Family: Question: Younger sister walked in on me while I was in the bathroom?

Question: Younger sister walked in on me while I was in the bathroom?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 02:27 PM PDT

I am a 16 y/o boy and I had just finished talking a shower. I was wiping my body dry with a towel and the lock was broken so I put a piece of paper on the door saying "Don't come in". I was about to put on my underwear when the door swung open and my little sister (12) was standing there. I was shocked and told her to close the door, but I don't know if she was shocked or whatever, but she just freaking stood there and stared at me! I got so shocked that I pushed her really hard and she slammed into the wall and I quickly closed the door. Now, she has a bump where her head hit the wall and I feel so terrible, but why did she open the door when I specifically said not to? We aren't talking and its just super awkward.

Question: Hi guys how do I go about signing myself into my nanas care?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 02:23 PM PDT

Hi Ino he might think I'm some bold spoilt teenager but I'm not I just haven't been getting on with my mother at home for over two years now and when I go and stay with my nana I could often be there for a month during the holidays but when I come home she's always giving out screaming calling me names such as a handicap a retard and a whore.I just want to no do any of ye have advise how my nana can get guardianship of me she's already fostering 3 children atm and she loves when I'm there so shel have no problem with it..And no this isn't because I'm a spoilt teenager that likes going out drinking doing drugs sleeping with guys because I don't do none of that I trys my hardest to be the best child but nothing ever works I'm 16 now just to leave ye no so no negative comments please guys and thanks for any advice given :)

Question: How can I make my sister feel better ?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 02:07 PM PDT

My little sister was watching South Park she used to love it she doesn't like it anymore. She's upset because she saw an episode where a little kid's dad killed his mom after having sex. The kid was standing outside crying and saw the police carrying out his dead mom and they threw a towel over his head so he couldn't see it then he just stood there crying with a towel over his head. She doesn't want me and my wife to have sex she's worried I might kill her or she'll kill me or her ( my sister ). She doesn't know wether to like South Park anymore or not. She also got upset because Butter's dad killed his mom. She thought that was so sad. She loves Butters. She said she wants to sleep with me and my wife tonight. How can I make her feel better ?

Question: Was I wrong for telling my mother this?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 02:03 PM PDT

Basically, she texted me about something and she didn't like my response and called me hostile and said I should get over whatever I feel towards her. (last time I saw her she tried to throw a pot of hot oil on me and throw me down basement stairs - over words, not meant for her, but for my brother, who was disrespecting me, and I was responding to him). I said I am, I just don't want to associate. She says, "you only get one", I said "and that's why I'll be at your funeral". Am I wrong? Her only response to anything is always "you only get one". If I feel disrespected, unsupported or anything, and explain how I feel to her that's what she says. She has been pretty foul to me throughout life and as a young adult trying to establish my life, I decided to not be around no love or support. I separated myself. She called me hateful for this...I responded that I'm not and hateful ppl just interpret things in a hateful way. @Laserdeathcake - I'm grown, I am out of there.

Question: I do everything my brother does. But he gets praised while I get ridiculed?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 01:55 PM PDT

I'm 15 and my brother's 17 almost 18. It's really obvious my brother is my mom's favorite child because he's more "handsome" and likely to become successful while I'm an outcast and hate being in social events. Most of that reason is because of my mom--she believes girls' roles are to stay home, cook, clean, and stay out of a social life. Whenever I talk to someone, she would yell and say to do my summer work (that she assigned to me....I have to do at least 6 hours of work everyday) and I would never go outside. I have severe social anxiety, and I am diagnosed with dysphoria. I recently decided to come out my shell and act like my brother, loud, not afraid to speak his mind, social. The social part is out--I can't go anywhere and whenever I ask my mom, she would make an excuse (it's so hot outside, no you're gonna get raped) and then call my aunts and uncles and tell me what a terrible daughter I am and that I can't cook or clean. I started talking like my brother and she calls me extremely disrespectful. Just right now, I told my mom I need some tissue to clean my foot and she yelled at me and hit me because she wanted me to wash with water only. She's gone into a rampage, and I was so bewildered and I wanted to cry, but I have stopped crying since last week. Before last week, I would cry every, single, day at night nonstop. I don't know what to do.

Question: My grandma has gone missing!! HELP!!!?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 01:26 PM PDT

My grandma that lives with me and my mother was not in the house when we woke up this morning! We have called the police and they say they are not sure how the search is going to turn out. None of our cars were missing so she must be on foot. It is around 10 degrees F here today so is there a possibility she could freeze to death?? Please help!!!!!??

Question: What would you say to a person that did you wrong, then says "you should be over it by now"?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 01:13 PM PDT

A relative who absolutely did you wrong, so you cut them off. Then when you find yourself in a conversation with them (that they initiated) and they are displeased with your tone/answer so they say something like "you should be over your hostility towards me" I understand forgiveness is for me, and have no problem with it. But I'm not a complainer and won't continuously put myself around someone who I can't trust, etc. I just move on, no hostility needed, but I understand how I could come across like that if I just dont' want to talk to a person. What would you say in response to "you should be over it by now"? Ok. This is through text -the person wasn't in my face. They texted me something, then didn't like my response so decided to say that..

