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- Question: Why don't I love my mother anymore?
- Question: My mom tells everyone about what I do?
- Question: Help with dad and his wife?
- Question: Things to do inside with tweens?
- Question: I am 17 I turn 18 in September I live with my grandma in o.k. my mom want me to move with her in t.x. will I get in trouple?
- Question: My little brother read my diary and now i'm being bullied?
- Question: Help with my sister?
- Question: Should i wish my cousin for his birthday?
- Question: I hate traveling with my parents?
- Question: My dad always points out negative things about me?
- Question: I don't know where to live!?
- Question: Woman's of states united that opinan im boy mexican?
- Question: Childs bedroom?
- Question: Is it bad that I sometimes make up excuses not to go to family functions?
- Question: I'm 23 years old and my grandma won't let me stay on a college campus?
- Question: I'm 23 years old and my grandma won't let me stay on campus?
- Question: Should I feel guilty about not wanting to come home for Christmas.?
- Question: My mom is cheating on my stepdad! Plz help?!?
- Question: Should I run away or commit suicide?
- Question: Brother is heavily addicted to alcohol.We put him in rehabilitation center for 3 months,after 6 mon he came out situation came to same place?
- Question: Am I a bad person for doing this?
- Question: My Mom is emotionally abusive towards me?
- Question: I got kicked out,my name is dakotah and im almost 17?
- Question: Please someone help us resolve this issue! This argument is always the same and is getting old!?
- Question: I get so angry I cant control myself?
- Question: My mom is emotionally abusing me?
- Question: I m 15 and I think my parents are getting divorce. But I don t want them to get divorce. I still want to have a happy and complete family.?
- Question: Follow me on instagram lol - such.small.handsss?
- Question: Is my dad being unfair?
- Question: Im very scared of the dark?
- Question: I don t think my sister is my father s daughter?
- Question: Am I being replaced?
- Question: Should i wish my cousin for his birthday?
- Question: Why does my sister hate me?
- Question: I feel like I'm being replaced?
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- Question: Hi im 15 years old and i live with my mother.she's on crack and beats me can i choose to take my baby and runaway?
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| Question: Why don't I love my mother anymore? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 01:30 PM PDT I grew up living with just my mother and my sister who was older than me by 2 years. My parents got divorced when I was 8 months old. For all of my childhood I was definitely a momma's boy. I loved her more than anything in the world, but as I grew older (around the age of 16-18) I started to feel as if I was losing a connection. I would argue with her constantly and I became a very mean person to her. I began to feel aggravated anytime she was around me. As time went on it felt as if we had completely lost the mother-son bond. I barely hug her anymore and when I do it just feels awkward. No matter how hard I try I cant seem to reconnect with my mother. Today we got into an argument and it ended with her saying "My biggest regret is that no matter how hard I try to give you love, you won't let me". She's completely right and it is the thing I hate most about myself. Please let me know what the problem might be and if there is anything I can do to change it. |
| Question: My mom tells everyone about what I do? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 01:25 PM PDT Just about every other day I always hear my mom talking on the phone to my uncle, grandmother, or her friend. She tells them what time I woke up, what I ate for breakfast, something she finds in my room while snooping, what I ve done today, and when my next period will be and how heavy it was last time, and everything I ve said today. It s not in a loving "aww isn t she a good daughter" but more of a "God I hate my life and my daughter is a pain in the *** I hate her so much" it really hurts my feelings because I can t live my life without her finding out everything I do, and it sucks even more because she tells everyone what I did! She s never done it to my brother, it s just me. I ve confronted her about t and she denies it every single time. What do I do? |
| Question: Help with dad and his wife? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 01:19 PM PDT They think they know what they are doing and always brag about how intelligent, nice, and mature they are because they are from "Minnesota." They believe that since they come from that state, they know how to parent properly. But my father is abusive and neglectful, and his wife is also abusive. Whenever I try to talk to them about what they are doing to me they say that they are from Minnesota, which means there is no possible way that they could be doing this. They say it's not them, I just have "behavioral problems" and "eating disorders" I don't have either of these. I've gone to counseling and it worked temporarily and then they went back to their usual self. Both counsellors I've gone to told me that their environment is unhealthy but I still have to go because my parents have shared custody. I talk to my mom all the time about this but there isn't anything we can do, we've tried everything, the conclusion was we should move away from my dad and his wife. How exactly can I try to get a better relationship? This is only happening to me and my sister, they are very nice to my brother. |
| Question: Things to do inside with tweens? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 01:07 PM PDT Im watching my boyfriend's brother and sister agter a hard time and we need something fun to do inside on a rainy day |
