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- Question: Stuttering Problem?
- Question: How can I get over people talking about me in school?
- Question: Is drugs the reason why my friend acts different?
- Question: Why would someone I know act like this? Don't you think this is being a little insensitive?
- Question: How do you earn someone's friendship again?
- Question: Should i kill myself?
- Question: My best friend showed me a disturbing gore picture how can I forget it.?
- Question: How to make new friends?
- Question: Should I tell my boy best friend that I kinda have feelings for him?
- Question: How to react to this?
- Question: Tell me I don't need friends or love to be strong in liefe?
- Question: How to ask friends to hangout?
- Question: What are good messy challenges for me and me friend to do for our back yard fearfactor?
- Question: I need some advice about a a party?
- Question: Would you keep that friend?
- Question: How did you and your friend meet?
- Question: I love and hate my guy friend at the same time?
- Question: My friend is really mean to me lately?
- Question: I hate my life and I want to die.?
- Question: Did they u friend me?
- Question: A guy wants to fight me I don't want to hurt him?
- Question: Why is my friend acting this way?
- Question: What should i gift? please help!!?
- Question: How to get over not fighting?
- Question: Why are these girls so freaking caddy, and ridiculous?
- Question: Friend starting to act really rude out of nowhere?
- Question: Why do I always sabotage my relationships/friendships by thinking they are mad at me, or no longer want to be near me?
- Question: I need friendship advice for me and my best friend?
- Question: Do you have friends that go to different high schools but you've known since middle school?
- Question: What is a good Finsta username for the name Kayla?
- Question: I think my friends don't like me!?
- Question: Me and my friend are having are first sleepover what do we do?
- Question: Good Finsta name for the name Kayla?
- Question: Best way to not grow apart from friends over the summer?
- Question: Should I go to her hen do or not?? Help?
- Question: Does my best friend still care? Are we still friends or is it better to let go? But idk how to let go.. Advice?? Experiences??? Plz!!!!!?
- Question: Has anyone here ever did this? Should I be worried?
- Question: My mom won't let me hang out with friends even though I'm 20 years old?
- Question: I saw my friends dick, am i gay?
- Question: Please help me i dont know what to do?
- Question: Which friend/roommate should get the bigger room?
- Question: What does it mean when people make fun of freckles?
- Question: How should I approach my high school reunion if I wasn't that popular?
- Question: I'm worried about my friend and idk how to help him?
- Question: How to make friends without a vehicle?
- Question: Has anyone who went through AA remain friends with their sponsers years down the road?
- Question: How long does it take for work shirts to come in?
- Question: How to feel less ****?
- Question: How to be popular in 7th grade? (Girl)?
- Question: How to predict people's reactions before coming out to them?
- Question: Am I wrong for feeling this way?
- Question: Why do people change when they become popular?
- Question: Is something wrong with me?
- Question: (Girls only)?
- Question: No one wants to **** with me...what should i do?
- Question: So i am huge car nut, and I want to go to Beverly Hills again to do some spotting. I have a slight problem though.?
- Question: Friend stringing ex along?
- Question: My best friend hates me...?
- Question: I don't want to be friends with one of my friends but I don't want to break my friend group up?
- Question: Wants me to forget my memories.?
Posted: 21 Jun 2015 05:23 PM PDT Im 13 years old and recently started stuttering out of nowhere. I never stuttered when I was younger...although when I was 11 and younger I didnt talk as much as I do now and when I did, i didnt say much because I was shy. I am way more talkative and social now. I dont think I have any head trama or anything like that... my family doesnt pay attention to it but I get so annoyed when I stutter. And its not a big change, but things like this will happen: Me: ".. so i went and hide... hided... I MEAN HID." Maybe its because i dont really think while im casually chatting with someone. HELP! |
Question: How can I get over people talking about me in school? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 05:18 PM PDT Recently people have been spreading some pretty serious rumors about me at school and I want to feel like it's died down but I don't know if it has. I am very involved in extra activities like Theatre and I still want to do them but I feel like if people come see shows for example they'll just start making fun of me again. Am I just paranoid or is there really something to be worried about? |
Question: Is drugs the reason why my friend acts different? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 05:15 PM PDT |
Posted: 21 Jun 2015 05:15 PM PDT A former co-worker.......I thought I knew her fairly well.......I did see her at a social event at my HOUSE to celebrate a friend's birthday party................ a few months after she retired I sent her a friend request. She rejected it. Then......some time later at another social event, here we are chatting away with me and another person who also worked for that same store.......(and she didn't know this lady as well as she knew me)....... and here I am sitting right next to them.... being included in their conversation........ and she says to her: "I'll friend you on facebook".......she said that right in front of me after we have a past incident where she rejected a request from me. when I said "friend request" I meant on facebook by the way. |
Question: How do you earn someone's friendship again? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 05:11 PM PDT When they refuse to talk to you and pretty much hate you for the time being? |
