My best friend of 5 -6 years has come to visit me for the summer. I am 16 and she is 15. My friend is an only child of a single mother for which she is used to being spoiled, getting what she wants, and having someone to tend to her every need over all. At my house, I am the middle child and it's every person for themselves. We all tend to our very own needs in my family. I understand that she is my friend and her needs are now my responsibility being that it's my house that she's visiting...and for the entire summer season. But the problem is, I strongly believe she can handle the majority or her needs all on her own it's just that at her own home she's used to people doing things for her and it's seriously starting to get on my last nerve. Examples: ● Opening drinks for her ● Applying her stretch mark ointment (ew) ● Putting her glasses away for her before she goes to bed And SO many more little things she has me tend to for her. It's ridiculous! I don't mean to be rude, I try to be understanding but I don't know what to do. I feel that talking to her about it will just make her feel uncomfortable in my home.

I am 16 and known my best friends from I was 5 there is 4 of them I used to live near them that's how we met but I moved a few years ago there was many more kids in the estate I hanged about with one of wich was a boy who was elrealated to my best friend as I am older it's all about boys and every one gets on like who u texting who u going with, okay so here's the story my best friends cousin 'jay' is younger by a year and my friends Alway say aww use should go out use would make a cute couple but I am ascarrd it would ruin the hole way of my friend ship I don't no how things would turn out 'jay is always like aww mwe over and give us a hug and I just look at him and am like aha no way he's funny and all but I just think of him as a friend but my friends take the piss and say meet him 'kiss' him but it would be strange when we r sitting I get this weird feeling like do I or do I not like him is he taking the piss or am I just playing along cUz how could I even like him he's my best friends cousin who I hbe know for years and lived round the coner from what do I do just play along and go I and walk away and just be like aww mer jay give us a cuddle as a joke just messing to keep my friends thinking or do I just say to them what I have just wrote here that the situation is really weird when he's around and they make it so even more weird I know this didn't really make sense but please some one help me !!

I'm tired of having girlfriends. I'm not a lesbian but you know, friends that are girls. I've never actually got to know someone, in my fourteen years, an actual loyal and normal friends, but yet, guys are so much more loyal and fun than a girl is- no doubt I love my friends but they all cause too much trouble. I hear of guys and girls being friends and it sounds so much better(well, until one gets friend-zonedo.o). I do have two guy friends, but one is kind of like a girl(tells secrets xD), and the other one, well, I don't know. He's super nice and awesome but he is closer with my two other friends... How do I make a guy best friend? In my school, there are either the boys that are druggies, the popular ones or the creepy, greasy ones... not to sound rude but they are creepy. What do I do? Is it worth actually trying to make a guy best friend or what? Guys, do you think it's weird to have a girl best friend??

I'm a girl in high school and my best friend is a boy. We are really close and do pretty much everything together, but we definitely don't like each other romantically. My best friend, (we'll call him Joe) is gay, but not out of the closet, so that's why we'll never like each other. People ask us all the time if we're dating or if we like each other, and when we say no, most people accept that and don't bother us anymore, but his dad won't take no for an answer. No matter how many times we've told him that we don't like each other, he still believes it. Actually, he thinks that I really like Joe, and that Joe has no interest in being with me. I'm pretty outgoing and his first best friend, while he's kind of shy and not used to hanging out with people, so it seems like (to Joe's dad) that I am "obsessed" with him and "creepy". His dad repeatedly makes fun of Joe for hanging out with me because I am "too in love with him". Joe now doesn't even tell his dad when we're hanging out, in fear of him making fun or me again. Constantly getting called "creepy" really bothers me. How do I convince his dad that I do not like his son like that? and How do I stop my best friend's dad from thinking that I'm creepy?

So I added someone I met on tumblr on skype but tbh I have no clue what to talk about, I really wanna be friends with this person but getting to know someone has always been the hardest thing.

