So there's this guy who has been coming to my store and I feel like he's been flirting with me. Im a waitress & I haven't been working for long at my new current job. Every time he comes in, he always ask me how im doing. One day he came in asking me "do you work everyday?" & I was so flustered & got nervous and said "uhmmmmmmmmm" & then he was like "basically" and laughed & had the biggest smile on his face. Another day he came in (he usually always gets the same order) & when he was paying I said "you order ********* a lot" & he was like "yea I love them, I could eat them everyday" & I was like "I can tell haha I can tell" and we were both like smiling and just in a daze. So he usually calls his orders in ahead of time & I answered the phone and he placed his order & once he was done he was like "you already know who this is" & I was like "haha (his name)" and then he was like "haha you're so good". So when he came to pick up his order I was like "heyyyy (:" & he was like "how are you" & I was like "goooooood how's your day going" & he said "good how bout you" and I told him. When it was time for him to pay he looked at my necklace & said "is that an infinity necklace" & I was like "yeaaaaaa" and then I got nervous & flustered and put it back in my shirt & then he was like "awwww why'd you put it away?". And then after that he told me he has an infinity tattoo. After that customers came & I had to tend to them something about him is so charming *We're in our 20s btw*

I dated my ex for like 8 months last year and we broke up in august. During that time I was having alot of health issues and it overwhelmed him and he couldn't deal with it. He completely cut me out of his life and wouldn't even talk to me. He later told me he has MPD (multiple personality disorder) which he claimed is why he went AWOL. Last fall he started dating a girl he claims to have fallen in love with but she ended up cheating on him with his best friend!!! He has alot of depression and anxiety and this completely made him so depressed. He now texts me every day saying he has no one else and is practically begging for me to date him. Should I even give him the time of day?

Towards the beginning of our relationship we told each other about our previous sexual history, she had sex with her ex and a "friend who had wanted to have sex with her for a while" both were within 6 months of the conversation. I asked if the One Night Stand guy was a friend she had visited at his college before I met her, she said no. Over the next month I would occasionally hear stories about this college buddy of hers and how smart and good of a guy he was, only to find out that he was the one she had ****** during her ONS so she had lied to me multiple times. It ******* hurt, I just felt unbelievably stupid to even to have believed her. I mean a girl doesn't spend the night in a guy's dorm room and "just play video games and eat wings". I get occasional "anger" flashes were I just picture her ******* that guy during that ONS and how he didn't have to do anything to earn it, just 3 glasses of wine was all it took to **** my girl. She says that she was just in a bad place (and her ex did her pretty wrong to be fair), she just wanted a rebound, and how she was a different person then (even tho it was still within this year). It's been 8 months and I still find myself screaming internally about how stupid I am along with having difficulty trusting her. We've talked it over and argued about it too many times, I love her and she hasn't done anything wrong tbh, I know it shouldn't bother me but I just can't get over it...Advice?

I need someone to talk to. Please I really need help. So I really love this girl but she doesn't love me anymore. We've been together for 1 year and 6 months. We're long distance relationship. I am her "first love" and she's my "first true love. We made promises to each other but all of that are not worthless. It really hurts me. And without her I am nothing. I don't know how I'll survive without her. She's the reason of my happiness. I can't imagine the pain I will go through without her everyday. So my life without her is useless. My life is so ****** up and there's no reason to continue. I don't want to live anymore. I don't have motivation. I'm just tired of everything. She don't even want to be friends with me. That's all I am asking. Is that too much to ask for? Please help me. You can contact me on christxan@yahoo.com I really need help :(

I dated my ex for two years before I finally called it quits. In about 2 months I had met a wonderful girl. Who i care about so much. She'd just gotten out of a 2 year relationship as well. After dating for about a month she became depressed from all of the things that her ex boyfriend did to her. Like cheating on her, using her for money, lying, etc. So she broke up with me and really made me feel like that was the end. That I was never going to be worthy for her again. Long story short. My first ex started to try and be my friend and i was convinced that her intentions were true. But one night, about a week after the breakup with the second girl, she asked to see me. she kissed me. I was drinking and so was she and it caught me off guard. I hated it. I thought I could be friends with her but I don't even feel that way towards her. I want nothing to do with her anymore. The girl that broke up with me because she was sad never gave me a straight answer. Never told me anything reassuring or positive. She made me feel like we were done forever. It has taken like 2 weeks for her and I to finally talk about what she wants. She thinks we just needed to step back and move slowly. I feel so shitty about my ex kissing me. I hate that it happened. I wish I didn't trust her. I know I wasn't cheating on anyone. She broke up with me. But I care about her a lot and can't help but feel guilty even if it wasn't me who initiated it. Should I tell her if we start seeing eachother again?

