Why cant i accept the fact that i am in love with a cartoon? anyone remember avatar: the last airbender? last episode was 2007, I was about 9 then, now im 16. and remember that character ty-lee? well I saw a episode with my lil sis and I forgot about ty-lee, and her beauty. since then ive grown this enormous crush on ty-lee, ive looked up photos of her, I bought episodes just to see her, and I cant stop thinking about her, IK im not crazy but this has never happened. 1. is this **** normal? 2. has anyone went through this too? BTW im a guy, last time I posted this someones said it was female hormones and I was like "wtf" shes justso beautiful, her athleticism, her braided long hair, i could go on, and honestly i swear to god ive never felt this way for a girl like i feel for ty lee, IK shes not real and ill never kiss her, hug her, love her. yet i wont let go. and its been a year a 4 months!!!!! i started in janurary2013,shes just so beautiful, by the way, ive had a friend draw a huge picture of her, its in my binder. i even had a dream i kissed her and it felt real, and i had a dream i had a baby girl with her named ava and i just cant stop thinking aboout her, what u think, but i just am so in love with her. shes perfect, i know if she was real wed be happy

Okay so there is this boy and I've known him forever. I've been in most of his classes since kindergarten and we are pretty good friends. Ive likes him so many times in he pass and I think I may like him again. I know that he's liked me in the past because he's asked me out and asked me to dance with him at the 6th grade dance but I wanna know if he likes me again. I don't talk to him as much as I used to because I only have one class which is lunch, with him. He always makes fun of me but I just think that is the way he makes friends. At the beginning of the year he sat next to me at lunch and I liked it but I kinda told him to go to the other side because this other girl at my table likes him too and she really wanted him to sit next to her. They don't know I like him so obviously I had to act like I was fine with switching seats. Honestly I'm probably the meanest person to him because he is so gross. He spits everywhere and has no manners but for some reason I think I like him. Anyway he always stares at me but doesn't look away when I look at him and then we kinda fade into a staring contest and I think it's cute. He's a very touchy person so he's always trying to touch me but his hands are gross so I really push him away. Everyone says we would be a really cute couple and he says yeah ok but then says haha sike. I don't know why I like him but I do but I would never date him. So from this do you think he might like me.

I have this guy friend who im having trouble texting. He says he likes me too. We actually hung out yesterday and had a good time. Im having trouble texting him and like what to talk about. He told me himself he doesn't know what to talk about and that's why he leaves my message on read and then doesn't talk for hours or the next day. So.. I need to know how to text him first without falling under the annoying category, and I need to know things to talk about. We know each fairly well and I do like him and he says he feels the same. Thanks!!

I really don't understand this girl at all. I have been with this girl and the relationship is on and off. I have told her that I love her, and she told me she loves me and doesn't want to lose me. I know she sleeps with other men when we have broken up and she comes back to me. I met her like usual we go on our date and we have sex after. She is having problems with her roommate who is giving her hell. So I asked her in a few months I will be moving if she would like to move in with me and she said yes. At the end of the night she tells me that she is seeing this guy now. She said she likes him and is in a relationship with him. That leaves me confused when she left that night. A couple of days later we meet up and we have sex again. I'm thinking to myself after why are we meeting up and having sex if she is in a relationship with this guy? I don't know what's going on and I am definitely confused because there is no FWB here. If she is in a relationship why is she having sex with me, shouldn't she be having it with her boyfriend? Can someone really explain this one to me

ok this girl I dated for 6 months asked me to have a 3 some with her and another girl(and she was serious) and as soon as she asked me that I knew she was not the right girl and I ended the relationship on the spot. I want to find the right girl and fall in love with,not sleep around with her and her friends.

