Today my dad and I were arguing for a few hours. My dad always says he loves me even though he yells at me to a point where I'm bawling. We always argue about the same things.. School. I'm in high school and my marks are fairly okay except the difficult subjects like math. I've been working very hard so my marks can get better to impress him. I also have a boyfriend and we've been together for a year a half, since the beginning of highschool. He's never been so happy on the idea of this. Anyways, he always tells me about how I need to do better in school and less focus on other things but today it got to a point where he basically said I need to break up with my boyfriend and he's willing to let that happen meanwhile we both love each other and he's my best friend. I honestly don't know what to do. Even if we stayed together we wouldnt be able to see eachother outside of school. Someone please help.

Alright, so my family and my cousins family have been fighting for years now let's say 4 years now and I haven't been to her house and she hasn't been to mine. The only time we actually see each other though is when family friends invite both of us over. When we both see each other I usually don't make eye contact with her and avoid talking to her. Now this cousin of mine likes to jump into conversations that she wasn't even a part of. This cousin of mine when I would used to regularly come into her house whatever she wanted her parents would gladly give it to her. To see how much she was used to receiving things here is a quick story: I was at her house and my parents had a Netflix account and she didn't so she went to her dad and and asked if she could get one. Her dad told her no that it required a credit card so she threw a fit and started to cry I tried telling her it wasn't necessary and so finally her dad gave in and got her one that very day. Back to the problem when nobody pays attention to her she gets mad and walks away. My friends are actually her friends as well so when I start a topic she is the one that usually makes comments that are like, "well, everybody knew that" or she would make another obvious comment that would direct the attention back to her.

So I'm 19 and in college, and don't have my own computer or even a smartphone, and a lot of stuff for my classes is online. I have to use my parents computer or the ones at school. Most days in class, the professor says something like " ...and everything you need is online, so go do that now." I can't do this, and every time in talk to my dad about it, he tells me " when I was your age, everyone got by without computers and smartphones, so you can to. And if you really want one, you can pay for it yourself." Well, it's kind of hard to get a job when I'm taking 16 credit hours and spending every spare moment using the computers at school. How do I convince him that it's not the 1980 s anymore and smartphones are actually a sort of necessity for modern life?

Hey,here is some info on what has happened, i am a male, i have turned 18, and my uncle is 39. I have been struggling with severe depression for about 3 years now with a few therapists currently helping me out and i have always had trouble with getting my grades up. I only live with my mom and i haven't seen my father for many years because they split when i was 5. My mom and i have moved to 4 different cities throughout my life and i had to leave all of my friends every time. My relationship with my mom has been pretty bad my whole life. We would verbally fight every single night when she would come home from work. Most of the fights were due to her throwing her anger out on me because of her job stressing her out and me not doing well in school. I am now still struggling in high school with getting my grades up and making more friends. My family always thinks i'm using my depression as an excuse to not do anything even though i've made 3 suicide attempts within these couple of years. Now my mom has a habit of secretly calling my uncle whenever things aren't going well with me and now my uncle is really fed up with me. My uncle has recently warned me that if i ever talk back to my mom, not do what i am suppose to do, or get my grades up, he is going to drive to my house from another state and severely beat me up and possibly put me in the hospital. He even said he would drive down here and throw me off my 3 story balcony in my apartment and he would push my mom out the way.

A few years ago my brother who might I say had everything, a home, a great job, a son got w not so great girlfriend and since then his life has gone down hill. Lost his job, house and is now behind in child support and on heroin. He was living in and out of hotels for the past 6 months with a new girl who wasn't any better after the robbed my parents for money and guns to pawn. Long story short my brothers back in jail but it's only on child support charges, they've never actually gotten him with any drug charges but he did tell the state troopers and I think the judge that he is on heroin. My father is begging me to find a way to force my brother to get help but I don't think I can get the courts to order a rehab or anything of that type with there being no drug chargers. My brother says when he gets out he's going straight back to his ex who left him in a hotel but he's in denial and to get heroin. My parents have offered him everything to get better but the only way it'll even start to happen is if we can get the courts and judges to help. Does anybody have any suggestions?? Right now jail is the best place but last time he convinced the judge to let him out so we're afraid they'll just let him out again.

can't stand my uncle living with me and my cousin. we are roommates and ever since we moved in he has been here almost every single day . i enjoy myself when he is not here. I just am a private person and like the space to myself and my roommate. How do I tell my cousin I don't want my uncle here. Don't get me wrong, I love him but I need my space. All of this stresses me out and I am not enjoying my summer. Should i tell my cousin in a laughing way like I need to live my life, why is he here. or should i tell him in a more serious nice but straightforward manner, like why is he staying every day, and be like would it not be better if he came on some days If it were my dad living with us, I know my cousin would be upset but I don't think he would ever confront me on it, what do i do, i have just signed a lease so moving out is not an option

So I have an aunt who can't stand seeing good things happen to me. Things have always come easy for me. I was raised with a silver spoon and given everything I ever wanted. Everything I have put my mind to I excel at as well. Maybe her bitter feelings started when she took me out for my bday when I was 13 and I started cursing in front of her and saying "F THIS< MOTHERFER! F THAT MOTHERFER!" Why doesn't she like me?