Question: What is the best gift a father can give to his daughter on a birthday?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 01:07 PM PDT

She is a teenager.

Question: I spend about 10 hours a day on my computer. I am 15 years old,And i'm currently in a summer holiday.?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 01:03 PM PDT

The problem,That i spend 10 hours on my computer,DAILY. I don't have any excuse for that besides that i'm not subscribed to any summer activity(such as a gym or something)And that i have A LOT of fun on my computer,I play-mostly-games,Check Youtube,Learn new interesting things and facts,But i don't feel good about me doing all of those activities ON my computer,I KNOW IT'S NOT HEALTHY,But i just don't know what to do,going outside is cool,But i don't feel right about just leaving my house for no reason(at least it doesn't feel right to my parents). suggestions are appreciated to things i can do. OH! did i mention that i have a few cool books that i ALWAYS procrastinate about reading them(like,Right now)? I spend 10 hours a day on my computer,Can someone help me get over this? P.S. : I also don't have any trust worthy person(not even my parents are trust worthy for me)and i don't know how to make trust worthy's/bff's

Question: How to apologize for disappointing parents?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 12:58 PM PDT

Hi, so today is the day before my first day of school and my mom got very upset with me just a little while ago. My mom has a friend who is the secretary to the schools and has access to all files and class lists. I (who didn't know my schedule) got into my car today and found that she had learned my teachers names and wanted to know if I wanted to be surprised or if she could tell me. I was nervous because there were a few teachers that I had heard very good things from. This includes the science and language art teachers. So I was specifically hoping for one. Of course when she told me I didn't get those teachers I was a little disappointed. I knew all the teachers were good, but I guess I felt a little upset. I verbalized that to her as "really?" Or "but I wanted the other one." I now see how she took this as a selfish ungrateful comment. And starts yelling at me in the car about how I needed to be more open minded and not so miserable. Miserable making a few points as she went along. I know understand what I did was rude, and I don't know how to apologize. Please help!? I really need my mom's forgiveness and help to prepare for the first day tomorrow!

Question: How to leave without my parents freaking out?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 12:53 PM PDT

Okay, I am 18 years old, me and my fiancee had some problems the other day because we just couldn't come to a small agreement so we took a week off from each other just to cool off he stayed at his friends and i stayed at the house. Well, our trailer is in my parents yard right now temporarily. My mom came to the door earlier and was all in our conversation and just went completely off on him and told him to leave or she was going to bash his head in with a baseball bat because she's tired of him playing head games with me. He's not. I mean we have arguments what couple or even married couple doesn't. My brother and sister in law have arguments they walk off cool off then come right back to each other and that's how we do. My brother has had to leave before because my parents done him the same exact way! I'm thinking I should do the same... Eventually they'll get over it. I'm 18 years old though so it's all up to me not them. Were trying to figure out where we could move our trailer to now and how we're going to move it. But we can't stay here anymore. They won't even allow him back on their property and it's my decision who I want to be with and we've been together this long and I'm not just throwing it away because my parents have a problem. That's ridiculous. Should we move it at night one night when they go to sleep or what should we do?

Question: How do i tell my grandmother I want my room back? Every time she comes over she takes my room, worst thing is she stays for months!?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 12:41 PM PDT

Also it s my mother who offers my room, so I can t talk to her about it. What do? My family would be against her sleeping in the couch although it s quite big.

Question: I want to go live with my dad?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 12:39 PM PDT

The custody agreement is 50/50 mom and dad so half the week with mom other with dad but I'm just really unhappy when I'm with my mom so I want to go live with my dad but te thing is I have 2 dogs at my moms and I love them with all my heart and I don't think I'd be able to leave them. It's the only reason I haven't asked to live wi th my dad. My dad definitely doesn't want a dog and we took care of my dogs for like 3 days and it was fine but he really just doesn't want a dog let alone 2 so my dogs wouldn't be able to live with my dad. The only reason I'm at my mom's is bc of my dogs they make me so happy but when I'm with my mom I'm just really not. Also my dad's house is a lot more stable What should I do?

Question: Can you find me any information about a Mr. W. E. Wood who was a clothier in Flora, Illinois in 1921?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 12:34 PM PDT

Question: Should I try to fix my relationship with my younger siblings?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 12:23 PM PDT

I'm a female in my mid-20's and they are a boy and girl, 12 and 13 years old. Last time I was around, they were quite disrespectful towards me and acted like entitled children. Trust me, without an ounce of contempt, I can honestly tell you it's from being poorly raised. I've had a falling out with my mother and other brother (still lives at home w/ two kids) who is a year younger than me, and I'm not interested in ever being around or talking to them. I feel like I should stay away, because the younger ones still have to be raised by my mother, who has a strong influence over them. I'm 100 percent sure my other brother and mother speaks ill of me to them. Also, my mother is just emotionally immature, she's the type to tell them that I'm just being nice out of spite for her (that's not even who I am as a person). I haven't always had the closest relationship with them, with our age difference and me just working on my life and going away to college and such. Even now my sister ignores my text half the time, and doesn't even bother to save my number. I'm thinking of just waiting until they're older, like 15-16 to try to get involved in their lives. me? I'm the first in my family to go to college. My mother had me young and just never respected me for ME, though she got respect in return. I was never interested in continuing the cycle of poverty, ignorance and struggle - I wanted to break the cycle. There was never support from her, just discouragement and my other brother was just always on the sideline with something hateful and jealous to say about my choices in life. My mother was always to first to brag, though, about the accomplishments she didn't help me achieve. I had to cut them loose for my own growth, I must keep love and positivity around me. Also, not only, should I fix the realtionship? But if so, how?