So on fb my bf's friend posted a status saying he missed him but then some girl commented saying she missed them both & my bf said it back to her & she told him to text him.& yesterday he liked 2 songs, the first one was a break up song & the second song was about cheating. he texted after a week of not talking saying he was thinking of me but then didn't even reply when I texted back & the day after he texted me & we had a short conversation before he stopped texting back & I freak out cause I think he's with the girl but idk. idk if I'm just overthinking or not, I know he's told me that hes been with a lot of girls before & he's never had a motive towards girls & that he chose me but I feel like I don't trust him because I have low self esteem & am very insecure about our me& our relationship. idk like I'm so confused cause I texted him the day after that & he replied 2 hours later & I never replied back cause I fell asleep but later that night he liked that same girl's pic on fb. & we didn't speak again for a week & during that week hisfriend posted a status about how he liked mixed girls & stuff & my bf liked it.& I textd him today& he said hey but when I texted him "how are you" he never texted back but he texted later that night saying he was sorry he couldn't text cause he was caught up with his niece & nephew and that missed me alot & he hasn't texted me so far in a week & i texted him to come over so i could confront him about all this but he never even showed up.

Me and my friend are 13 years old, we're both girls. Sometimes when we hang out she puts her feet on my lap, I think they're cute cuz she has long toes and keeps them pedicured. Anyways so here's what happened. We were sitting at the desk in my room working on a project, and I left for a few minutes to do some stuff. When I got back she was asleep in a funny way. Like she was asleep on the bed, but her feet were up on the desk (cuz it's right next to the bed). And she kicked her socks off in her sleep =P, cuz her socks were on the desk too. So I started working again, but I kept getting distracted cuz her feet were in my face, and her toes kept wiggling back and forth a lot, so I started playing around with them. For example, I pushed her toes back and forth and her toes would start wiggling by themselves, and then I would hold them still to make them stop lol. A few times I did that when a song was playing on TV, and her toes wiggled to the beat of the song =P. So then I played some songs on my phone and pushed her toes around to make them wiggle to the rhythm After a while, I think she started dreaming that she's dancing lol. Like sometimes her toes would wiggle to a rhythm by themselves, but without any music =P. And whenever I say "wiggle toes" a few times, her toes would start wiggling to a rhythm Anyways I was amused and liked playing with her feet, is this normal or is this considered weird? I don't think I'm a weirdo cuz I'm nice, social, and people like me.

Well the problem is we're no strangers to love she knows the rules and..well.. so do I .. A full commitment is what I'm thinking of because.. ya know.. she couldnt get this from any other guy and I ...just wanna tell her how i'm feeling I gotta make her understand that I'm never gonna give her up never gonna let her down never gonna run around and desert her never gonna make her cry never gonna say goodbye never gonna tell her a lie and hurt her....... WHAT DO?

I met this girl in 4th Grade and lets call her Jessica. I am now 17 years old, but i was probably 9 at the time, but we are both becoming seniors in highschool this next year. Well me and my friend Used to show off to her and try to impress her cus she was really cute. Long story short she left the school and I lost contact with her until a couple weeks ago when I found her instagram and got her number. After this point I found out she was just as cute and I would like to go out with her. The problem is she has a boyfriend who just graduated and hes with her. I have money and such to impress and have fun with her, and shes already agreed that I could take her flying in my airplane, but I can t tell if she likes me, or if anything could come out of this, because if it can, I d like it too. I d like to hear your guys opinions, and ofcourse I wouldn t kiss her or anything until after she broke up with him because cheating is wrong, but if i can fill in the gaps for what he doesnt give her, I think itd be worth a shot! Let me know, Thanks!

So, about 4 and a half hours ago I was texting my bf and asked him what he did. He said he just took a nap. I said "without me?" and he said "lol mhm" and I replied with "no fair lol" and that's the last I heard from him........ ??