A lot of guys always flirt with me and I just smile or laugh because I don't know what else to do haha help??

I feel that I'm not good enough for anything or anyone. Guys don't even like me , I'm always put down , ignored or unappreciated , my family even ignores me. I may sound shallow but constantly feelings not good enough can really mess up someone confidence , it's not that I had confidence in the beginning. It's just at first I had hope that I can bring my confidence up , now I think can't because I'll still never be good enough. I have no friends , most people exaggerate when they say that but seriously I don't. Maybe I am exaggerating , I have "one friend" but he's not a friend. He put me in the "sister zone and friend zone". You might comment "Meet new people" but I'm always getting negative feedback on everything by all kind of people and that will drive my confidence lower than low. The guy who put me in friend zone always talks about how attractive other females are , put me down , he's been asking for a naked picture for a while now and I always tell him no so he said "There's no reason to talk to you" , He said I am not his priority and If I did send him naked pictures he would pay more attention to me and If guys aren't getting what they want from a female , he loses interest. That may be true , but I don't feel comfortable sending nudes. I told him how horrible my life was.... (READ UPDATE) he said he would change for me but he does the same thing over and over. I'm afraid to stop talking to him because I know I'll be lonely , he has other female friends who he pays attention to but less with me. he tells me how pretty i am but I think he's lying :( He says he loves me , but for what? I told him he could just stop texting me but he says he WONT do that. How do I tell him how feel? I have other problems going on in my life but feeling not good enough is another thing added to my list. It's horrible.

We were skyping and he seemed so down tonight. He did say he missed having me cuddled up beside him especially at night in bed. He has not slept well either and nor have I. Is this normal to be depressed? I feel bad for being out of town for work. I got another week before I head home not sure if I am going to last :'(

I used to be bubbly, happy with everything, have a since of humor and tons of confidence. One year ago today, I started dating a great guy that I am still in love with today. I had all the time in the world to hang out with him and develop our relationship. I then got a job in which I worked unpredictable schedules and I saw him and my friends much less. Over the span of 6 months I developed a very negative outlook on life in general, and nothing ever seemed to make me happy. Now, 6 months later I have a new job that is much better and that I enjoy, but I work every weekend. My boyfriend has every weekend off, and I get off late during the week. I lost 30 pounds and got this job and still have the same wonderful boyfriend, but I am still very unhappy and negative about life. I often snap when I do see my boyfriend, but he never does anything wrong. I used to enjoy all kinds of things also but now I just want to sit at home and think. I can tell my boyfriend is unhappy with me now and I want to save our relationship, but it is like these negative feelings are in the way. What can I do to make myself better so I can love my boyfriend?

there is this girl that i have been talking to for about a month. I ALREADY told her how i feel about her and she replied: "Aww, why didn't you tell me earlier?, i think ur great and i would love to talk to you" A few weeks later a friend asked her if she likes me and she said " no not really cuz i don't know him " I'm so confused.... Also we have not met yet. It's been like 3 days since. We've texted and i have sent her a few messages up to now. The first one i assumed she wasn't interested and said i wouldn't bother her anymore. The next was about what i think of her. I told her i really wanna get to know her better and that there aren't many girls out that like her. The last was about her being able to trust me and that i will leave her alone if she tells me to. ..... what can't i do? :( Last thing she said to me was "Wyd" and that was about 4 days ago.... Ever since then i haven;t been able to stop thinking about her, its weird because like i said we haven't even met.. I don't understand, why did she stop replying to me? Did i do something wrong? Please i need help, i'm confused and i don't want to forget about her. She seems like a really cool girl and i want to get to know her better. I can tell even though we haven't met yet that she deserves a nice guy like me that actually likes her

So basically, there's this guy that my girlfriend says that are just friends and I believe that. She said that they have been friends for two years and that is all they will ever be. Well, I saw that this guy was always flirting with her before. Now, he is always trying to get her to hang out alone with him like pick her up and take her to bars. He recently asked her to go to a broadway show next month and that he'll pay for everything. He also asked her to go on an overnight trip with him in like two months. I told my girlfriend that this guy is definitely interested in her and she doesn't believe me and says that they are just friends and he feels that way too. How do I talk to my girlfriend about it? I don't want her to think I'm controlling, but I really don't like this guy and how he tries to get at my girlfriend. Thanks!

