Friends: Question: Please help me? |
- Question: Please help me?
- Question: Im 15, like a 12 yo, and we kissed and hugged because i was sad, but no sexual actions, is this okay?
- Question: Why am i like this?
- Question: I feel like I messed up, help!?
- Question: I feel so lonely at school?
- Question: Does it sound like my friend likes me? Also is she overstepping her boundaries? What should I do about it-say something to her or ignore it?
- Question: Can anybody give me some advice on my friendship?
- Question: Is my manager weird or just trying to have fun?
- Question: Hello I told God I would not "play with my self" for a month if helped me get into a band where everyone is amazing?
- Question: I m ugly any advice?
- Question: Will he think that deeply into it?
- Question: What does "lonely" meant for you? am i lonely?
- Question: My life sucks...?
- Question: Is she fake? not a real friend?
- Question: I feel bad for someone who did me wrong?
- Question: How do I tell my guy friend I don't like him romantically?
- Question: Am I crazy for feeling this way about friends?
- Question: How do i make friends with people in college?
- Question: A guy friend said they can tell from my eyes that I am confident in my sexuality. I am not exactly sure what that means.?
- Question: Have you ever realized you and your ex can't be just friends cause you have nothing in common aside from wanting to have sex with eachother?
- Question: My mom won t let me hang out with my friends?
- Question: How to start my social life in college after finally getting rid of many of my social anxiety issues.?
- Question: Is my friend's mom into me?
- Question: Is my best friend still my friend?
- Question: Why am i so quiet around people?
- Question: How can I make friends? (5 stars to best answer)?
- Question: What's a good excuse to not invite someone to a sleepover?
- Question: Does this make me niev? I am a freshman btw?
- Question: A friend has lied to me multiple times, minor lies, but happens a lot?
- Question: Lost my Friends For No Reason?
- Question: Was my friend being rude or am I overreacting?
- Question: Birthday gift ideas ?
- Question: Annoying kid at school wants to be friends?
- Question: Should I make an effort for this friendship?
- Question: Some of my friends talk too much?
- Question: How do I convince my parents to let me go on a sleepover?
- Question: I need someone s help. How to get a girl to back off??
- Question: Im invisible and my classmates don't like me. How can I get people to accept me and like me more?
- Question: Is the amount of times I've experienced sexual assault normal?
- Question: Is it safe to mail my friend weed?
- Question: If you dont have cash because your parents dont have cash ,and you have to go to university isnt it essential that you have to find a job?
- Question: My bf asked me to have a threesome with me and my friend,what should I do?
- Question: I'm really worried about my friend...? I'm not sure what I should do? (Sorry it's kinda long)?
- Question: Opinions on people are nicer to those who they feel are equal & superior to them but are rude & snobby to those who are beneath them?
- Question: How to make more friends? (10th grade)?
- Question: I hate myself soo much that I really want to commit suicide.?
- Question: Tomorrow I am seeing my crush for the first time in 3 months. What should I do? And I honestly think he likes me also. Thanks!?
- Question: My best friend has head lice so I don t know how to tell her?
- Question: Is it normal to not want friends as a teenager ?
- Question: Where to make friends online?
- Question: Sharing kitchen and bathroom with housemate problem, please help?
- Question: Was what our boss told us correct?
- Question: My dad doesn't want me to see my best friend anymore because she's a bad influence?
- Question: All my friends are guys, is that a bad thing? some peope say that makes me slut...?
- Question: Are people that Selfish?
- Question: My friend said I was like Spock from Star Trek. I don't watch Star Trek. Does that mean I'm a dick?
- Question: Is it weird that me and my bestfriends brother ****? should i tell her? i dont want it to be awkward...?
- Question: Always Left Out, Always!?
- Question: I gave my best friend a ring like a friendship ring but I found out she gave it to her other friend. everyone is saying im overreacting.?
- Question: Should I NOT water my roomate's plants?