I've started volunteering recently at this facility just in mid-May. Last Monday I noticed this guy who is a staff member. We made eye contact a few times that day. Yesterday I saw him again for the second time. We passed each other a few times. Then I was walking by and saw he was siting on the sofa talking to someone who lives in the facility. He stopped talking to her and asked me If he's seen me somewhere. I told him no I don't think so! He said that again a few times and asked if I knew this girl and I said no. Then he asked for my name and I asked for his. He said it was nice to meet me. He said maybe I've just seen you around here and asked how long I had been volunteering. He smiled often Our conversation ended there because I had to go help someone The third time today we said good morning to eachother as we passed and smiled at each other when we passed each other again

I graduated a few weeks ago, and me and my ex also broke up about a month ago. I live in a small town and I really don't have many places to meet new girls besides the gym, Walmart or my workplace. Haha I thought about using Facebook to meet new girls but unless you're really hot, it's seen as 'creepy' if a girl is cute on Facebook and you want to get to know her better. So I'm running out of options. Should I give Facebook a try? Haha any suggestions are appreciated, thanks!

I know I have a lot of excuses but I just want to get this off my chest once in a while. I'm 28, and growing up, my family was kinda poor. I worked after graduating high school and I had to go to school, work and help my family financially. My poor single mother who raised me and my sister didn't have the money to provide me with anything. So I started working, went to school but only attended part time. I helped my family until I was 24, 25 I probably contributed 30,000 to 40,000 or more. Because my family was poor and I had to work, I couldn't go out to have fun as much. I didn't have much friends, not much love life, I couldn't look for love feeling who is going to date an educated, poor guy. I didn't bother looking for love much. After I was 25 I didn't have to help my mother, I worked, spent moderately but I still felt incompetent and insecure because I didn't have a career, I didn't have anything that looks good on resume, still uneducated. I always wanted to start my own business but I lack the education, the skills, and the experience so I decided I should go back to school and get a 4 year degree So I still didn't party, I spent moderately and I saved up 15,000 until end of last year. I did go back and started last fall and since then I recieved 8 A's and 2 B's in 10 courses since my return. I hope to transfer to a 4 year university in a year. But I still have to make the money for my living because I'm living off of my savings. And because of all these priorities my mind is never at ease, I have to conserve money, work while going to school. I know it's a choice I've made and I should not complain but I do feel very very lonely. I'm not the type of person who enjoys booze and cigars. I try to dress up nicely, be groomed, exercise. I don't have the best body or a muscular body but I started working on it and I'm not fat. But I still feel unqualified to date someone. And It's very difficult for me to open up my heart to a woman. :'( And I still have a lot of work to do so I'm feeling very very lonely. I'm not the type of person who'll try to get every girl's number he comes across. Because I've lived a poor life I'm very selective on my crowds. I don't have problems with how other people live their lives but I have priorities and I feel very distant from other people.

Then i go somewhere and i have this stain on my clothes or in my hair or something. I tell him to stop but he wont listen. I love him and everything but sometimes its really embarrassing.

should i text my bf back now? i wanna see if he texts me back (not being clingy or needy either). i texted him in the last hour once and he texted me back, but i feel like he doesnt care about our relationship bc i try talking to him thru trxt and he doesnt respond for hours. makes me just want to give up on our relationship and not even try anymore. like if he wants me me then he wants me but if he doesnt he doesnt. he says and has told me before that he cares about me but i feel like his actions tell me something else. i feel hurt that i have to wait hours just to hear back from him and i try talking and fighting for our love and relationship but i cant do it alone and i feel like i really want to give up on us. i want to find mr. right and someone who will always want me around, not away and who will miss me while im gone and never ask me to leave but to stay with him. my bf and i are going on almost 3 years now and i love him but how do i know if he loves me still like i do to him? texting me back right away doesnt mean anything or does it? bc im sooo confused right now about things. help!