Look i dont need no ******* rude comments i am a 14 year old girl asking how to show my boyfriend i love him. Yeah i cheated But guys cheat all the time keep rude comments to yourself please

Tell me what you think. The reason I did this is because most boys ignore me, because they think I am either ugly, not sporty enough, and even if they did ask me out, it'd be a joke :(

What factors make you think a guy shouldn't wear one

It's driving me nuts! We get along splendidly, we make each other laugh, and there is a spark. She was in an abusive marriage and is scared to purse anything. It hurts like h***. Please give me advice...

No to sound like a perv or anything, but can somebody tell me why there are so little if any girls that are willing to send nudes? For example, girls never offer to send nudes, and when guys send nudes to a girl the girl acts like they dont even enjoy them. Are girls insecure about their bodies or are they just greedy?

Let's say you have a female best friend and you have a lot in common and you'd like to date her, but she's a bit chubby and not really feminine. You don't see her for a few months and she comes back different. Good looking and better, but still the same person. Would you date her then?

I am 16 years old and a boy and earlier this year I decided I am bisexual and I am curious about this other way of seeing things so I am sorta paying more attention to dating guys but that's exactly the issue. I'm used to being friends with guys so I basically have no game when hitting on guys. I get extremely awkward and get low confidence. Like extreme low confidence, to the point where I'll just stay quiet in order to not say somethin wrong. I can't really tell if someone is gay or straight and that's another problem. I don't know how to hit on guys. I need help because so far I'm hopeless.

What makes the Indian girl prettier and hotter than the black girl on the left? What's so bad about the black girl's clothes? http://postimg.org/image/p0m1vg18h/

I don't have any friends not because I am not friendly but the last friend i had told me she felt uncomfortable with because she talked about certain topics such as sex that I didn't want to talk about with her and her boyfriend. Why would I discuss and joke about sex with her bf? That's odd. On top of that, I dated someone who treated me really bad. He left me crying in a deserted area. 6 months later he asked me for forgiveness I didn't forgive him because he traumatized me with that experience and was emotionally abusive. 4 months later he married someone else after he asked me for forgiveness and when I refused to forgive him, he called it a mistake of even trying to reach out to me. I am in a state where I am broken, I gotten over the worst and I'm handling myself well. However, i do feel lonely and I am afraid I will be alone and never find anyone. Im in my late 20s. CORRECTION: I am not in a broken state.

This girl that's a customer at this grocery store I work at. I seen her a few times and we talked a bit in the past. She talks softly when she talks to me. A few days later I seen her & kinda surprised her. She walks up to me & we immediately face each other. I said "how are your cats doing?" & she replied & shes also like "I've done nothing all day." & start I flirting with a slight smile & were looking in each others eyes as we walk. Also her voice seemed just a tad bit nervous but so did mine but I stayed confident & managed! The conversation started & shes just looking in my eyes. And I can just feel that she wants me to talk to her so I said "how old are you?" her: 20. I go to (her college which I wont say) me: oh I thought you were older. - her: why? *soft smile* - me: I don't know...im 20 too. How old do you think I am? her: to be honest 19 no offense me: no its good that's a good thing.(She continues walking & I say "well I'll be here") A week later, I had to take something back & as I was walking toward her she had on that same little shy warm smile looking straight at me & I put on my same little grin and did a nod.. A few weeks later, I seen her from a distance as I was bagging & she did a wave with a smile & I waved back. I had to go on cart duty & I brought some in and she came in the lobby. I said "What are you doing here?" smiling, she was smiling shyly "Shopping.." It seemed like she was looking for something to say again nervous body language I felt So I got out of her way & I said "Oh yeah? So what did you get?". Still smiling she said "Stuff.." walking out kinda hastily..A week later I seen her RIGHT on Valentines day. I seen her so I went in the lobby, some time goes by & I knew she was coming but I wasn't even looking in her direction. It's crowded so I didn't get to talk to her but she right at me & does the shyest smile..so I grin back & say "Whats going on with you?..Cold isn't it?" & she says softly & silently "yup.. Like 3 weeks later I'm walking about to chill outside & I see her get a cart from the lobby. So I pointed at her a little bit and said "There she isss" like very enthusiastic with my mouth open and everything. She just smiled shyly showing her pretty teeth. I kept walking slowly when it happened cause I didn't have my note to with my # to give her I kinda lean in & say "What was your name again?" - She replies "Mikaela, whats yours?" all fast with an enthusiastic reply. "Jalen" I said & we shook hands. She had to go so I said "I'll see you around." She had to go so I said "I'll see you around." A wk passed by & I see her so I stay in the lobby. I'm off the clock & comes up to me & is like "Are you always here?" I just give her the note with my # its folded up. Shes like "whats this?" I pause for a sec & say "just open it when you get home with a flirty smile. Then we both walk away.A couple weeks later went by & today I saw her! She waved at me & smiled. We were super busy so she came in & I said "Whats going on with cha??" & she said "its crazy out here I almost got hit by a car." & I'm like "woww" & just small talk. Then flirty smile & softly said "Did you get the note I get you?" She then smiled & sort've looked down nodding her head yes. I'm like "so ya did? Okay....Well I'll see you around" What do you think? with a flirty smile. Then we both walk away.A couple weeks later went by & today I saw her! She waved at me & smiled. We were super busy so she came in & I said "Whats going on with cha??" & she said "its crazy out here I almost got hit by a car." & I'm like "woww" & just small talk. Then flirty smile & softly said "Did you get the note I get you?" She then smiled & sort've looked down nodding her head yes. I'm like "so ya did? Okay....Well I'll see you around" What do you think? Soon as I was about to ask her out I forget how I was gonna say it hahaha so I'm just like "uhh" & shes like "well I'm gonna finish my shopping". I go back to my check lane & some time passes. I had to go take something back & I see her again in a aisle she did a soft smile from a distance but I went the other way. So, some time passes & she says "bye" with her hand in the air smiling leaving. & I say "alright cyaa"