Question: Am I a terrible parent ?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 12:09 PM PDT

These are my everyday rules 1. You cannot eat what you choose, only I can choose what you eat 2. 15 minutes of educational purposes on the computer on the weekends, no games. 3. You need to pray to God for 10 minutes before eating even if it's a cookie. 4. all A's are required, if you fail any classes you will stand for 3 hours holding 2 bibles. My kids broke the rules and they are crying and throwing a temper tantrum how do I help this How am I a troll?

Question: What is PPS Children Svr?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 12:03 PM PDT

I received a certified mail notice from this place and I have no idea what it is?

Question: Is it rude to be on a cellphone?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 11:54 AM PDT

My dad went to my grandmothers house to fix her tv. She lives right near my boyfriends dads house, so we went with because he was going to give us a ride to his house after. My Dad, my grandma, my boyfriend and I are all sitting in the living room. No convorsation , no one was talking except my dad was talking to the cox cable guy on the phone. My grandmas watching tv, and my boyfriend (who rarely goes on the phone) pulls out our cellphone and starts texting his dad and watched a youtube video. There was no conversation, I was sitting there watching tv as well/ looking over at the video he was watching. My dad got whatever problem there was with the tv fixed and then told my grandma we had to leave. We all got up, my dad , boyfriend, and I , hugged my grandma , my boyfriend told her he loved her and to take care. (My grandma loves my boyfriend and always talks about how nice of a guy he is) Later my grandma calls me telling me my boyfriend is SOOOO rude so so so rude he is rude rude rude! I ask her what do you mean?? She says when theyre all sitting there he just pulls out his little phone and starts going on it and its so rude to do that in front of people. Saying its like he didnt want to be there because he pulled his phone out instead of starting a conversation. I dont think its rude at all. I could tell her "why did you turn on the tv? Its so rude you started just watching tv instead of talking to us" thats the same thing isnt it? None of us were talking no one was

Question: Im just stuck?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 11:46 AM PDT

I've been thinking about killing myself for more years than i can remember. I live a pathetic life. My boyfriend, myself and our 2 kids live with my parents. I hate every minute of it. My mom has her own issues too..she is manipulative and narcissistic (and im not just being mean..shes a bit off her rocker) I was working full time and just when my son was about to start school, my mom said she can no longer watch my kids, so i had to quit cuz idk anyone else in this town. Plus i only got paid $10 an hour, which is what babysitters and daycare charge so id be working JUST to pay the babysitter. My boyfriend works part time 2-9pm and has made no effort to look for something else. Ive explained my feelings to him, but nothing happens. Im just stuck. I have maybe $200 saved and thats it. We live paycheck to paycheck. People on here are usually so mean and tell me what i shouldn't have done and I should just get a job and leave already..but how? I cant leave my kids at home alone. Wtf am i supposed to do? I need advice. I cant figure all of this out on my own. No one has tried to help me even brainstorm an idea. Idk..I just want to be dead anyways. My kids are the only reason im here today. I dont want to abandon them of course, but idk how much longer i wanna deal with the **** my mom puts me through and my boyfriend not doing **** to help me.

Question: How can I comfort my sister ?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 11:35 AM PDT

My sister just found out she's pregnant she can't tell her boyfriend he's never around long enough for her to tell him. Every time she tries to tell him he has to be at school or at work. She's really upset she thinks she'll never get to tell him. He can't stay home long enough he's a really busy guy. Me and him and our friend work together I try to tell him to stay and listen to her but he just walks away from me. I told her she should wait till the weekend to tell him but she said she can't wait that lol she loves him too much. How can I comfort her ?