So I've been talking to this girl for 2 weeks. Id say she's perfect for me ...we were talking 24/7 And she really likes me . But for the past 2 days she's been taking hours to reply meanwhile she is just out partying. And I just moved to this new state so I don't know anyone yet. So yesterday she was taking hours to reply soo by night she said she was going out so I shut off my phone and went to sleep. Then in the morning she asked what happend to me and I told her then later on today she asked if I was talking to other people 😆 thennn the same thing happend again taking hours to reply which I don't care but for some reason I'm just getting pissed off.... And she's annoying me for whatever reason. Idk if it's cuz she's like a valley girl in college and her parents pay for everything and I'm the same age 20 and worked for eveything or it's her partying but expecting me to be there .... Should I just get rid of her lol...... Then she saids me a pic of her and this girl (friend ?) and said "my little bae" BUT GOD FOR BID I DID THAT

SO,i was walking to my car and he calls me and starts asking me about my brother(this was like the first time hes ever talked to me lmao i usually avoid him)he was smiling the whole time he was talking(i think thats what he always does idk tho)anyways as we were walking away, we both looked back at eachother and kept smiling does that mean something or just nothing lol

Based on my appearance can anyone suggest tips on how an ugly guy can POSSIBLY become OK looking(5-6/10). the reason im asking is because im dating a girl who is very attractive(like an 8) and i feel like she out of my league. my GF looks very similar to a celebrity Chloe moretz

My boyfriend CONSTANTLY wants to talk with me. We have been together for a little over 9 months, and everything is great except for the fact he always needs to be talking with me. He expects me to speak with him while I'm out and about with friends or family, or even while I'm showering. The rare occasion I do tell him I cannot talk with him because I will not be able to get to my phone or simply be too busy, he gets irritated. He even texts me while he is out with friends or in a MOVIE THEATRE. A couple nights ago I told him I will be gone a few hours and unable to chat, and he reluctantly accepted that. Well, plans changed on me and what was suppose to be only about two hours changed into double that, and he thought I lied to him about my plans because I was gone longer than I said I was suppose to be. What should I do? How do I place independence within our relationship? How do I tell him or at least discreetly make him less clingy?

So josies on his vacation far away and my friends coming around to talk it over there are so many things I wanna say, and also I like my girls a little bit older. :/ I wanna tell her that I just wanna use her love tonight... and that I don't wanna lose her love tonight... The problem is I aint got many friends left to talk to , and no ones around when Im in trouble... i would do anything for her :/ but.. .she has to stay the night but keep it undercover............. WHAT SHOULD I DO? ... I'm trying to stop my hands from shaking... and something in my minds not making sense.. its been a while since we were all alone.. and I can't hide the way i'm feeling....................................

I don't know what to do, My boyfriend of 3 years is going on a tour (Top Deck ) which is for ages 18-31 for 4weeks. We have not been the best past few months but still trying to work it out. I wasnt able to go with him on this tour because of work etc. Im happy for him that he is going for this amazing experience but same time kind of annoyed that I asked him to do this little over a year ago and he wasnt interested and now he is I'm not able to go.... Problem is that i don't trust the people on the tour surely a lot of the time they will be out clubbing in europe and How is everyone supposed to know he has a girlfriend back home? I just have no idea what he is going to be like and i keep thinking he wouldn't do that but if things aren't going that good with us atm i dont know what to expect. What do i do..... Even if something happened how am i meant to know he is going solo. Any ideas :C

My and my boyfriend have been dating for a fairly long time and just lately he said something that really got me thinking. At one point we were kissing and got a little sloppy and he wiped spit off my mouth and I laughed and said that I blamed him, to which he replied "Oh, I'm sorry how will you punish me?" We haven't really talked about any bondage or spanking and we probably will talk about it soon, but I wanted to know if there are any sexy ways I can punish him without literally and metaphorically bringing out the whip. In the end I ended up tickling him which resulted in a tickle war, but that didn't seem that sexy or what he was looking for. Does anyone have any ideas that could sort of ease us into something a tiny bit kinkier?

