In other words, if you and your ex broke up, what did they do that made y'all be together again? How long did it take? * How long did it take for y'all to come back together as a couple?

The reason why I am asking this question is because my friend is a boy who kind of acts like a boyfriend. When he wants me to do him a favor, he would say "please. Do it for me." He would grab my hand while saying that. When we were on the rides at Six Flags, he told me to grab his hand. He asked me to go with him to different places. Last month on my birthday, I was on Facebook, he looked at my phone and asked me if I would want a ring like that. Lastly everytime I'm with him and I am texting or talking to someone on the phone, he would ask who I am texting or who I am talking on the phone with. I just feel that he likes me, but is afraid to tell me. Hope this makes sence and please don't say anything mean. Thank you for whoever answer this question.

Coworker and I talked everyday and night thru text there are lots of coworkers but only see them average once or twice per shift but he always ends up wherever I am. He walks thru my area to get to and from warehouse even tho there are faster ways He looks down every aisle as if looking for me and I catch him staring at me. If I'm called to specific area suddenly he shows up. If I pass him when leaving seconds later he is outside building. when I mentioned hanging out he gave me excuses then said it was bc when he is busy. if you want to see someone you make time I told him I was attracted to him and he told me he liked me as a friend. After this he became distant he brought me up to mutual friend he said he only talked to me to be nice I confronted him he said words were twisted then again he told same friend how I confronted him. We didn't talk for a few days Then I texted him, he told me to stop talking to him i blocked him and haven't contacted him since. While on good terms he told me he wouldn't talk to me if he didn't want to and that he cared about me. If he was only being nice he wouldn't have kept up with every conversation or sent smiley emojis. he wouldn't come up to me at work to talk. Recently he is staring at me again and showing up where he knows I am at work he even tried to talk to me in regards to work rather than go to another coworker. He doesn't like me so why does he stare at me and why does he show up wherever he knows I will be at work

Just a random question. Me and my friend usally stay up till 3 but im just wondering

How long does the Bella cream to work I already seen some changes in my booty and kinda in my boobs but how long does it really takes?

So my ex girlfriend had this guy come in to visit her who's from England. I guess they new each other before we even started dating ( we dated 7 months) she told me he was coming months in advance so I trusted her and didn't think it would be a big deal. Well once he showed up I was basically out of the picture. I was ignored. She was with this guy every day he was here and her and her friends were always hanging out with him. I broke up with her 4 days into the visit because I was just being ignored. She didn't even care. From what I remember today was his last day here. Do you think once he leaves she'll realize how much she misses me? I don't want her back but I just want her to go through some type of pain like I have. From what I saw on snap chat the dude wasn't even attractive. I know I sound jealous but just to have everything going well and fine and then suddenly this guy shows up for a week and she's just not interested anymore, it's terrible.

Some days I'll be very horny and she will ignore me and tell me to go away and go jerk off. Somedays she doesn't even want sex at all. She would rather watch a stupid video on facebook than have sex with me. That's always her excuse. "I have to read/watch this thing on facebook". She spends 8 hours a day on facebook or tumblr. She would be satisfied having sex once a year. She orgasms everytime we have sex multiple times, but she just doesn't care about sex and it's important to me and makes me feel unloved whens he constantly ignores me. I take her out to nice dinners, romantic evenings, etc. and then when we get home, she just goes on the computer and ignores me the whole rest of the night.

We've been together for a few months now, nothing that peoplr would consider special by any means, but we really love each other. But she's depressed on top of doing self harm. And normally this is immense on a guy who's going to college this semester.. The first time was terrible.. We cried and talked for hours and I tried to make her feel better as best I could. A second time, I broke down and I told her that this was quickly becoming too much and that I wasn't sure I could stay anymore because I was starting to really feel like **** and I was throwing up. And now, today... It's happened again. The authorities were contacted and the first two were caught, and its only a matter of time before this one does too, but the experiences remain.. I know I'd be the shittiest person alive if I left, but this is just so painful on me... My pain is nowhere near hers right now I know, but what do I do? ):

I mean I'm not really sure how long this has been going on but I right now I definitely feel like I've been born in the wrong body. I do have a boyish attitude, but inside I know that there's something different. I don't want a penis or testicles, but I do want a vagina and boobs. I dont cross dress, but I still want to be a girl. And these feelings just get more and more intense everyday and I don't know what to do about them. Need help!

