Marriage & Divorce: Question: What would you do? |
- Question: What would you do?
- Question: Do you get turned on or turned off when your partner tries to make you jealous?
- Question: How would you interpret this statement?
- Question: Do I have to pay child support?
- Question: How do I learn to communicate with my wife. We were never that couple that talked about feelings. She is the type to tell me something and..?
- Question: Women please help me with this!?
- Question: How long does it take to get custody of a child?
- Question: Want to do something nice for my wife on our 1 year anniversary... Any suggestions will be appreciated.?
- Question: Child custody and mediation what to expect and options?
- Question: Is every girl getting raped or is my life just weird?
- Question: I am hurt that my parents are divorcing when they are supposed to be a family, why can they divorce and I cannot?
- Question: My husband confessed , would he do it again?
- Question: Do you help your wife change the diapers?
- Question: Why stay married if you are not happy?
- Question: Is it appropriate for a married person to have personal, one-on-one communication with a person of the opposite sex?
- Question: Fellas who are married be honest! When did you know when your wife was the one?
- Question: My wife smokes and insists that I light her cigarettes. I know it is bad for her but I can't resist her seductive smoking. Any thoughts?
- Question: What to do about wife's gambling problem?
- Question: How do I control myself when I'm around her she drives me crazy?
- Question: He gave me a career ultimatum, I don't know what to do?
- Question: Can't forgive husband for a lie he confessed to 3 years ago?
- Question: My wife treats me like garbage, should I leave her?
- Question: Separated from emotionally abusive spouse, but feel confused and sad.?
- Question: In NC separation laws. I just recently found out I m pregnant with my now relationship. It s not my husband s we have been separated a year.?
- Question: My wife and I enjoy bondage and she has become more and more dominant. The other night she had our sister in law tie me. Will this end well?
- Question: I'm getting divorced. Can my husband be removed from an auto loan and home mortgage or do they have to be refinanced?
- Question: I am a custodial parent who gets 720 in welfare, if the non custodial parent is ordered to pay 750 for child support will I lose my welfare?
- Question: How would you react to your husband if you found out he had posted nude photos of you online on a porn site?
- Question: In this day and age with this severe shortage of good marriageable men would women be willing to share one great man with other women ?
- Question: Wife has lost trust in me and wants a legal seperation.?
- Question: Why was my wife mad?
- Question: My husband thinks I cheated but I NEVER did before or during our marriage. How I can prove this to him?
- Question: How can I make my wife feel better ?
- Question: What are my husband and his friend doing?
- Question: Wife wants me to choke and hit her but I prefer making love the old fashion way?
- Question: Am I being selfish?
- Question: Is my fiance going overboard in his concern for a divorced female coworker?
- Question: My husband got a risque email from Craigslist personals lady..?
- Question: Will he ever understand me?
- Question: What do i do?
- Question: Why do men like treating women like pets? My husband treats his dog with more respect?
- Question: I need relationship advice from men! Husband and I are separated.?
- Question: Why doesn't my wife want sex?
- Question: Why is it ok for men to cheat if their wife stops having sex with their husbands, but it's a crime if the wife cheats she is a whore?
- Question: My wife left me a week ago, I cheated on her, I have been calling & texting her with no reply?
- Question: Does a narcissist wife forgives and forgets his husband's infidelity easily?
- Question: Do women know if her guy has materbated recently? How do?
- Question: Wife of 14 yrs has betrayed me over the last year many timeseverytime i turn around she checking out hotels.want 2do the same am i wrong?
- Question: Why does my husband refuse to kiss me?
- Question: Why does my husband refuse to kiss me?
- Question: Why does spouse abuse often begin during pregnancy?
