admit it ladies. the true reason you want out of your marriage so badly is to escape the distasteful chore of having to put out for your husband.

I am not in love no more with my child's father and I live with him and want to move I never was married to him .

6/11/2015 FINAL JUDGMENT OF DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE/DOM REPORT MAILED TO BUREAU: 7-10-15 6/11/2015 CASE CLOSED Not sure why is has a date to be mailed out for next month but this mean my divorce is now final and that they will also send me a copy of the decree. Thanks in advance.

we have been married for 10 years, i had an affair with a man at work 2 years ago and my husband found out. He didnt talk to me for a month and then finally i decided to talk things over. the affair was mostly my fault, and we went to counseling about it and everything seemed back to normal a year later. we do have kids and nothing has changed with them, we havent told them anything about the affair and havent fought in front of them. things are back to normal, we kiss, hug, cuddle, and basically have renewed our marriage. as much as i hate to say it, its like my affair was for the better because now we are closer than ever. the only thing that isnt the same is sex, he wont ever initiate it with me anymore, and when i try he says he isnt in the mood (he doesnt get hard or anything). I think its because one of the reasons that i cheated on him was because i was curious about a bigger penis (he is around 5 inches, the man i had an affair with was about 7 or 8). I told him that his penis size wasnt the reason why i cheated on him, so he needs to quit being insecure, and then we started arguing so i dropped it. is there anyway to fix this? (btw he is 36, and i am 34 if that helps).

Hello everyone this will be so embarrassing to me but i feel i need some advice ok so im 24y/o married and have problems with sex from my husband. For the past few months i haven't been able to get completely wet down there. But even when i do its like he not into it. He told me he only want sex 2 times a week is this normal for our age. He is bored with sex how can i spice things up when i want sex more? Please help me our marriage is suffering we love each other but we don't see eye to eye about sex. I never feel like i satisfy him any opinions??

My ex and I have been apart for almost 5 months and he got married recently. Him and I share a 4 yr old together and have joint custody. I have noticed that when my son comes back from his dad's house he is very very clingy and holds onto me. Is this normal? Like he will sit in my lap and hold me very very tight.

If you like to have family and friends to help celebrate or do you think it is something that the husband and wife should celebrate alone ? Even if it is on the 10th, 25th or longer.

I am 22, my husband is 21, and we have been married for a little over 10 months. He is in the military, I am going to be a student again in the fall. We met at camp when we were 17/16 and remained in touch in spite of distance and other complications over the years. I am diagnosed with Bipolar II Disorder. When I have an episode, I become this person that I don't even recognize and am utterly ashamed of. I say things that I don't mean and do things that could be deemed as borderline psycho… like going through his Facebook. So last week, while I was manic, I was on his Facebook and found some very disturbing conversations he'd had with MANY girls. These ranged from, "You're so beautiful, text me" to, "We were supposed to get married and I wish your baby was mine, let's have sex again" and they were as recent as one month before our wedding. Naturally, I freaked out without stopping to think, "Hey, he chose me and he hasn't talked to them since we've been married even though they have reached out to him," it didn't matter. My stomach was imploding, I just wanted the pain to stop, so I asked him to delete and block these women. When he didn't right away I did, and now that the episode is over I'm embarrassed by my actions. Of course I have apologized and he has forgiven me, he knew it wasn't really me doing it, but now what? Even with a clear head those messages hurt and he has been re-adding inappropriate women, but how can I ask him not to after what I did? ADDITIONALLY: 1. How can I talk to him about this in a way that he will listen knowing that I'm not just having another episode? 2. When I do talk to him about it, he often denies any inappropriate behavior even though I have proof. 3. I suspect that he is still texting some of these women behind my back; he has been away for over a month and will still be gone another month for training. Being apart is not making this any less difficult. 4. I know, I'm insecure. ALSO, I DO NOT HAVE A FACEBOOK OF MY OWN. I also get the feeling that I caused recent communication between them since I'm the one who deleted them. If they were to text him and ask about it I do not think he would tell me. I also don't think he would cheat, but then again I didn't think he was telling other girls that he loved them so close to our wedding day. Part of me feels like any one of them could have taken this life had they only got in their cars first... One more thing (at least I think it's only one more lol) on an unrelated note: He is one of those people that either doesn't care or never bothered to learn to use proper grammar. It really bothers me that my husband comes across as, practically, illiterate! Some of the things he says via text are illegible and I'm growing tired of constantly asking him what he's trying to say lol. Anyone else have this problem? Anyone else solve this problem??

