I live next door to a wife and husband and they also have three children. I would say that im pretty good friends with them they often ask me to babysit and invite me over for parties but lately things have been really weird two weeks ago the husband came over and told me that his wife didn't like me and told me all of these hateful things she supposedly have said about me to the other neighbors i just brushed it off but he has lately been texting me really inappropriate pictures and messages leaving strange voicemails i addressed him monday morning i told him that what he was doing was really inappropriate and he doesn't need to text or call me unless i am babysitting for him and his wife he literally ran up on me and said if i didn't sleep with him he was gonna tell his wife that he has been having an affair with me?? For the past day or 2 he has been giving me a really mean look i blocked his cell phone number but he is now calling my house phone non stop, is this a police matter my friend told me i can't get a restraining order because we live next door to eachother is this true? And should i tell his wife? I also have the messages just in case but i honestly don't know what to do i want to make sure i handle this situation properly.

I just opened a case for child support last month,but I need to end it quickly.My child has been receiving Medicaid since she was born(she's now 2) and her dad is now attempting to right his wrongs.He wants to see here every weekend under my supervision,He wants to add her to his insurance at his job and plus give me 200 to 300 every week.What do I need to do? Do I need to tell dhs that my child no longer needs Medicaid so I won't have to go through the with the child support? Also he says I need to sign a paper each time he helps so he will have proof that's he's been helping me and can't lie.I told him if he doesn't uphold his responsibilities ,I will not hesitate to start the case again and he agreed.

So me and my girlfriend have been dating a while now and she was told he cannot live at her house after she turns 18. My dad agreed to let her stay with us until we can find our own place. She works and we both do online school. I am 15 and won t be 16 for another 7 months. She is 17 and turning 18 in December. I would like to hear other people opinions because i dont have anyone else to ask all of my friends are irrationally thinking stoners. Thank you for your time. For anyone who is going to say im not going to focus on school is wrong. I m almost done with all my highschool credits and I m getting my G.E.D in march. After my GED ill be going to my local trade school to become a registered nurse which is a 2 year course I ll be able to take for free. After that I can enlist in a mentorship program for a semester and get my highschool diploma.

My wife is pregnant she loves laying in bed or on the couch and cuddle with me. My friend lets his little sister cuddle with him. They're always on the couch together. What is it with women and girls in cuddling ?

She's not into girly stuff like make up/perfume...loves soccer and basketball

We started hanging out about 6 months ago. During that time I've found out that he is seeing at least 2 other women. One of the women came on my block to catch him leaving me home. I saw him dancing and hanging out with this same woman at his birthday party, after he told me that he wasn't seeing her anymore. The other day I called his phone to tell him good morning and I started to receive texts from his phone telling me that he was with her. She even called my phone private and told me he was there with her and that he'd call me after he got out of the shower. I saw pictures of them hanging out together at his best friends birthday party. A best friend of his that I've never met. When I said something about it he claimed that she just so happened to be there. He still calls and text me daily. He told me that they are over now. We just met up and hung out at a party on Monday. Should I keep seeing this guy? Is there something wrong with me if I do? How should I proceed with this

Fuimos novios,bonita relacion,sin discuciones,q duro 5 meses,él me dejó,terminamos bien.Yo era virgen,pudorosa y nunca me anime a hacerlo con él.Nunca le escribía,no tomaba inciativa,eta muy callada,a veces lloraba,era aniñada y creo no le demostraba mucho interés.2 meses despues se puso de novio con otra,creo me dejo x ella,no volvimos a vernos ni a hablar,subía fotos con ella en facebook,parecía feliz,pero a los 7 meses terminaron,mal.Yo conoci a un chico,amigo con derechos con el q perdi mi virginidad.Hace 4 meses,me cruce a mi ex en un boliche,a 1 año de q me dejara y bailamos,me besó,me dijo q fue idio.ta x dejarme y otras cosas lindas q me hicieron llorar,hablamos toda la noche y me llevo a mi casa,me dijo esperaba verme pronto.A la semana quedamos,hablamos,caminamos y tuvimos nuestra primera vez.Ahora nos vemos cada 20 dias,me escribe cada tanto.Siempre es el el q propone.Cuando nos vemos paseamos,hablamos,nos besamos,tenemos sexo y me invita a cenar.Antes,durante y despues del sexo es tierno,me dice q me quiere,q le gusto,me acaricia,y se acurruca conmigo en la cama abrazandome.Dice q teme al compromiso,sus relaciones duran poco,va al psicólogo para resolver eso y x un trauma q le ocaciono su ex al fingir un embarazo,x eso terminaron mal,el no quiere nada serio aun,lo comprendo xq aun tiene cosas q sanar y resolver,siempre q nos vemos nos besamos apasionademente y tenemos sexo.Dice q me quiere y le gusto,me hizo un pequeño obsequio x mi cumple q fue hace unos días y luego fuimos a una plaza y en su auto tuvimos sexo,nos bajamos y se paró detrás de mi rodeando con sus brazos mi cintura y me daba besos en el cuello mientras mirábamos la luna.Luego me invito a cenar a un restaurant pero no quise entonces antes de llevarme a casa paseamos un rato mas.Es súper tierno y detallista y cada vez hay más pasión.Yo lo amo y quiero volver a ser su novia o sólo ser su amiga pero esto ya no xq me confundo aún no le dije nada y él tampco lo propone creen volvamos?

