I added my friend and he said "what do you want? Are you stupid? Leave me alone! " then he blocked me when i didnt reply. What does this mean and what do i do?

So... where to start? I am a 20 years old student with an absolutely lovely boyfriend of almost a year. I tend to be quite confident as I look pretty decent, have a nice personality and sometimes do modeling. BUT I have a HUGE achilles heel - I really feel like trash compared to blonde, blue eyed girls. I have chestnut brown hair and hazel eyes. I do love my hair color and eyes but I can't shake the feeling that blondes are more attractive. Anyhow, where the pain really is located is that my boyfriend only follows blonde girls on instagram. I would say it says a lot about his taste in women and to a start I didn't bother but then I noticed how he couldn't resist but looking at blonde girls passing in public. I am NOT saying he's prohibited to look but it's the mere feeling of not being what he prefers that is hurting. But I am actually his first ever girlfriend and he chose a brunette before a blonde so that is quite reassuring. Still, I can't get over this matter. Please, help me :(! /hugs

My ex boyfriend is thinking about giving me a second chance. He wants to see that I have matured, and that I have gotten rid of my immature habits. We have been going to church, working out, and trying to better our lives.

My friend live in a different country and I wanna get her something for her birthday and I was debating if I should get her a bff keychain,ring,necklace,or bracelet. I have no idea and is if a good idea or is it cheesy? Idk I never got her anything before for birthday so sorta new to this hehe :) any tips on what to get her? And any bff jewelry or..? Appreciate it!:D

I texted my manager yesterday letting him I couldn't find anyone to cover my shift and he said he would look at the schedule today and get back to me, but he hasn't at all yet, and I'm starting to wonder if it was even a good idea to ask him... but do you think he forgot? And should I text him and ask if he's had time to look at it? I also find it a bit rude because I feel like he had one small thing to do and he could've easy gotten back to me in the morning so idk...

Me and my bf been together for a year. I just got an oppurtunity for a free scholarships to college but I would have to live in a different state. What would you do? Would you take the scholarship, move, and visit the bf in the summer. Or stay and try to save up for college on your own

Do the kids have to clean?

but instead he decided to go to hospital to see how his wife was doing after car accident.

I am in a rut. I am one semester away from being done with my associates degree in liberal arts (at a 2 year school), so I have to transfer to a four year college. I have two baby girls and am married, so uprooting my family is going to be difficult. The thing I am scared of is committing to a major that I am not so sure about. (When you transfer to a four year from an Associates degree, you are required to choose a major.) The only thing I know is that I LOVE to write. I write everyday for hours on end (when the babies are asleep. Ha!). I am almost done with my first novel, and am planning to self publish, so I know I have self-discipline. But let's be honest - there's no money in it,and I have a family to support. So, I was thinking becoming a real estate agent. What do you think? - I love being self-employed and I have a great work ethic, and very good discipline. - I would love to have an office from home because I am a stay at home mom. - I love helping people find things. I have searched for homes for family members and friends. I even drive them around and show them the outside of the house(yes I know I am a dork). I love studying the ins and outs of of home-buying, and learning about the styles of homes, pricepoints...etc. I always have since I was a kid. - I don't think I would be good at networking with individuals and selling my 'brand' but I do love marketing and advertising (but I have never gone to school for it.)

so my parents are really strict towards me having a boyfriend , yesterday was the birthday of our friend's and me and my bestfriend were there, my boyfriend called to see me so i did. Today my bestfriend came to my house and was talking infront of my mom about the bd. Then she told me aw you missed the dance you weren't there. Like a ******* stupid **** , mom was like why where were you and i was speechless. Then my friend said oh she went out to bring tissues and mom knew there was something wrong. My friend has a little girl and she was there in the birthday I'm afraid that my mom would ask her something and she's as honest as her mom she talks a lot. Don't consider me telling mom the truth because my parents are strict.

I live in Iran. What should I do? I am 28 yr old boy. I like to devote my time learning: IT (I am a good software developer), religion (Torah & Quran), Hebrew tongue & Story writing for film & story book. In Iran, being poor, what can I do? Thanks!

