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- Question: Why does my mother blame her spending/hoarding habit on me?
- Question: My wife has a video against me !!?
- Question: Is this normal behavior?
- Question: Need help to save my last bit of dignity?
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- Question: Why is my baby so mean?
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- Question: Why do things move on their own?
- Question: Kicking mother out of house?
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- Question: How to deal with undeserved negative opinions of me?
- Question: Kind of running away from home and having second thoughts about it. Words of wisdom are much appreciated. Thank you. Please help.?
- Question: How do I deal with a slob?
- Question: I'm at my Whit's end. I don't know what to do.?
- Question: Am I right to file for full custody of daughter?
- Question: Is it ever excusable for a mother to say "**** you" to her daughter?
- Question: How to fix my life when i cant get on with my mum cos i fail in doing my chores?
- Question: Do I have to do what my stepdad tells me.?
- Question: I feel left out?
- Question: Is this normal? I know its a adjustment peroid but I think im having trouble. ..?
- Question: Are my daughter fat?
- Question: My grandmother isn t answering her phone? HELP!!!!!!?
- Question: Is it wrong to shun an unethical family member?
- Question: My Dad wants to marry his ex sister-in-law (his brothers ex wife). Is this weird? How should I feel about this?
- Question: I hurt my younger brothers feelings and I feel bad?
- Question: Can she still do this at my age? Is it common or typical?
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- Question: I'm embarrassed to go in places for my mom?!?!!?
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| Question: Why does my mother blame her spending/hoarding habit on me? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 12:55 PM PDT The other day, I was trying to help my mom out by cleaning and rearranging my younger siblings' room. I asked her for permission before doing so, of course. Well today, she decided that she "wished I didn't do that" because she couldn't find my little sister's shoes. I put all her shoes in one place. She got all angry because I moved their treacherous mountain of toys to one side of the room in order for them to be boxed/bagged and put away. Before, all the toys were scattered under the beds, floor and everything else. I was just trying to help her out because she's the one who always cleans their room. if she didn't want me to do it, she could have told me no. She always says, "I hate when people move my stuff; I can never find it." Her room is a pig pen, with chips and **** scattered all over. She can't even find stuff then. She complains the house needs cleaning, then complains when it IS clean. She always takes her anger out on me. I can never win with her. We are moving to a smaller house in a few months, and there is no way all of the stuff she is hoarding can fit in that tiny home. She always talks about donating or selling the toys, yet never carries out the threat of doing so. So the toys and clothes just keeping piling and piling up, and all the money that is supposed to go toward the house is dwindling into that pile of **** they don't even respect or play with. Who continuously spends money on Xbox games when my brother leaves them all on the floor to be stepped on, or out of their cases? |
| Question: My wife has a video against me !!? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 12:46 PM PDT Well, i have a good time with my three daughters and my eight years son I work and making living she take care of the children and the house we have an arguing every time becaouse she is really tired from children I arguing her back and tell her you are not a one everyone has to be resbonsbile she is do not understand or do not care keep complaining for hours yes hours I want sleep I talk to her gently but she do not stop drive me crazy !! My son start crying she throu him on me !! I start become nervous and yelling on her !! And so on, last night she shocked me when she send me videos of me ! The video was for me a year ago I was naked and doing hand job' God dame' embarrassing really !! She threaten me she will send it to my family and her family !! I'm straits good father hard working to making my family happy I do all my best to them I do not have any realationships out my marrige at all but she is terrible and doubting on me when I go out with friends she said you spend good time with women I can not control my anger . This is serious and it's such a big scandal in our society in Middle East countries "God help" Please help me I feel my reputation will crashed under feet it's serious matter for me |
| Question: Is this normal behavior? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 12:46 PM PDT My ex wife just told me that she sits in the bathroom while my daughters 15 and 17 take showers. She doesn't shower with them but she does sit in there and talk to them. I also believe that my ex sleeps in the same bed with my 12 year old son. My ex says that I am the weird one that I think it is strange and maybe I have something i am hiding from my past. |
| Question: Need help to save my last bit of dignity? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 12:45 PM PDT Me and my sister had A very big and nasty fight and I mean really nasty she was physically violent and I was screaming and kicking and because and I told her that's it we are done.then I went crying for her to forgive me and begging ..i know pathetic and she refused and told me that she don't want me in her life and I kept crying and begging and I swear to god she is the only one who has this control on me.i am not like that.then she said she will be there for me and we will be out of each other life but with decent but it turned out to be a trick to make me look like an *** in front of others .don't know what I am in.i feel very bad I live with her in the same room?I feel I can't control my life .i feel a little ease with her out of my life but she is 24 hours with me in the house and I can't move out because in my country you have to be married to do that .please I don't have anyone but her in my life I need your help and please don't be harsh i can't. I can't take it .thank you |