I'm wanting to see a movie with this girl that my mom doesn't know, and my mom is moderately protective of me. Any ideas to convince her I should be able to see the movie alone with this girl?

Well I started talking to this girl a month ago but the night before I met her I had sex with my friend and today my friend called me and said meet her at the doctors and I went and that's when I found out she was pregnant. So can anyone tell me how I can go about telling my girlfriend I have heard just come out and tell her but I know that will possibly break her heart so thanks in advance

I go to a workout class w about 50 people. There are about 6 coaches. My coach is a girl and she doesn't really workout with us but she weighs me in and stuff. One of the coaches always comes up to me. During squats, he will literally come out of nowhere behind me and is like "get that butt down. uh thank you." I just laugh and said ok. Someone could literally be sitting on the ground not even doing the workout and he'll say "They're fine, I'm only worrying about you" he's not even my coach lmfao dude bye. Yes he's cute for everyone who's gonna ask, but why does he do this??

I just want honesty. My bf says Im wonderful and that he misses me every night. When I call him, he's either a his friend's house or going to. Sometimes when he's hanging out with me, he leaves to his house for half an hour. He says he isn't obligated to stay with me all the time. We have been sending a lot of time together, but he has with his friend too. Why is it a big deal with me? He was even saying that he was gonna end his friendship with his friend. But today I got out of work and he wouldn't even give me a couple of hours. She was with his friends all day, do I have the right to be upset?

He says he loves me, cares for me and would do anything in his power for me. He came to my college graduation and surprised me, we kissed , we go out and treat each other. I just dont understand why we aren't together

There's this girl I've seen around for the passed few months that's a sweet, nice, shy person who'd I like to talk to, but I always get shy myself and just go along with my day. I want to talk to her before school ends. Any help is much appreciated.

"Find a real insecure girl and practice on her. That way when you meet a girl you really like, you'll be good at it."

I'm only 5'4 and done growing (i'm 24). I dont really find tall girls attractive(and they dont like me either) but I really like short girls (around 4'11/5'0/5'1). Alot of short girls who are pretty seem to want tall guys though which really makes me sad. I'd love to have a pretty, short girlfriend of my own to just hold, love and cherish. I dont want a girl who prefers tall guys but decided to date me because of my personality. I want a girl who loves all of me, including my height. One who simply adores me. A girl who is short and beautiful but also kind hearted and fun to be around. Can a guy as short as me find his dream girl who also loves him to pieces or do only tall guys get to have that kind of love?

I'm 6'1, slender about 170 pounds

It seems like everywhere I go I see this jerk. He drives a mustang gt and everytime he see's me he looks at me and revs his engine as to say "my vehicle is better than yours ". I thought about going after him after the third time today but I said to myself, " what am I going to do when I catch up to him?". I have no idea. I thought about confronting him but he might become aggressive. What do I do? He emasculates he every time he does it?

