okay, so I'm going into 10th grade this year and I really want to make more friends. even more than that- I want to hang out with them outside of school. there are some of my friends that I occasionally talk to at school, but I REALLY want to hang out with them like FR. i just don't think they're interested in my friendship? i don't know, I think it's mainly because they have their own social circle and whatnot. I like to think I'm a good friend, I'm trustworthy and I can be fun to hang out with.

So my friends mom found out I smoked weed. She texted me confronting me about it. She accused me of driving high with them in the car. I had smoked, but I wasn t high anymore when I drove. I don t know if shes going to tell my parents, but I m super freaked. The thing is though, shes caught her son and his friends smoking, and didn t tell their parents. She also smokes occasionally... I just don t know what to do or expect.

So we've known each other for 4 years and the last couple of years we've gotten closer than ever. I am a year and a half older so I already graduated HS (she's a senior). We are together almost every day...literally, and I go to her house often just to hang out. We go out shopping together, we go out to eat, Watch movies, basic stuff like that. Her family knows me well and they invite me to a lot of family trips and vacations. When we talk sometimes she brings up her best friend which is some classmate she doesn't really hang out with except during school. How am I not qualified to be her bf? 😂 I'm just curious what people think, I asked her once and she said "idk it's different with you, maybe cause you're old" like wtf 😂😂 I just want to know what you guys think. Thanks!

do you think what she did was bad? she feels horrible

i've always been shy when it comes to meeting new people ever since when I first moved to a new place I had no friends and no one liked me. I'm scared of being that loser again. It took me a couple years to get good friends and to get well known around my school. And if I move again i'll just have to repeat everything I went through. The thing is, I want to move and leave but going to a new school is the only thing holding me back

Okay, I know this is stupid. So my best friend recently got into snapchat. Now I'm not one that's really into the nowadays things. I'm just not really interested in it. But I would have thought she would ask my to join so she could talk to me on it? I know it's a stupid thing to worry about. But she hasn't been talking to me. If you look at my other asked questions, you'll see what I mean. But the thing is, her and my family are basically family. It's just her I'm having problems with. And I want to sort it out. But she's making it extremely difficult. But whatever, I don't even know anything she would be mad at me for. But she hasn't been talking to me. And again she hasn't asked me to join snapchat. What should I do? Especially since she's going to college in a few months, I would think it would be easier to squeeze a snap in here and there.

For starters I am a Senior in HS now. Thank God. I'm one of nicest laid back person at that school. That's also cause I'm a stoner. But anyways, I'm in a class with mostly sophomores, not including the 2 juniors in there. So this one kid in front of me who's a sophomore, can smell my scent. Cause, everything I own smells like pot, which I don't care. But anyway, he always complains and says 'what smells like ***?' There's been times where me and the two juniors in that class are talking and he turns around telling us to shut the hell up cause we're being too loud. But if you think we're being annoying, turn the fk around and ignore us. I hate being anywhere near them, cause I've had some majorly dicky freshman stand up to me, some cursing at me. Some throwing trash at my face. And I mean I'm not defending the upperclassmen, cause there is some ***** that are juniors or seniors. Mostly the athletes. But anyways I'm tired of being told that I smell like sh't or told where I'm allowed to sit by them. I'm tired of other girls that are freshman or sophomores giving me dirty looks. When I'm not doing anything to them. But sophomores and freshman are constantly acting like they are so damn cool cause they're in HS. Cause, for one freshman just got here 3 damn days ago, and sophomores are only in their second year. I just wanna know why they are such jerks. Like I said I'm nice to everyone at that school who's nice to me. .

maybe I'm totally overthinking this, but please help out. Okay, so my friend A, got her phone taken away by her parents because she was texting her boyfriend too much. And when our mutual friend, B and I was chatting, the topic of talking to boys and getting phone confiscated pop up. And B was telling me how her friends was talking to too many guys and got her phone taken away, and I told her how when A was younger, it happened to her too. And because I didn't feel quite right to talk about A's life, I didn't tell B that A actually got her phone taken away again. And so after a while, when B said she's going to call A, I told her that A said her phone is mostly with her dad, but I didn't tell her that it was actually confiscated. But now I'm thinking, if they do talk later, and B will certainly ask A about her phone, like why was it with her dad or why wasn't she picking up, and then A will tell B that it was confiscated because of her boyfriend blah blah blah. Then wouldn't B think that I'm lying to her? Like we were on the topic but I didn't tell her about A at all. And how do I explain myself?