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| Question: Why is my baby so mean? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 12:31 PM PDT My baby 2 months ago was loving sweet nice happy. Now she hits scratches pinched kicks bites pulls hair yells throws fits eats everything gets into everything and is almost 1. |
| Question: Do I need to attend my brother in-law's junior high graduation? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 12:27 PM PDT Its tomorrow. I wife is making me feel obligated to go, but I just don't want to. Our lives are so busy and I want a night to just chill. But then I might feel bad because she is going and I'll be home alone. Thoughts? Is that a jerk way to think? |
| Question: Why do things move on their own? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 12:24 PM PDT Well, my parents were looking for something they needed, and they found it on the TV stand in the living room. They said they already looked there that morning and blamed me for hiding it and putting it there. I'm already in trouble but I still want to find out what really happened. |
| Question: Kicking mother out of house? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 12:22 PM PDT My mom has been living with my husband and I because she lost her job a few months back. My car broke down and she paid for that in exchange for rent to live here. I did not want to but she forced it on me and I ve been doing as much as possible to keep out of her hair. She on the other hand has been hell to live with and is calling me names and telling me I am stupid. I told her to leave but she will not go and is threatening to cut me out of her life forever. I do not know what to do? I feel threatened. We are only in our twenties.. I feel very lost. Also, She found a good job recently that starts in a few weeks. |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2015 12:20 PM PDT My sis has this thing we're she can't get up because she is a heavy sleeper so she can't at all get up my mom told me when she sleeps. What condition does she have? |
| Question: How to deal with undeserved negative opinions of me? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 12:13 PM PDT My brother tried to blackmail me out of cash several years ago, haven't talked to him since and I avoid people (including family members) who socialize with him because I don't want gossip about me repeated to him. His daughter recently got married and several family members who I don't speak to went to the wedding. It got back to me via Facebook that some of them called me controlling, mentally ill, etc. In other words, now I am the "bad guy". To make things worse, for 3 years I have been the sole caretaker of my mom who is a stroke victim with absolutely no help from my brother, and I have a physical disability myself, I feel like cutting him off also, but I dread what other terrible things people will say about me and I feel stuck and alone. Any advice? The brother who isn't helping me with mom is another brother I do speak to right now, not the blackmailer. |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2015 12:04 PM PDT Hi. I'm a 23-year old girl. I am an intern at a well-known organization; my career path is well-defined. I'm an Indian in India; so I'm expected to stay with my parents till marriage. I would have no problems doing so, except that my Dad is extremely violent. He hit me black & blue last Sunday & has hit me a lot since birth (my earliest memories are of me scrambling under the sofa to escape him). I had stopped talking to him for 6 months (during which nothing happened to me) but he apologized and we started talking again - BUT he hit me within a FORTNIGHT thence. I am moving out now; I have found a lovely hostel nearby & plan on shifting out of his house by Sunday (can't move out openly coz he will hit me, gotta smuggle clothes & stuff out gradually). The thing is - I have an autistic-schizophrenic (older) brother (whom he hits pretty regularly too)& my Mother (who gets hit the MOST), both of whom I will have to leave behind here. I'm unable to resign myself to the fact that I will be moving away to a safe place while they will be here & bear the brunt of his rage; especially when he finds that I have run away. I can't afford to take them with me & my Mom is too weak to come out coz Indian society has a sharp tongue. My brother has his own problems - he is resistant to change & is used to being beaten; he says in his half-incoherent way that he wants to be here, Please help. I'm starting to have misgivings about moving out. Am I doing the right thing? Please be kind. |