I once had a huge crush on my classmate. He was a big part of my life for the short time I knew him (9 months), but he graduated this year and recently left for work in another city. I was saying goodbye to him as I always do when someone important in my life is going away. I admit sometimes I act tougher than I really feel, so in saying goodbye I just touched his arm and said it was nice having him around. He responded by saying he was sure we'd meet again. What does that mean? Why would he say that? I thought it was an awkward thing to say as I'm already feeling insecure and thinking this guy is way out of my league to even notice me anywhere. And also, it made me think he might have known how I truly felt about him, even though I hid it very well.

Ok, So I got my crushe's number on the last day of school and so far I've only texted her a couple of times. I had become her friend during the year and she was always comfortable with me and we had a good time and now its summer and I miss her. I cant just ask her to hang cause its too sudden. So far I have texted her first twice unless you count her replying 8 hrs later then finally having a convos. Sometimes she replies instantly then sometime hours on hours? I dont want to appear clingly but do I always have to text first? How am I supposed to know if she even likes texting me or she is annoyed? The first time I introduced my self the convos lasted 3 days but it was like 1 or 3 text a day and she left me hanging. 2nd time she finaly replied to a text I sent at 1 pm at 10 pm and we actually had a real convos in a span of 45 mins more than before with her actually asking question and seeming engaged w/ "haha" and stuff. Sorry Im such beginner I could really use a guide cause I dont wanna loose her :/ IM just worried cause I feel like Im the only one moving the convos yet when we went to school she would usually initiate our conversations?How do text convos usually go anyways?

I wrote too much to put in here, so you will have to look at the image to read what I have to say. God bless you if you read it all, and thanks in advance for your advice. Here is a link to the larger photo of my text in case you can't read that small. http://tinypic.com/r/spdehg/8

My dads stepdads brothers son are we related then. Or are we at least far enough away to were if something happened it would be ok im kinda lost here

Thank you in advance. -------- •I met this super, amazing, sweet, daring, brave man. (Online) •I found out he is in the military. •My last relationship was military, I wasn't sure if I was going to keep talking to this man. •We've been talking awhile now, he is stationed about 3 hours away from me. •He texts me everyday, even if I don't text him first. (Usually equal on who texts first.) •We snapchat we've been each other's best friend on there for about 22+ days. •He will randomly text me about how annoyed he is at work, how his day, what went wrong, etc. •We always catch ourselves picking on each other. •He will tell me I look nice once in awhile, or I'll compliment him. •He called me sweetie for the first time the other day. •Lately, I'm a "Goober" •Most the time our conversations are pointless, and just pure laughter. •He makes me smile. Key questions: -Should I Tell him how I feel, and risk the friendship? - Do you think he may like me back! - Do I even attempt another military relationship? ------ How I feel: I feel like everytime he messages me I'm smiling, seeing his snapchats make my whole entire day, nobody makes me feel happier to talk to. I love hearing about his day, and how work was. Our little stories that make no sense. I love telling him that he is superman because he works all day, but in my head believing that he's just my hero and maybe one day he will come to me. Sorry post was so long!!! Oops!!! Thank you so much to those who read this!!!!!!!!

I think my highschool subtitute teacher is hot lol , she from college . Today i accidently kick a ball and almost hit her , so i pick up the ball and throw it away . It was a soccer class , does it seem obvious that i like her lol?

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 4 months. Shes NEVER had an orgasm in her life.. Through giving her oral and sex still nothing. Shes not sexual experienced really except with a one night stand with her ex who wasnt experienced at all either(she was his first kiss..) Whenever we mess around whether im licking her clit and rubbing her g spot or having sex i can tell she reallyyyy enjoys it. She said that it just gets really sensative and starts to hurt even if im not doing it rough. I've tried so many things that I did with other girls when I gave them orgasms but nothing still. She doesn't masturbate either and says she gets nothing off that. I even bought her a vibrating bullet for her own use and she says she's working on it. It doesnt negatively affect our sex life. Cause she really enjoys what we do a lot and we have a lot of fun, there's a lot of love and intamacy in our sex life. She said she's fine without it cause either way she enjoys what we do. I know it doesn't matter much but any advice?