We started dating 6 months ago & he made me feel as if he wanted to explore a relationship. I found out that he was seeing someone else that was also dating a good friend of mine. He told me that they were done & that he wasn't going to see her anymore. She only stays 5 blocks from me & I saw his car parked outside one morning. He had a bday party a few weeks ago & told me that I was his date for the night. She was there, saw us together and created a big scene. She even threw a drink at him. When he spent the night early around 6 am I saw that she was calling his phone. He was still sleep so I went through his phone and read the texts back and fourth between them. Then I text her & told her that he was at my house with me. I also read text to another woman that he appears to be chasing & telling her that he's in love with her and he could see himself with her but she said she just wants to be friends. When he awoke, I didn't tell him I'd gone through the phone. He found out later from the woman I text. He kept asking me why would I do that. Why after we had such a good date night and sex, why would I ruin it by going through his phone. I told him that I was jealous when I saw she called. Now he won't answer or return my calls. Am I crazy to still want to be with him?

This guy At work he has a GF but long distance and although he says she Is a good choice for him he seems sometimes to act like he's settling with Her but anyways that's his call. We work together and sometimes ppl tend to get attaches by The daily routine so if he flirts and likes to be around me I don't Want to see more into it. But last weekend We were in a gathering and a guy approach me to talk. Everyone was drinking and he was At The other side of The cocktail table talking with other girls when all of a sudden he yeld my name so for me to see him and I remember I gave him a look like wtf? And he just kept looking At me and suddenly reacted embarrased Saying he was sorry to interrupted us...unfortunately, The guy I was talking to went Away, don't know what he thought about that. What do you think? Was he acting out of jealousy?

I have been working at my new job for 5 months now. I tend to stay out of gossip, but if I do gossip, I try to never say anything badly about anyone. I remain as neutral as possible. The other day my manager was talking about my boss's husband. She said that the boss's husband treats her inferiorly and talks down to her. I told her that he shouldn't treat her like that and the only reason he feels superior is because he inherited his money (which is true). Anyways I trust my manager and for the most part she seems honest. Also, she starts these convos and talks the most about the boss so if anything, she can't say something if she were smart. Regardless, do you think my comment was bad in any way if by some small chance my boss hears about it? Thanks.

I got into it with a young woman last night at a bar because after a few drinks she told me that she was and had been openly engaging with a married man for the past few years. He's a few years older than her and she met him when she began college a few years ago. She's now 20 and he's 47. Well, she seems to think that she's better than him because she keeps telling him that he should be a better example to his daughter. He attends church and everything. He's openly cheating on his wife with here but she is the better person because her dad is a better example of a man than this guy. She said that her dad wouldn't marry a woman only to cheat on her. Ok, stop me if I'm wrong but aren't you the very one running around with said married man? How are you gonna throw him under the bus? She said she'll call him for rides, food, money and occasionally she'll have sex with him but she thinks he's a bad person for stepping out on his wife. Does she have the right to be throwing shade on him when she's openly involved with him. She said she enjoys the sex they have but he'd not be a person she'd seriously want to date. Oh, and here's the kicker she said before I left. She said she doesn't want to have sex with him anymore but if he was willing to pay her then they can. And again I say, she has the right to talk about him?

I'm 20 years old, brown skin, curly hair. I look like a younger version of Beyonce. I'm studying nursing. My dream is to become a nurse that will help and take care of people. I live in a small town. I have a part time job, but I have to pay rent, books, public transport and school, hence why I am broke and can't afford to travel and live the life I want. I want to marry a guy that is nice, respectable, intelligent, mature and is willing to provide for me. Where can I find him ? I'm tired of this lifestyle. I just want someone to help me out.

I've been seeing this woman for a few months now. She has caught me with another woman over the other womans house. She has stalked out this other womans house and claims she knows every time that I've been with her. However, I've continued to see her. This morning she went through my phone and text the other woman pretending to be me. She told the other woman that I was there with her. She even called her and told her that I was there with her while I was in the shower. I asked her why would she do that and she said she was tired of my lying to her. I never told her that I was exclusive with her. I told her that she was crazy and I didn't want to see her anymore and she said good then we're done and hung up on me. Then she text me to apologize for going through my phone and said she was crazy for trying to accept a situation that she knew wasn't right for her and for me to take care. Isn't this woman crazy and I was right to leave her alone