| Question: How do I deal with a slob? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 11:54 AM PDT So my girlfriend and I are temporarily living with her grandmother until we can find an apartment that fair to our budget. Thing is, my girlfriend's mom and her brother live there, too. This dude is a fat ******* slob. He showers once, maybe twice a month, he literally eats EVERYTHING in the fridge (recently, he picked out all the chicken in a big bowl of chicken salad made for everyone) and always says he never does. He's completely disrespectful to his grand mother (always tells her to shut up and once actually said he can't wait until he dies) and he's such a prick to my girlfriend. And his mother doesn't say a thing! He's such a mama's boy, always going to her about complaints instead of having the balls to come to us about an issue. Normally, I don't say anything because I'm not part of the family, blood-wise, I can only encourage her to face him. Plus, this dude has a short temper and way too many ******* guns in his room. However, I had enough the other day. My girlfriend asked him how it is working in his job during the summer (he works in a some steel factory making 12 bucks an hour, which is the only good thing he's got going) and he replied with "How's it feel knowing you have no ******* job and no money?" I said "that's not ******* cool, dude. She's trying to find a job, you should apologize." he didn't. He said it was her being rude. How do I sit and deal with this guy? How do you talk to someone like him without him throwing a tantrum? |
| Question: I'm at my Whit's end. I don't know what to do.? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 11:50 AM PDT I'm simply tired. My mother is very mentally abusive and can be mean and I feel she has rubbed off on my father. Now my father is always irritated our family always has money issues and there is always something. Its hard to explain but I feel as if I did not ask for this and I really try my best. I give them money when they ask but when I ask for something its almost like pulling teeth. I'm getting a refund check in July and plan to move out but right now I'm tired of feeling like I am a prisoner in my own home. It's honestly like I can't take it anymore. As if I always have to run and I don't even have a car so I'm just walking places trying to get away. I want to get away. I'm just really tired and I know not to kill myself because it's a sin but truthfully I'm just tired. No.. You can't talk to my parents or get through to them. I'm just tired of being tired. All I know to do is pray and hold on. I am working in getting a job and honestly I do try and want to get on my own. I truthfully do try. I just want to cope before I hurt myself from stress. Just need prayer and advice please. |
| Question: Am I right to file for full custody of daughter? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 11:46 AM PDT My daughter's dad has rarely been in her life the last few months. In adding up all the time he has seen her since Jan 2015 it's less than 30 hrs. Am I right to file for full custody??--he has multiple warrants out of state so he doesn't have a valid license and I feel that if he truly wanted to be a DAD instead of just having the title he would put for the effort to see her regardless that he's not in our house (he only lives about 10 blocks from my house). |
| Question: Is it ever excusable for a mother to say "**** you" to her daughter? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 11:42 AM PDT Under any circumstance? Would you think the mother hates or doesn't love her daughter if she says that to her daughter? The daughter had a bad attitude, is that justified to say that? There was an argument The mother thinks she never does anything wrong and that the daughter is the one always with the attitude while the mother doesn't realize the way she acts or treats her daughter The argument was not a big deal, I had an attitude, yes but only bc she started arguing with me but she claims she didn't |
| Question: How to fix my life when i cant get on with my mum cos i fail in doing my chores? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 11:40 AM PDT |
| Question: Do I have to do what my stepdad tells me.? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 11:38 AM PDT My stepdad has been with my mum now for 4 years and he calls me names and tells me what to do and I feel depressed about it. |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2015 11:35 AM PDT My family are horrible. Always unfair and blaming stuff on me. For example I bought a chocolate bar from the shop with my own money and my cousin said she didnt want one. I went and bought one and my grandmother made me give it to her. Now my dad came home and I was watching a movie on my computer and he called me lazy and a half wit. It makes me sad, really sad. Idk what I should really do. |
| Question: Is this normal? I know its a adjustment peroid but I think im having trouble. ..? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 11:34 AM PDT Im 19 and I just started working and I dont party much now. I dont see my friends in fact im not sure I have even one and my bf workz constantly now. My manager hates me cus she doesn't like my mom. And im living with my bfs family. Im out of school and wamt to try college now more than ever. But im working cus I need money to get my place back. My family rarely talks to me and my dad never does cus he hates me now. But... even with all that I know I should be feeling ok. I havent ever had to work before and I try so hard and am always just criticized and I feel terrible all the time. I like work but I hate how its going and I know I should be proud to be working and such but I dont. I dont feel anything anymore. Im somewhat alarmed and I love my bf and feel like hes a that I have but I am always on edge now. I feel so bad all the time and even tho my family was far from ideal and at points cruel I still try my best to commicate with them but they rarely answer and im better off not doing that. They havent cared about me since I was 15. But anyhow is normal that I feel bad? And that sometimes im jealous of my bf for having family around? And that i feel spiteful at life. And like ill never do better than I am in life? Im not sure why but even on good days I feel bad and wish I could change whatever it is that makes me different... what should I do? |
| Question: Are my daughter fat? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 11:31 AM PDT not looking to shame them by any means. The tall one is 15, shorter is 13 |