Im 17 and I'm still not over my ex. We dated for a pathetic 23 days, and broke up 8 months ago exactly (during which time I had been single), and I really don't know why I'm not over him yet. He broke up with my by text, and we worked together, and he acted like nothing happened. The reason for the breakup was that he didn't like my pixie cut (which I had before we started dating), and a bunch of other stupid reasons. Later I found out that he cheated on me with 1 girl and cheated on another girl with me and I didn't know. He was my first boyfriend as well. Since the breakup, I haven't checked his social media at all, but he showed up on my Facebook due to mutual friends and found out he's moving in his his girlfriend of 2 months, which kinda stung. Ever since we broke up, I always find a way to reject or jeopardize any potential relationship/date. I've also been having dreams recently where he's trying to get back together with me but I reject him. So after all this, could anyone give me advice as to why I'm not over him yet, or any tips on how to get over him?

I've been dating him for a day. Does this mean he'll never want to have sex, even in the future, or just not too soon?

My boyfriend and I have been going through a rough patch. I hadn't seen him all week and he came over today so we could talk. I pulled out of him what was wrong and he says he feels like we do the same things all the time, and that I get mad at him for stupid things (but he pushes me to be like that because he does things that make me feel like he doesn't care). I went a little crazy and begged for him and of course that didn't work, I was stupid for doing that. But I calmed down and was talking to him and said why don't we just wait a few days before we make a rational decision and then talk after we've thought more about what we want. He said that would be fine and he left. I'm good friends with one of his friends and his friend told me that my BF (ex BF, don't know what to call him rn) told him that we're going to wait a few days and see how things pan out and then he's going to take me to eat, and that he doesn't want me completely out of his life. What does this mean? And please don't just tell me to move on, I'm not saying I want to be with him for sure, but I just need help understanding this and I need advice on what I should do from here on out. I haven't texted him, he was the last to text me.

My bf accused me of talking to guys behind his back when I didn't. He saw That I sent ONE sc to a guy friend to ask about my car accident. He didnt know that guy so he was upset. He dumped me and told me he's done forever which he never said before. He tell me before that he says things he doesn't mean when he's upset. He said he would never leave me forever. He have broken up with me so many times before and always come back. This time he tell me he's really done. He loves me very much and cried when he dumped me. Hes a loyal bf and tell me he loves me and dont wanna lose me so many times before. Will he come back? I know you wouldnt know that cuz u cant read his mind but please help :( I miss him its been two days. We are almost 8 months

We were together briefly 5 years ago & have kept in vague contact since. I saw him last 3 years ago while we were friends benefits. He cheated on one of his gf by kissing me and now tried to cheat on another gf of 2 years with me again when he knew I wasn t okay with deceiving anyone. At first he had started texting me trying to get in touch a little more and one night we started to message each other. He asked for a picture of my face I sent one & he sent one of himself. We started to talk about what we liked sexually I m not attached right now and haven t had any action in a long time so I agreed to meet. But then he asks me if I m seeing anyone I answ yes by accident before I could correct myself he said he was still w his gf. I get upset, he apologizes & blames alcohol. I eventually confront him about his selfishness tell him if he can t fully commit to someone then he shouldn t be in a relationship. He gets defensive & tells me he has a great relationship with her & that I should respect it. I couldn t believe it & effectively end it. The things is remember when he had just broken up w his other gf he knew I wanted a relationship & he made a point to say he wasn t ready yet months later he gets in another one w a new girl but then chooses to cheat on her also w me. That never made sense to me& it hurts cause I actually cared & wanted him to be a better guy as a friend but he just wouldn t stop behaving that way. My question is why? And how can I put this behind me?

So I've been friends w/ this guy for nearly two years and yes I do like him. Every time he goes on some vacation he tells me he wishes he could take me w/ him. Basically he says that whenever he goes somewhere I'm the person he wants to go with/be by his side. Does he like me?

I am masturbating to him I want to text him and tell him I want him to f*ck me because It's been an hour since I masturbated to him. Last night we had an argue so we both said bye as in goodbye never talk again but we talked today he started first so I have no idea what we are but I know he'd probably like it because he asked to be f*ck buddies once.

I am 26, she is 19. We haven't met, but we started talking. Normally I wouldn't go for younger women, but she seems mature and seems really driven. We seem at different points in our lives, as she has 3 years of school to go, and I am working up the corporate ladder. We been talking a couple days now, and she is out of the state, but will return in a week. We may meet up.....but I really am not sure what I should do?