The guy that gave me an std wasn't really my boyfriend, but we had that boyfriend/girlfriend connection. In March we were having problems we were barely talking that whole month. He went out and had sex with another girl. I went to the doctor to find out why my body was being weird. I found out he gave me Gonorrhea. He apologized to me and he told me he really didn't know. I knew he didn't have this disease prior because we were been having sex. He admitted to me he did have sex with someone else. He wants us work on our relationship, and try to forget about it even though it will be hard. Do you guys think I should give it a try?

She is starting to brag all the time how all the guys want her, how good she looks, and other people are not? She is a beautiful girl but this is starting to sound disgusting. She's also in her late 20s.

I'm in my second year of college this girl just graduated high school and turns 18 tomorrow. I've been staying with her family for 2 months now and I'll be here until September. Part of an internship I'm from Colorado she lives in Virginia and they're my "host family" while I'm here. We've gotten really close in such a short time it's crazy I feel like we've been best friends for years. We joke with each other a lot and she's very mature and down to earth with the right amount of crazy and I love it. She's beautiful too. I'm working most of the day but she takes me to hang out with her friends some nights and I have a lot of fun with her. We went swimming the other night and she got cold and I had a blanket so I gave it to her and later I guess she noticed I was cold too so she tried to give it back and I said I was fine and she goes "we can share" and I asked how and she sat in my lap and put the blanket behind me and wrapped it around us. After awhile I didn't even realize I had my hand on her thigh but she never asked me to move it. after that we got closer and more "touchy" and when I flirt with her she seems to like it. The other day I was in my room and she texted me to see if I was home and asked me to come in her room and we ended up cuddling in her bed watching Netflix. I think her parents think something's going on because they don't want us home alone anymore. I want to get closer and maybe date her but I'm worried she either doesn't feel the same or the distance.

So, me and my friend go way back, to kindergarten actually. But she pisses me off so much nowadays... it's like she can't do anything unless I do it first. Ex. when I start watching a particular TV show, the next day she goes and does it. And then when I start listening to a particular music artist, she goes and does it. Or when I start exercising and working out. She goes and does it. Anyone that I make friends with, she'll go and start talking to them. It's like everything is a competition. She tries to befriend my friends or get a better body (i.e. working out), and generally just copy what I do all the time. And yeah you might think I'm immature for getting mad over someone copying me but it gets real old real fast. And when I develop a crush on a boy/one develops a crush on me, she'll start talking to them. And what she does is just force herself too hard. She tries to be cute and plays dumb as if it makes her cute to boys. This next reason might sound immature but it's one of my pet peeves lol. When someone on Snapchat doesn't reply to a Snap I sent them, I get bothered IF it was something that I expected a response for. And she's been doing that a lot because she thinks it makes her cool or something to have people that she doesn't reply to. And I really do love her to death; she's my best friend and we're close as heck. But I get irritated so easily. And I know that some of you will say that we're not best friends if these problems are here. But I also can't just drop our friendship. And if I say something I just know she'll get hurt and she already has security issues on her own. I do not want to push her down even further. But on the other hand I also can't just keep this in. She just tries so hard to be liked. I get that she wants to fit in just like everyone else in the world but she doesn't have to force herself so hard. She even did it to the point where a guy I liked started liking her. And it's sad because I know it's due to her plasticity. I know I will say something to her at one point but I'm not exactly sure what to say.

So there s this girl I met in college and she s really amazing. We became close friends and we talked a lot in class. I really like her and I want to be more than friends though. Since its the summer I can t really see her so I was wondering how often should I text her. I want to text her a lot but I don t want to come off as too needy or like I have nothing to do. Any suggestions?