| Question: My grandmother isn t answering her phone? HELP!!!!!!? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 11:31 AM PDT My grandmother has been stricken with fatigue for a while and she has been in the house a lot and during the afternoon I call her to check up on her and her cellphone went dead, I tried the house phone several times and she isn t picking up. She hasn t left the house in a while and doesn t plan to do so until she gets better, why isn t she answering?!!!! It is scaring the crap out of me. Could she have passed away and I do not know about it? |
| Question: Is it wrong to shun an unethical family member? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 11:03 AM PDT I have a close family member that is (IMO) unethical. When she worked at the Social Security office, she enjoyed personal favors and gifts from her clients. She also has conveniently forgotten about the various charities that helped us growing up. Then, she hires illegals to do work for her. Additionally, she files insurance claims to get her house repaired when any damage is just normal wear and tear. Finally, she has sued a few small businesses when there was actually no harm done. If you go out to eat with her, she'll ALWAYS find something wrong with the food. Am I wrong to shun this family member? It's like she has no compunction about any of it. |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2015 10:40 AM PDT His brother was only married to her for 2 years back in the early 70 s, they had a kid, my cousin, but she s always still been considered a part of the family. The joke was always that "she married the wrong brother" but my dad was married to my mom for 30 years until he and my mom divorced in 2013. Once my parents divorced he went to visit her a few times (she lives kind of far away) and now he is retiring and moving in with her. He accidentally sent me a text that was meant for her, talking about marriage. I am so confused on how to take this news?! |
| Question: I hurt my younger brothers feelings and I feel bad? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 10:28 AM PDT My little brother is 3, he and I made a deal to play pirates but I told him I couldn't cause I was gonna do something else, he started to cry and pout he said I am the worst sister ever cause I broke my promise but I was trying to work on something, I needed to check my grades and help my 12 year old brother type a paper for school (he finishes next Monday), my little brother Caleb who's 3 got mad at my brother Luke and said 'you took my sissy time' and ran out; I feel bad but Luke needed help, now I wanna know how I can make it up to him |
| Question: Can she still do this at my age? Is it common or typical? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 10:19 AM PDT I am 14. Growing up I was spanked a couple of times as a last resort, but very rarely. It hasn't happened in years (since I was like 11 or so?). The last few days my sister and I have been bickering BIG time which is not normal, but it was getting really out of hand. Mom talked to us, took away TV & the pool, finally she grounded us from each other's rooms and said if we kept it up she'd give us a spanking. I was shocked to hear her say that, and, to be honest, didn't take her all that seriously. This morning I went in my sister's room to look for some clothes of mine. My sister came back, we started bickering, she started saying I wasn't allowed in her room, I lost my cool and shoved her. Just about then my mom appeared, livid at both of us for bickering, and me for being in my sister's room. At that point she took me to my room to "talk" to me. Little did I know she also expected to make good on her threat. She told me I'd be getting the spanking, I argued but didn't resist, she had me bend over my desk, and spanked me over my underwear with a ping pong paddle hard enough to REALLY hurt, but not hard enough to bruise or anything. It was about ten pops. Afterwards she gave me a hug, but reminded me I had a clear warning. I know I was in the wrong with my actions, so I'm not looking to feel vindicated. This just came from so far out of the blue and I just don't know anyone who gets spanked at my age that it leaves me curious: 1) Is this legal at my age? 2) Is this common? |
| Question: Step-daughter wants to know why mom and dad are not together? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 10:11 AM PDT I am just a stepmother with a big problem. My stepdaughter keeps asking me why did her mom and dad not stay together.(not my place) The way she is always told is they did love each other very much at one point but that they fell out of love and could not get along that they were not happy with one another but loved her very much. So that they would be happy and make sure she was raised happy they split. My stepdaughter(10) though has started asking me. I tell her the same thing my husband says. She told me today she wanted the truth that she still didn't understand why that it just didn't make sense to her. What happened was my husband did love her mom. One day he came home early from work and she was with another man and that it had been going on for awhile (been admitted and proven).(Lived together 3yrs,not married, split when she was 1yr) She has asked her dad several times why and he repeats his answer, her mother will not answer her (not saying she should, it's there choice). I think the answer he gives is appropriate but she is not satisfied. She gets upset, not angry, but gets very teary-eyed and says ok. It's not my place to say. My husband won't tell her, and the mother won't even listen. We are in no way making a big deal out of it with her mother as its a very touchy thing. Any advice on how to supply her with a better answer without telling her the exact story that mom cheated on dad? I don't want her mad at her mom for a mistake she made and blame her. |