Ok so Usually I can't hang on to friendships for more than a week because for SOME reason, idk what it is. But I've recently got a couple friends and they're twins. I've started talking to them and I think they're interested in being friends with me. The three of us are all 16 years old and they always come to my locker at school to talk to me and I always go to their locker too. We've seemed to be friends for a month and now it's summer break. We've hung out once and it "seems" they wanna hangout again. But the problem is, in past friendships me and the other party hangout once and we never talk and hangout again. And I'm afraid that's what's going to happens with me and my new "friends" I texted them a couple times to see if they wanna hangout and they say they have work and they might be able to in a few days and they will text be back but they never do. I'm assuming they just forgot because they are so busy. So I texted them again and they say maybe tomorrow. To me, it sounds like this is going to end up like past friendships, but I'm going to try to stay positive about it. But I just don't understand we were getting along very well at school and the last time we hung out everyone was having a lot of fun and they said we definitely need to hangout again so? Do you think they actually want to or what? And what can I do to keep the friendship alive? Opinion? Advice? Is this a real friendship? HELP!

I've changed some names. Please view if you get the chance. I can't tell my parents or an adult about this (it's just out of the question). I can't get revenge or try fighting back because then they'll make it seem like they were the victim (They've already convinced everybody that I'm this total b*tch) Please help i swear i spread no rumors. I feel extremely broken. I feel like killing myself. I know it sounds really stupid. Please I don't know what to do? link to convo: https://docs.google.com/document/d/110H7Nk2JKXO2oX-ofDWUzpYHmeAS_vlpRM93wUpF-Jg/edit?usp=sharing

18 M just curious

I'm always having to deal with their hypocrisy and stupidity. We went out to IHOP the other day and I made an immature joke and one of them retorted with "You're 18. You need to start acting your age and grow up." She then proceed to throw pieces of her napkin in my drink. It's stuff like this that the do and say is going to make me have an aneurism. I need advice on how to deal with them without getting arrested.

So I did something illegal that s so bad im living with my mom now. Which is two city s sway from my house. My friends think I just left for the summer but they don t know I m probably going to a different school next year. No I can t tell my friends what I did because they would not except me anymore and probably be creeper out and never look at me the same way. I m getting concoling soon and my parents are helping me out for what I did. I just don t know what I m gonna tell my friends. They will think im just ditching them. It s the beginning of summer right now so they just think im living with my mom because I lived with my dad during the school year. Any thing will help. I regret what I did but i can t post it here.

So this friend is mad at all of us because he assumes that we always hang out without him. The truth is, he s in a different city and it takes a while to get to his place. Also forgot to mention that he doesn t have a car so we have to pick him up and drop him off without getting gas money from him. Now this mad friend is covered in false assumptions and won t believe everything we tell him. What can I do at this moment?

I dont have trouble making friends, as I have a quite a few , guys and girls, however I am not the best in social situations. A little help would be appreciated.

I met my best friend for breakfast the other day after a late late night and conversation somehow turned towards something quite serious and she asked me why she doesn t feel things the way others do. I, in jest said that she s broken. Which isn t true, but I guess I thought at the time it was funny. It s not...... and I ve been thinking about it for days and I feel like a jerk Her texts are since and they re generally one word responses. I feel like I should call and apologise. Or am I being a bit of a drama quee

I'm 15 and went on this chatting app on kik to make friends. So I met this 18 year old and already told him that I just wanted to be friends, he really bored me and when we played 20 questions I sent him a selfie not a nude he asked my bra size and if I was a virgin. Something told me that he wanted sex, I admitted that I was a virgin. And he wanted to change that- I refused and he said oh... I want to still be friends without feeling pressured about sex, what should I do?

Im 13 and in the 7th grade soon 8th. I go to an all girls school.Since school started there's this girl who im pretty sure hates me and i dont know why. Every time i say something she rolls her eyes or says some sarcastic comment. Shes friends with some of my friends but its like their blind to the hate. Shes only nice to me when she wants something from me . The only people who notice arethree of my friends but only one ever does anything about it. I dont know if shes jealous or something. Any chance she gets to make me look bad she takes it. When i say something about it she just interrupts and changes the subject. Plz help. I dont think i can last another 6 years. What should I do?