Posted: 25 Aug 2016 05:55 PM PDT So recently one of my friends took my phone as a prank and started asking questions like" post videos of girls moaning " and stuff like that and this one guy was like he's gonna report me and that I could go to jail. And it was my freaking friend. I terminated my account because I was so freaked out and this one should be terminated in about 90 days. So can someone tell me what to do? I'm only 13 and I had this account since the 3rd grade and I really don't want to see it go |
Posted: 25 Aug 2016 05:54 PM PDT |
Posted: 25 Aug 2016 05:40 PM PDT I dont want to be bothered by anyone or go anywhere everyone gets on my nerves and i just want to be alone everyone keeps asking me whats wrong but its really nothing i just don't wanna be bothered not even with friends or some family |
Question: I feel like I messed up, help!? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 05:33 PM PDT So the event happened a few years ago when I was 13 and the other person involved was 8/9ish. He was over at my house because his mom had to work late so his mom asked if he could hang at our (my families) place and I said yes. When we were downstairs and unsupervised I accidentally hit him in the eye. I was still afraid of my mom and didn't want for him to tell her so we made a deal. He wouldn't tell my mom and he got to "punish" me (I didn't think anything of it) and after a while of him trying to figure out ideas I lightened the mood by joking and saying: "What are you going to do, spank me?" To which he did. Although it wasn't spanking in the sense of him spanking my bear butt, it was just I went over and he spanked me. After it though I buried it in my mind and just now thought of it and I'm worried. To be honest I feel disgusting about the whole situation and embarrassed and am worried that somehow despite me being the one hit, he and his mom will come at me with some legal charge. I don't want any legal mess as I'm getting ready to leave high school this fall and don't want my life messed up because of a joke. I'm worried and scared despite him and I getting along just fine following the event and we've been close. It's just I'm worried and I feel way to embarrassed to talk to anyone right now. Should I be? And am I just making a bigger deal then what it needs to be? |
Question: I feel so lonely at school? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 05:23 PM PDT I recently lost my four best friends and feel so lonely and unloved without them. They stopped talking to me after I made friends with someone that they dislike, and after they found out I invited her to my house one day they totally blanked me. I have joined this other girl and her group from school but they never invite me anywhere! I sit with them at dinner at school but at weekends and holidays, they don't talk to me at all? Also, my old friends have been making up rumours about me, I have proof that the rumours aren't true but nobody listens. it's making my mum worry as she realises that I never hang around with anyone, the last thing I want is for her to think that I have no friends. any advice? update - I am in a group chat with them and whenever i suggest that we should go to the cinemas to see something, they either ignore me or say they have already been. |
Posted: 25 Aug 2016 05:16 PM PDT I'm 15, and a girl. My one friend (who's also a girl) is constantly touching me and I don't usually mind it, but sometimes it's too much. She's always hugging me and trying to lay on me and says really sexual things. We were in a hotel and had to share a bed once and we were in the room with our other friends a lot, and she kept pinning me down on the bed and saying stupid stuff like "you like that don't you" and "I'll take care of you" and I kept saying you need to get off of me and she didn't at first but then when I got mad she did. She tells me I'm cute a lot and tries to lay in my lap, and it's extremely weird cause I'm only 4'11" and she's like 5'7", I'm pretty sure. Then sometimes she'll pick me up and try to force me onto her. The thing I hate the most is when she grabs me and shoves my face into her boobs. I took it at first but eventually I said "you know it really makes me uncomfortable when you do that. Can you stop" and she just smiles and laughs at me, it's so weird. I even feel weird typing this. ive told her to stop several times & she rarely ever does. She never does it to anyone else that I've seen. She had a boyfriend once like a year ago but they broke up and idk..I'm pretty sure she likes guys but she's still weird with me. I've told my mom and she tells me to learn to like it or not care. I almost feel like this could be sexual harassment. What should I do? No rude answers please & any help is really appreciated! |
Question: Can anybody give me some advice on my friendship? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 05:16 PM PDT One of my friends is currently without a job, without a car and is always looking to me to help him out with rides everywhere and also buy him things every now and then. The reason he doesn't have a car is because his girlfriend and him got arrested a couple months ago and her mom took the car they shared away from them so ever since then they've been looking to me to help them out. I'm a good person and the kind of friend that will go above and beyond for people without expecting anything in return, but I feel like I don't want to help him if he can't help himself. Since all this happened he's barely bothered looking for jobs or ways to make money and hasn't even tried to fix the situation he's put himself in as far as I'm concerned. I don't want to feel like I'm turning my back on him, but I've burned myself out on helping him all the time. Can anyone give me advice? |
Question: Is my manager weird or just trying to have fun? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 05:14 PM PDT So my manager and I are both males and pretty good friends. We work at a fast food place and it was Halloween again. He asked me if I wanted to be conjoined twins with him while we work. And I thought it would be fun. But the problem was, he wanted us to share everything and be completely skin to skin. He had three legged boxers, three legged pants and a shirt for us to share. My boss is a fat guy so we were so squished together and we both worked 8 hour shifts. Also whenever he farted he would ask me if I felt that. Is it weird for a 18 year old and a 25 year old to be doing this? Is my manager weird? Was he just trying to have fun? |