I'm 27 and my entire life my Dad never gave me the time of day. I have voiced my frustration to him over the years, which does nothing. He doesn't know anything about me and has never tried to connect with me. The only times he talks to me are for doing chores or bad advice. He says he loves me, but he never ever shows it. Throughout the past year I have emailed him heartfelt notes, saying I completely forgive him and that it's not weak to show emotion, which did nothing. A few weeks later he actually kicked me out because I shared my hurting heart with him. All I did was talk in a passionate way. He actually has called the police to come into the house because I'm "harassing" him. He always says I "bully them" when I talk about heart issues, yet he yells and swears at me, kicks me out. Anytime I show emotion like this, he kicks me out. My Dad has told me that he views his role as a parent as someone "to prepare you for life in the real world. I'm not supposed to be your friend" Many people have told me that he acts this way because he was raised this way; I was raised the same way he was mostly, yet I'm able to show affection easily.. If I had a son, we would be best friends and share intimacy all the time! You think he would want to reverse the curse and be the best Dad ever. The past few years have been incredibly lonely, yet he never drew close to me... he treats me like an employee. Why is he this way with me?

When I was 18 my Mom called herself adopting my sisters baby when he was 9 months. My Mom kept him for a week got married and dropped the baby off and said she's not messing up her life. I had to drop out of college and work two jobs to name ends meet. I never got to live and enjoy life. I'm now 24 and want to start back school. But I'm still struggling. My Mom and sister take turns claiming the child on their taxes. My Mom has custody and receives all benefits. I didn't chose this life and always wanted to wait to have kids. I love him like he's mine. But I'm not ready to be a Mom. I'm more into getting through with school and having a career. My Mom now divorced her husband. I want to ask her to keep him 4 and I keep him the rest of the 3 days. I just want to finish college. I've tried so many times to talk to my Mom and she just makes me feel bad and put me on a guilt trip. I haven't been happy in a long time. Everyone tells me what they want me to do but don't care what I want. Would I be a bad person if I dropped him off with my Mom?

My girlfriend and I have been together since we were in middle school (we are currently in high school) and I love her very much but I don't like her mom. Her mom is always getting mad at her for dumb and stupid ****. She treats her like she's not even her child but when it comes to her son she will do everything for him. I see it whenever I'm around them. She's always yelling at her for dumb stuff and my girlfriend is always doing things that the mother should be doing. She is always cleaning and cooking and folding everyone's clothes, but the mother does nothing and neither does the son. I'm just fed up because she is constantly crying and upset and I don't like seeing her that way - I mean guys can clean too. During the school year she always go to sleep late because she is busy taking care of everyone else but it is affecting her school work. I'm just fed up. Am I wrong?

Right so yesterday I blew a kiss at my maths teacher as a joke but she freaked out because she hates me and told my senior teacher. I literally didn't know this would be such a big deal, especially since she's same gender as me and I'm not a lesbian and I'm pretty sure my teachers know that because they know have had a boyfriend. Coincidentally, my mum has a meeting with the senior teacher about home life (long story, but the meeting was arranged way before yesterday, when my maths teacher complained) and this senior teacher said she will tell my mum about it. I don't know whether I should lie and say I was laughing, and had my hand over my mouth and it looked like I was blowing a kiss or tell the truth which will be very embarrassing for ME especially in front of my mum because I don't really have a reason why I did it, I had no bad intentions, I was just being silly. Please help? 10 points!

I am a high school guy with a 26 year old step mom. She is the best mom any guy can have. I just love and adore her. Beside being my mom, she is my best friend. I can share stuff with her that I would not tell any other person in the world. She always is there helping me when I need help. We are very close. Most school days she will come into my room in her shorty nightgown and wake me up to get ready for school. She is so beautiful and has a figure to die for that it takes effort on my part NOT TO GET A B0NER. If I got a b0ner, that would be the MOST EMBARRASSING thing that could ever happen to me and would be SO WRONG. Guys, any tips on how I can keep from getting a b0ner in this situation? It is bad enough that sometimes I wake up with a b0ner anyway. Guys does that ever happen to you? Is that normal?