So I'm close to a year since me and my wife had a bad argument and instead of wanting to work it out wanted to be on her own. Well I would like to think things have dramatically improved since then but she's talking about moving closer to her new job which would be near me but when mentioning about moving back in she shrugged that idea off. Instead is going to find another apartment. I just would be in disbelief if she signed a 1 year renters agreement like she did in the apartment she is in now. Really the ball is in her court and not too late to change her mind. I know she's going to ask me to help her move as her aunt and uncle helped her last time. Would it be wrong to say the only reason I'd help her out if she moved back to my house? I just can't see myself helping her move down a flight of stairs across town to a new place up another flight of stairs.

What do you contribute to make your marriage work?

One you have not known for a year. Why or why not? My ex did this, that's why I am asking.

He is Muslim and I think he believes in polygamy. He had a small kind of affair with this other girl whom he had a crush on even before his wedding. He kept telling the other girl that she is lucky she doesn't have to have an arranged marriage. And since he had an arranged marriage it makes it ok for him to have other wives as Islam allows it. Did he like the other girl?

I am totally crushed!

Does the novelty ever wear off? Or is it a case of "not being able to have too much of a good thing" ? My husband used to travel a ton for work so our sex life was very sporadic. Now that he's changed to a job where the travel is limited, it's like our sex life improved tenfold. But I wonder if I should pinch myself before the excitement wears off. Is it a case of excitement wearing off or does the body just become used to a lot of sex and you two better bonded?

To say I am in love with my husband would be an understatement. I can't get enough of him! I get really sad when he goes away for work (He's in the military and goes on deployments and courses anywhere for 4 days to 4 months at a time.) I miss him SO much that it physically affects me. I think about what would happen to me if GOD FORBID something happened to him and I really don't think I would survive without him. I don't WANT to feel this way! Believe me! I just think I love him too much and it's incredibly damaging to me as an individual. I've tried to look into hobbies and such as a distraciton but nothing has appealed to me yet. I don't know what to do. It's very stressful.

My husband and I have been married for 30 years. The last few we have been more like housemates than a married couple. We have no conversation or interactions on a daily basis. My neighbor offered me a ride home one day when I was walking home (I just left a store a little over a mile from home). I took it because it was a hot day.While in the car, my neighbor,slightly older than me spoke openly & freely about being in a similar lonely marital situation as myself. He complimented me on how good-looking I am and how he noticed how sad I looked on the porch whenever he drove by our house. He then propositioned me sexually, offering to keep a sexual relationship between two good people in lonely marriages on the "down low." I was so uncomfortable and could not wait to get out of the car as he pulled into my driveway. He rolled his window down to continue to yell out that he thought we would be good together and to let him know whenever I was ready, but i was already trying to get into my house as far away from him as possible. I may not be in a perfect marriage, but I would NEVER step out on my husband. This neighbor is someone that visits the house every once in a while for a beer with my husband. He still honks at us when we are both outside and I cannot help but feel guilty that my husband continues to wave and be friendly with him. I felt dirty at the proposition and confided in a friend that said to keep it a secret and keep my distance. But do I tell my husband?

And says the most hateful things . Please help thanks in advance

Or would you be fine letting your s/o do their thing and not make any sort of formal announcement to you until they had a job offer in front of them

We went out of town last weekend, just the two of us. We have two young kids under 5, and a pair of very loving grandparents who offered to babysit, so we got to enjoy some time alone as a couple. And during this, my husband remarked how nice it was to be alone together and how he sometimes misses those days... Now, our kids are really well behaved and hardly a burden on our marriage, so thinking back to that comment is making me feel uneasy. If you were me, would you press the issue further?

I may have accidentally tossed it when cleaning out the deep freezer this weekend. Hoping the wife doesn't notice

In the grand scheme of things I KNOW this is a small problem. But, I still enjoy hearing him say it even though I know he does. He used to say it frequently when we were dating, and the first year or two of our marriage. But now I feel things are a little "too comfortable" and he only says it a couple times a week, after I say so first. Is there any way I can encourage him to say it more without nagging?

