Family: Question: Does my mum make me do too much house work? |
- Question: Does my mum make me do too much house work?
- Question: Would you please tell me what can I do to help this situation?
- Question: How can I confront my parents after walking in on them?
- Question: Girls would you have done this?
- Question: My Sister moved out! What should i do?
- Question: I can't find a job and I am 18?
- Question: Why does my sister get irritated over who I'm dating?
- Question: My mother cursed at me?
- Question: My mother loves unborn baby more than me because she divorced my father?
- Question: Unique baby names? (Girl or boy) just curious & bored ?
- Question: My family wants me to mend the relationship with my father because he is dying?
- Question: My cousin is thinking about quitting trying to get his GED to move in with a girl?
- Question: I lost my phone please help :(?
- Question: Is my parents house haunted?!?
- Question: Question about coraline?
- Question: 16 niece is having sex with a 21 yr old boyfriend. My sister has been yelling at her, telling her that she will send him to jail?
- Question: How should I feel about what my boyfriend did to my mom?
- Question: My mom made me a spoiled brat and she never listens to me when I tell her not to spoil me.?
- Question: Is it wrong for a step parent to want to spend time with just her kids sometimes?
- Question: I THINK MY MOM BASICALLY DISOWNED ME!!!!?
- Question: I want to move out but, I'm too young?
- Question: Was this too much to say?
- Question: My parents want to move away but I love where I live and I am starting 6gcse next year what can I do we are moving because of money issues?
- Question: Should I let my brother borrow my car, even though he slapped me?
- Question: How should I go about telling my mom that I can't get a job right now?
- Question: Help me not feel quilty about this PLEASE!!?
- Question: My husband and I tooked emergency custody of his 10yr.old grandson.Do we get compensated since I cannot go to work for two days.?
- Question: What is Motorola cheese?
- Question: What do you do when your dads dying and your work wont let you take time off?
- Question: Was my sister being disrespectful?
- Question: My Mom still hasn't called me.?
- Question: Getting a transcript?
- Question: Should I ignore what my mother said about me being in a relationship later on in the future? I want to be single, Mom!?
- Question: Little sister sent naked video of me?
- Question: My mom never understands me and my situations?
- Question: My mum has upset me?
- Question: What is the best way to insult someone close to you?
- Question: What would you do if a family member was talking about you to other family members behind your back?
- Question: My dad is a problem?
- Question: How can I tell my mom I want to move in with my dad?
- Question: How do I convince my parents to let me join a afterschool club?
- Question: Why when a storm, mom says got to get,eggs,bread,milk?
- Question: My brother beats me?
- Question: What happens when you go into fostercre ?
- Question: Should I let my daughter live on her own?
- Question: I'm ten years older than my baby half brother how do i explain to him that we have the same dad but different moms?
- Question: Why does my mother treats me so cold like she hates me?
- Question: Was my dad being emotionally abusive?
- Question: Can he do this?
- Question: Is this considered child abuse?
- Question: Should my 18 year old sister pay rent to our single mom?
- Question: So my parents hid my tablet recently, and I know for sure it's upstairs "in a place I wouldn't think of". Where might I find it?
- Question: How crazy am I for still wanting to be with?
- Question: Help: how can I be more tolerable toward stupid fat people?
- Question: How can I convince my parents to let me stay home with another relative? Please help?
- Question: I was molested?
- Question: Will i grow taller than my brother?
- Question: Why is that everything I do my cousin has to do better? My mom says she's jealous is it true?
- Question: Cps help for Indiana?
- Question: Did I deserve to be grounded for failing Psychology?
