I have been with my boyfriend for 9yrs. He has a huge issue with drinking. His whole world revolves around drinking, being needy, controlling, and drinking beer everyday after I pick him up from work. He wants to stop at the liquor store and get 6 pack of beer. His ideal of having fun is drinking. I am so disgusted with his drinkng that I no longer want to be in a relationship with him. We have one child together and you would think he would change for her . He bought airplane shots with soda to the hospital after I gave birth to her. He was ordered by a judge to go to rehab he did an outpatient rehab that was not strict and didn't care to really help people. I know he chose this place because he didn't really want help he still drives and go to bars..drink early in the morning on the weekends. He talks to me like he is in control of me .,Always want to know what I'm doing where I'm going but he can up and leave anytime to Go to the bar. I hate driving him to work and picking him up I feel like he is not really feeling his punishment for his 3 DUIs. I feel like I'm the one being punished. I finally saved up money to leave his *** and not look back but I don't know if it's wrong to not give him any contact with his daughter. I feel like he will stress me out if I talk to him when I leave his ***. He will use our daughter to make me feel guilty for taking her and not see that it's because of his drinking. We live in Nj his hometown. When I live I am moving to California.

My cousin and his girlfriend were talking about some kind of sweat pads and she asked him if they go on his skin. He said no, and that they stick on your clothes like *other* absorbent pads. Of course he meant period pads, and I told him that he is disgusting for mentioning that in the car, and he said "what? You guys wear them." And that made me feel weird. Guys, what do you think about periods? How did you find out about them?

My dad has hit me, he hits me when you correct him or if you stand up for yourself? He also insults me is that abuse? He's called me b*astard, b*tch, c*nt, cow, clown I'm fourteen and I live in Ireland! I'm from county Laoise! But is it abuse? He doesn't hit me everyday! But is it? A girl on instagram told me it is!? What should I do if it is? Will I be taken away from my family? My used to hit my older brothers and sister with walking sticks, belts and his hand..

My name is Sindi Ramadani (family name) , 16 years old and I live in Albania , west Europe. Like MANY MANY MANY other people out there I also REALLY LOVE MUSIC. Because my parents divorced when I was 6 ( 10 years ago) , following my dreams was something I did until the 5th grade (10-11 years old). Why? Because I have a younger brother and I just could not focus on my dreams alone and give a bad example to him , also I just didn't want to disappoint my mother who worked so hard just to feed us. For 4 years I tried hard to focus on my studies and I tried to avoid music as much as I could. It was Kpop that made me understand that becoming a lawyer , and fulfilling my mothers dream wouldn't really make me happy. The "boring" story is over - if you prefer to call it that way. I have white skin , but not flawless though. My height 165 cm , weight 54 kg (my hip are a bit heavy i guess since they are a little big) , also some people say that I look a like an asian sometimes. I think you guessed by now but I really Love singing and dancing. Yes I have heard about the hard life that trainees and idols do. To test myself I have created a really similar daily schedule. 1.How can I audition (the email method , I don't get it :P ) ? 2.Can you give me some advices? 3.Can you name somee other companies beside SM , JYP , YG , BIG HIT that accept non-asians in auditions ? Thank You For Your Time :)

I'm generally smart and liked but for some weird reason I just want to be bullied. I want to be made fun of and occasionally physically hurt but it's the weirdest thing. I want to be the story characters that have to endure the worst. I want to be the girl in school that everyone hates. I know how weird it is but its true. So either: any ideas on why? Or: any way to get bullied in school or cyber bullied?

im 16 in Redwood City ca, im respectful just want shelter im in foster care already. Im doing great in school and there should be no problems. Im not looking for special care just independence. how could i go about finding a place. Im in a group home but its more like a program. It doesnt feel like home and every little thing we do here it documented by points and recorded for all 15 other staffs to know. I just want a home Ideas to find a foster home or someone to take you in as one?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 years and things between my cousin and him was fine in the beginning. We were all close but things started to turn sour when they had a few bad words with one another. They would both talk bad about the other to me and outside sources, which pulled me into the center of everything because they expect me to do all the talking and be a mediator. When I try to do so neither one of them wants to talk about their issue with each other or they would turn on me as if I'm supposed to choose sides, saying I'm not defending them , that I care more about the other, that I put the other first and I've never done so. They're on two different levels of love and importance to me but they're just as important to me because i dont want to lose either one them, i want them both in my life. I have distanced myself from the both of them because of this. It sucks being torn between someone I'm in love with and my family, I don't know what to do!!

