my aunt got her dishtv bill today and found some porn i had selected on her dishtv and her bill was $70.00

Our dog is old, she barks a lot, doesn't seem so happy and she doesn't go for walks anymore. It takes an entire day to get her out. Previously the vets said if she stopped going for walks we'd know it's time. The sad fact is my family don't want to take her, I can't because I don't have a car. It's mainly because it upsets my mum too much and she doesn't want to accept. How ever I can't watch the dog suffer and I'm thinking of reporting this as a neighbour to the RSPCA so my family get forced to take the dog to the vets. I don't want too, but I love my dog. I have brought up the issue, my father is waiting on my mum to say yes but she says she knows the dog etc. I know the dog and know it's not fair seeing as she doesn't get out for walks and barks to go but is too weak. Phoning the RSPCA was going to be for the dog's benefit.

so to start off I'm 19 years old and a female and I have to admit I did not have the easiest life growing up, and its made me turn bitter and mean. as a child I was bullied and picked on, kids would make fun of me because of my looks and people could call me ugly and stupid. whenever I would try to make friends it would never work out and people would leave me out or exclude me, as I got older I would always get left out and everytime I would talk, people would ignore of what I have to say. I have had my parents yell at me before about stupid ****, my parents are not the most perfect people because my mom has a mental anxiety issue and my dad is careless and is not responsible with finances. my parents got in a lot of fights and my mom cheated on my dad twice, my mom and dad got divorced when I was 13. I had a lot of troubles growing up. my old friends would bully me and leave me out, I eventually got new friends but people still say I'm too bubbly nice or outgoing, but its like then do you really want me to be nasty? my current friends even leave me out too :( what am I doing wrong? I always feel hurt by how people leave me out or have no interest in talking to me, I'm not a bad person and I'm very nice and friendly, I have had family members like my aunt and uncle treat me like crap, my mom and dad never want to spend time with me. I have had exs treat me like crap and sometimes my boyfriend leaves me out and I just feel worthless and I feel like I don't matter I'm starting to feel like I'm boring. my boyfriends mom sometimes ignores me and pays more attention to my boyfriends little brother, that is not even her son! am I being too nice? I don't even know how I got a boyfriend in the first place? my ex treated me like **** and I have been played and cheated on before by guys. I know my bf and my mom and dad love me and my friends care about me but they ignore me a lot

alguien me puede decir porque mi ampificado quema fucible? como tengo 2 amplificador le puse de eso que trae 2 salidas para 2 amplificador y ai trae los fucibles pero el que se quema es el de amplificador bass. bueno nose si me entendieron ayuda porfa

I've been getting depressed recently because I don't know if I am considered too dependent on my parents. Financially and emotionally. For example: I don't have my own insurance, or even know how that works. When I applied for college, my dad checked my application and applied for FASFA on my behalf. I tried scheduling an appointment to get my wisdom teeth out, and my dad cancelled it because his insurance wasn't accepted there, and I had no idea. My parents are paying for my education, but I have a scholarship. I have 2 part time jobs- I work on campus, and I work as a waitress. My dad bought a car for me. When I accidentally broke the front bumpers, I tried to take it to a auto-repair shop on my own, and texted my dad what our insurance was, and he eventually found out and told me "you can't just go anywhere. we're going here, where I always go and know the owner." My dad, since he is a doctor, always comes to appointments with me, for example, my eye doctor appointment, he came, my wisdom teeth check up appointment he came and even comes in the patient room and starts talking to the doctors. I feel like I'm incapable of doing anything myself but my dad says its good for me to be learning about life, just not through mistakes that could cost us. I don't know how else to become independent from them. I have barely 1000k saved up from my jobs, I can't get my own place with only that little. Am I too dependent on my parents, and how can I become more independent?

tengo 21 años y estoy pasando por el peor momento de mi vida, estudio una carrera que no me gusta y la cual voy en la mitad pero todo el mundo se opone a yo estudie lo que quiero y si no lo hago no me vuelven a hablar tal vez y se sentirán decepcionados de mi y me tocara irme de mi casa, por otro lado tengo una hermana que esta sumergida en el mundo de las drogas :( y estoy viendo el suicidio como la mejor salida pero tengo mucho miedo con Dios, con mi familia y conmigo mismo. Cada vez me gana mas el impulso de cometer suicidio y no veo otras salidas.