Question: I hate my family?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 11:14 AM PDT

Im 13 and i hate my family. My dad hits me and calls me names and makes me feel like im not worthy to live in the house or live anyway. My Parents always blame me when things go missing because when i was younger i used to steal my sister's stuff but not anymore. They go to the point of making me cry and locking myself in my room for an hour. My sister hates me aswell and always ignores me. Sometimes i wish that i could kill myself or get away from this family

Question: Is there a reason for my mom to hug her teen son in public?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 11:09 AM PDT

Question: Would a teen boy be close to a step sister? Or would he be close to his sister?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 10:55 AM PDT

Question: Is this rude or am I overreacting?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 10:23 AM PDT

My cousin invited me over to stay with his family in a different country. I was excited and paid $300 for a return ticket to stay with them for two weeks. So far it's been anything but. While I'm grateful they opened their home to me and fed me, I honestly regret coming. They have two little kids, 5 and 3, and they are the most irritating little brats in the world. They yell. They make messes. They refuse to share. The worst part is that their parents (my cousin and his wife) enable all of it. They don't discipline or punish them. They let them have their way. Sometimes they leave me to babysit them (1-2hrs max) and it's a nightmare coz they don't listen to me. And then their idea of "fun" is going to a little kids park and watch them play for hours. They fight with each other way too much too. Both are stubborn, my cousin complains about his wife's tardiness or won't let her do what she likes with her free time, while she is CONSTANTLY defending their children's behavior. Once their daughter climbed up a sign at a zoo and she thought it was cute and not hurting anyone. But her daughter could have easily fallen in the pen or destroyed zoo property. This was not what I thought I signed up for when I came over. I'm losing my mind. Do you think they aren't being very hospitable or am I whining about nothing?

Question: Why is life so cruel? My dad is a zombie?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 10:08 AM PDT

My dad wasn't a bad man I suppose. I know he loved me and my sister. but one day he got knocked out/assaulted when getting off the bus with groceries when I was 5. Thats when he started drinking. He couldnt sleep after that. He said it helped him sleep. We lived in poverty and was never able to get him the proper help he needed. After that he disappeared because he thought he wasnt good enough for us and lived on the streets. He was in and out of our life which made it even harder on us. We moved a lot because of financial reasons. I was always the new kid and always bullied and had no friends. Never got to see my mom because she worked 3 jobs to keep us out of bad neighborhoods. I naturally resented and blamed him for all of it. So much pain. I never got the proper help I needed either. Teachers/consulars tried. but then we would move. I never gave him a chance or tried to love him. All I could see was him not working, not helping us, only drinking. He was nice but he was emotional. Always yelling or crying. but in the moments he was in control he was charming, loving, jolly. Now that im 24 i think maybe if just loved him and tried to help him feel better he wouldnt have given up on life. Now hes in a nursing home at age 54 not living. he just wants people to take care of him and not do anything. his whole life, even today, he always says "im going to get healthy and get a job and be ur father" but never did it. and it feels like its partially my fault. what motivation does he have? i never visit him. he must feel like no one loves him. my mom visits him once a month and brings him smiles and home made peruvian dishes. I dont know how to visit him. he put me through a lot. i was suicidle for many years. i am in a much better place now. but when im near him i get worse again. i send him a guitar once a year because i know music is the only thing that makes him smile. but thats all.. oh well also he had a pretty bad child hood so he had a lot of demons from that as well. he never said anything. thats just what his sister told me. his family doesnt visit him. they arent bad. just living their life. i dont really know them well.

Question: Did Peter Pan lose out on so much?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 10:05 AM PDT

Peter Pan never wanted to grow up and he didnt.

Question: My dad won t let me hang out with one of my best friends before she moves away?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 09:54 AM PDT

I have this really good friend named Stephanie. she has been one of my closest friends for like 4 years, although we have had our rough patches. Recently, my dad caught me smoking pot with her. That night I also broke my foot. he hates her and thinks she s horrible, for ABSOLUTLY no reason. even before we got in trouble, he hated her guts. a couple of weeks ago she found out she was moving. the day after I left to go to California for 2 weeks with my broken foot. today is the only day I can see her before she goes, and my dad refuses to. I can t have a civilized conversation with him about it without him screaming at me about it. One of the reasons he is so mad at me is because the day before I left I was crying and crying and crying and it seemed like I was being ungrateful but really I was just so sad about her leaving. I got back last night and me and my dad had this huge fight in the car because I asked to hang out with her. He has no sympathy towards me and I m just struggling really hard. it is just me, my brother, and him in the household so my dads word is final. I am thinking of disobeying him and just hanging out with her anyway but I don t know... please help me

Question: I hate my life?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 09:39 AM PDT

All of this began when my brother changed my user password ( In my PC ) because he said I deleted his, which I, of course didn t, and he changed my user s password and now I can t enter either users, we eventually got into a fight after me telling him to unlock my user, he didn t and he threw a ton of insults at me before attacking me and attempting to kick my face and my body, my dad came and held him and told me to quickly get out the room ( we don t sit together in the same room ) and after leaving I started crying ( there was no physical pain at all, I always cry at the situations and I never knew why ) and my brother locked the room at himself ASAP, to avoid any yelling from my dad at him, ( he s a feminist, if that changes anything, he s also 15 ) I went to the bathroom to calm myself down and... Everyone was there, my mother, sister, dad, and my sister s friend all saw me crying and I was embarrassed, after calming myself down I m here typing this attempting to seek help and I m still crying. I m sick of this life and the only person I actually love is my dad because he always wants to make me a man but I disappoint him every time because I start crying, I m still crying while typing this and the fact that my mother is looking at me isn t helping either, I love my laptop more than anyone else and... I spend my whole life on it, I can t do anything without it, I m typing this from my phone right now, I have a lot of suicide thoughts going on...