My husband got wasted the other night with 2 other guys and a female they played kings cup and the female stripped to a thong he grabbed her boobs and said before they played she was grinding on all if them. He said thatz all that happened. I don t even know what to do or how to feel at this point. He cried and feels remorseful he came to me after he sobered up and told me. Does this count as cheating? What would you do in this situation?

It seriously just seeps out of him some days. We don't have a vehicle at the moment so we asked someone for our third time if they could take care of the trash and they couldn't this time, so he got very angry and sent a long message back to them. I don't know why he couldn't leave it be. Other times if I'm friends with anyone who has any flaws at all, he seems angry and hateful and asks me why I'm friends with them. Yet he's best friends with someone who is cheating on his girlfriend. He also really enjoys saying mean awful things about the father of my children. I don't know what his issue is.

Earlier we used to live in new delhi with my family n the company shifted me to bangalore a few months ago. So i n my wife live in bangalore now. I have to go away from the city for some days twice a month for official purposes. One day i returned ahead of my schedule n found her in nightees in evening . She was so nervous and sweating that i smelled a rat. When i checked out, my 2 neighbours who r college students were in my room in underwears. Instead of shouting i just let them leave n had a dialog with my wife to sort out the mess. Let me mentipn that we both love each other n have a lot of mutual respect . So she quietly told me that she was not satisfied with my performance on bed n in new delhi an ex boyfriend satisfied her n here she got in touch with the boys as they r our immediate neighbours n she used to go to them for borrowing some items used for repairing house. She cares a lot about me but want someone to satisfy her in a graet way. N i do a lot from my side but finally i am not a pornstar. She accepted of having sex with those boys once in a week pn day time when i am at job n when i am away she has them for whole night. She insisted me to allow her or her life will be hell. I allowed her in the fear that she will leave me otherwise. I dont want to loose her as she is caring and polite and also very beautiful. How should i come out of this situation as i cant even look into the eyes of our neighbours n they look at her all the time.

Earlier we used to live in new delhi with my family n the company shifted me to bangalore a few months ago. So i n my wife live in bangalore now. I have to go away from the city for some days twice a month for official purposes. One day i returned ahead of my schedule n found her in nightees in evening . She was so nervous and sweating that i smelled a rat. When i checked out, my 2 neighbours who r college students were in my room in underwears. Instead of shouting i just let them leave n had a dialog with my wife to sort out the mess. Let me mentipn that we both love each other n have a lot of mutual respect . So she quietly told me that she was not satisfied with my performance on bed n in new delhi an ex boyfriend satisfied her n here she got in touch with the boys as they r our immediate neighbours n she used to go to them for borrowing some items used for repairing house. She cares a lot about me but want someone to satisfy her in a graet way. N i do a lot from my side but finally i am not a pornstar. She accepted of having sex with those boys once in a week pn day time when i am at job n when i am away she has them for whole night. She insisted me to allow her or her life will be hell. I allowed her in the fear that she will leave me otherwise. I dont want to loose her as she is caring and polite and also very beautiful. How should i come out of this situation as i cant even look into the eyes of our neighbours n they look at her all the time.

Earlier we used to live in new delhi with my family n the company shifted me to bangalore a few months ago. So i n my wife live in bangalore now. I have to go away from the city for some days twice a month for official purposes. One day i returned ahead of my schedule n found her in nightees in evening . She was so nervous and sweating that i smelled a rat. When i checked out, my 2 neighbours who r college students were in my room in underwears. Instead of shouting i just let them leave n had a dialog with my wife to sort out the mess. Let me mentipn that we both love each other n have a lot of mutual respect . So she quietly told me that she was not satisfied with my performance on bed n in new delhi an ex boyfriend satisfied her n here she got in touch with the boys as they r our immediate neighbours n she used to go to them for borrowing some items used for repairing house. She cares a lot about me but want someone to satisfy her in a graet way. N i do a lot from my side but finally i am not a pornstar. She accepted of having sex with those boys once in a week pn day time when i am at job n when i am away she has them for whole night. She insisted me to allow her or her life will be hell. I allowed her in the fear that she will leave me otherwise. I dont want to loose her as she is caring and polite and also very beautiful. How should i come out of this situation as i cant even look into the eyes of our neighbours n they look at her all the time.

Married couples as in 3 months or just newly weds??

Not to mention divorce and mixed fabrics!