I have successfully convinced my mom to get me an iPhone 6 plus but my dad is still on the fence and thinks that a phone is unnecessary I do good in studies and am very obedient too Ps I don't live in USA or Europe or idk where and therefore the 18 and independent rule does not apply here and I'm female 17 and never had a smartphone before And Money is not an issue

Hello I'm a 13 year old boy and I also get morning wood every single morning and I also am a heavy sleeper so I sleep through my alarm a lot so my mom (who I am very close with) came to wake me up she woke me up and I took off the covers not knowing I had morning wood not only did she see that but my penis was stick out the little boxer hole and my mom just stood there for 10 seconds just in shock then I didn't say any thing neither did I and after that she just left the room with a little grin on her face I felt really really really embarrassed and we talked normally that day but she didn't mention it but I still feel very embarrassed pls help

Ok so, I'm 17 while my cousin is almost 11. She imitates me in many things. She makes also these imitations more evident when she's with me, I mean, when she's alone she does some kind of activities, never what I do. When she's with me she always, or almost, tries to imitate me. Here's an example: I was on my bed with a notebook and my cell phone with some music on. Then she arrives and lies on my bad with a notebook and tries to play some music too. And this happened more than once. Also she wants to stay with me a lot and she always says things like " is mine, don't touch him" or similar, also sometimes she says ", you're beautiful... Right?" And similar. This has been continuing and intensifying for some months.. Is she kinda in love with me or something? Should I leave this thing and waiting or not? Oh yes, since some months ago she changed her musical tastes and those moved to something closer to what I listen than before.. These are only few things of what she does.. Thanks for the advices and please only serious answers.

So I m 12 and I live with my dad.I have 2 sister and 1 brother.Both of my sister live together now with my grammy.I have asked my dad several times if I could live with my sister but he says no because he doesn t like my granny and grandpa and it makes me upset because I have been through a lot and the fact he just says no the. Rants about how bad they are makes me upset. I mean it makes me feel like he doesn t care about me which I know he does but still. My mom said he is being selfish aomd I just don t know . Please someone help me with this situation!!

How much do abortions cost these days? And a bottle of chloroform? I saved up 150$ the last 3 months... or would it be easier to just shove her down a flight of stairs?

I m currently 15 and with school stress, puberty and fights I ve found out that alcohol is a stress reliever for me. I know I m too young to say this, but it s just like that. I don t smoke anything nor do I have sex, I find smoking unnecessary and I m too young and scared for sex, but I really love to drink alcohol just like today s whole generation. So, this Easter my friend from a not so near city came to my town, and the 2 of us + some other friends decided to drink at her place since she was home alone. I wasn't allowed to sleepover at her place that night because it'd be the 3rd night in a row. I decided to drink a bit and get sober before going home, but it didn't go as planned. No one noticed that I came home, but I had to vomit and I didn't want to go to the toilet because my dad would hear me so I decided to vomit out of the window and fell asleep. Early in the morning I looked out of the window and saw the mess I made, since it was about 7AM I got down to clean it up before anyone wakes up. I cleaned everything up but I saw my dad walking around the house and he saw me. I just ran to my room and later on he came to my room to ask me what I was doing. I really didn't want to lie to him and I thought he'd understand me somehow, so I only told him I was feeling sick last night and I just vomited out the window, I didn't mention any alcohol but he realized it on his own. Of course, he told my mom and I started losing their trust. It's the last day of school on Tuesday and a few friends from my class decided to go eat out after school and later that night go drink somewhere. Since I live in the countryside, not the city, my parents' are worried that I will do something stupid again and I totally understand that they're just looking out for me, but this is getting way too crazy. Everytime I want to go for a walk at night with my friends they barely let me go, and when I want to have a normal sleepover without alcohol they say that they're going to call my friend's parents to see if I'm really going to be at her home and not somewhere out. And since I want to sleepover at my friend's on Tuesday (they don't know her because we only started going to school together this year) they don't want to let me. And if it was a normal kind of going out I would somehow accept it if they said 'no', but this is the last day of school and everyone is going, and I really want them to let me go too, What should I do? I don't need the usual lecture, I'm getting enough of it already. It was just that one time I got really drunk and threw up, but I was with at my friend's house the whole time so I knew I was safe there. The other times I just drink like 3 glasses and stop because I know it won't be good if my parents found out again. And I'm to drink the usual 3-4 glasses on the last day, hell, as for me I don't even have to drink that night, I just want my parents to let me go spend time with my friends.

I feel like I am failing as a mother and in my relationship. I work, cook, clean & go to church faithfully and feel like that's enough for my home. I haven't always been this way but lately I feel like I need more time to myself or with my friends. I feel like I need to go in an isolation period. I find most of my time trying to solve my friends & family issues instead of my own. Is isolation the way to go? I need to focus on my own home first & only!

It's my mom's birthday soon and my parents' ___th anniversary (yeah not quite sure on the year). This year I ordered a really cute pair of shoes for my mom (she loves shoes) and the new wongfu productions movie for them to watch together in their free time. However, I want it to be a surprise. I thought my parents wouldn't be home the week the packages were due to arrive but it turns out they will. How can I get the package without them noticing? Btw I don't have a debit or credit card so saying I ordered something for myself won't work.

