She has 3 kids she doesn't properly take care of, all from different guys. She just sits on our sofa texting, and screaming at her kids. I'm sick of her, I want to tell her to ******* leave, but my wife begs me not to start a ruckus. Not to mention her sister is a ******* pig. Our refrigerator is empty now, when usually it doesn't get empty AT ALL. She feeds herself before she feeds her ******* kids! My wife and I are 34 and 36, her sister is 39!!!! What should I do?

After my wife had our daughter, my wife's father wanted her tubes tied. So at first I was okay and took her but as we were waiting I told her that I still wanted more kids and think that we should talk about it before we do this. But she just ignored me and done it cause she said her dad wanted her to do get her tubes tied. I don't know I thought this was a decision that a married couple should make but she wanted to listen to her father. What should I do? I feel like my opinion never mattered.

So my husband of two yrs and I separated for 3 months. We had a lot of issues but the biggest one was when we got married he cheated and had a baby with the mother of his 10 yr old . I obviously forgave him but our marriage was never right after that. When we separated he started sleeping with her again and now they have this really close relationship and I m extremely uncomfortable. I understand having a good relationship because I myself have 2 children with someone else but all of our convos are about our kids. I ve expressed my feelings and it has not changed. I m almost convinced they are still sleeping together. I don t know if I should stay and just take it or leave my husband again.

I'm just recovering from a bad accident, that left me nearly dead. During the time I was in the hospital in critical condition , my family tried to see me in the hospital but got turned down cause my wife didn't allow any of them to visit not even my parents. When I woke up I asked the nurse if anybody came by and she said no just my wife, so I called my family and asked what happened and they told me they weren't allowed. I got so upset and eventually told the nurse to allow my family. That same week, my mother came to visit along with my wife, since it been a while that I took a shower I wanted to be clean. The nurse said I couldn't take a shower but a sponge bath so I asked my wife if she could help me and she just walked out the door there was no blood or anything so I dont why she left. So instead my mother got upset and said she'll help me so she did. I just don't know why my wife acted like that and why she didn't allow my family to visit when it could of been the last time for them to see me, I don't know why?

Hi my husband and I have been together on and off for 5 years. We met online and went on our first date and he told me he loved me on our first date so I backed off. We didn t talk for a few months and without telling me he moved to my city 200 miles from where he was from. I then felt obligated to give him a chance and have been trying to force my feelings for him. He is a great guy and has treated me better than any guy ever has. I made the mistake and decided to marry him. We have been married for 2 years and I m just not in love with him. I try to convince myself that I do. There is no spark at all. There s no passion (from my side atleast) I feel so bad because I do not feel the same way about him. I can t stand sex or to much affection from him. I don t want to divorce but don t think a marriage can make it this way. What do I do?

I another girls pic on Instagram and thought to myself she's prettier than me. Got depressed. Then compared my own image to her and realized how "angelic" I looked in comparison to her...why did I think she was prettier at first before really sitting down and comparing different images of me and her?

The father of my one year old and I have a very rocky relationship. To say the least, it's controlling, manipulative, loving, selfish and abusive, it's all over the place. We've been together for 2.5 years and I need some guidance on how to walk away. We alternate on who throws the towel but for some reason we've managed to stay together, may be fear of being alone, may be fear of starting something new or God knows. We had instant chemistry when we first met and we got along so great! We were both so loving and committed, however, shortly after, the verbal abuse began. We both know we have to change but nothing has been done. My daughter is our number one blessing and when she's the center of attention the room is filled with love, laughter and warmth. Okay enough. Just wanted to give you a little back story... My question today is how do I get the strength to know my worth. Thinking about leaving him stresses me out! The thought of sharing my daughter dealing with child support gets me so worked up. I can't even imagine not having my daughter with me for one night!! But I do know there's more to life and I want to experience that. Even if it's by myself. When I'm alone in so at ease.... I think he is a great father and guy, he can make any girl that can support his attitude happy, I mean he helps around the house, cooks, cleans, has a bright future but the selfishness I can't stand. Please ladies give me your input

He's also lit up when I asked him what the most awkward thing he's heard was as a reason to attend med school!

