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- Question: How can I get my ghost friend to move on?
- Question: One of my close friends is turning into a man?
- Question: Does anyone have any tips to ignore internet haters?
- Question: Could my teacher get into big trouble for this?
- Question: Am I too emotional?
- Question: Why is my best friend mad at me?
- Question: Does this mean anything?
- Question: What mean * after text ok?
- Question: Sleeping naked at a sleep over? - Guys?
- Question: How can I deal with never seeing someone again?
- Question: My friend is too much,and i don't know what to do with her?
- Question: Should I report this lady?
- Question: My plan to make friends? (10 points)?
- Question: Is he a good friend?
- Question: How to deal with bullies? I got bullied by some people around here?
- Question: HAVE YOU REGRET ABOUT SOMETHING YOU DID WHEN YOU WERE A TEENAGER?
- Question: My friends (who say are my friends)laugh at me just because i am smaller than them but they make me feel bad what should i do?? Pls help me!?
- Question: When you think your best friends with someone and then they totally change..why? What do i do? How do i react? Im crushed. Please advice!!!!?
- Question: Im almost 15 and havent had a bf?
- Question: How long does martinas live?
- Question: What's going on with my best friend?
- Question: Is it bad that I have no friends?
- Question: Am I using commas right?
- Question: How do is stop using the Miranda sings voice?
- Question: How can I cut someone off when my other friends are friends with that person?
- Question: How do I kick someone out of a lunch table?
- Question: I feel like my friend is bullying me?
- Question: Why does my friend tell me something at the last minute and should be blaming me for it?
- Question: How should I deal with this? is our friendship worth it?
- Question: I lost all of my friends in a matter of months?
- Question: My teacher doesnt like me anymore?
- Question: Who is prettier?
- Question: My friend is always mad at me for the Perrier reasons. BTW, we are 33 years old.?
- Question: Friend ignoring me and I feel like crap... Please help me?
- Question: Feel really bad :(?
- Question: When someone cries/stressed, does it confirm they know they're lying?
- Question: My friend always tries to correct me?
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| Question: How can I get my ghost friend to move on? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 05:12 PM PDT So I have this friend named Kyle. We were friends way back in high school (I'm in college now) but a few months ago I heard he was in a car accident. I had finals then so I can't go. Anyway just a week ago somebody knocked on my dorm and IT WAS KYLE. As a ghost. He's like, floating and sh*t. I'm not really afraid of ghosts so I'm like "yeah whatever" and invited him to play Mario Kart with my roomate Ged. At first he's like, freaked out but now he's pretty cool. Don't ask me how can Kyle touch the controller or anything else because he doesn't know either. I ask him why he's not in peace now. kyle can't remember everything: one minute he's driving, next thing he knew he's a ghost. Anyway it's actually been fun with kyle. He'll go to our test invisible then yells the correct answers (no one can hear him but us.) Kyle also helped me get laid with this girl by peeking through her stuff and finding out what she likes. He watched us while we're going at it though, so it's pretty awkward. Actually he kept pranking Ged and I. None of us can shower or j*** off in peace because of Kyle. I don't know... I think Kyle's getting too close with us. I mean he's dead right? He should be chilling in the afterlife. Ans what would his parents say once they knew Kyle's still out there? I don't know. Do you think it's the right decision to get Kyle to leave? if so, how do i get a ghost to move on? |
| Question: One of my close friends is turning into a man? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 04:51 PM PDT she had a beautiful family, now they're getting a divorce....now our memories will be so different. I feel really hurt. still gonna love her as my friend but it still hurts.... |
| Question: Does anyone have any tips to ignore internet haters? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 04:47 PM PDT On social media and on the internet haters are letting me down and offending me. Do you have any tips on how to ignore them? |
| Question: Could my teacher get into big trouble for this? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 04:36 PM PDT On tuesday me and my friend's support teacher was off site and well me and her don't do p.e we ussually sit in her room and study etc. Anyways we decised to go into the libary as we couldn't go to the support teachers room, So we was just sitting when the libarian told us we had to get a note from the p.e teacher to say we could stay out of the lesson, so me and my friend didn't wanna argue with the libarian because she would kick us out. So we couldn't find the p.e teacher so we was just walking around, until we walked into our ict teacher and he was asking us why we were walking around so we told him about the situation so he started ranting about us and saying we should be doing p.e and then he made a really rude comment towards us he said "But the outdoors is probably emo hell for you two" then he walked off laughing, he basically called me and my friend an "emo" me and my friend just looked at each other. If you don't know what emo means the steriotypical meaning of it is someone who wears dark clothing, self harms, is emotional and listens to metal and wears dark makeup. Now my friend isn't anything like that but me on the otherhand, i like to wear thick eye liner and i do follow alternative styles, but what makes me mad is thats not the only time he commented on somthing like that, he basically said i self harmed once which i don't and i haven't. Anyways after school i told my parents about this and they told me to tell my support teacher. Could he get in trouble? I sound very immature but i really don't think its right that a teacher should be refering to his students as "emos". |