So I have been close with this guy for 6 months, but we live quite far away. We visit each other every few weeks, and we have never spoken about our relationship status. I have personally avoided it although I have wanted to ask him, but something told me to not ask, as some guys may feel pressured and may drive him away. Anyways a few weeks ago we went on a proper holiday together and had a lot of fun, neither of us had ever spent that much time with someone on a holiday before. We went back to our separate cities, and around 2 weeks after that, I came across his facebook post, saying that hes having so much fun with *this girl* tonight. I was quite stunned, as I know that he once kissed this girl when he was drunk at a party (we are quite honest with each other during the holiday, but also expressed how we dont like it when the other is seeing other people). He is the type of person who never really posts anything like that on facebook, mostly just articles and interesting things like that. Knowing him, I immediately knew that that's not him who posted the facebook status. The next day I casually asked him about it, jokingly, might I say. He laughed and said that's not him who posted it, and that I should know that he never posts anything on facebook anyway. I continued to ask and he did not answer my question, and changed the subject. Obviously I dont have the right to be jealous, but I cant help but feel that I deserve some form of explanation. Help? I know, that's why Im asking for opinion, thank you. Sorry my title is wrong, not a boyfriend. What I also meant was she posted on his facebook as him, not like posting on another person's wall. I thought it is normal for me to wonder about it cause he also says he doesnt like if I see other people. I know it may seem like I am paranoid, but this guy already asks if I want to move closer to where he lives. So I do think of it quite seriously. He is 29, and I am 25. he lives in a different state, 3 hours away, I guess I'll try to put this out of my mind at least until he visits next, which is next week. Thanks everyone!

Another girl sent my boyfriend a message saying "come and f**k me" he said "no" and then she sent him 2 inappropiate pictures of herself, he hasnt deleted them but hes seen them. Me and my boyfriend are planning to get married next year and im 6 months pregnant with his child. What shall i do ?

I got married to my best friend he was the love of my life, he has mental illness but when his medication was changed he became manic and then abusive (which I put up with for 2 years) I put up with all kinds of abuse I would jump at the toaster even (never done that before) he never went out when we moved I did everything for him In February I left him, I have not lived on my own since I was 18 I am 31 now. I was abused from 8 years old in ways you couldn't imagine by my mum so through my life I was abused I often feel I should go back because abuse is all I have ever known I escaped but it's become the norm for me how do I stay away I don't have any contact with him but I feel guilt marriage is for life and I couldn't take it anymore and left him.

I'm an adult sharing an apartment with a parent.I have a son who's father does not help me take care of.We are separated.This parent tries everything in her power to make me miserable and I've come to the point of hating them.This environment is very toxic.This person makes my life harder than what it should be by unfairly degrading ,criticizing and pushing my buttons.I go to work, feed my child ..and although I don't make much money, I don't sit home all day.Its tough getting a better job that will allow me to be afford to be on my own.Any advice?? I feel like I'm losing my mind and soul.Something is seriously wrong with this lady.What should I do when she crosses the line ? She intentionally pushes my buttons.

Its been two or so weeks now. I went no contact after he to;d me he cheated and I broke up with him. I have not cried yet, and I don't know if I even want to. But I have been binging on sugary food and that has been making me feel physically sub-par. I also don't know how to stop being addicted to eating this bad food. I guess it's my way of coping with the sad fact I ut my complete trust in a guy who was immature, lied about his commitment and care for me, and went and cheated on me behind my back meanwhile said loving words to my face... I gave him everything, every part of me. And there he was, being a fake and only showing the parts he wanted me to see.

So guys I am a 19 year old male and it seems like I am addicted to naked women. I can't stop jerking to beautiful women, even when I saw my female friend in a towel I went to jerk off. What's wrong with me ??

This guy was my friend (kinda had a crush on him), he fell in love with my best friend but they soon broke up (in like a month). After few years, we briefly dated and again nothing happened and soon parted our ways. Both of us got married(around in the same year) to different people, and after 2 years into both of our marriages we again came into contact. Due to old time complications, some emotions were still there but I was in a happy marriage, but he wasn't. He said he wouldn't leave his wife but wants to have a secret affair with me, which I turned it down for obvious reasons. No this guy, through me wants to reach out my best friend (his breif ex girlfriend) again for the same reasons. What do you think about him, just wanna hear it from other people for my satisfaction. (I was not a saint i agree, but still) What do you think about this guy?

We met through friends at a cabin weekend in the mountains. We had chemistry and a great connection pretty much right away. A ton in common. He did not bring his gf on the trip because she was working. He seemed to be very intrigued by me. I got this one look from him I can't get off my mind. He looked directly into my eyes and smiled. He was attentive too. Fast forward a month and we are on another trip with friends. Again his gf does not come. He and I end up sharing a bedroom together, separate beds obviously. We stayed up from 2:45-4:15 in the morning talking in the dark. What are the chances he is into me? I have fallen for him but am keeping my distance because he has a gf.