| Posted: 25 Aug 2016 09:28 PM PDT Say if you really fancied someone and want to be in a relationship with that person and so does that person but the only reason you can't is because you have a lot of ongoing issues in your life. To be more specific, say if you had a lot of ongoing issues with mental health, health problems etc, but even then would you still want to be in a relationship with whom you fancied. In short, I've had a lot of depression during my whole life and I really want to be with this one girl that I love and she loves me, but I guess what is holding me back is that I don't want her to have to go through all this mental health business and I'm scared of losing her. Mind you I've been getting therapy for my depession for several years, none of which has much benefit on my overall mental health. So I don't know? What should I do? What would YOU do? |
| Question: Do you get turned on or turned off when your partner tries to make you jealous? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 09:17 PM PDT When your partner tries to make you jealous (flirts with others in front of you talks about visiting guys form her past, etc) does it turn you off or on? |
| Question: How would you interpret this statement? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 09:09 PM PDT A few days ago my husband told me a guy at work invited him to a pig roast Saturday. I asked if I was invited too and he said "Yeah, he said both of us." We don't have a babysitter and he said he didn't want to go anyway because it would be a bunch of drunk people. So tonight he says: "I kind of want to go to that pig roast. I don't really want to go alone, but we don't have a babysitter." I asked why he's talking about it again when we already decided we couldn't go and he said he didn't want to. He says he was just making conversation with me. He got really mad about it. To me he was throwing it out there that he wants to go alone and was seeing what I would say. He says he "Said it wrong" and that's not what he meant. He says he meant he kind of wants to go but doesn't want to go and he doesn't want to go alone. Am I reading too much into it or does it seem like I was correct in my interpretation? |
| Question: Do I have to pay child support? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 09:08 PM PDT My wife lives in Hawaii with two of my younger daughters Iam going to divorce her and I will take the two older daughters to California I do not plan on working (I have a lot of money saved up) and I could work maybe in 5 years but not now. Do I have to pay her child support of yes how much? |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2016 08:24 PM PDT then she said it and it's out there and done. I'm the person who looks really deep into it. She will say I told you what's wrong. Now that we have two young kids our lives have challenges and I want to learn how to communicate better and make our relationship strong. Suggestions? |
| Question: Women please help me with this!? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 08:20 PM PDT Hello everyone. So I told my husband today that when I give birth(its my first time) I do not want my mother in law to be there waiting in the visiting room. but after a week we can meet with her. he is pissed and said I want to cut off his family and he will tell her already cause its going to hurt her very much knowing that. but this is not about her or her feelings right? I and her do not have a good relationship, but this is not about her or our relationship at all. I waited for this moment all my life, so i want my own space and privacy and time to recover, without knowing they will be there in a rush waiting to see/hold my baby, i want everything to be under control, and I want to be the first one to kiss/hold and spend that moments with my baby, without anyone stealing those times from me. how can I make my husband understand that?! and I'm I wrong for wanting this?I will appreciate your answers! Thank you And I do not know why my husband is making it about him and his mother? like he doesn't consider my feelings or my wish! |
| Question: How long does it take to get custody of a child? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 08:08 PM PDT |
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| Question: Child custody and mediation what to expect and options? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 07:45 PM PDT My ex wants to take me to mediation over our 1 year old daughter, he hasn t came around in months i ask him everyday to see her, i dont want him to have her, i would much rather transition her so its not so hard on her but he doesn t want that, he kicked us out and put our stuff in a storage unit, i just want to know what to expect and what are my options |
| Question: Is every girl getting raped or is my life just weird? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 07:24 PM PDT I'm asking this because it seems like the normal to me. I don't want it to be. I hope it isn't. I was sexually assaulted at 10. I was at 15 too. My friend was by her boyfriend at 16. Other friend at 13 by friend's boyfriend, and 14 by boyfriend. Other friend on a train at 11. Other friend at 16 by boyfriend. Other friend at 17 by boyfriend's friend. I live in an upper-white class area. This isn't a lie. All of these cases have factual proof with text messages, and include forced sex, and forced oral sex. |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2016 06:54 PM PDT I don't like my sister so why can't I divorce her? Why can only adults divorce and why can only husband and wife divorce? Also why do I have to live with Mom and only see Dad when she lets me? She hates Dad so what if she never lets me? Why do kids have no rights when parents bully each other and get divorced like idiots? |