Question: I have to get my tooth pulled now instead of the root canal because I couldn't afford to because I was helping my parents out. I'm upset.?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 09:07 AM PDT

My parents have always been struggling. I'm 20 years old and am interning at a small company and am living home for the year while attending my third year of college..this time online instead of living on campus. My parents needed help financially and I said I could, but I found out I needed a root canal and would cost $1200, which is essentially what I make in a month (a little less actually). Now, because I've waited too long (I found out two weeks ago), I have to get the tooth pulled. I'm so upset and feel so unappreciated and cared about. Please help. For more background, here is my last question about my parents financial issues. https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20160720032719AAwPtfu

Question: How does family contribute to value consenus?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 09:04 AM PDT

Question: How do I convince my grandma to give me her katana?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 08:39 AM PDT

My grandma has a real katana that she got from a Japanese dude when she was working as a flight attendant. She said I could have it when I turned 13, but I'm 15 now and she still hasn't given it to me. How do I convince her to let me have it? I'm totally mature! She's just too lazy to go through with her promises.

Question: I don't know what to do about my friends and family.?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 07:52 AM PDT

I am a very social person and I am very family orientated too. I love spending time at home with my family, but my friends don't understand that. They are not close with their family and just want to get away from them all the time. Im constantly asked if I want to go out, which I don't mind but my weeks are very busy so sometimes I want a relaxed day at home with my family. So this weekend my dad comes home after 2 weeks away. But there are 2 parties, one of which I would maybe have to sleepover somewhere. Then I have sunday afternoon (maybe, my friends want to go out then too) until it's back to school and my dad coming home late and everyone being so tired. It makes me so anxious thinking about it becuase I want to go so I dont miss out on anything with my friends but I dont want my family to feel like I dont care or that Im trying to get away. Im 14 year old girl by the way.

Question: Need Advice?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 07:31 AM PDT

My father is a marine and although I lived with him for 13 years he wasn't very involved. He would work really long hours and would never spend time with us. I cant remember a time where my dad and I spent any quality time together. He would always yell and get mad at us over anything, we weren't even aloud to sit on the couch we had to sit on the floor if we were even aloud out of our rooms. He always liked my younger brother the best. Well I found out probably 8 months ago that he wasn't my real dad. My mom didn't let my real dad see me because he wouldn't stop smoking weed.My real dad now has a son who looks to be maybe 11-13. My real dads mom (my grandma) tried to reach out to my mom about 6 years ago to meet me. I have a baby of my own at 18 which was how old they were when they had me. I am afraid of disappointing more people. Should I meet my real dad? I want to. What if he doesn't want to meet me?

Question: How do I tell my big brother I have been cutting myself?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 07:16 AM PDT

I am a guy and the 2nd youngest in my family and me and my older brother are very close to each other and recently I have been cutting myself. My big brother doesn't live at home with us but we do spend a lot of time together and he is very protective of me and he takes me to his church. The reason why I have been cutting myself is that my younger brother has autsim and he has been having a lot of temper tantrums lately and he has been threatningto hurt me when he gets upset so because of that I am not home the whole day because I wait at least until my mom gets home from work. Only be day I did cut myself and I regret it and I feel my big brother should no, I am just not sure how to tell him.

Question: How can I solve this problem with my niece?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 07:09 AM PDT

I am a 25 year old single guy with a 15 year old niece Jill, my sister's daughter. Jill often comes to my house for help with her homework. If we finish her homework late she spends the night a my house and I take her to school the next morning. She told me she was a nervous wreck from her mom and dad fighting all the time and they were getting a divorce. She wanted to stay with me until the divorce was final. I told her that was OK with me but she needed her parents OK which I thought would NEVER happen. However her parents must have thought it was best for her not to see them fighting all the time and agreed she could stay with me until there divorce was final. I was very surprised by their decision but I think they were thinking of what their fighting was doing to Jill. Jill moved in with me and has been living with me for 3 months. She is a very nice person and is no longer depressed. We have had a lot of fun time together going to school events and sporting events. Jill ask me if I would adopt her so she could stay with me permanently. I told her that I doubt if her parents would let that happen. I don't know if you can adopt someone that has living parents. Does anyone know if that can be done? Is there a better solution than adopting her? Could she just live with me if her parents are OK with it?

Question: If siblings brothers and sisters have same mother what does that make them step, half or full blooded siblings?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 06:33 AM PDT

Question: Was my mom right in being angry and treating me this way?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 06:12 AM PDT

So I'm 16 and I came home because I was sick, there was no way I could follow up or do stuff in the class so I went home. I get home and she starts talking about how I can't get much absence, then I tell her that there was no way I could stay in the class, then when i go to my room and she keeps jammering about "dont get too much absence" i shut the door and she just rages and say i'm being a bad "kid" (funny as im 2 year away from moving out because she's being a dumb *****, no i dont call her that or treat her disrespectuflly), then later on my aunt asks me for the third time whats with my nose afte ri answered, she did so while i was walkign up the stairs, it was hard for me to answer because i was very sick and my mom comes up and shes angry because i didnt answer, i tell her she needs to stop behaving like such a strange person and understand that i was sick, so i shut the door in her face becasue she kept talking and she just rages how im a bad kid. she's acting like a ***** and she is very unsupportive, this isnt good parenting. answers?