| Question: Why would a girl date her stalker? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 10:09 AM PDT This girl I know is dating her own stalker. He followed her every where, got the key to her apartment, stole her clothes, beat up her ex boyfriend, abuses her children, sends her weird unwanted gifts, etc. One random day he gave her a weak apology and said he'd stop following her. Even after that he kept following her. Constantly asking her to be his girlfriend. She finally said "Yes.". Her reason was "You forgive and forget." He still abuses her children and she doesn't care. |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2015 10:04 AM PDT I got one older sister and a younger brother I'm the one in the middle, I do my best for my mum clean the house do the washing cook the food walk the dogs and it ain't good enough as my brother and sister just sit around they are so lazy I work 36 hours or more and I still have to do everything as they all just do nothing if anybody wants anything in the house they ask me and if I don't do it my mum go mad on me. I want to move out but my mum won't let me and I can't be stuck in this house |
| Question: My mom is over doing it?!? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 10:00 AM PDT I have exams now and i'm in grade 6 I'm 10 years old,the exams will last for 1 week and another week for term exams,my mom is saying that my grades are bad though they aren't,I'm much better than before alot!And she took my PC away for 3 weeks and she won't return it until I finish exams,and on weekends she won't give me it and she tells me to read for the whole day,(read a book) I have NOTHING else to do and its boring as **** and she said:on Saturday you'll study both maths and religion and you'll answer questions now don't go on telling me you have biology and harder subjects and exams and that grade 6 is so easy its not it may be easy for u cuz u r older and experienced,but im not,and our maths in this school is CRAZY! So is religion,these two are the hardest subjects for me,and she is forcing me to do both in one day,and she tells me all I can do is read a book for the whole day,for 3 weeks I'm seriously great in school and I'm the 5th in class,and my brothers are no help,one of them my oldest brother is laughing on me! He's making fun of me and stuff and my other brother doesnt give a fk about this and actually nobody understands me! My life is getting worse and worse,I'm getting lots of bad luck and im starting to hate my life I'm crying way too much and im getting SO sensitive and things are getting bad PLEASE help me,and no its IMPOSSIBLE to talk it with her or dad I AM studying hard |
| Question: I'm embarrassed to go in places for my mom?!?!!? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 09:34 AM PDT I'm really embarrassed when my mom has me go in places, like to pay for gas or go in to the store to get something, or something. I'm not talking about when I go places with her, I'm saying when she has me go in places FOR her so she doesn't have to go in. I just don't like it because what if I see someone I know and they wonder why I'm by myself or something?!?! There's just so many reasons I'm embarrassed about it, how do I get over it? |
| Question: Long distance relationship niece and aunt? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 09:26 AM PDT So I've been an aunt to my beautiful niece who is 3 years old. Her father has never been in the picture so my sister and I have been parenting together. I wasn't so involved at first but as my sister needed more help I was more in the picture. So now today my niece and I have this extreme strong and unique relationship. She prefers me over her mother most of the time. We do everything together and that's fine. So recently my sister has gotten married to a new guy which is great. We no longer live together and he is in the army. So now they are two hours away, but in 3 weeks they will be moving to Texas which is about 14 hours away from me. My sister calls me all the time saying that my niece is crying for me all day and even in the middle of the night! She does this even after we have recently seen each other. My sister is concerned what will happen when they move to Texas. At this moment she said her daughter will eat then go to her room and cry for me. I'm writing this because there isn't much I can do in this situation because visiting. The further the move away the less time per year I can visit. Currently we only FaceTime. Is there anything else that we can do to keep us in touch creatively? |
| Question: My parents blames EVERYTHING on my being a teenager. Do yours? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 09:15 AM PDT i say something relatively sensible regarding their behaviour etc "No, we`re amazing parents, but you`re going through a teenage phase, that`s why you feel that way" I wont even get into WHY they`re horrible parents, let`s just say, having alcoholic parents that abuses, yells and acts like idiots towards eachother and you and then acts like best friends and pairs up AGAINST you the next day to refuse that anything happened is a bummer. "I want to travel to another city (im 16) to get away from you, you are bad parents." "YOU CAN`T YOU`RE A TEENAGER YOU`LL NEVER MAKE IT ON YOUR OWN WE`LL REPORT YOU MISSING AND YOUR FACE WILL BE ALL OVER THE NEWS!!!!" There`s 24 months between 16-18, I think I`ll be OK. |
| Question: How can I deal with my inconsiderate neighbors? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 09:09 AM PDT Hello I really need some advice about my inconsiderate neighbors. They have 2 dogs that are constantly barking and the one tries to attack the neighborhood. Also they are running a business which where I live is illegal in their drive-way. They play their music at night to high volumes and it continues into the early hours of the next morning. My family has tried to call both 911 and animal control they said they would come out and never did. Recently my mom and our dog were attacked luckily nobody was injured. I would really appreciate ANY feedback. Thank you Shadow Grove |