Posted: 25 Aug 2016 05:07 PM PDT Here's the problem I broke that I never promised I just said I but I did what should I do am I gonna get kicked out what's gonna happen any advice? |
Question: I m ugly any advice? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 05:00 PM PDT I m majorly ugly, 160 iq, in the ninth grade, weigh 190 pounds, I m broke, live in a 1 bedroom apartment with my mom and my brother, I m gonna grad at the bottom of my class, be homeless, not have a family, instead of God breathing life into me, he farted me out. Why am I put through this? Why can t I be the popular one, why can t I have 1 friend. ONE FRIEND, I don t have any, I can t pull the trigger, I can t put my family through that, but I sometimes wish someone would do it for me HELP |
Question: Will he think that deeply into it? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 04:58 PM PDT I was stalking the guys I am about to dates friend on Twitter, she lives in a different city he just moved here. and I accidentally favorited a tweet from awhile ago... I unfaved it but it was too late. I made a fake convo with my friend of her saying she was stalking people and acidently liked someone s tweet that s friends with this boy. and I sent the convo to him. is this believable?? I feel so awkward |
Question: What does "lonely" meant for you? am i lonely? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 04:51 PM PDT so i went to a new school for like about a month and i have got no friends..im seriously not even one...i eat alone and do stuff alone....does that called lonely..? i feel like i am a ghost and people can see me but they just ignore it after..... :( |
Posted: 25 Aug 2016 04:47 PM PDT i dont have any friends at school and im seriously not even one i stand in a corner every recess and eat alone at lunch...... does this even sound like a question...? |
Question: Is she fake? not a real friend? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 04:32 PM PDT i had this one teacher who wouldnt talk to my parents at my high school graduation but recently over the summer she sending me emails and she just sent me one after one month of not speaking to me |
Question: I feel bad for someone who did me wrong? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 04:10 PM PDT I had a friend that I stopped talking to because he always got me mixed up in some drama and last year it got so serious to the point where we were about to fist fight over an argument we had. Ever since that day I swore I was done with his crap and we haven't spoken since. After we stopped talking he sunk ships with his other friends and even his girlfriend. The stuff he said and did ruined nearly all of his friendships. Now it's a new school year and while I'm over here enjoying my day with my friends, I notice that he's usually by himself, walking around etc. and for some reason I feel sorry for him. Even though we always argued and almost fought, for some reason I feel sorry for him. Maybe its because I've been in that position before? I don't know, I just think I have too good a heart. I know everyone deserves a friend but still that guy really messed up bad with all of us. I don't know what to do because whenever I see him looking sad, or alone I feel kinda bad for whatever reason. Can someone help me out? Thanks. |
Question: How do I tell my guy friend I don't like him romantically? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 04:00 PM PDT Me and my best guy friend have known each other since the third grade. We have always been best friends. We tell each other everything. A couple minutes ago, he told me he had feeling for me. I have feeling for his best friend, and I don't know what to tell him. (If it is necessary, I'm 19 years old and am in my first year of university.) |
Question: Am I crazy for feeling this way about friends? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 03:58 PM PDT I'm 34. I started getting bored of my old friends when I was 29... finally when I was 31, I was pretty much done and stopped hanging out with them. It's not like anyone did anything "wrong". Let me just put it this way: I couldn't imagine growing old with them, and spending every year doing the same things with them. I didn't feel the connection anymore. They were nice, but out of all my friends there were only TWO true ones that I could see myself growing old with. Am I wrong to be "picky"? I'm serious. I want an outsider's opinion. Of course I wanna make new friends, but that's a whole other topic. Thanks. |
Question: How do i make friends with people in college? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 03:53 PM PDT everyone on my floor almost all know eachother already and i only know my roommate and a couple of people from last year. i hear them talking in the halls sometimes but i feel like if i tried to join in itd be all awkward. i feel like i need something to happen to introduce myself like some type of situation that enforces me to interact with them and talk to them and then you go from there... it sucks being so lonely all the time especially when i hear people in the halls cracking jokes and having fun, going out every weekend... and im sitting in my room playing video games or sitting on the computer. anything helps thanks |
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Posted: 25 Aug 2016 03:48 PM PDT Sad innit |
Question: My mom won t let me hang out with my friends? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 03:43 PM PDT She won t let me go out with my friends to the movies and I don t understand. I go to soccer practice everything straight from school to the field, and I don t go anywhere else. I get good grades. I do my homework. I take notes. I study. My friends are good people, and i m responsible. I had a phone for 2 years before the phones screen gave out. It s not even cracked! The screen doesn t respond to swipes.So why doesnt she trust me? She watches alot of Blue Bloods & Law and Order. I live in Pickerington/Reynoldsburg! There is almost no crime here! So whats the deal? |