16 years ago i met online in a chat room, a friend. He and I fell in love. For 8 straight months were almost 24/7 together. We are from a strict religious culture, so we never met in person, and we never spoke. Except a word or two here and there over the mic. We loved one another very much. I had never felt anything like that before in my life. And I've been married! (and divorced)....Anyways, in the end we had to end it because of our Cast system in arranged marriages. So... guess what? HE went on and married had a few kids, and divorced. I went on re-married had a few kids and divorced, and guess who the matchmaker suggested ?? Each other. I was absolutely over the moon I found him again. All these 16 years and I have never forgotten about him. And we started dating. I mean, from day 1 I knew this was "it". That he was the one for me. That G-d had brought us together. But he went slowly, and explained he is still going to be up against his family who don't want from my family/level/cast/name. etc. I said yeah but we're not kids anymore! Now we can do what we want! But it wasn't ....he and I broke up a month ago...and it was so painful for both of us, after having loved one another for the last 7 months....and it not going to end up in an engagment to marriage. I told him in parting "if it's our destiny...g-d will bring us back together one day". But how can it be that we came back together after all this time, just to be taken apart?

Me and my husband got married couple months ago. Both were virgins. We are in our mid 20s. I noticed that I have a really low libido. I almost never want to do it and when I do, sometimes in the middle of sex, I just lose interest. I feel like there is something wrong with me. My husband is very understanding and is not selfish in bed at all. But I don t want to be a debbie downer. Any advise?

This guy I met is still Married but living separate from his wife and he has just filed for divorce. Should I wait till the divorce is final or carry on with him like he is not still married. Him and his wife have 3 kids together... I don't want to be a home wrecker or the reason he won't reconcile with his wife.

I'm 27 and my husband is 30. I'm biracial and he's white. He acts like a typical white man and annoys me all the time. We have 5 children the youngest is 2 months old. My husband works long hours and I appreciate him for that but he's so annoying. He leaves a mess wherever he is and makes stupid jokes. We have been together for several years now. I'm not in love with him and haven't been for a while now. It's just the same old every day he works I take care of the kids and cook. There's no excitement. We go out on dates and have nothing to talk about except the kids and his job. The sex isn't exiting after all these years it's not passionate like it was before. I feel tired but I can't leave him because of the kids who need a father. What do I do?

hi, i hate my life, the only thing thats keeping me from not over-dosing on pain killers is my one year old son. I hate my husband for emotionally, mentally verbally, and physically abusing me. my family is very strict on divorce and think my son should be raised with both his parents and they will not accept me at their houses if i do leave my husband…but staying with hm gives me so many depressive thoughts that i do not wann…

Hi, I will make my long story short. My husband and I had been married 2 years. we have a one year old baby boy. my husband has turned in to an emotionally, physically and verbally abusive. I feel like he speaks to me with so much hate and has no respect for him. I have been a good wife to him but after finding out his flirting and other secret talks with other women, i was not the same with him anymore. For the sake of our son, i tolerated everything he has put me through but now he turns around and makes it all about him saying how miserable he is etc….when he disrespected our marriage. On top of that, the other day, he told me to move out or he will. He said that I will be evicted because he will not pay rent for out town home. He is so selfish because he doesn t realize that affects his son as well…i am just so worried and trying to see how to proceed. I am going back to nursing school amidst all this and since he pays most of our bills, i cannot afford to do anything. any advice? legal?