Why do I miss my abusive friendship? I'm 14 and my friend was 15 We were in boarding school together She had an abusive relationship with her mother and is mentally unstable She was an awesome person and we were almost always together people even started asking us if we were lesbian Throughout the year she started making me feel lesser of myself and at the end she started physically abusing me I texted her that I wouldn't be friends with her It's been 3 weeks and I desperately miss her Why

I am having a pool party for my upcoming 15th birthday. There are going to be lots of girls there. So lots of cleavage, nipples, and camel toe. I am concerned that I will get hard and everyone will notice. My pecker is already pretty big flaccid, so it will really poke out of my trunks when erect. What should I do to control my body so that this doesn't happen?

Or some who prefers to be silent?

I have an AR-15 and two Walther P99s that I hid in a gun case and stored in a closet where I keep my golf clubs and baseball equipment. Well she woke up early today and was cleaning/organizing the closet and she found my guns and woke me up looking pretty upset. I had told her before that I didn't have any guns since I didn't want her to feel uneasy but I felt it was good to have some. Anyway she yelled at me to get the guns out of the apartment and that she doesn't trust me now. She thinks I'm hiding something bad from her and I have tried explaining to get that I'm not but she won't listen. What do I do?

My girl asked me today about getting her ex girlfriends son a gift for his birthday, at first in my head I'm thinking why would she want to do that if that's 1, not her child 2, that's her past relationship & 3, she doesn't talk to her ex supposedly. I tried talking to her about it, and she slipped and said that her ex doesn't let her see the kid, her and her ex broke up two months ago & haven't had any communication... So what am I supposed to think, feel or say? She must be talking to her ex...

I'm 21... Turning 22 this year. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. We have a 19 month old daughter. He's 22. Anyway, our relationship has been hell for almost a year. I found out a few months ago he lied to me, and went on a chat site called "kik" and was talking sexual to random girls. I've forgiven him for that. Because he doesn't leave the house so I know he hasn't physically cheated. Anyway, I just get so irritated by every little thing he does. If I don't ask him to do something, he won't do it. I'm tired of it. I have to remember everything while he can be careless. I'm just so tired of crying every day because I want to leave... We live with his mother. It's hard to leave with all the memories we've shared and plus me daughter. How does someone leave in this type of relationship.? I'm no longer happy. I will not be in a relationship for my daughter. Especially if I'm miserable. Everytime I try to leave I suddenly stop and say "**** it" I'll just stay. Even though I'm unhappy. I find myself doing this weekly. He doesn't even try to stop me... He says he loved me and cares etc. But, I don't believe it... He can say anything, but actions are a whole another thing. What do I do?

i've noticed that and no one calls me anymore, but there is one friend who did. nut now he ignores me too. he said i'm stupid and do stupid things. that i don't think before i act. he said that i'm like a little baby that he need to take care of. we've been in parties and i'm always the drunkest one. he said that he don't want to take care of me and that i'm selfish and take everybody for granted. I don't understand how can i change? there's been 3 parties the last week and nobody invited me. and now i'm all alone and lonely. he said that I lack confidence and that I expect everybody to do things for me. and that I never help nobody. please tell me how i can change. i'm all alone right now with no friends and i'm really sad.

Why do I care that she's mad about it ???

