression on me.my mom is clearly slowly giving up on me,which makes me cry every now and then.my brothers are very athletic who are into basketball,who my parents pay attention to.they think of me as the son who runs around with a camera with his friends.they don't understand me,which puts so much stress on me and makes me wanna give up.I've been listening to THE MOVIE CRYPT podcast with adam green and joe lynch.they are amazing filmmakers with horrible stories that make me feel not so alone.has anyone gone through horrible self doubt? |
| Question: Was he dreaming or was he conscious? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 10:36 AM PDT I slept on the floor of my dads room today but when it was time for his girlfriend to go to work, I went to join him in bed cause It's more comfortable. I'm 18. It was probably wrong because I'm an adult now sleeping in the same bed with my dad but I trusted him. I woke up like 20 minutes ago to a feeling of a warm hand in my private. I was half asleep and when I looked it was my dad. Except he wasn't touching me anymore..he just had his hand down their as if he just pulled away and he got caught. He then tried to hug me or idk. But my first reaction was to slap his hand away and tell him "wtf are you doing?" He ignored my question and kind of opened his eyes as he had just awoken by that slap and went back to sleep really quick. I'm now typing this in my living room trying to understand what just happened. Was he conscious or was he like sleep moving? I don't want to have this image of my dad, I'm crying. |
| Question: Can a 17yr. old gain custody of two children? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 10:33 AM PDT My friend and her two siblings were taken away by the state and adopted by their grandparents. And now one of her younger siblings might actually be being molested by their grandfather. My friend is nearly 17 years old and I was wondering if she could gain custody of both her siblings and win? |
| Question: My brother has domestic abuse traits? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 10:28 AM PDT It doesn't happen regularly but when it does, my mother is usually the target. He'll get mad at her because he can't have his own way; he'll then kick her in the shins, hit her in the back, shove her and call her all sorts of names. My mum doesn't seem to have an issue with it but it's worrying me because if he keeps this up, i dread to think what he'll be like with future partners. I can't get involved in this because my mum thinks I'm a d i c k for weighing in even though i'm sticking up for her. What can I do about this? He's a 15 year old kid who should know better and i want to stop this becoming a long-term issue for him. |
| Question: 17 and pregnant what now? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 10:14 AM PDT im 17 just found out im pregnant my mom is so upset and my grandparents aunts and uncles will not talk to me.. my boyfriend doesnt work i dont work i failed 12th grade this year because i just never would go... we dont have a car no license nothing im just sad and confused i want to keep my baby, im not giving it up for the world. I dont know what to do. i do not want to work i dont want to get a ged i just want to have this baby.. But everyones mad at me does anyone have any advice? thank you |
| Question: Am I considered rich? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 10:09 AM PDT I'm not trying to brag or whatever. I'm honestly just curious. So my house is about 3,500 square feet and my family has two cars, a BMW and Acura RDX. I'm not spoiled, but normally my mom does most of the housework and I don't do chores. I don't get allowance but whenever we go shopping for clothes, which is once or twice a month, my parents just get it for me if I really like it and if it's under $40 most of the time. I have a younger brother. Like, I'm not asking if I'm personally rich or something, just whether I am "privileged" I guess. Idk how to explain it I guess |
| Question: Is my mom being to strict? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 10:07 AM PDT I just finished 1st grade of highschool with a B, and have a D in chemistry which is basically a subject I really don't know how to learn, I've tried and studied really hard, but im the end it always ends bad. So now the summer started and my mom, who is really strict is mad about me passing my grade with a B and having a D in chem. so as a punishment OVER SUMMER im not allowed to go to any party. Somehow I got over it but then my friends decided they will be going to the HOLI festival which is a colour festival where everyone get those bags of paint and what not. I've never been to such festival and I really want to go and when I asked my mum about it she said "Not happening". It is a festival, Im not going to get drunk or whatever and btw its in my town and all of my friends are going. This school year is over and it doesn't mean I haven't studied hard and don't have right to be happy. I know my grades are not great but jesus I passed with a B, i did not fail a fricking class. Is my mum being to strict or am I being a drama queen? I really want to go and it lasts for one day. :( |
| Question: My older brother never flushes the toilet when he's done.? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 10:04 AM PDT Every time I go into the bathroom, I have to look at his waste. He doesn't put the seat down or even washes his hands. He just leaves it. It is very annoying, disgusting and unsanitary. I asked him why he never flushes, and he just said that he "doesn't need to". Is there anything I can do? This grosses me out. With him being older than me, you'd think he'd be more mature. And yet, he does this on purpose. |