My wife has aged a lot and gained heaps of weight since we first married. She is a good mom and a great person but I m having a problem being attracted to her. She also has had a recent hormone change causing her to get a hairy chin and I can feel stubble when we kiss and it freaks me out. I feel so bad about it but I m embarrassed to take her out around friends and have become a recluse because of it.

i write a story about married man & woman work as astronauts they live on mars they are asian chinese and the wife get pregnant by the husband can their job is have chld on mars but the wife is going to give birth to a Martian

My husband has family problems. He's way too nice to help his brother who does not appreciate his help at all. My husband is the middle child, first man in the family. And his brother is last born. I feel like my husband's caring doesn't go anywhere. And his brother should stop bothering my husband by causing so much problems. I don't care what he needs to do for his life. But I care now because it impacts my husband's feelings=>upsetting me as well. I want to help his brother too, but I don't want him to stay at our place or ruin our marriage? What should I do?

what do i do ? and i belong to a family who believe in religious thing in other words they worship god and have faith in god..but i repent and i stopped doing those stuff like that

My wife s an engineer and maybe the best one in her team, she gets all her work done, but lately she s started sleeping at work. And I thought this was just something she does sometimes, but today I realised it s become a daily habit. When I talked to her about it, she said she does it in a corner and no one can see it, so it s okay and since her co-workers always go out for breaks, why can t she do this. I asked her why she just doesn t work remotely (she s allowed to) and she says she wants to be around people. Then she said I m too uptight and I m being controlling. I wasn t really sure how to respond, but the office isn t very relaxed and while she can do her work well, she s struck out on a couple of other things and I feel like this doesn t help her image, any thoughts?

My wife and I got married 7 months ago.We met online 8 years ago and became friends over the years. I took trips to see her. She is from Belarus and I am from the U.S. This long distance friendship gave us both an opportunity to really open up to one another and talk about our deepest, most intimate thoughts. I felt like she was a godsend. Although we had a 9 year age difference (34- she is 25) I felt like she was mature like no other woman I had met before, I loved her values.We got engaged on 2-14-15 & then married in Jan-16. She was denied for a tourist visa, so the only way we could be together was to apply for a k-1 visa and be married within 90 days. i was scared out of my mind, she was not.I knew she was special and I went 4 it.I loved her so much and I still do.Fast forward to today and I have fallen into a very deep depression over the marriage. Our culture difference has played way more of a factor than I ever anticipated. She is extremely rigid about trying new things and dislikes my friends. I like to unwind at times and have a joint or drink some beers. She knew of this before but decided she was against marijuana and hates that I do it. So now I feel uncomfortable. She is very into her own interests and prefers time alone to enjoy these things (fashion, blogging, pop music, youtube).I feel like we have no connection. Its like our marriage is our job. I feel insanely lonely even though I am married, living in a 1 BR apt in the city. I am so depressed.

I'm a Christian. I'm suppose to wait until marriage to have sex. The problem is, that makes me want marriage now. I'm far from being ready for marriage! I don't even know if I WANT marriage. I'm just told that I HAVE TO wait because it's a sin if I don't. I couple from my church actually eloped because they couldn't wait any longer. They got married when she was 19, and he was 20. WAY TOO YOUNG, IMHO! I'm surprised they are still married, honestly I think the only reason they are is because they have kids together. Waiting for sex makes me feel rushed and pressured to get married, even though I'm not even sure if marriage is something I truly want. I'm an adult, 20 years old, I can make my own decisions. But I'd still disappoint my parents and make them sad if they found out (they are very traditional/old fashioned.) But I just don't see a point in waiting other than to follow what I've been told to do, even though I don't agree with it. Advice? This question belongs under "Marriage & Divorce." First kiss has nothing to do with marriage... I had that when I was 7. There is a God, and my parents never forced me to believe anything. These are my personally beliefs. I do pay my own bills, but you are an adult the moment you turn 18. I forgot to mention I'm in a committed realtionship.... I'm not going to just go have sex with some random person. I'm going to have sex with my true love. I don't talk to my parents about my sex life.... they don't even know about my love life. All the know is I'm dating someone, that's it. My love life is none of their business. I was saying IF they ever found out... I'd NEVER tell them. That's just gross. My parents are very good at allowing me to be an adult... but I'd know something like this would kill them on the inside. My boyfriend and I go to the same church... and I'd never tell the people at my church either.