I have been with my boyfriend for 9yrs. He has a huge issue with drinking. His whole world revolves around drinking, being needy, controlling, and drinking beer everyday after I pick him up from work. He wants to stop at the liquor store and get 6 pack of beer. His ideal of having fun is drinking. I am so disgusted with his drinkng that I no longer want to be in a relationship with him. We have one child together and you would think he would change for her . He bought airplane shots with soda to the hospital after I have birth to her. He was ordered by a judge to go to rehab he did an outpatient rehab that was not strict and didn't care to really help people. I know he chose this place because he didn't really want help he still drives and go to bars..drink early in the morning on the weekends. He talks to me like he is in control of me .,Always want to know what I'm doing where I'm going but he can up and leave anytime to Go to the bar. I hate driving him to work and picking him up I feel like he is not really feeling his punishment for his 3 DUIs. I feel like I'm the one being punished. I finally saved up money to leave his *** and not look back but I don't know if it's wrong to not give him any contact with his daughter. I feel like he will stress me out if I talk to him when I leave his ***. He will use our daughter to make me feel guilty for taking her and not see that it's because of his drinking, in my mind I think no one should have to put up with leaving is right ch

Actually, she and her boyfriend both use, intravenously.

Why would a mother give her newborn daughter to the biological father who will not financially support her unless he is the custodial parent? That is what he told her. She says that if the father were to hurt his daughter, or try and prevent the mother from seeing her daughter, she would take her daughter back. She knows that in her country fathers do not pay child support like in the United States. Why would she allow the father to choice the name of her daughter that will appear on her birth certificate? Why would she allow the father to get his daughters ear pierced when she is less than one week old.

My bf regrets not having an 18th party due to exams, so I thought after our last exams it would be nice to throw him a surprise belated 18th. However I've never thrown a party before, and only ever been to one, so I don't know how to really and i'm scared if it's a let down. Also I've not got much money, so how could I throw a great party without costing to much? It's also over a month after his birthday, would it be silly to throw him a belated 18th or still worth it. Btw I'm almost 18, and I have my parents permission to use the house and garden, and my bf and me have been together 11 months. I also want to make up for barely seeing him since his birthday, due to revising for A-levels, and show him that I willing make an effort for him.

I have a neighbor that does this. How disgusting and awful this has to be for the kids to hear their Mom whooping and hollering all over the place! Doesn't she have any morals!

LyssaSign Out Ask a QuestionAnswers HomeNotificationsMy ActivitiesCategoriesCommunity GuidelinesSend FeedbackHelpOther SitesYahooMailNewsFinanceSportsMoreView Desktop Version About Yahoo Privacy & Terms © 2015 Yahoo! Inc I'm confused by the relationship my cousin and my bf share. Help!?i need advice on the relationship my bf and my cousin share please!!?A couple months ago i posted this "My boyfriend and i have been in a relationship for over 5 years. My cousin messages him via whatsapp constantly, calls him alot and sends him pictures of herself to him (not nude pics but endless selfies approx about 10 a day and sometimes of her belly button ring :s) she has even called him at work to tell him that she misses him and if we are in a room together she would still message him on whatsapp even though we are all in the same room . she even rests her head on his shoulders when noone is around and if someone walks in the room she moves and he recently told me that she gave him a head massage. It all makes me uncomfortable and he sees nothing wrong with any of this. I trust him but i am unsure if any limits are being crossed or if i am just over thinking and being paranoid.Should i be worried? Please let me know what you all think because its bothering me a lot" As of two weeks ago my bf told me that a couple of months ago my cousin was talking about another guy and that he got upset about it and he realized that he has feelings for her.He says he never intended to have those feelings and it just happened and thought i deserved to know. i'm a mess emotionally honestly but now he says he loves me and wants to be with me but when i ask him to stop talking to my cousin or at least back off completely he says he can't.. He says he cares about her a lot and that he can control himself and be her friend alone, but what if he just continues to develop feelings for her? I am so confused. I need advice please..i love him so much ...

Someone have been with alone for a long time, the person is difficult to have connect with people and even have communication with many type of people?