| Posted: 11 Jun 2015 04:34 PM PDT During one of my classes,our teacher brought up a topic,with which I seemed to disagree. He asked me to prove what I was saying and convince him,so the next day I brought different articles on the topic,which is a very controversial one. Let's say that I was winning the argument and my teacher asked my bestfriend what she thought about it,she said that she couldn't give her opinion because she hadn't read about the topic,he asked her again,she didn't give her opinion even though she made a point against my arguments(which wasn't even a valid point) When we were going home,she said to me that I was right and shouldn't be upset( she complimented me for standing up for my beliefs). She said that because of lack of information she couldn't support me,even though she admitted to completely agree with what I said. Now,I feel like she is playing with me. When our teacher asked her about it,she just kept her mouth shout,she refused to give an opinion( but gave one against mine,which really didn't make sense anyway). I don't know,probably it's me,but I feel like she kind of betrayed me. I would have stood up for her,at least I would have said something,but she did nothing. What do you think? Am I exagerating? Thank you so much! offend the teacher? No,I got booed by my entire class,and my teacher supported me because he liked my arguments(it was about history) considering that my classmates don't know anything about history and just offended me,without knowing anything. I was talking and she did nothing. After the class, it was only me,her and my teacher. He asked her opinion,she did nothing(no pressure now). We were only 3,and my teacher didn't get offended,he even complimented me. |
| Question: Why is my best friend mad at me? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 04:29 PM PDT So we hooked up last weekend while we were drunk and ever since school started everything has been going downhill. She stops responding to my messages, or responds like 3-4 hours later, when before she used to answer back really really quickly, and initiate the conversations all the time. Yesterday I asked her if anything was wrong and she said "No not at all. Whats wrong?" I just said I was fine and asking if she was. I don't understand. She is just ignoring me and I"m so depressed I don't know what to do. She's one of my really close friends and I can't lose her. I'm so upset because I know she won't even talk to me as much as she used to because of the way she's been answering the past week. Please help me! It's awkward because we're both girls. She went along with the make out, so I don't get her behavior?! Please please help me. I can't take this any longer or else I'm just going to give up. |
| Question: Does this mean anything? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 04:27 PM PDT Yesterday I got really upset due to receiving some information about my grandad and I started crying. My friend comforted me and went out of her way to wipe away my tears and said "wiping away a tear is a good sign of friendship" is this true? I've never really had anyone other than family do that. Does this mean she actually cares about how I'm feeling? No unhelpful answers please(: |
| Question: What mean * after text ok? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 04:26 PM PDT |
| Question: Sleeping naked at a sleep over? - Guys? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 04:11 PM PDT Soo i'm 13 years old and so is my other guy friend. We've been friends since Kindergarten and we've never really seen each other naked. I like to moon people just for fun so he's seen my butt a couple times but not much. I sleep naked now and he's coming to sleep over, should I sleep naked? We'll be in spereate beds. We are also both straight. |
| Question: How can I deal with never seeing someone again? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 04:03 PM PDT My school year is ending, and I'm leaving my favorite teacher. It makes me so sad, and I couldn't stop crying. I know it sounds stupid, but we had such a good relationship. Yes, maybe I'll see him once or twice, but I'm still upset. Next year will be hard not going into his class. |
| Question: My friend is too much,and i don't know what to do with her? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 04:01 PM PDT My friend is too much.She always insults me (and my another friend), "playfully" hits me (but it hurts),and teases me (in mean way) and brings down my self confidence,saying that im fat and other,the worst thing is that she takes it like a joke.Its been some years since she started it,and i thought that she would stop eventually,but she just won't.We're currently not talking bcus she insulted me really hard.She sent me a text saying that she's sorry,but i don't think i can forgive her....What should i do?? |
| Question: Should I report this lady? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 03:59 PM PDT I know this lady at church and we talk to each other a lot. She is like 30 something and I'm 16. We are pretty cool with each other, like we talk at church and on Facebook. She has a daughter that is like 6 years old. Well everything is going good until this one night. She messages me on Facebook and we just start chatting like usual, until she says something weird to me, "Hey sweetie, you know my daughter Emma (not her real name) right?" I said "yeah of course, you take her to church all the time." I mean this isn't just weird that she asked me that but after a while she starts talking about how much she has grown and stuff like that and she starts sending me picture and videos of her. She sent we some videos of her potty traing and her changing her diaper when she was like 4. She also sent me some pictures of her changing in a clothes store in a fitting room. I watched them innocently not thinking about anything wrong, but she kept doing this until I said "Uh cool videos but why are you sending them to me?" She said "I thought you would like them." After she said that I didn't even reply, I was shocked and I started thinking, "what does she think? I like her?" I haven't talked to her since then. What should I do? Report her? Aren't those videos she sent me like a form of child pornagraphy? Please any advice will help. |