I'm a 14 year old girl, and I have a 9 year old brother. We're pretty close; we tell each other secrets, etc. Anyway, yesterday I was in his room looking for one of my socks when I heard a thump from the wall. Our rooms are adjacent and I screamed when I saw him leaving my room shirtless because he freaked me out. He begged me not to say anything and began pushing me out. I demanded to know what he had been doing in my room, and after him begging and pleading for me not to say anything, he finally admitted to trying on a few of my dresses. My immediate reaction was shocked laughter, and I asked him why. He said, "I'm just a silly person. I was just being silly," and tried to leave. I let him go because he seemed embarrassed. He wasn't crying or anything, he was smiling, but he seemed a little ashamed. Today, I walked into my room and found him putting away one of my dresses, butt naked. My reaction was similar to the one previous, and he pleaded for me not to say anything. Again, he was naked. "I'm just being silly," he squeaked, grabbing my head. "Don't tell anyone." Then my dad came into the room, claiming to be "looking for the cat," and was pushed out by my brother. Then my mom came upstairs and listened to our conversation outside the door. Anyway, now my parents know. He's only nine, and my mom said he did this once when he was even younger. Does this mean anything, or was he just being curious?

I can't stand my uncle living with me and my cousin. we are roommates and ever since we moved in he has been here almost every single day . i enjoy myself when he is not here. I just am a private person and like the space to myself and my roommate. How do I tell my cousin I don't want my uncle here. Don't get me wrong, I love him but I need my space. All of this stresses me out and I am not enjoying my summer. Should i tell my cousin in a laughing way like I need to live my life, why is he here. or should i tell him in a more serious nice but straightforward manner, like why is he staying every day, and be like would it not be better if he came on some days only If it were my dad living with us, I know my cousin would be upset but I don't think he would ever confront me on it. what do i do I have just signed a lease so moving out is not an option

My mom calls me a b*tch, piece of poop, no good idiotic kid, also ever since I got braces she has called me braces face. Or railroad tracks mouth. Why is she so mean? She blames me for everything she did wrong and that's me like the adult and she's the kid. Why does she do this? Help?

I have a huge foot fetish I smell and lick her shoes when ever she is gone my dad is a busy person and always out Is there any way I can worship her feet

I have 3 kids their father and I are no longer together, he has nothing to do with them he is not in their lives at all we live in the same town and he never sees them I used to look for him so that he can see them but I gave up on that I cannot force him to be a part of their lives. I have a boyfriend who I have been with for 8 year's now who loves them and treat them as his own my oldest son loves his biological father no matter what he says that one day he can change & will be there for him, but my younger two don't really know him as they were really small when we left each other, they consider my boyfriend their father and they want to carry his last name they have both told me on their own what should I do what can I do

Before getting into the question Im gonna clarify my situation ahha Im 16 I was born in the US (pennsylvania) My parents got divorced when I was like 5 and I lived with my mom ever since. I would see my dad every weekend. About 4 years ago I move to Uruguay with my mom and 2 brothers and my dad stayed in the US and he moved to California. Now I want to move to California with my dad in November. im not happy here and I see my future in the US. My dad already knows that I want to move with him and hes doing everything he can job wise and money wise so that he can have a stable income to have a daughter living with him. If I say to my mom that I want to move with my dad will I be able to? I really dont want to leave my family here but I think its best that I try to make myself happy, I dont see myself living here. Im looking out for my future, I really want to go to ollege in California and I know I wont be able to do that living here. Do I need her permission to live with my dad? Obviously I want her to be ok with me leaving. Am I doing the right thing? Thank you!!

She makes me and my sister take a shower at 8 in the morning and takes her own at like 3:00pm. She makes us wake up at 5:30 and she doesn't get up til 10:00. All she does is yell at us for no reason. She makes us clean up HER messes and makes us do everything she is too lazy to do. What should we do please help. Fyi we don't live with her...we just have to stay with her all summer :(

after telling her to leave, she finally left. As she was going out the door she told me to never contact her or the rest of my family again, since I chose that skanks over her. I don't know what to do. I love my wife, but I can't help but feel anger towards her for this. She didn't say much to my mother, but if she maybe had made more than eggs and bacon for breakfast and didn't scramble all of the eggs. Maybe if she talked a little more to my mom. She wasn't rude, she was polite, but I could tell it was strained. Why would my mom do this?

¿Son peligrosas las pausas mayores a 2.50 seg? Tengo 18 años, me hice un holter y me salio que tuve 5 pausas mayores a 2.50 seg, y en cierto momento durante el sueño mi frecuencia cardíaca llego a 43. Ademas una EV sencilla y 1 ESV sencilla mas 1 escape ventricular. Los últimos 2 meses eh tenido crisis de pánico recurrentes.