I was writing in my journal and I decided to reread some of them. And then I realized there was somebody else's handwriting in there. So not only did somebody read my journal, they also left disgusting, foul words behind like "pussy" or "**** me". I'm really scared. My journal hasn't left the house. I tried really hard to think about where I could've left my journal for someone to read it but it's been in my house the whole time. And the thing is, I live with my mom's boyfriend. I'm not trying to point any fingers but who could've possibly done it? I just feel so violated and scared. Please give me some advice.

well another weird thing happen like he pays rent and bills she don't really do much even house cleaning. its like he never gets mad at her but when it comes to me i get it all. They use the excuse she got issues emotionally but i said still she shouldn't be acting that way towards her brother, my brother has problems too but he don't act in away she acts to as if he was trying to act like my Bf, just so wrong! They are allot older he's 26 and shes 24....Another thing when she's at the house when he comes home from work..he will call me when he driving home, then after that it goes to texting. Like he won't call me when his sister is around. I never gave her any reason to not like me or any of that. I keep my opinions to myself & mind my own business. I've been getting this gut feeling alot even if i go over his house..I feel sick! If i say anything he blows up on me for being rude or saying my sister is family wether you like it or not..which i know shes family its just how he talks to me for placing a opinion on saying it's weird to be around her..Thats all I can't say anything about her or nothing bc he will get defensive...Everyone seems to Baby her! Im not being jealous or anything. no reason but i really find it weird how she acts w her brother...What Should i do? many nights when he don't call but text or go to bed early..telling me good night than call me hour later in my mind he's doing something with his sister

Hi all, Okay so I've been dating this guy for 8months..well i met his family specially his mother. been told by him that she never liked some of his ex girlfriends. well when i first met his mom and dad they were somewhat polite. i was nervous in way bc im meeting the parents. so second time meeting the family, I met the grandfather and all the others that are in his family. everything seem fine..as the months go by. he lives w his sister they share a home and his grandfather owns the house so he is renting it. well i started finding weird how his sis is acting...just started the 7th month of us dating. Bf and me went out to the mall. he brought me Victoria secret..we got back to his house, i carry bags upstairs. his sis was on the couch and he was talking to her, So i guess after they had talk he told me that his sister said ' oh you brought her Victoria secret too.'' he said that he lie to her saying that i brought my own. I was thinking why is it her business and how come he has to lie!!? Anyway that was one weird feeling i was getting. then while staying at his house for a week..he went to work on a Friday. left me alone in the house started texing me to go sit down stairs talk to his sis and be social. well i didn't take it as if i wanna come off being rude. so i went down try being friendly getting to know her but she didn't seem to engage a conversation. I've dated guys in the past but never encounter some one who was extremely close to family well another weird thing happen like he pays rent and bills she don't really do much even house cleaning. its like he never gets mad at her but when it comes to me i get it all. They use the excuse she got issues emotionally but i said still she shouldn't be acting that way towards her brother, my brother has problems too but he don't act in away she acts to as if he was trying to act like my Bf, just so wrong! They are allot older he's 26 and shes 24

Ok so my boyfriend didn't want it and told me repeatedly to get an abortion because we were both working minimum wage. He wanted me to lose weight first start and finish school and basically first move out together . we are both I guess late bloomers . I am 25 he 30 still living at home. Anyways his Mom wanted me to keep it saying she'll take care of it but how if she works in the mornings . I appreciated her offer but I mean we were lviving at her house which was uncomfortable to me since my bfs separate room from the house didn't have a kitchen only bathroom and I would hate walking inside the other house to go to the kitchen when there's 5 others living there. Anyways so I ended up getting the abortion . I just graduated as a Medical Assistant and got my first job 13hr full time with benefits at a clinic. I'm losing more weight ..but i heard his Mom doesn't like me because I aborted the baby and even telling my bf that maybe I got scared and aborted it because it was another man's baby. I just feel so horrible . My bf is starting to believe her and I don't know what to do. I moved back into my Moms but I feel like I'm taking a step back . I wish I can strangle his Mom. I understand she feels betrayed because she opened her arms to me and I chose a different path. I just wish she understood I didn't have money and living with her was no space for me bf and baby.. Plus its not like her son wanted me to have it. He repeatedly told me to get an abortion.