Sadly I don't have an excuse as to why. At the time I was a lil scared to tell her I was moving in with an ex friend. (An ex friend im pretty sure she doesn't like) also maybe a lil bit of I didnt want her to tell her brother. (My other cousin who I despise). But ultimately feel those are just excuses now that I have already moved because I had ample time and plenty of opportunity. She also has never done anything to hurt me also another reason why it seems unfair I didn't tell her. And sadly I just kept putting out off till it was too late. All these are excuses and now I just want to know if I should reach out and apologize to her. She unfriended me on fb as well as my mom and brother. Should I apologize? Or is that just gonna piss her off more or should I just leave it alone like I've been doing.

I am 21 and I will be graduating college in the spring. I have not made any close friends in the past 3 years and I will most likely not make any this upcoming year. I plan on moving back to my hometown to work but I only have one close friend here who I rarely see. My parents are moving to Mexico once my father retires. I have a feeling that I will be a loner my whole life.

I was best friends with a girl for a really long time. And we agreed to never let a guy come between us. However that happened when she broke up with a guy she had been talking and later suggested I ask him out bc he and I were good friends. I was hesitant and asked her numerous times if she was sure she was okay with it. She insisted she was. I hit it off with the guy and then she claimed I was an awful friend and stopped being friends with me. I told her I would break up with him if it meant I'd lose her and she made the decision for me and dropped me. That was about 6 months ago. I still miss having her as my best friend and I would do nearly anything to win her back. We haven't spoken in the past 6 months besides my begging for forgiveness a couple times and her eventually granting it and her saying she was over it. I miss her like crazy. We were so close and I feel like absolute **** that our friendship ended. I still want to be her friend but I'm not sure where to start. I'd do nearly anything. I'm still with the guy and I love him dearly and he also feels awful that our friendship ended because of him and he was hesitant to even talk to me because he talked to my friend first. I really miss her and I want to be friends again. What should I do? Do you have any suggestions for how to start talking again and how to get her to hangout with me or at least talk to me in a friendish way again? I have genuinely apologized and I want to show her that I really care about her.

It bothers him she doesnt talk to me she completely ignores me basically. He feel like trash bcuz of it.She did give him the peace sign when he was walking by but other than that she doesn't say or do anything. When he went to bring her some boxes for work she smiled at at him he said it was weird. She told him to put them wherever so he did be he said she seemed to be nervous or something like she was polishing glasses and when he came in she covered the rack of glasses with a cloth she had in her hand but had a smile the whole time.He thinks about it constantly it bothers him not talking to her Im a guy and Not dating

We got into an argument a year ago because I thought he was beating around the bush and not admitting his feelings(he has a gf) because he'd make excuses to talk to me and caught him staring etc. he denied and said he didn't and he was happy with his gf( he also had mentioned going out to eat together). It ended badly with me blocking him on fb after that we've seen eachother and he's glanced and smiled at me. He also goes to his grandmas apts a lot( same as mine) yesterday I sent him an empty email and he texted me 10 min later saying hey I got an email from you with no subject did you need something?. The. We talked like nothing happened. He never deleted my number and he's changed his phone to an iPhone and still had my phone number.

EVERYONE my age and in my grade is in love with "modern" trends like makeup, clothes, SOCIAL MEDIA (just don't understand how it's interesting). I tend to overly OBSESS with the universe and space, basically anything geeky. I love questioning everything (which my older sister hates me for). And the thing is, in school or when I'm with my friends I can't help but feel a bit left out or out of place. When I try to talk to my friends about how mysterious the cosmos are or what not, they just laugh it off and change subject. I really don't know what to do! Should I just keep it all to myself or find something that is in my interests?? All answers appreciated!!