my older sister is constantly fighting and yelling at my parents, but she still doesn't have to do any chores around the house. she also gets to do basically whatever she wants, my parents let her smoke pot and get away with it! the list could go on but i just want answers i cant really do that if my parents wont let me

currently I'm seventeen, and I feel as if my mom has been putting her boyfriends before me. Is that a normal thing? when I was 16 I noticed it first. She had a boyfriend who was was very inconsiderate of her feelings. Yet when it came to day to day life she put him before me. sometimes I would need to be picked up from school or a friend's house and she would end up being 2 or 3 hours late. It was usauly cause she was texting or hanging out with her boyfriend. and every time I brought it up she would say something like "I'm not your chauffeur. I don't have to pick you up". sometimes I try to just chat with her and she would ignore me or she would blindly nod to whatever I said because she was texting her guy. She just kind of quit spending time with me when it came to this guy. Now she has a new boyfriend and he's a pretty decent guy, but starting all over again. Only worse. every time she's on her phone its as if the world around her doesn't exist and she will ignore everything I say. on my 17th birthday I needed a car ride to my friends house which is only about 6 miles away, but instead of taking me when I asked her to she waited about 3 hours to take me. that's 3 hours was time that she talk with her boyfriend on the phone. I mean she spends ridiculous amounts of money on putting minutes on her phone. she also says things like "don't screw this up for me" like I'm intentionally going to ruin her relationship. she also wants me to change for this new boyfriend.

I LIKE MUSLIMS THE FACT THEY CAN BEAT THER WOMEN AND CUT OFF PEOPLES HANDS, I don't really religious i just want to slap around my fat wife without getting into trouble/

I just got my cheerleading uniform for the fall season, and my younger brother wants to try it on and wear it around the house while my parents are at work. Should I let him? He says it looks really cute, and it looks like a lot of fun to wear.

Okay I've found recently that my parents have been going through my room, my internet history, phone, trying to log into my social media accounts and also they have now stopped me hanging around with certain people because they don't like what they have seen on their facebook? The most recent one that has annoyed my they are going through my personal items such as my bag and found things I'm not supposed to have but it's things I'm sure many teenagers have had. they then tell me to come to them if I ever want to talk because I can 'trust them' I then let my bag alone fr ten minutes and they had gone through it again to find more things. I am so angry because I feel like I have no privacy at all am I just over reacting or is this wrong of them? They also try to dictate what I wear and if I wear something they don't like they will insult me for the entire day over it, and when they take me clothes shopping they wont let me go into the shops I want to or buy the clothes/shoes I actually and it's bad enough I have self image problem and they make it worse because I feel uncomfortable in the clothes they buy me. I'm 16 they also try to dictate my music taste

I'm 18 and for ten years, i've been criticized about absolutely everything by my step dad. He was really nice to me until my half sister was born. It seems that as soon as his biological daughter was born, he turned on us and began being an absolute monster. It's really starting to affect my relationship with my mum, my half sister, and my grandparents (his side of the family, as I don't go on family outings if he's there) I've even been diagnosed with depression and social anxiety pretty much because of the way he's treated me. If we're in public, he'll try and trip me over to embarrass me. He'll shout at me for small things in the middle of the street for example: I forgot to turn the tv off when I left for work and he followed me down the street and shouted "Well done for not turning the tv off you useless child" in front of people. It's getting to the point where I feel I can't take it anymore. I can't even remember a day where I haven't cried because of him. I just want a proper family, but it seems impossible. I don't even know my real dad. Why do you think he's so horrible to me? I've tried talking to him but I'm always ignored. Any advice? My mother has spoken to him about how bad he treats me, and he promised he would change and he apologized. He even was in tears when he heard about how I was feeling. However, a few days later, he went back to being how he always was.

I can't even go shopping without being accused of looking at other women, when I go to the gym she accuses of going there to chat and look at other women! She ask to see my phone contacts my whatsapp contacts and have ask me to delete female friends from my phone and facebook which i have and now I don't have any contact with them, but she's allowed male friends to chat to whenever she likes! I could on and on but that should be enough for you to imagine how it is for me? It's making me feel down and depressed! What do I do?? Please help! Do I end it or just keep putting up with this ****?

I am 28 years old. He is 26 years old. This started when we were in our early teens. He stopped talking to me. Stop coming to see family, once he got married. I tried giving him space. Nothing ever happened outside of normal sibling events. Taking each other stuff, disagreeing, and fighting every now and then. I never hated him for it... However now I have a daughter, and he apparently wants to be around. Pretending everything is ok, when it clearly is not. However recently at my daughters birthday party. He came with his wife. They didn't speak a word to me. However wanted to be a part of my daughters life. Which I do not approve of at all. As we haven't really spoken in nearly 10 years. So frankly I don't know him or his wife. They asked to watch my daughter and I simply told them we'd talk about it later. The **** hit the fan when I offered to take my youngest brother to a movie and I was told he already had plans with my other brother. My youngest brother invited me along. I told him I wouldn't be comfortable without asking my other brother first. Since he has deep seeded issues with me for no apparent reason. I text and called him. No reply. I text and called his wife as well. She said he'd have him call me. I never got a reply. I was avoided. 48 hours later...they ask to watch my daughter. So I told them both via text that until my brother was able to move past all this hate and grudging...I was not comfortable with it. That I wasn't pretending anymore.