| Question: My husband confessed , would he do it again? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 06:31 PM PDT Last year my husband confessed to kissing 2 girls at work. He did that 4 years ago, and he confessed out of nowhere. He was getting more religious and we were living together for a year when he confessed and he said, I confessed to you because I don t want to do it again but in the back of my mind it s always there. I haven t found any evidence and he is always home but when he goes to work I feel so insecure and I am a housewife with no kids. All day I m wondering if he is cheating on me. We have been together for 8 years and married for 2. I forgave him because he confessed and I really want to give him another chance but I don t want to get played again. |
| Question: Do you help your wife change the diapers? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 06:22 PM PDT |
| Question: Why stay married if you are not happy? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 05:41 PM PDT |
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| Question: Fellas who are married be honest! When did you know when your wife was the one? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 05:17 PM PDT Did you know the moment you met her or when did you? |
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| Question: What to do about wife's gambling problem? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 04:30 PM PDT Your wife of 6 years spends all her paycheck at the casino plus overdrafts her bank account to about negative $2000. All the bills are due which is more than double that amount. You have very little savings. Do you bail her out or just pay the bills and let her figure out the rest. |
| Question: How do I control myself when I'm around her she drives me crazy? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 04:20 PM PDT I'm 17 she's 36 but I've had a crush on her since I could remember. She knows what she does to men. We've had some fun in the past 3 years together we went to a concert she danced suggestively showing off that *** of hers. We went to a mall together and she bent over the register and I couldn't help but just admire that big fat *** of hers and she just looked at me with a grin on her face. We know eachother because our families are close. She said she likes when I have my arm around her waist. I try to it all the time when we're together. If she's driving I do it if we're walking i don't hold her hand i hold her waist & people look and I'm just like yeah she's mine. This vuluptous Latin beauty is all mine. The problem is that since her divorce got finalized she made a post on Facebook about how she's going back to celibacy for God but she knows she's bad. She takes pole dancing classes & has done contests for them & I just lost it on New Years when she talked about pole dancing and shed stand & I'd check her the **** out. Put her hand on my lap 1 more time & idk what I'm gonna do. I can't take this I'm not trying to objectify her I'm not normally like this but FML |
| Question: He gave me a career ultimatum, I don't know what to do? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 04:06 PM PDT My husband and I have known each other for 7 years and have been married with a 4 year old son. You've always had lots of fun and I'm happy. Since I was young I always wanted a good career, and law enforcement was one. I was also a good artist so I didn't tend to get much support in anything else. So that's what I stuck with. Now I'm at a point in my life where I'm confident in myself I have been working hard to get physically strong. Now I put my application in for the state police. My husband was okay with it till after he talked to his buddies in the State Police from different states he changed his mind. Had nothing good to say about it and has been making it more and more apparent that he wants me to quit. He mostly says because he's afraid for my safety and doesn't want to see me hurt. But he has admitted to being jealous because he is also wanted to be in the military and the police but has certain health issues that keep him from being accepted. He also feels like I may leave him for someone better because he's always felt like I deserved better. We just got into a really big fight and he basically asked me which was more important my choice of career or our relationship. I said our relationship is always important and my career choice has nothing to do with it but I am not quitting what I'm pursuing. I love my husband but I want to do better for my career and our family, am I being selfish? I've tried to join the military a few times I'm the past and he has done the same thing then. I've quit each of those times for him. This time I just want to follow my career....I want him there with me. He just seems to feel I don't need him and will leave him in this. |
| Question: Can't forgive husband for a lie he confessed to 3 years ago? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 03:44 PM PDT First year of marriage while I was pregnant I was tripping because I caught my husband on a dating site. During my whole pregnancy I asked him if he did it and he said no and would get really mad about me bugging him about it. I even left him a few times while I was pregnant and went to my mom's and I told him I would divorce him if he didn't tell me from his mouth that he sent those messages to women. The reason I'm mad about the messages is because 1 week before we got married we got into a misunderstanding I left to my mother's home to rethink things and he went online hunting women. Im more mad that he didn't tell me after he came to get me back and we immediately got married. It hurts me how he went from looking for a new girl to marrying me in the same week. It makes me feel likeep our marriage was a mistake. I'm not perfect at all but when I was ever caught in a lie or I hurt my partner I immediately confessed my sin. He waited a year into our marriage after I had the baby and after new years to tell me he lied. Prior I she'd so many tears and felt so cheated but I stayed and gave him a chance to tell me. Now I feel down about my self it's been hard to loose the baby weight. I don't feel pretty and outgoing as before especially when I'm with him. I always feel like he never wanted me he just settled for me |