So, I was just recently caught cussing on the internet by my parents. My parents are really strict about my internet usage, and if I even go on without their permission, I'd be grounded. This is the second time something like this has happened, and two years ago i got every single thing in my room sold - my desk, my bed, my dresser, television, electronics, etc. I was left with a cot, which is basically an uncomfortable sheet that is suspened on some bars, some books, a backpack with school supplies and two bins with my clothes in them. This is the second time this has happened, and I was threatened with military school last time this happened, specifically OMI (Oakland Military Institute) which I am not ready to go to. This time around it is most likely going to be worse, with an assured groundation for the entire summer, and a 3 year trip to boot camp. Have any of you had similar experiences, or maybe tips on what to do the entire summer before military school? Nothing has been sold yet, but i will have literally nothing except for books, a window to look out, and a giant drawing notebook

Yesterday I met up with a boy who I've been friends on skype with quite some time- he lives about 30 minutes away. We've been flirting a lot. And he came to pick me up. I'm 17. We went to his house, which was the original plan, but we were supposed to be doing his homework because he gets distracted quickly. We watched netflix for a little and then he asked me if I wanted to kiss him, I've never kissed anyone before. I get very anxious very easily and very quickly so at that point, I was extremely anxious. I told him "I do want to kiss you...but not right now. So no, not yet." And he said "I'm going for it anyway." And I let him. I obviously went through with it. I should've pushed him away, I didn't want it. I didn't like it. It made me feel very uncomfortable. I've felt very dirty since I left, like I did something wrong. I'm not trying to get him in trouble or anything..I just want to know if that counts as molestation or if I'm just being dumb? No is no, though. And I did tell him no.

I'm selling my 55 gal fish tank set up on CL. I posted pictures and told them to call or text me, and I received an email at around 12:30 am, with this response. It looks fake to me especially because 1. the grammar 2. he doesn't mention WHAT I'm selling and 3. I'm not going to meet anywhere except my home to show a 55gal. fish tank! Hello, I am Moses i just got back home from work around 11:00 PM, i saw the post during my break at work i'm not free to send you an email then until now that i'm home. Let me know if it's in great condition, i'm available to take a look at it tomorrow anytime between 9am - 6pm, just let me know if this is in good shape i have much interest in it then i'm ready to buy it with the price shows in listing. i will be glad if you can let me know where we will be able to meet to show it to me at your conveniency, but if you can tell me all about it and if you have more pics you can easily get that to me in an email instead of coming down to look at it since you might be at work or unavailable tomorrow, I look forward to hear from you soon, please feel free to contact me here wilkinmoses8@gmail.com I am flexible on prices and we can discuss in more detail. I look forward to hearing from you! Moses Sent from my iPhone

Usually, I like stuff when the dad wants to f*ck the babysitter or something. What do you prefer?

For a survey for my class: 1) Identify and comment on the three most important issues facing the American family in the 21st century. Are these issues new ones or recurring ones? 2) What is the single greatest strength of the contemporary American family and why should it be protected? 3) What are possible legislative policies that Congress could enact to maintain the strength you identified?

It happenned a couple hours ago. My parents and I were talking about a stupid thing and we were happy. Then they asked me question and when I said yes they didn't believe me. I got upset and got up and I even saw my mum smiling. Just a second later I got to my room my dad came rushing in telling me how rude I was. No, he wasn't telling he was literally screaming and I just asked him what was wrong. But he just took a step and choked me for a couple seconds then threw me to my bed telling me that I slammed my door?? I don't know what to do he's a sweet person but he was looking like monster tonight:( I just need help and suggestions. I'm 14 and a girl btw. Thank you for reading.