Question: Should i kill myself? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 05:09 PM PDT Okay, so here goes…i'm a 23yo guy and if not for a promise i made i would have killed myself by now. When i was 17 or 18 i was messed up in the head and accedentally came across child porn on the internet. I had the reaction that anyone would have, closed it down, got rid of it and pretended it didnt happen. But like i said, i was messed up in the head at the time and i couldnt get rid of the thought of it, it was stuck in my head. Out of curiousity i went and found it again and thats what started it. You have to understand that i never have and never will find children attractive and i would definately never do anything to hurt a child. It was more that fact that i knew what i was doing was wrong that excited me, it was like the ultimate taboo. I hated myself for what i was doing and i was disgusted with myself but i couldnt seem to stop myself. I had considered killing myself alot over what i was doing but i couldnt bring myself to it. A couple of years ago i was arrested for what i was doing and it went through all the legal proceedings and i was sentenced to 3 years intesive probation and 5 years on the sec offenders register. There was a news article put on the internet and facebook and quicker than you would believe i lost everything. My friends, my boyfriend, my job, my home were all gone. As i said before i feel no attarction to children, but nobody seen it that way, which is understandable. Im not angry at anyone for how they reacted because im not sure i would have handle the situation any differently if i were them. But even though ive lost everything ive ever cared about i believe getting caught is the best thing that ever happened to me. It forced me to snap out of whatever was going on in my head and for the first time, realize what it was i was actually doing. I know im not the person now that i was back then and in some ways i am happy with who i am now, but i dont know if i should be. This brings me back to my question; should i kill myself? My boyfriend made me promise him i wouldnt before he cut me from his life because he knows i always keep my promises. But when the people i love, and who used to love me cant forgive me then i can only assume that i dont deserve forgiveness. I drift through life now completely alone, without hope for a future and fighting the urge to break my promise. I cant even leave the house during the day incase someone recognises me from that news article and decides to act on one of the many death threats ive recieved. So thats my story. Do i deserve forgiveness, or a future, or should i do the world a favour and kill myself? |
Question: My best friend showed me a disturbing gore picture how can I forget it.? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 05:08 PM PDT |
Question: How to make new friends? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 04:57 PM PDT Ok so I have friends now but their fake and I'm tired of it. I just don't know how to make new ones. I don't go to college anymore and I work for my dad. Everyone in the office is old. I'm 20 and it's not like I can go to the bar and meet people. So I was just wondering of ways to meet new people? |
Question: Should I tell my boy best friend that I kinda have feelings for him? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 04:45 PM PDT So I've known my best friend since middle school, now we're 21. Friends always make jokes about us because of how close we are/were. Since we graduated we only met once every three or four months because of college and sometimes I feel weird because of how close I'm to his family (sometimes I spent holidays at his house) and he is now one of the very few people of high school I'm still in touch. I don't know how to explain this... I think it happens to everyone at one point or another: But certains situations have made me harder and a less lovable person (sorry for my english), but right now he's the only person in my life who I feel I can hug and kiss and feel loved because he have never failed me. I really want to know if this is something normal that happens at some point a boy-girl friendship and that it will go. He used to be a womanizer, and he's finally happy with a girl and I don't want to break that. Should I let him know? I think we would make a great couple, I don't know why I never thought of him that way. Either way, I'm not interest in having a relationship with him now. But everything is so confusing. |
Question: How to react to this? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 04:09 PM PDT Im going to ask friends from work if they can hangout to see a movie. But I want to know how to react or what to say if they say they can't/busy etc.. |
Question: Tell me I don't need friends or love to be strong in liefe? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 04:04 PM PDT I really need that. |
Question: How to ask friends to hangout? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 04:03 PM PDT Hi, okay so I wanna ask some friends from work to go see a movie. The thing it that they are 19 and 22 while I'm 16. We all get along pretty well and joke around here and there. They are really nice too! I want to ask them to go see a movie that is coming out soon because we only see each other at work, never really hangout together besides that. I think that it'll be fun to hangout all together outside of work too. I haven't known them that long like a year or so, but I do not base friendship on how long I have known them for. They are my friends. How can I ask them to hangout to go see a movie without being awkward about it? And how can I build up confidence to do so? Also when is a good time to ask? Thanks! |
Question: What are good messy challenges for me and me friend to do for our back yard fearfactor? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 03:58 PM PDT |
