He has not taken a shower in almost a month. He smells like butt and mildew. He is unemployed because of this reason. And our cats and two dogs are scared of him because of the smell. I can't take it any more.

I had a heart attack 9 years ago. The medications I'm taking takes my sex drive away. Also I'm 66 years old and have a problem with dryness that makes sex very painful. I've explained this to my husband but instead of understanding and trying to help fix my problem he is leaving me for lack of sex and he's been sleeping with someone else. His vow of "through sickness and health" was a lie.

We ve been married a little over two years. It turns out that she has been getting to a co workers apartment after work, instead of coming straight home. It started when I was out of town for a business trip. She would tell me she was home but she was at his place. There were a couple of times she spent seven hours there, while I was away. I only discovered this because I felt something was off and she wasn t being herself. So I reviewed her location history on Google. Then confronted her about it. She says there was no sex involved. But I find that almost impossible to believe. She says she was just excited to make a friend at her new job.

I'm home watching the kids and it's ok, but going that far away and not telling me in the beginning I'm a little mad. Am I making this a big deal?

i just got married about a month ago. my wife who i think is pretty amazing, badass and cool has slept with 5x the people i have. she has told me (without being prompted) about her ugly sexual history. i'm a conservative guy who has only slept with women from actual relationships other than a couple quick college hookups. i asked her earlier if she's ever done anything crazy, orgies, 3 ways, etc. she denied until tonight (on our honeymoon, of all times in a game of never have i ever)... freaked out, i feel played. met her online, she dated tons online but she was my first and only online date (success story, i know except i was excited for lots of interesting dates..,). she's a doctor, everyone thinks i've hit gold but it's not all how it seems. i like her but seriously, how am i to react? i may not have a job after taking 40 days off work for this wedding/honeymoon.. i dont want to talk to anyone we know about this because it would be awkward... i dont even know what i'm asking except please help. im blessed, nobody in my close family has been divorced and obviously i dont see that as an option and i know it eould be dumb reason at the moment but seriously whats the responsible thing to do for both of us? also annoying shes an ob/gyn that does abortions, installs contraception but insists theres no correlation between the two and promiscuity yet shes been on it since 15 and slept with 3x the ppl than my last two girlfriends combined.. like i said, help?

Like those men who step out on their wives...

I am a woman..what do i say without sounding annoying. Also what would my husband want me to do or say? I literally don't even know anymore. -__- Do i have to constantly make noise (is it annoying ) or should it just be every now and then... im scared he secretly wants to tell me to shut-up lol

What are the sweetest things you wish your husband told you I know after a while of being with the same person **** gets old and I'm talking to this girl who's been with a guy for years but she's lacking the affection she needs.

My husband and I just got married two months ago. He is significantly older than I am - 18 years to be exact - and I am 28, and far less experienced. I am so happy with him and so comfortable.. but I still find it so awkward and embarrassing when I accidentally...well...release some air during sex. I know it's natural and it just happens sometimes (thankfully not often!) but it totally kills the mood for me. He'll laugh a little and say "it's okay, don't worry" and brush it off but I can't get my momentum back after it happens. He's very mature about it and never brings it up even just as a lighthearted joke so I guess it's really not a big deal to him? But how is it not a turn off? I'm not referring to a fart by the way (LOL!) but some release from the front... with an awkward squeak sound. Ugh!

He is delaying. I just donot want to remain without him. Waited for him at least 4 years

She also says everytime I touch her she thinks I'm trying to get some. We finally talked about it and old her I miss the connection. However I've never bothered her or shamed her for not wanting it. Not sure how I can help her thru this.

Is it considered disloyal if your spouse defends his or her ex despite evidence that they are not a good person and have done some really sketchy and creepy things and when you bring it up they call you judgmental for raising concern about their ex?

Say there ex did some really creepy things and you told them about it but they stood up for them anyways is this cause for concern?

I'm going away on business & I fly out Monday. I come back the following Sunday. It's bothering me that I won't be able to have sex with my wife for an entire week!!! Has anyone gone a week with no sex from your wife? I'll be by myself on this business trip.

My husband and I stay in USA.My husband is a miser even though he has lots of properties and savings.He is not willing to even pay for my education.He even counts on every penny spent on my education and scolds me.Had fights and quarrels everyday regarding this.I do not spend money on shopping or food.All I want is education.Was I wrong?.Is it not the duty of a husband to spend for his wife? I want to study hard and earn a job here.I have been dependent till this time and I am hating this every moment. I cannot even go back to India as my parents are also not willing to pay for me.I have no way left. I want to earn a job very soon so that I do not hurt others.Please suggest me soon.

