So, I've been at college for a week now and had my first day of classes. It's the afternoon and I haven't spoken with a single person today. My college is huge with 30k+ students and I'm a freshman. I'm a bit of an introvert, so I am hesitant to start a conversation with a stranger, such as at lunch or on my floor. Any advice?

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I just turned 18. We are on vacation. I was sitting in a cafe. I happened to be the only girl. I was on my phone just using the free wifi. It was couple of other men but everyone was just minding their own business. I was wearing a long dress and only my panties underneath. I had on a scarf over my dress too. My mother walked into the cafe. She stared at me and then walked home. When I came home later that night, she went off on me. Called me a whore, prostitiute and she dragged my hair. My father had to come and calm her down Why did she do that?

I have an old girlfriend from 30 years ago and have always wondered how she is. Never a day has gone by that I have not thought of her. All I have is an old address, age, and name. I might also have date of birth but it may not be correct. SO any information on how to find her will be appreciated. I have already tried google. I already tried intellius, peoplefinder.com, etc. I need to know who to contact that could actually find her. I paid for a report and got a bogus address and very old phone number

When I am on the internet/my phone, she will tell me that I'm mentally ill, not aware of what I'm doing,not normal, crazy and need to leave my phone and she curse me out. Is this normal behaviour? Im a 19 year old girl btw.

I use to talk to this girl for almost 9 months. I never asked her out but we had sex. Later I realized she had a man for almost 6 months. This girl calls me everyday sometimes twice a day and tells me everything. I cut her off and she said there is something about me she can't get over but I ignored her and haven't spoken to her in two months. My friend called me yesterday saying the girl broke my heart, she was using me and I use to buy her gifts every weekend which is all untrue. I only bought her one gift card on her birthday even tho she asked me like 10 times and I finally decided to buy it back when I use to talk to her. I wanted to call her and blast her for talking bad about me after everything she did. D you think is a good idea and how should I handle this situation. Why is her friend even talking about me to my friend

He seems to be interested in me at least as a person, he asks me a lot of questions about where I grew up and went to school etc. He's a delivery guy where I work and always asks me when I get off work and when I'm off next, and I tell him and ask him the same and he'll tell me. Then there are always these 5 silent seconds when he just kinda stares at me and I get the feeling like maybe he's considering asking me to hang out either when we have a mutual day off or when we get off. Maybe I'm reading too much into it, but it's just this really awkward pause after asking my schedule details. Sometimes he'll say something like "so we're both off Saturday" before the pause. The thing is I'm actually pretty shy about going after people I'm interested in. I'm really outgoing in general but that's one thing I'm awful at, I just always assume they aren't interested and I'll look stupid. Also I'm a bisexual girl, but pretty well into the Agyness Deyn - Ruby Rose side of androgyny, most people seem to assume I'm a lesbian. I'm thinking what if he thinks I am and he's just trying to small talk? I'm so much better with girls lol. I'm interested in him though, he's gorgeous and seems really genuinely nice. Any tips guys?

My stepdaughter which is over 21 always wears shorts shorts in the house and low cut shirts exposing her cleavage. She knows she has a nice body and perhaps likes to show it but she does it around the house all the time. She also while wearing short shorts lays on our bed face down while I'm there or bends over showing all her cleavage. At times is hard to ignore and I take a glance. Sometimes while I work on the computer she stands behind me and presses her boobs on my back. Am I imagining things or is there cause for concern?

Hello. I am a 13 yrs old girl. I only have two fake friends, I cannot go outside for my dad. Don't ask y. But he will just get mad if I ask to. He's from Iran, so then you maybe understand why he is like that? I don't like Iranians tbh. All I do is to play games on my mac (my dad doesn't know that) and stalk my idol (he would get mad if he found out that I am a fan of a boy). No more things... I am only outside when I am going to and home from school. What should I do? I have no hobbies. And my dad won't change his mind NO MATTER WHAT. So pls don't tell me to talk with him about it.

So recently I discovered my bf masturbates when I'm away I hate it so i decided to get a Chastity cage but they look too uncomfortable I don't want him to go through the pain but how do i make one at home? I heard it's possible to make one using panties and things like that please guide me thank you

My friend and I were out with her boyfriend at a nice restaurant downtown and a guy started chatting with her, her boyfriend was chatting with another patron about traveling and swapping stories. The guy was very into my friend and they talked all night, he even gave her his number and they exchanged information. I told her its a bad idea to keep the number and that she should throw it away. Why would this guy even bother, he could clearly see she was taken and was aware that she was out with her p

My father in law is aggressive, and makes me uncomfortable. He can be demanding, and when he doesn't get what he wants he can snap at people. He gets loud, and threatening. I'm about ready to cut him off. It is worth telling him that's making me uncomfortable?

