Mi novia el otro dia me dijo que le gusto un amigo mio. Eso me enojo, pero solo me lmite a oirla. Luego aclare el asunto y le dije que no me sentia bien con una mujer que estando conmigo se haya enamorado de otro hombre. Ella dijo, yo no te dije que me enamore de el, solo que me gusto. Asi que decidi terminar con ella. Lo hare este fin de semana. Pero hoy la llame para un asunto y al final me dijo que me extrañaba y que me queria mucho. Y se despidio con un beso. Eso me hizo sentir, como con el deseo dd perdonar y luchar por que de verdas la quiero, pero se que me hare deño si no lr hago caso a la realidad y deseo proseguir con mi deseo de terminar con ella pero como un caballero. Explicandole que la quiero pero que no veo en ella la madutes de la lealtad a la pareja y eso nos va a traer dificultades en el futuro. Como le digo que la quiero aun pero que no puedo continuar con alguien asi? Tiene depresieon y no quiero agrabarla. Eso no. Nl quiero hacerla sufrir.

My wife has her issues and they've kind of been escalating recently. She has Haphephobia the fear of being touched. Though you'd never know it if you saw her at her job she's very OCD about things and will fire someone at her job for the slightest thing. She throws herself into her work and is very anti social. I'm apparently the exception. I asked around without her knowing and I get it was wrong but I'm worried about her and I found out she use to be very different. From what I learned my wife was once out going had lots of friends then out of the blue she became distant, mean, and obsessed with maintaining order and focusing on her work. I get people think she's a slave driver and a ball buster but she's really not she's just damaged. The worst part is she's been getting worse and worse. It use to be once a year she'd kind of become a real hot head where anyone would set her off and it would usually end with her tearing into herself. That's how it always is no matter how much of a ***** she maybe to others she is typically even worse towards herself. Things are getting worse because she's becoming more and more of a shut in.

Me and my husband have been married 8 months. He's really cute and he's funny but he's also really emotional. He gets mad whenever someone gets his name wrong he has to remind everyone. I mostly get it wrong just to play with him. He has a big fear of bugs. He just tried to use the bathroom there was a cricket hopping around in there he wanted me to stay outside the door to wait for him. He freaked out last week because there was a moth in there I had to kill it for him. He also got scared when a moth came into our bedroom. He couldn't sleep for days. He can't even be in the same room with bugs he runs and screams like a little girl every time he sees one. He also cries when we have sex he said it hurts him too much. He even got upset yesterday when I started my period he thought I was dying. I can't believe he gets upset over every little thing. He's even scared of the dark I have to hold him for a while until he falls asleep. He drives me crazy but I love him to death I hate seeing him scared and upset. How can I help him ? He's 27 I'm 25

I have been a married man for a few years now with kids. My wife and I rarely are able to do it. When we do its one of those normal times where we have do it real quick and go to bed. She doesn't really talk about that stuff much but wondering if i should just surprise her and try something different. Any thoughts? Thanks

Yes I understand that the ex had a child with my boyfriend, but the mom takes her out, goes shopping, etc. What do you think of this? I really want to see bc of the baby but they have a joint custody so grandma stilll gets to see the baby. They even invite her for holidays.

For my wife's wedding ring?

We got married when I was 16 and he was 19. Now Im 17 and he's 21. Im turning 18 next month. However I just found out that he told his workmates that Im 18, and that I study at a university studying veterinary sciences. Im still in high school. He said this because he's embarassed that I'm underage and in high school. But I feel quite hurt that he would lie about it. I mean, he married me for God's sake. Should I be mad that he's embarrassed of me? How would u react?

I have muscular dystrophy so I get x-rays, heart & lung tests done each year, have like 5 different doctors & sometimes have to go to the ER like once a year or every 2 years if complications occur. I live in CA and currently have the health insurance Cen-Cal. I'm just curious as to if I get married in the future, does that mean I'm HIS responsibility and I won't get this gov. insurance anymore? It just seems unfair to me because i'm pretty sure I'm not going to marry a rich man, and my med expenses would be too much like we might afford it but wouldn't be able to save for a house or anything like that. So I'm just wondering how that works... or if anyone else has already been in that situation.

the person is out of country. they never hung out together but skyped. they got married so she can come to the united states.

You only appreciate their personality, but not their appearance. What if you tell the other that you were/are never attracted to them?

I use to sleep with vest and boxer.