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| Question: My little brother read my diary and now i'm being bullied? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 12:59 PM PDT I write stuff in there that i cant even tell my best friend... like my secrets, my crushes, and things that I've done. i gotmad and stormed up to my room, and then i heard him TELLING MY PARENTS what was in my diary. they started laughing and then my brother told my older sister, who is a really big gossiper. She told all of her friends, who told all of their friends. when i went to school on monday everyone was laughing, pointing, or whispering behind cupped ears. then i saw my crush, and he gave me this weird look and walked away. i think he heard about it too. even my friends are making fun of me for it, and only one of my friends is sticking up for me, but that doesn't seem to stop them from bullying me. I got pushed down by one of the mean girls a few days ago, and i have a bruise on my forehead from being slammed into the lockers. i tried telling my parents to at least give my brother a time out but they said he didnt do anything and that the teasing would die down soon. I tried talking to my sister and she said that she HELPED me because now everyone in the school knows my name. SERIOUSLY??? HELP ME!! :( what should i do? |
| Question: Help with my sister? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 12:57 PM PDT My older sister will be 23 years old. For the past 5 years or so, she has gone down a very bad path in life (drugs, bad boyfriend, poor grades, lying, etc). She has a very poor relationship with both of our parents, especially my father. The only person that she is really close with in this world is our grandma. Our relationship has been very bumpy. We go through periods of being very close, but there are times where she treats me horribly. I am going to be 18 years old soon, and I am at the point in my life where I want to cut her off. I truthfully think that she has some sort of mental illness, but she refuses to get help and my parents have begged her but she won't. I have tried talking to her about how I feel, but we will only get along for a few days or so, and then she'll blow up on me. My sister goes to college in another state so I don't have to see her much, but I do not want her in my life anymore. She is violent with me, she cusses me out, she has threatened me, and she always screams that she hates me when I do not give into her desires (such as letting her borrow something of mine). She freaks out on me over the littlest things, and I'm tired of how she treats me. She won't change her ways, we've tried for years. I am so worried that she is going to hurt herself because she is so unstable, but I can't have her in my life anymore because I am beginning to become depressed in my own life and she triggers a lot of my negative thoughts. Any advice would be great |
| Question: Should i wish my cousin for his birthday? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 12:38 PM PDT a cousin of mine wished me for my bday in our family whatsapp group then two other cousins wished.. should i wish the cousin for his birthday |
| Question: I hate traveling with my parents? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 12:35 PM PDT I'm an only child and I've hated it since I was about 11. I'm 18 now and were going to go to Europe for the first time ever and I'd love to go but I'm really worried I'm not going to get to enjoy it because I'm with them. They are planning freaks and we always have to be doing SOMETHING together (they literally plan our trips down to the hour!!!) and they freak out if 1 little thing goes wrong and vacation ends up being more stressful than staying home! Also I'm the type of person that needs alone time or else I'll go crazy. But all of our hotel rooms are going to make it so I'm around them constantly, I won't get my own room :(. I don't know how I'm going to last 2 weeks with them around CONSTANTLY it will be the longest vacation we've ever taken and I feel like I won't even get to be myself and enjoy it because I'm stuck with them :/ |
| Question: My dad always points out negative things about me? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 12:31 PM PDT So he always comments about my stretch marks, my stomach, my hair, my makeup and to top that off he said that I have a big back (not my butt). I'm not exactly sure what he meant about that but it hurt. I don't think he understands how little things can upset people like that. I'm not being big headed or anything but I wouldn't say I'm fat. I'm 14 , 5'3 and I weigh 8 1/2 stone. What should I do I feel sad and need some cheering up. Xxx thank you xxx |
| Question: I don't know where to live!? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 12:29 PM PDT We are moving to Wisconsin in a month's time. My dad got a job at a small town named Stevens Point. We are a Korean family but apparently, Stevens point doesn't have Korean churches or other Korean families. This isn't bad for my sister or me but for my mom who can't speak English well, it is. I don't want her living lonely. On the other side, one hour away from Stevens Point is Madison which has all of the things that my mom needs to be social. My dad would, however, need to stay at Stevens Point and only visit us during the weekends. What should we do?! |
| Question: Woman's of states united that opinan im boy mexican? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 12:25 PM PDT Hello I am a 20 year old and was born five months with broncopulminar dysplasia, and I bronquiectacias, I liked football and was good at playing even win a championship and I'm still practicing it wanted to be a footballer I am quiet, serious and somewhat lonely, I do not show my feelings or give hugs or kisses, I have almost no friends, and the little that I see do not speak, let alone bride, I am always alone in my room studying, and also analyze people well and see their actions, I do not know people and most girls, I do not go to parties I've never left fact, and sometimes I usually answer with yes, no, ok, uh, bn and I'm good at math to the extent that congratulated me I was the best in integral calculus. It baldor algebra differential and integral calculus, some differential equations, geometry and trigonometry, and linear algebra Russian, Egyptian, Mayan, indu, Japanese ,, to multiply method, also is integral of binary arithmetic and antics, operations are done with English plus English is talking, some physics and chemistry, and also some French and German (very little) in high school I left the escort, but I did not like, and study computer in high school, also study a course in electronics Badica ( It is difficult to me) and I think study ing in mechatronics specialize in robotics, and to travel to various countries in Europe and Asia, I like listening to music in English, metal rock, heavy, disco, German rock, some salsa and also instrumental cumbia, they think of me ?? what my personality? |