So I was friends with this girl all through middle school. And we were like best friends. Pretty much I found out how fake she was, that everyone associated myself with her. She was always in alot of drama, and I was always brought in. Not because I wanted to be but I thought I was helping my friend. Well little by little ppl started to hate me. They thought I was always like that, which I am not. I'm not blaming this friend for everything but she was a source of it. Anyways, we had chorus for each year. And it was an all girls chorus. Most of them did not like me. Some I had problems with and they were the type of ppl to bring OTHERS in that were not involved. And convince them to not like me cuz they didn't. They're the type of girls who would talk **** but never say it to my face. That they thought they knew me solemnly through these rumors they would hear from their friends. I admit I ****** up in the past, I get that. I'm not completely innocent. But I would usually say something if they said **** to me, which made things worse. But yeah most of the class hated me and also my "friend". I forgot to mention the girls in that class were the "popular" type so they hated my whole friend group.

So one of my friends confessed to me that one of my friends made this horrible fake Instagram of me that bullied me and harassed me like a while back. I just need to track the IP address to make sure she's being completely truthful to me because she was a part of it so I don't trust her completely. So if anybody can help me that would be great. I'm not going to do anything stupid. I'm just going to cut my so called friend out of my life.

The twin sis is upset because I said I wanted to hang with her sister but not her, what should I say to her? I do wanna hang with her as well but if I tell her that she won't believe me bc I wrote her sister a paragraph of me missing her but not her, what do I do

I'm going to make a CD for my best friend birthday, and i want new songs for friendship and that i will always be there for her

So I've been talking to this guy online he's a med student at my college he has asked me many times if he could see me in person but whenever I wanted to meet him something would come up. The problem is that he takes longggg time to replay i mean I've sent him a message in Monday and still hasn't replayed (is med student always like this lol) anyway this Sunday is the last day of this semester and I really wanna see him so should I text him if we could meet up this Sunday (although he hasn't replayed to the last massage)??

soo Ive had this Friends Diana for about 2 years, we were friends but one day she got distant because I liked her and didn't want to lead me on. but recently I was kinda sad because we didn't talk much But she told me to text her whenever I want and that she doesn't feel annoyed by me..and we even hungout lastweek. but deep down im scared to bother her and im also scared that she will drift apart again. Any advice please

I do not have anyone to talk to about sex with even guys. I really want a friend who talk to about sex and boys. I cant seem to get friends who are girls and the guys in not comfortable talking about sex with. so you have a friend like that? how do I find people to talk to about this? no body has been friends with me long enough for me to feel comfortable bringing it up.

I live in a 8 square mile town in northern New Jersey and that is where I attended and graduated high school. I graduated this June (I'm 18) and right now it is summer. My town is mainly Italian and it is a little diverse (my town is not racist at all) and we are actually considered the 3rd most Italian town in America. I hated high school so much and majority of the people in my town, because my neighborhood is a very cliquey Italian neighborhood and even all the people in my parents' generation that grew up in my town are cliquey. This is all too much to describe, so I'll describe high school in a broad summary: Everybody was nice to me in 8th grade and all of the sudden everybody treated me like crap in the beginning of freshman year. Then at the second half of freshman year, I made fake friends and found out they were fake at my sophomore year. I joined band my sophomore year and stayed for the next 3 years and the band is the cliquiest group in my school. And the thing that sucks about my life is that only my mom, my cousin from California, and my grandmother from California are the only people that feel bad for me but my brother does not give a s-h-i-t and he keeps criticizing and telling me to make friends. But how the f-u-c-k am i supposed to make friends during the summer when i am not in college yet? And my mom, who has OCD, was acting crazy this week, because she was yelling at my brother for not inviting me with his friends. I used to hangout with his friends as fake friends, but now he doesn't invite me anymore. My mom is criticizing me because he doesn't bring me along anymore. And my mom is telling me how everyone else has friends, but me and she is expecting me to have my brother's friends as my real friends. I'm going crazy please help me... She is also criticizing me that I am home all the time and that my brother is always coming home late except for me My mom is acting nuts although my college starts in September which is soon. So I had this park in mind in a town next to my town (the town next to mine is not cliquey and it is a big town). It is not a skate park, but my cousin's brother from California was able to get 30 friends in their skate park. I think I might have a skating interest too but I don't have a skateboard. I was thinking of going to the park to jog/walk for fun and meeting people my age by saying hi or something, or go watch a sport and socialize with the people watching it. What should i do?