Posted: 25 Aug 2016 03:38 PM PDT I have finally, after years of thinking I was ugly, figured out that I am considered attractive. This started a chain reaction that broke down alot of my social anxiety barriers, which had caused me to have almost no social life except for a friend or two. I am stuck not having as much social experience at other people, so I dont know the best way to start building a social life. I just feel like I have to get friends as soon as possible, which stresses me. out I also lack confidence because I have only had one girlfriend, Which ended in a disastrous breakup within a month, which was also due to my lack of confidence. |
Question: Is my friend's mom into me? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 03:30 PM PDT Crazy story. I woke up at my friend's house and he got up early for work. I walk to the bathroom with morning wood. I take my clothes of for a shower and as I do the door opens and his mom walks in. She immediately sees my hard on and me standing naked. Her eyes open wide as she stares at it and yells "I'm so sorry!" and runs out. So later on she apologizes and says " sorry I saw your little friend, I mean not little." and it gets super awkward. Then she dropped a piece of bacon and bent down. She was in yoga pants and her butt grinded against my crotch. So my friend's mom is divorced and really hot for a 41 year old. She's blonde skinny and fit as she always works out. I'm 6 3 atheltic and work out too. So is it wrong for me to think about it. She always seems flirty with me now too I'm 18, so is she into me? |
Question: Is my best friend still my friend? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 03:24 PM PDT I know this is probably the most pathetic question on here, but there it is. I him a long time ago. I didn't fit in during my teenage years, had literally no friends, everyone i knew my age was friends with my sister (two year younger) and I was left out. I was the chatter box. I had a hard time slowing down. I am over-emotional, and back then had a terrible sense of style, not to mention i wasn't allowed to wear pants in public. I also was home-schooled, poorly. He the ear to listen and the words to build me up. We met at camp and then talked for months on the phone afterward. Then we lost touch. I am now almost 30 and in the same boat now as I was then. An over-emotional, insecure, woman who has no friends. Literally. I have no idea how to be a friend to somebody, let alone a best friend. I found him again two years ago. He revealed to me that I was his best friend back then and that he had a small crush on me. Needless to say I was flattered but I am also married as is he. He said nothing more about any crush but we talked about our current lives a little. When I had a crisis he was there to give me advise and encouragement like he used to. Then his wife left him last summer for a while and he got a bit flirty, which I didn't engage in. I made it clear that we were just friends. We talked almost every day and he again made me feel more confident in myself. I have even gone so far as to get my GED because he inspired me to believe I could do it. My problem now is he goes weeks without texting me and never is the first one to say hello. I don't know nothing about his wife or child (who returned to him) and I don't know about his family or much of his likes or dislikes besides what I see on facebook. I came to a revelation that I was still treating our friendship like it was way back then, but he is not the same as he was. He found his path, while I am still searching. I decided to back off for a while and told him so. I didn't think it would bother him since he rarely talks to me anymore. I ended up have a bit of an emotional crisis the other day and tested him for support, and received no answer. I understand constantly messaging him is a bit over the top. He literally my only real friend and don't now had to handle a friendship. I don't know if I scared him away, thinking I am some weirdo and won't tell me, or if he is giving me space like I asked. All I want is just one friend and it's killing me that someone who I respected for how he treated me when most other people thought I was a freak, just seems to have forgotten me. How would a person handle this in a normal friendship? How do you have a normal friendship at 30 with lives of your own? Sorry for all the updates. I couldn't get it all into the original post...... |
Question: Why am i so quiet around people? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 03:15 PM PDT With my close friends, or my family, i talk ... alot, but when i go out with people i know (like 5 people or more) i rarely talk or say something, ex: i go out with my brother and his friends which i know, im always quiet, they be like " get out of your anxiety, interact with us" imma be like "what do you want me to say", but deep down i know that if a say something, they ll probably won t like what i say,or laugh at me, make me a joke, or even ignore me when i start talking, like why you want me to talk then ignore me,most of the times people dont listen to me becuase i keep my voice low, or un-understandable, i need deep talks, about life, stars, people being ignorant, about myself sometimes, things i love to talk about, but in the end they keep saying "i have anxiety" "i need help" "fix myself" "stop being shy ... why can t i talk like a normal person even tho i have things to say ... |