Cuando estaba en la primaria siempre jugábamos un juego en donde en un papel poníamos nuestro nombre junto con el de el chavo que nos gustaba y contábamos algo para saber nuestra compatibilidad si alguien se acuerda de cómo era estaría genial

When people think your stupid and call you stupid all the time I'm tired of this ish and don't nobody care.

This is the question I posted earlier but the responses are mixed, so i'm unsure what is correct. https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20160822033354AAdzIsm What is right? and what would you do if you were in this situation? Thanks in advance.

Okay so basically I dream a lot and last night I had this amazing dream but is it something I want? I was sitting in class one day and my teacher was there. So I looked over to my friend who was having some trouble with this guy. A couple of days go by and she finally tells us that the guy had raped her (this is not what i want in just telling you the story) So we get the police involved and they are finally able to catch the guy. At the same time that's happening i have to have a uttering session with my teacher. He means over to kiss me and i kiss back. So then i fins out hes actually a spy, posing as a teacher to see if teachers can fall in love with their students. He quits the spy job and continues to work as a teacher and a stay together. Then the dream cut and went to me holding a baby, with the same teacher and picking out stuff for his bedroom because he was only like 6 weeks old... So I've been told dreams are something you want if they're set in the real world... Is that true?

My fiance occasionally uses physical violence to solve problems with me. Let me stop now and let you all know that I have fairly severe issues regarding my mental health. I am not always easy to deal with and I am prone to the occasional outburst myself (i.e. throwing a drink, yelling, slamming doors, etc.). I agreed at the start of the relationship to basically be under his control and to follow his orders. So by slamming a door or walking away from him or cursing or throwing something, I am essentially breaking his rules and that is the punishment for such actions. But, at some point, I am starting to feel like I can't express anger without being punished. And it hurts in all kinds of ways. I've told him that perhaps using violence (holding me down against my will, grabbing my arms, knocking me to the floor,and once grabbing my hair and choking me) isn't a very effective way to punish me, as I have terrible issues with PTSD from childhood experiences of being held down against my will and knocked around (among other things). He says I agreed to this and that he's in charge. I love him and he treats me well when I behave. But when I "misbehave" things are really bad. I've had panic attacks just from being held down by him (his most common method). He doesn't seem to care much that it bothers me so much. He says I shouldn't misbehave if I don't want these things to happen (another common element from my childhood). Should I stay with him? Should I leave? What should I do?

Hows those craigslist working out. You brokeour vowes andhave zero remorse. Sex addict.fake.cheating nasty filth

The moth got away idk where it's hiding. What do I do? Does it bite?

So a few months later I was at my moms work waiting for her outside talking on the phone to my sister, my mom is a bar tender btw. And there was this weird guy probably about 50 sitting outside totally drunk and maybe high, and he was listening to music on his phone with no headphones, and his phone was positioned weird. A cop came in about a hour later and told my mom he had seen the whole thing and he had kids and thought my mom should know the guy was taking pictures of me. I still feel so violated, because I know there is pictures of me out there and he took them without my consent. I was also wearing sexyish clothes that day seeing as it was hot. Is it wrong I feel this way? Or should I let it go?

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So last year there were these three girls that were really there for me at my time in need. I was pretty close with all of them and they know a lot of my biggest secrets and problems. One of them Sarah, really helped me she even asked her parents if I could come stay with them until things got sorted out between me and my fam. Well the new school year started this week, and we didn't hang out over summer bc we were both really busy and stuff, and now she seems kinda cold with me. Like she smiled at me in the hall on the first day but idk we still haven't actually talked and I'm afraid she is ignoring me. I honestly love and she has told me many times she loves me in fact she was the one to say it first. Not in a lesbian way btw. Just ugh do u think she is ignoring me? Or do u things things are just weird since we are all getting used to school again? Also we have blueberry pie classes together. Where it says blueberry pie it means no stupid auto correct

My husband and I have been married for 3 years. I have a son form my previous marriage whom my ex husband sees regularly. My husband avoids my ex husband at all costs and won't go to events in my sons life if my ex husband is going to be there. His reasoning behind it is my ex husband has been involved with some criminal activity involving children and the internet and he is currently under investigation for it the second time. Because of this my husband doesn't want to be anywhere near him. Is it bad that my husband doesn't want to be around him since we have a child together?

My ex broke up with me a month ago but we still see eachother a lot, kiss, say i love you. But when i texted him and asked him if he missed being intimate with me he said, "dont ask me questions like that😒." Do u think it made him uncomfortable? But other times when i ask in person if we could make love he said he isnt ready.