He loves animals music and Italian food but please help me a romantic evening with my husband please

The story goes like this. I'm in a relationship with a 28 year old man for a year now. During this year of relationship I have grown to love him and know him well, I would say. Also, during this year, I noticed a bunch load of behavioral patterns. His past, regarding his family, is not pink: father left his mother when he was about 6, then mom had other 2 mariages and now she is single. His mom is away, living in another country since 9 years ago. She has a very big revenue so she kinda offered him everything. But, never any special attention. She also never really did encourage him to take a job, to build a career and he isn't focused on personally developing himself. I don't think he knows what his skills are. He doesn't have a goal. He is overly attached to the people next to him. He can't live a day without meeting with his "friends"(whom mostly take advantage of his wealth and time). He spends his time solving everyone's problems (it doesn't matter what those are: from putting up the furniture to lending money, driving them to places - with my own eyes, I've been there and seen it all). He doesn't deal with his own problems. He worries me. Question: How can I help him? How can I guide him? How can I stop him from developing these constant toxic relationships? I tried talking to him, but he says it's all in my head, that they are good people. If any of you can give me a good advice, it is the last thing I'll try to do for him. I love him but he is self-destructive.

So I've been dating her for about a year now. And everythin in the beginning was fine. But about 9 months into the relationship I felt comfortable enough to show how lovey I could be with her. And then she started to treat me horribly. She now yells at me all the time. She doesn't care if we break up or not.. But she did break up with me yesterday. Then she started crying and cuddled up to me. And everything. Saying she loves me but she doesn't know what's wrong. And I just want to figure out how I can get her back to her old self. Any suggestions? Is it possible?

My gf has final exams in school, she try her best but its too hard for her and most of exams just didnt end well. She really do maximum but to be honest she has no chance to do it and she's angry,nervous and depressed. + we had some existencial problem few days ago, so when i texted to her just question if shes at school she answered me "wtf..im in the hell " i asked if i can help her "i dont need anything ". Im really afraid text her even something, dont know what to do!

My parents have been arguing for a week and it's gotten to me. It's over the dumbest thing and now it's gotten bigger. Whenever my parents fight I'm always scared of my dad doing something. But my mom never stops and she always has something to say. So at the moment my mom hates me and doesn't even want to see me. But for my two brothers she acts different. There's No way for me to stop my parents trust me I've tried everything and said everything that could stop them. It's only calm when one of them goes to work. I'm just so tired of this all and I don't even know when it will stop. I honestly don't know what I'm asking but I don't really wanna tell my friends what's going on because they could tell other people.

If speaking from personal experience please state your age.

I was just on omegle and some guy said he knew me and where I lived where I was working ect. He said my phone number, IP address, phone service, name which he didn't have, dogs name, said he'd hurt my dog, and turn off my tv if I didn't believe him. I said you're a liar and my tv proceeded to turn off then turn on and play "I'm watching you" over and over in a creepy voice he also said my state and city. I'm really scared he said he'd hurt me help please

Me and my friend have been dating for 2 years .he was living in my Apartment for the past 1.5 years. I have a child 12 yers lf she from my previous marriage . My bf loves me but he has trust issues and he is super jelous Whenever i take my son somwhere he thinks i am cheating on him .if iam at work he thinks iam cheating on him we have lots fights and always after a fight i kick him out of my Apartment but take him back after a week this time i kick him out in middle of night he didnt have any money the next day i felt sorry and call him but now it has been a week he doesnt answer my phones and text masseges. Should i leave him alone We love each other

How did it went down to that? did you ask her to be exclusive with you? Where did you "pop the question"? and how did you react when she finally said the you'll be her boyfriend? If you broke up with your first girl friend and courted another girl,Is there a difference in your reaction when the new girl said yes? Please state the differences. The more detailed, the better. Thnaks

I cannot say its bad now, just wonder if you know any tips to make relationship even more interesting for her. Maybe ladies can tell best what they like