| Posted: 28 Jun 2015 12:25 PM PDT There is this Mom who is know is redoing her kids bedroom. The Dad passed away in 2011 I bealive. She has 3 kids. She is redoing their rooms. Either way they go every kid will still have a bedroom. Me and the Mom got to talking and she said "A monster took my baby girl away. A monster kidnapped my baby girl. A monster took my baby girl and their was nothing I could do." Her daughter Khloe was 15 years old when she was kidnapped.5 years ago now. She had a son who passed away at the age of 19 around 8 years ago. Do you think she should make a bedroom for her daughter in hope that one day she is found and returned home... |
| Question: Is it bad that I sometimes make up excuses not to go to family functions? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 12:20 PM PDT I've tried in the past to tell people in my family (mostly my mom) that I'm not going to a family get together because I work a lot and we have too many family get togethers; they tend to take a whole day from me and that's half of my weekend. My family (especially my mom) just won't have it. They put so much pressure on me to attend and if I say no I'm not going they freak out, my mom started crying once cause I said that I hate Thanksgiving and am going to stop attending. Anyways, now i just make up an excuse not to go and they seem to be okay with that. I would prefer it though if they could just understand that I would rather visit them on my own terms, when I have the free time. |
| Question: I'm 23 years old and my grandma won't let me stay on a college campus? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 12:18 PM PDT I have social anxiety and what's simple to many people is hard for people like me. Examples are driving and socializing with people daily. That's a struggle for me. I've been bullied in the past and i've had to leave school and became home schooled in high school. I have made up my mind about staying on campus my second year at a community college but my grandma doesn't think i'm ready, but i know i am. I really want to stay on campus but she is holding me back. She has also brainwashed my mom and others in my family to not do anything to help me prepare for college. I don't have a car and i have absolutely no power because i rely on others so much. I don't know what to do. I cannot stay with my grandma forever and it is so depressing being in the house all day doing nothing. I feel like i'm stuck and she's ruining my life being so overprotective. Please help. What should i do? I feel like i want to die. I'm a woman if it matters. |
| Question: I'm 23 years old and my grandma won't let me stay on campus? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 12:12 PM PDT I have social anxiety and what's simple to many people is hard for people like me. Examples are driving and socializing with people daily. That's a struggle for me. I've been bullied in the past and i've had to leave school and became home schooled in high school. I have made up my mind about staying on campus my second year at a community college but my grandma doesn't think i'm ready, but i know i am. I really want to stay on campus but she is holding me back. I don't have a car and i have absolutely no power because i rely on others so much. I don't know what to do. I cannot stay with my grandma forever and it is so depressing being in the house all day doing nothing. I feel like i'm stuck and she's ruining my life being so overprotective. Please help. What should i do? I feel like i want to die. I'm a female. My grandma has also brainwashed my mom and others to not do anything for me that has to do with college. I have no one and no support. |
| Question: Should I feel guilty about not wanting to come home for Christmas.? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 12:06 PM PDT For the second year in a row I do not want to go back to NY from Texas for christmas to visit family. Last christmas we took our kids on a cruise and it was one of the best christmas's ever. A little bit about us. My wife and I have a blended family. 2 live with us in Austin and the other 3 live in NY (2 with my ex in Albany and 1 with her ex in Potsdam). Her family is in Syracuse and Potsdam and mine is in Albany. Visiting during Christmas is miserable for us. My family is on a huge dysfunctional level, my sister is a borderline drug addict with an alternate reality problem and my brother is a "Holier than though" social worker who harbors a huge resentment towards me because I live far away from my kids and family (and yes I tried to get a job in Albany but after 50 applications with only 1 interview and no job offers, I had to go where I could afford to pay the enormous child support that was ordered and have a career). She has an ok relationship with one of her sisters (who doesnt want to visit with family at christmas either) and the other one they last 10 minutes together and thats it. I just cant see putting out 3000 dollars for tickets/rental car and driving around NY for five days to be miserable when we could spend 4500 to fly "our" kids down to Texas from ny and take them on a cruise for Christmas and have our own family christmas celebrations vs pleasing external family. |
| Question: My mom is cheating on my stepdad! Plz help?!? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 12:01 PM PDT Hello I have found out today that my mom has been chatting with a man through an app.I really don't want her To break up with my stepdad I like him a lot and he has been very good to me and my siblings.What do I do? How do I confront her? |