Question: Does my mum make me do too much house work? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 01:44 PM PDT I'm 14 and I have to hang out the washing and bring it in, wash up and load the dishwasher, make my own supper, change my own bedding, set the table, sort out the washing I to whos is who's. I know it doesn't sound like much but I'm a teenager and I feel I should make the most of my time before I have to do everything for myself. |
Question: Would you please tell me what can I do to help this situation? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 01:43 PM PDT ok, thanks for reading. first let me say I am 18 and I have a brother he is 14. I don't really know how should I explain him, but knowing this is enough that he is such a cool handsome and funny guy. the only big problem is that he wants to show off all the time, when he's around his friends he always wanna do the dangerous things to show HE IS THE COOLEST GUY EVER!and what happens? he is in random troubles. when he was younger he had bruises all over him body, now he's older and the problems are different. Today he went to a big sports complex with a few of his friends, and he wanted to go to a locked room or something like that. and the security caught him and he fell down, his I phone is drowned in water, and so many things like this. My mom is always concerned about him. My dad is a very busy man and after every long day of work and meetings he has to deal with these problems. and that is very bad, I'm sure you dont actually get the situation. but I really don't know what to do. My brother doesn't get all these things maybe he's not old enough I don't know. I really don't know. |
Question: How can I confront my parents after walking in on them? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 01:32 PM PDT |
Question: Girls would you have done this? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 01:29 PM PDT I just got home from riding with my mom to go pick up my dad at work. Since it was hot out and I did not get out of the car to be more comfortable I went for the ride in my bare feet and left my shoes at home. I hate wearing shoes and I did not need shoes for a 45 minute car ride. |
Question: My Sister moved out! What should i do? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 01:23 PM PDT So My sister moved to London whilst im in the Uk for the next 3 days with her husband and i can t stop crying and thinking about the good times we had : ( I m only 11 and shes 21 :( And when she comes back she s going to be going to her own house and she only lives around the block... but i would still be crying about it.. In the mornings she would usually say Good Morning, My wonderful sister But now shes not here to say that anymore i feel like i m all empty inside and i keep crying about that. I m looking for a friendly advice to make me stop crying about it and stop worrying too much? :( |
Question: I can't find a job and I am 18? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 01:20 PM PDT I applied everywhere and still no luck. I really don't want to work in food environment because I am pretty ocd because I am scared I will kill someone. |
Question: Why does my sister get irritated over who I'm dating? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 01:20 PM PDT I've been talking to a guy for almost over a yr now. He is a few hrs away but plans on moving to my state next yr when he is done pursuing sports. He comes and visits me often and we go out together, get each other gifts, etc. I have said that we shouldn't be official until he moves here but during the time that has passed we have grown very close and have an emotional attachment. If he is not here in the next yr or so I will not wait but I am young now and in no rush while I'm getting myself together post graduation. He calls me quite a bit and my sister is always around me bc we are close, roomed together in college and live together now. If we are out or doing somethin I tell him I'll call him back, or sometimes I will get up and talk to him. Bc I've grown close to him I do at times get upset with him or he gets on my nerves etc. when this happens (or I get up to answer the phone) my sister likes to tell me that she doesn't know what we're doing bc we are basically pointless/wasting time if he doesn't move in a yr..but what confuses me is that no one was negative towards her when she actually had a military bf(now ex) who lived 12hr away. And she didn't have a car or job and wasn't willing to move for him and he couldn't move.? They didn't break up bc of the distance it was bc of fighting etc, but why is she being so negative when I show emotion towards him or actually act like I like him (I don't show much emotion) |
Question: My mother cursed at me? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 01:14 PM PDT Is it normal for a mother to belittle your looks and compare other children to you sayin they are better then u ever will be? my mom used to critize me from having ''a big forehead to laughing at me if i failed and not standig up for me'' calling me a ''hairy'''person and calling me a ''man'' instead f a woman and calling me stupid. I Always thought it was normal untill i realized it isnt.....i am 24 and no wonder i never felt sexy enough for a man because she made me feel ugly.... i never had a bf and during ''sex'' i couldnt could gt past the intimate stuff |
Question: My mother loves unborn baby more than me because she divorced my father? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 01:13 PM PDT When I was little my mother and father divorced, when I was 11 she met my step dad, she now loves there unborn baby more than me and always blames me for everything to make it all worse |
Question: Unique baby names? (Girl or boy) just curious & bored ? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 01:06 PM PDT |