Well OK I been with this boy for almost 5years I'm going on 18 and I've been working summer jobs and a regular job he told me he doesn't wanna job that IMA support him so I lookes at him crazy I'm always buying clothes food shoes his hair done I feel like a mother more than a girlfriend Then the other day he asks me to buy him a iPhone and that I should leave my Android &my $30 bill to go to a tmobile bill so we can have the same phone I'm just so confused I feel like its time to cut him off but part of me telling me to stay because I love him Then he wants a baby me being dumb in love has been trying and it ain't work so I'm glad there's no baby because I would have to take care of it by myself since he doesn't wanna work Should I dump him or stay but just stop spending my money on him

I try to be creative but from time to time i just lose ideas and i need inspiration, please help me find some new :)

I am more in high fashion here my life is more about gym masculine and stronger. I want to tell him to slap me during sex and even abuse me slightly is that normal or no i am to marry my husband we are gay and here is a SEX question

I broke up with the man I love. He has said very mean things to me like" drop dead" "your impossible and intolerable... your psychotic" he put his hand on me like 7 times. He never cheated. I broke up with him today. He says i have to let go of the past to move on. I cant. I have a hard time trusting him and i am afraid to be vulnerable with my emotions again. He said he has put foward his best to keep the realtionship. He cant do more if i cant forgive so we can move on. I want this to work out, but i have doubts that he truly loves me and has good intentions. Two years friend one of which we became a couple. Should i try harder? Forgive him and give him the trust he deserves and save this realtionship? He is doing his part for the past two months as he says.

It just seems kind of sad that(according to the internet) people are more hurt when a dog gets abused than a child does.

I'm not sure how to deal with this. my ex husbands new wife has always hated me. even though she cheated and stole my husband. I have two young kds with him. an she does nothing but text and call me all the time, to yell and harrrass me bout what i'm doing wrong as a mother? threatens to take my kids from me. makes me cry. she says that that my daughter would be better off with out me. makes me cry. I don't understand why she and my ex are so hateful. we may have different parenting techniques. but I am not a bad mom. im sick of being threatened and harassed by her/them. not sure what I can do though ?

I babysit a little girl about 7 or 8 years old. And she's really shy. But I've know her my WHOLE life. I babysat her the first time on Monday and I have to again today. But she's so quite! I feel like she's scared of me. That or she thinks I'm boring? Which I am a pretty boring person. On the first day we just watched movies and played go fish since it was too cold for the pool. Anyways. What are a few activities I could do to keep her intreasted! Do you maybe know a website that has something?! Because I looked and I only saw stuff with GROUPS of kids. And I'm only babysitting ONE kid.

I'm 20 years old. Go to college, mature, loving, excited-to-see-the-world type of gal. I moved back with my parents because they said things were going to be different (really strict when i was young) and I was struggling with money in college. I agreed but its been very hard on me. I have to be home at a certain time, have to ask for permission for everything. (Which is fine, their house their rules) what bothers me is other things, for example right now in summer my boyfriend moved back home for the summer (2-2 1/2 hour drive from where i live through the desert), when he comes over, he can stay but when i go over I HAVE to come home for the night even if its late night. Also with friends houses can't stay over. I cant go on vacations because its dangerous out there. I wanted to go to las vegas this summer with friends and boyfriend and asked, they responded with a firm NO! How can a young lady like me go?! Thats insane! I said I'm going anyway. Enough is enough but they said that they'll go after me, put a restraining order against my boyfriend, cut me off. I just feel so scared, I'm trying to move out but they make me feel.. well scared. My mom is always in a bad mood and she infects me with her mood. They make me feel conflicted about my feelings. I dont think its wrong to go out and have fun but they make me feel guilty about it because its wrong. (continue on update) I understand they love me & its scary for them to let me go in the world on my own, especially since im their oldest but its affecting me. I love them too, ALOT, theres nothing i wouldn't do for them but I dont want to miss out on my life. In high school I missed out a lot & it sucked, i dont want to miss out of my younger years. Right now they help me with mostly everything, ive been saving little money. I know the best thing to do is move out but theres just going to be a war Cont.. Theyre going to cut me off and I know its time to be on my own but they kinda deprived me from learning. I just need advice and a few words to help me.. I feel this is affecting me, Ive always been a good girl, feet firm on the ground, I know what I want but its just scary disappointing your parents. I'm very family oriented so Its going to hurt alot them giving me the cold shoulder for a bit.. Advice ? I'm tired of feeling like a kid and them making me believe that i'm still a kid