| Question: My mom is never at home? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 10:03 AM PDT my mom is always working. She doesn't even have to, all her employees are trained enough to take care of things. She's just always there. I swear she works at a bakery but she leaves for work at 3am and doesn't come back till 10pm! I'm so alone. I'm 12 and I'm home alone all the time! I fix all meals for myself. I do everything for myself. My mom will lie and say "oh we can go do that" "sure I'll take you" "we're going to have a girls day" but she never goes through with it she just stays at work. I saw my mom for the first time in two weeks last night and I tried to confront her about never seeing me or being home and she got really offended and screamed at me. When she is home (maybe once a month) she takes me to dinner and doesn't say a single word to me she just texts her boyfriend, I'm not even aloud to know who it is. She doesn't care about me anymore I swear. She says she works to buy us things but I don't want anything I just want my mom back. |
| Question: I'm the black sheep of my family.? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 10:02 AM PDT I'm a 19 year old aspiring filmmaker who's in love with horror films.im currently living with my parents and 3 younger brothers (I'm close with my brothers) I feel like the black sheep because of my parents (who truly are loving parents, but at times make me feel like real piles of ****) my brothers all athletic/basketball players.they love the game and can name every NBA player.im not athletic, never did much sports at all, I always loved movies and writing screenplays.i would hang out in my room and write or watch movies, which my parents think is weird and lazy.every filmmaker I look up to have some kind of story about being sheltered in their room, which makes me feel better.i have friends, I've had girlfriends, but me wanting to be a filmmaker is something my parents don't care for.example- at dinner when my brothers brought up their basketball practice or an NBA player they would all talk for ever! If I bring up a director or movie it would literally last a few seconds cause my parents can clearly care less.im not into sports, which they tried to push heavily on me.i started a movie club in freshman year and my mom was proud when I told her, but she never ever asked about it again.my brother tells her about a game or practice, she's all over it.i feel like parents don't care about me even though they say they love me, but they treat me so much different. I've cried many times over this.i feel so damn alone.i feel like I'm the kid they regret or are ashamed of. |
| Question: What is a good punishment for my 15 year old granddaughter? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 10:01 AM PDT I've taken my granddaughter into my care. She is 15 years old and she has been contacting older men. I'd like to know what a good punishment would be for her. |
| Question: Made a Huge mistake with my mom? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 09:43 AM PDT I was talking with my parents and I was like I have on parent who is super smart(my dad) and not athletic and one parent who is super athletic(mom) and not as smart... My mom starting crying and was like thats how you see me. I feel super bad! I keep apologizing and she is like its okay but she is still hurt! I need to find a way to make it better! Thank:) My mom was a track star in college and my dad is a doctor so.... |
| Question: Why do I get yelled at so much? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 09:42 AM PDT I know this sounds bad but everyone in my family uses me as a scape goat... A verbal punching bag... I have tried to convince myself it's all in my head and it's nothing but it's gotten to the point where I get yelled at for childish things. My dad has a short temper and can go from sitting on his couch laughing to blasting his rage at me for the basements messy statement which isn't my fault. My mother at times forgets I'm here and is glued to her computer When I ask her what's for dinner or if I should make some dinner she erupts because my presence annoys her. My brother who is 3 has autism and he can't talk normally so all he does is scream and hit me I feel unwanted here because all it's I being told how stupid I am |
| Question: Can I leave home at 15 with my parents permission? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 09:26 AM PDT I'm a 15 year old girl and I live in Louisiana. I just moved in with my dad a few weeks ago because my mom hit me and told me I needed to leave so I called my dad to come get me. My dad, his girlfriend, one of her girls(22), her baby girl, and I live in a two bedroom house. I don't have a room of my own I sleep in the living room, I'm home by myself just about everyday of the week from 7 am to 7 pm. I'm not happy here at all because I never really had the chance to get close to my dad because he worked off shore my hole life. I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and he's dad think it would be best for me to move in with them. I also think that too. Is there anyway I could do that without anyone getting in trouble with the law? |
| Question: I feel like a prisoner in my own home. Is what my family does to me normal? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 09:25 AM PDT I'm a grown 20 year old, female, and I own a car, and make money. So it's not a matter of finances. But I am expected to stay home. I don't really go out, and as a matter of fact I realised I'm being isolated. My family - especially my mom acts weird anytime I do something on my own or change a schedule.. I woke up at 6 am today, which is unusual because I set the alarm to 7.30... She was already awake and when she saw me downstairs she froze and I felt her energy change immediately. She asked me "What are you doing up so early, why, how come, are you going somewhere?" I know it's normal questions, but the tone of her voice communicated "why is she doing things on her own and does something other than what I'm used to her doing".. And this is a constant thing. Few days ago I dressed up a little nicer and my mom started these rapid unconfortable questions again " Why are you dressed like you're about to go somewhere? Why did you put make up on? Why did you straighten your hair?" I decided to visit a friend one day and as I was driving towards the main entrace my mom runned out in her slippers with wet hair and jumped infront of the car and made me go back home, guilt tripping me. Like why do I waste money on a friend, don't I have stuff to do at home and so on... Really weird. But she expects me to drive her to her friends house every week at least twice. I feel like everything I do has to be beneficial and purposeful. |
