My friend has always been an amazing writer, but lately I found out that her valedictorian sister edits all of her essays, stories, etc. Her original drafts are nothing compared to what they are when her sister is done with them. Do you think she would be the straight A student she is without her sister?

I and this girl can text regularly. She works part-time and lives with her grandmother. Her grandma is very strict and she says most men are deceitful. Now, she takes care her mother because her mother got ill and she flies to another city. She will comeback after her mother get well. She can tell me everything about her life and ask me questions through messages. However, she left a bad relationship 2 years ago and since then she has been single. I also have bad experience with girls who have bad relationship in the past because they used me as rebound and come back with ex-boyfriend shortly after. Does she like me? Should I date her? If yes, how can I ask her out and go on a date?

She is religious, believe in God, seems nice and caring. What is like to date a religious girl like this girl? Any experience? IT means she believes in God, but not always come to Church. At least she is more religious than normal girl

People I meet or haven't seen in a while always ask me if my boobs are fake which they aren't. They aren't insanely huge or anything (36DD.) But it makes me uncomfortable when people constantly ask and I've had other women straight put their hands down my shirt to confirm they are real. How do I combat this? Like I'm usually so shocked I jerk away and say I did not get implants. I actually have a hormone condition and when I turned 26 my breasts became very large. It just makes me embarrassed and feel as if I am on display not matter what shirt or dress I wear.

Since I am done with internship now, there was this lady who was one year younger than me who worked along. I observed how her behaviour changed from being nice to pretty trying to attract my attention to show that she is not interested anymore or she wants to make me jelous through it by showing me at side how she is sharing number with a guy (another guy who was an intern) while joking about with him etc Since we approached the near end of the internship, she just got too roughen out with me. Am I just a bad guy for not asking her number? Just because I have my personal values and rights. Especially as a muslim, I respect my religion and stick to my own self. I do not randomly share out numbers, and especially with girls. No I am not gay, but I am straight... Nevertheless, I came out to conclude that I should not care. I admit she was attractive, and from the same religion as me, and I have seen how guys tried taking her number. She resisted through this just because I should have asked her, and I really did not cared about it at all. Am I really a bad guy?

If you don't want anyone calling you it then DON'T say it yourselves. When I'm at home I call my brother a beaner all the time but I don't go & say it in public where people can here & think it's okay. Why publicly use it if you don't want to be called it?

I'm not talking about something little, I'm talking about something that nearly got you expelled from school.

hi Im not sure where to start so i guess I will start at the beginning , I grew up in a house where the only male figure was my dd an angry unfair man that we were ordered to please even though he broke his word was violent and never ever chatted to us or emotionally connected . I ran away at 16 after feeling like a black sheep for speaking out and getting with a local 19 year old he was trouble but i chose not to see it as it was better than i had ever had before but once i had ran away he quickly got very controling and rather than leave i stayed in the same cycle trying to get him to care if only i put up with it all then he will care . at 18 i came back home and my parents soon split up . my sister was with dad and the other with my mum I was left homeless although it hurt i never complained or even once brought it up i had got with a new man 21 he seemed nice and even though i had doubts everyone said it was trust issues nd i need to let go so i stopped at his a lot, i soon became pregnant he changed towards me overnight ,i sid i will live in mother and baby unit as i dont want to push anyone into a life they dont want he said no i want to give it a go and sat up all night talking baby names , that was the last time in the whole pregnancy he supported me I worked 12 hour days on my feet in a factory and he expected me to cook him dinner and support his band and go to gigs and to not mention ever how i feel . One day i was really ill and swollen and got sent home from work he was so angry at me for messing his day up as he was about to go to band practice he raced about in the car and shouted as loud as loud as he could in my face ,not once have i ever had a sorry from him off his own back EVER!!. a few years ago i caught him cheating online with several woman he had inbvoxed heaps even mutaul friends he begged to see some before he was caught to saying just friends . when i found them on xmas eve as the computer was left open rare FOR SOME REASON REST OF MY QUESTION IS IN COMMENTS SECTION

So I've been with him for a year and a half now, and like always my family was always mistrustful of him, but neutral. Something happened the other day where he came off as rude (when really he had some kind of anxiety attack and meant no rudeness) and my aunt was pissed. She told my step uncle and dad a bunch of lies of "what happened" and now they ALL hate him! I can't tell my aunt that she's wrong on half of what happened because she will ever believe me. My boyfriend apologized, but I don't know if my aunt had accepted his apology. And if she didn't I'm afraid that she'll never let me see him again and essentially force us to break up. What should I do? I can't even talk to my boyfriend without worrying that we'd have to break up soon.