Question: I need some advice about a a party? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 03:49 PM PDT My childhood best friend invited me to her 21st party which is at a fancy restaurant. I live about 50 minutes away from her and have only seen her once in about 7 years (because off fb). I didn't go to her 18th as I made up an excuse. I'm happy to go to the restaurant. However there's like an after party at her house but I don't want to go to that because I don't want to get pressured to drink. It's gonna be during the uni semester but on a weekend but I just don't want to get drunk. I know she will try and force me to go to her house because she's overpowering but I honestly would rather go back home. I also still live at home and have to face overprotective parents who make me explain and tell them everything about where I have been. What would be a good way of telling her this so she has no opportunity to make me go to her house. Dinner starts at 7.30 and goes for a hour and a half. |
Question: Would you keep that friend? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 03:23 PM PDT I known my friend for few years, we are not very close but we hang out every few months. When we hang out it's great. She asked me to organize her bachelorette party in my house so she can bring her guests and her family (15 guests). She said she will pay for everything. She paid for food, I ended up entertaining her guests, serving them and paying for alcohol because they ran out of it. She never returned my money back, I let it go, since it's her bachelorette's. Then at her wedding, she wouldn't speak to me much, she only approached me once and would walk away on 3 different occasions when I tried having a conversation. I painted her a huge painting for her wedding gift. It took me 10 hours of work and fancy materials. She didn't even thank me. I am mad at her and pondering if I should just cut ties. What would you do? |
Question: How did you and your friend meet? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 03:08 PM PDT Any crazy stories about you and your best friend with work just fine. |
Question: I love and hate my guy friend at the same time? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 03:07 PM PDT I ve been friends with this guy for 2 years now (we re both freshmen) but I ve come to realize that his jokes are really racist and victimize my other friends and acquaintances and I feel like I should grow up from him. On the other hand, a bunch of my friends ship us and OTP us and I ve kind of fallen for him. And then yesterday I started berating him because he offended one of my friends and he doesn t even apologize. I know that I care about him too much to actually yell and stay mad at him but it s so frustrating. What should I do now? |
Question: My friend is really mean to me lately? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 03:06 PM PDT So, my friend treats me like I'm an annoying person... Anyway, I was talking with 2 of my other friends, and she all of a sudden bursts into my conversation and she's like: (myname), please be quiet. I wasn't even talking to her! And my 2 other friends really wanted to chat, so I kept talking. Then she said my name really loudly, and pulled me away from my friends, so I was just like, fine. I don't understand why she jumped into my conversation just to tell me to shut up? Then, later, I was talking, and she's just like, Seriously, shut up, (my name). She treats me like a doormat. And it bugs me. I almost don't want to be her friend anymore. I feel like I'm being too nice. She's a very manipulative person too. I don't know what to do? I have social anxiety and Aspergers, so it's hard for me to make friends, but I want to make friends, but just can't. So, when I have friends, I try to do what they want so that they won't hate me... But, obviously, I'm too much of a pushover. |
Question: I hate my life and I want to die.? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 03:05 PM PDT My life is such a major fuckup and I don't know what to do anymore. Everyone treats me like a child. For instance, I'm one of the slower runners at the track club I run at, so I'm put into the age 9-11 group. I'm 13. One time I even got put in a group full of annoying little kids. I'm also treated like a child by my parents. I'm not allowed to have a cell phone, use the computer unsupervised, and other things. Whenever I try to grow up and be mature, for some reason life won't allow it, and I'm always pushed back down. Yet my parents still wonder why I'm so immature and irresponsible. I also never listen for some reason. I'm always trapped in my mind, thinking about the things I like, daydreaming, and I'm never listening. I don't know why I do this. For some reason I never heed advice from anyone. I once had a counselor to give me advice on life, but I never heeded advice from her for some reason, and my mom was paying her too much, so she pulled me away from her. For some reason I always fight with my little brother. He's 7. Every little thing he does for some reason annoys me. I can't tolerate his singing, copying, anything from him. He never listens to me. Yet I still don't know why I continue to bully him. I also feel like I'm psychic/have ESP. I'm always reacting to exact times, subconsciously noticing patterns, predicting what is going to happen, and other things. Now it's getting to much for me to handle. I don't know how it happened. (Extending in updates) I don't know if it's because of my psychic/ESP/subconscious/etc. mindsets or whatever, but for some reason, I don't WANT to get better, or, WANT to get along with my little brother, basically preventing me from doing a lot of things. I also live in a country where the government is corrupt, there's constantly questions on here about cons and libs, the education system sucks, and other things. My life is such a failure, and now I feel like DYING. If things are constantly going to be this way, then I just don't want to live like this anymore. I also have Asperger's syndrome. What do I do? (End of updates) |