| Question: Insults to make my sister cry? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 09:06 AM PDT She never shuts her mouth when I do something she doesn't like, which has nothing to do with her. Usually she just talk my weakness, and try to insult me from there. It's not like I'm doing something very bad, but it's just some bad habits that I have for instance. She always tries to annoy me, and trust me she's not that easy to insult. If I try to, she'll just act like she don't give a ****, and only laugh at it. If I try too hard, she'll notice I'm just butthurt myself. I seriously won't let this one slide, I really want to make her cry now. Usually when she's bored or tired she's just being rude as ****, and only tries to insult me. She won't keep her mouth shut when I'm doing something which has nothing to do with her, but say something nasty. Please give me great insults or something I can do to make her cry next time she acts like a moron, by using words. |
| Question: My dad is confusing me..? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 08:40 AM PDT So first he said my cousis could come on vacation with us. And now, he's saying they can't. AFTER we already asked them to come. Even if their mom gives us money, he still said no. What do I do? How do I convince him? I don't even want to go if they can't come. And it would break their hearts to find out that they couldn't come after months of anticipation. Help |
| Question: If my mom is short but my dad is tall do I at least have a chance at being 5 5 5 6? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 08:17 AM PDT My mom is 5 2 and my dad was around 5 10 and I turned fourteen not to long ago But I m still just below 5 0 and I m stressed that I m going to be my moms height (Or worse shorter) everyone else in my family is somewhat tall my moms father is 6 0 her mom is 5 6-5 7 and her other siblings are around those heights too my mom just became short for some reason and I m afraid I m going to be short as well and even my fathers side of the family were around the same as my moms side so I don t understand why I m not growing! if I were to be 5 6 or 5 7 wouldn t I already be close to that height? ugh sorry this was so long and I probably sound very arrogant but I am having a teenage life crisis!!! |
| Question: My sister wants to make others believe i'm mad and i'm 89 percent sure i'm not? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 08:16 AM PDT but it makes me sad and want to hate her..still i don't hate anyone but i'm having a hard time now and the less i need is her doing that.How should i react? |
| Question: Sons driving me insane with his behavior please help!? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 08:15 AM PDT my sons 16. I know teenagers are supposed to make bad choices sometimes. I mean I did. I had him when I was 17. We had a really good family for a while. Until his dad left when he was around 10. I have 2 other kids but they aren't nearly as hard to manage as my 16 year old. I've done so much to help him. I put him in counseling it didn't work. I talked to him about what was bothering him. He got mad at me & stormed out. I tried grounding him. He just left & told me he would never come back if I did that again. I recently found weed & condoms in his room. He said he's gonna do what he wants. My husband his stepdad is close with him & said he told him he feels like he does everything wrong & can't make it right so why try. & sometimes he stays out all night & comes home drunk. It's been like this for a few years. What do I do?! |
| Question: Why is my sister so bitchy? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 08:15 AM PDT My siste is 2yr older than me. She always thinks she can control me and always try to correct even my mom didn't do that. My sister is bigger in size than me but she always likes to insult me such as calling me names like sluts. And she likes to slap me whenever she's having a bad day and I offend her a little bit. One day I was back from school and I was super tired and didn't want to chat with her and she was mad and starting throwing stuffs at me because she say I'm ignoring her. When I was small we shared the same bedroom and she would call me up in the middle of the night when I'm sleeping and if I didn't wake up she would slap me or pull my hair or hit me then punish me to do squats for like 300 times. And I usually can't walk the next day. And she is super judgmental, like she saw me talking to someone, she would start bad mouthing and ask me to stay away from them. And shes really ungrateful like I made ice lollys for her and she told me it tasted like ****. And she basically only talks to my parents when she want something. And the other day when my mom broke a glass plate, she totally just walk away without helping out. My mother doesn't like her too. And whenever we get into a fight, she thinks she's always correct and its someone else's fault. I need to help her prepare her toothbrush every morning and night and also get her clothes ready, or go fetch her water and be her servant or else shell slap me again. What should I do? |
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| Question: How to get my mom to forgive me? Posted: 25 Jun 2015 08:00 AM PDT Ok so this is what happened. I went over to a friends house (I'm still there) and before I left my mom asked me if my room was clean cause I was gonna have someone over the next day. Well I said yes but it really wasn't. It was actually at its worst in a long time. The bed wasn't made, there were cloths and stuff on the floor, and there were even some dishes and stuff. Don't judge pls. And this morning my phone started exploding with messages. She sent me a picture of every dish, piece of clothing, and spec of dust out of place. Ok keeping in mind also that she NEVER goes upstairs so I thought I was safe. But I wasnt. She's so mad at me. She's said I've completely demolished our relationship. I just want her to forgive me. Any suggestions? |
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