So my childhood best friend and hang out a lot together but recently, I've felt like I've been drifting away from him. He always brags and makes me seem bad in most things that I do. Here is an example: I was singing a song (just for fun) and he began to comment how my singing sucks. I don't care if my singing sucks (eventhough I've been singing since 4 years and my friends and teacher tell me I'm a great singer), but he then says that he's much better at it. (I've NEVER heard him sing.) Also, He constantly blasts his music really loudly and I put on my music on my phone. (I listen to Japanese songs and he listens to general pop in English.) Even if I don't like his music, I've never said anything rude about it but he always says how my music is rubbing and how his music tastes are supperior. I then told him that everyone has their own tastes but he just replied by saying that his music taste is so much better. Once, I told him: then how come there are so many people at my favourite singers' concerts? He rudely responded: Because they are as shitty as you. Finally, he was with his other school friend and just pretty much ignored and neglected me throughout the whole time I was at his house. :( Now I don't know what to do. And these were only a few examples, there are many many more times that he brags and makes me feel sad. What should I do? Please help. (I am 16 and he is 15 by the way.) thank you for reading

Corey and me have been really good friends for about 5 years, but I don't know what has been happening over the last couple of months. We used to talk all the time, and just be ourselves, but now it seems we get more and more angry and irritable towards each other each time we talk. Nearly every conversation we have ends with one of us getting mad and leaving the chat, or one of us always has an excuse as to why we can't come over. I don't know, I can just feel us growing apart, it feels terrible. I have always been a clingy person, maybe it's me. I have been through more and more **** over the years I knew Corey, he has always been there for me to support me, and I did the same for him, and recently, he hasn't been there for me. My dad and stepmom divorced late last year, and my mom and step dad are getting a divorce soon, I have been so depressed lately, and nobody is there for me. I don't know what to do. Maybe Corey is just tired of all the **** that comes along with being close to me. I'm sorry for the long post, I just don't know who to talk to.

Something Cheapish for: A boy Thanks in advance

so i have this friend and we're always getting into fights because we have different views on things. most of the time it's because i don't like taylor swift (i know how silly that sounds) and she loves her. i never bring it up unless she asks about it, and every time she brings it up she gets mad at me and ignores me. what do i do? i want to continue being friends but i can't if she's going to constantly start fights with me because of something so silly. she's always starting fights over silly things that don't even matter and i'm tired of it. i've told her many times that it's my opinion and she should respect it but time after time we're getting into fights and almost every single time it's about the same thing.

Cuz I'm kinda awkward I need your opinion in this. So I'm a college student, I'm supposed to move into a house that's close to my college by next semester. I was talking business **** with the landlord through emails and he offered to pick me up from the airport next week. I said yaah thank you...etc He didn't reply was he offering me a pick up yet he's not willing to do it just because of his kindness and I were supposed to tell him that I'm good? Or am I fine and just overthinking it??

My high school buddy Jimmy invited me to come to house and hang out. At his house he introduced me to his mom. WOW, was she beautiful. The fact the she was showing a lot and I mean a LOT of cleavage probably had an influence on my thinking. As she was serving me food for dinner, her boobs were 6 inches away from my face. I got a b0ner and almost come in my pants. I finally got control of my feelings and thought what a pervert I was for thinking of Jimmy's mom as sex object instead of Jimmy's mother. She was a very nice person. After we had talked for a while, I ask her if she had been a model. She said she was a lingerie model until she got pregnant with Jimmy. That was the end of her modeling career. She ask if I would like to see some of her pictures when she was a model. I told her YES. Some of her pictures were her in a VERY skimpy lingerie. I almost got a b0ner again. I am ashamed of myself for the way I reacted but my weenee must have a mind of it's own. Did I have an normal reaction for a teenage guy? It was really embarrassing.