I an 18 year old girl and going to university this fall. Before you tell me I can solve my problems by "moving out", no I can't live off a minimum wage job and no I don't have any place where I can stay over the summer. My mom has always been controlling, but these past few months, she has been going nuts. She accuses me of everything and anything. example: I coughed in the shower yesterday and she thinks Im bulimic -__- It's like she enjoys finding things to get mad about. During her rages, she comes into my room, verbally and physically abuses me. She does not hesitate to break my stuff and she threatens stuff like "I'm not letting you go to university". Her rages are crazy, I'm not an irresponsible, angsty child or anything. I don't yell back at her. I recorded her once and showed a friend and they told me to call the cops. When my dad is home, she doesn't do anything to me. My dad is very distant so I can't really talk to him for anything, plus I'm relying on him to help me out with university tuition. My program is very expensive and I just barely convinced him to help out. If I call the cops on my mom, he'll KILL ME. All I want is 3 months of peace. What do I do?

My two brothers (the cause of my temper) do everything to provoke me and make me the angriest possible, as if it was a competition. They make fun of my opinions, ridicule my actions, and don't take me seriously when I try to have a deep conversation with them. They blame me for existing (even if it's a joke) and don't seem to notice I have feelings. The issue is, they think I can easily control my temper and live up to their standards as if were that easy. My mom, teaming with them, claims that she cares about me and will listen to my problems, but when I try to talk to her about them, she goes on about how much of a "demonic child" I am. The thing is, my mom suffers from stress, which is caused when my brothers and I have heated arguments, She spends most of her time complaining about me and my lost temper. She even claims that I should be locked away in an insane asylum instead of living at our house, causing her stress. As for my dad, he turns the angriest when I lose my temper. He wakes up at 4 am to go to work and returns late, at around 8. Most of me and my brothers' heated arguments happen late, and that's when he's asleep. When he wakes up, I see a new side to him I've never seen before. He literally goes insane and threatens to throw his shoe at me. It's scary. Forgiveness doesn't come easy. My family has a habit to believe my temper comes from the same side of me, but that's not true. I just wish I had a way to control it.

Im 16 yr old girl and my parents do the traditional arranged marriage thing which i dont agree with, their going to pay the family of the guy im supposed to marry after i turn 18 $950,000 dollars. The boy they picked is a christian and he is not even cute ew, and then they want kids from us HA dont make me laugh, we dont even have that much in common other than having top notch grades and going to a private school, thats it. I want to date a boy that is from my choice not from some matchmaking game. I already have a scholarship for biomedical engineer and i have my saved funds of $430,000 that my parents gave to me to use during college, im considering running away and being free and living my own life.

So I've been doing my own thing now and just letting my dad know were I'm going or doing and he recently got real mad at because I didn't come back one night but I let him know I would sleep over my friends house and I think he wants to kick me out ??

So like I said in the title I'm 14 and we are getting evicted. First here is some backround in 2010 my mom, and dad where living with our family here but it wasnt his house. It was his parents house, my dad left the state in 2011. So now we have been living in the house not paying rent to then for years even though they never asked. Since my dad is no longer living in the house they are kicking me and my sister out also. My mom doesnt have a job, and has no credit, my mom's mother who is living with us has horrible credit so we can't find a place to live. So in a month we are kicked out. I just don't understand how my grandparents who are very wealthy would kick us out. They said if my dad comes back he will get the house for free, but if he doesnt they are selling it. I don't know what to do I can't stop worrying for my family life truely sucks at the moment for me ruining my summer also. My mom's mother can afford places but since her bad credit we can't get a place.

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I have a couple friends who are currently homeless. They have been sleeping on my floor for the past 3 nights. Last night, I was telling the girl that I wanted to set household rules for people who came over in general, not just them, and basic respect. We went to bed, and I heard them having sex. Not super loud, but enough to where I could hear the moans. Now, they are not paying rent. They are using my place as a crash-pad. I'm the one who has to clean up their ***, wash that blanket (which was my favorite blanket, and I'm probably gonna throw out now) They have been taking showers, which I'm okay with, but they are using my energy bill, my shampoo, my soap and conditioner. They are using my plates that I have to wash more. And the guy has been going into my cupboards and stealing food, drinking milk from the jug. I know they're homeless and hungry, but I'm on a tight budget too and I can't afford him eating all the stuff he does. Anyways, I ended up coming out and making myself very noticeable while having sex. I went back to my room, took a chill pill, and came out and confronted them saying all the things I said above and "If you either steal or have sex on my floor again, you both will be kicked out. We all know what basic respect is, so have some. You're in someone else's house." Was I too harsh? Was it stupid to get mad at something like that?

I have a deep passion and desire to do music but I feel as though my parents don't really want me to since they always convince me to do.other things like sports which is my current focus even though I don't really have interest in it. How can I convince them that I not only want to focus more on music but for them to be on board with it?