| Question: My plan to make friends? (10 points)? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 03:50 PM PDT I'm going into high school next year and I want a lot of friends. I have a plan to make them though. -Be outgoing -Be talkative -Be myself -Talk to everyone -Intoduce myself to a lot of people -Be nice -Join clubs Is this a good plan? |
| Question: Is he a good friend? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 03:47 PM PDT I don't know really if best friend is a good friend. I mean he has helped me with money for so long and has helped me with so much. but he sometimes ditches me and doesn't answer when i call him and he's with other friends and doesn't bring me with him. and sometimes he's saying that i'm immature and complains that i don't act like other people and that i'm not normal. he sais i'm stupid and do stupid things. but why is he with me if he thinks such things about me? |
| Question: How to deal with bullies? I got bullied by some people around here? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 03:42 PM PDT |
| Question: HAVE YOU REGRET ABOUT SOMETHING YOU DID WHEN YOU WERE A TEENAGER? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 03:41 PM PDT That includes smoke weed at school, hang out with the wrong group, have sex before legal age, got thrown out of your parents house. Etc. |
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| Posted: 11 Jun 2015 03:27 PM PDT Honestly myself has changed such as how happy i used to be cuz it bothers me so much.. My best friend rarely seems to care or even if she does its like she gets annoyed by me or we are more like aqquaintances.. So i get things change as do people but what happened here? Last year we were inseperable she would always text me, wish me good luck texts even before my game or text me after saying "heard you won congrats😘" we would always hang out, have so much fun, be laughing and smiling, this year is so different. She doesnt text me anymore..it always me and sometimes i dont because it takes her long times to reply and sometimes she says im sorry for not texting as much ive been busy like thats ok! I understand we get busy! So do i, we both do sports and stuff.. I tried making new friends and i have a lot but she is someone im kind of caught on.. Cuz idk what changed. She got closer with this girl who likes to party and drink and smoke a lot amd my best friend is starting to do that more and i dont do that.. Its her life she can do what she wants but sometimes a few days shell be perfectly fine not exactly the way it used to be but shell say hi to me and start a conversation other days she stare at me and walk right by me.. I always say hi and compliment her cuz i love her so much and care about her and what to talk to her, but sometimes when i feel i get nothing back it realy upsets me.. Idk what to do or how to cope with this. |
| Question: Im almost 15 and havent had a bf? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 03:18 PM PDT Im gonna be a freshman in highschool and ive never dated a guy except for when i was like 11(it was really stupid)... Im 5'2 125lbs light brown hair brown eyes pale-medium skin im not fat just curvy. Ive been asked out a lot but every time i say no... Part of me wants a bf really bad and the other part is too scared to date. I dont know what to do anymore :'( |
| Question: How long does martinas live? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 03:15 PM PDT I need to find out the life expectancy of a martina |
| Question: What's going on with my best friend? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 03:15 PM PDT Okay it's a really long story, but I became really sick in late January and it's still going on. So I was out of school for a very long time in the hospital and my best friend never really talked to me after that. She made new friends and started avoiding me and not talking or laughing at my jokes. Then she got a boyfriend and started to hang out with the sketchy kids. Meanwhile, I was back at school, in a wheelchair and I couldn't push myself (personal reasons) so she pushed me. It was okay at first, but then it got super awkward and she was trying to be preppy and she started making fun of me for not being preppy. I went to my parents, guidance counselor, everyone I could to try and get advice, but they all said to forget her.. We became 'friends' again yesterday, but then she went back to being obsessed with all of these other people and ignoring me, what do I do? I've also talked to her about it loads of times |
| Question: Is it bad that I have no friends? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 03:08 PM PDT I am 19 year old girl and I have no friends. I go to a community college and it's super hard to make friends at my school. Since I have no friends, I can't go out every weekend with them. When I was in high school, I had a lot of friends and now since I'm in college, I don't have anyone to hang out with and I get really bored. Is it bad that I don't have any friends at my age? |
| Question: Am I using commas right? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 02:53 PM PDT my friends say, u use commas wrong but i know i am, using them right! should i say jeez i went to school im in 1st grade lol! some ppl are so weird! anywayz just answer me plz |
| Question: How do is stop using the Miranda sings voice? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 02:47 PM PDT I literally can't stop, it's really fun and I do it well but my friends are really annoyed with me. What shud I do??? |