I am noticing that in my current and past relationships, or in my relationships in general I really want to nurture people. I want to give my girlfriend love and emotional support. I want her to know she's loved, hold her in my arms when she's crying, sing to her, hold her, take care of her, feed her. I've also been very caring and loving to children. I'm 17 and I want to adopt children (I'm lesbian) I can't imagine complete happiness when I can't make someone feel loved or cared for. When I was a child myself, I'd have baby dolls and would sleep with them, "feed" them, change diapers, play nurse. All that stuff. Why could it be that I'm just so sensitive or over sensitive and caring? How can I make my girlfriend feel more cared and loved for? Thank you! God bless.

We've been dating for just over 2 weeks. She wants a baby. I do not want a child. I'm 32 with no kids. She's 26 with 1 child. Let's get the facts straight. I know I'm not going to hurt it. Growing up you couldn't keep anything from me. You hid something i would find it. I found all my dad's porn. He is freak. Let's just leave it at that. I was exposed to pregnant porn at a young age and that **** inverts my penis. I think it is gross. Like gay sex. I know 100% that it's ok. Normal even. I just don't want to do it. I respect anyone you does that **** and can look in that mirror after. I'm not that guy. The thought of going down on her literally turns me off so fast. Knowing there is a tiny human right above my head kills any and all hot sex thoughts. The idea of sex is just the same. I have never banged with a child in the same room as me. Ever. The thought of a child in the room kills my libido. I had planned on calling things off if the test was negative b/c come to find out....she has baby fever. Fml. I can't stand kids. The sight of them has literally turned my stomach. I have no intentions of having sex with her. I don't even want oral. Honestly i don't care if she wanted to find some weirdo that would have sex with while she is all gross b/c i refuse. Had we planned this at all i doubt i would be so cold or put off by the idea. Ps I'm bipolar, suffer from anxiety and depression.

I've been talking to this boy on snapchat(we went to engender l elementary together) and at first he good responses I guess you can say. Now when I text him he always replies with "oh" its really annoying me now, everytime I try to have a good conversation with him he replies with "idk, oh, I'll see". I don't want to ask him if I'm bothering him. He did tell me he was not happy but idk if that's why he's acting like that, I was trying to cheer him up to be happy but like I said his response was "oh" or "yea". Idk if I should continue to talk to him or stop talking to him I don't know if he's interested or not. Please help!

My bf and I have been together for about 10 and a half months and his little cousin has a quince on Saturday. He hasn't mentioned me going to him and I kinda wanna go bc im mexican but have never been to one before and this would prob be my only chance to go to one so I wanna ask but I'm scared he'll say it's just a family thing. Should I ask him if I can go? And if so how would I ask?

She was so smooth about it,that it caught me off guard.It makes me wonder if she does this to other people too.should i follow up on a date...

I am 22 and he is 32. I am considered somewhat 'disabled' legally. I was diagnosed with having a developmental disability when I was younger because I didn't function normally, but now I believe I have outgrown this. I still get services and support for having a 'disability', but I function normally. I go to college and am gaining more independence from my family. I know I can consent to intimacy with my bf. He just wants to make sure he can't legally get in trouble because of my background story.

Well, my brothers about to marry this girl. But she likes to make my life a living hell. My brothers 20. She's 19. I'm 17. I've never had a girlfriend (she had a field day with that one.) never had sex (once again, used this to **** with me.) and I'm also bipolar and have low self confidence (wombo combo. I know.) but anyway, she would record her and my brother *******, then show me the video and say "that will never be you. You honestly think you have a shot with calliope? (an assumed name for a girl I liked at the time.) ha, shed sooner die laughing at you than date you. You should just kill yourself." Later on I snapped. (I was 14 while all this was going on.) I'm physically very strong. But deep down inside, I think she was right. I'm undesirable, as little as I want to, maybe I should turn and face the truth. I can't find a way out except that knife in the kitchen. If she's marrying him. I'm not gonna get any relief. Nobody else knows about this because what are they gonna do? Everyone wants this wedding to happen. They all think she's the best girl ever. I know some out there have it worse than I do, but its still hurting. I know, I could be living in a war zone, starving, dehydrated, etc. But it still hurts. Alot. I know its nothing to be upset over, but... I just want it all to go away.