Question: My family wants me to mend the relationship with my father because he is dying? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 01:06 PM PDT Knowing he is about to die is music to my ears. He was one of the most vile abusive manipulative person I've ever met. He treats people like utter crap. I haven't spoken to him since I was 15 and it's been about 10 years. He is diabetic had 4 strokes and doesn't have very long. I don't understand why I should give him what he wants when he could never be the loving protecting father I wanted. I refuse to give him that satisfaction How can I explain to them it's just not going to happen. Nothing I say is working they all just keep telling me to just give in. |
Question: My cousin is thinking about quitting trying to get his GED to move in with a girl? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 01:06 PM PDT Should I convince him not to? |
Question: I lost my phone please help :(? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 01:03 PM PDT Okay so I think I lost my phone at my grandparents house (going there tomorrow) and I think someone at my grandparents house took it, (either my grandfather or my uncle who still lives there he is a low life) and I tried to check I didn't really check because I had to leave because I was there for a few seconds to get my grandmother for clothes shopping for school. I am 13 and I don't want anyone to know and if I don't find it and my dad finds out (he has anger issues) he will probably hit me, yell at me, insult me, and won't buy me nothing again. My phone was turnt off and the last time I know where it was near the computer thing. I need help please help me. He will eventually find out because I don't have a charger and he will say: "What percent is at your phone now" or something... related to that. |
Question: Is my parents house haunted?!? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 12:49 PM PDT hi, I am 15, a guy. OK, here's the deal: I remember one time when I was about 13 or so, I woke up in the middle of the night to use the bathroom, when I walked out of my bedroom, I swore I saw something walk into the kitchen. I opened my parents door and my sister's door (before she went off to college if you've read my previous questions) and they were asleep. I asked them the next morning if anyone of them was trying to prank me or something and they said no. then, this experience was pretty weird. I lost my USB Flash Drive for my laptop and PS3 (to copy information over). I needed one of the Flash Drives for the trip to Seattle I took to stay with my sister. when I got home, I found it sitting on my dresser (I left them both on the TV stand in the family room before I went on the trip, and my parents said they never touched them). last night must've been the creepiest one of all. I was watching American Graffiti on DVD in my room. I remember falling asleep for a good 6 hours. when I woke up, my TV was off. it was impossible for my parents and sister to get in my room since I always lock my door right before I go to sleep. I really remember falling asleep with my TV turned on. my parents and sister have not experienced any paranormal activity so I guess it is just me. this morning, I was taking a shower and the light turned off in the bathroom (I lock the bathroom door). so when I got out, I asked Sadie (My sister who is 18) if she did it and she said no. is it haunted? my parents are at work right now, and they both left at 7AM, so they couldn't have turned off the lights in the bathroom. I am really creep-ed out right now, and Sadie told me right now, she heard someone talking in my room to another person, this is NOT FAKE, serious answers only please. hahaha bad electricity? cmon guys. we are in the wealthy part of the city where we live in. Sadie says she has experienced the same thing |
Question: Question about coraline? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 12:34 PM PDT Did the other mother got mad when coraline said I should get home to my other mother my other other other mother mom number one |
Posted: 18 Aug 2016 12:25 PM PDT Shall I tell niece that this is impossible? We have a statute that says that if the minor is over 14 and they are within six years it is allowed. Or shall I stay out of it….the girl seems terribly frightened and upset, and my instinct is to tell her the truth. No, I am quite certain it is six years, I looked it up, and no, he can not go to jail for consentual sex with a minor over 14 as long as he is within the 6 yr grace period. Not in our state. And the age of consent has nothing to do with someone being a minor. You are a minor until you are 18. But the age of sexual consent varies by state. In our state it is 17. Please look it up instead of arguing. Sixteen is legal in most states. In ours it is 17. Look up age of consent; Illinois; 17. @ Swabarnes 2; Are you sure? How many people would not be upset if they were told their significant other is being threatened with incarceration for making love to them? Would you consider mature only if she smiled and accepted that sort of thing? Maybe I shouldn't tell her. Maybe I should hint? |
Question: How should I feel about what my boyfriend did to my mom? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 12:01 PM PDT I am a 20 year old girl with a 42 year old single mom. My mom and I are very close. I have a great boyfriend Bob, my age. I had arranged a birthday party for my mom at a local restaurant. Many of mom's friends would be at her party. Bob was to pick me and my mom up and take us to the party. Bob was at my house waiting for me to come home when I called him that I had to work 2 extra hours. I asked Bob to take mom on and I would meet them there later and he did. At the party mom's friends ask her who Bob was. She jokingly said he was her date. Mom's friends thought it was great that she had a young date and Bob went along and played the part of her date. Mom loves to dance so Bob danced with her a lot. I did not know it but he is a great actor. When I got to the party, Bob clued me in on what was happening and since mom was so happy I went along. I had not seen her that happy in years. It was a wonderful experience for her. She said it made her feel young and alive again. At first I was not sure how I felt about what happened but seeing mom so happy took away all my concerns. She had given up so much for me, I was glad to share my boyfriend for one evening. Afterwards when I asked her if she enjoyed her birthday party, she said it was her best birthday party EVER. I think I have the best mom and boyfriend in the world. Please tell me if you think I am thinking straight. |