| Question: How can I cut someone off when my other friends are friends with that person? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 02:45 PM PDT So pretty much I have a group of friends that I've made this past year and last year. We call our friend group "The Crew" and there is 6 people in it. Me, my twin brother, the one who is getting annoying Ben, my friend Peter, my friend Nick, and my friend Jack. We also have a Crew group chat. Me and my brother have been friends with Nick since kindergarten and he lives a few houses down. Nick has been friends with Jack since around the same time as well. Jack and Nick became friends with Ben and Peter around 2nd-4th grade but Jack has always been closer with those two then Nick has. However, these past 2 years me/my twin bro have become good/best friends with Peter/Jack and still with Nick. We were good friends with Ben at first but the past 6 months we have got in numerous fights with him usually starting from him and almost each time its me/bro/Peter vs him and then Jack stays neutral. Nick is never really involved. Me, my bro, and Peter have all talked about how annoying Ben has been since he always is super ignorant, a smart ***, talks down to us, and thinks he is better than us. It also seems like he is always trying to start a fight/argument. He was a really cool friend at first but this past year he has totally changed! My question is how should we go about not being friends with him anymore? Should I tell my other friends not 2 invite me if they plan on inviting Ben? Also how should I go about getting out of the group chat / what excuse should I use 2 leave. |
| Question: How do I kick someone out of a lunch table? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 02:45 PM PDT Ok.... So I am considered one of the nice and shy girls at school and I try to be kind to people.... I have friends who are smart, funny, and nice, but at the beginning of the year 2 really mean girls started sitting in the middle of the lunch table I sit at with my friends. Anyways, these girls gossip and talk trash, but they have absolutely no friends. Basically everyone hates them but they think that they are popular. Unfortunately, they think my friends are their friends even though they bully and harass us. They start shouting new kids names and making fun of them. They are really rude and once I baked cupcakes for my close friends. They got mad and told me it was rude that I dint bring them a cupcake. I didn't even think about them when baking, cuz they aren't my friends, so I just said I forgot and apologized. They started whispering about me and saying I was a bad friend. Then, they asked me if I could buy them each a pice of pie from the cafeteria with my money. I said no, sorry. They are now throwing an end of the year party and invited everyone at my table but me (of course no one is going). Also, they steal my books and once they read an invitation to a party that my best friend gave me at lunch. It was supposed to be a secret so none of my friends felt bad, but they read it to the whole table. I asked them to stop, and they asked a teacher to write me a detention. The teacher said no and wrote them a detention, so (: How can we kick them out?????? |
| Question: I feel like my friend is bullying me? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 02:43 PM PDT So my friend just said to me "Somethin came in the mail today" and I expected her to say "Deez nuts" so I'm like "What came in the mail?" but instead she said "Ish me plani ish ish fancy mi plani wacks a choad oooohhh ohhhh oh doug oh doug oh doug" and I politely asked her "Why would you say that? I thought we were better friends than this." But she continued her previous statement and said "Mi owaaah nay mi rue whack the cho whack the cho ish ish. Cheezy chazley! Oooh ooh ah ah! Fancy fancy mi plani ISH ISH ISH ISH" How do I get her to stop? I really don't think she means what she's saying but we've been A1 since Day 1 so this is really weird! |
| Question: Why does my friend tell me something at the last minute and should be blaming me for it? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 02:36 PM PDT Ok so my friend is mad at me right now, because I got pissed at him for telling **** at the last minute. What happen was that I told him that I would call him at 9:00 o'clock right, So when it was finally 9 o'clock I called him and no damn answer and this happen 5 times now. Keep in mind that my friend is smart but at the same time he's not so very bright, and then at work I ask him " why didn't you Call me back" and he said " because I was at downtown and at the movie theater" I'm like " Sure you pick now to god damn tell at the last minute" and now he's blaming me because I was angry at him about and he want me to apologize but he won't apologize to me and I think that's bullshit. And after that I was being nice to him and he just blow me off. I forgot to mention that this was in 9:00pm |
| Question: How should I deal with this? is our friendship worth it? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 02:35 PM PDT My friend is constantly posting statuses such as "I have no friends" "i wish i had friends" or "Nobody ever has my back, I can't ask anyone for anything but can only give" and I've been a great friend to her so it does bother me especially when she doesn't take it into consideration when I mention it being a problem before. |
| Question: I lost all of my friends in a matter of months? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 02:29 PM PDT I have lost all of my friends. There are three that don't even really try to get into contact with me. They never invite me anywhere. I know they are hanging out a lot but I never get invited. The other one treats me like **** and I'm sick of it. What can I do? |
| Question: My teacher doesnt like me anymore? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 02:22 PM PDT there is this language teacher i have at the uni that i used to be really getting along with, probably the closest relationship i have ever had with a teacher was with him. we have always been joking with each other and i do like his company, i mean come on, who doesn't like to be with friendly people? last month we went on a trip (we were around 100 students in total to go there) and had a great time, he was almost always around us, since yeah, it could be said that everyone loves him. anyway, the trip went great but afterwards this friendly attitude almost faded away, i have no idea why. he is just not prone to having a closer contact anymore and i can't understand why. if someone has had any doubt while reading is - it is only a friendly orientated relationship we had and there is nothing romantic here. I am 20 and he is around 43, so yeah, it is more than obvious why :) I know i can't have him as a friend in the way i have some of my classmates, but i genuinely like him as a person, so that's why i care. tomorrow is my last class with him since we finished the year, so yeah, i decided to write this down here anonymously since in person many would have taken it in the wrong way and not get the gist of my so called problem... thank you. |