My husband is in the military and his job right now doesn't require him to work that often so he's home really early in the day. Well he is obsessed with video games and will play on his computer all day and night until he goes to bed. We've been fighting a lot and feel like our relationship is very boring and we just aren't a normal couple. We also have a 18 month old son.. I need some ideas of what we can do together as a couple and with our son to make our relationship more fun and exciting. I am tired of watching doc mcstuffins all day with our son while he secludes himself for HOURS. HELP. ME.

When I was 5, my parents began the process of getting divorced. I have three older brothers who, at the time, were 18, 17, and 7. My parents often fought when the kids were home and the only memory I actually have of my parents being married is of them shouting at each other. About a year after my dad moved out, he moved across the country to take a new job. I visited him during summers for 5 years. He moved back home, but I was already a pre-teen, and the crucial father-daughter bonding window was missed. I'm now 21 years old, and am in a fairly new relationship with a guy I really like. I'm a rational person, but I also suffer from depression and anxiety disorders, and for some reason, in this relationship, I'm constantly in fear of being abandoned. I worry non-stop that my boyfriend is losing interest and is going to leave me any day, which I don't think is actually true. I've had boyfriends in the past, but I've never felt this kind of clinginess. What can I do to be more sure of my relationship? How do you think my childhood affected my ability to function in relationships?

We have been married for 24 years. He has been hiding this for 2 years from me. He admited to also filming himself masturbating and sending that to women also. He swears he hasn't slept with anyone and I believe him. He has also talked with some of these women on the phone inappropriately . I'm confused so much at this point. He says he loves me but needed attention that I didn't provide. We have been to a marriage therapist 3 times since I found out .Advice please

I was told this quote by someone, "People marry for love and divorce for money. Anyone who does not want a prenup is after your money." What do people think of this? Where idd you get the 90% statistics from? I seriously doubt your claim Hurricain.

My husband works in a small office with two other coworkers. I'm feeling miserable because he literally is married to his job. He stays there doing overtime every single day and says its busy for them, yet he's always alone. The other workers go home to their families. He also doesn't get time off for vacation or anything. It's making me miserable cause for once I wouldn't mind going out somewhere without having to go alone or be a third wheel with my girlfriends and their guys. His boss is slaving him but he doesn't believe me . How can I explain to him that I'm feeling this way without him getting defensive?

My ex husband wants the children for the first part of summer. I told him I've already booked our vacation because he didn't let me know whether he had plans to take them in June or July. He didn't call or anything to discuss his plans, when I asked last month, he said he'll let me know which he did not. Last year he called me and said he wants them in June so he got them. No I'm not being bitter, I just feel it's only fair of he gives me the same respect as I do him but I think he thinks he can just override the court orders because I'm usually very lenient with him. I don't always make him follow the orders. He made it clear he'll pick them up after school and he won't give them back. The orders doesn't say what kind of letter he's supposed to give me as a notice, it just says he's required to. He told me he'll just tell the police he gave me one if I called the cops on him. Does anybody have any good advice at all? I asked a lawyer and he said he's supposed to and if he didn't, he'd need to adhere to his default date of July. But of course, that was as far as he said Since technically our client lawyer relationship is over after the divorce.

I'm clueless about divorces and I was wondering if I could serve my own divorce papers instead of hiring someone else to do it? Please help?

What was your opinion on Heidi Klum's marriage to Seal as well as their divorce? Do you agree w/ the sentiment many have speculated that she only married him for his money?

Last week my husband made a BIG mistake. He drove home after playing golf and having too many beers. It was around 5:00, so rush hour. When I got home, about 10 minutes after him, I noticed he had had too many. We argued and I told him to go to bed; so he did. A few hours later he woke up. He was SO ashamed of himself and very, very upset. The next day, I found a few scratches by his tire, and one little paint chipped spot on his passenger side door. The scratch does not go the length of the car, it is by the wheel wells. Not only am I PISSED he drove home, but I can NOT stop thinking about these scratches. We retraced where he drove to look to see if he hit anything. like a car or something. We didn't see anything that stood out. He messaged a friend to be on the lookout of his neighbors, but has heard nothing. I even called the police department to see if anyone reported their car being hit and they said no. He very well could had hit the garage, or someone could have hit him, but I am thinking the WORST. Like he hit a person OR someone's poor car. He feels awful and ashamed and is just about brought to tears when I bring it up. I feel like I can't move past it. What do I do? He isn't an alcoholic; we don't drink unless we go out to eat or he goes out. He has admitted he needs to set a limit (2) or not drink at ALL when he is out golfing from now on. I feel like he genuinely has learned his lesson, but I can't help thinking he hurt someone or something. What do I do?! My friend is a cop and he said if he called in and said "I drove drunk a week ago" that they would just tell him he was stupid and lucky he didn't get caught, and not to do it again. He says they can't charge him with anything because he is not doing anything and it wouldn't hold up in a court of law. My husband is a good man. He had an incident when he was in his early 20s with driving after a few, and I thought this wouldn't happen ever again. The fact that it did scared me, but I am more worried right now about a possible car he hit or person. Some people I have talked to said it doesn't sound like he hit a car, because the scratches are only by the wheels, and not along the side, or the front, or by the bumpers. We have also talked about going to therapy. WHAT DO I DO?!