| Question: Should I run away or commit suicide? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 11:46 AM PDT My parents treat me unfairly. They dont give a **** about me. They favor my younger brother and treat me like a slave. They abuse me sometimes and claim it "punishment". My parents claim I talk back, which is probably true, but half the time they have the story wrong or make something up to get me into trouble and to hurt me. I've won several big scholarships including one for 4 free years at a highschool yet they still treat me like ****. Only one other of my friends knows about my life. My brothers rarely get hit. Help. If you do know who I am, please dont post any of my information in your answer or spread rumors about me through my town. Im sure n one knows who I am anyway. Mishal ( and everyone else) I appreciate what you are doing, but let me correct something. The thing about them abusing me, my mom hits me for punishment, i will admit that, but my DAD on the other hand. He straight up abuses me. for example, when he wants me to wake up and I fall back to sleep, hell breaks loose. He full out beats me up. Oh yeah, and the other thing Mishal said about parents often scold the smarter kid more so that the kid gets better and better. Better at studies and school, right? Well I am sick of their abuse and if that is to help me with studies, they better find a different tactic. They stopped scolding me a while ago. Now it is just slaps, hits, punches, pinches, kicks, pushes, threats,etc. |
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| Question: Am I a bad person for doing this? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 11:43 AM PDT My step grandpa is a very homophobic man, I refuse to see him everytime he comes to my house (I m 14) but my dad always forces me to go to him and communicate with him while he calls me "girly boy" and my family doesn t do anything about it? I m so ******* pissed at my life I just want him to die already. My grandpa is like 76 or something, the reason I don't wanna say anything is because my dad would probably beat me or something, I don't wanna ruin anything |
| Question: My Mom is emotionally abusive towards me? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 11:32 AM PDT When my mom was young her mother left her and her dad remarried, but passed away later that year. Her step mom was abusive physically and mentally towards her. Now, I don't know what's wrong with her. She divorced my dad when I was 7, I still see him once every other week though. She married my stepdad and I love our family. I'm best friends with my cousin ( who lives in a different state) and i'm very close to my grandparents. My mom has had a few fights with my grandparents and she still holds a grudge. She keeps telling me that everyone hates her and is always after her. My stepdad has a drinking problem and my mom gets so stressed out with it. She has told me many times she's going to leave us, she tells me I'm cruel and cold hearted. Every time I try to help her and tell her what I think is right she ignores me and gets even more upset and says I'm backing up my grandparents. I'm stuck in the house all of the time sense it's summer and I'm basically cleaning and going to bed. I've had enough and I can't take it anymore. This morning I asked my mom if I could go to a different school, which means I would be living with my grandparents from mon-thur. I keep feeling like i'm making the wrong decision sense it's so drastic and I'm worried about my siblings and their future, they don't get good grades. I don't know what to do, I'm so worried about many things and I feel like i'm being put in the middle of everything. What do I do? Please help. *I'm 15 btw. |
| Question: I got kicked out,my name is dakotah and im almost 17? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 11:31 AM PDT I came home from work the other night,started to do my chores and my mom insulted my friend so i backed him up,she called him a thug which he clearly is not,and then as I start the dishes,she starts hitting me,trying to "pop me in the mouth" as she said to my grandpa,so I ducked the last one and pushed her arm away from me to witch she also told him I "twisted her arm behind her back",so I left,I've been staying at a friends house and I told her and the rest of my family,sven my grandpa,that I refuse to go back,not with the way I get treated,waking up everyday to hear "why can't you be like your sister" or "why can't you do this right" and it just breaks me down more and more everyday,I've had enough,someone,please,help |
| Posted: 28 Jun 2015 11:24 AM PDT My husband, got mad the other day because I came home from work around 1 pm. He yelled at me telling me that he had to be at work at 1 pm. I said "since when". On the weekends, I work till 1 pm while he watches our son, when I get home, then he goes to work. His hours, on the weekends, have always been 130 to closing. His commute is 15 minutes. Well he said that from now on, he has to be at work at 1pm. I called his work and his boss said that he is not schedule to come in till 130. We've been having the same argument about his co-worker, Joe. Joe is young, with no vehicle and depends on husband to get him to and from work, every single weekend. I told him he needs to stop playing taxi. Joe lives 15 minutes out of the way and never pays for gas, claiming he is broke. I should not have to rush home from work just to shuttle Joe to work. Daniel says that he is always late for work and I tell him if he stopped going out of his way to pick up Joe, he would not be late. |
| Question: I get so angry I cant control myself? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 11:11 AM PDT I have depression and anxiety so I don't know if that's part of it, also my dad is hot headed. I just get so pissed of at my family for the smallest thing and I get angry so easily. I hit my brother in the stomach earlier because he wound me up, my dad was taking the piss out of me so I chucked coke on him and all over the wall. Friday, I got so angry I punched a wall real hard. I'm 14 and a girl. Why do I get like this? How can I control it? |