Question: Did they u friend me? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 03:03 PM PDT So me and this person has been snapchatting for 14 days and 2 days ago I have snapchatted them and they didn't open or reply you know how your friends with someone you can change the name like let's say his username is danny234 and you can change that to Danny h so Anyway the next day they haven't opened it but it went from Danny H to danny234 and I looked at my friends list and they weren't there anymore and I restarted my phone and the snap I sent disappeared so I went to The add friends place from address book and I type Danny H it wasn't checked or anything and I went to see if they any of my stories and they haven't and I know they have there phone because they posted on Instagram so what I'm asking is did they unfriend me or block me or was it a snalchat lag thing? |
Question: A guy wants to fight me I don't want to hurt him? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 02:55 PM PDT Some stupid guy at my college wants to fight me because I said he couldn't wear my boxing gear (I was just trying to find a pen in my bag and put one glove on the table and he got all annoying) so he has declared his hatred for me. Anyway I don't want to fight the guy as I do MMA as well as boxing and I do get angered very easily so I don't want to do anything stupid. But as he was being a dramatic idiot he stated he would 'motivate' me to fight him and looked at my girlfriend. So if he does anything to her I won't be able to control myself. He seems pretty set on fighting me cause he's sending me messages on Facebook idk what to do to avoid him and his childish behavior. |
Question: Why is my friend acting this way? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 02:54 PM PDT My friend and I are both in our early to mid 20s, we got a long when we first met late last year, he began dating my girlfriend s friend thus forming a group of the 4 of us, so we would often go on double dates and such. Eventually he became sort of flaky, demonstrating introvert like behavior, it was annoying but I know some people like to be alone sometimes and do whatever introverts do, then things took a turn when he told me he wanted to dump my friend/his girlfriend for another lady, he told this to his girlfriend while they were living together and she had no place else to go, she was devestated, however shortly before his vacation to Alaska they patched things up and he decided to stay with her, but on the day he was leaving for Alaska he was snapping at her and treating her rudely. Here s where his behavior began directlly affecting me. Over a month ago him and I decided to start a amateur fencing league (sword fencing) we were going to make a big purchase and buy gear and meet with anyone who wanted to fence with us weekly. Then out of the clear blue he texts me from Alaska saying he doesn t want to do it, I ask why and he says "I just don t feel like it". Weeks ago prior to this whole scenario he says he feels like a loser and is depressed with his life but he is going to school and looking for work. Also he seems to pick up interest and hobbies then out of nowhere forget and neglect them, what is his deal? AND MOST OF ALL WHAT DO I SAY TO HIM? |
Question: What should i gift? please help!!? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 02:54 PM PDT Hi :) I have the best sister in the world..she has been there for me all the time..i owe her more for what she has been so far..and now she is getting married..i have to give her the best present..that should be the most memorable gift..please suggest some gifting ideas..!! :) :) |
Question: How to get over not fighting? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 02:49 PM PDT I didn't stand up for myself and I have regret it for a long time I would get punch bullied called names and I would walk away but now it's just annoys me |
Question: Why are these girls so freaking caddy, and ridiculous? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 02:45 PM PDT So I just graduated, and had a friend who I was super close to, who my parents never approved of. Well come to find out they were right, she really is psychotic, and she befriended a girl who had a "thing" with this guy. He did initially like her, but then he began to have feelings for me and I him. The girl who I was friends with tried spreading rumors about me, and would take things that I actually did or said and would make her own story out of them most of the time, other things she would pull out of only God knows where. The guy and I are super close friends, and we still hang out and are staying local for college, the two girls aren't. But every time they see someone we all mutually know, they always ask if him and I are a thing now, and will try spreading caddy untrue rumors about me. The girl who liked my guy friend who is supposedly moving onto someone else now is always asking. It is caddy and ridiculous, if they "hate" me so much why do they care and why am I the only thing they ever seem to talk about? They both now are only friends with each other, and the girl who I was really good friends with I now understand why she never had any friends before me, but what is the deal? |
Question: Friend starting to act really rude out of nowhere? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 02:44 PM PDT We've been friends since 6th grade and lately she's been acting really jealous and throwing insults at me how do I resist not telling insulting her back |
Posted: 21 Jun 2015 02:39 PM PDT Every time I can think of that I have had a friendship, or relationship, it has gotten to a point where I think that they don't want to be around me. That there is something else they are after. It applies to every friendship I have ever had. Every engagement (twice). I have dealt with this for nearly 35 years (since I was a first grader and 6 years old). I am tired of being abandoned by everyone but I don't know why I do what I do. how can I change it? why doesn't the pain go away? |