So me and my bf have been together two years. Today everything was good so I don't know where a break up came from? Today I wanted him to work out with me.he said yes.but he had to go to Walmart so I went to the gym.I wasn't mad or anything. when I got home I took a shower and then went into the living room.I usually go in the bedroom but today I feel like getting out of the room.we stay in an apartment with roommates. so I'm always under him.this was out of the ordinary.he walks into the living room and ask me am i okay. I said yes and he kept asking. and then he went back into the bedroom. when it was time for him to go to work he said I love you bye. he did not stop to give me a hug nor kiss. he just slammed the door. I asked him why. he told me I did not deserve one. an hour ago he called to break up with me because he felt like I was a hypocrite. I asked him how. he said because you asked me the same questions over and over but you don't want me asking you the same question. he said I don't want to be with a hypocrite. I admitted to being one when we were talking as friends .but he waits to now break up with me.I feel like everyone is to a certain extent. he felt like I was upset when I really wasn't. what should I do? I feel like he's making excuses to break up with me. how should I state my case to him to prove my point?... Really good and helpful answers would be appreciated

Hm where should I start well freshmen year me and my mom were fine but would get into lil arguments and so it started getting worse my junior year of hs and I have no one to talk to about these problems so I basically bottle things in and it kills me now I'm a freshmen in college and everything's just been going down hill I tell her the simplest things and I get yelled at I can't have friends everytime I mention going somewhere with a friend she makes it a big deal I'm 19 going to be 20 in August and I would think that everything would be fine she always says she's gonna call the cops on me but there's no reason I finally made a decision to go to the navy for 4 years because I can't deal with this stress she always doubts me when we get into arguments I started getting anxiety haven't noticed it but it started taking over she calls my dad and sister and make me seem like I'm a horrible son I go and look about a job with my friend and she gets mad at me when I tell her I'm going to the gym with my friend she gets mad she's so confusing I may talk back but I don't make it a scene I may repeat stuff but I honestly don't get what I'm doing wrong from right am I a horrible son tonight I asked if I could sleep over my friends house because we're having a movie date at his house with these two girls thinking she'd be fine and well let's just say that went into a whole big situation I just wish she would stop treating me as if I was 5 and it gets me mad I just wanna treated my age

There's this guy I'm interested in that works at the grocery store close to my house, every time I go in the store I see him looking at me, he's talked to me one time just to ask if I needed help finding anything, but me of course being a nervous wreck I can't get up the courage to start a real conversation with him. I saw him working tonight, and the whole time I was in the store I was trying to be brave enough to give him my number, but just couldn't. I know pretty much the times that he works and when he gets off, so I sat in the parking lot and waited for him to come out. He walked to his car super fast and I was so close to getting out and walking over to him but by the time I got out of my car he had closed his door and started backing up. Is there a way I could go about giving him my number and not being weird? I'm not even sure if he's single or not but I'm kicking myself for not being confident enough to go through with it and find out. Please help!

I'm a twin and I've showed two people at work a picture of my sister. Both of these people have said "your twin sister really pretty". I've always had a low self esteem and being a twin we often get compared to each other. What is that even suppose to mean?? "You're twin sister is really pretty".. Am I just over analyzing it or are they basically saying she's prettier or I'm not as attractive because that's how I feel it comes across.