Like at school? In my classes. I hate just about everyone at my school, teachers and students included. I got no friends there, and I've been there a full school year. But there are many people I still don't know, and I'd like to be aquainted with them. I just don't know how. I'm waiting for next school year, so I can see what my schedule looks like and who all is in my classes. I don't want any more classes full of boring, quiet, smart people, because I'm like that when I'm feeling shy and I hate those people. Should I change up my schedule if I hate the people in my classes? Meeting people in class is all I can do. I'm too lazy and uninterested to join in any extra-curry type of poop. Plus I know exactly who's going to be on the teams and I hate all of them. Please help me! I'm so picky and judgemental when it comes to 'making friends'.

My best friend is being bullied at school by 2 popular girls. Because of this, my friend thinks that the whole school hates her and thinks that she is mean and she hates herself. It's a really long story but it's really bad and has been going on for three years. I've been praying for her a lot but I think she wants to die. We've talked to the principal/vice principal but there is nothing they can do. I've talked to them but they deny everything. My friend has skipped school because of this. and it's the end of the school year and she doesn't want to come back next year. What can I do to help my friend from hating and/or hurting herself?

Amumu this is Nunu. Annie's boyfriend. First thing. Don't pin your problems on other people. Especially someone like Annie who you are trying to deem your friend. You are being super needy and it actually pushes people away more than it brings them closer for help. saying stuff like "if there's any way you could fix me" is already crossing the line. You need to replace the word "you" in that sentence with the word "I". And guess what? There is a way for you to fix yourself. You are acting like a child. I'm only 18 just out of high school and this is not acceptable behaviour. You need to see a proffesional. I know someone who can help if you're interested. Secondly, if you're going to be playing this needy card you need to first realize that the past week has been a really busy one in Annie and I's hometown. Annie's bestest highschoolers friend and I just graduated. Not only was there graduation night on saturday. But family time with my family from the mainland on Sunday, my party on Monday, and out great friend's party yesterday on Tuesday. I hate to break it to you Amumu, but our lives don't revolve around you. We are not here to babysit you. We are here to start our lives and to make something special out of them. You are scaring people. Worse comes to worse I'll help her get a restraining order. Amumu. You need to see a proffessional. I was once down a dark path like you and it doesn't have to end the way you think it does. There's one VERY important rule that I learned. Love yourself before anyone else. LOVE YOURSELF. When you learn that, you can go out and make all the friends you want.And if you want to meet that special girl, drop the "I'm sad and need help please pity me" act it makes you seem like you're 12. Please go find help. If you need help finding a proffesional just say "please help me find a proffesional". Any other response won't be taken as seriously.

I am 16. You hear things like "sweet sixteen" and "rebellious teenage years". Well as a person, I am very fearless. I am very social and outgoing and all I want is to be busy and to have fun. I want to rebel and have fun. But instead I sit at home all day everyday doing nothing. I wish that I was out all the time with friends. How to make friends? and how to go just have fun as a teenager?

a coworker (who's very friendly and a really nice person, but that you don't know that well), while you're having a conversation about workrelated things, lays his hand on top of yours and keeps it there for a minute or two as you're talking and this after ignoring you totally for a while before that. Is this being an outgoing personality or would you think it's too intimate?

Im always so sad that i dont have many friends but i dont even try! I dont know why i just dont feel like making an effort when i have the opportunity. I just wish i could skip the part where u had to make friends and go straight to the part where u are really close with all of them. I used to be so social but now, i dont know how to make friends or make people laugh anymore. High school has RUINED ME. I used to be a social butterfly and now im left with no one...i just dont understand! Im always afraid that if im really friendly towards people i barely know, they will get creeped out and make fun of me or reject me

Add me on kik girls only please:) i don't really care what you want to talk about, ***** about how your life is terrible for all i care, or maybe talk about something else... kik: jrclarkk don't mind the shitty picture, it took me 10 seconds