I was in the principals office and she was talking to a girl about 12 and the girl told her he said he ran this school and the principal said "who?" and the girl said real loud "HIM" and the principal said "no um I ran this school" so the principal continued talking to her and she interrupted and said "well then you need to talk to him" and the principal laughed and said right I do need to talk to him" and the girl was looking like she did not believe her

I'm not quite sure if it has anything to do with music itself, but this is what I've noticed: When I'm very much "in the zone" when listening to music, anyone that comes into my room extremely irritates me. I forgot to mention that my irritation occurs while I'm listening to music. Without it, I might be somewhat annoyed but with it, it gets much worse.

Bueno lo que pasa es que tengo mi novio y me molesta que siga manteniendo contacto con su ex y mas porque ella le habla de amor y el no le dice nada o le pone un alto ya que su novia soy yo Y si a el le doy a entender que Me molesta que ella le hable de esa manera el se medio molesta y se enoja conmigo y los mas raro cada que esa mujer aparece me ignora y me responde los mensajes horas después aun que el este conectado y siempre es cuando ella esta conectada y según cuando me responde me pone el pretexto que su cel esta mal que la señal le falla o que se fue la luz osea como le va a fallar si esta conectado y porque solo es cuando esa mujer aparece :'( y se pone frío y cortante conmigo :'( y me ignora si lenhablo con cariño me evade y si le público en su muro hace lo mismo :'( ya no se que hacer y según el odia a esa mujer y que la quiere ver muerta osea según tanto odio hacia ella porque no la saca de su vida

Im crying in bed balling so hard rn and im so unhappy. Today was the first day of my junior year in high school, so i guess it streessing me out a little more too? But i alwayss always feel so weak and broken and tired . I always think about what it would be like ifbi ended my life but i know thag i dont want to , i want sonthing where im actually happy

We have been Close our whole lives and i never thought much about it until a few months ago and now we text all the time and sometimes the conversations are not appropriate and were even talking about having sex. is that weird? he s 19 and I m 18 I also think we are developing like real feelings for each other too

When ever im at school i keep hearing voices telling me bad things and telling me to hurt my friends im realling trying not to listen to them but i dont know how long until i snap, what do i do

The other day my friend & I were walking to class & I saw the girl I like there & I was looking her but then I just looked away. But then later we pass by again at the hallway & i turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend. Then later when she came to class I was looking at her & she caught me looking so I just looked away. Then when she went over to talk to her teacher & I was looking at her but she was looking straight ahead & then I stopped looking. Then later when i turn around I saw her at the back of the class & she was looking at me but then later she left class early?

Hola, soy mujer de 14 años. Resumire mi historia: entre a una nueva secundaria este año y todo iba bien, la verdad hice varias amigas y alguna que otra enemiga, no se porque nunca me he podido juntar o llevar bien con los niños, nunca se me acercan o me hablan y no se porque, no soy fea ni hermosa soy normal como casi todas las chicas de mi salón. El problema empezó cuando me lleve con este niño pongámosle "Migue." Él era dulce conmigo, incluso me dijo una vez que yo era una de las chicas más bonitas del salón, todos sabían que nos gustábamos... Un día se enojo conmigo por algo que todavía no sé; entonces Migue y sus amigos (TODOS los niños del salón) se empezaron a burlar de mi por todo. TODO. Por la manera en la que corro, camino, hablo, mi pelo, mi nariz, incluso me pusieron un apodo horrible que me da vergüenza decir. También me molestaron por whatsapp y él mismo me ha dicho "Solo me tienes envidia por que a todos los niños del salón les das risa y se burlan de ti" ya le dije a la directora y hablaron seriamente con nosotros, el se disculpó conmigo y parecía sincero, hemos hablado por msg de texto últimamente pero no es como antes. La verdad es que toda mi vida en la secundaria está arruinanda, no tengo amigos hombres, a todos les doy asco o risa, ni si quiera al niño gordito le caigo bien y eso que no tiene amigos. Tengo dos mejores amigas que me han apoyado muchísimo pero la verdad es que todos los días lloro cuando llego a mi casa. Qué hago?

I thought him to play racquetball and we had a blast. That was 6 months ago. Yesterday, I saw him again, said Hi and he asked if I wanted to play. I said yes and we had a great time. I realize that I have to be careful because I'm crushing on this guy. He is very sweet and it helps that he looks good. I would love to play with him again but I know I shouldn't. My loyalty is with my husband who I adore so much. But I'm thinking about this guy and what we shared. Will this pass? He has a girlfriend.