Question: My mum I think as learning difficulties she is 68 .?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 05:49 AM PDT

My mum I think as learning difficulties she is 68 . Growing up my mum was never home she was always out we weren't looked after at all . Only last few years I have spent more time with her I have seen this. She gets excited over spice girls and childish groups both parents av never shown interest in any of us 3 siblings like they only wanted kids to get benefit then threw us out when them stopped. But i av kept in touch. My mum she doesn't know how to listen it's like there nothing there sometimes I'll say are you listening she on another planet. My father an ar@@. He always abusing her verbally if I go to there home I cannot stand it i have to intervene then argument starts so I leave. Social services carnt help. She won't come to Drs as it's like talking to child all I get is im not going. She won't leave him. Plus she rang me out of the blue as she never rings saying she had been to Drs about having headache which she as had for months and Drs sent her straight to hospital the same day to see specialist whom took x-ray told her same day she had brain damage from been beaten by her mum when she was a child. Next day her story changed she said Dr made appointment to see specialist in few days and I then Saud thought you went to hospital same day she then starting laughing saying I did. Like a child. Help me advice please.

Question: What do I do?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 05:38 AM PDT

So my older cousin is 14 and I'm 12. Hoped up his iPad looking in the inside (if that makes sense). He hid my phone and I demanded he tell me where it is. I took the cover and accidentally dropped it. A piece broke off and it won't work. He told and his dad and everyone but he covered for me and said that he doesn't know who did it. Now I feel extremely guilty. Should I tell the truth or just be quiet about it? Sorry it's "He opened up his iPad..."

Question: My sister steals my stuff. What can I do to get her to stop?!?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 05:36 AM PDT

My sister will always take my things. Things that add up that I have to replace. She steal my clothes shoes socks even the dang shoe laces out my shoes my bags my earrings just random things when I go back to look for they re gone! I can t hide my stuff because I live with my grandmother and she watches my nephew so she drops him off and comes in the house when I m at work. Recently she stole my VS pink book bag which had a 130 book in there that I need for school! What can I do because this stuff is adding up that I shouldn t have to replace!

Question: Was my sister allowed to get on the computer on August 27th?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 05:18 AM PDT

On August 27th my mom told my sister destiny that she needs to get off of the computer for a while and my mom told my sister destiny it's been weeks and my mom told my sister destiny "GET OFF" and i told my mom "destiny is not allowed to get on the computer" and my mom told me "she's allowed but she needs to do it in moderation" and I asked my mom "why does she need to do it in moderation?" and my mom told me "because I say so". Was my sister allowed to get on the computer on August 27th?

Question: My mother cuts my Dad down several times a week to me (they are divorced). How do I know if she is telling the truth or not?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 03:55 AM PDT

It is things about his relationship to her or how she thinks he likes me but doesn't love me whereas my step-Dad (her husband) loves me. She also gets mad when I see him sometimes if it interferes with her schedule. She tells me things about his money when they were married that I don't think I am supposed to know and drug stuff he did in college that I know I am not supposed to talk about because my Dad said he felt guilty about it. So how do I know when my mother is making these things up and when it is true? When I was younger I would ask my Dad and about 2/3 of it he'd say were not true (the drug part he said was true). Parents divorced when I was 6 and I am 22 now but my mother is still fixated on anger at him and my step-mother who came along years later but dislikes my mother (though they only have met a few times). My mother's friend told her my step-mother dislikes her (my mother) but there to I don't know if my mother is making that up (the friend knows both). So anyway how do I know if she is being honest or lying. Also is there ever a way to get her to be quiet? Asking her to stop and saying I am uncomfortable talking about it doesn't work usually unless my step-father is there as my step-father agrees with me that is it good I am close to my Dad (my mother resents that I am close to my Dad). When I was younger my aunt (my Mom's sister) said this is normal in divorce.

Question: Sharepoint as a htm file which also brings along a folder with the images for the document. http://goo.gl/n0Gxae?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 03:25 AM PDT

Question: Am I right to be angry?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 03:18 AM PDT

Tomorrow I've got a maths test and all of a ******* sudden my whole family needs my help with such simple things. My dad needed help with sending an email and my mum wouldn't stop asking me to send a text message for her. It seems that only when I'm busy people ask things of me and it's so ******* annoying because I always help. When my mum wanted me to write the text she kept forgetting what she wanted to say next so i just left her phone on the table and walked away saying "What the ****'s your problem?" because when I gave up she said stuff like "you never help, you're always not listening" Just constantly ******* speaking so loudly and shouting, I feel like I'm going insane. I can't deal with stuff like this going into senior years of high school with my mum interfering with me for a stupid ******* text. Am I right to be angry? Should my mum have gotten angry? **** me I've already got a **** load of stuff to deal with in and out of school and the ladt thing I need is my parents nagging me for stupid **** and then wasting my time writing a question up on yahoo answers because I want people's opinions. fuuuck.