| Question: My mom is emotionally abusing me? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 11:05 AM PDT My step-dad has a drinking problem, and she keeps telling me she's going to leave him. She also said that she's going to leave us. She keeps telling me all of this stuff about their marriage and how unhappy she is and i can't take it anymore. She has had a few fights with my grandparents a long time ago (on my step dads side) and she's held a grudge. Every time I try to tell her what I think is right she always thinks I'm defending them and gets very upset with me. I couldn't take it anymore and I asked if I could go to a new school by my grandparents house which means I would stay with them mon-Thursday and she said yes. I just can't take it anymorei am so tired of being emotionally exhausted. I'm 15 by the way. I need help I just don't know what to do with my life and how to get it back on the right track? |
| Posted: 28 Jun 2015 10:57 AM PDT Please help me, how can I help my parents to get together again? So that they can fall in love with each other again. |
| Question: Follow me on instagram lol - such.small.handsss? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 10:50 AM PDT |
| Question: Is my dad being unfair? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 10:48 AM PDT ok so im in high school. im learning how to drive so i was thinking about getting my car soon. My dad has bought my siblings a car also and he has always said that he would buy me one too. Well my brother doesn't want his car anymore because my dad said he would buy him a more expensive car. So now my dad wants to give me my brother's car! His car isn't ugly, thats not the problem it's just that it doesnt work very well. My brother says it probobally won't last very long and i shouldn't take it. My dad knows this he's just acting like the stupid one. He doesn't want to buy me a car cause it's going to cost more. But i need the car to last me a while cause im gonna go off to college and my dad isn't gong to help with that. I don't expect him to either. He is always saying how he doesn't have any money, but it it's weird how he always has money for my brother? He wants to buy my brother a really nice car, he offered him money if he atleast passes his classes! he offered to pay him a vacation! I get straight A's and i don't get anything! I don't even get a "Oh good gob"! When i ask him for money(only when it's something necessary) he complains and i try to ask for as little as possible. I think he treats me like this because im a girl. My dad thinks men are better and girls are olnly good for cleaning and cooking. I even cook for him and he doesn't even want to buy me a decesnt car! he is always spoiling my brother! Does anyone else think he's being unfair and a bad father! |
| Question: Im very scared of the dark? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 10:45 AM PDT Im 13 teen and i used to sleep with my brothers and sisters in de same bedroom and i felt very save but yesterday my parents told me to sleep in a room apart but its very very difficult for me i keep thinking there is some ghost or demon watching i am a christian and i read the bible and i pray but it keep scaring me plz help me |
| Question: I don t think my sister is my father s daughter? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 10:33 AM PDT I m studying genetics in one of my nursing classes and got some potentially disturbing news. My mother has blood type O- and my father is O+ which is the same as myself. Two parents with O blood can only have children with O blood. My eldest sister is AB-. This is an impossibility. Was my sister switched at birth, did my mother have an affair, does my father know and just always excepted my sister as his own? It doesn t matter either way but I am tempted to confront my mother. Both of my parents and myself have brown curly hair and green eyes. My sister has straight blond hair and blue eyes. Any advice? |
| Question: Am I being replaced? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 10:32 AM PDT My sister is 18 and I'm 13. We are INCREDIBLY close and can talk to and can tell each other about anything. She started dating a boy a few months and there relationship is going really well. But lately I've noticed that she isn't talking to me as much as she used which is obviously expected in this situation. I just feel like she doesn't need me anymore and that she's found someone new to tell everything. I just hope that I am not losing my best friend. Am I being replaced? Btw, I know that she is beginning to start her own life, but I feel like she is pushing me away. |
| Question: Should i wish my cousin for his birthday? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 10:31 AM PDT a cousin of mine wished me for my bday in our family group on whatsapp, then 3 other cousins wished me... should i wish the cousin who wished me for his birthday |
| Question: Why does my sister hate me? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 10:25 AM PDT I just don't understand why.....When we were littlew e were best friends, but now she hates me.Ever since she was about 14 or 15 she just shut me out. She's 18 now and I'm 14. She tells me that she hates me, she calls me ugly, flat chest, skinny *** *****, asshole, you name it. She doesn't ever want to spend time with me anymore and when she does or I do it's awkward because we don't know what to say or do. We're practically strangers to each other now. She's changed so much and I just wish it could go back to the way it was. |
| Question: I feel like I'm being replaced? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 10:23 AM PDT My sister is 18 and I'm 13. We are INCREDIBLY close and can talk to and can tell each other about anything. She started dating a boy a few months and there relationship is going really well. But lately I've noticed that she isn't talking to me as much as she used which is obviously expected in this situation. I just feel like she doesn't need me anymore and that she's found someone new to tell everything. I just hope that I am not losing my best friend. Am I being replaced? Btw, I know that she is beginning to start her own life, but I feel like she is pushing me away. |