Posted: 18 Aug 2016 11:57 AM PDT Ok so I'm an 11 year old boy and am very bratty. My mom spoils me like I'm Veruca Salt. Listen, we're not a wealthy family, but we're pretty fortunate. My mom and dad are divorced and once I'm twelve, I'm gonna try to mostly stay with my dad. My mom treats me like a baby because I'm the youngest, and she gets me everything I want. The thing is, I don't want her to but I can't refuse the offer because I love eating sugar. She spoils me by getting me huge birthday parties, getting me every thing I want, spending thousands of dollars on my school clothes, taking me out to eat almost every day, giving me second chances when I do bad stuff, and all that crap. I wish she'd stop! In the public, I'm nice, but at home, I'm a little devil. And by the way, I have severe depression and I am definitely not perfect with my anger issues. I yell at my mom and call my sister and mom idiots. I also threaten their lives and I should be killed. I also hate myself by the way and I wanna shoot myself if I get a gun. My mom rarely takes me to psychology, though. Anyways, my mom spoils me and says she spoils me because she loves me, but she doesn't listen to me when I tell her not to. Please help me! |
Question: Is it wrong for a step parent to want to spend time with just her kids sometimes? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 11:54 AM PDT Their parents have a custody arrangement. I have always done my best at including my husbands 9 year old in family trips, family events, family outings. I've paid for his tickets, plain reservations, etc... However, I have not been able to experience one family vacation or event with just my children. He does not see me as a mom, and I understand, he really doesn't like when his dad forces him to talk to me or hug me. Every family vacation and event, even on our childrens birthday, he steals all the attention because his Dad & family feel closer to him and feel they have to make up for something. I have been a good sport & understanding, but I will be leaving soon to bootcamp for the Navy and want to take my kids on a family vacation before I leave, but only with my children to spend my last times with them before the transition into the military and before I leave for a long period of time for the first time ever. My husband does not understand and it's def. a sensitive topic. I need help explaining better and also need someone else's thoughts. |
Question: I THINK MY MOM BASICALLY DISOWNED ME!!!!? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 11:43 AM PDT Hi, I m 15 and very overweight. I wanna lose it but I just started so it s going to take a while, my mom is always calling me fat and it just gets to me, so I started losing weight but it s very slow not as fast as my mom wants it to be but I m going my own pace. so a couple of days, ago my mom told me I need to cut off my split ends on my hair , she told me she would only cut an inch off my hair ( it s up to my belly button) and she off up until it goes halfway past my face and I look like Dora, so when I got really mad at her she came started yelling at me saying she didn t do anything wrong and it was good what she did, so ignored her for a couple of days now she told me that since ignored her she doesn t care anymore, that it s up to me what ever I do with my life, I could drop out of school, I could be a bum , I could be homeless anything she said she doesn t care and everything that happened is my fault and I don t understand where this all came from all the hatred I feel as if she s always hated me and now she like truly showing me. 😢 |
Question: I want to move out but, I'm too young? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 11:43 AM PDT Hi all, I'm currently 16 living with my parents and 3 siblings. And, to put it lightly I hate my life here. I get on with my siblings, my brother is out most the time so I don't have much of a bond with him but, my mum and dad I simply don't like them. And you might think Im just saying this out of anger. No, everything I say I mean I promise you. My mum and dad had all 4 of us very closely and at a very young age. As a result we have never had any money. We live in a rough area where my siblings fit in but, I just don't want to be a ******* criminal when I get older and I want to get myself away and build a life and family that Im happy to be with. The food we eat is ****, not enough clothes, never do anything fun or even talk to each other, and I'm honestly just sick of it. The amount of ******* times I have told my parents they need to do something such as get a better job, it's one of those things where when, you ask you just KNOW there's not going to be any difference. I think we literally get about 5 pounds more than benefits. Even, if 16 is old enough, there's no jobs here and even if I did find a job I'm only going to be living round here in some shitty flat anyways. There's no family I can go too since they're all low life, drug addicts and all the bs about "School counsellors" and "Therapy" Seriously? When does that ever work? Even if it did my parents just don't listen to an opinion unless it benefits them. I'm just so ******* stuck and need a solution? |