This is a confusing question. i think.. Ok, so i wanted to be a nurse and my father told me to study business so i can work with him .. and now every time we talk about business he says different things constantly!! like for example you should work at a bank, no you need to hurry up and work with me. How about starting your own business, like a clothing store? how about a farm? I've had many business ideas that he made me feel stupid when i brought them up. Once he told me to find land and he would buy it because i wanted to build an apartment building. I organized and everything, and at the end, he changed his mind! i was humiliated : ( When he should clothing store i found a location and suppliers, he changed his mind again! it keeps happening Does my father hate me? am i in denial he says if i leave his house he doesn't want anything to do with me!! I am 22.. i let that go, he says why work ? He can buy me whatever I need... ok, well i own 4 pants only...He gives me the run around about everything and i am very depressed and dont want to lose contact with him because i have a child and cant risk taking him to a bad place, i am scared of him ending up in a bad daycare.Right now my mom watches him 4-5 hours 3xweek when i am in class, as soon as i am inside hes with me

There are signs he likes me but he went through a divorce (which is final) right before I met him. Sometimes he seems crazy about me and others, I don't know if he remembers my name (that may be me pushing away some playing TOO hard to get).

Will he just think of me as some young pusssy? or actually date me and respect me 30 year old men how would you feel about dating a 21 year old???

Several months ago (beginning of this year or late last year my GF told me about a Fedex guy who delivered my package to her address and admitted that he has a secret crush on me. Since then i had alot goinfb on and didnt have time to think of him and etc. and didnt express interest in him everytime he delivered my packages. Now last month i saw a new fedex worker who delivered my package and aaked him if he can let his partner(the one who has a crush on me) know i was looking for him. 2 days later as in outside signing for a package from another company the fedex guy who i like comes from behind me (i had no clue he was approachinh from behind) . He calls my name twice (ms. Brown) and then asks "is this your package too and this one" (pointing to 2 different packages) i found it funny so i just looked him straight in eye and laughed. He gave great/stern eye contact as well and then turned around while having a smirk on his face. I was surprised he intiated a flirt with me he has NEVER done that before. Do you like he still has a crush on me and WHY do you think he was so bold and confident in his approach when ALL this time he wasnt? What should i do now? And do you think hes interested in me and likes me?

We broke up a couple months ago. He's not dating anyone but he turned 21 before we broke up and I'm under 21 for a couple more years. so he's been going out with friends and drinking since we broke up and strangely it bothers me. Idk why....he never did that before we broke up and now he is. He's not getting drunk and parting either, just going out. I'm not afraid he's gonna meet anyone but idk how to get over that jealously. I get jealous too when he likes someone's pic. It won't even be a pic of them it will be food or something and I get upset. Idk why I feel this way I'm not usually a jealous person im confident in myself but im not sure how to get over jealousy because I don't feel this too often :( please help

So, I just moved from California to Tennessee, and it has been a huge change. I m a very non-religious person, I support the LGBT community, and pretty much very liberal. Like California. We had to move to this ****-hole because of my dads job. I hate it here. I have already cried three times today, because I just feel so stressed. No one accepts how I am. I m being forced to go church by my grandparents. I m terrified I ll become depressed over this, which, I think I already have. I miss my friends, I miss my school, I miss how people dress, I miss how the state looked, I miss every tiny thing of California. And I just want to shoot myself. I hate it here. I want to go home. How do I tell my parents?

boyfriend of 8 years disrespects me?My boyfriend stays at a shelter...so last night he didn't have a clean sheet to sleep with so he was upset because the african American guy in charge told him the sheet was new but it wasn't so he got mad and while speaking to me he started saying negative and ugly things about the african American race so i reminded him that those are gods children and if you respect God you should just keep those things to yourself and he responded with "why don't you just suck their d**k since you care so much"..I was so hurt...before this we also been arguing because he wants us to get an apartment together but due to him being violent before Im skeptical he truly changed so far no signs of violence..he wants us to move in together but also doesn't understand that I need to help my mom pay her bills because she has no income and can't work..ever since my stepfather passed away I've felt responsible to take care of my mom...he doesn't respect that...hes hardly nice or romantic anymore..its stupid of me because I can't imagine myself without him..I guess its my low self esteem..or maybe I'm just so used to him...I just need advice..I've lost myself in these 8 years.I want to leave him but I can't imagine myself without him....please help .