I was dating a freshman this school year. I'm a junior. It wasn't something stupid or little. We really had a great thing going. We had to sneak around because her parents don't want her dating because they think every kid is just looking for sex. We got caught once, and her parents let her come back to the school, but took away her phone. So we couldn't talk as much as we did. The second to last day of school, they found out we were at a park together that day. Schools done for the year, and from what I've been told, they're pulling her out now and homeschooling her. Now I feel stuck and I don't know what to do. I tried calling her parents to apologize and see if they'd let her back in school. I called a lot, and planned on calling one last time this week, but I'm pretty sure they'll just let it ring again. I'm hesitant to do it too because I'm somewhat upset by how they handled it. I don't think it's necessary to just pull her out of school like that, away from her friends, memories, and experiences, but it's not my place to tell a parent what should be done with their kid. I've cried a lot over it, and I'm really stuck now. What do I do now?

Okay I'm not trolling. This is a serious thing I struggle with. I know I shouldn't be doing it. Please don't judge. But I've gave a few bjs. The first time was okay. (From my view, and the boys.) the second time it was good because I went "faster" and "deeper". I didn't look at him while I was sucking. But I did look at him when I would stroke it. But, next time, I want to make it perfect. Please tell me how. How should I play with his balls? Will I look ridiculous if I look up at him with his penis in my mouth? Will I look weird I look up at him and I'm going fast? Will I sound or ruin the mood if I gag because I went to deep? I've gaged before but it's not loud, and I just stroke it after I gag to get a break. Sorry this is long and kind of awkward. But I really need to know the answers to those questions. Please serious answers only. Please don't judge and say I'm too young. Thanks! Oh, and he said that he wants me to wear my hair up this time so that he could "facefuck" (sorry for the language!) me and I'm not sure what the heck that means. I know like he will thrust into my mouth but what if he goes to deep? How to tell him to stop without ruining the fun or mood? What if I gag and he doesn't know, how will I let him know? Okay sorry for the explicitly and thank you!

So my friends seeing this guy and well he seems distant. He says hes busy roofing with his dad so she doesn't text him much but when he does its like hes not really in it. he goes to bed at 8 so that he can work in morning (hes a teenager)(during the summer) and she barely hears from him. and when shes with him she said it like hes not even there. Any suggestions?

When im with my boyfriend we mess around(not too much)just kissing and a little bit of touch(outside of clothes of course) and i feel like i wanna go futher but im not completely sure

I've had a Jupiter-sized crush on this girl all year. It started out small. I thought she was pretty attractive, and then it just grew and grew, and now I think every little things she does is absolutely divine. There's a grace and a femininity about her. Everything from the way she walks to the way she dresses to how her lips move is so graceful. You can't find it in girls these days. Anyway, she's a senior and I'm a junior. And tomorrow's the last day I'll see her. And I feel so, so crushed about it. I've spent so much emotional energy on her, and I want to tell her that she's beautiful. I was going to do it today, as she was leaving school. I ended up walking really close to her, but then I had these really intense butterflies in my stomach and I just chickened out. And a few seconds later, I already regretted not telling her. The play was to just go up to her, and say, "Hey, could I tell you something? Don't take it the wrong way, but you're the most beautiful girl I'ver ever seen. Okay?" I don't want anything out of it. As long as she feels good about herself, I'll be okay. There's no hidden motive. What can I do to calm my nerves? Is there a different way I can say it? I realize how petty this is, but I think it would be a great way to end my crush on her. I have this feeling that I'll meet her again some time in the future, but for now, this is it. I'll feel like a coward if I don't. As a senior, I doubt any guy has actually told her that she was so beautiful. Tips? We're in high school by the way. And my friends don't think she's that attractive, but to me she's literally the epitome of beauty. Thanks!

I've liked a girl for a long time now and tbh I've liked a lot of girls before it wouldn't be a surprise to like another one anyways she knows I like her but one of my friends asked her if I told her that I liked her and she said yeah but felt bad because she isn't seeking relationships still I've been through a lot for the past few years and I always thought life was bad yet she was the reason for me to change she is the first girl I ever liked to have a positive outcome in my life because no other girl ever had any good outcome and things always ended up horrible but with the current one I like it's different she has caused me no pain all I want to do is tell her how I feel you can't change a person but someone can be the reason for you to change she inspired me to be positive she motivated me to change because of her I'm now different I view things differently now she helped me become a better person she may not believe that but she did I know that and so do a lot of my friends because even they felt proud of me for finding someone that now truly had a positive outcome in my life she may not feel the same way do to all the things I've been through and done before but I was willing to change not for her but because she motivated me to like no other girl ever did this has been the biggest journey of my life yet now things are now different I can't just give up on her not after all the good things that have happened in my life because of her I think twice about things

I think that was rude. Was it?