I value my friendship with her very much and I'd never want her to feel weird about me liking her coworker so I don't want to tell her. Once she said she thought of giving him my number but didn't. Maybe she thought he and I would hit it off? I don't know if I'd ever actually pursue a relationship with him (he's going to college and I'm a senior in high school) or if he'd even think I'm cute too. But from what's she told me about him, he has the most perfect sense of humor (meaning it's awful, like mine), and he's pretty nice looking.

it happened when my girlfriend was at a party with co workers. everyone was drinking and joking around. she was sitting on the couch with her feet up and her high heels off bc they were hurting her. this man that she's friends with at work tickled her foot as a joke. she screamed and jumped bc she's really ticklish. I guess he thought it would be funny to keep going so he did it a couple of more times. eventually he sat on top of her and had her pinned down and was tickling her feet non stop. she was kicking and screaming and begging him to stop. it lasted for a minute or two. everyone there was laughing and thought it was hilarious. I am extremely angry and jealous about this. I can't believe that another man would do this to my girlfriend even if it was a joke. the worst part is she didn't even tell me about the incident. one of our mutual friends that was there told me. she said that she felt embarrassed about it and that she didn't want me to be angry. how would you feel like someone did this to your girlfriend? do I have a right to be as angry as I am?

I'm 17 and my coworker is 23 (almost 24) and I'm really into him and I can tell he's into me but I don't know if he wants it to go somewhere and if I should let it go somewhere ?????????? *HE TURNS 24 THIS MONTH AND I TURN 18 IN OCTOBER*

I ve been working at this shop for almost a year and the whole time i ve been interested in my coworker who is 23. As of recent, he found out and it turns out he s thinks I m cute and he always flirts with me and stuff. I don t know if this will go anywhere or if i should let it go anywhere. Please help!!! *he turns 24 on the 24th and I turn 18 in October

there's this guy I really like and he has liked me. one of his best friends asked "oh you're (my name), I asked (his name) if that's who you were & she kept calling him "my boyfriend". I decided to wave at him so I went "hey (his name" and waved, and he turned & his face got red and he smiled and waved back. Then i went (another day) (his name) and he turns and his face was red and he smiled big and I went "HEY" and waved and he waved back. also, he has class next to mine and he always waits on me to get to there and then he stares at me then leaves when I leave. today, him and his group of friends kept calling my name and his BFF tried making him talk to me and me ask him to sit by me at lunch, & his group of friends said "LOOK AT HER BUTT" today. His friends know me and talk to me a lot. the thing is, when I catch him staring, he either looks away or smiles or is emotionless. His friends have also stared at me A LOT. everyone have said he's mean, but he's so happy & nice when I'm around. His BFF keeps trying to get him to sit by me. he also tries to find me and follow me a lot.and his friend have recently tried talking to me and know who I am. But, I've heard I freak him out and when I asked on sc, his friend said "this is (his friend) and yes" and I went "oh ok" and then he (I think, idk) went "lmao (his friend) is such a character" but after that he saw me and gave me the "rolled eyes but has a huge smile" look. So what do the actions mean? Does he like me or not?

My boyfriend of ten months has been in another state for the past 3 weeks for work, hes going to come over on thursday night right after he gets home, the last 2 weeks hes been talking pretty dirty and missing me, so I know what hes after on tuesday night and I love him and have missed him very much too, I want to plan a romantic-sexy night, I really want him to know from the second he opens the door im waiting for him, any tips on building some suspense, i dont just want to be standing there naked or be too cheesy with flowers or something, I want a little build. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

Well i was messaging my crush And i was telling him tbh im really shy but when i get confortable with someone you can never shut me up. And he said challenge accepted .

So I am 15M and looking to meet cute girls. Problem is, Idk where to look/go and when I try and talk to a cute girl,I get super nervous and all that. Where do I go and how do I talk to a cute girl eventually making her my gf?

Whenever my friends bring me around girls or whenever I go out, girls/women just make fun of me... I have the latest clothing, I'm a senior in college, always stay well groomed (as far as I can tell), but they'll always comment on me being too skinny, or I'm not this or they'll challenge me on my material possessions...why? No man I've been around has experienced this, so it's hard to talk about in person... My whole life, as I said before, this has been an issue that I try to ignore, but because I'm heterosexual, I just can't succumb to apathetic behavior. Am I ugly? Do I need to become a more intimidating man? What up?

You still care about her and ur still single but you are not ready for a relationship If your answer is yes, why would you not wanna catch up with her as friends?