Question: I need friendship advice for me and my best friend? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 02:34 PM PDT Lately I've been having a hard time because of my best friend. We've been best friends for almost 10 years. When we got into college she became boy obsessed. She met this guy on a dating site and got together with him after two weeks. Everytime she'd be talking about him with other people, whenever I came into the room, she'd stop. Whenever I'd try to give her advice she'd listen to everyone else, even people she's only know recently, except for me. In a way she just doesn't seem like the person I used to know, all she ever talks about is boys and sex and herself. She's okay when it's just us together, but when it's us and other friends she's a different person. I think what upsets me is that she chooses these people that she's just met over me, including her boyfriend. After the 2 weeks of knowing him she said she wanted him to be her best friend, and it hurt my feelings because being best friends takes time. If it only takes 2 weeks to be best friends with someone, is our relationship not special anymore? Sometimes I wish something bad would happen in her relationship so that they would break up. She's always crying because of him but she really really wanted a boyfriend, and to have sex. I think that I've never been desperate for a boyfriend because I've had my best friend. But now that she's replacing me, I feel sad and angry. I harbor a lot of negative feelings towards her. How should I deal with these feelings? |
Posted: 21 Jun 2015 02:30 PM PDT also how do you hang out with them if you're 14 and can't drive! |
Question: What is a good Finsta username for the name Kayla? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 02:28 PM PDT (finsta is a fake Instagram used for people to post embarrassing photos or videos of themselves and only their close friends follow) |
Question: I think my friends don't like me!? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 02:24 PM PDT So in school there are 5 of us all together and I'm usually the one who's left out. I am quite shy in school but when I'm with my friends I'm ok but if it's a one on one conversation I'm so awkward and also I'm scared of what my voice sounds like?.. Also one of my friends we don't really talk I know that sounds weird but we don't but occasionally we do but not as much as the others The other day a new girl came in my class and she hangs round with us, and my friends always put me with her because they don't like her and also one of them even suggested that I should hang round with her on this school trip because there are only 2 seats on the coach and I just got really sensitive about that it just makes me really upset and maybe even depressed can you tell me what I have done? Or what's wrong with me P.S sorry for the long speech |
Question: Me and my friend are having are first sleepover what do we do? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 02:22 PM PDT |
Question: Good Finsta name for the name Kayla? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 02:22 PM PDT |
Question: Best way to not grow apart from friends over the summer? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 02:12 PM PDT So we're off on summer break (bra I'm in high school) and I want to make sure that I don't grow apart from some friends this time because I usually grow apart from many over the summer due to lack of communication. I have people's numbers and other social media things, but how do you stay in touch enough without being annoying or seeming too "clingy" |
Question: Should I go to her hen do or not?? Help? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 02:04 PM PDT I really don't have much money at all at the moment. My work colleague who is also a friend is having her hen do in a few months and its a 2 night stay which she needs the deposit for at the end of this month.. it just seems like a lot of money, its going to cost over £200 altogether, she has like 25 people going so its not like she is counting on me but she really seems to want me to go. What do you think? |
Posted: 21 Jun 2015 02:04 PM PDT Honestly myself has changed such as how happy i used to be cuz it bothers me so much.. My best friend rarely seems to care or even if she does its like she gets annoyed by me or we are more like aqquaintances.. So i get things change as do people but what happened here? Last year we were inseperable she would always text me, wish me good luck texts even before my game or text me after saying "heard you won congrats😘" we would always hang out, have so much fun, be laughing and smiling, this year is so different. She doesnt text me anymore..it always me and sometimes i dont because it takes her long times to reply and sometimes she says im sorry for not texting as much ive been busy like thats ok! I understand we get busy! So do i, we both do sports and stuff.. I tried making new friends and i have a lot but she is someone im kind of caught on.. Cuz idk what changed. She got closer with this girl who likes to party and drink and smoke a lot amd my best friend is starting to do that more and i dont do that.. Its her life she can do what she wants but sometimes a few days shell be perfectly fine not exactly the way it used to be but shell say hi to me and start a conversation other days she stare at me and walk right by me.. I always say hi and compliment her cuz i love her so much and care about her and what to talk to her, but sometimes when i feel i get nothing back it realy upsets me.. Idk what to do or how to cope with this. |