Question: How can I make friends? (5 stars to best answer)? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 03:15 PM PDT Im 21 about to be 22 and I feel like a complete loser to be completely honest. I don't have friends at all. I just go to school and then come home thats it. Then when I do go out its just with family which I dont mind but it would be nice to be able to go out with friends. I didnt really have a lot of friends in high school and the ones I did have either gone to the military, or have gfs and my other 2 friends all they want to do is drink and smoke. I was supposed to transfer to university this fall but couldnt due to finances and despite looking for work right now ive come to realized that the main reason I didn't go to university was because I was afraid. I was afraid of being far away from home and I feel like such a little ***** because i feared that university wasnt going to be what i imagined it to be and i was just gonna have no social life over their just as i do here. Being my age I should be more concerned about other things than having a social life but even in high school I never went out. Even my younger brothers go out more than I do. I have met people in classes before but nothing like "hey lets all hang out after class" types of people. I have also come to realize Ive developed social anxiety which I don't understand why. I plan on seeing a therapist in a couple weeks from now and also I currently take medication to help. Sometimes I feel like an outkast because maybe just no one wants to hang out. Guess I just gotta suck it up, but any advice? Please |
Question: What's a good excuse to not invite someone to a sleepover? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 03:14 PM PDT So my best friend and I wanted to have a sleepover together. Another friend is coming over to hang out during the day, but she's not going to sleepover. But the thing is: we didn't tell her about the sleepover. We know that we need to, so we can't just not tell her. I need a believable excuse to tell her why she can't sleepover with my friend and I. Any thoughts? |
Question: Does this make me niev? I am a freshman btw? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 03:01 PM PDT So I have a friend that is really good friends with much older high schoolers. She says I am niev. The only think that I know I don't know much about are drugs, and sex positions. And honestly I don't want to know. And a highscooler started asking me questions on those topics because I said I wasnt niev. And it just made me sound stupid. And they say I am inasent, and it is starting to get on my nerves. Honestly I'm not stupid I make good grades? |
Question: A friend has lied to me multiple times, minor lies, but happens a lot? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 02:56 PM PDT So I have this friend who I talk to a lot. Lately she has started to lie to me. She'll tell me she's going to go sleep or go out for a bit, but then she'll still be online in everything and not once goes idle. Like, I don't mind if she doesn't want to talk to me, I just don't want to be lied to. I wouldn't be angry at her if she said she wasn't in the mood to talk to me, you need a break from time to time. But why lie? I know they're minor lies, but they hurt when they build up. Should I bring it up with her? If so, how should I do it without making her angry? |
Question: Lost my Friends For No Reason? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 02:39 PM PDT So long story short, basically my two friends were in a relationship and one of them (Who is my best friend, I will call M , and we will call her girlfriend H) would always tell me how they always got into arguments and whatnot. Then I told my concerns with my other close friend T who also told me she felt the same way, how she also felt that the relationship was taking a toll on M's health, and that H wasn't really putting that much effort into the relationship as M was. T also told me that she warned M on three different occasions that H didn't seem like she was that in tune with the relationship, but M just ignored her. One day, it came up again and I confessed to M about how I felt about H and how I didn't want her to get hurt because she has a hole in her heart which if she stresses out a lot, it will worsen. Plus she has been in two bad relationships. I also told her about the talk T and I had because I felt it would be keeping secrets from her, and she is my best friend. However, M seemed very upset and didn't speak to me much afterwards. Later on, I get a message from H accusing me of saying that I hated her and that she was leaving the relationship because of me. I never said that I hated H or anything, so I was confused, but I guessed that M told her what I said. Then late on I realized that M deleted me from everything and completely stopped talking to me. Then I saw that my other friends had deleted me from everything. I talked to T and asked her what the hell was going on and she said was accusing me of being a manipulative person and causing stress on M and H, and accused me of wanting them to break up and that I never cared about their feelings in the matter. I was so confused and told her that those were never my intentions and why was she accusing me of this all of a sudden, and that I didn't do anything wrong. Then she deleted me and made it clear that she doesn't want to be friends with manipulators, then stopped talking to me ever since. I have no idea what the hell happened and I am very distressed that I lost literally most of my friends due to their assumptions and accusations, what do I do? |
Question: Was my friend being rude or am I overreacting? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 02:37 PM PDT So a friend of mine was confiding in me about something he's really insecure about. I listened to his situation and supported him. The way he described how he felt reminded me of something I'm really insecure about and I thought it might help to confide in him in return to show that I can relate, even if it wasn't exactly the same thing. I guess I was wrong because he immediately shut me down and said that was nothing like his situation. I mean, maybe it wasn't quite the same and I understand that he might have been frustrated because he thought I didn't get it, but I think immediately snapping at me after I had just shared something intimate like that about myself for the first time was uncalled for, and I still feel a little hurt even though it's been a few days now. I don't know. Maybe he thought I was trying to make it about me. Was I in the wrong in this situation? |