I understand that most 14 year olds are not prepared to handle the consequences of sex but what if you are? I think if your mature enough to understand that you could get pregnant or get an std and you are in a long term commited relationship I don't understand why it's so bad. I know birth control isn't always 100% and your feelings for that person can change but what if you have accepted those facts? I'm just trying to get some different opinions.

Here are something's that happens Stepdad You will not be susessful I hate you I don't care about you Friends Can u buy me something Shut up you have a good life B**ch Mom Little emo 2xs Loner These are things that people said to my face I also discovered that people were spreading rumours about me for sh***ing my pants I feel so bad About myself then this happens

So me and my girlfriend are both 19. We came back to her parents house this week to visit. We were in my girlfriends room and we were having sex. I was getting really into it and then her 17 year old sister walks in on us and screams. Despite her screaming i didn't stop and kept going until my girlfriend pushed me off the bed. Well my **** (sorry don't have an appropriate word to use her) got all over her bed cause she pushed me off right as I was getting done. My girlfriend got dressed quickly and her parents ran into the room and saw me naked (cover up by the sheets) on the floor. They also saw my mess on her comforter. Her dad yelled at me to get out of his house and my girlfriend got yelled at by both of her parents. I ended up having to spend the night in a hotel and went back to their house to apologize the next day. My girlfriend refused to talk to me and her parents never want to see me again. I drove my girlfriend back to our apartment and we didn't speak the whole way home. I tried talking to her once we got into the foyer but she told me to pack my things and leave because I crossed a line with her and her family. I don't exactly know what line this was? Did I go too far with something?? This is not a ******* troll question for all those people who r like that. I wouldn't be asking this if I knew how to proceed with making matters better.

I need some advice on understanding my baby's father I am lost why do my baby's father do this. What's the purpose of it all and why he can't respect my wishes and come to an agreement. my baby father constantly sends mixed messages to me. it is so confusing and he is driving me nuts he is so sometimey. He wants us to do the family unit and live together and be together but I can not do that with someone I do not trust. he tells me he loves me women lie to me a lot cheat on me a lot that update them don't show up or even bother to call to cancel and he barely helped me out with the baby and his excuse he's always he's tired he's been working he's been trying to get the house together. one time I told him that we needed diapers he go to the store and only buys onelike he contributed very little but always pro claiming that he is doing a lot. why would I mean who obviously doesn't want to be with me nor do me love for you keeps making it difficult for me? she does not want to agree with me that we should just coparent I keep telling him we don't need to be together to raise a child.I do not want to continue to be with someone or tolerate he disrespect his lack of values for me and inconsiderate inconsiderate wave in his pathological lying and infidelity.he is entirely too selfish for me so en he doesn't even claim me so why is he pushing so hard for us to be in a relationship to raise a child when we can just cold here and its obvious he does not want me I am confused by this behavior.why does he do this? I have told him time and time again that I do not desire to be with him because he does not make me happy and I feel that I can do better and that we should just coparent.I told him to give me his social security number or address so I can give it to so so I mean so I can give it to child support office and he would not give me neither he kept talking about how we are moving together and that's it.what can I do to get him to see that it is officially over and I don't want to make a build a family unit with him?this is stressing me out because he is making it hard for me then it should be. He tries to give his bare minimum effort. I'm do not understand why he keep playing with my emotions and making it hard for me. I feel hopeless. I have never felt so worthless in my life...that is how he makes me feel. I have never felt so disregarded EVER like he disregards me. And I really wish he would leave me alone. I don't understand why he treats me the way He do. Its funny because in the beginning he promised he would never hurt me. Help figure this guy out!