| Question: My Brother in Law or not? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 09:04 AM PDT So my sister married some dude hes cool.. but he has a little brother .. does that make his little brother my brother in law aswell or a co brother in law or just pain old kin folk ? So hes not my brother in law? Is there a name or title for our relation |
| Question: Dealing with family part 2? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 09:03 AM PDT This is the second part of what was asked previously about my brother and the car and dealing with my aunt. Basically my brother is planning to move soon and he doesn't have a car of his own, but he has before but didn't care for them back then. This is a 1996 camry that I have bought a year ago and I been taking real good care of it. I know my brother wants to move, but I don't think he will take care of the car and if something happens he will come to me and won't do much. I don't want to feel regret with letting him use the car for moving because I worked for that car and the cars he had he didn't and same with my cousin but that is another story. Just wondering what your opinion is on this is? If you need a refresher you can look at part 1 of dealing with my family. By the way this is just a more detailed version about my brother planning on moving. |
| Question: Plz Help my mom and I cant figure the problem out? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 08:54 AM PDT Use elimination to solve the following system of equations. Input your answer for x. 2x + 5y = 24 x - 3y = -10 |
| Question: Has anyone hired a private investigator before? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 08:54 AM PDT Was just wondering if anyone has any advice on hiring someone to find a relative for me I'm 21 and looking for my gradadfather who's Cypriot and who's apparently still living in Cyprus I've tried searching phone books and ancestry and googling loads of information. |
| Question: Do I cling to the past or forget it? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 08:46 AM PDT So my dad has always been an absent dad in my life and he always used domestic violence towards my Mom and me. He kept mistresses...He did not like my mum because after delivering 2babies she put on weight..He was so proud and rich...I was brought up only by my mom.. At present my mom is no longer with us, and karma took care of my dad...he lost his job, he drives a very old car etc..Now he tries to socialize with me but that irritates me...I talk to him in a very rude manner. So yesterday We went to the supermarket...at some point, he joined us..dressed like a destitute( yeah literally In very old clothes ) I tried to ignore him, I made as if that I don't know him.. My life sucks yes..but I hate what I did..on one hand he provides me with money and I can see that he is lonely but on the other I hold a grudge against him since my young age...because he beated my mom and me and also said very bad things to us. I'm ashamed of what I did ..pls help me...what do I do help him or loaf him because of the past?? If you say help...how do I help him?? |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2015 08:46 AM PDT Today I just had a talk with my parents. They sat me down at the dinner table. They told me that my uncle was gay. He is also my godfather...when I found out about this i was like ok this doesn't really matter...but it kind of makes me feel weird and a little uncomfortable. I don't know why to do I can't talk to my parents about it because they said that I should treat him the same...and of course I will treat him the same. But my uncle doesn't know that I know he's gay.. I feel uncomfortable how can I make this feeling go away?? |
| Question: Anybody know Nicholas Richmond in llimossal? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 08:45 AM PDT I found out I have got two brothers in Cyprus I would like to be in touch with them, as I'm the oldest brother in the family |
| Question: How can I get back at my sister? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 08:44 AM PDT my sister knows I hate her crappy music so she runs around the house blasting it. if I complain she turns it up louder. what can I do to get her to stop (yes I've tried asking nicely) |
| Question: Does he think he's going to die or something..? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 08:43 AM PDT for a couple months now my dad has been telling me that if he dies or if anything happens where his insurance is, and telling me he wants to be cremated, where to throw his ashes, not to be sad, and just live my life. he never tells me about his doctors appointments, i recently found out that his doctor wants to see if he has cancer? he is older (67) and is a diabetic plus he's been smoking since he was 11 and still smokes pretty heavy. now i find myself checking to see if he's kicked the bucket. what do i do? |
| Question: How to stand up for myself? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 08:39 AM PDT Im a shy, socially inept person. When people talk sh-t to me, i dont say anything. I might "lash out" calmly, but who cares about that? I never argue with anyone. The second someone tries to start something with me, i shut my mouth ans try to weasel away. Mostly with my mom. She can talk all the bs to me in the world and ill just sit there and take it. She wont actually listen to me trying to calmly discuss. How do i stand up for myself? |