I am going to 9th grade (sophomore, cause in Canada the schools often put younger kids in high school. I started high school in 8th but some put kids in high school in 7th grade). Popularity is a big deal in elementary and high school. Some students would do anything to be popular out there and sometimes they even take risks like sneaking out at night. Back in elementary school in 7th grade kids would even bring others down for popularity but I hear adults say that popularity doesn't matter in college, seniors don't bully the first year students and it's not like high school.

I was complimenting my guy friend about his shirt and he covers himself up and acts weird and goes "no you don't" and I was like yes I do and then he goes " no you don't" and then starts smiling and so I smile back and he goes " I don't even know why I'm smiling, it's not like I like you or anything [ or it went like ' I don't like you or anything'] and I'm wondering if there is anything going on because he knows I like him.

Im 14 (boy) and I havent had close friends in a long time. So about 1-2 months ago I started going to a youth group. The first time I went I met someone super nice(Hes 14 and lets call him Rob) Rob was the only person I met and he made me feel comfortable cause since then no one has talked to me. He is popular around the church too. He asked if I was coming back the next week and I said yes but I ended up not having a ride. We then went to camp and I saw him there but I was too nervous to talk to him and I never had time. He was also in a group full of popular and not shy people(im shy) so he was busy. The next week Youth was canceled and I was sad because I wanted to talk to him again. The next time I went he was with his camp group and I felt nervous to talk to him. I saw him last Wednesday and he gave a nice testimony and was in a group again. I wanted a reason for him to notice me. I saw him hanging with someone from my old school so I walked up to the guy and before I asked him a fake question he tapped Rob and Rob looked at me with a normal face and I quickly said "oh hi" to Rob and then walked away fast when I got the answer and I heared Rob say "who is that kid" or something How can I befriend Rob?

My friends, shes a girl, gets drunk basically every weekend. Her and her friends go to parties and she is always calling me after asking for a ride home. Her friends sometimes get drunk but not nearly as much as her. I always have to pick her up and take care of her, help her in the house and all that. In the morning she pretends like nothing ever happened. Im worried about her drinking all the time

I'm going to a new school this year. Anyone got any tips for making new friends?

My roommate has a new bf. I have not liked this guy since the first day we both met him. She s so stupid he s been staying nights here SINCE THAT DAY. I told her I don t like him and don t wanna be uncomfortable in home so they should date other places or go to his home. He lives with mom (we are 29-33) so she doesn t go there much. Now he s here all. The. Time. He only buys beer that he drinks. Otherwise he contributes nothing. She uses my car (hers is broken for now) to take him to and from here because he won t get on public transport or pay for a ride. Now my car... my comfort... my home... my friendship is all going to ****. I hate this guy. She s stupid for guys clearly. But when it directly affects me I m at my limit. I m ready to kick her out but she s my best friend. What should I do?

I transferred to a new district and I have no friends and I eat lunch by myself and I miss my friends at my old school I'm crying like every day and it's hard being somewhere by myself with anyone else

i had a ex friend we fought and we broke up shortly before high school graduation she got angry and started treating me badly and started telling other people she wasnt my friend i havent heard from her in six weeks i havent seen her nor has she texted me has she stopped is it time to let go and move on?

Also, is it weird to tag six people?

My so called "best friends" are having a sleepover tonight and never invited me, even though i asked them if they wanted to do something today. They both never answered. I feel really angry and upset because we used to do everything together but now they kinda do stuff on there own. One of them ce back from their holiday about a week ago and said we should have a sleepover together, all of us. But she s only got my other friend round. I don t get it. I ended up going out with my other friends and one of them doesnt like my other friends or me being with them yet she excluded me from their fun? I feel I m drifting apart because she s going to a different school now but she says she still wants me around all the time. Help me?

Sometimes, I wish I had a counselling or psychology degree. I really want to be a good friend. Sometimes, my friends talk to me about things that make them sad, and I really appreciate that they do. And I try really hard to make them feel better and help them. I've read about "active listening", and I think I know enough about active listening, but the problem arises when it's time for me to give advice. I don't want to say anything which might hurt them. I want to tell them things that would actually make them feel better. How do I do this though? I really wanna show my friends that I love them.