Question: Has anyone here ever did this? Should I be worried? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 01:58 PM PDT In my neighborhood public park my friend and i yesterday were stupidly wasted and came across a dead cat and we put it in the men's bathroom, in a toilet that had poop in it. We go there just about every day and today we went to the park and saw two officers talking to an adult, who i presume is the mayor or park manager standing beside the bathroom Should I be worried? What if they find out who did it, what should I say? |
Question: My mom won't let me hang out with friends even though I'm 20 years old? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 01:54 PM PDT My friend and his brother are having a birthday party with a few friends next month and it's a sleepover were probably gonna play video games or whatever but by then I'll be 20 years old and she's treating me like I'm 10 saying tell get out of hand you'll get in trouble etc. it is so dumb because i am an adult and if it wasn't for my poor finances I wouldn't live with her and I'd do what I want. I do everything for her and I never have fun because of her. How can I convince her to back off and let me go? |
Question: I saw my friends dick, am i gay? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 01:38 PM PDT My friend and i have been friends for years. since i was 10 and he was 8, now im 25 and hes 23, were both muscular men and the thing is we are room mates (we live in a one bedroom apartment, separate beds) and we almost share everything, its like were brothers, i mean we go to the gym together, go to work together, eat together, everything! today he took a shower and he came out, he was standing and suddenly his towel fell, i immediately looked away and he said "dude its ok were both men" since then i feel awkward, any help??????????? |
Question: Please help me i dont know what to do? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 01:29 PM PDT the other day my mom came into my room and apologized for neglecting me and abusing me. and now that she has apologized im remembering so many things that shes done in the past that make me want to be angry at her...im 13 and i know that i dont deserve this but i cant help thinking, no matter how many people tell me otherwise, that its my fault that this kind of thing happened to me. last year i got the flu and i was so sick that i was actually in danger (because my mom didnt get me any shots), ive almost died multiple times (because of my mother recklessly drinking and driving). ive come home from school many times to find her drinking and smoking and these days i only come out of my room for meals. i dont like talking to her or spending time with her and she knows it and i know it makes her upset but i cant help it. i want to say i love her, i really do but i just dont know if thats the truth anymore. shes been trying recently to get closer to me but ive been cutting her off and i feel like im the one at fault here because shes trying and although shes done things to me in the past shes actually trying to be good to me now. everytime i start thinking about this i start crying really hard. im so young and i know i dont want to hear that its my fault but i have to know if it really is. please answer did she neglect me? am i just being whiny? is this all my fault? thank you so much for helping |
Question: Which friend/roommate should get the bigger room? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 01:17 PM PDT So its a 3 bedroom. One room is significantly bigger than the other two. Obviously, we all want the bigger room. I feel like we would all be willing to pay more for the big room. I found the place. I m supplying the almost all of the shared furniture. Is it alright to ask for the room and offering to pay slightly more? Or is that rude? Also, we are in different cities this summer...like can I text this? Opinions? |
Question: What does it mean when people make fun of freckles? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 01:04 PM PDT Okay, so, I'm in a class, well, a student work class were disabled people go and work. Anyway, when I get to work, they make fun of me for having freckles and I don't know why. It makes me self conscious, but, what does it mean? And what can I do? |
Question: How should I approach my high school reunion if I wasn't that popular? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 12:58 PM PDT In Jr. High I was sort of a nerd. In high school I became a run of the mill guy-I worked mostly and didn't become social. I had a few friends but didn't attend any parties. A few of these friends are going but I don't know if I should. I've changed a lot since HS. I became a veteran, studied martial arts, and I'm in great shape. Part of me thinks I'm going to show off and change people's thinking and another parts thinks that I want to get to know some people and see a few old friends. If I go, how should I approach this? |
Question: I'm worried about my friend and idk how to help him? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 12:54 PM PDT i became friends with him about 2 1/2 months ago, but we've grown pretty close, and he told me im the only person he can trust, so im the only one who knows these things about him. anyway, he had a pretty rough past, and it kinda ****** him up. with things he says, he seems like hes depressed. he says hes a "dark depressed monster", because he is mentally ****** up, he has really low self esteem, he thinks everybody hates him, thinks people are better off without him, feels like people walk all over him, etc. he also says he hates everyone, including some people he calls friends (he said he only likes me, and three of his other friends). hes even owns a ******* noose, and says he is probably going to use it in like 30 years, which really concerns me a lot bc what if he doesnt want to wait and just does it? my best friends sister had a friend who said the same thing, but killed himself right out of high school. im so scared hes going to do the same. i dont want to tell his parents or anyone else, because i did that for another friend and it made her situation worse, and i dont want to break this guys trust and push him farther. i try to talk to him and help him, and ive helped a bit he said, but idk if hes just saying that or not. he says he never smiles or laughs (he does around his friends though but idk if he fakes it), and he says hes a sociopath. idk what to do, im really worried about him and i dont want him to do stupid **** please help? hes only 14 going to be 15 in a few months and im 16 if it matters at all |