I seriously think im going to get divorse. My husband doesnt want me anymore. Im only 23 he is 24 but i dont know if he is cheating on me he is not the same anymore i had a baby a year ago of course i dont look the same my body look horrible. Even my boobs. I had a surgery 6 months ago boobs lift. But it still look bad. Ufff. Welll. I love my hisband but looks like he doesnt love me. Should i get divorse ? And live like a single mother. I hate cheating i wont do never that to him. But i feel like im wasting my time. Living like this. Sleeping by my self. While he is playing ps4 all the time.

My husband was diagnosed with terminal cancer about two years ago. Ever since he found out, he changed a lot, he became a bitter angry man and even blamed me for him having cancer. We have two little kids, an 8-year-old boy and a 5-year-old girl. Most of the time he would take his anger out on all of us (not physically, but verbally). We started fighting all the time about money because he wouldn't care if the bills got paid or not. He's getting disability and a check for each of the kids every month and the only bill he pays is the rent. His doctor just told him he has a few months to live, so he decided to move out about two months ago. A friend of his practically gave him a used car and that's where he sleeps now. In the daytime he showers, cooks and spends all day at his brother's house. He's not giving me any money for the kids since he left. I have a part-time job that pays minimum wage. When I asked him if he's planning to give me money for the kids, he says he doesn't have any. I don't know what to do now. I really need some advice on how to convince him. Thanks for taking the time to read my story.

Where to do first when you want to divorce I'm still leaving with my husband so what's first thing I should do ?? Plzz help

I'm on disability, and I believe my wife's benefits(she's still working as she hasn't reached retirement age yet) would be greater than mine. Can I be covered under her social security?

My wife son who is 25 years old is moving in because of being kicked out of his grandmother house for refusing to get a job' and help around the house' not just that, he's coming with his pitbull dog' My wife says now he's homeless and I said that's his problem " If he comes he gone cause a problem in our marriage and we already going through some differences. What should I do because I know what she gone do?

I'm trying to find an old phone numbers from 30 years ago. I' m looking for my Dad who is just about to turn 80 years old. This would mean a lot to him.

I ve been engaged since September last year and been with my fiance since January of last year (2014). We are planning to get married this month but a string of events has happened and now he s threatening to leave me. Do I have any legal ground here? He is saying that because I hid my credit cards from him that I was dishonest and that he will not marry me because he thinks I don t have my stuff together. I let my parents use my amex card for a bit because my dad lost his job and the balance got up to $11k. I dont see why that is ME not having my stuff together. My parents are the ones who ran up the credit card. I was just helping them out because they asked.. This triggered a long talk and he started saying how I don t know how to manage money and that we wouldn t work out because he d be stressed all the time.. is money really that big of a deal that it trumps love? It s like all he cares about is having money that he never uses.. I like to have nice things and I never was dishonest about that fact..

IS THIS LOVE? HOW WOULD YOU FEEL? I was married recently and as a present to me my husband revealed that years ago after he lost his job he had a lot of free time on his hands and he wanted to write to his future spouse. Basically like what marriage meant to him and how much he knew he would love me some day. Some days he included movies he wanted to watch with me, articles on marriage, love poems etc. He said he made the crazy promise that he would always send something once a day until he found me and he always did. he sais he hoped it would represent his undying love for me and that he never gave up looking for me. He also had friends that had been married and divorced and he realized that in writing to me how important I was and that if he ever were to forget or if we ever hit a rough patch this would remind me what its really all about. I was very shocked and happy that he did this. I was just curious if any other husbands had done this for their wife and even if not how would you feel?