If this is just about sex I have an account with several thousand dollars in it I am saving for vacation. If I wanted sex I could withdrawal that money and hire an escort. No, I don't just want sex if I did I have money to just pay for it. I would actually like a relationship and someone to share my life with. Why is it that guys are forced to be alone if they are not "good looking enough? Trust me I am not looking for models to date I care more about personality and values your looks are not going to last forever.

So there is a girl I saw at work and before I got the confidence to approach her and officially meet her I got fired!! i have a really close friend that still works there and is telling me that he is going up to her tomorrow and telling her, I don t want him to because I don t want her to think I was scared lol. He s giving me an opportunity to tell him what to say, any suggestions???

i am 18, boy, virgin, always been single, havent kissed nor hugged any girl yet. at this point i am 2 years away from 20. do some guys get their first kiss, sex, girlfriend during their early 20?

So I m 13 and I think I may have scared this 14 year old boy who is shy. And came on way to strong. I asked him if he would want to be more then friends. and we didn t really know each other.... he said sure idc what evre you want to do. then he texted me later saying sorry but I don t know you enough yet. Then after we kind of agreed to get to know each other over txt but he never texts me first but always replies. so my question is did I come on to strong and scare him away, and how do I show him and tell him that I didn t mean to and I was just trying to get him out of his shell. Cuz I m also kind of shy..?

His hand was almost on my naked butt. We have never undressed ourselves in front of each other. I was startled a bit. He said it was okay. So we continued making out on his bed. Why did he do it? What should be my reaction when he does it?

Yes I know this is an awkward question but what does sex actually feel like? Yes I'm a virgin and I've done foreplay but I wonder what actual sex feels like. Also is there a huge difference you can feel from foreplay be actual sex? If so how can you tell the difference ?

I've been in a relationship with a guy for 2-3 months. He'd text back right away, he'd talk about our future together like having kids and what not, he'd always say "I love you", and he just made me feel better all the time. Out of nowhere, he kind of just stopped talking to me. So far it's been 5 days. I miss him. There was no sign of him wanting to break up. Maybe I'm overthinking things. Should I message him to see what's up? Or should I just leave him be?

I just started working for a clothing store 5 days ago. This whole week has been on the job training for me. I find this coworker of mine to be very attractive. However, when I saw her hand, it had a ring on it. It could be a wedding ring or promise ring or whatever, but it's still a ring. I would always catch her glancing and staring at me when i'm organizing clothes in the store. When I don't know where certain clothes belong on the racks, she would walk up to me and help me put them in the right spot. I also tried walking past her without looking at her, but I would still see her staring at me with my peripheral vision. I would turn around to see if she's looking at me and it turns out that she's already staring at me. She also said good morning to me when I arrived to work. She didn't say good morning to anyone else. She would literally stare at me the whole time i'm working. I also wore this pants where the crotch area is long. I don't know why they made it like that, but it was the only pants I had. She would glance at me then stare at my crotch area when I walk past her. Maybe i'm just paranoid. I don't know. Does she find me attractive? Why would she do this when she's supposedly married? Should I approach her?

So, I am 17. I was abused by a family member, then raped by my friend My friend was raped by her boyfriend. So was another. Another friend was molested by her boyfriend. It's kind lf gross because I used to like him. Another friend was raped on a train by a stranger. I'm not sure why this is happening in my life or what I'm doing. Am i radiating: "Treat me like ****. Also, make sure that you treat the people I care about like **** too."

This weekend has been hard. My friend told me she really like my ex boyfriend (We've been broken up for 2 weeks exactly) and asked if I was ok with it. I had to say yes because she said she liked him and I knew they were going out that day. It hurt so bad I cried for hours, how could a friend do that to me!? Then she said she wouldn't do that and blah blah blah. My ex boyfriend later snapchated me asking me if I could just be happy for him and how he really likes him and that we could maybe try it again another time in life. I told him there wasn't gonna be another and they could do whatever they want. But they kept going on and on about how nobody has to get hurt but I was already and no matter what someone would. The next morning my friend snapchated me saying she wouldn't do that to me and she's sorry. At this point I was over it. Later my ex posted saying I'm gonna log off for awhile to think about life. That night I get a message from my ex's friend saying why do you have to ruin his relationship and why can't I just be happy. I cried and told him don't sc me. I don't know what to do, I don't want to talk to either of them and I feel like a jerk and I feel awful. I don't know what to do I feel so broken on the inside and I feel awful. It's not like I still like my ex, it's just hurts because it's only been 2 weeks and he moved on so fast. Plus, my friend went after him and went on a date with him! I just need help trying to get through this and advice about it