I have a coworker that makes $15.00 an hour and has no kids lives with girlfriend that also has job and he hasnt had a car for three years....he will ask people for rides and will ask me which its not on my way.i cant tell him no cuz I don't wana be rude and I have told him he needs his own car but even yesturday I tried to ignore him and I still end up giving him a ride home....what do I tell him next time no with out being rude

My friend all throughout high school (I'll call him "D") has been lying to me a lot this year and has made me feel like sh** emotionally and made me feel like a convenience friend. He always tell me that he has to "stay home because of my mom" or the "we can hang out tomorrow for SURE", only to find out that he was "partying" or some crap like that. We were supposed to hang out with an exchange student who left for home today. 2 days ago, D texts me and tells me that we should hang out with the exchange before he leaves and I agree. D tells me we'll hang out and I drive to his house later that evening and he's not present. Him and the exchange student went out to do something and I'm left sitting in his neighborhood for about an hour before D calls me back and tells me that "Me and the exchange are with other people right now, but we'll DEFINITELY hang out tomorrow night". I'm sitting there a little frustrated that he didn't pick up my calls and made me wait, only to tell me this bit of information. The next night comes and he texts me and I call him to ask what the plan is and he proceeds to tell me "I'm getting dropped off at my car right now and the exchange and I are going to a friends house with a group of others" and I ask him, "So are we still hanging out?" and D answers, "uhh...yea.. do you want to hang out with us? I'll call you in a bit and he never does. I feel totally betrayed and have no idea how I should react and I feel like an idiot. Please help?

So basically a friend's spreading rumors that I'm this extremely b*tchy person and basically all my friends have left me (except for a few?) . Not exaggerating when i say that. They've cyberbullied me online countless times already about hoe I'm spreading rumors and how all my friends hate me. It's gotten to the point where I was trembling to much to reply. I have had thoughts of killing myself. They've hurt me so much. I really, really really need help. I am trapped int this corner and I don't know what to do anymore. If I try fighting back they'll just make it seem like I was the harasser and nobody will disagree since they all hate me already. I know this sounds stupid, but it actually really hurts. Please please please help me. I can't tell my parents about this... incase you were wondering. It's just out of the question

Well Brenda practically hits me in the shoulder. Last time she told me to shut up. And I wasn't even talking at all. She thinks it's really funny. And it's not.😢 I'm a really nice person. I'm not mean or rude but I really need help. Can sow body please help me.

I'm 15 and in high school. I'm very loud and outgoing person and I love life so much but lately I feel as if my friends don't really care about me and I have nothing in common with any of them. my school is also really small so there's no one else to be friends with really.. I feel like my friend ship group wants to do things that I don't care for atall I feel like I haven't really met my kind of people yet and haven't found a place in this would were I fit in and I can relate too. my friends are all horrible and leave me out all the time, I used to be closer too them but I feel as if they or I've changed and I feel so distant from everyone.. even my family. I just want to find somewhere where I won't feel like I need to change to have my friends bother with me. what should I do?😔

i have always struggled with school and making friends. But i just moved because i was getting bullied in my old school. After going through multiple groups of "friends" i found a group i like. We were together for majority of the year. The girls always seemed to never stick up for each other which bothered me friends should do that right? But one morning i was in a group chat and i was getting picked on and non of my friends said a word i was so upset they didnt give a care! i said screw you all and said they didn't stick up for me. after a while i apologized to one saying my bad ik ik and she didn't answer i called crying and i only cry in front of people i really care for. I cried and she laughed?!?! then after a while she came crawling back and saying sorry i forgave and she went back to talking crap then told my secrets to everyone and said sorry?!?! i would never do that to her?! then she apologized and i told her off and said leave me alone but now im alone and have no friends i felt like i did the right thing but now im alone. im a 9th grade girl please help!

Theres a party next weekend that i have to attend and ill be with my cousin and her friends whom i do not know and im really awkward and afraid they wont like me. How would i get over this?

I have come to the realization that all my friends ******* suck so this summer I'm going to ignore them and hopefully they get the message. They are all assholes, two-faced, rude, lying, people who take advantage of me all the time. I don't want to be bothered for the rest of time in high school. So how can I have a good time senior year whilst having no friends?