Question: Was this too much to say? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 11:39 AM PDT My older cousin keeps trying to get me to rekindle with my family (who btw are terrible people) This was my response. Of course of course. 💕 I don't think I can ever put into words the way they made me feel my whole life but I've realized that it's better this way. The three of us just DO NOT get along. I understand they gave birth to me but that doesn't mean mean those people will truly love you and respect you or even like you as a person. I realized no matter what I do will ever make them treat me like a human being. My father is the biggest scumbag I've ever met. He is the reason For all the negative feelings I have. The fact my mother did NOTHING to protect me from his abuse just speaks volumes. It's just better for my sanity to cut them both. You know what my dad said the same week grandma died. He said guess what? I'm a ******* millionaire now. That was the most disgusting thing I ever heard in my life. I'm ok without mending the relationship in fact I'm looking forward to his death because then maybe I can try to begin a relationship with my mom. |
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Question: Should I let my brother borrow my car, even though he slapped me? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 11:25 AM PDT He needs to use my car because my mother is going somewhere today and I need to go to work. He has to travel to buy something from a craigslist seller. He slapped me today and I'm so mad at him. He was going to take my car and drop me off to work, then go buy something and come back for me. Should I just take my car so that he can't buy what he wants since he slapped me or not? |
Question: How should I go about telling my mom that I can't get a job right now? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 11:24 AM PDT I'm a junior in college with two majors, a minor, an active sorority schedule, and I'm in a club. My classes are already stressful and I just started them yesterday (poli sci is one of my majors). She and my grandma have been bugging me to get a job, but I cannot even fathom the idea of having to go to work for an entire shift when I already have so much on my plate. How would I go about telling her that? I'm afraid she's going to ignore my concerns for my studies being interrupted and just make me feel bad. |
Question: Help me not feel quilty about this PLEASE!!? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 11:22 AM PDT i love my dad sooo much but me and my mom were never able to get along. we have big fights everyday and its just because she enjoys aurguments. anyways i want to leave home (im underage but my friends mom knows the situation and offered me a room at their house) so i will be going there . i feel so guilty because i feel like its punishing my dad. and keep in mind i am a VERY sensitive person, i pity everyone even if theres nothing wrong. old man?? super cute! but i feel bad bc they re gonna die soon. YEP THATS ME! am i overthinking how it will affect my dad ? ALSO how do i stop feeling bad for everyone!!! its really taking a toll on my emotions :( |
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Question: What is Motorola cheese? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 11:09 AM PDT Earlier my grandma bought pizza and she told me it has "Motorola Cheese" what does that mean? It that cheese bad for me? |
Question: What do you do when your dads dying and your work wont let you take time off? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 11:03 AM PDT My dad has liver cancer and theres no treatment at this point. My work gives no sick days and my 5 vacation days that I had were used up to care for my nephew this year in July. My dad lives in Virginia and I live in FL. I am a single mom and work a full time job. I want to go see my dad so bad but my work wont allow time off without risk of being fired. I cant lose my job. But I cant not see my dad..I rarely get to see him. Ive seen him once in the last 3 years and before that it was once in 2 years and then before that it had been 1 time in 5 years..I miss him and I feel so sad and Im hurting for him. I don't know what to do. I feel I have no options. I have to work. Im 25 and have a 4.5 year old son that I care for on my own. I HAVE to work. If it was just me Id quit. Thank you, everyone! I am going to go to that link. I need to see him, I know, but I also have to think of my sons needs and how I don't want him to go without food and a home!! Its a tough decision, I love my dad. I hate that I am put in such a horrible position :( Thanks everyone! |
Question: Was my sister being disrespectful? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 10:56 AM PDT I took a photo of her right after she had her wisdom teeth pulled and the next day she saw it on Instagram and got so mad at me. She is 21 and she calls me a ***** and gives me a lecture on why you shouldn't take pictures of people when they are drugged up, just had surgery, and etc. I just wanted a picture for memories but she doesn't want that. Why can't she just be fun? |
Question: My Mom still hasn't called me.? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 10:51 AM PDT Last night, My Mom called me and invited me for breakfast and that she will call me when she's coming to pick me up. It's 1:48 pm now, and I yet to get a call from her. I'm beginning to have my doubts, but i'm still hanging on. What is she doing that's making her late? |
Question: Getting a transcript? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 10:51 AM PDT So I'm 17, I moved out of my moms house and moved in with my dad. My mom is not calling the school, she's being a total pain in my rear. Can I just call my school and ask for my transcript? I'm tired of her bs |
Posted: 18 Aug 2016 10:36 AM PDT Many people have tell me that you really do not know what will happen in the future. My mother asked me if I want to get married or to become a sister. I said neither, telling her I want to be single. My mom kept telling me that being single is bad. I want to ignore her in talking of the topic. Living in a Catholic home, I was expected to take one of the two choices. |