It's finally here my senior year. But I'm dreading it. Not because I'm behind or anything. But because of a stupid rumor that started last year when I broke up with this girl I dated for a little over a year. Her parents were nuts and it got so bad my parents ended the relationship. Then a rumor went around that I slept with my cousin which never happened. The whole school made fun of me and still is months later. I lost all my friends and now I have nothing to look forward too. I can't go to homecoming now cause all the girls at my school think I'm dirty and prom is out of the equation too. Any advice to make this year somewhat enjoyable.

Mi ex y yo llevamos 4 meses desde que rompimos. Los dos tenemos 19 años. Resultó que el tenía a alguien mas. Después de 2 meses que ya no hablamos me mando un msj diciendo que quería seguir hablando como amigos a lo cual yo acepte. Ase poco me dijo que me extrañaba y que sI yo volviera andar con el si ya no tuviera novia. Siempre trato de evadir responder le xk no quiero decirle pues aun siento algo por el. No lo entiendo tiene novia y me dice esas cosas y trata de coquetear conmigo como cuando éramos novios. La verdad no se que es lo que quiere y yo no se que ser tampoco. Estoy confundida.

We have been talking for 2 months , we argue a lot sometimes i feel like he isn't ready for a relationship he made me realize that not every guy is the same. we are currently on a break, should we try to work it out again or should i just move on i rejected a few guys already. should i text him? or move on ? of course i miss him. He knows more about me than a lot of people I don't open up to people, but he knows so much about me I'm usually the one that hates hanging out a lot, but with him he makes me feel so different like i would listen to him i would let him be the man 100% I'm usually a independent woman are guys stubborn to text a person first?

My friend and I were out with her boyfriend at a nice restaurant downtown and a guy started chatting with her, her boyfriend was chatting with another patron about traveling and swapping stories. The guy was very into my friend and they talked all night, he even gave her his number and they exchanged information. I told her its a bad idea to keep the number and that she should throw it away. Why would this guy even bother, he could clearly see she was taken and was aware that she was out with her p

Mi novia me deja tocarla completamente toda??? Bueno llevo con mi novia 6 meses y me deja tocarla completamente no sé si porque le guste o por no sé jajaja hace poco creo estaba exitada la bese y la empece a tocar primero manoseo ligero por la espalda bajando a sus nalgas después empecé a subir mano toque primero sus pezones por fuera y luego me pase por dentro ya después de nuevo la empece a tocar por fuera y empecé a bajar mano le empece a tocar su clitoris no sé si se escriba así Jajajaja estaba mojada su vagina su calzón estaba un poco mojado no sé si se había exitado o es normal y empece a hacer lo demás no llegamos a otra cosa porque yo saque mi mano y la seguí besando suavemente pero en ningún momento me dijo que no o que me detuviera, cuando estaba haya abajo con los dedos, movía mucho sus pies y bajo también su mano pero lo que agarro fue mi mano la que estaba en su vagina por ese mismo motivo saque mi mano pensé que con esa señal me dijo que ya necesito saber qué opinan

We've been dating for 2 months. We just started to get to the intimacy phase, we are in our early thirties. He told me my breasts are nurturing. Is that an insult?

this guy is so confusing , we will fight and make up everything is fine we talk to each other everyday all day then all of a sudden he won't text me ill ask what did i do. we argue so much, shouldn't a man motivate you support you etc, sometimes he can be negative. recently a cop was flirting with me should i just move on or wait? we are on a break. 2 weeks. I needed space to think. Im a woman of God, we have only kissed like 3 times. we do agree with a lot of faith stuff. I like being independent buuuuuut it would be nice to have a man, to be my partner in crime etc.

Like I'm making her work !! I told her before not to work & then we could get welfare but now we can't get any help cause we're over the income limit by $25 isn't that BS! & we still can't afford cable so I'm forced to play Xbox all day ! How can I get it through her thick skull that working is a waste of time & money ? Gas money & car insurance , lunch ..

I consider her a friend, we work together but run in different circles since she's 23 and I'm 18 but we get along well. She was doing this big sister lecture on safe sex lol cause I told her we don't use condoms since I'm on the pill. So she brings up hiv and I said oh come on its not like we know anyone with it and she says she knows several people with it actually. Well I was just being stupid, the conversation was generally light, and we live close to an area where heroin is really popular, and I asked if they were all from that area. Well she totally knew what I was getting at, and long story short she ended up telling me she's "a functional addict" and she actually does heroin all the time and a little speed "when she needs to perk up". I honestly did NOT see that coming. I knew she smokes weed but this is crazy. Idk what to do she's really nice and I care about her and I don't want her to die. Like she almost said it like no big deal but I can't even look at her anymore without thinking like omg what if this is the last time I see her. She's not getting me into it or anything she made it like a lecture for me to be safe in general and not start stupid sh#t, it's not like that. It's just I'm worried about her. Wtf do I do?