There's this girl I like. Things happened and I found out she wants to be just friends. But she has been doing things that seem like the total contrary. For example, we text everyday. But the other day, I had my phone taken away for the whole day. The next day when I told her I'd gotten it back, she said that that was good. I replied saying it sure was. Then she asked me if having my phone back now was good. I said it really was and she said she was sure it was. Also, earlier that day she'd been looking at me a lot during Church. We even made eye contact a few times. So I was left confused whether she was flirting or something. Also, the week after that, her mom called us while we were talking so we could help carry some stuff. We went over to her car and the girl stood next to me, allowing her arm to touch mine. She didn't move it away. She also calls me weird sometimes when we joke around and even says she hates me playfully sometimes. What do you guys think. Might she like me?

I'm in grade 10

I'm 13 and am in 7th grade and I wear size 38b and it's I guess big but a lot of boys have asked me out and I said no bc I knew it was only bc of my boobs but now I actually want that please don't call me a slut or say I'm too young if your not here to give me an answer please leave but how can I get boys to look at my boobs or touch them ??! Please help asap

Hi, my schools last day of school is the 26th, we are off school this coming week for regents week. (It's testing NY people take in high school) I want to ask my crush of two years if he wants to go bowling or see Jurassic park movie or something else this week. I have started talking to him more and more everyday but I have become better friends with his friends rather than him. When I walk him him on Monday how do I ask him. Should I tell him me and my friends are gonna go and ask if he wants to come and say a specific day, ask him if he's busy during the week and say we don't have a set date. I think it would be fun to go bowling and I'll take suggestions for other things to ask him but I don't know what to say I'm shy but I like him and I think he may possibly like me he talked to his friend about me i don't know what he said though. I got good answers last time I asked this but the more the merrier thank you and any other ideas for things to do would be great

He and I got divorced nine years ago, so it has been a while. We have an 11 year old daughter together, and I have had sole custody since she was 2. We've both dated since we split up, and have been open about it. I am currently single, but starting to get close to one guy. All of a sudden, the ex is absolutely freaking out over the prospect of me dating. He's stopped just short of threatening to sue for custody of our daughter if I start seeing someone. (The things he's said leave little doubt.) I can't figure out if it's the prospect of me dating in general, or if it's about this particular guy. If it's dating in general, that's ridiculous. I never even introduce my daughter to men I'm dating unless we've been seeing each other for several months, so she hasn't been dragged through the musical BF routine. My ex, meanwhile, has lived with six different women since we split. If it's this guy in particular, that doesn't make much more sense. He's very nice, stable, owns a successful business, doesn't drink, smoke, or use drugs. The ex knows him as well, so he already knows all of this (but they are far from friends and keep different social circles). Thoughts? Am I wrong for thinking this is complete BS? I didn't choose this category, Y!A did, but I'll leave it here to see what people here think.

This ***** lives in Lake County, he gets a hair cut every 2 weeks but still looks like a *******. He has - 12 bitches. He got 0 bars. Plays cod all day like a *****-*****, even though he is trash at it. He can't ball for his life, nor can he pass a history class. Please someone tell me why this kid is such a *****.

This girl said if you bully someone they will never want to become your friend. Is she right?

I honestly like her so much, she flirts back and asks me to stay behind in class and she emails me asking if im ok and things like that and some things about work So how do i tell her i like her in a harmless way? Im leaving soon and please no comments that say it wont happen and stuff like that i just want to know i tell her!!!!!!!

my crush texted me saying "hey beautiful with the heart eyes emoji" and I said hey and then he asked me out on a date and I said yes . He told me his schedule was very busy so he doesn't know when and I said ok we'll find a day . The next day I texted him saying hey and he said hi with the heart eyes emoji and he told me he was at work and I said ok text me when you're free and he said ok , but he never texted back . Today I said hi did you still want to hangout and he said yeah sure . I told him I didn't like texting first Bc I don't want to come off as clingy and he said he knows what I mean . We talked for a little bit and I asked him what movie he wanted to see and he said it doesn't matter . After that I told him can I ask him something but he hasn't responded in 5hrs . Was I annoying him ? Did I do something wrong ? Did he lose interest? HELP