Question: How to make friends without a vehicle? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 12:52 PM PDT I'm 26,very reserved.I have no vehicle no friends(besides a roomate,who has own stiff going on) and I am not on the bus line. How can I make friends,I have no social life and really want one. |
Question: Has anyone who went through AA remain friends with their sponsers years down the road? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 12:24 PM PDT I'm twelve years sober and no longer attend AA meetings but I have kept in contact with my AA sponser. She lives a few hours away but we email and facebook message often. |
Question: How long does it take for work shirts to come in? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 12:13 PM PDT Hello , me and my friends got hired the same day on June 7th both my friends started working that following Thursday. It is now June 21st and every time I call the manager says my shirt hasn't came in. What should I do ? |
Question: How to feel less ****? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 12:12 PM PDT so lately i feel super shitty all the time. just generally disillusioned and numb and removed. also today my best friend went out with my other two friends to do this thing that i also rly wanted to do (idk if she knew that, but) and i mean, she told me abt it but she never invited me or anything even when i was complaining abt how i really didnt want to spend the day at home with my dad also at home. and like ok i know im being a self obsessed dick abt this but its making me feel even more **** than usual and i want to STOP feeling so **** |
Question: How to be popular in 7th grade? (Girl)? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 12:07 PM PDT Okay, so, I'm going into 7th grade, and, like, I was wondering, how do girls become so popular? Don't say be yourself. It never gains attention (good, not bad). I'm already a nice person, so don't say be nice. Tell me what clothing brands to wear, what hairstyles are popular today, makeup, if I should have a phone or not etc. |
Question: How to predict people's reactions before coming out to them? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 12:04 PM PDT I am gay. Some of my close friends know and my mom and twin bro. I am planning on moving in with a guy I have been seeing for 2 years. His friends and family know he is gay and know about me. The problem is only some of my friends and very few of my family know I am. I would like to tell more friends, but afraid at how they may react to me telling them, and was wondering if anyone had tips to plan on how they will react or at least easy ways to tell them. |
Question: Am I wrong for feeling this way? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 11:57 AM PDT I am worried, now that my nuclear family has passed away, that there will be no one left to "celebrate me". I have extended family, but they have lives of their own. I doubt that any one of them knows my birthday. I only talk to them twice a year (other than at funerals) and I feel all alone. It is not that I don't want a relationship with them, but they have their own lives and families. There is no one left, I feel, that knows who I am, what I like, how I feel about certain things. There is no one left to tell me how many hours of labor she went through with me (which increased by a year on every one of my birthdays), there is no one left to actually worry over what they want to buy me for Christmas and/or my birthday. There is no one left that shares our traditions. Am I wrong for worrying about "me" and who is going to remember me, who is going to remember my birthday or who cares enough to remember me? I know that it is selfish. |
Question: Why do people change when they become popular? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 11:56 AM PDT So, I'm considered popular becuase I'm nice and outgoing. People like me. But we have this boy in a different group of popular kids and he can be pretty mean. He wasn't always mean and used to be my friend. He was smart but totally let his grades go after popularity. I hate him now and was wondering what went on in his head to start being mean to me. Please help! I need to fix this before school starts again. I'm trying to help everyone else at school. |
Question: Is something wrong with me? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 11:56 AM PDT I'm 18 and have been struggling with social anxiety and depression. I'm quiet but I guess it depends on how comfortable I am? Everyone just classifies me as "quiet/shy". I've started taking medication for my anxiety which has helped me. I've gotten better at socializing which have made new friends my senior year and at camp this summer. People at camp started to say I'm not " quiet" nor "shy" . I shared my story with them and how I overcame my anxiety. I would hide from everything that was public. My counselors said that my shyness and anxiety definitely doesn't show. I've made tons of friends this summer but I keep doing the same habit by getting their phone number and not talking to them. I can't keep a full on conversation which at times, wouldn't reply all day or not text in general making excuses. I feel so dumb for asking for their numbers. This guy texted me "Good morning". I keep doing this without thinking. I'm not good at conversations, I'm afraid they will think I'm weird or boring. This guy at camp who I just started being friends with asked if I wanted to hang out with him and his friends tomorrow but I made an excuse and said " I'm going to a party". Next day, he asked me if I was doing anything today and that I could hang out with him and our friend jaden. I feel SO dumb. I've always wanted to make friends but at the same time, like being alone.. |