Question: Birthday gift ideas ? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 02:13 PM PDT It s my best friend s birthday. She becomes 20 years old and we are very very close to each other. She isn t the "expensive gifts" type of person, so I have to do something that she will remember. Something made by me, personalised for her. Thank you :) |
Question: Annoying kid at school wants to be friends? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 02:12 PM PDT There's this guy in my study hall, and he seems really annoying to me.. he's nice to me though, he seems to be friendly to most people, but when he's mean to people he's heartless. And he always looks depressed or grumpy.. but when he's talking to me or other people he seems to get along with he tends to smile a lot. Today he offered me his mountain dew because he wasn't thirsty but I declined his offer.. but what's really annoying about him is he's a bit of a show off.. like he wants me to see how good of a friend he can be or something by being generous or supportive.. and he always smiles and nods when he sees me.. but I really want nothing to do with him.. what should I do? |
Question: Should I make an effort for this friendship? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 02:00 PM PDT I have this friend, she lives in another city. Basically our relationship is based on listening to each other, sharing problems and anxieties since we both have anxiety issues that get triggered by the smallest things. Lately my overall health hasn't been well and I don't have the energy to keep in touch, she sent me a couple of messages that I didn't answer inmediatly as usual, so she wrote a third one saying something like "I guess you're tired of me, I'm sorry for bothering you" I told her that it wasn't that, that I wasn't feeling well, she just said OK and hasn't called or messaged since. I feel kind of guilty, but at the same time I think that if she knows I'm not feeling well she should be the one calling |
Question: Some of my friends talk too much? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 02:00 PM PDT So I have at least two friends who kind of talk way too much. They're nice and I like them but them talking too much is the only thing I don't like, and I'm not trying to come off as mean. We could be having a conversation and it'll be them talking for like 10 minutes or more and I'm just sitting there nodding or breifly replying to what they say if I even get a chance to, and sometimes I'll want to go but I don't want to interupt so I'll have to wait until they finish just so I can go. Not that I'm not interested in what they're saying, they just drag it out, you know? They're nice people, they just talk a little too much. What do I do? I don't want to stop talking to them, I just want to work it out. I haven't said anything because I didn't want to hurt their feelings. One of my friends has OCD. Idk if that helps with info. |
Question: How do I convince my parents to let me go on a sleepover? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 01:56 PM PDT My parents are strict and if I ask them to go to a sleepover I know they will say no and give me the name old answer "do I know there parents? No u will have a seizure (even tho I'm 11 and haven't had a seizure in a while plus I just went to the seizure Doctor he says I'm fine) who will be there NO!!!" And it really makes me mad. It's her birthday and I really want to go. What do I do? |
Question: I need someone s help. How to get a girl to back off?? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 01:48 PM PDT I m only telling bits of the story if you ask!!!## So, I m in middle school, right? (Names have been changed) A girl in my class has been being rude to me / bullying me since kindergarten. I have no doubt always been one of the popular people and she has, well, NOT. She has been so mean to me for so long, I started to enjoy when she would slip up or fail or some kind. It was like, NICE for me to show that she was making mistakes (I m not a psychopath) and slipping up. But recently a lot of stuff happened that if I try to telly out the whole story I would run out of room for characters (trust me I just tried I was 12947 too many when it ended). Basically she became best friends with my two best friends and they think she s so so great but in reality she hates me. They weren t talking to me for a while and when they started today they said, "We forgive you. But, we re still friends with Jackie. People change" Wow. right it the feels. Long story short I m looking for a way to make it not obvious at all I did it but to make something happen that removes this girl from my 2 best friends friend list. Something sneaky but not violent or disgusting, and nothing where I have to go someplace other that school or my house. I m in a Catholic middle school so that s a big no no. I just want my friends back and this girl to be taught a lesson. This needs to be completely anonymous thing, again, ANONYMOUS. If you have any questions then ASK!! But I m not saying the story. bye! |
Posted: 25 Aug 2016 01:44 PM PDT So I'm 14 and in high school. I live in the Netherlands. My classmates don't seem to like me. They do talk to me but only for two minutes if we're alone. If someone they know comes they will just leave me for that person. I've always been nice to people and I don't act like a ***** or something. I do know of myself that I'm a shy person and don't talk a lot. But sometimes I just get ignored by anyone. Even my family does that sometimes. When I'm literally next to the person and when they're looking for me they will yell where are you when I'm next to them. Sometimes I feel invisible. I have a good relationship with my cousins and I've a best friend who's really nice to me. She has more friends than me. People have always called me weird. I watch Anime and I'm a really big fan. So is that the reason? But there are many people who watch it and they've got lots of friends. I want to be myself and I want to get people to like my true self. |