| Question: PLEASE ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 10:05 AM PDT Answer the following questions truthfully I'm doing something :): How strict are your parents? What age are you allowed to date? What are the rules with your bf( only group dates, can't come inside your room etc) Are you allowed to hang out with your friends a lot ? Are there certain places you can't hang out with your friends? How often are you allowed to hang out with your friends? Are you parents strict about education? If they are strict in general not just education lol say some rules they that make them strict & how they are strict. If they aren't strict say some rules that make them not strict& explain how they aren't strict. What's your ethnicity? Sorry, I know it's a lot but thank you so much if you answered everything you helped me a lot!!! |
| Question: Things to do in summer for 15 year old? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 10:02 AM PDT I'm 15 and I never know what to do during the summer. I can't do anything with friends because I'm shipped off to my grandparents who live by no kids for the summer. I have a wide budget and my grandparents keep complaining how all I do is sit on my laptop iPad TV ect. I usually draw on my iPad but they get mad at me for doing nothing. I kinda just stay in my room and then they get mad. I would go out side but there is nothing to do around her. I really need advice to get out of my attitude hide in my room phase. Anyone got an idea? |
| Posted: 28 Jun 2015 09:44 AM PDT After countless times trying to explain to this hispanic child's parents that they NEED to monitor him more, I'm asking here. The mom doesn't care what he does or where the child (age 5 or 6) is. In my apartment complex there's buildings all with ground access to the courtyard. This kid walks in people's apartment and looks around without asking. He doesn't steal, just explores. I've given the stranger danger talk, no use. The dad is hardly home, often out 'thugin'. I can hold my ground on most, 6' 245 powerlifter/boxer. The dad basically says piss off. They yelled at me when I left my door open (good neighborhood) on a hot day and the kid pulled my dogs ears too much and got a light bite. Not only was he trespassing, the dog was in the kennel while I was taking a shower. Are tenants not allowed to open their doors due to a curious kid and lousy parents? Am I in the clear from animal control since the kid entered and my dog couldn't evade the situation? Suggestions of what to do to the twerp? I'm very close to calling child services for neglect and abuse (the mom hits the kid). Thanks for any replies. |
| Posted: 28 Jun 2015 09:43 AM PDT I've never dated, or had a boyfriend or been in a relationship. Simply put guys hate me. If guys do want me it's because I'm last option. They got rejected by their "first choices" so they come to me out of desperation. All my life people told me I'm ugly and unattractive. Even my own family said to me growing up, "what man would ever want you"? IN H.S same thing. I'm at an age in my life where I would like to have a boyfriend, but I can't because I'm not enough. I do feel some type of way when I see couples because I know I won't be able to experience a similar kind of relationship. It's been made obvious to me ALOT that there's simply something wrong with me why men overlook me. They will always want the girl next to me, behind me, but never me. I would describe myself as a sweetheart, a little quiet/shy at times, down to earth with varied interest I do pursue. I do try to be as pretty as I can be by dressing differently, doing my hair & makeup etc, but nothing. I'm simply not good enough. I never use to think like this before. I was very positive about it and said, "one day". I've waited years and now I'm a little depressed about it. I've been crying a lot out of loneliness and feel like I don't have much purpose because I'm still the only one in my family and friends without anyone. I don't want to be single. I just don't meet male standards. I've tried online dating like OKC. Nothing. https://instagram.com/p/4cIbeqG1h0/ It's very frustrating as is that I'm unable to attract a guy. They are noticing, asking me about and bringing up things. I simply don't have a choice. I never asked to be single. How to tell them that is the real reason? I want them to leave me about it and understand it. |
| Question: My mom is forcing me to do my homework? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 09:39 AM PDT My mom is currently making me do her essays and homework and I am stressed out. I play soccer for a club team and she's decided if I don't help her she's not going to let me play anymore. I can't stop playing soccer but I really hate the idea of doing her work. I want to help her, but she doesn't listen and she tells me I'm wrong when I'm trying to help. I have my own ap assignments to do but she doesn't listen. I feel like giving up because she has the power to make me stop playing for my team. what should I do? |
| Question: Why am I so unattached to my WHOLE family? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 09:22 AM PDT when I was in elementary my mom and dad got a divorce.. At first my dad came to see me every other weekend and every Wednesday but when he met his now wife that all changed. He stopped coming and they started their own family. Then my mom got a boyfriend and he moved in and he raised me like his own. However their relationship was the worst thing I can remember growing up for he was an alcoholic and cheater. I remember they would fight and bring me into it like who is right. I loved and still love them both the same. then he got a job elsewhere (this is by the time i was in high school) and my mom would leave me on the weekends at a friends to go see him. This never bothered me. My mom has also been so supportive of me and involved.. But also WAYYY too over protective which is what I think pushed me away but I'm not sure. I have a lot of friends with strict parents but they are still close with their family. Well now I'm in college. Me and my mom had a falling out (too long to type) I eventually moved in with my boyfriend because I was living house to house at different friends. and 8months later we talk again and her and my sister are constantly attacking me for not seeing and talking to them. And my mom doesn't agree with my choice of living and she swears she didn't raise me this way but I don't know how she didn't when her be raised me. And It's not that I dont love them.. I do and I know it hurts their feelings but I have no idea why I'm like this?? |