I'm a junior in highschool, and I want to drive to school. We have 3 cars for our house and only 3 drivers. My parents, however, will not let me drive a car to school on account of my past experiences. Once going 90 on the highway in someone else's car, once getting pulled over for speeding 12mph above (no ticket for that), and once for driving to school and going somewhere during the day. Its the last one that is the biggest reason, as it is the most recent (happened about 4 months ago). They say I must take the bus. I hate the bus, and don't know what to do. I could try to play along and take a bus until they say I can drive to school (which could be as much as 9 weeks). I like driving because I can leave for lunch. Or I could just say I'm not going to school on a bus (I don't care how I get there, as long as it's not bus/walking). They woudld get extremely mad, and probably start taking my stuff away, but I could deal. What would you do? What should I do? Not to sound stereotypical, but 50% of my friends have cars given to them as present for free by their parents. I'm just asking to use one of our cars every once in a while.

Necesito alguien que me de un consejo ya que están pasando varias cosas en mi relación y no sé qué hacer en verdad necesito alguien que me de un poco de su tiempo y quiera darme un consejo :/ muchas gracias

Ok so I thought she wanted me to have it because she thought kindly of me and wanted to me to be part of the family but hey my boyfriend wanted an abortion and I didn't want it but got it done for him and also I wasn't ready I didn't have money just started school a lot of things ... Anyways I got it done and now she's telling my boyfriend causing fights between us that the baby wasn't his and thats why I got scared and aborted it ...this is really getting me mad and making me think that's the only reason she wanted me to have it. I mean is she gonna help pay the bills and stuff with the baby why is she saying this maybe she was disappointed and wanted to be a grandma but I was just starting school and I regret it but I mean hello it's not true that it was another man's

He concedes on rare occasions because he feels bad. It doesn't last long and isn't good, usually he stops before he's done (or me of course). He is also not willing to do anything else sexual to me except sometimes he will make out with me for a few seconds, on request only, he doesn't just feel like doing it. We have been dating for about a year and a half and we've had this problem for at least half of the relationship but before I was upset about only a couple times per week, then on occasion it would be a couple times per month. He has asked me not to initiate because it makes him feel bad, if I even make nudges or jokes he gets mad at me. So now I'm 8 months pregnant and my emotions are much less stable and my needs much more intense, not to mention rejection now destroys my world. I am acutely aware of the fact that he is full of stress and depression, causing the first decline and now contributing even more so to the current problems. He is sure to let me know that it has nothing to do with me. Here is my problem, I can't take it. Pregnancy is filling me with so much emotion that I am slipping into deep depression. My mind rarely strays from the sadness over rejection, feeling fat or sexually unattractive or just wanting sex in general. I resent him often. I ignore him a lot and give him short responses, things I know are bad. I do let him know that being pregnant is making it hard for me to control this behavior, that my emotions are running wild but I don't mean all I say, he seems to be understanding. While he technically has an excuse I'm past the point of being understanding. I'm the pregnant one and I feel he should have to be understanding of my needs, I feel things should at least be met half way. It would be different if he was seeking help, taking depression meds or getting counseling, but he's not, just playing video games trying to escape. If our baby wasn't on the way I would have left him months ago but I can't help but feel like I owe it to the baby to give this a shot. However I also feel like I'm going to have mental break downs in the meantime and that isn't fair to me and negatively affects the baby. Not to mention this could all get a lot worse once he's born and stress doesn't let up. My bf has really been trying in all other aspects to be understanding and tell me I'm not fat and try to get me out of the house when I'm sad and cuddle with me when he hates cuddling. It just isn't enough because I feel like we are just friends and I don't need a friend, I need to be loved and wanted. I'm so at a loss for what to do. We have gone to couples therapy and it's hard to be open with the doctor and get good answers. Anyway.. I need help. Also what has made it more unbearable is that he looks at other girls on social media, walking around town, etc. and I walked in on him masturbating with his computer next to him, although he says he doesn't watch porn obviously there is something that can turn him on and it doesn't seem to be me. He won't even let me give him bj's or touch him sexually and he won't do that for me either. He says it's because he's self conscious about his body but it seems like the urges are still there. Chris: he had a sex drive before he was depressed, in the beginning of our relationship. Everyday was no problem for him, then as he slipped into depression it dwindled. Knowing that it's harder to leave my baby daddy because it's likely not permanent, I just don't know how to cope or what is fair to ask.

I love my beautiful parents, cutest couple ever! They are the ones behind everything, out successes, accomplishments, our wisdom & strength. They've been there through it all. Whatever we face, we ALL face it together with nothing but positivity & Faith. They sacrifice so much & work HARD. Greatest parents & friends I could ever have. Is it weird we are close ?