Question: Is the amount of times I've experienced sexual assault normal? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 01:38 PM PDT Mk. So. I was sexually assaulted at 10. Then, I was sexually assaulted at 15. My friend was sexually assaulted at 16 by her boyfriend. Other friend at 13 by boyfriend's friend, then at 14 by boyfriend. Other friend at 11 on train. Other friend at 16 by boyfriend. Other friend at 17 by boyfriend's friend. I hate men to say the least. Have pretty severe trust issues. I'm wondering if this is just me. I'm not kidding. Genuinely asking if this is normal, because to me it seems like it is. I live in an upper-class white area. When my friends experience bad things it's like I do too. |
Question: Is it safe to mail my friend weed? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 01:17 PM PDT So my friend wanrend some weed and is it safe? We both live in Europe |
Posted: 25 Aug 2016 12:39 PM PDT My parents dont want me to find a job.They tell me I need to study.How to go out and make friends without money? |
Question: My bf asked me to have a threesome with me and my friend,what should I do? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 12:05 PM PDT He meet her when she was with me once.Yesterday, he told me he wants to have a threesome with me and her.I thought he was kidding so I laughed,but he was serious.I was shouting at him and left him. Should I tell my friend about what he said because he said that he may talk to her behind my back? Does he want to break up with me,or he really wants her more than me? I'm crying since yesterday @rebecca: Yes, I'm so sad here. |
Posted: 25 Aug 2016 11:52 AM PDT I'm 15 and she's 14. We've known each other for about 10 years but only became friends a year ago. Anyway she's told me a few times that she had severe depression and anxiety, and also that she self harms. I wasn't sure about the depression part until I heard it from my other friends parents and then I felt horrible. Well it's been almost 3 weeks and she hasn't answered any of my texts, but she reads them. We used to sc and text each other every day but it just stopped. However she keeps posting a lot of sad stuff on social media about depression, self harm, suicide, etc. I got really worried and then text her asking why she isn't answering and if she's okay and she read it, but never answered. My friends and I group chat all the time and she hasn't said one thing. They've also asked me if I'd heard from her and I said no. I do know that shes pretty much always had stuff going on at home (with her parents) but I thought it had gotten better because she was happy and talked about them a lot. My one friend even told me that she used to text her a lot, talking about suicide since she hated herself so much. That hasn't happened in a while though, so Idk. She also lives an hour away so it's not like I can just walk to her house. My mom says it's no big deal but she doesn't know the things she's said. I've tried talking to my mom about it but she just tells me to quit worrying. Ik it might seem like I'm overreacting but I've already lost 2 friends in the past year..advice? Btw when I say I lost 2 friends I mean they both died. One from a car crash and another died in the hospital because he overdosed and they couldn't save him. |
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Question: How to make more friends? (10th grade)? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 11:39 AM PDT All my life i've gotten anxious of the idea of making new friends. So in reality i have maybe7 real friends. The rest of my friends are people who Ive piggy-backed off my friends to meet. I literally haven't made my own friend.... I'm in 10th grade now and I want to meet some new guys and girls and befriend them. How do i go about doing this? |
Question: I hate myself soo much that I really want to commit suicide.? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 11:31 AM PDT I completely hate myself :'( I'm ugly and stupid and retarded. I really want to overdose on pills and just lock myself in a closet and just die in there. This world is better off with no ugly dumb b*TCHES likes me...I can't tell you how much I hate myself and how badly I really want to die. I want to die so badly and be free from all of this bullsh*t. |
Posted: 25 Aug 2016 11:31 AM PDT |
Question: My best friend has head lice so I don t know how to tell her? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 11:16 AM PDT Me and my best friend would hang out all the time and have a lot of sleepovers but last summer she told me she got lice but a month after she got it but I luckily didn t get it. My birthday in December she came over and so did my other friend and I got love for the first time my other friend didn t have it cause I asked her and my best friend was itching her head a lot and u could see a nit in her hair but she said no and then she had another sleepover with me 3 weeks later and if I ever tried to do her hair she would back away scard and of course I got it again from her and we tried telling her parent but they keep saying she doesn t have it but she s mixed so her hair is curly and puffy so it would be really hard to get rid of with her hair. And I m pretty sure her parents are mad for accusing her even though she obviously has it and I haven t seen her in 5 months and whenever we call she just makes excuses. So now I m scard to have her over again cause she s already give in it to me 2 times and it s definitely her because every time I would hang out with her I would get it and I could see bits in her hair and she gets it quit frequently it seems so can someone please tell me how to tell her without her getting mad at me |
Question: Is it normal to not want friends as a teenager ? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 11:16 AM PDT I am 17 and I have always had a lot of friends and enjoyed it until a couple months ago , and it was my choice . I wanted to focus on my future and the people I hung around do not they like to smoke and drink and I did for a while until I started waking up the morning after partying and just felt like I was ruining my future .I used to paint before highschool so I started ding that again and started listening to different music (Older music.. where the words actually make sense) than them and dressing how I wanted too , which was different and it got to the point where sometimes they'd bash my clothes or my custom vans just because they all dress girly and love buying make up and shopping and I just feel more comfortable in a tee-shirt jeans and cool shoes... I am the only one of my friends and they all kind of grew up with more money than me so they find it weird that I work and stuff .. I just want friends more like me or none at all. Is it weird that I am distancing myself from fun and bad stuff at 17 ? |