She didn't seem that weird at first but as I started getting to know her she started to seem really creepy. She has like over 300 pictures of peoples belly buttons up close in her phone, she draws really really detailed belly buttons. Like she draws all the little hairs and lumps and bumps inside them and hangs them up on her wall. She always talks about belly buttons too. So much that it's really creepy. She always says that if she ever got her belly button removed in surgery she would want to take it home with her in a jar... wtf?! And she always stares at peoples belly button at public pools and licks her lips. EVEN LITTLE KIDS!!! She has made a lot of parents uncomfortable with it. How do I tell her to tone it down with this creepy belly button stuff nicely?

Hi, I'm Skye. I'm 12 years old. Don't say be yourself. That is so cliche, and it won't draw any attention (good attention, not bad). Please don't say I can't be popular. Here are a couple things you need to list: Clothing brands Hair Body Phone Makeup Who to be friends with Skincare Music to listen to I need more answers.. Better answers, please!

I have a friend named Miranda and we're just friends. I was telling a funny story that happend with me and Miranda. And when I mentioned Miranda, she said that she hated her. I asked her why she hated her but she didn't have a reason. The next day, I was at school and I told Miranda that my cousin hated her. She was pretty mad that someone that she barely knew hated her so she asked my cousin why she hated her on Facebook. My cousin was very angry That I told her that. She blocked me and unfriended me on Facebook. I feel so ashamed for telling Miranda my cousins secret about her. I tried to apologize to her but she won't forgive me. What should I do?

I just started dating this guy and he's amazing...so amazing that he really wants my friends to like him as well and treats them very kindly. My only problem is, he assumes that one of these friends is a very close friend, so he keeps talking to her about me, offering to invite her along on dates, etc. It bothers me because in reality she's not my best friend or anything, she's just one of the many I hang out with. How can I get him to stop inviting her along/treating her special? I think he does it to make me happy, to show me I don't have to sacrifice my friends to be with him, but I really am not that close with this friend and kind of want to let him know that without being outright saying "Hey we're actually not that close can you stop treating her like we are" because that sounds so ridiculous. How can I let him know that?

I just started dating this guy and he's amazing...so amazing that he really wants my friends to like him as well and treats them very kindly. My only problem is, he assumes that one of these friends is a very close friend, so he keeps talking to her about me, offering to invite her along on dates, etc. It bothers me because in reality she's not my best friend or anything, she's just one of the many I hang out with. How can I get him to stop inviting her along/treating her special?

Nowadays mostly she avoids me. Actually she is preparing for GRE exam. I have noticed that she remains online on whatsapp even upto 2:30 am ( late night). When I tried to enquire she told me that she used to solve questions of GRE on whatsapp. Its hard to believe. Preciously she used to give me importance and preference, but now I think I have lost my importance. ;-( About 10 days before, she spoke to me in a rude manner on phone, i felt bad and i did not call or whatsapp her for 4 days. She did the same each other for 4 days....i missed her like hell.,...ultimately i called her and asked her what's the problem... And however sorted the matter. But now she remains online till late nights ( 2:00 am) and when I try to ask her, she says me that she don't chat with anyone ...she just solve questions of GRE on whatsapp. I m totally confused. I have lost my importance. Totaly helpless. Don't know what to do. Kindly help me . guide me. ( dr_rajesh_k@yahoo.com)

Ok So Im 34, single And m'y biggest problem is that i cant make friends where Im living. I live in a small town and nothing ever happens Here. Thé small group of friends that i do have are great but they have all got their own lives and never have time to socialise. Ive tried Everything to make new friends So that i can feel like i actually have a life but nothing works. Im just So lonely and Its getting me really depressed. I just dont know what to do. Thx for reading