| Question: Can anyone help me? suicidal? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 08:35 AM PDT I'm 22 year old girl. I'm seriously depressed and weak. You can read my other question for more details but basically my life took a turn I was expelled from my college in Paris France due to my parents. and now I'm back in the USA and the whole time I've been homeless and starving in Utah and Indiana working **** jobs in the side of freeways. I finally got enough money to go to my parents house in charlotte NC. And they wont let me in the house(mansion) and are now paying for me to stay in a cheap extended stay hotel. I have no friends and my 4 siblings are rejecting me along with my parents. I was once strong and attractive and full of life and potential but I am suicidal in my present situation and struggling to see a brighter future. If any of you would like to help me or reach out a hand I would truly appreciate your good nature and encouragement email me or anything my yahoo account I just made is mangot@yahoo.com |
| Question: Is still living with parents a bad thing? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 08:31 AM PDT So my sister is 25 and she works full time and she pays for bills and does grocery shopping for the house and she helps out my parents so does my 23 yr old brother and 20 yr old brother. And I'm 18 years old and I do all the cleaning and help out both of my parents. Is this a bad thing for all of us still living with our parents. We all help out in ways and it's not like we are just living for free and not paying or helping out. |
| Question: What do your nieces children call their mothers aunt? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 08:17 AM PDT Aunt----- niece------ nieces kids What doe her nieces kids call their mothers aunt? |
| Question: Are you supposed to know if you want kids or not at 22? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 08:15 AM PDT I ask because I don't. I don't really like kids but people tell me its different when they're your kids because you can teach them how to behave. My friend who's pregnant is acting like I'm supposed to know, and saying I shouldn't date people who want kids because idk if I do. But I'm only 22. Most people I know didn't have (planned) kids until they were around 30. Is it weird that I don't know? |
| Question: Can step mom have sex with step son?? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 08:09 AM PDT |
| Question: How to have a good summer? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 08:06 AM PDT I'm 13 years old. My parents are extremely strict so they won't let me go to my Friends' house. I'm Muslim and I have to fast for Ramadan so I won't have time for sports. I'm going to universal for like one day I guess but I can't eat anything like ice cream or soda cause I have an eating disorder and I'm trying to get rid of it by being healthy. My parents are kinda cheap I guess so I can't really buy a lot of stuff. What should I do this summer? |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2015 08:03 AM PDT My brother is extremely disrespectful to my parents and grandparents. But he has really good grades so my mom of course always thinks everything is my fault. (I'm one year younger than him and I'm a girl.) One time he punched me but we weren't home and I started bleeding. I was too scared to tell on him. But my dad does yell at him and disipline him enough it's just he doesn't listen. He hits me so much for no reason. And by my mom, it's ALWAYS me who started it. It's ridiculous. He always has an excuse. But my parents do yell at him and disipline him but he thinks he's superior to everyone. He just doesn't listen. What do I do?? You would think since I'm a girl he wouldn't hit me but he does. Thanks |
| Question: Worried about my sister's part-time and full-time job plans ? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 07:59 AM PDT My 16 year old sister, a responsible and A+ teenager works part-time as a clerk in a store for a few hours. When I was at duty at the fire station (I'm a fireman) I got a call from the store owner telling that my sister is at the hospital for injuries. I rushed and found out that my sister & the store owner got into a 2 girls vs hooligan fight with the guy who tried to steal money. My sister managed to fight him off (she is in kick boxing classes) even though he had a knife & she got a few cuts on her hand. The cops told us not to worry as they have enough finger prints & camera footage to trace the guy out. I'm so worried, should I let her still do part-time or let her just attend school ? We lost our parents years earlier, so I became my sisters guardian & she was almost involved and a near death situation, what if the guy had a gun ? & it's just too dangerous out there. My sister wants to continue work, because she was like "if you work as a fireman where chances are you might lose your life, I worry for you, but I can't stop you from doing what you have always wanted to do. I did what I had to, even if I would die in the process. And you know I'm going to join the military after school where chances are I would never return home, but I'd rather die for the country so you people can live without fear." These words of hers really stuck to me, she means well, but I'm so worried. Must I talk her out of it, the jointing the military part ? She is the only family I have. |
| Question: Why my mom is soo annoying? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 07:51 AM PDT I asked my mom to buy me latest model iPhone since my old one got stolen, but she started shouting at me telling that, my father left her... she is working in spa... etc., I mean, if she can't buy me something, she shouldn't have gave birth to me in first place... She is soo annoying... I think this is why my dad left her... What should I do about this? I am only 15 years old. Don't ask me to get a job. |