| Question: My wife treats me like garbage, should I leave her? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 03:42 PM PDT she's got a real smart mouth attitude and is very sarcastic and bitter towards me. yells at me and calls me useless. When things don't go her way, she blames me for her misfortunes. I'm sick of it should I leave? and don't tell me to go to marriage counseling because that does nothing, should I pull the plug? |
| Question: Separated from emotionally abusive spouse, but feel confused and sad.? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 03:24 PM PDT Hi, so about 5 days ago i broke up with my BF of 6 years (we share a small child) and moved back to my parents house. So, about 2 days ago I dropped our daughter off to see him. he was emotionally abusive, and physically in the past but hasn't in a year because i called the cops and he's been taking classes. so, he asked if we can come to an agreement and NOT break up, but i continue staying with my parents. he seemed sincere in his apologies and agreed to understand me. i do feel uneasy, because i am content being at my parents home, but don't know when he will ask me to move back into our apartment. I'm weary that if i move in, things will go back to the same pattern and i will want to leave again. i feel that i do need a significant amount of space..but of course i don't wanna break up our family if he's willing to be reasonable and show me respect. do you think i am making the right decision? but of course continue living at my parents |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2016 02:58 PM PDT Basically since I found out I m pregnant we have literally met the mark fot our divorce to finally be finalized. But found out a couple days ago am pregnant with someone else s child. Since legally I am still married to my husband(soon legal ex) will I have any worries with the finalization now. It s in no way shape or form my ex husbands I only slept with one person since we separated. So I know the biological father. Besides I just need the best legal advice we dont have attorney s. I am Doing all the documents on my own to turn in. |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2016 02:31 PM PDT My wife claims she and our sister in law have agreed to strict rules wen she ties and gags me and my wife claims it really turns her on to either or have our sister in law tie and gag me. It turns me on too- but I am also concerned. thoughts? |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2016 02:23 PM PDT We are starting the divorce process in a couple months and I just want to know what I can expect about financial issues. If I go to my lawyer, they are going to charge me to answer a couple of questions so I'm hoping someone can help me. My husband wants me to stay in the house with the kids so they don't have to be up-rooted again (he is military so we have moved them a lot over the years). Can he be removed from the mortgage and from the auto loan without me having to re-finance it? I won't get approved on my own. Advice? |
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| Posted: 25 Aug 2016 12:59 PM PDT These would be nude photos you did not know that he took of you. |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2016 12:51 PM PDT Yes I'm talking about being part of a harem Being one of the mistrssss or concubines to a great amazing and wonderful. Man And sharing this great amazing wonderful man with other women and living together with him and the other women who are your sister wives in a sister hood Sometimes you can't always have what you want ladies cause chances are if you really like him and think he's great other girls do too and you can either not have him at all or share him |
| Question: Wife has lost trust in me and wants a legal seperation.? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 12:44 PM PDT Long story short. I messed up and lost my wifes trust too many times. No i did not cheat. But i was having inappropriate conversations with women who we are both friends with. In my state you have to have a legal separation before divorce. She told me she loves me but can't continue to live like this. She has told me she is done. But when i say ok i understand she gets mad and says thats it. And she says if it were me i would fight like hell to get you back. But when i try she just says well its too late. What do i do? I love her and want this to work. |
| Question: Why was my wife mad? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 12:43 PM PDT We were eating out with our daughter and this attractive lady about 40 walked by and said we have a beautiful family and I responded " my wife and daughter really bring up the group average", she responded with a smile and looking at me with "You don't hurt the average yourself" then winked..I didn't know this lady but for some reason my wife was mad at me...why? |
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| Question: How can I make my wife feel better ? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 12:37 PM PDT Me and my wife and my friend and her brother went to the cemetery today we walked around and looked at the graves while her brother was busy working on their uncles gravestone. We walked over to where her mom and dad were. When she saw their graves she started to feel kind of sad. Her grandma and grandpa were beside her uncle. She said she didn't feel anything when she was beside their graves but she sure did feel something at her mom and dad's. Her parents died a few years ago. It's just been her and her brother. Their uncle died last year it's taken him a year to get his stone put in. Her brother and my friend were working on part of it today. We just got home she's still feeling a little sad. How can I help her feel better ? |