Question: I hate my half brother how do i tell my dad im leaving the house?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 02:35 AM PDT

I'm 18 and he is 6 i also hate my dad because he cheated on my mom and i was force to live with him when i was 12 because of court stuff i have 1 older brother and sister that i love a lot thinking about moving to my mom place since i just turn 18 i will never accept him as my brother i hate him. my siblings also hate him too. yes is not his fault but i dont want anything to do with him

Question: As a child I walked in on my mom having sex and her boyfriend beat me and my mom took his side should I forgive her?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 02:31 AM PDT

I was 14 and thought she was being attacked because I heard her screaming. After this she married him and they had 5 kids. He actually went to jail 6 months for breaking my jaw and knocking out several teeth. I haven't talked with her in years i never forgave her for staying with him. My dads new wife is more of a mom to me than her. It's hurt me because we were close until they started dating and she moved him in after the divorce.

Question: Deciding who should get the bigger room?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 02:21 AM PDT

So my family is moving to a bigger house soon. It's a 4 bedroom house, 2 in the main floor (1 is master) and 2 in the basement (1 is oversized). I'm 21 and my brother is 19. My brother usually keeps the whole family up at night from skyping with his friends (despite being told not to by everyone again and again) almost every night for 3 years now so it's a given that he'll be in the basement. And he's expecting to get the oversized bedroom. And I personally want the oversized bedroom too. Since the bedrooms in the basement are so far apart, he definitely won't be disturbing my sleep unless he's shouting his lungs out, compared to our current house where he's talking directly towards my bed separated by a thin wall. I'm always the one that helps around the house. I solve most of the issues that my parents can't do on their own. I help with groceries. My brother doesn't do anything to help, even when asked. He only does if it benefits him. I know I sound immature, but I can't help it. This is something I'm going to have to debate with him very soon and I'm pretty anxious about it. I don't want to decide it through something like a game of rock paper scissors or coin flipping. There's also the spare mainfloor bedroom he could put his bed in so he can have more room in the basement bedroom. But I'm not sure if the combined space of both of those bedrooms have more or less space than the oversized one. We're going to the showing in 2 days but from the pictures, the oversized one looks like it has more space than both combined. Anyways, any ideas on what I should say and how I should handle the situation?

Question: My parents won t let me add anymore money to my steam with the money i recieved from my grandparents?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 02:17 AM PDT

Hello so recently went to my grandparents house and recieved £150 for my birthday coming up, since they live in Spain. And my mum and my dad are split up my Mum is like really worried i have an addiction to buying games or something and my dad hates video games and wants me to spend it on something else, my plan was to get a blue snowball mic with the rest of the money and add that little bit to my steam, but i asked my mum the other night on whatsapp while at my dads and she kinda said ok. And then the other day, my dad knows about it because she told him? So if you have any ideas of how i can actually get my mum and just my mum to get me the thing Thanks.

Question: How do i handle Or go about getting respect from my older sister?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 01:56 AM PDT

I'm 16 and im in highschool and i live with my mom my sister's 27 and she lives with her aunt.My sister and i all in all have a okay relationship but she feels as if she has a since of entitlement over me like she's my mother and she's done tgis for years but i always brush it under the rug I'm to the point now where im fed up with it if i don't do what she wants me to do she'll try and wrestle me and bite and suffocate me and this has been eversince i was a super little girl I'm a very soft spoken person when it comes to her because i love her and she takes my kindness for a weakness,i tried talking to her about it and she kept cutting me off and laughed at me i told her I'm the only sibling she treats like this and she replied "that's becauae i don't do as much for them as i do for you"....even though she doesn't provide fpr me at all my mother does .....so should i stop talking to her or just give it time like idk what to do ?????? -faimly

Question: My grandma died on May 30,2016 and I'm still somewhat shocked. Is that normal?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 01:53 AM PDT

Question: My step-brother is struggling mentally and our parents aren't helping him?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 01:13 AM PDT

Hello. I am a 25 year old female, who is in need of some advice on how to help my 15 year old step-brother who is having a hard time with mental illness. Basically, his mother and my father are extremely strict and they think that what my step-brother is going through, is just a teenage stage that he needs to get over, but it isn't something that will go away on its own. I don't live at home, but I live not too far and have witnessed these issues before. He goes through weeks where he is unhinged from reality; I mean he has a glassy look in his eyes, he talks to people that aren't there, he breaks down with rage and anger, sometimes even sadness, and he attempts to cause physical harm to himself. He'll only talk in German during these fits (he is from Germany) and he won't respond if you try to talk to him. He become really abusive to his body, to the point he has even had to go in for stitches because of wounds he created. This will last maybe two or three weeks and then for a couple of days to a weeks he is the sweetest kid you will ever meet. All smiles and laughing. I was at home a week ago and we talked a bit about what was going on and he told me he feels trapped in his head by a guy who is telling him he wasn't meant to live. He says he is scared that he will eventually harm himself so bad that he could die. I need advice on the best way of going about helping him. The last thing I want to see is him being buried in the ground because our parents refused to help him..