So I've been dating this girl for a little over a year. And revently she's been acting weird, drinking more, smoking cigarettes a lot more than normal, so I called her and armed what's wrong, she said it was just a stressful week. I never pry Into her personal life I respect her privacy,and she respects mine, but we never keep secrets. I told her that if she wants to talk or anything I'll always listen. I get a call from her at 3 or 4 am and she's crying saying I need someone to talk to so I picked her up and took her to my appartment made coffee and she told me that she was raped before she and I were dating, and I guess something triggered a ptsd thing. All I could was hold her and tell her I'm sorry and I love you. Ive never been in a situation like this before, and I don't know what I can do. I love this woman with all of my heart, And I've lost a lot of sleep over this, It cripples me to see her like this. She's gotten a little better but I'm still worried that she could have another episode, and if it happens I want to be there for her, What can I do?

Puede mi marido qitar la manutencion q voluntariamente el le dio a su ex esposa durante su divorcio, si en el papel d la corte no pusieron fecha definida ni cuando terminara?? Lo q pasa es q el ya no gana lo q ganaba y la manutencion q qedo ahi establecida ahora nos hace falta a nosotros, ella trabaja y hace su vida ,puede el retirar la manutencion? Vivimos en California, gracias d antemano a qien responda , me gustaria la opinion d un experto :( ya q tenemos 2 bebes y también a mi me preocupa. ..

It's crazy how someone can come into your life and throw you off a little. And so unexpectedly with someone I would never think twice. I was just doing what I loved and love came to me. I knew her before but it was like meeting a new person when she re-entered my life 7 years later. Maybe the timing wasn't perfect but it was needed. There was a feeling of anxiety followed by calmness. It was an unexplainable feeling at first. I questioned her and how randomly she came into my life when I needed it without realizing. She was beautiful for the way she thought. She was beautiful for that sparkle in her eye when she spoke about something she loved. She was beautiful for her ability to make you smile even if she was sad. She was just beautiful deep down to her soul. This is when I realized I might actually love her. But how quickly this escalated which is very unlikely of me. Naturally I'm always open to people but things are generally a process with me. With her it happened within weeks. when I'm with her things feel natural. I appreciate her and I wish I could show her. I want her to be happy and I want to give her happiness. But I can't fully express myself to her. I'm afraid I can't give her what she wants and needs. It's only been over a month. And I'm already at this point

Hi, as the title says, I'm a 34 year old virgin. Never been on a date, held hands, etc. I have a great paying job, a condo, a car. I've attempted asking out women all through high school and college, but around 27 i sort of gave up. All the rejections became repetitive, and frustratingly thought maybe it wasn't meant for me so I dove into my job. I have a close circle of friends that I spend time with every week, and they know about it. Some of them they keep telling me how good I have it, and others tell me it may be my physical features (5'3 130 Ib). My daily routine is go to work, come home and relax till my next shift. On weekends I hang out with friends, and walk my dog. They describe me as a witty nerd (I'm an experimental biologist), so I'm guessing that's a good attribute to have. I have no hard feelings, but now that my siblings have kids and are in healthy relationships, my parents won't get off my back about it. It pains me to lie to them, but the past couple of holiday family gatherings have become a burden to me. I have no problem being the awesome uncle. Just wondering if anyone can give me some advice on how to go about my parents? Appreciate it.

My boyfriend and I have been going together for almost a year now ... He was a bad boy in the past. He sold drugs, stole cars, didn't finish high school, had sex with a good number of females and etc ... But he's 19 now and he doesn't do any of that ... Yea we get into argument and things but that's what being in a relationship is all about ! My mother is soooo mean towards him ... It really kicked off when she found out my boyfriend was the one who jumped on my brother 4 years ago.. She thinks he is unfaithful, has anger issues . And that he'll put his hands on me and he only wants me for sex but she doesn't know him! She does everything in her power to keep him away, she stopped him from coming to the house .. She says I can't see him because I FaceTime him all week that should be enough and she won't let me go over his house ... She accuses me of having sex with him ... She says I have changed because of him ! Like what do I do ? Why is she acting that way ?!