That **** is not normal you tricking your money off, money is not love, that ain't got **** to do with no respect or being a gentle man, people are not honest with themselves that's why i hate todays society, women don't love men they love what you can do for them,

So me and him broke up 1 month ago, and me and him didn't talk again until a month after (which was a few days ago) he said he wanted me back and still loved me and missed what we had. But here's why we broke up, he asked for a break and I found out it was because another girl was texting him. He said sorry and didn't wanna break up afterwards but I told him we should anyways because I didn't agree with what he did. So the other day he asked if I love him and I told him I do but I'm scared of it happening again. All he said was "oh" and haven't heard from him in DAYS! No "I wouldn't do that again" or anything! I also was thinking stopping by where he works, I've been needing to go to get a few things at that store but I've been too nervous because I know he'll be there. Is that a bad idea? Or will maybe seeing eachother make things better?

I have a high key crush on a girl but she s dating a guy who was a senior and she was a junior but then he went off to a college 3 hours away from this town so I feel like the odds are in my favor. I m now a junior and she s a senior but this guy now lives so far away so my question is how long do you think the relationship will last? PS- I know this sounds terrible but I want them to break up because she apparently had a crush on me.

I'll like to ask a girl out for dinner with a group of my church friends. How should I ask her casually without sounding too desperate? I really like this girl and want her to come.

where do i start. me and this girl were playing 21 questions. first question she asks for a dick pic. I hesitate. I ask her for nudes. she hesitates too...but not directly. it was more acting like she was gonna send them but just stalling basically. later on though, she informs me about how she sent a "video" to some other guy.... me being me i got mad and jealous...i was really sad at first. we were really close friends, and i wanted her to promise not to send nudes anymore...cuz i felt like she was turning into kind of a hoe and i felt i was losing her as a friend....fast forward i start bitching about how she plays too much. she hits me back with this ******* paragraph about how she shouldnt send nudes and **** like that. i felt like she was taking shots at me, so me being me i hit her back with this "roast" paragraph, basically battling every claim she made against me, all the while insulting her. i was being a real dick...but i cannot lie it felt kind of good. so we get into this whole argument, basically over the **** she brought up and the **** i brought up,..... i insult her even more. most of the insults calling her a hoe and **** like that.... i know it seems like im a huge dick but i was really still kind of hurt and still kind of jealous. so i put up a dick facade. i guess it worked for me in the moment....but in retrospect that was the worst thing i couldve done, because in the sea of terrible stuff i said i really offended her. part 2: but it didnt seem like i did. how do i know i offended her? i think a week or so later i ask her if she hates me, because she distanced herself a lot....turns out she did/does. i keep asking her why and she keeps being passive aggressive. until one night, she says and i quote "Educate yourself about why slut shaming is wrong and then apologize"... i give her like a 40-text apology and as soon as she gets to respond... she thought i was being ******* fake. like jesus christ... part 3: ....i poured my ******* heart out and i was so ******* sincere and she thinks im just being fake... like i meant everything i said....i told her through all the bad **** i said i love her.... and i meant that....but thats what brings me here. she didnt really accept my most sincere apology... and the past few weeks ive been trying to make up with her, only for her to beat around the bush and not really try to make up with me... and thats what brings me here. part 4: we were really close friends...and i miss that relationship. alot. i think about it all the time. and she means so much to me...but i dont think she feels the same. im 99.9% sure she still despises me. can anyone help me make up with her given these circumstances... yall are probably smarter than me on this.

I've been dating this wonderful guy for a little over two years. He's absolutely amazing, treats me right, makes me feel special, he's really cute and muscular and sex is amazing. He also has an amazing daughter who turns four in two months and I love her like my own daughter. Her smile is so cute and I just love her so much. Her mom and my boyfriend broke up while she was pregnant because she was drinking while she was pregnant and then she died 9 months after she gave birth. It's kinda sad, I met my boyfriend about a year later and I have technically been the mother to his daughter ever since. They sleep at my house around four times a week, his daughter always wants to stay and half of his clothes and other stuff are here, so I think it would be a great idea if they moved in. Not only that but I think it would allow us to be closer together and I would love to wake up next to the man I love everyday. Also, I live in a house, it's not large but it's still a decent home while they live in a really small apartment and they have to follow so many rules because of the lease. His daughter even already has her own room here, we decorated it just the way she wants it. It would be financially better for them as well because his job doesn't pay much and he has to pay so much for rent. I love this man and his daughter with all my heart. Would it be a good idea if I asked them to move in? I'm also hoping that maybe it would lead to marriage and maybe me adopting his daughter one day.