Question: My mom is forcing me to do sports, but I honestly have no time and hate competition (Read details)?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 12:23 AM PDT

So, my mom expects me to do sports because I m "unfit and lazy" right now. However how do I have the time to do ANY curricular activity if I have to watch 3 kids, do my homework, cook, AND help out with the shop she owns. I used to like doing sports when I had time, but lately I hadn t had time, and I hate the competition. Last time I tried to explain this to her she got mad and ignored me because "She was so active when she was younger, why can t I". I m more into the arts tbh. Any advice??

Question: Why do mothers keep children from fathers?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 12:19 AM PDT

I am a dad already dealing with "long distance" 2 hours or 1 hour if we both drive halfway, she has a new bf and has completely shun me out of my twins life, why does she do this, she shouldnt be recognized as a mom, no abuse history we both went our separate ways.

Question: Do you love your family or pets more and you can only pick one not both?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 12:17 AM PDT

Question: I want to run away from home?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 11:46 PM PDT

PLEASE READ ALL OF IT. I'm 14. i wanna run away from home. please don't give me things like please don't its harder than you think. i know what I'm signing up for. i wanna run away because my parents punish me for no reason. for example this is gonna sound ridiculous but once i wanted to go to the park down the road with my friend and they said no so i pleaded them and they still said no. that went on for a while but i didn't end up going. later that night my parents took my laptop away because i was being annoying! this sort of thing happens almost every day. thats why i want to run away. also, if my parents call the police can they force me to come home? is there a way i can shower? how can i keep going to school so no one gets suspicious at school? how can i get a power source (eg. the thing you plug like a charger in or something? where can i go for like shelter? where do i get food and water from? if i have a solution for all those i will be set to go. and any other tips will be great sorry this is long please don't waste your time trying to tell me its not worth it.

Question: My older sister demanded that I don't get a job?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 11:33 PM PDT

I'll try to keep it short; So I'm a 16 year old Asian male and life, ever since high school started, didn't go out the way I expected it to go; freshman year and sophomore year grades were not so good; freshmen year; I had a B- in Algebra 1 and a D (barely passing) in Science. And sophomore year just got worse; I ended Geometry with a D, barely passing, and a C- in Biology, as well as failing miserably on my AP World Exam (got a 2 and passing grade is 3). Summer vacation is still going on for me and recently, I've been thinking of applying for jobs, once tennis is over (I play tennis for the school; it's a fall sport, so I thought maybe once it's done in October and I have more free time, I could use that time to go apply for jobs and start college funds and just making money in general). I was ABOUT to get a job in July when I turned 16, but my older 23-yo sister said, "Why the hell don't you just focus on school then? Stop thinking of jobs". She is a hypocrite; she got a job when she was 16 and did it until she was 18 during her Senior year. And she's telling me; I can't get a job now? What a sister. I said, "Okay", but I keep thinking to myself, "It's my life. I know how to micromanage. It's one of the very skills I have in life that I'm good at; time management." And she keeps acting like my mom too; lecturing me, telling me how to live my life, do this, do that, vice versa. Like, why is she one to decide whether or not I can micromanage my time? Is she my mother now?

Question: Am I in the wrong or is it my mother?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 11:33 PM PDT

Me and my fiancé have just bought a house it's near work for me and him but it's 5 minutes away from his mother.. And it's a bus journey away from my parents.. My fiancé mother lives on her own and my family are 5 persons.. My mother isn't happy as she said I'm moving away but my family are looking to move nearer anyway and have been looking for a while! This wasn't planned to live near his mother but my mother doesn't like it I said I'll always visit and make an effort to get the bus to see them but now she said she doesn't care and going to move even further from me... She's had no input in the move at all where my fiancé mother has done everything! My mother wasn't happy I didn't invite her around before started to decorate but my mother said it was too far and I didn't want to rub it in I've got a new house as I know she wants to move more then anything.. Been rows over the years too she doesn't like my fiancé and he has no time for her at all he thinks Syria crazy.. Been crying I dunno what to do?!

Question: Help please. PLEASE. I don't know what to do. Abusive Father?

Posted: 30 Aug 2016 11:23 PM PDT

Okay so I live in an abusive home. My dad and my mom. Usually its okay but I don't know what to do. When this happens usually I hide or try to avoid him. Going towards my mom for safety but that never works. She pushes me into him so he can "teach me to be good" her words. I don't really know what to do. My family knows about him and his emotions but take his side. Mostly because if I spoke up it would be "out of turn" and I would get in trouble more than usual.  he has dragged me across my house hitting me with his belt, shoe, and fist. when this happens I have a panic attacks, he slaps me for crying And that makes me worse and he yells shut up or I'll give you a reason to cry about And that makes me hyperventilate And he says no wonder you like drama And sometimes I'm scared to breathe, I like try not to but it's not me I'm worries about my sister. What can I do what should I do? My family will probably  join his side from "teachings". I don't know if I can trust my consular. What should I do? Maybe run away but my siblings...