Question: Little sister sent naked video of me? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 10:28 AM PDT So I was dancing naked in my bedroom not realizing my sister was in the closet recording me. I told her to delete it and she promised she had but later that day I got a text from our cousin saying she had seen the video. I confronted my little sister about it and she said that she only sent it to our cousin and no one else. A week or so later I was picking her up from school and two of her guy friends yelled "ur **** don't look that perky without a bra on slut" to which my sister giggled at. I'm not sure whether or not she sent it to them and I didn't want to ask. I'm so mad at her for lying to me but at the same time she's young and I don't want to be a bad sister. I'm also scared of this hurting my chances of getting into college. She's 13 and I'm 17. |
Question: My mom never understands me and my situations? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 10:28 AM PDT When I tell my mom something, she always gives me wrong advice. For example, I told her a guy I like kept trying to make me jealous. She said, "no, he's not trying to make you jealous. He's trying to tell you to stop bothering him." I know FOR SURE he liked me and was trying to make me jealous. She always thinks something different than what I tell her. What should I do? |
Question: My mum has upset me? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 10:23 AM PDT My mum said because I'm autistic nobody will want to be friends with me is this true? |
Question: What is the best way to insult someone close to you? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 10:15 AM PDT I want to hurt my sister really bad. I hate her guts. I am the older brother. hey thanks Nathaniel. She is hideous i know thanks kim i will try that ill call her fat which she really is and she has an ugly nose as well HA HA HA! |
Posted: 18 Aug 2016 10:10 AM PDT I have been married to my husband for 8 years. Me and his mom dont get along. My husbands brother just got married. He married someone out of the country and me and her talked a lot over fb before she got here but now that shes been here a few months she doesn t talk to me anymore and when i email her it takes her days to respond and then she says shes been too lazy to respond. I dont buy it. I think my mother n law has been talking bad about me. She lives across the street from her so they see each other all the time. I really dont know what to do because even though my mother n law has done things to hurt me i would never talk bad about her to another family member behind her back and ruin her rep. My mother n law is a gossiper too. She talked about everyone to us so im sure she talks about me. I have no idea how to handle this situation. Any ideas? |
Question: My dad is a problem? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 09:49 AM PDT My dads hates me he seems to care more about my accomplishments then me as a person and he wants to know where I am 24/7. And when I go for practice he wants the persons name and number of who picked me up. I can't talk to my dad about this because he's to stern to talk to and I can't have a regular conversation with him. What should I do ? |
Question: How can I tell my mom I want to move in with my dad? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 09:25 AM PDT I've been thinking about this for a few months and I don't want to live with my mom anymore. She is an alcoholic and she smokes and that's where most of the money goes. Her mother has tried to help her by taking her to meetings,etc but she doesn't want to quit. She has a problem and doesn't realize it. She won't let me hang out with my 2 friends because one of them she says she doesn't like and doesn't want me at their house, and the other one's parents didn't like me because of something stupid and my mom doesn't want me going over there either. I'm 14 now and thinking when I'm 15 I could move in with my dad because I think that's when the child of 2 parents can choose which parent they can live with. I'm not sure how to go about this, I'm about to start school and everything's all paid for so I'm thinking I could just go through this for 1 more year and then move in with my dad or just move now. I don't know what to do, and I don't want that money to go to waste. Please help! I feel like I have to do everything in the house. I mean sure my mom cooks and makes the money, but I have to clean and organize the house cause she won't do it and I have to help her with EVERYTHING. She says she needs help all the time. I mean she's 36 and needs help with taking a shower and getting ready for the day? She won't let me sleep over at friends house's because she can't wake up and needs me to be there. When she's drunk she'll get into a mood and it's usually when I need to go to bed and she won't let me go to bed. One time I completely ignored her and it got really bad. She came into my room and screamed at me (it was like 2am and I had to go to school the next day) and slammed my door open and ripped the blankets off of me and told me to get up. I remember I only got like 4 hours of sleep that day. Sorry about so many updates, my dad lives in a different city but it's close, it's about 3 hours away. I'm starting to get seriously worried because the other day my mom was driving with me and she was drunk. I know that's bad but it's at the point where it's nothing new. She was swerving a lot and it was bad because it was late at night. I kept having to tell her to wake up since she was falling asleep, I thought if she had crashed or fallen asleep I would have had to handle the wheel. Can that money for school be refunded? I know my mom hadoesn't to pay for a yearbook, photos, and a fee to go to school. But I think she still has to lay for 2 of those things on the 1st day of school. The first day of school is on September 1st. I just asked her and she has to pay for me to go to school and my yearbook. Could I ask my dad now? |
Question: How do I convince my parents to let me join a afterschool club? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 09:15 AM PDT I really want to join a afterschool club for my junior year but my stepmom and dad work at their clinic once they get off work until 9. So what can I do to get transportation from the afterschool club and let my parents let me join afterschool club? P.S the club I'm interested in is the international club, So far I concluded is that all we get to do is read manga,learn international recipes and exchange languages (example: if you know German and someone else wants to learn German then you teach them what you know or something like that). |