| Posted: 28 Jun 2015 09:19 AM PDT Hi I'm 15 years old and I have a baby, I was wondering what would happen if I take my baby and leave because I'm scared when my mother don't get her crack she will click out on me |
| Question: Am I right to not like my parents? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 09:06 AM PDT Okay they arnt my real parents they're my grandparents, and they keep my from seeing my real parents (there isn't a reason they just don't get along) and when I tried to see them, they grounded me and wouldn't let any of my family talk to me for almost three months. I struggle very hard with manic depression and they just make fun of me for it. I could go on four hours about all the f*** up things they have done, But the problem is, they have a lot of money and they spend a lot on me (I'm far from materialistic) but they use that as justification of verbal abuse and emotional neglect. I know I am privlaged and am very greatful for that but after all they've done I can't help but to hate them... Does that make me ungrateful or am I in the right..???? I'm torn /.\ |
| Question: Am I betraying my child? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 09:04 AM PDT My daughter is 3,5. She gets visitation from her father every other weekend. It happens every time she would scream and hold tight the door and would not want to go. With her father standing outside the door, it is a pretty difficult situation. I try to calm her down and tell her she would come back to Mom very soon but it is always impossible. The scene could last some 20 minutes and in the end I usually have to hand her over with a goodbye kiss and turn away. I could usually hear her heart-broken cry outside the door for minutes until they drive away. It is nerve-breaking and heart breaking. She is 3,5. She does begin to understand. I hope she does not perceive that I betray her or force her aginist her feelings etc. She will remember. I surly hope she will not be traumatized. What could I do to make it a better, smootheir hand over? (I usually inform her on the day of the hand over and again just before the hand over that this is to happen) |
| Posted: 28 Jun 2015 08:56 AM PDT Since a young age my little sister has been manipulative. I did my research and she uses sympathy and guilt to get what she wants. I can recall a time when I caught her doing something she wasn't supposed to do to and put her body weight on me, I gently pulled her off of me and she acted like I pushed her hard. I've gotten more frustrated as I've gotten older and I feel depressed. I don't need this negativity in my life. When she hits me, I hit her back. She tells my parents and they always take her side. Always. Recently she's taken joy in calling me fat when my parents aren't around. I just told her off because she can'even take being called fat without crying. I'm just tired of having to fend for myself. I'm tired of having to take this bull crap because if I retaliate I'm always going to be the bad guy. She's younger so she's always right and I'm wrong. I feel guilty going off on her and I don't know why. I don't understand this. I need some insight on how to deal with this all. What pisses me off the most is that my parents will sit there and act like she's the most caring person in the world. How!? |
| Posted: 28 Jun 2015 08:55 AM PDT My boyfriend has split parents, he is 18, lives in Perth Wa, a dad who lives over seas and a mum who doesn't give 2 sh**'s about him. He lives with my auntie atm cos his grandparents are on holidays till next year and the rest of his family live in other places around the world. He needs money but he hasn't got much luck finding a job, centre link won't help cos his mum won't give consent. So he lives with my auntie but they want him to pay rent and stuff somehow with no money. What can he do or what can I do? We are moving out the end of this year together because he needs me an my family doesn't want me living at home anymore so we really need money! What can we do?!?! |
| Question: How do you deal with people who don't do their fair share around the house? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 08:41 AM PDT |
| Question: Something's is up with my little brother? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 08:39 AM PDT Okay so my little brother was born mental,and he has this thing for technology. My dad lets him see his phone and play games. He stays up until 3:00 in the morning on my dad's phone and won't let it rest. I take the phone away from him and he has breakdowns like this:he screams"I hate you" or "gimme the phone right now" He even hates going to the park or to the movies. My mom takes the phone away from him,then here comes my dad giving him the phone back. Sometimes I even want the phone. My little brother and I have this thing called switch time where I let him see my laptop and I get to see the phone. He plays shooting games on the phone and listens to the innappropiate game walkthroughs like team Epiphany and Zackscott games. It's disgusting and horrible. Today my little brother even THREW stuff at me because I took the phone away and I told my mom and I'm not sure if she's going to do something about it. help please |
| Question: Has this ever happended to you? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 08:25 AM PDT Has it ever happened to you when you thought you were gonna get forgoten by . family members? Ok here's the thing my uncle he has been desperate for a grandchild and finally one of his daughter is gonna get married. At the wedding he was super happy i have never seen him so happy. I support and congratulate him but i am just threatened that when he has a grandchild he will nothing to do with me or my sibling. |
| Question: How do I make my step dad love me? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 08:22 AM PDT |