My friends decided to film a prank on me last night where they gave me sleeping pills and were messing with me while I was unconscious. When I woke up I immediately knew something happened bc my clothes were off, i was covered in marker, I felt sick, i didnt remember being tired and I had a really bad headache, so I asked them what happned and then they eventually showed me the video. The dtails r in another question (https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20160812065509AAd4SYd) Sinc then I've ben feeling really lightheaded/dizzy and feeling heart palptations or something. .The headache never went away and I feel drowsy again and my hands wont stop shaking. I 'm assuming it has sumthing to do with the pills. Is there anything i can to from home like a remedy to stop the symptonms??

Ok so i just turned 14 this year and i wanted to get my learners permit so i could start driving. But most people at school were failing on thier test. I passed mine on the first try due to studiying but everyone was making rude comments as if they were jelous of my success. WHY??

We got into an argument a year ago because I thought he was beating around the bush and not admitting his feelings(he has a gf) because he'd make excuses to talk to me and caught him staring etc. he denied and said he didn't and he was happy with his gf( he also had mentioned going out to eat together). It ended badly with me blocking him on fb after that we've seen eachother and he's glanced and smiled at me. He also goes to his grandmas apts a lot( same as mine) yesterday I sent him an empty email and he texted me 10 min later saying hey I got an email from you with no subject did you need something?. The. We talked like nothing happened. He never deleted my number and he's changed his phone to an iPhone and still had my phone number.

Me and a friend just made plans however I think if we invite someone else it could be more fun. What's a polite way to suggest inviting someone else along?

Just wondering cause I put Bengay on my face and the first minute was terrible I thought I was gonna die

I am going to NYC this fall for a girls trip with my mom and her friends and some of their daughters. One of the daughters is 18 and went to my high school (I'm 21) we used to hangout when we were younger and I used to give her my old clothes. I only follow 26 people and have 26 followers.. I don't follow anyone from my high school since I'm not friends with them.. she follows 600 people and has 750 followers.. will she think I'm a loser? she's kind of popular, played alot of sports and graduated 10th in her class.

Ok so I have this friend who gets mad at me when I don't wanna go to a restaurant or something in the same town I went to high school in. I don't like going places in that town because I don't want to run into somebody I know. I'd rather go somewhere else where I possibly don't know the people. And almost every time I go somewhere in that town I see or bump into someone I know. If I can avoid them I will. I don't wanna talk to anybody from high school or see them. Am I wrong for that. She just asked me to go to Chili's with her and at first I said yes but when I found out it was there I was like no. She gets and I stand firm saying no I'm not going to that Chili's but I'll go to another one in the neighboring town or something. Anyway am I wrong for this? Also I have friends that I went to high school with and they feel the same way I do. They don't wanna run into or see people from our high school days. Plus my friend knows that I don't like going places in that town but she does it anyway.

First off, I don't want any answers like "you shouldn't have said that" or "isn't it obvious?", because, 1) what's in the past is in the past, there's nothing you can do to change it, and 2) no, it's not obvious to me. Why else do you think I'm asking? Now I've got that out of the way, here's the story: My best friend and I have been friends for 3 years. He is out of town for the summer and is coming back in 1 week (Eee! I'm so excited!!). He's been gone for about a month, and I miss him so much. Anyway, we've been Skype messaging the duration of his trip, and face calling almost every day. Just yesterday, I went on a date with someone who is very sweet (my ex-boyfriend and I broke up a little more than a month ago because he was cheating on me). I enjoyed the date, but I'm not ready for another relationship yet. I thought the date would help me forget about my ex. So, I couldn't Skype him, and when I got back home and online, I had many messages from him, stuff like: "Where are you? .-." and "Now I am worried. .-.". I forgot to tell him I went on a date before I went (because with the time difference, he was sleeping and I didn't want to wake him up. I told him I went on a date, and he was just like, "Oh." That was 2 days ago, and whenever I try to strike a conversation, he just says, "k" and "yeah". I told him I'm mad he's not talking to me, and he replied, "Why don't you go to your boyfriend to comfort you?" I had made it clear he wasn't my boyfriend. Is he mad at me because I went on a date? Or is he mad at me because I didn't tell him I wouldn't be talking to him 'til late afternoon? Please help.. I don't want to lose my best friend. <3 We do everything together, and I would be heart-broken if he stopped talking to me altogether. Thank you, and sorry about the long story (I want to know exact answers.).