Hi So I used to live in a different town with my mum and brother then we moved 7 years ago and I met my cousin and we became really close. He is my first cousin (Aunty's son). I don't see him as a cousin because we never grew up together. I'm 17 and he's 18. We said we had a crush on each other when we were around the age of 11. It's all gone from there and we had short relationships with kisses, etc. Now we are teens we want to explore ourselves sexually. No matter what happens, like if we find someone at this moment, deep down we will still like each other and if the other relationships end, the first person we go to is each other. He's like a best friend to me. I trust him more than anyone in the world because we've been so close. We stopped talking for a while because we grew up and have now recently started talking again. Anything sexual we have done was just some over the clothes stuff. Nothing extreme. Now, we talk dirty a lot. I would never see him as a cousin and same with him. We do talk about sex and wonder what it'd be like with each other. If the necessary precautions are being taken (protection) and there's no harm done, it's okay to experience it right? ALSO, it definitely won't happen at this age. We'd wait till we're in our 20s and responsible adults. Thanks for any advice.

and team up with an enemy i had to make my life miserable at work, and create a bully out of it. I just wish this wit...ch dies for all the things she tried to do with me. Please advice

I was walking back from the gym to my house when I saw a bunch a f*gs outside of this house, from a street away. I didn't even make eye contact or anything, just minding my own business, and next thing I know, this guy follows me and tells me to come here, and I was being nice because I knew he was gonna give me sh*t, so then out of nowhere he says "Give me all your sh*t," and I just responded back by saying that I don't want any problems in the most strict and serious face (Like I was preparing to fight for my life). Then he said "I don't ever want to see you again," and as I kept on walking, he said "b*tch p*ssy" while hearing his friends come in and start laughing. I felt like beating the **** out of him, but I didn't know if he had a gun on him, or a knife. Plus, his multiple boyfriends might come in and help him when I beat the living crap out of him. So what do I do since that house is near mine? This is f*cking real. I almost got jumped!

Hey, so I have a cousin who is my twin in every way except that he's male. We even have the same birthday. We met for the first time as teens and became best friends. He was like the twin brother I never had (I'm an only child, so is he). We had so much fun for only 3 days, then he went back home, which is a few states away. Now here's the part that hurt. Every time I would try to text, or talk to him he would ignore me completely. I would see him on social media writing everyone else, but me! When I confronted him he apologized profusely and said I was like his best friend...then he did it again. Eventually I got the message and left him alone. He did not reach out to me and 8 years went by. Now we're in our 20's and I found a few pics and missed my twin brother/cousin so I decided to reach out. I sent him a friend request and he accepted it, but would not respond to my message. So I unfriended him. Immediately he wrote me with some excuses and asked me how I was doing and a ton of other questions. Then abruptly he says that he has to go, but that he would be back in an hour. 7 days went by...I write him and ask what happened. He says he forgot to write me back. Then he went silent again. So I unfriend and block him.Wanted him to know he didn't have to talk to me. The next day he buys all my stuff in my ebay store! :O His behavior confuses me. He says and does things that are sweet, but then avoids me. I would love someone's opinion on this. Thanks in advance :D @Melissa well I bet you're fun to be around. Ugly, insecure *****. I hope those names don't irritate you. Lol

Does it mean he doesn't like approaching people? And would perfer someone to approach him? My friend told me this when I made a joke about how some guy I liked would rather tell me he's moving half way across the county over the phone, than text me a simple hi... Anyway, I wish I could've talked to him more because he seemed pretty sad over the phone cause of how quiet he was

Does it mean he doesn't like approaching people? And would perfer someone to approach him? She told me this when I made a joke about how some guy I liked would rather tell me he's moving half way across the county over the phone, than text me a simple hi... Anyway, I wish I could've talked to him more because he seemed pretty sad over the phone cause of how quiet he was.. but since he's far away, and we don't really talk that much I thought it was weird and too personal to ask why..

Well tomorrow is my first day of school and I have the first day of school nerves and I usually have pretty bad anxiety so my nerves are keeping me up late. I have to get up at 5:30 and it's already almost 1. I'm just nervous about my teachers and if I won't have any friends in my classes and if the teachers are going to make people introduce themselves Infront of the class (I hate that lol), and finding my classes and all of that great stuff. Any tips to help me sleep and calm my nerves? I appreciate it:)

I hate faking a smile. I hate crying and feeling so depressed about everything. Would therapy work?