Say you have two children from your first marriage. They're junior high age. You're done with babies. You remarry a woman who seems to be fine with just being a stepparent - when it was discussed back during the dating stage they said they were 50/50 on the idea of children. Now say this second spouse is hitting their mid thirties and suddenly wants a baby really badly. Would you go ahead and have a kid with them, knowing it would make them realllllly happy? Even though you could probably do without going back to sleepless nights and crying and everything? I'm 41, my daughters are teenagers and I hated the infant stage, but I'd do just about anything for my new wife. Feeling conflicted. Hurricain your answer is to the point and right

Well, i have a friend who's 23 years old, her husband is 46 and they have a 7 y.old together. They married when my friend turned 18 and are still together today and really love each other. Yet people seem to be so much preoccupied/negatively predisposed against such marriages. Why is that?

Why or why wouldn't you? What would be the pros and cons of the situation? Would you prefer to date someone without kids?

I helped him gathering the paper works to terminate alimony for 7 year and his mom hired lawyer to terminate the alimony for him and his ex-wife won t be able to sue him for alimony again. His excuses of not getting a job is because of his ex. Now, his alimony obligation is terminated. His excuses of not getting a job is IRS taking money out of his paycheck. He won t work for $10 an hour. My money is running out. He gets up in the morning around 12pm. He doesn t like getting up early in the morning. He wants to move around his mom s house. I can t handle living around her. Now he is promising that he will get a job. I asked him simple question about if he is afraid IRS is going to take the money out of his paycheck every week then what makes him think that living in another states and getting a job there IRS won t take the money out of his paycheck? He got mad at me for talking about it. My body is burning up with this stress. I pushed him to get a job for over 2 and half year and i even fight with him but i gave up later on. All he wants to do is DJ. He had a job 5 years ago and he couldn t even hold onto one job for more than 6 month. He consistently texts his manager and bosses and complaining almost everyday. He gets fired then get unemployment then get a job for 6 month then get unemployment. I am getting aggravated and my personality changed due to extreme stress. He is impossible to reason with and even his mother agreed. His father wants nothing to do with him. I mean what should i do more? I gave up. All he does is complaining. He complains that his DJ equipment is not updated and I told him that i will help him get a new DJ equipment. He is 50 year old and Who is going to hire him to do DJ? He doesn't realize this. I didn't know until we said "I do" to each other. Lol, Planner... You didn't read the whole story. I said He had a job 5 years ago and now doesn't have a job for 4 year. He had a job when we first got married but that was for 3 year. You hired 50 year old DJ a lot? good for you. He needs to get a Regular JOB.

Me and my husband have been married 2 years, together for a total of 8 years. Through out the entire relationship, he has always been very insecure, and doesn't trust me with his friends or even people he didn't know. I am very secure in the knowledge that I love my husband, and would never cause this kind of hurt to him. He is in the process of losing a friend whom I have talked to before about life things (how to get a house, as he has one), that I have talked to my husband about also. The few times we have been left alone together, I am questioned intensely about what we did, and what we talked about and so on; even if we were alone for the few minutes they were outside. I am aware my husband has concerns, but I don't want to be restricted, and constantly interrogated when it comes to being with people he doesn't know, and with people he does know. What should I do? I don't know how to help him, and he will not seek help.

I've been married for 10 years and my wife and I have two kids together. While we were separated I got another woman pregnant. The baby is 5 months now and the baby's mother submitted a request to place me on child support. I have provided financial support since he was born. When child support is ordered, how will that affect the support I have to provide to my 2 kids that live with me in my home? Will the court factor in the financial support of all three children? Or will only the baby be considered with child support is awarded?

Tomorrow is my wife's birthday. She has to work all day, but I took the day off to plan something nice for her. I already bought her a diamond tennis bracelet and new lingerie, but I want to have a bit of a romantic surprise for her when she gets home. I'm a horrible cook so I can't do much there, except make her a cake from the box. Are there any romantic things that I could do that don't involve cooking?

I would like whether i can leave out the countries

I'm going to grad school out of state. I got an assistantship which pays 1/2 my tuition. Total cost for 2 years = $30,000 I have a very difficult time living with others due to certain "limitations" I have so I have decided to live on my own. I realize this is a much more expensive route to take. I've managed to save a little over $4,000 (not a lot) for school. Am I better off (in your opinion) Using all of it to pay 1/2 my rent for the entire year thus having to take out less of a loan for the apt. It'd be $300 per month vs $609 OR using it for furniture, money for the first few months, until I GET my loan money in August My parents hsve offered to loan me money as well to get me started that I intend to pay back as soon as I get my student loan/financial aid money. Thoughts??