| Posted: 11 Jun 2015 02:17 PM PDT Girl 1: https://instagram.com/p/vpI5hZL_8e/?taken-by=cas_loves_me Girl 2: https://instagram.com/p/n7sB1RpUgq/?taken-by=bro4573 |
| Question: My friend is always mad at me for the Perrier reasons. BTW, we are 33 years old.? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 02:14 PM PDT She's been acting like this for the past 14 years of our friendship. I was told by other people that she has diabetes really bad, which she has confirmed, and this maybe contributing to her emotional state. Here are a few reasons why she'll get mad at me. #1, didn't call her back #2, went on a vacation with another friend #3, didn't come visit her #4, I did something like didn't call her to make plans on her birthday. ..The list goes on and on. She's mad at me like every month. Should I stick with the friendship or let it go. I've known her since I was in K grade that's the only reason we're still friends. |
| Question: Friend ignoring me and I feel like crap... Please help me? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 02:07 PM PDT so I had this friend, let's call her e. I've been friends with her since March, so we've been friends for some time. We were best friends. But nowadays I have no idea what's going on. On Tuesday, she kept shrugging when I said anything. So I thought she was in one of her moods because she told me guys were putting her under stress. We trusted each other with everything and now she won't even talk to me. But anyway on Wednesday, we work in the same table for a project with 2 mutual friends and her. She actually EXCLUDED me from this group. There were only 3 people allowed, and she wouldn't let me join. So E started a conversation about a show we used to like. We started talking, and E started talking to me too. So I thought it would be ok. We had an awards ceremony that night. Everything was normal. We took pics together and all that. Then today, E went back to the same mood she was in on Tuesday, ignoring EVERYTHING I said. I feel so low. For a while, E was like a piece of me. Now I don't have that piece, and I don't think ANYONE can ever replace E. and the worst part is, E talks to basically everyone she usually talks to except me. So I know E's not in her "mood." And worst of all, I have NO IDEA what I did. To make things even more confusing, a mutual friend asked e if she was mad at me. She said no. THEN WHY IS SHE IGNORING ME? I texted her asking why. She read it but no reply. I'm constantly crying and I have never felt so sad before. I want to crawl in a hole and die! |
| Posted: 11 Jun 2015 01:43 PM PDT So saturday I went to my friends house. We were walking around our town, and I heard a kitten meow. I told my friend to listen and she heard it too. I found it and we didn't pick it up incase its mom was around. We decided it was best to look for the mom first, so we did, and she was nowhere to be seen. We went ahead and picked it up, and it was horribly amaciated. Basically just skin and bones. We sat at a bench and I called my friends mom, and told her the situation. We had totally forgot her dad is deadly allergic to cats, so her mom said there was truley nothing we could do. (Her mom was also babysitting someone else's kids) so we went to the post office (weird, ik, we were desperate at that point) and the girl kinda felt around the kitten and said "she's too far gone. I'd take her with me but she won't make it. I'd just put her backs here you found her. Sorry girls" so we thanked her and called her mom again, and said we were gonna take it to the cop (the whole town knows him very well, and he is related) and she said he would just put it out of its misery. We went to the little station, and he wasn't there. We finally decided to put it back where we found it. My friend was carrying it keeping it warm, and halfway back to where we were putting it, she freaked out and said "I can't do it I just can't" so I took the kitten, and put it back. I covered it in leaves and pine needles to keep it warm, but at that point I had started to cry.. Did we do the right thing? |
| Question: When someone cries/stressed, does it confirm they know they're lying? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 01:41 PM PDT To you, personally. In a certain ex) a sitter was caught doing something wrong on video (home security). She called the house owner and lied about HOW exactly this mishap happened. She received a call back later, the home owner called her a liar since watching the video. When that was done with, the sitter quickly called her agency to tell them that the home owner might call and talk about what happened, and would claim she lied (despite being caught on camera, idk, her logic). Point is, she started to weep mid sentence. One friend of mine says she cried because she knew she was lying, and that added stress, and therefore they should see it as a lie. I've also heard such notions on detective shows ie you did something wrong = you're gonna feel bad about it (but that's tv); Another friend said no, she was crying because here she is accused of lying and she wasn't a liar. Or you could say she's a middle aged woman who was highly emotional at the time, who knows. Point is, what do you think in general? If someone says they are telling the truth -but they are crying, shaking, stressed, other signs of emotional distress, would that even matter to you? Would you notice? Care? Believe them? Not believe them? |