| Question: What are my husband and his friend doing? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 11:47 AM PDT Every Friday night after work my husband and his best friend Hank go out. They say they go see to see a movie but instead they go to Hank's place and play "House". IDK what goes on there but my husband doesn't come home till midnight. When he does I found him flustered, tired, and a total mess. I've been finding him buying condoms and lingerie. What is really going on? Is my husband gay for his single best friend? |
| Question: Wife wants me to choke and hit her but I prefer making love the old fashion way? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 11:08 AM PDT Im scared she'll cheat if I don't do it |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2016 10:47 AM PDT My husband and I just found out were having a baby! We live near his family so they're very much in our lives. He has a sister who is a single mom to a son and we babysit A LOT and go to most of his sports practices and games. His mom hangs out with us a lot too and is alone so the more time we spend with her the better, we all have a great relationship. I didn't mind it at all...until now. Morning sickness has been horrible and I'm miserable. We have been able to avoid them for a month now but they are all itching to hangout but I'm not in the mood. I'm afraid of feeling sick in front of them because then they'll know I'm pregnant and I'm not ready for them to. Honestly I'm not up for anything these days, I feel drained and could sleep in bed all day. Not to mention I feel like throwing up all day, every day. Should I push my husband to hold them off until I feel better? Also my mother-in-law recently needed money and my husband gave her some, it made me nervous because we could use every penny these days since we're having a baby and saving up for a house at the same time but then it really made me upset when she then goes shopping and tells us about it. I haven't said a word to my husband but it was very annoying to me. Are my feelings wrong? Should I bring my concerns up to my husband? |
| Question: Is my fiance going overboard in his concern for a divorced female coworker? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 10:40 AM PDT My fiance is divorced and his female coworker is going through a divorce. She is 12 years younger than him. They work in the same department. My fiance is her boss too. He can't understand how her husband could have an affair when she is such a beautiful woman. Her husband had an affair with a under 20 year old at the same place they work at. She didn't know for a year. He always asks her how she is doing. Always wants to help her, give her an extra table we have since she is poor as a church mouse he says. She has a lot of children he says. Wanted to help her by giving her some recipes I had to help feed her children. Wondered why she didn't like plain yogurt when he overheard her talking to another coworker. She helps in fundraising for the company and my fiance went completely overboard and outbid people to get items and has done this on other fundraising events. He left me at the cabin for a day to attend a fundraising event she held when he told me his weekends are his own. He came back all excited that she gave him a t-shirt for showing up. He talks about her all the time. He hugged her in front of me at another fundraising event that I attended. It was a formal affair. She was talking about how her one daughter, after a year long silence now wanted to have lunch with her. As she walked away she told "It is time for Jill now." Leaving the event my fiance told me that she was going through a tough divorce. At the event he clearly was eyeing her up. I had told him that is what girlfriends are for and that is what counseling is for and that he was getting too involved in her life. It's like he didn't even hear me. He kept on doing this things to "help" her. To me it appears he as a crush on her. He know so much about her and always interjects something about her if I bring up things we are talking about and relates it back to her. |
| Question: My husband got a risque email from Craigslist personals lady..? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 10:07 AM PDT It looks like a scam in a way and he says it is ....but my question is can u get an email back if u didn't initiate a reply in the first place? He says he hasn't been on the site....I just hate worrying. |
| Question: Will he ever understand me? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 09:51 AM PDT I'm tired of fighting with my husband almost everyday. I asked him to divorce me but he won't but he fight with me everyday. How do I make him understand? |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2016 09:47 AM PDT My husband of 4 years (together 7) abandoned me and our 3 year old daughter to be with his then mistress. He then came back 6 moths later and just a month after coming (in which i got pregnant with our second child) back and everything being happy go lucky he gets sent to jail for 15 months for a violation. He comes out on 1/26/2016 and everything seemed fine, we then started having regular arguments over petty things. i didnt think nothing of it until he didnt come home one night because he said he finished work lateand he stayed with his boss (he works 2 hours away) I didnt buy that. He then picked an argument with me over something so silly and i kicked him out and he left. That was a month ago, i found out he was staying with his OW (not the same one from the first affair) and i am going through this pain all over again. I just need all of the advice i can get, i am 25 and he is 39. Midlife crisis maybe (if thats even a thing) I need advice, there is so much more to all of this but im at work and cannot go into so much detail like i would like. What should i do???? please no harsh comments, thank you. |
| Question: Why do men like treating women like pets? My husband treats his dog with more respect? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 09:18 AM PDT |