I have known this girl since the summer going into our freshman year of high school, and now we're all getting ready for our first year of college. We never went to the same high school, so we didn't see each other every day, but texted regularly and saw each other every month or two. I used to look up to her, but the older we got the more i realized she was immature and put me in situations I was uncomfortable in. She invited herself over to my house constantly and would always be late for plans we made-often making scenes in public (yelling at people in movie theaters..). About a month ago I said I thought we were growing apart and she told me she was so upset she wanted to kill herself. I immediately felt guilty and agreed to "take a break" from our friendship for a while when she asked me. She recently invited me to the movies to hang out and I agreed (because I'm such a people pleaser ugh), but I made a last minute excuse and then blocked her number. I know it was immature and hurtful to her, but I just didn't know what else to do. Should I feel guilty about not wanting to be friends anymore...? Did I do something wrong?

It's been a month and a bit into Summer holidays and I've done nothing but sit in the house. My grandma died last year and I had a lot of backlash with my exes. I feel like I'm wasting the summer but don't want to do anything. I have many friends and even a best friend but I'm started to feel like I have no friends. I make arrangement with friends but then cancel and then a few days later feel lonely but I don't want to go anywhere. Also I have GCSE's this year and I was supposed to revise all summer but have barely done anything.... Is this all normal? Who else has stayed in the house during sunny summer?

I just told a guy who has a possessive gf that i have a bf and he made his twitter private and instagram private! Why is he doing this? Hes the one who said he has a gf so why does he mind me having a bf?

So me and my best friend have been friends since 1st grade and now we're going to 8th grade. I feel like me and her have nothing in common anymore. She would take advantage of me especially when she have homework. Every time me and her have the same homewokr she would always text me and ask me for answers and I would ignore her text. She would get mad the next day because I didn't "help" her with homework. She can't even keep secret because she would blab her mouth. One of my friend told me and my best friend that she was suffering from depression and that she self harm. She was getting help from her family, but She told me and my best friend not to tell anyone at school and a week later, that friend got bullied for being a freak since my best friend blab her dam mouth. She talk too much about her crush and she would try to tell me her weird "sex dream" about him. She's that friend that ditch you over when she's dating but run back to you when she's "heartbroken". During the summer, she's been trying to text me while I was on vacation with my family and I've been trying to ignore her. It's been three months and I have been ignoring her, but she had been texting and spamming my phone like every day. So school is starting again and I don't wanna see her. Should I tell her that I don't wanna be friends with her? This one friend told her that they didn't want to be friends with her anymore, and she got kinda sad/mad. Her other friends would then bullied that person.

so my best friend always wants to hang out and when i don't want to she gets really upset and says she thinks shes losing me, and bc her mom left her for her abusive boyfriend she has a hard time getting close to people bc she always thinks they're gonna leave. and when she asked why i never want to hang out i told her i like being alone, i enjoy alone time. and she thought it was some kind of "hint", but it wasn't and i told her that, and now I'm supposed to be going to her house in a few minutes but i don't want to. and i feel bad bc this happens ever time, i tell her i want to come over but then when the time comes i don't want to. and i feel like a horrible person bc of it and idk what to do!! someone help please!!

Her birthday isnt til the end of the month but the only way to really surprise her is to catch her off guard so i was think of doing a mini early surprise. We re going to the dollar theatre to see captain America civil war, shes a huge iron man fan and still hasnt seen it because she was deployed when it came out. But what are some ideas for surprising her at the movies that are cute and little?

I was at my friends house and I was on the couch next to a friend and sometimes my wallet falls in the couch. So I noticed I didn't have my wallet when I had it on me when I walked in my friends house when I was only there for 10 minutes. I searched the entire room and it wasn't there. Then my friend left and 2 other friends were in his car later and they told me they saw just my license and debit card. So I texted my friend and he said he found the stuff In the back seat and I asked where's the wallet and he said he didn't know. I knew he was telling bs and I had like 80 bucks In there. I think he stole it but he won't admit it.