Hi, I'm 15, but I feel like I'm just too different for everybody my age. For starters, I don't watch TV (I stopped watching TV when I was around 10, but completely got rid of it when I turned monitor into the computer screen), have a need for anything really fancy or anything, and the things my friends talk about aren't really anything I have an interest for, for the most part. I get most enjoyment out of listening to old heavy metal, playing chess, learning, and reading. Sometimes I play video games, but currently I've been getting less interested in frivolous things such as that, especially when most of the games I actually get interested in are very old NES, Sega Genesis, and SNES games. It seems I can't hold a decent conversation with anybody my age, but when it comes to adults around 30 or older years old, I flourish and as such, I don't talk to most teenagers, if at all during school, which makes me rather alone, sometimes. I've been talking to the school's counselor for a year now for personal issues, but she's told me that I'm too intelligent and gifted for most people. I've had people tell me that I'm the most challenging person they've talked to, but most of the time I just prefer to be alone... What do I do? I just don't feel like I have any real friends that I relate to.

I want to make some plans with this girl from school and I really don't know how to even start it. We just got out of school, like on Tuesday and I'd just like to make some plans. What I was thinking of sending her was Hey _____, its ______, how's your summer going? And then going from there. But I don't want it to sound like weird or anything; so does this sound okay/anyone have anything else I can use to start the convo? Thanks!

Me and my best friend have been very close for a little over a year now. Her mom is a very uptight lady.. My parents are pastors but are VERY laid back compared to her strict-ish mom. But earlier today, we had both planned to go see a movie, and her mother is all the way on the other side of the country due to her job. So for some reason my friend CALLS her mom and asks her mom if we could go?? And her mom quickly says no, and that she was to go home around lunch time and help her step dad around the house (he doesn't need it or even care if she's home) and then, whilst I'm still in the room, her mother suggest that she goes to the movies with her step dad tonight... And so I'm just sitting there like.. Wow.. What a slap in the face.. Her mother always seems to try and parent me, but then she won't let us hang out really ever; she is always having to go home way too early for really no reason at all..... All we want to do is have a good time together because we ALWAYS do. I just don't understand why her mom acts like she wants to kill our friendship.... Help??

So I have these friends and we used to the same and friendly to each other but now they seem to be closer each other and barely ever include me in events, They always think I m copying them in everything and it s caused me to not be able to do a lot of things like play games which I actually do enjoy but if they also play it, they automatically get annoyed and question me about it as if to say you copied us in playing it any ideas to deal with this? :(

I have always wanted to have a best friend who is a guy and be close... Is it a guy thing or it is just not acceptable

So yesterday i was out with my best friend to go see a movie. It was super hot like 90 degree weather all day. Because it was so hot i wore a tank top and shorts. When we got to the movie we saw two guys who im really close friends with. They came to sit next to us and my best friend got mad at me for talking to them. I haven`t seen one of the boys there in 5 months because he moved a way so of course i talked to him. Then after the movie she yelled at me because i was talking to him more then her even though i haven`t seen him in 5 months and i hang out with her everyday. Then when she was yelling at me these two boys came up to me and told me i looked very pretty. I said thanks then bye but they stayed there and asked for a hug. They look around 17 and im 14 and they kept forcing themselves close to me and i kept trying to push them away and my best friend didn`t do anything. She then told me the only reason my friends in the theater and the boys then talked to me is because i was dressed like a slut. I was showing a little bit of clevage but my boobs are kinda big for my size so its inevitable for some skin to show.Do you think i was dressing like a slut?

I've been friends with this girl for a few years now, though it's been off and on. But whenever we are talking, we have those text conversations that go on all day everyday. It's just natural for us. We do hang out occasionally. Whenever she hugs me, she does so for a long time. Like lately, she's hugged me for a good ten seconds at least before letting go. Even when I thought the duration of the hug was over and went to pull away, she didn't. So I continued also.

My best friend and I were like sisters.now she's changing a bit and like always has excuses .so my family were going out the country because my dad was really sick and had to go doctor and I was home alone and I was so scared to stay so asked my best friend but the problem was we had exams that week.she said n I have to study for French even though there's nothing much to study for French and even when she was home she then told me she studied for only like 20 mins.I mean she knew that my dad being sick was a big deal the least she could've done was stay with her best friend ..it's not like she was gonna get an A in French ( we're both bad at it) ..I'm so sad because I feel like she doesn't care anymore cos she didn't even text me that night when she always does

This is my last semester of college. Recently at my internship, this staff asked me in front of the manager: her - are you happy you are almost done with the placement? me - no her - it's time to move out and grow up me - ill be back in September her - why? me - grad school And then she looked surprised...