ME and him both had yahoo messenger which an instant messenger for online chat which we used chat on every weekend and some times holidays he used to tell me about about his friends, he told me he wanted to be pilot and do aeronautic engineering and he told me about his gf and showed me her photo. I also used to email him through his email id a lot .i also talk to him on the phone as well.

Something very strange happened to me tonight and I don't know how to feel about. I'm fourteen and my mom has been married to my stepfather for about five years. He's forty-nine. Anyways, it was about ten o'clock at night and my mom was picking up my brother from his friend's house. I was laying in my bed listening to music when my stepfather came upstairs into my room. We're fairly close and I do love and trust him, but I don't know if I do anymore. He sat down at the foot of my bed and he started talking to me about school and he began rubbing my thigh (I was wearing panties and a shirt). I didn't think much if it because he only did it for a short time. Then, he started asking he about me having boyfriends and if I had had my first kiss. One thing led to another and I somehow began talking about my insecurities and he began stroking my hair and telling me that I was beautiful and smart. I would be okay with this, but then he laid down next to me on my bed, wrapped his arms around me, and started kissing my neck. I was shocked and didn't know what to do. He asked me if it felt good and I just said yes. He then told me to kiss him and he did before I could protest. After that he tucked me into bed and kissed my forehead and told me he loved me and that I could come to him for anything. I don't know if that was molestation because I wasn't refusing, but I'm still weirded out.

A couple months ago i posted this "My boyfriend and i have been in a relationship for over 5 years. My cousin messages him via whatsapp constantly, calls him alot and sends him pictures of herself to him (not nude pics but endless selfies approx about 10 a day and sometimes of her belly button ring :s) she has even called him at work to tell him that she misses him and if we are in a room together she would still message him on whatsapp even though we are all in the same room . she even rests her head on his shoulders when noone is around and if someone walks in the room she moves and he recently told me that she gave him a head massage. It all makes me uncomfortable and he sees nothing wrong with any of this. I trust him but i am unsure if any limits are being crossed or if i am just over thinking and being paranoid.Should i be worried? Please let me know what you all think because its bothering me a lot" As of two weeks ago my bf told me that a couple of months ago my cousin was talking about another guy and that he got upset about it and he realized that he has feelings for her. i'm a mess emotionally honestly but now he says he loves me and wants to be with me but when i ask him to stop talking to my cousin or at least back off completely he says he can't.. He says he cares about her a lot and that he can control himself, but what if he just continues to develop feelings for her? I am so confused. I need advice please..i love him so much ...

hi I'm on vacation in California and my cousins live there so I'm at their house and I step out of the room for a couple of seconds and when I get back there talking about my moobs and how fat I am and if I would get mad if they took my shirt off. it just makes me really depressed and u don't think I can take it much longer. Please leave suggestions for what I should do

I was wondering what does it mean when you run into a guy and you guys start talking for little then stop talking, then you run into him again and start back talking, then the process repeats itself again. Is it fate or something?

I'm in love with my boyfriend. I want to tell him, but i'm scared he doesn't feel the same way. I know he loves spending time with me and he's attracted to me, but I don't know if he loves me. I want him to so badly. I want to tell him, but I'm afraid he'll tell me he doesn't feel the same way. That would make me feel terrible and I'm afraid it would ruin our relationship. I'm hoping over time he is the first one to tell me because then I'd give him a huge kiss and tell him i love him too. That would be a lot easier than getting rejected like that. Should i tell him now that I love him or should i wait for him to tell me? I'm 20 and he's 25. I've had boyfriends before, but this is the first time i've ever been in love.