Baby's 8 months, I think that's sufficient as far as health goes. My wife has zero sex drive due to this (according to her doctor) and when we do have sex - maybe once a week, more like once every other week - she can't get aroused at all even with seriously an hour of foreplay, and we have to use lube, which isn't enough because she just claims there's too much friction. So she's not into it at all and believe me I have tried to be understanding. But I feel like things would be way better if she'd wean the baby for our benefit as a couple. But I was called "selfish" and "unsupportive" when I suggested this.

When i found out about his affairs, i started talking to this one guy just talk nothing else. Well I stopped that bu really never got over the affairs. His son my stepson 13 years old has been giving problems ( skipping school, smoking weed, fighting teachers) and the last incident he did was he got caught with a group of friends they broke into an abbandond home. The cops took him back to school. They called his grandmother and she called me and told me. I told her that i was going to tell his dad but she begged me not to. Then her sister called me and begged me not to. I never held anything from my husband but they were afraid of what he would do . Well my husband found out and now he is angry with me and blames me for everything. Part of me just wants to leave am I wrong for feeling this way?

At the company I work for they are closing in a month and moving 4 hours away. A guy and his wife worked there. I asked a worker where his wife has been and he said she moved to the new location. The guy said he didn't feel the cost of living was worth the move. Is this a strange situation for a married couple to not decide to stay in one place rather than separate for the job?

My brother (18) might get involved with a married woman (39) who has kids. They met at an animal shelter they both volunteer at and they got super close. She's quite inappropriate with him for being a married woman. From the texts he's showed me, it seems like she just tells him what he wants to hear. He genuinely likes her and I know she's just using him. Idk why she would even do this to my friend, he's just a kid and she has a husband. I'm scared her husband will find out and come after my friend. The dude is like 40. I told him that it's not a good idea bc affairs are never a good idea and she's like 20 years older than us. I mean if she was separated from him it wouldn't be as big deal but she lives with him and he thinks nothing is wrong. My bro even went to her house when he was away at work. My bro still refuses to think it's wrong and firmly believes she actually likes him. She's offered to even buy him alcohol, which is illegal to do in the US. That definitely got his attention. Idk, the situation is just really weird. I don't really trust her. I know it's not my business and I wouldn't have done anything until he told me the truth. He told me before that she was divorced, but he failed to mention she ever remarried. Is there anything I can say or do? I'm just worried about my brother...

Does he clean it when he finally gets up?

My husband and I have had so many disagreements where it's coming to the point of seperation. When I talk to my daughter and mothers and daughters have personal talks, he wants to know what I said, he gets mad if he does not know. We always agreed to watching a t.v program or movie together but yet he turns the t.v to watch his sports. Ok I don't care I will be playing games on my phone, then he starts asking me questions about sports that I don't know the answer to. Then he makes a comment and laughs. But when we do watch a program together he falls asleep. He acts like he is Mr. Perfect and when I did say that once because I got hurt he told me yeah I am and he wants me to call him that. I have asked him to go to marriage counseling with me and he said no. We are going on 20 years of marriage and I can't stand it any more. What should I do? Seperate? Or get a lawyer for divorce.

I'm a girl, we're both 24

I'm married to a wonderful man-he treats me like a princess, loves and plays with my kids, always shows appreciation. He's great (besides his constant yelling which he is always working on.) He loves me more than anything. I love him but I'm not in love with him. I don't enjoy sex nor do I ever want it. I don't want to hurt him or my children and I can't support myself on my own. I start counseling on Thursday for this. I want to suck it up to protect their feelings but what about me? Who knows, I could end up with a cheater or abuser, or alcoholic. I really have the best husband ever. But I'm not happy. This has been going on three years and I'm not sure how much more I can handle and I don't want to regret any bad decision. Thanks for the help

Constantly delete all important e-mails from your boss and supervisors and keep asking them to resend them.

Who's got the sweetest disposition? One guess -- guess who! Who never never starts an argument? Who never shows a bit of temperament? Who's never wrong but always right? Who'd never dream of starting a fight? Who gets stuck with all the bad luck?

Yes, he always has been, but it never affected our relationship in a negative way. But now that we have been married for a couple years and set in our careers, we're talking about trying for a baby in 2016. But now his brother just announced they're having a baby so my husband wants to try right now. And back when we were buying a house last winter, he needed to have a "better" house than his brother. I guess I'm worried he'll always be so focused on keeping up with his twin that he'll care more about that than his focus on the family he is creating with me. Anyone who can relate? Advice?

This thief strikes at random and steals little bit of the tools but he strikes at random. How can I catch this guy/girl?