| Question: My friend always tries to correct me? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 01:36 PM PDT I'm in a language class in school and my friend (shes my bestie and i love her so much) is always my partner in that class. Today (and other days before) she started trying to prove me wrong everywhere. Once she said: "Nope thats wrong" and I said: "Um, no?" and she said "Oh yeah, sorry thought it was wrong" and then she already finished her worksheet bc she writes really fast and I hadnt finished and she was asking me when I'd be finish as if I was stupid or something. I knew damn well how to do that worksheet but she just had to try and make me feel stupid or inferior almost. She won an award for being best at science in the freshman class but even before then she'd brag about how smart she is. I KNOW she's smart, but so am I!!! And I'm athletic as well, and she isnt. I dont know why she always does this thing where she tries to make me seem like I dont know what I'm doing, but what should I do about her? I love her outside of school because she doesnt constantly correct me on educational things but in school she drives me a little crazy in the class we share. |
| Question: So there this girl who I all my good friend, but she thinks we re best friends? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 01:25 PM PDT So she calls me her best friend and thinks we are best friends, but I don t want to be her best friend and I don t think of her as a best friend. We have sleepovers and play around at church sometimes, but I don t want to be her best friend. So is she my best friend? Would that be saying that she s my best friend? |
| Question: Friend makes mum jokes? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 01:24 PM PDT My friend always makes jokes about my mum a lot are sexual and I really hate it when he does as he doesn't do it to any of my other friends just me and I say to him why do you just make jokes about my mum and he says he doesn't when he does and when I come back with a insult he will then come back with one and I think of a really good one but I feel to harsh saying it so I be the better man and just leave it and some of my friends will be on his side and make comments towards me but not to him. For example my friend said ' I changed my password to Andrews dick but it said it was to short so I changed it to Andrews mum but it was already In use' and I come back with a insult and my other friend says to me I see you find these jokes online. But when I comfort them about it they make fun of me and say I take things to seriously and it really hurts my feelings to know my friends are doing This and no i can't make new friends |
| Question: How do I make friends? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 01:20 PM PDT Ok, so I'm REALLY weird, and just plain nuts. I used to have tons of friends, but 1 is being homeschooled now, 1 called me an idiot and said they have better friends who aren't idiots, 1 just started hanging out with other people, and 1 hates me for "who knows what". Now I have only 2 friends. 1 boy, and 1 girl.(I'm a girl). The girls name is Kenndal, but she will turn on you faster than you can say Mississippi. The boy, Mark, is a great friend. (Mostly because he's CRAZY too!XD). Anyways, I'm about to start middle school, and I don't want to be the only kid with 1 good friend. Please help me. |
| Question: Suicidal friend. Help!? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 01:19 PM PDT So recently a friend of mine came back to school after spending a month in the hospital because she tried to kill herself. So I don't know what to do because I don't know how to help or act around her and we can't hang out because she's not allowed to go over to peoples houses. I don't know what to do I'm really scared for her. Help! |
| Posted: 11 Jun 2015 01:15 PM PDT Hey guys, My name is James, I was born in the UK though my parents are from India. The problem is that my parents think I am a loser (Lmao), and this is mainly due to my actions lately. So they decided to set me up or get me married to my first cousin (From my moms side) who lives in India. And I for some reasons find it completely disgusting ! As I said earlier, they think of me as a lose and this is mainly me acting like one maybe. I was involved in a car accident 6 years ago where I had severe injuries to my face. I happened to break my nose and was operated twice. They fixed the nose but it was never the same. Lately I have been experiencing what most do, losing hair as we age. And being very self conscious, I locked my self in. I hardly go outside to meet or talk to someone that I like. I used to be so social and also very popular back in college. Over the years I have lost contact with everyone and have no friends now. I am dealing with this everyday and I feel kind of upset because I know it in my heart, that i will meet someone someday but setting me up with my cousin is defo! not the answer to this problem. Think of all the genetic defect problems etc. She seems to be having things done her way but has forgotten that this is UK and she will only get my dead body to India if she ever thinks about it. I have changed a lot, being self aware of my looks all the time, has lost me loads of friends, as i never do anything, barely go out. And i don't know what to do ? |
| Question: Is he a good friend? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 01:06 PM PDT I don't know really if best friend is a good friend. I mean he has helped me with money for so long and has helped me with so much. but he sometimes ditches me and doesn't answer when i call him and he's with other friends and doesn't bring me with him. and sometimes he's saying that i'm immature and complains that i don't act like other people and that i'm not normal. he sais i'm stupid and do stupid things. but why is he with me if he thinks such things about me? |
| Posted: 11 Jun 2015 01:04 PM PDT What do u think makes a true friend and how to make one? |
| Question: Should a platonic friendship end for the greater good? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 01:01 PM PDT My friend Lori is my truest friend. Ever since 3rd grade we've hung out and really get along. My best friend is the only one I really feel comfortable confiding with and who takes me seriously. Everyone else is just...a douche. I'm the same thing for Lori. Her parents on the other hand could care less. We're 15 and they don't want their daughter hanging out with boys and getting hurt. They just don't trust teenage guys, and that includes me! Lori's parents told me to leave one day and have barred me from coming over anymore. We still hang out alone, but Lori is afraid her parents will find out soon. I see Lori crying because she doesn't want our friendship to die. IDK what to do. Lori is my best friend and I would never hurt her. Are her parents right though? What can we do? |