My cousin and I got into a fight with each other. I guess we were both having bad days and went off on each other. So out of pure anger I told her that I don't want her in my life anymore. I deleted her off of my Facebook (yes, immature I know) and we haven't spoken in two months. I really miss talking to her, as she is still very important to me, but I don't know. Should I leave it? Or should I talk to her again. I feel like I'll be pathetic if I go and talk to her again. I miss her a lot, but I don't want to look like a fool. Please help me out.

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My brother is younger than me, but is better than me at most things. When my mom opens her mouth to say something about her children, its always about him. He has the most god parents and i have none. I feel like everyone love him the most. Should i just ignore the situation? (im 17 , he's 13)

My father passed away when i was 7. Then she remarried, so i dont even have a choice to live some where else. I did call child abuse services on my mom and my step dad and the child abuse services just agreed with my mother. They didnt help with anything. Actually it made things worst. They would pick on me for every little thing i done. And i mean everything. To them i cant do anything right. my nana would take custody of me , but she doesnt know how to. please someone help with this. THank you

I moved in with my boyfriend about two months. Almost immediately he stopped communicating with me. He told me I couldn't ask him any questions. I couldn't know where he was going, who he was spending his time with. He use to talk to me about work and now he won't even tell me about his days off. When I moved in I offerred to pay more than half of the bills because he was 3 months behind in his rent and needed some help catching up. Although I didn't feel like he derserved it. He wasn't treating me like his girlfriend. He makes a habit out of not answering or returning my calls I told him I felt unappreciated and that I was only going to give my fair share, which is half of everything from here on out. Then he broke up with me. I still cook, clean and buy dinner for both of us. He has been mean to me, barely speaks doesn't talk about anything other than movies and has told me that I cannot call or text his phone unless it is an emergency. I completely shut down. I don't even speak to him anymore because it seems like no matter what I say or do he criticizes it. Of course now he feels like I'm being rude because I won't talk to him. I'm planning to move at the end of the month. However, my credit is bad due to identity theft and it's been hard. Any advice on what to do? Even me being silent bothers this guy.

My grandfather who was an alcoholic was wonderful and I was close to him for the last 14 years of his life I did not see him until I was 13 (other then a funeral, a wedding, and ran into him once). I feel real guilty that I didn't try to stop my mother from holding me back. How can I overcome the guilt of this? My father's father died before I was born and my step-grandfather died on my mother's side when I was 7. I should ad that I have 6 cousins on my mother's side and they all saw him, so my sister and I were the only two not to. The guilt is about my mother's reaction.

So my mom had a migraine so she couldn t drive me to the concert, and I told my aunt "My mom can t see with her eyes open, it s a blur" and my aunt was like, she can t see with her eyes open??? Umm ok then. And when we were driving, she was like damn! I should have just had your dad drive you guys! I hate this ******* traffic, I m just gonna bring you guys back home because this traffic sucks and I can t find the place. And she said I m never taking you guys here again !!! This is the last time!!! **** this!!!! AND my cousin was like, you have something on your purse did it rip? And she was like, sometimes I can t believe how dumb you are! It didn t rip. And her enegery is just so negative and I felt like she was in a bad mood because my mom couldn t drive us and that s why she was acting that way so I texted my mom and told her, and she apparently told my dad who told my aunt... then my aunt called me yelling at me saying, I can t believe you were talking **** about me when I was taking you to the concert! How was I rude to you at all???? And I said, well I felt like you were mad cause my mom couldn t take us. And your tone with me was rude. And she said, My tone is always like that. And she told me to call my mom and dad and tell them that she wasn t being rude at all because now they re in a huge fight...... and I don t know who my parents believe me or her........ but what do you think I should do .....

I was using my mom s phone to text my dad. All of a sudden, her phone buzzed ans she got a text from a man, who I know, said "When I saw you at work today, I just wanted to jump over the table and tackle you. I can t stand not touching you all the time.". I freaked out, because, of course, this man is married. What should I do? I always thought my mom was so perfect and she would never do something like this. Should I confront her? BTW, my parents are divorced.