I'm 33 never had a girlfriend in my entire life hahaha. Athletic and been so my entire life. I'm just very shy around the "girls I like". For awhile, I saw this girl at my gym. I didn't stare at her like some creep. Just noticed her innocently. She was training with her friend who was pretty too but I had my eye on her. Then one day, she came up to ask me something about if some water bottle was hers or mine. Now it was obvious it was hers and she was giggling. . She left it by the machine a machine away from where I was. Not too close. She caught me off guard as she was the most beautiful girl I've ever laid eyes on. Reminds me why I love redheads most. She gotta be early 20's too. Im still into prime women. all I did was shake my head no and went back to my thing. She is physically perfect. The next day, she was walking past me as I was heading into the building. I got that feeling I was being looked at and in the very corner of my eye I could tell she look irritated. Why? Dudes her age talk to her do why should I? Recently, i went to walk past to a curl station and she must have seen me in the mirror walking by and looked over her should clearly in my direction during her rest set. I saw in the corner of my eye. I could be fantasying that this girl likes me which is impossible. Why? It's been almost a year and a half and she still glances at me. Her glance seemed aggressive though. Was thinking of saying high but I'm poor and financially poor after graduation.

My friend is ten though And I mean there's only this one boy at my school that really like and he's really cute!

answer this for me ladies, does having a job, car and place of your own make you a real man

Me and my bf has had trust issues because of him doing wrong several times and now he's going to the beach with all these boys and staying in a house by their self. I'm not sure if I should trust him and get hurt or just break up because I'm afraid to get hurt while his down there. Ik either way I'm going to be worry what should i do?

The first with me in the green tank I was 15, in the pic with me and the braids I was 16. The one in the black sweatshirt I was almost 18. Today I'm 20. Use to not attract any guys, not have many friends. Now in university I seem to attract more guys and have a lot more friends than I use to. And ppl now refer to me as "bad" or gorgeous now, vs back then I'd get ugly .

Does anybody want to text me?? I feel like no body wants to that i meet in person they seem to drift away, please help me out people im lonely, and in need of texting friends.

So I ask this because Im a 21 year old virgin and never had a gf. I've kissed and made up with girls before, but obviously it never led anywhere. I really think the reason that's holding me back is two things, the fact that I'm black , and my preferences. Because black males even today are still being treated like sh*t. Like were lesser. I've always heard white people and even other minortty races talk bad about us. And girls, its ridiculous. Most of them don't like our skin color, others are intimidated or scared. Most have racist parents who tell them lies about black men. And the one thing that pisses me off the most, is when let's say some white girls, or girls in general, want to date black men, they care about what someone will day about them. Like for example how their friends would react and treat them. I've seen it and heard it. And my preference is white girls and Hispanic women, and even Asian. And the reason is because I grew up in a state made up of little black people, so that's all I've been shown. And believe me when I say, I try to represent my race well. I'm serving in the army for two years, I workout all the time, I'm tall, etc. I also study fitness a lot, and I soeak with intelligence and not like I'm from the ghetto. And I'm not trying to be an uncle tom, I'm trying to figure out what's going on. So this is why I feel like giving up. Becuase this is how I feel like most females act. I need advice, cause I don't feel like going out anymore tbh.

My guy friend was talking about how he doesn't like one night stands with his friends one night. He knows that I like him and he's been really sweet to me when we hangout. Usually it's always with his guy friends. One night I drank at the bars with them and ended up sleeping in his bed cause I couldn't drive home, he slept on the couch. In the middle of the night I woke up and he was laying next to me. He asked if it was okay he was here and I said yeah, and just continued to lay there. He cuddled up next to me and that was that. The next morning he said he hoped I had a good time, and that he was rather fond of me as well, after I said I liked him. But it's been 3 weeks now and he's only texted once, just a normal conversation like friends...I don't wanna scare him off by asking him about it. Is he truly not meaning what he said? Or is he just interested in friends with benefits? Has he maybe changed his mind or not know what he wants?