Question: Why when a storm, mom says got to get,eggs,bread,milk? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 09:05 AM PDT so can you live off that? or just hoping you have something you can add?? |
Question: My brother beats me? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 08:31 AM PDT My mom and dad sticks up for him saying he is just spanking me and that I caused him to hurt me... The truth is he wants to beat me and I don't do anything for him to hit me... I usually beg him to stop but he just keeps beating me... Sometimes I feel as if I'm going to die.. I get bruises... I keep crying for somebody to help me and love me but my dad tells me i just need to bolt the door lock... I dont want to live in my room all the time... I want to go to the kitchen and get food without feeling scared I might get attacked.... I scream begging him to stop but he just keeps beating me harder.. I don't know what to do.. My grandma tries to say something but my mom says for her to get out of our business... I cry at night... I can't even function normal in society... I always look timid and scared... Or i want to cry.. I sometimes feel angry when someone tries to interact with me... |
Question: What happens when you go into fostercre ? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 08:27 AM PDT will they prepare he kid and make the move as easy as possible ? or does it happen quick and without notice, dp they go straight into a fosterhome, without knowing were they are going ? |
Question: Should I let my daughter live on her own? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 08:06 AM PDT Long story short, my daughter and her boyfriend have been living with us for the past year or two. She gave us our first and only grandson, who we care about deeply. The problem is that she is irresponsible to no end. She doesn't cook, clean-up after herself, pay bills on time, etc...We know the best move would be tough love and let them learn on their own. But that would also be at the expense of our 3-yr old grandson. We don't want him living in squalor or neglect, which is the fear of every grandparent. What do you suggest? I really appreciated Kit's answer. She wasn't condescending or pretending to know more than what I had submitted. Too many negative comments about the deadbeat boyfriend without a job and so forth. I never said he didn't have a job. I just said they have issues paying on time. Just a responsibility thing on their part. Again, thanks for taking the high road and only commenting on what you know of, and still offering sage advice at the same time. |
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Question: Why does my mother treats me so cold like she hates me? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 07:47 AM PDT |
Question: Was my dad being emotionally abusive? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 07:42 AM PDT My dad has not been very nice verbally to his family many times in his life, (passive aggressive) but specifically whenever my mother gets a medical procedure done (dental, endoscopy for her severe acid reflux) he is especially unpleasant. I don't know why and I can't understand his behavior. Yesterday, my mother had her yearly endoscopy... they give her mild anesthesia, & she always feels a little nauseous for the rest of the day because of it. She mentions ONCE she feels a little sick, and he begins to grumble in that all too familiar surly tone - "well why don't you do something about it, call the doctor." But he doesn't stop there - he continues repeating himself, berating her for feeling bad. At some point, she tells him to stop because he's not being very nice, and he scoffs (normal for him when he's being called out). I tell him to be nicer to her as well... and he says "Oh, you guys are ganging up on me!" and then... he started chuckling. He gets up and starts walking away. I asked him if he thought this was funny, and he suddenly turns around and YELLS: "I NEVER SAID IT WAS FUNNY! FOR HEAVEN'S SAKE, "KAREN"!" Then he storms off, paces and then comes back and acts like nothing happened. He has done this before. Is he being emotionally abusive? I feel so confused because I'm finally realizing his behavior isn't normal. He explodes over trivial things like water being spilled, denies shouting and says things like"well you shouldn't have spilled water then." |
Posted: 18 Aug 2016 07:38 AM PDT Hi. Im 16 and in 2 months I'll be 17 i live in texas also. And well this morning me and my step-dad got into a huge blow out because i drove to the gas station without permission and left a 10 year old here alone with a 5 and 6 year old. (He does it for a full day when i work when i did it for 3 minutes) anyways he got in my face and tried slapping me because i had an attitude but i blocked it. But it wouldn't be the first time he has hit me as in when i was 14 he whooped me so hard i had several bruises on my butt. And well this morning he threatened to whoop me with a belt and i said "no you will not" and he chased md to my room and i tried closing it and locking it but he pushed me up againt the wall with the door. What are my options i want to move out at least by march which means I'll be 17 for a while then since i turn 17 in october. But im not sure what my options are is he allowed to hit me even at this age? Please help. |
Question: Is this considered child abuse? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 07:34 AM PDT Sorry this may be a little long. My brother who is 15, was messing around with my ps3 and I was so upset with him. I came downstairs and started to beat up my brother and and my parents ran downstairs and my mom yelled at me because she favors my brother. My dad was complaining to me that it wasn't ruined and I was so upset, I I beat him up. Since I'm really strong, I hurt them pretty badly. My dad hit me and threw me across the room. I'm 13 female by the way. Is it child abuse if you start the fight first like explained above? Please do not leave troll answers that aren't worth my time. This is serious. |