So I'm kind of wondering if this guy is simply trying to screw with me or if it's true. I have been on a no contact deal with my fwb for about a month and a half now. The last time he tried to contact me was at the end of May (texted me 3 times, then called and left a voicemail telling me to call or text him because he was getting worried). So today, I tried to blank text him to test what kind of reaction I'd get. He replied right away by asking who it was. I wasn't expecting that and I'm really upset and worried now. Did he seriously forget about me and delete my number without even giving me a chance to go over things? We were very close to each other and at times acted like more than fwb. We broke up last year completely and he seemed devastated without me (tried to contact me off and on and then eventually came to my house to talk). Our official split was longer than this "no contact" deal and he knew what was going on back then (he knew he had made me mad with something he did). So it kind of doesn't make sense that he'd ditch me after such a short amount of time AND without knowing what was going on. What should I do? I had a reason for doing the "no contact" thing too (too long to go over) and I was going to explain everything. Did I really screw everything up and lose my chance to do that... or is he simply messing with me a little to test MY reaction? I really am confused right now and have no idea what to think. I will admit I'll be hurt if he has moved on and doesn't want me around anymore... but I guess if that's the case, I'll have the answers I was looking to get through doing this "no contact" thing. With how close we were and how much he seemed to like me, it wouldn't make a lot of sense though. F*ck you @Human. You have NO idea why I went on no contact, therefore you have NO right to judge (and no, it was out of "anger". We were on great terms had not had a fight since November). Either be helpful or don't answer... @Asel - You may be on to something. Thinking about our breakup last year, he did this SAME THING to me. I didn't text him first though. One evening I came downstairs to see my phone blinking and I had 2 messages from him, asking who it was. He lied about deleting my number then and everything. So maybe this IS just a test and he's just trying to get me all upset (which he did because I'm afraid this got screwed up and he moved on/hates me now). The biggest confusion is the voicemail that was left. That was only about 2 weeks ago and he was all saying how he was worried and wanted me to get a hold of him. Now when I DO... I get a "who is this"? What the hell?! I'm considering doing the same thing to him - like say who is this and stuff (and I have a good message to go along with it)... but how long should I wait before I make the next move?

So I have 2 friends and I tend to be the 3rd wheel and I'm scared that if I say I feel like you leave me out I feel like they'll start not to talk to me and I'm usually the 3rd wheel and I hate it!!! They always pick each other for partners and I'm stuck with someone else!!! Can someone help me and can someone help me solve this problem????!!

My friend recently lost her best friend because she claimed she didn't care about her. Not only that but, that she constantly talked about herself. She left her behind after her dad died so, I felt it was horrible but now I get it. I consoled this girl after her dad died (she wasn't that upset) but, when I needed her she didn't help. I told her about my distress when my parents didn't accept my sexuality, my social anxiety, depression, all of it and you know what she did? She just kept replying with "Oh." "Ok.". I get that people aren't good at talking but, for her it's easy to talk. Why doesn't she want to help me? Or talk about MY issues for once? She's constantly bitching and never let's me talk about what's bothering me for more than two minutes. Help??

Ok there's these girls I'm friends with. And every time we drink together the one girl feels the need to take horrible drunken pictures and videos...well recently I stupidly told her I was into the one guy we all used to work with...me her and other other girls all got together to drink last night and she took Horrible pictures of me and sent them to this guy. I was drunk so I ended up having a fit about it lol crying and everything...I'm not 100% sure but I have a feeling she sent a video of that to him too. Would this make you mad? I'm pretty angry about it. I was already stressed out about this guy(my feelings for him are strong and idk how he feels) and by her doing this it just made me feel worse and Afraid to talk to him especially if she did send a video of me crying about him -_- I feel like friends are supposed to make you feel good not make you feel like ****. Honestly after this I probably won't ever hang out with her again. Would you be mad?