I only go to the gym because she is running. I just can't believe she wants to argue about this. Is this a problem in anyone else relationship? How do u deal with it?

He doesnt talk to anyone else in the world. literally. on the occassion he may talk to a few other people in his "team speak" program, which is for gamers to converse while they play. my husband talks to his one friend every single day, for hours at a time. he doesnt even talk to me that long, not nearly as much. is this normal behavior? or is this a red flag he may "like" his friend? I can't tell. i thought gamers usually talked to a lot of people on a consistent basis while they play, not just one dude. my husband claims "all the other people are dumb" so thats why he doesnt converse with others... excuse or what?

My wife of 12 years is all upset because I haven't done anything for anniversaries or birthdays. This past anniversary, she complained that I didn't propose to her (which I didn't, but I didn't really know I was supposed to), didn't give her an engagement ring, didn't take her on a honeymoon and didn't do anything for any of our anniversaries, including the "milestones" so far (1st, 5th, 10th) or for her 30th birthday. Well, she's crying about it again because two of her friends had 10th anniversaries this weekend and their husbands took them to Cancun and Italy, respectively. I think anniversaries are just as ridiculous as engagements and honeymoons and I really don't understand why she's so upset about it! A few years ago, I decided to try to pacify her by buying her an "engagement ring" (I think around January, a few months before our 6th anniversary). It was a decent-looking ring and I spent a good couple hundred dollars on it. It broke the first time she wore it (the stone came loose; it's a fault with the setting and can't be fixed, and I'll be damned if I'm spending money on another piece of jewelry. It's just jewelry!!) I'm not trying to be deliberately obtuse here, but I really cannot understand why she gets so upset about these things. I am at a loss! There is no way in the fiery reaches of hades that I would even consider spending thousands of dollars on a trip for her and besides, we have kids - who would watch them?! Does she sound ridiculous to everyone else? I will say that she does do nice stuff for me on anniversaries (one year she gave me a nice pool table, another year she gave me a trip for me and a buddy to go to a NASCAR race in another state, complete with great hotel suite, rental car, front row tickets to the race and a new iPod with all of my favorite tunes for the road loaded on it. Last year she gave me a gift each day for 12 days (one for each year we've been married, she's done this a few other anniversaries as well) continued below. (continued) and on the last day, she gave me a stereo for my truck. She uses her own money for it, so it's not like she's spending my money on gifts so I'm okay with it and she seems to enjoy it. Another factor in defense of my position here is that I only have a two weeks of vacation time each year and I need to use that for deer hunting. That's something that I've done every year since I've been 12 (I'm 36) and I can't give that up.

Just saw my husband's birth cert, and he is not the sign he told me. His real sign and mine are not compatible at all. Also, this explains to me why I have been so unhappy recently in our relationship. I am considering leaving him, (I know it sounds extreme) but astrology is very important to me and he knew that yet lied. I feel if he is willing to lie about this what else don't I know? I have taken the children and gone to stay with my sister's till I decide what to do. He is a wonderful father and a provides for the family very well. But he is also Virgo and ascendent Leo and I have been warned many times about the dangers of this sign combo. Just want to do the right thing for my children. Also, if there were a divorce would this be considered legal grounds? Thanks.

My dad just filed for divorce and completely blindsided my mom. How much does a divorce typically cost? Does he mostly pay for it since he filed first? She doesn't have enough money for a divorce right now. No children under 18 so she can't file for child support They don't have any property together both rent different apartments, cars in their own names, separate bank accounts,etc

i am planning on divorcing my husband. we currently share a car but, according to the car title, he is the only legal owner. what can i do to make sure that i get the car in the divorce? should we file for joint ownership of the car? ps- my husband does not know that i am planning on leaving him. and we will get a second car before i do leave him.

its always me initiating things. he works 8-10 hours a day (he's a welder) so he's often tired or says its too late but we are both young and newly married.. its always last on the list it seems but yet he has time to be on his phone or for us to go hangout with other people and do stuff. we love each other to pieces so no problem there but we're lacking that intimacy.. i tend to his needs but mine only happen when convenient . its always 'tomorrow' that never comes. i have talked to him about it but theres been no changes..

I am 25 and it time get marry. I am Bangladeshi girl and there is this Pakistani brother age 26 I want marry. He want marry me too. We are both Muslims. However both my parents said that I can't marry him because he Pakistani. They want me marry a man who Bangladeshi ONLY. They are not interested in me having a husband who not Bangladeshi. I had a talk with them many times and they refuse listen. What are some things I could say to them and Quran verses? Thank You