| Question: I want my best friend back but she hates me? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 01:01 PM PDT Let's just call my ex best friend: Rachel and the other girl: Taylor Well, me and my best friend are like enimies now and she really doesn't want to be friends again because "it is hard fighting with your best friend everyday and I don't want to try anymore" well, i had just moved schools last year Taylor and Rachel were friends since like grade three and when I got there me and Rachel started getting close and her and Taylor started drifting farther apart, her and Taylor got into a fight and like weren't really best friends anymore and I was Rachel's best friend, Taylor was/is like my enimie and at that point Rachel didn't like her either we were the best of friends when we got into a little argument (which we rarely did) we would make up in less than an hour we didn everything together, I know her family really well and she knows mine and we would hang out all the time, when like March and stuff hit this year she became friends with Taylor again and we started drifting apart, I told her how she was replacing me and how much it hurt because she stopped doing everything with me and was doing everything with Taylor we fought then made up fought then made up fought and we both said the friendship needed a break (Taylor was my friend at the time) and 2 weeks into the break Taylor told me that Rachel told her that our break was going to last forever and fought and now we hate eachother, we see eachother every day and she is 100% over me, has a new bestfriend and I want her back |
| Question: How to make true friends? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 12:58 PM PDT Like someone who always wants to be with you only and text you a lot |
| Posted: 11 Jun 2015 12:54 PM PDT I'm just wondering if im a shitty friend or not for dropping friends to work on myself..I'm at a rly confusing point in my life and idk who I am anymore, so I want to take the time to figure that out...I don't want to have to explain myself, do I have too? All I want to do is figure out what I like, and don't like..I don't want to conform, I want to educate myself, and be self aware, be my own best friend before anyone else..I hope this makes sense, I feel rly guilty..am I being shitty or is this understandable |
| Question: What would you do In this situation? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 12:51 PM PDT Every single time I go to my friends house, his little sister calls me pimple face guy (I have a little acne) everytime I go to hockey games with my friend, she is there and says stuff like, "no offense, but you have acne." It makes me feel so bad, but I don't wanna have to not hang out with my friend anymore. His sister is so mean to me and always calls me stuff like that, (they both have perfect complexions) I always get a red face and feel like I want to punch her (of course j never would, I can control myself) but what am I suppose to say? Of course I can just ignore it and not let it get to me, but what do I say to her when she insults me? This is keeping me from going over to my friends house. Yes I'm obviously self concious. |
| Question: Should I not be her Bff anymore? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 12:47 PM PDT Me and my bff known eachother for a year now, and I ask her if she is my best friend and she said ya "a friend" so I said I know u and ur number 1 bff are very close and it hurts because she said only certain people are her bff and I so are u my bff and she said yeah "just a friend" and she said her boyfriend is her best friend and it hurts because she picks her boyfriend as a bestfriend instead of me, I thought that was mean and rude, I understand she loves her boyfriend but I always thought bestfriend before boys and like I have second thoughts now, should I stop being her friend? (Btw she said I was her 2nd Bff) and now it's different. What should I do? |
| Question: How to look skinnier? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 12:43 PM PDT This is actually 2 questions in one. Tomorrow I have a beach party with my whole grade, almost all of them are very skinny (some even look anorexic but aren't) meanwhile my legs are HUGE. I'm not very proud of it... I'm wearing a tankini anyway how do I make my legs look skinny. The 2nd part of my question is there are some bratty girls there who exclude my friends from literally everything. How do I let that not bother me? I would appreciate it if you answered both thank you! |
| Posted: 11 Jun 2015 12:41 PM PDT I am 29 and my close friend is 27 we have been friends for ten years. Last night she texted me saying that she is moving and is going to delete my number, facebook, everything because for the past few years she has been jealous of me and its running her life. She said it would be better for both of us if we didn't talk anymore and that she wishes me well. Ill admit, of course I have had my own problems but my life has ran pretty smooth, I never had a problem finding a boyfriend, I easily got into a career I love, got married last month, bought a new house, and am going on a month vacation to Europe next week. My friend hasn't had it easy she just gained 40 lbs in 2 months because of a thyroid problem, got robbed at gun point 3 months ago, shes been single for 5 years, is living with her mother because she lost her job working at a gas station and cant afford rent. I personally feel a little bit annoyed, I have never tried to rub my accomplishments in her face, its just my life and she should be supportive of me and my happiness and stop comparing her life to mine. My husband says I am being a little bit insensitive and that my friend has a lot of problems that I don't understand. Am I being insensitive? Or is my friend wrong for cutting me off? |
