Just wondering if anyone has been to a funeral before and at the funeral the food served were items the dead person specifically enjoyed (like if his favorite dessert was apple pie or if his favorite dinner meal was chicken pot pie) and if the music played at the reception or during the funeral was music the dead person always listened to (like Luther Vandross if he liked R&B or 2Pac songs if he was into rap). That would be an interesting way to honor the person at their funeral even if that person's food and music choices didn't match those of anyone in attendance.

These 2 people have known each other forever- literally their families were best friends and they were born on the same day- and they started dating when they were 14 and now their getting married, so what is a good first dance song for their wedding? I kind of want to do one that fits the situation but idk if that's a good idea

My older brother is getting married this weekend. I RSVP'd yes ages ago. Since then, everything has been pure hell. I'm the only sibling on both sides not in the wedding, which is fine. I don't expect to be in the wedding. But added to that, I've been lied to and left out of things for family and then shamed to both families for not turning up. There was a pre-wedding party last weekend for family only. I got a call from my father asking why I wasn't at it and when I told him I was never told, he said my brother said I was. Then I get a call from my brother saying they forgot, but then said he told me a few seconds later when someone came into the room. I found out an hour ago the rehearsal is tonight after my younger brother called and asked if he could ride with me. I asked him what he was talking about and he told me about the rehearsal. It was awkward for both of us. My older brother called just a few minutes ago and told me the details and I had to say I wouldn't be able to make it because of work. I've spoken to my brother several times in the last few months and it seems to be only me he and his fiancée are "forgetting" to inform about these things. I used to think we were pretty close, but now I'm just wanting to avoid the whole thing because I'm feeling very pushed out right now. Added to that,, most of my family are blaming me and saying I'm forgetting it all. My younger brother is good. The others, not so much. He's the supportive one and is pissed about what has happened. I've told him to stay out of my drama with them, though. It mostly hurts because I did believe my older brother and I were close, but the way he has talked to me about this whole thing and shifted blame on to me has made me realize the relationship isn't one that's doing me any good.

Okay so I was engaged and things didn't work out. I'm now in a new relationship months later and I feel weird still having the ring. I told my ex and he said he never wants the ring back no matter what.... Well, here's the thing. It's not his ring. It's his grandmother's. So I told his mother and she said, "it's whatever he wants"? Nobody is taking care to take in her considerations. She doesn't speak English or have a telephone or anything like that and she lives with his mother. When I ask "well can she have the ring back since it's hers" apparently no because it's still whatever he wants. I could never bring myself to sell an antique ring like that, and I don't think it could bring in much anyway because it's so old and worn out. I just feel weird having it around, you know? He and his family don't want it back, what do I do?