| Question: My mom makes me feel miserable, what should I do? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 08:19 AM PDT I feel complete miserable and extremely depressed because of my mom. my entire life she has screw my family over soo many times. my mom and I always fought about her stealing my money and making me feel trapped and miserable. she is the BIGGEST LIAR i know! it hurts when she lies to me. I am in college full time and when I get my credits im transferring to a university to get away from her. she told me she likes watching and making me feel miserable. i know people will tell me to move out but i don't have the money cuz she steals it and i work really hard for it. i have no clue what to do anymore i want out! im tired of being treated and feeling this way from my mom. advice? |
| Question: I think my mom saw my penis? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 08:09 AM PDT First of I'm 13 and a boy I was showering today and I usually leave the door open a little so the steam doesn't build up as much. I guess she thought it was ok to come in and change the towels. And the shower has a glass door so she saw all of it. After i got out the shower I said "I didn't appreciate u coming in when I'm taking a shower" and she said "why are u so worried I'm your mother I've seen u naked plenty of times and I wasn't even looking" I don't like her coming in when I'm taking a shower. Do u think she will stop? Do u think that was right of her to walk in when I was showering? |
| Question: I have to share a room with my sister? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 08:07 AM PDT Ok so I'm and 12 turning 13 and I have to share a room with my 11 year old sister. And I have another sister and she is 8 and has her own room downstairs. First it's annoying not being able to have my own personal space and when friends come over they are always trying to hang out with us and I tell them to leave but then they go and tell and I get in trouble! Also they are both Tom-boys and they are either playing Legos or with stuffed animals. Both of them are always together any way and I want them to share the room! They want to share a room but then when they get In a small fight my 8 year old sister says no and then she changes her Mind! And then we asked my mom and she said if she says yes on Friday and she did and my mom said we couldn't do it and idk if she meant not right now or never! Please help me what am I supposed to do!😭 |
| Question: How to delete a snapchat MESSAGE? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 08:05 AM PDT so i sent my friend a really embarresing snapchat message and he doesnt have his phone for a week so he hasnt opened it yet. Am i doomed? is there anyway to delete it on both ends? Thanks! |
| Posted: 28 Jun 2015 07:54 AM PDT Growing up I always heard your boyfriends should be respectful of your parents, and as an adult (mother) I still agree. If a boy doesn't respect her family he doesn't respect her. But recently I heard a man saying he would prefer his daughter's boyfriends stand up to him and because it means they would stand up for her. So I'm asking fathers if they want their daughter's boyfriends to stand up to them or be respectful of them. No right or wrong answers, I'm just curious. |
| Question: How to get bf to understand that I don't want his family yelling at our kid? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 07:42 AM PDT My boyfriend brought up the conversation about how I were to feel if his siblings were to yell at our baby once he was older. I told him that it's not their job to yell at our kid that would be our job. I told him I don't mind if they grab his attention if he does something wrong but I would definitely be bothered if they yelled at him. My boyfriend doesn't seem to understand and says if his siblings were to yell at our kid he wouldn't stop them or tell them something because they yell at each other's kids. I want him to understand that his siblings should take in consideration how I would feel. I personally wouldn't yell at his siblings kids bc I'm not there parent or his siblings or partners may not like it. |
| Question: How would the world populated only by lgbt and women? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 07:37 AM PDT To accomplish this, we first discuss some future prospects Which? |
| Question: I think I might have been sexually abused as child, but I can't remember? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 07:33 AM PDT I often have dreams that I'm being sexually abused by my father. But I can't remember anything like that ever happening to me. I'm 16 and my dad still lives with us, and I know that ever since I was 11 or 12, I've always had a really hard time talking to him. I don't know why, I just try to avoid him whenever he's around. I have a lot of anger towards him, and I don't know why. He just makes me mad. Whenever he tries to talk to me, I feel mad. Sometimes I'll sit and think for a long time, trying to remember, but I don't remember him ever touching me or doing anything of that nature. What could this be? Also, I've never had a boyfriend, but the thought of kissing, touching, or anything beyond that makes me really uncomfortable, to the point where I don't think I'll ever be able to have a real relationship. Even the thought of being alone with a boy makes me uncomfortable. I've also been severely depressed before, and I frequently have suicidal thoughts. I remember that I was picked on a lot in middle school, and that might be what triggered my depression, but I was thinking that maybe sexual abuse also had something to do with it. I'm also a binge eater, and have been since a very young age, and I read that that's also something that can be triggered by sexual abuse. I really don't think my father has done anything to me, but now I'm not sure. |
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| Question: Is it normal if your neighbours take care of you because your mom's NEVER home? Posted: 28 Jun 2015 07:27 AM PDT Im 14. My mom is never home..there are no food in our house. Our neighbours are looking after me because my mom is always with her boyfriend...even sleeps there. And he has kids age 6 and 4...and i can't stand them, but my mom just leaves me here... |
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