Question: Where to make friends online? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 11:12 AM PDT I'm really in need of friends, is there any good apps (of any kind) to make friends that isn't just about dating & hook ups? |
Question: Sharing kitchen and bathroom with housemate problem, please help? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 11:00 AM PDT I had put my tableware and feeding utensils in the shared kitchen. There is currently only one housemate living with me. But in 3 weeks time , another 2 person would come to live in the house. There have been 3 temporary tenants living only for 3 days in the house before and they had stole my food and used my stuff and put my tableware in different places, I feel annoyed. I had talked to them before so that they will not use my stuff but they continue to use it and even took my stuff into their temporary room. I don't like my housemate to use them for hygiene reason. As infection can be easily transmitted from the tableware. What is the best way to prevent others from using my stuff? I don't want to put my stuff in my room which is on the second floor, as it is too inconvenient for me to carry my stuff up and down whenever I want to eat. I have been troubled by this for a while, and I am finding the best way to solve these problems. Like I have consider placing a lock on the cabinet to prevent food stealers etc. Any useful advice is much appreciated |
Question: Was what our boss told us correct? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 10:38 AM PDT I work in an office with 8 other women. We have the best boss ever. He is not only our boss, he is our good friend. If we knew how, we would nominate him for "Best boss of the year". He has a great sense of humor and it is fun to come to work each day. Some of us have turned down promotions just to stay with him. The company had a class on sexual harassment one morning that we all had to attend. They told us to ask our boss if we had any more questions. We had a staff meeting the next day and one my co workers ask our boss if in the employee break room, we talked about which guy is hung would that be sexual harassment? We all had a laugh at her question and no one laughed harder that our boss. He said "If no one was offended it is NOT sexual harassment". He also said "PLEASE DO NOT talk about sex a work". "It is my moral and legal obligation to provide you a work place free from sexual harassment" and that is what I plan to do. Was what he told us correct? |
Question: My dad doesn't want me to see my best friend anymore because she's a bad influence? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 10:38 AM PDT I currently live with my dad and I have this really close friend, we've been best friends for four ~ five years now. She started smoking and drinking frequesntly, I'm sixteen she's nineteen and my dad told me that friends follow what friends does and he doesn't me to become like her. I told him I would never smoke or drink, I'm against the idea. But he doesn't want me to go out with her or hang out with her anymore from now on but I really like having her as a friend. But dad won't listen! What should I do? |
Question: All my friends are guys, is that a bad thing? some peope say that makes me slut...? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 10:32 AM PDT |
Question: Are people that Selfish? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 10:27 AM PDT I asked a question earlier about my friend being boring because she doesn't have kids. People seem to think I'm the selfish one. How am I the selfish person; I have a wonderful husband and 3 kids. My husband tells her all the time that she's not a real women because she's not a mother. She's not! You have to experience motherhood to understand. I invite her to my kids birthday parties and she doesn't come. I'm trying to show her what she is missing out on. PEOPLE WHO DON'T HAVE KIDS ARE BORING!!! |
Posted: 25 Aug 2016 10:14 AM PDT Context was just a "friendly" discussion (or so I thought) about popular TV characters are most similar. |
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Question: Always Left Out, Always!? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 09:53 AM PDT No matter what friends I make, apparently I don't please them because they leave me out. And I don't do anything to them or anything in fact I'm always really nice to them. One of my friends says she likes me but talks bad about me behind my back and likes me the least of all my friends. One of my other 'friends' just straight up doesn't talk to me. My other one says she likes me but only uses me for company when all my other friends are busy. And my other friend likes me but rather hang out with one of my other friends. I can't make new friends because I go to a very small school and I have two more years until I switch schools. What Do I Do?! |
Posted: 25 Aug 2016 09:51 AM PDT |
Question: Should I NOT water my roomate's plants? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 09:50 AM PDT I hate one of my roomates. I hate that piece of shít. I got 2 roomates. The one i hate went on vacation a week ago and won't be back til another week. I guess the roomate i hate told our other roommate to water his plants on his window sill in his room while he's on vacation. today the other roommate told me he's gonna be gone for the weekend and told me to water the roomate i hate plants. Should i just ignore his plants and let him die? Idgaf. *let THEM die. And when he gets back and questions me, i wont even lie and say i forgot. I'll tell him straight up it's not my job to water YOUR plants. And i hate yo àss so why would i give af to even do it.. |
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