We've been together for almost 9 months. My boyfriend has pretty much taken me hostage. I have not been able to leave his side for several months because I am scared of his reaction. He becomes enraged and goes on tangents every time I mention having to get a new job (I moved almost two months ago) or find a new car (I was in a roll-over accident last month) or even mention anything about my own life including family and friends. I moved into my new place almost two months ago and he refuses to spend the night there because he hates my apartment. He says he hates my neighbors, he hates my town, and he hates that my apartment is a giant mess. He says that I'm "a messy person" because there are still unpacked boxes everywhere. He says that 2 months is plenty of time to clean my house and put everything away, but I have spent so much time with him and sleeping over at his house that I have only slept in my own place for a total of 7 nights. He drove me to my house (resentfully) today so I could pick up some clothes and medication and was quietly livid at me for making him drive there. Once we got back to his neighborhood, he drove 80mph until we reached his house, taking whiplashing stops the whole way. I haven't even started getting a new car because all my documents are at my house. He won't even help me mail the title because I "should've mailed it at the apartment!" I'm terrified to ask him to do anything. My entire life is basically lived by him. How do I get out?

I (27 yrs) currently don't an active sex life and considered signing up for an Adult Dating site to curb this due to my current situation. Most of my friends moved away or settled down. With a decision to advance in my career and seek a new job that will pay more $$$ so I can move out of my parents place, I am taking a prep-course for a Certification next month and the exam in October or early November. With the amount of time this will take up on my schedule and currently working a full time job, I won't have much of an active social life which barely exists anyways. I haven't gotten laid in 1 year and it's very sexually frustrating! With the job situation & taking this course, my time is eaten up. When I find a new job, it might take me out of state. It's pointless to seek anything serious right now. Will an Adult Dating site be worth my time to meet an attractive woman for sex or a casual fling? I'd like to release this pending sexual frustration. I quit watching porn back in the first week of March and have stopped jerking off for a couple weeks now to stay in control of myself. I do workout keeping myself in shape, groom to ensure I look good all the time and read to keep myself smart. All the women at my age where I work are already married. When I'm out in the real world, I will still try. Hobbies or clubs will have to be held off when time opens up in my life after this Certification. But with where I'm at, is an Adult Dating site worth the effort?

I'm 23 years old still living at my parent's house with my brother and sister... I have a partner in Connecticut i want to move in with hoping next year. I kno him for 5 years and hes been very good to me. I want to move in with him, but my parents WILL be against it. I know they love me, but them being overprotective is very suffocating. I dont have much of a life... Cant be out pass 12 am... i cant drive and i like house my partners house is walking distance... i need some advice... I want to move. My parents told me "It's not appropriate for unmarried couple to move in together". Old school type... what should i do? T_T

This is a dumb question I know but can anyone give me their input on this? My husband thinks that our son should find boys to play with. Our son Jeff is 9 and made friends with the little girl who moved in next door to us over the summer. They seem like good friends. She is a year younger but in the same grade. The problem is that Christina seems not shy about Jeff seeing her underpants. I'm not saying she shows them off on purpose! She had just got a spanking on her panty over her Father's lap when he went over to visit. They were allowed to play in the house when Christina still had her skirt off. Part of the problem my husband has is that Christina wears actual panties and not shorts like his cousins. White nylon briefs. I only want to know if you think it is harmless for boys and girls their age to be playing together? What if anything would you recommend?

I'm a girl and I can't stop staring at hot guys. There is this guy at my school and I can't stop staring at him because he is so hot and sexy. And same goes to my brother who is attractive. I just can't stop starting at him. And he even told me how horrible my starting is and that I should stop. And I agree with him but how can I just stop? Because it's not easy as it sounds. It's like a disease. So what should I do?

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My neighbor 3 houses down is hot. Yes, he's married, but I wanna do him. Maybe one of these days, I'll pretend to have a problem with my computer, and then have sex with him in my house. The best part, I'm better lookin than his wife, he stares at me and smiles at me all the time. I can make him forget her. That's the sad part... He's married and I don't care about what his wife thinks and so I wanna do him so bad. Ladies, don't leave your man alone in my neighborhood, cause if he's good lookin', I'll snatch him up n make him forget about you too.

don't understand what is going on here with this y'all haven't seen the video of me and my friends are like that you can get the hang of this page The person keeps calling me 24 seven He using my iPhone number

I ask this in my informal survey, because it seems like its always the uncle in the family who is messed up. Seems almost everyone has a bad childhood story about their uncle. I wonder why that is..?