I know this sounds strange. Let me explain some background. I am a 17 year old male living with my 20 year old girlfriend in our apartment, I have been living with her for about 9 months now and we have been really excited because when I turn 18 in a few weeks we were going to go and get married. Today, I was on the phone with my mother and when I told her my plans she went deathly silent. She said that she had to tell me something and I was not prepared for what she told me next. "Son, you aren't 17, you're only 16." Turns out the reason I did not already know this and was so convinced that I was actually 17 was because, when my parents got a divorce and I went to live with my dad, I was about 8 at the time, he started telling me I was a year older then that. He set up school classes in a new town under a new age, he planted in my head everyday for 6 years that I was actually a year older than I was. My dad is very unstable. He ended up admitting to my mother what he did and telling her it was because then he wouldn't have to have me in the house for as long as he thought he would. My mom didn't know how to tell me. Now I don't know how to tell my fiancé and her mother. What will they think of me? I really need help on this. Okay, Birthcertificate, my mother had, I have been trying to get it from her since I moved in with my fiancé, our house burnt down when I was younger, she said it was burnt, I tried to order one online and they could not find me (go figure, I was given the wrong birth year) This isn't some small problem, this is my age. It's not like they lied about my hair color, this is what everyone wants to know so I can get a better job. This is a real situation, also for the person who said I shouldn't get married because I do not know "simple basic stuff" at 8 years old I was told BY MY FATHER FOR 6 YEARS, I was a certain age, should I have told my dad he was wrong. Went online after she told me, was able to actually order birth certificate with the age that she told me I was and the year. I'm not a moron, I tried everything like that before coming on here to ask. There is going to be a lot of legal problems, because of the fact that this goes much deeper than just telling me that I was older, apparently a fake bc and ss card was issued, I do have a full time job because I was able to get all of my credits in the time I was in school. We rent an apartment, all of our bills are paid, rent paid, everything, always on time.

My cousin use to laugh at just everything now stuff is just making him mad. At the beginning of the year we were watching Peppa Pig I laughed and told my friends she screams like a little girl he got mad and yelled " SHE IS A GIRL ! ". Then he got a natendo for Christmas he was playing Mario Kart we use to call Toad Diaper Kid he laughed at that but when I called him that he yelled in my face " ITS NOT DIAPER KID ITS TOAD ! ". Only if you talk about sex or say bad words that's what makes him laugh now. He even got mad when my aunt bought him a toy she thought he'd like he got mad and told her he was 6 not 3. She had s stroke last year now she thinks me and him are still little kids. But we're not. He is but he thinks he's not. I'm certainly not I'm 22. She still treats me like I'm 5. She treats him like he's 3. He doesn't even watch SpongeBob anymore. He likes action stuff and Cartoon Network like Amazing World Of Gumball and Teen Titans and Pokemon he even watches Family Guy and Cleveland Show and of course Disney Junior and Paw Patrol. I guess his mom and dad have been having problems and fighting a lot they let him watch or do whatever he wants so he thinks it's ok to copy them. He even says he hates his life. He thinks his mom and dad only care about his baby brother and not him anymore. Like I said only sex stuff and bad words make him laugh now other stuff only makes him mad. He use to be so much fun now he's acting like a spoiled brat. What's gotten into him ?

I'm 23, my daughter is 5. Her mom left us. We have a problem, she doesn't respect me. We have a very chill relationship, admittedly, I'm more of a friend than a dad. If I say " Care Bear( Cara) go make your bed", she'll giggle and shake her head no. I'll say " Why not?" and she'll say, " I have blonde hair, and blue eyes. I'm adorable"( I've told her in the past jokingly that I can't say no to a blonde). I'll say " just eat a few carrots, she pouts and leaves the table to watch TV. Bedtime becomes a hassle. I put her to bed, 5 minutes later she's playing with Barbie with the lights on. I need to toughen up, but fear she'll hate me. Help

I've been a stay at home dad for a little over a year and I've got something that's bugging me. I do all the house work, cleaning, etc I take care of our four month old throughout the day, and watch after our step sons. I know my wife is tired and all after work, but the other day I asked where our bank card was cause I couldn't find it and she got so angry at me, and said here it is I'm sorry I didn't tell you that I took it Here !! Go get your cigarettes or whatever it is you need to do.... I'm like what in the world ! All I did was ask a question! I get tired of her being so angry at me about little things like that. We agreed to me being a stay at home dad cause she has the excellent job, but you know, I bust my butt all day too and keep myself in check for the most part, I get down too, but I feel it was very uncalled for. Any insight ?

So my brother in law is a heroin addict. He is 24 and has been living with his dad. Once it was discovered that he is an addict my father in law struggled to find what to do. He has turned a blind eye for a very long time until the whole family made it clear that my brother was using and finally couldn't ignore it anymore. My brother chose to go into a short term drug detox for month. This helped briefly but only to get him detoxed...so shortly after that it became clear he is using again. My father in law is so attached that he refuses to let him go to a long term facility. He uses excuses like "He will lose his job and his daughter". We remind him that he could lose his son. He is determined to think that his son is not using again although all the physical signs are there along with money going missing, and refuses to take our advice and send him to a long term facility. I have personally lost two brother and I don't want to see another one die. What can my husband and I do to convince his father that the at home treatments don't work for my brother because there have been no changes in his environment since he came back from detox? A couple extra details. My brother claims he wants to quit...doesn't really seem like it. Though I do understand that he has to want to quit, he ends up bringing a lot of risks. He already had his dealer come to the house once to steal his dads tools. His father said he was going to give him to the options to go to a long term facility, the military or out of the house if he finds out he's using again. He has found out since and won't follow through and just gives the easier options.