So I live with my god parents and my god mom just got married and I kinda like his son.. He's funny and sweet.. I mean I just have feeling for him. I don't think its weird considering he's not my real brother but I just can't get off the fact I think he's adorible... I need help. I don't know what to do. We both play around rough.. Like will hit each other in a playful way.. I just don't know what to do.. And I don't think there really is much to do.. Please help me.. And please don't judge me.. It shouldnt be weird considering were not blood related. Thanks

Hi Answers... I hope I can get some help and not just people judging me but... Today my rescue dog whom I cherish with all my heart got attacked. I've taken her to the vet and I'm very lucky to say she looks like she's going to be okay... but I witnessed the whole fiasco, and I had to hold her eyeball from falling out of the socket. Anyways... needless to say, since the incident a few hours ago I've had nonstop nausea, some cramping and I even started hyperventilating at a few points, should I be as worried about my baby as I am? Or should I just relax and give it a day to see how I do... I'm very scared and stressed out -.- thanks ahead of time for any help

My coworkers, one of whom is my brother, constantly pick on me because they know I'm pretty sensitive and I guess because they love to see a reaction out of me. When I first started there, which was about 2 years ago, I was very shy and barely spoke up. Well, now, I'm pretty vocal--not quite as vocal as the ones I have issues with but I can be kinda sassy. This is due to the fact that I'm tired of the two coworkers who have been there longer than I running me over. Well, being sassy has only increased the amount of flack I get from them. I guess they think that if I can dish it, I can take it..? Well, part of it is that they insult every little thing I do and question me, as if to keep me in my place. And, they always insult my work ethic and how much I talk instead of working. I will admit I can and do get distracted easily and sometimes stop working when talking. The thing is, they do this, too, but justify it by claiming that "their work is done". I then go look for things to do when it is slow and really can't find much to do. Then, they get mad at me for not working. It seems as if they can just stand there and talk but won't allow me to, merely because they think they're the bosses. Oh, and these coworkers are just that--coworkers. One of them is supposed to become a supervisor but isn't one yet. And, back to my brother, he joins in and adds to them making fun of me because he dislikes me. When I push back against their calling me out constantly, then I'm deemed the bad guy. I'm sick and tired of it. I have begun to try to work harder, but it is never enough. They're ready and waiting for me to talk back to them, mess up, go too slowly. And, when I work hard, they make no mention of it. They goad me into getting defensive and angry and then ask why I'm so mean and hateful now. I'm so sick of it. I want a new job but am afraid I'll find people there just like these two/three. How can I balance working and talking? Should I worry about pleasing these faux-managers? How can I learn to just shut my mouth again? I'm tired of them using every little thing I say as fuel for their fires and then me being blamed for it...I feel as if I'm either in high school or a circus and I'm everyone's clown. How do I stick up for myself without letting them use that against me? Or should I just give up and let them win?

there is a kid in school who I sometimes talk to... he never does anything... hw/tests/assignments... he even left his finals blank.. I've asked him what he wanted to do in the future and he said he didn't know ... he doesn't have any hobbies ... he doesn't have any big dreams ... nothing... what should I tell him? I want him to wake up! He doesn't have bad behavior nor does he sit around and smoke pot... he just doesn't do anything!!!!!

So my bf and I have been together for 2 years.we haven't had sex yet.this is because he wants me to make the first move.when I do make the first move I end up being the only one to do the work.he says it was just the way he was raised to be respectful. I've explained to him that I am his girlfriend and that he doesn't have to and I want to feel desired as well.well now I am about to move back home and he went out the other day to buy condoms.I asked him why and he said he at least wanted to try before I move back home....I don't get why he now waits to do this now that I'm moving. I feel like anything he does that shows love or effort is on special occasions.. hence to what he now wants to try all of a sudden..today he tried to get me in the mood and I was but he did not make a move on me.instead I caught him jacking off in the bathroom.I really don't know how to feel.