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| Question: Re add an old friend or not? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 12:37 PM PDT I was really good friends with a guy a few years ago and then after leaving school we talked less and less. Few months later it turns out he had deleted me on Facebook... Would it be okay to re add him 3 years later or should I assume he never wants to speak again? |
| Question: Feeling uncomfortable and nervous about social group? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 12:36 PM PDT I'm in this social group, and am at a point where I don't even want to go anymore. I've been in it for a few years, and really enjoyed it until recently. Lately there haven't been many people there, and it kind of has this uncomfortable vibe when no one shows up. There's this person who became one of the people who organizes the group, and I don't feel comfortable around them anymore. Talking to them in the past would be enjoyable, we'd talk about things going on in our lives, and have a descent back and forth. Now when I go to the group I'm one of the only people there, this person will talk to me, and it's uncomfortable. It's just not like it used to be, it feels like now they're just probing me for information. I feel like no matter what I say it's never good enough, I try to dodge around their questions, but they keep persisting. No matter what I say they behave with that attitude that I could and SHOULD be doing better. This person has a daughter who I've met a couple times, she seems to like me, and I think the reason they're hounding me with these questions might be because of that. But either way I wish they would stop, because it's really hindering my experience there. I can't just out and tell them how I'm feeling, and there's no real away to avoid them either. The only thing I can think of is try to avoid going when I know not many people are going to be there, and hope they won't bother me anymore. What should I do? |
| Posted: 11 Jun 2015 12:35 PM PDT Hello I am 16 years old and I feel like I am totally alone I have friends but they only really talk to me when they are bored ...I've never had a boyfriend or even a friend that is a boy everyday I feel more and more insecure about myself and I don't know what to do please help |
| Question: What should I do with this fake person? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 12:34 PM PDT I'm 14 years old and I'm in middle school getting ready to graduate, so today this girl was ignoring me and giving me shade, we talk and stuff, but today I saw her bc we was practicing our graduation ceremony & I saw her and I said she was pretty so she literally ignored me, so I was like maybe she didn't here me, so I tapped her & I called her name, so she turns around & literally say who's touching me and I literally said me, she literally rolled her eyes at me, I thought maybe she is not in the mood, but I said then again she is talking to other people other than me, so then I said, did u go prom, and I asked her 2 times, she said yes but in a way she sounded like she didn't want to talk to me, and I said no so she said nothing, I turned my back for a minute and I turned back to her when I had a small smile on my face and she literally rolled her eyes my whole smile dropped, tbh I was gonna say "What's ur problem?!" Because to me if u have a problem with me, I want that person to say it in my face, but I kept my composure and calm myself down, so when we sat down I offered her gum to test her, she said no, mind u she talks **** behind my back but we squashed it and became a associate but it's like b**ch if u have a problem say to my face, but she is not that kind of person, she acts like she's big and bad but she's not, and at lunch, she looks at me like she don't like me or she is jealous of me, Idek, but what should I do stop looking at her? (I don't want to talk to her) |
| Question: Good excuse to not stay over? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 12:24 PM PDT I was invited to stay over at my guy friends house along with another guy. I said yes, even though I hate sleepovers and I feel uncomfortable since they're both guys. We are going into town beforehand and I wouldn't mind doing that but I really don't want to stay over so I need a good excuse? My mum's already said yes, so I can't say that she won't allow me.. |
| Question: What would you think if you saw this as a persons background? Posted: 11 Jun 2015 12:23 PM PDT honestly what would your first thought be about the owner of the phone? Is the text too deep or something to have like that or is it okay? |
| Posted: 11 Jun 2015 12:13 PM PDT Please help its kind of important- Well tomorrow we need a partner in dance and I wont get one because theres an odd number. there will be lots of people so - friend A- friend who I talk to now friend B - same as A Friend C- just started talking to Friend D- wants me to talk to her Friend E- had a fall out ages ago Well friend A and B sometimes leave me out and A says she promises she will never leave me out again but she does. Anyway today in English library lesson A C and D were talking about I think and we needed to clap for someone so C said "she shouldn't clap because she doesn't talk" even though I talk to her, at lunch C and D were running away from me saying I need to wait for A but no one told me so I followed them but I went to sit down and they said those seats are for E and another friend so I pulled up a chair and they kept turning round and ignoring me. They are being horrible and upsetting me and A is meant to be my best friend. Tomorrow we have dance and need a partner there is an odd number and A will be with B or maybe C. She will say you will have to go with someone else even though there wont be anyone else. I really want to be best friends with E again but I cant, we were partners all the time and had a really good friendship. I really need a partner and need you to tell me what to do so please help I know they will all except E talk about me. D wants me talk to her I would if they start being nice to me so like I said please help straight away |
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