Question: Should my 18 year old sister pay rent to our single mom? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 07:23 AM PDT Dad has not ever been around. Hes abusive and alcoholic. My mom is working and taking care of my baby brother and sister. My other sister is 18 and a half. She pays for her phone car and insurence. She also just started college so some may say she should not have to pay rent. But here is the thing, my mom is struggling to take care of our family. She asked my sister to pay 150$ a month and mu sister flat out told her no that she would not pay anything. My sister has a full time job.. She also does not pay for collag. She gets a refund for the books she buys. So i thought this was pretty selfish of my sister. My mom is thinking of give her a month to get out if she wont help out. |
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Question: How crazy am I for still wanting to be with? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 07:20 AM PDT We started dating 6 months ago & he made me feel as if he wanted to explore a relationship. I found out that he was seeing someone else that was also dating a good friend of mine. He told me that they were done & that he wasn't going to see her anymore. She only stays 5 blocks from me & I saw his car parked outside one morning. He had a bday party a few weeks ago & told me that I was his date for the night. She was there, saw us together and created a big scene. She even threw a drink at him. When he spent the night early around 6 am I saw that she was calling his phone. He was still sleep so I went through his phone and read the texts back and fourth between them. Then I text her & told her that he was at my house with me. I also read text to another woman that he appears to be chasing & telling her that he's in love with her and he could see himself with her but she said she just wants to be friends. When he awoke, I didn't tell him I'd gone through the phone. He found out later from the woman I text. He kept asking me why would I do that. Why after we had such a good date night and sex, why would I ruin it by going through his phone. I told him that I was jealous when I saw she called. Now he won't answer or return my calls. Am I crazy to still want to be with him? |
Question: Help: how can I be more tolerable toward stupid fat people? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 06:36 AM PDT My husbands brother is nothing like him. He's overweight uneducated(by choice) 30 lives at home plays video games all day and stuffs his face with whole frozen pizzas everyday. He also goes through a 2 liter of soda everyday!! I try to offer him water but he says "no thank you, I don't drink water" YOU DONT DRINK WATER?!?! What is wrong with you?? I have to deal with him forever so how can I be more tolerant of this slob? |
Question: How can I convince my parents to let me stay home with another relative? Please help? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 06:19 AM PDT I don't feel good and can't go on vacation to Manistee. My nose is running, and I am still coughing. I know that I can't go on vacation when I am sick because if I go on vacation when I am sick, I would give everybody else germs, and I don't want that. I have convinced one of my parents that, but they said that I will be fine even though my nose is running, and I am still coughing. I really want to stay at home with my grandma, and the only reasons why I want to stay at home with my grandma are because I am sick and can't go because my nose is still running, and I am still coughing still. How can I convince my parents to let me stay home with another relative? Can you help? Thanks. |
Posted: 18 Aug 2016 06:15 AM PDT When I was five years old i was molested by my step-brother who was sixteen at the time. i was so young back then, that I didn't even know what was going on. Thankfully nothing more than touching happened. I was ten when I found out what really happened, and now I'm sixteen. And to be honest, I don't feel anything, just numbness. Like I don't know how to react, is this normal? Or am I broken? |
Question: Will i grow taller than my brother? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 06:03 AM PDT I m 11 years old girl, i grew 3-4 inches since start of summer and i m now 5 7. My older brother is 20 and 5 7 tall. He doesn t know how tall i am yet since he s on a trip and won t be back untill 3rd of september. Will i get taller before he comes back? Could i grow to 5 8 or even 5 9? I want to tell him welcome back "little" brother, and have him look up at me |
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Question: Cps help for Indiana? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 04:32 AM PDT My mother went to jail cps came after my 17 year old sister to take her away. So why sister ran. She is ten months away from turning 18. Can she hide out until she's 18? |
Question: Did I deserve to be grounded for failing Psychology? Posted: 18 Aug 2016 04:19 AM PDT I got my AS-Level (the first of 2 years in A-Levels) results today. My grades are: Media - B English - B Sociology - C Psychology - U When I told my parents my grades, they didn't even focus on my passing grades. All they cared about was my U grade - the lowest grade any A-Level student can get. When they found out, they were furious. They accused me of not studying hard enough, but all I did throughout the year was study hard for all 4 subjects. They called me a failure and that I should be ashamed of myself. I have to retake the entire first year of Psychology because of it. They then grounded me for the rest of the summer holidays. They see me as a failure. Did I deserve to be grounded? |
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