I care for a wonderful two-year-old boy, and have been with the family since before he was born, but...his mother is an absolute nightmare. Problems began because we never had a nanny contract where it clearly stated what was expected of me, but we had agreed on light housekeeping, but suddenly I found myself doing EVERYTHING and they are not clean or organized people...My pay was reduced from 8an hr to 7 because my cleaning was not satisfactory to her. I have no paid holidays, vacations or sick days... She's the type who wants everything to be placed exactly where it was after I clean, and I try my hardest but yesterday she texts me asking where her marshmallows where(yes this actually happened...), and before I could text back she texts me again saying she really hated how I organized everything for myself and she and her husband couldn't find anything, and to not forget it was their house and that things must be organized in a way that works for them... I NEVER move things to a completely different place unless told to do so. I just ignored her text because I was so upset...She does that kind of thing often, and I nearly have a panic attack every time I get a new text... I have another oportunity, and want to accept, even if I do love the little boy I care for now, i can't continue being miserable...the new job wouldn't start for a whole month, and I have no clue how to talk to my current boss since i still need to work until my new job starts...any advice? thanks

My life is out of control! I am dealing with depression issues that I can t shake! My weight is 230 n I m 4 11. I am exercising to lose it but nothing has happened. I HATE MY JOB!!!! I have been looking for something else but again I got nothing. My grandfather just passed away 2 weeks ago in the morning and my grandma who was the closest to me passed away that night. My boyfriend likes to argue or get mad over the slightest stuff but when I do it...it s an issue. My father is daking with the passing of my gma n he is taking it hard so I am trying to be there 4 him but I can t because I can t be here 4 me. I was going to admit myself in the hospital but I didn t because I love my bf of 5 yrs n I think it would b messed up if I left him to take care of all the bills by hisself. I want to be a radios host n own my own hair salon but every time I take a step forward I am brought back. I hate that I can t afford to do much but I work my butt off to still be broke. At this point I want to say forget life n end it all. I don t feel like I have anyone in my corner n if I do they don t understand me. Someone please help me.

Don't they know that they will never be anything more than just an extra hole to hump? I've witnessed this with celebrities, how a celebrity is accused of cheating because some stripper let out the secret..why? Is it because they are jealous that the person they are having an affair with stopped returning her calls?

ya le dije que me gusta y ella me dijo que por el momento no quería tener novio eso fue hace 4 meses y ahora me mira con mas atención, se ve mas interesada. pero no se que decirle las cosas, pedirle que sea mi novia o ir conquistándola por favor ayúdenme ¿muchas gracias?

hola, miren que soy estudiante de odontologia, tengo 22 años y ya me faltan 2 años para graduarme. La cosa es que hay ratos que no quiero seguir en esta carrera. Claro que me gusta lo que estudio pero cuando estoy en clases poniendo atencion o cuando estoy en casa estudiando, me doy cuenta que me falta mucho que aprender y me deprime un poco. Siento que no estoy preparada, ya q esta carrera es dificil y con lleva mucha responsabilidad. Yo soy una chava bien relajada y dejo que el viento me lleve donde quiera. Casi nunca me detengo por nada, me gusta arriesgarme , tomando aventuras, descubriendo cosas nuevas. Cuando decidi entrar a la universidad, solo elegi odontologia por curiosidad y con el tiempo me fue gustando. Yo no sabia lo que queria pero tenia que entrar a la universidad. Ahora cada dia que pasa me pongo a pensar que quiero hacer con mi vida. Yo siento que naci para ayudar a la gente, incluso animales, que mas lo necesitan. Me encanta conocer gente, platicar, escucharlos, aprender de ellos y enseñarles las cosas lindas que existen aun en este mundo. Me gustaria andar por el mundo conociendo las diferentes culturas. Pero no soy alguien con dinero y necesito estudiar algo importante para poder salir adelante. Vivo en un pais subdesarrollado donde tienes que estudiar lo que de dinero para poder sobrevivir. Yo queria ser fotografa, trabajar con revistas importantes o agencias de publicidad. Pero aqui creo que me muero del hambre.

I recently got a reckless driving ticket and my license is expired. I don't have high hopes for when I go to court and I could get a criminal record for that and ruin my life. but at the same time I just graduate from high school and I'm going to college for the degree I want and there are people that love me. I want all the stress to go away by just killing myself but at the same time there are so many good things in my life right now.