I was watching little kids at my neighbors house and they were running and playing and just making all kids of weird noises, yet they seemed to understand each other. There was a dynamic there I didn't understand or at least couldn't relate to. it's just weird because I used to be that young and play like they were, but I couldn't make a connection or remember what it was like. It kinda bothered me

El sabado terminare con mi novia. Me duele porque la amo. Pero ella no me quiere. Es un amor no correspondido. Me siento mal. Que hago para sentirme mejor? Que puede auidarme a soportar este desengaño amoroso? Agradeceria sugerencias practicas

So my boyfriend's mom is getting married in 3 months and while I'm excited for her and her fiancé, I have noticed she never texts or calls me about anything wedding related. In fact it seems like I only find things out about the wedding when another relative mentions something or his mom tells both of us in person. Maybe I'm reading too much into it. It could also be that I'm not related to her. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I know she loves me. She trusts me around both my bf and his little brother and she invites me to things (like her wedding) and gets me gifts.

Okay I'm not going to go into major details but I've been with this guy for about a year now and we are both in high school and he is graduating soon. I only started thinking about him having "rape fantasies" recently due to things he's done in bed. Some things that trigger my questioning for it is we used to have a hitting problem (both he and I) and when we first started making love (5 months after we became official) he didn't want to use a condom and so I was scared of getting pregnant but I agreed to it and then I wanted him to stop and he wouldn't and I cried and begged him but he wouldn't and another time sex hurt really bad and I asked him to stop but he wouldn't. During that time period things were rough but were 100% past it now. A couple days ago (we usually start out in missionary position and end in me laying on my stomach and him on top of me) while we were having sex and I was laying down he grabbed the pillow and wrapped it around me face and I was gasping for air and whining I grabbed his hand and he came. in these couple of days it's happened a couple times. I really am wondering if he has a rape fantasy or what but can someone please tell me if its normal and explain it because I am so lost. Also, I was abused as a kid physically from ages 7-14 by my stepdad so I kinda have daddy issues and I don't know if that coild trigger his fantasies. But we always have rough sex to the point that I can't move. Thanks

I'm just an average guy, and it's starting to get to me. Hear me out, there's nothing wrong with being average, or the term average wouldn't exist. BUT literally, when you have high expectations along with your family having high expectations for you, it's hard accepting the fact. Your lame and average. Lets take school. my gpa is a 3.33 out of 5 (weighted) which is about the world gpa average. My sat score? the average is 1500, i got a 17xx. a bit higher... somehow. Idk, it's okay for grades and all, but i had expected much more. For ex. my goal for high school was 9th grade: take geometry. 10th: algebra II. 11th: AP calc AB. 12th: AP calc BC. then, since i took algebra II in 10th grade, i would be able to take Physics or Honors Physics 11th g, and AP physics in 12. What actually happened. My 8th grade teacher said i needed to retake algebra I. So in 9th grade, i took algebra I, passed with A average (since i already took the class). Decided to take Geometry AND algebra II to make up for the lost year. I lost, it just happened to be that the head of the math department was related to my 8th grade teacher, so the head of the math called my 8th grade teacher, who said no... again... SO now, not only can i not take AP calc BC, i can't take AP physics. So much for having goals in life. And just for S**ts and laughs, i took a "how crappy is your life" test. Scored 51/100. What will i do. be accepted, be somewhat different. idk, why did i even type this...

I want to thank one of my teachers for truly helping me out through tough times. Not sure if it would be better on the last day of school to do in a letter or talking to her privately face to face. I would like to do it face to face to talk to her one last time but I am afraid I will end up getting emotional, and forget half the things I wanted to say. What do you guys think? And thanks

We've had sex before, it was a while ago and I want helpful advice on how to let her now I want to have sex with her still, if you have any advice on how to tell her without coming off too strong please do, if you have had sex with a step sibling or not feel free to share on how you made it happen, I don't want a story of what you guys did just how you got them to do it!

Please take this serious, I need an answer. It's the only medication I have that I could take, all I ask is that you tell me how much, please.