I'm 15, in highschool. I listen to rockand watch Supernatural which will affect my friendship groups but my only friends are people who lie all of the time and cause **** and stress and I have no friends whatsoever. But then when I talk to people on the internet (like Wattpad) I'm suddenly really popular. I don't like having these two friends at school and I want more but it makes me depressed

Ok so Usually I can't hang on to friendships for more than a week because for SOME reason, idk what it is. But I've recently got a couple friends and they're twins. I've started talking to them and I think they're interested in being friends with me. The three of us are all 16 years old and they always come to my locker at school to talk to me and I always go to their locker too. We've seemed to be friends for a month and now it's summer break. We've hung out once and it "seems" they wanna hangout again. But the problem is, in past friendships me and the other party hangout once and we never talk and hangout again. And I'm afraid that's what's going to happens with me and my new "friends" I texted them a couple times to see if they wanna hangout and they say they have work and they might be able to in a few days and they will text be back but they never do. I'm assuming they just forgot because they are so busy. So I texted them again and they say maybe tomorrow. To me, it sounds like this is going to end up like past friendships, but I'm going to try to stay positive about it. But I just don't understand we were getting along very well at school and the last time we hung out everyone was having a lot of fun and they said we definitely need to hangout again so? Do you think they actually want to or what? And what can I do to keep the friendship alive? Opinion? Advice?

my friends got mad at me because i didnt include them in planning when i thought i was doing them a favor. and i mean like they got REALLY mad so they must have bottling this anger up for a long time since imo it was really unreasonable becasuee i even explained the situation, apologized, tried to makeup for it and include them and it resulted in them blocking me and saying "im done with it" and that friend hasnt never once been THAT mad. i mean those two havebeen mad before but when i left the chat they made a specific chat to say we love you ( even tho they never said sorry i let it be) now me and my friend got into a fight because i beleive now i have 3 people who hate me and im not going to live with them for a week and be hated so i said im leaving the hotel and selling my ticket and now my friend keeps trying to contact me but i told her how i know hey dont like me and they talk about me but she keeps saying she doesnt hate me but shes pissed off and to screw the others but thats still 2 that hate me A. . B. . she still doesnt say sorry or even forgive me.. C.. i admitted i know she doesnt like me anymore and i was ganna leave her alone so like i ruined the friendship and i cant just sy lets pretend this never happened cuz it did. i will never trust them again because i will forever beleive they dont like me so i will be stressed if i stay with them and i will feel like theyre judging me all the time and i dont want to deal with that and i cant pretend everything is ok she left two voicmails but i just left my phone off and idk what to do idk if i leave fb forever or if i reply or what. she keeps saying "youre going to the concert dont care what the others think i dont want to stop being friends just because an argument" ......but its not about an argument. its the fact that she doesnt like me. she may not want to admit it from guilt but she doesnt like me and i cant change that, but she doest see that thats the point. she doesnt like me. thats the problem. not that they dont like me but she doesnt. and idk what to do now it not just a 'makeup and be friends again' because you cant make someone like you again. she got new friends and i accepted that and was just about to move on and let her be friends with them and i wasnt ganna bother them anymore but now apparently they hate me and idk what to do cuz we had plans together. for poster saying leave them its not worth it here what you need to know i picked this friend. not just like the friends you make just because theres no one else like at school ... but we found eachotehr for similar interrests and personality and i know everyone will leave so i was prepared once she stopped liking me id let her go but its more complicated now that she is mad at me with 2 other people and also i just bought a ticket for a concert thats nonrefundable (continues....) so i can be with her. im also going to a concert with her and 8 other people in july and im the one booking the hotel for everyone so i have to be there or else everyone will hate me cuz they have to pay like $50 more or i lose $350 on a plane ticket and hotel cost. i can sell my ticket but that doesnt make up for a lost $400 ive also been planning this for a year... and well ok i dont hate her but she hates me and i cant face someone who hates me cuz i cant stand awkward situations