Posted: 21 Jun 2015 11:46 AM PDT I'm 19 years old I'm 5'6 I had sex with my best friend and she said my penis is small (6.5 inch) wich i also think it is. It gets me really sad every time she makes funny of my penis I can't help it but to feel depressed. I might sound childish or immature but I'm a sensitive person... I'm looking for an answer that will make me feel better |
Question: No one wants to **** with me...what should i do? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 11:44 AM PDT in other words, when i say, "**** with me" i mean no one wants to hang out with me, talk to me, get a hold of me over social media... its summer and I'm bored. everyone is out with their family and friends and I'm bored with no life... help #BESERIOUSPLEASE |
Posted: 21 Jun 2015 11:35 AM PDT I am 15 years old. That's my problem. I have been to BH before and I know its a safe area and a great place to find sweet cars. My mom said I can go, although I have to go by myself because she hates going to LA for reasons. She trusts me and knows I am very independent and will survive, because I have traveled to Florida multiple times by myself. The only difference is I have to stay in a hotel in BH. I got to stay at my families house in Florida when they weren't there. So i need help figuring out how I can around the hotel deal because I am not legal to check into a hotel. Money isn't the issue here, I've saved up over a couple grand for this trip. So thanks for advice in advance. |
Question: Friend stringing ex along? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 11:15 AM PDT My friend said she still likes her ex and he knows yet wont go out with him yet. But whenever he is not around she flirts with these two other boys. Her ex really likes her but im not sure she feels the same |
Question: My best friend hates me...? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 11:14 AM PDT This might be long but I'll try and make it short. Okay, so I had a boyfriend for 9 months. I had a best friend who was a guy, who I started gaining feelings for, and I was losing them for my boyfriend. I broke up with my boyfriend, because I liked my best friend better. I wasn't going to tell my best friend I had feelings for him, because he was moving in 3 weeks. I was texting him one night after I went to the movies with him and some other friends, when he told me that he had feelings for me and has for a while. We decided to become a "thing" that night. Things were good, until I started being really mean to my ex-boyfriend, who happened to be friends with my best friend. I told my ex-boyfriend that I cut because of him, as a joke. He told my best friend that I told him this, and my best friend ended things with me. I regret doing that and wasn't thinking when I did it. Suicide is something serious that shouldn't be jokes with. I apologized to my ex, and he said that it was okay. I've texted my best friend so many times saying that I was sorry and sent him big paragraphs saying how much I miss him. He responded one day, saying that he isn't mad, and that we can be friends and make our way back to best friends. He won't respond to my texts, won't even look at me when I walk past him at school, nothing. He leaves in 4 days and moves 7 hours away. Everyone hates me now and calls me a slut and stuff. I don't know what to do about my best friend... advice please 💔 |
Posted: 21 Jun 2015 11:08 AM PDT So there are 4 people in my main friend group, I have other close friends that I just don't hang out with as much. So I made two of these friends in seventh grade, the other one is my best friend who I've been friends with since 1st grade. The one friend my best friend is closer with, she doesn't like me or the other friend, but I really don't have a problem with her. The other one was my lab partner in seventh grade. I introduced her to my other friends and we were all really close for a year. The lab partner friend randomly called me a whore and told me I was going to get pregnant in high school. Once we entered high school I discovered that she was an extreme liar, she lied about her parents getting a divorce, she lied and said she has a brain tumor, she constantly has to one up me. She started screaming at me because I wore an ear cuff and she thought I got my cartilage pierced and said it was her thing and she had to get it done first. She is completely spoiled. She got 2 pairs of $200 jeans because she said she would wear sparkly jeans. She wipes mud on them all the time. Once my best friend told her we needed some personal space because she was burping and spitting in our faces and this is what she sent me: I am sorry I have been a bad friend but bailey told me what you guys think of me so you can forget about me now. I guess we arnt friends anymore. Good bye. She ended up becoming friends with us again, but I can't stand her attitude anymore. What should I do? |
Question: Wants me to forget my memories.? Posted: 21 Jun 2015 11:08 AM PDT I am in love with my best friend. (I am not his best friend his best friend is my brother) lately we have been fighting I told him he couldn't do something because it was wrong and he got mad. A few weeks later he told me to stop. stop remembering stop asking about his life. stop caring. I can't. I love him so much and he was my best friend. I can't lose him and I can't forget about him. I have a bunch of memories that I can't forget. they are my favorite ones. I remember every detail. what do I do. He knows I love him. I have told him over text because he asked me how I felt about him. |
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