| Question: My sister keeps taking my stuff? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 07:49 AM PDT I am 15, shes 20. She doesnt really live at home, she only comes when she wants food or to do her laundry or get dressed or shower. She ALWAYS borrows my makeup, perfume, clothes, etc., and I always end up giving her my stuff. For example she kept using my (new) mascara, so I told her to keep it. Now shes using mine again (and the mascara I gave her was FULL not too long ago, she didnt run out). I also got a bunch of new makeup so I gave her my old makeup. She asked to borrow my highlighter and blush ONCE, and now she uses it all the time while she thinks Im sleeping. She also steals my money from my piggy bank where I am saving up for a car or college or something. I rarely get to babysit so making money is hard for me and I put in a lot of work, whereas she has an actual job and can pay for her own stuff (and pay me back which she never does) Ive told my mom plenty of times but she does nothing about it. How can I tell my sister to stop? |
| Question: Is my mum rude, dumb, inconsiderate or all 3? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 07:47 AM PDT It's 12:45am and I get woken up by my mum bringing hey Aunty over and making loud noises while watching TV shows on her laptop. I could understand if it was around 8pm or something but it's 12:45am and im really tired. I can't be rude and ask them to leave so that's not an option. Is my mum rude, dumb, inconsiderate or all 3? Or am I just intolerant. |
| Question: Should i kill myself? honestly? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 07:25 AM PDT I'm 22 now. My life took a sharp turn to failure. I used to be beautiful young full of life and potential. I have now become hagard and tired and weak. I was expelled from college in Paris france because my parents made me stay hone when I was 21 half the school year and when I finally could go back I was so destroyed and suicidal from what had happened to me while at home that I couldn't complete my classes. And seeing a psychologist also. I had an appeal date but coincidentally I was in the hospital the day of appeal for an incident the night before which I collapsed I a grocery store from starving until I finally had enough money to buy food. Then I was flown back to the USA which I was homeless and starving and suicidal for all this time working shitty jobs on the side of freeways in Utah and Indiana until I finally had enough to fly home to my parents house in charlotte NC. Thier mansion with a pool that i am not allowed inside of. they are now paying for me to stay in a cheap extended stay hotel and I am working at a restaurant hostess and I have no car so I have to take the bus. I am so depressed I have no friends anymore, my family of 6 rejects me and always have but now that I am so weak I need help they ignore me. My heart was also broken last year and I am suicidal in my present situation. I wanted to go back to school since I have good grades from my freshman year in NYC before I transferred to paris. But I'm having trouble seeing a bright future for myself. |
| Question: How soon after sex can you check for pregnancy? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 07:23 AM PDT Every time I ask google it says I can check after my first day of missed period, but the thing is, I have always had irregular periods. Sometimes going months without it, so how will I know if I missed a period? How soon can I test for pregnancy? |
| Question: Fun things to do with kids? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 06:57 AM PDT My wife and I always take the children to fun places like a park or a play gym sometimes a museum or a beach but this year we are wanting something different to do with our children in the summer holidays but what can we do with them. We have 3 children together and she has two from previous relationship ages between 10 months to 9 years old so it has to be something they all can enjoy the eldest more than youngest and something we can enjoy as a family too. Help please? |
| Question: Family problems help please.? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 06:57 AM PDT I am a 15 your old girl. I live in a fairly wealthy family. My brother resentally got into all organics like obsessively. No gluten. No nothing. Yucky smelling organic dishwasher soap, household cleaner, laundry detergent. And I can no longer use what u want cause of the "fumes" I can live with that though. My problem is when he starts controlling my life. I used a nice smelling air fresher and he flipped out unlocking my door using force and stealing and throwing it away while yelling at me. He calls me so many mean things. I like to die my hair but he has a problem with it and now cause he flipped out I am no longer allowed to die my hair? Its not the 50$ a day on food budget he has. Its more the way he treats me and how I'm grated that upsets me. He is two years older and refuses to see a tharopist. Last night me and my mom got into a argument with It she always agrees with him so he won't get mad at her. I said I want to move out and she told me to move out with a friend. But she went back on her work minutes later. Once I got a dab of concealer on his arm and he flipped out kicking/ punching me and lashing out. Once I ate a few of his tomatoes and he came into my room and yelled at me and when I told him to leave he walked in more and shut the door behind him. I really don't know what to do I have a friend that would take me but I also would feel bad for leaving my mom. Please help. |
| Question: Is it acceptable to put a 7 year old in a scared straight program? Posted: 04 Jun 2015 06:38 AM PDT I want to put this kid in a program where they lock you up and make you see what it feels like when you do something wrong. I don't really like kids so I think it would be perfect to just scare him into thinking hes going to jail and never coming home. maybe he will finally get his act together. don't you think its a good idea for a bad azzz |
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