My husband and I have been together 15 years and married 12. He's bisexual. Last night while we were watching a movie, he started crying. He admitted 10 years ago he cheated. The night in question I thought something had happened, but couldn't put my finger on it. He said had sex with a guy that night. He swears up and down he regretted it and has never done it since. I'm heartbroken. Wehad a great marraige up until last night. This is the ultimate betrayal. I hurt so much now. He did this while we were married :/ I feel like like my life is hopeless now, I'm very depressed. I can't even stand to say he cheated :/

A mom allows a man whom she's in a relationship for over three years to financially help out and help emotionally support and raise her kids (they are not his kids). When the relationship ends (on good terms) she completely shuts that man out of her kids lives completely even though he helped raise them for 3 years and their bio did did nothing. She still invites their bio dad to their birthday parties and school events but not him. And she wonders why the guy wouldn't commit his life to her and sacrifice Everything in his life to help continue to help her raise her kids because she shut him out the second he spoke up about it she cut him out of her and her kids lives completely. Is this hypocritical of her?

He stares a lot and told me he likes me personally and my personality. What does liking someone personally mean?

This is gonna be a really annoying rant so I'm sorry in advance lol... I'm 18 and a girl I live with my mom and I've been poor all my life but we were much worse off when I was younger. I've been working since I turned 16 which is the minimum age you have to be to work where I live and I have two jobs and my mom has two as well...you would think That would make us ok financially but all of my money my mom takes all of my money to pay bills and go to the store and stuff..she always says she'll pay me back but she never has before but I don't want to make her feel bad because it's not her fault so I just say ok...Even birthday money I've gotten from relatives has to go to her ever since I was little but again I know it's not her fault and she works so hard. I literally have no friends and am lonely all the time because I switched to cyber school after freshman year because I was getting bullied badly which isn't uncommon at that school. I never have or do anything anything fun ever not that anyone cares and if this is how my life is going to be forever then I'd rather just be dead honesty but yeah sorry for the rant and how this is written I swear I'm not illiterate lol

If i didnt black out, just got really drunk and my memory is foggy, would i remember kissing someone?

Me and my bf are really close and we help each other through struggles and stresses. But our sexual comparability stinks. He is not the most attractive guy. Is overweight. He gets off and he has his fun. But the sex we have is very boring. I want someone to throw me around every once in a while. Nothing slutty. Just some fun every now and again. I am young and want to experience fun but he is very much done with the socializing and partying aspect of his life. Not interested in hanging with friends. Always have to hang with him and it gets boring from time to time. Because its just always us. I just wish he was more active and silly. I love him a lot but I can't feel that bond with him because we don't have good sex. What do I do? Omg

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but I cant afford it ( rent, school, public transport etc etc ). Most girls my age and in their early 20s travel.. I work a lot already, but I live paycheck from paycheck. How can I afford to travel often?

My brother is an alcoholic, and his long time girlfriend was also one. They both drank around 24 beers a day each. Oh God, I was just trying to help, but I didn't have all the facts, he could have died too from what I did. I didn't know. They'd both been drinking like this for over 6 years. So around 4 years ago I staged an intervention for both of them and confronted them to stop drinking. I was very harsh, but I did it to help them. And they agreed to stop drinking. I told them I would come by every day to try to help with cravings. 3 days after they stopped drinking something horrible happened. Miranda had a seizure, a very bad one and ended up dying on the way to the hospital. The doctors said it was because of something called "alcohol withdrawal syndrome" which means that people that have been drinking extreme amounts for a long time are dependent on alcohol and their bodies can react badly if it is taken away. It seems that the proper way to get someone like them to stop drinking is in a hospital. I didn't know any of this. My brother apart from shaking didnt have any extreme symptoms. But oh lord when they told him the terrible news in the hospital, he had to be restrained because he tried to attack me, and yelled at me that I killed her. Then he left and we didn't see him for hours until one of his friends called me & told me he was at his house and very drunk. I didnt know. Now my brother wont speak to me & is now drinking liquor. How can I get him to forgive me

So there's this guy in my summer prep class and I think I have a crush on him. We haven't talked until 2 weeks ago and we became friends (well at least to me), but he recently transferred to a different class and now we don't talk as much. We don't go to the same school, but we live in the same area and we might see each other during school games. How do I get closer to him (as a friend)? Any other advice that you can give?? I just don't want an awkward situation to arise