| Question: I need relationship advice from men! Husband and I are separated.? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 08:46 AM PDT My husband & I have been married for 8 years, together for 13. We have 3 boys. As we went on, he got less emotional and never told me how he was feeling.He works very hard and supports us but never told me what he really needed to be happy.It pushed me away and made me angry to the point I wanted him to leave for just a little to get a break from each other.He never left.The last 2 years have been pretty bad.2 weeks ago I was upset and finally got him to leave.He is staying at him mom's house.It helped me.I was able to think. I realize that I was acting irrational sometimes and need to stay calm in order to get him to open up.We are both at fault but I now know that I love him and eventually want things to work out.He,however, is different.He likes not fighting, as do I but he will not tell me if he thinks we will ever get back together.He says he wants us to be happy, healthy good parents.I agree but want to know what he is really thinking. He has been working extra hours and comes over to see the kids. I get confused by his feelings because we still go to therapy.He wants to go, especially to talk about parenting.He brings the kids home and helps clean up. We have normal conversations now about finances, the kids etc but he won't say anything about us.I told him about a destination wedding I was invited to.He wants me to go,says I deserve it and would help me financially.He truly wants me to be happy. But, what is he really thinking? Can we fix this?Is he done with me? |
| Question: Why doesn't my wife want sex? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 08:34 AM PDT It has been 5 months and she says she is tired she doesn't do much to get tired and I feel uncomfortable being around my daughter or any other female what should I do |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2016 06:38 AM PDT I've read this a lot lately, men think it's ok to cheat on their wives if wife is not putting out sex for him or if she gets fat, the kids are up and man is horny, wife can not have sex because kids are running in and out of the house, she is going through menopause, husband doesn't care he cheats and lies to her face and he brags about it on yahoo answers, all the men pat him on the back. But if the wife cheats because husbands penis is not working the right way or it shriveled up to the size of a walnut and wife cannot find the" you call this a penis, you sure you are not a girl penis) as she laughs and walks away to go find her a real man a younger man who would keep her happy only God knows her husband sure can not keep her happy with a walnut penis. So she cheats and feel bad for it and ask yahoo answers what she did and she is hammered that she is a whore, what gives on the double standard? Why is it ok for men to cheat but not ok for a woman? |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2016 06:27 AM PDT Finally she replies and says "If you loved or cared about me at all then you would leave me alone." What does thia mean?! |
| Question: Does a narcissist wife forgives and forgets his husband's infidelity easily? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 05:49 AM PDT |
| Question: Do women know if her guy has materbated recently? How do? Posted: 25 Aug 2016 05:36 AM PDT |
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| Question: Why does my husband refuse to kiss me? Posted: 24 Aug 2016 11:23 PM PDT My husband and I have only been married a couple months. Before we got married, we used to kiss a lot and "make out", but now it's only 2-3 pecks a day. Sometimes I have to nearly beg him to kiss me and sometimes he will roll his eyes and sigh if I ask him to kiss me. Now he is starting to flat out refuse them. Tonight before bed, I had to ask for a kiss. He gave me one but I bent down and all my hair was over my mouth when he kissed me, so I asked for another one. He told me no. He completely refused to give me one and couldn't come up with a reason why. I told him that it was really hurtful that he refuses to give me a kiss; it makes me feel like there must be something wrong with me. I mean what kind of husband refuses to give his wife a kiss especially when he knows it means something to her and that it really hurts to be told "no" for one small kiss. It's not like I'm asking him to make out with me. What could be happening that is making him feel this way? Or what could be so wrong with me that I'm refused a kiss by my own husband? I really don't understand. Maybe it's silly, but any insight would be appreciated. Thanks. |
| Question: Why does my husband refuse to kiss me? Posted: 24 Aug 2016 11:07 PM PDT |
| Question: Why does spouse abuse often begin during pregnancy? Posted: 24 Aug 2016 06:45 PM PDT Sadly I ended up losing my unborn child in July due to the physical abuse of my partner, he apologized and promised in the future that we could try again, I forgave him. and I had hoped that we'd be able to go back to how things were, he doesn't hit me in the stomach or shove his knee into me anymore or say mean things, but when we get intimate he's becoming more and more forceful and has began choking me again, although this time it's only when I go down on him. Last night he squeezed my neck really hard and I literally could feel myself slipping away I weakly grabbed his hands and tried to take them off but couldn't. I felt myself losing consciousness, but before that I desperately tried to take a breath and let out a loud weeeez, when I did he kept squeezing for a few more seconds, but finally let me go. When he did I went back to going down on him and I was facing away so he wouldn't see me cry. Honestly it scares me and I'm wondering if one of these days he'll end up crushing my throat. Things haven't been well since I lost the baby I haven't been myself and I find myself caring less and less, I don't even eat regularly, I've lost weight, and I cry a lot, I even stopped going to church, talking to the friends we shared, and even going to the gym. I was even hospitalized as well, I feel trapped and I don't know if I can take any of this much longer... |
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