my best friend is dealing with her husband cheating. They had a great marriage and always seemed happy never fighting at all. He went out and started an affair with a woman who isn15 years older that him. He has recently re-written history and says things like I never loved you.. I only married you out of obligation. She seems to think he is in an affair fog. Currently her husband ran and moved in with her and is trying to play family with her and her kids. He filed for divorce and said that he had no choice but to because he was running out of money. My question is for people who have experienced this before. Do affairs work out or is it just the idea of fansesy they are both chasing??

Hi I 33 years old housewife with 5 year old and 2 year old kids.My main problem is want to wake up early and prepare breakfast and lunch box for my husband and want to clean house.Once he went to office I postpone every household work like cleaning vessels.But I can manage to prepare meals on time to kids and husband by cleaning less vessels and fast cooking.Daily I have to cook four times breakfast lunch snack dinner I prepare food on time but always leftover vessels in sink house and bathroom not clean.if I wake up late also can prepare breakfast and lunch box ontime (7 am) kids separate breakfast lunch snacks dinner items everything different.we all are eating fresh meals we won t eat food in fridge.I want to be organized housewife but almost spending time on laptop and not clean house and vessels clothes well.My question is how to be organized housewife

My husband has had custody of his 7 year old son since he was about 1 years old. The mom get every other weekend and every other holiday and alternating school breaks. She s taking him to court because she wants 50/50. Her details include. Every weekend and half the summer. To me it seems like she doesn t want to take on the responsibility of driving him to school everyday and picking him up and only wants him on the fun times. Does this seem ridiculous to anyone else besides me?!

So this isn't much of a serious question, just wondering how others view it. I work an office job, 7am-5pm, at least until I start back my senior year of college, then I will be working after my classes and making up my hours whenever I can through the week/weekend. My husband and I have a son, and because I have flexible hours, I take him to school in the mornings and pick him up when he gets out, then I go back to work. My husband works a job, 8-5, for a pest control company, so he crawls under houses and does a pretty physical job, at least compared to my own. When we both get home in the afternoon, I instantly start on dinner or chores, while he showers and then usually sits to rest a bit. I get slightly annoyed, simply because there's so much to do around the house. Eventually, he will ask if I need help, and sometimes I feel like its pretty obvious what needs to be done and there's no need to ask. However, considering how physical his job is, he must be tired, so I think I shouldn't expect him to instantly start cleaning (it just seems by the time we get home, we don't have much time to get things done before bed). So, with all that being said, I feel like I should handle most of the chores around the house, but I was looking to see how do others split household chores? Should I expect less of him since his job is physical labor? How do you and your spouse juggle your daily routine?

Little background about my situation. I'm Egyptian and I married a Russian woman. We met online, from a dating website. In exchange of peace and happy ending, I was asked to leave my son for my ex-wife. And be able to visit him and see him anytime. Which is great, in theory. He's only 4 years old. Problem is, I love him too much to leave him. He's my dream come true. The son I always imagined and always wanted to have. For me, he's a miracle! Whatever happened, whatever going to happen… he's worth any sacrifice, any pain. I can do anything for him. I can't imagine being in his life, like a stranger. Visit him like a stranger, make appointments to see him…it's killing me. For the last year, I tried everything to prevent divorce. Didn't work. I suffered emotionally, mentally, and physically … no result. I don't know what to do. The best solution for now, is for me to stay here in Russia, and be close to him as possible. I have a chace to ask for citizenship and it could work. But even if this worked… I can't imagine leaving him to live with another person. I talked to his mother's boyfriend. Very nice guy. And he was raised by a step father and he understands what I'm going through. But we both don't know what to do. Note: I have no friends here at all. No one to talk to, no one to ask for advice, no body. Please I appreciate your help, but kindly remember that that this is extremely sensitive subject. It's very painful for me, Thanks