When I was 5 (now I m 16), 2 of my cousins (they are sisters) got naked in front of me and started to ask which one is more beautiful and has better belly button ring. Why were they doing this? Now they are around 26-29, which means they were around 17, if you don t want to count. Sorry for my poor English.

He lived with me for a month when my son was born but I kicked him out bc he didn t have a job, wasn t supportive, didn t help me with the baby. He held him for 10 minutes and gave him back. He was recently in jail! It s not the guy I knew. I ve been trying to have him around but more and more I think he s an awful influence and he just isn t a good father. He hasn t provided for the baby at all. He thinks it s a game where he can come anytime he wants and leave anytime. No stability. He s really young too. Any other mom would say no , you re not taking my son anywhere without me ! Right ?

So I have been with my boyfriend for only 6 months and we moved in together... Everything was perfect at first until i started to get annoyed with the things he would say or do. For example he will say things to just make me extremely mad like saying he will "cheat on me" that I m a "useless whore" Them the things that he does is once I m all upset and mad he will laugh or grab my face or hold me down.. Then I will freak out and slap him or push him off me then we will start to really fight.. Or sometimes if I get super mad and i don t want to touch him I will break things both mine and his.. I ve shattered his phone and ruined his expensive headphones.. He is constantly rude to me and making me feel less of a person more and more everyday.. And if I don t have sex with him he will get really upset and won t stop trying until I give in.. (I was raped back in June and I haven t enjoyed sex since ). I also hate porn and think it just shows women as objects and hate when he watches it but he will watch it on purpose when I won t have sex with him sometimes. I really love him and when we aren t arguing its a great relationship but am I the abuser?

We used to be 18. We dated for a year. She didn't want sex because she said she wanted to wait also she claimed she be a virgin. We'd still touch, send sexy pics, talk dirty. Well we graduated and she left to college. We'd still talk but that was it. She left for a whole year and i'd see pics of her partying/drinking with dudes you know college life. Well a year later she moves back home and asked me to grab food with her. I was confused because why would she want to meet up with me a year later? well we had lunch and we kissed etc. We started to talk about a relationship and she said she didn't know what she wanted. We started to talk about what have we done since we stopped talking. I then asked if she dated? she said yes but nothing serious. I tried asking low key how far she got in the dates as in if she's still a virgin and she wouldn't answer it. She kept walking and singing songs (avoiding the question). She then asked me and I told her I had slept with a girl she hates and said "SO WOW ONLY ONE GIRL HUH THAT'S IT". She got mad but she still wouldn't answer the questions I asked her earlier. We'll we're no longer together anymore but what do you think could she still be a virgin after so long? She could of just been shy too admit she's still a virgin but I don't know

Bueno, conocí a una chava, y pues hemos salido, bromeado y todo eso y pues tanto que nos enamoramos, solo que hay un problema, su ex es uno de mis mejores amigos y pues el antes de cortar con ella le dijo que nunca andaría con ni una de sus amigas, y ella dijo lo mismo. Y pues hace unos días le dije que si podíamos intentar algo, osea empezar una relación, le dije todo lo que sentía por ella y ella igual, solo por ese motivo, me dijo que lo de nosotros nomas no Vengo aquí para que me den concejos, que puedo hacer para que cambie de opinión y poder ser feliz con ella, la verdad la amo

Dont you think that she should stay out of it

I consider her a friend, we work together but run in different circles since she's 23 and I'm 18 but we get along well. She was doing this big sister lecture on safe sex lol cause I told her we don't use condoms since I'm on the pill. So she brings up hiv and I said oh come on its not like we know anyone with it and she says she knows several people with it actually. Well I was just being stupid, the conversation was generally light, and we live close to an area where heroin is really popular, and I asked if they were all from that area. Well she totally knew what I was getting at, and long story short she ended up telling me she's "a functional addict" and she actually does heroin all the time and a little speed "when she needs to perk up". I honestly did NOT see that coming. I knew she smokes weed but this is crazy. Idk what to do she's really nice and I care about her and I don't want her to die. Like she almost said it like no big deal but I can't even look at her anymore without thinking like omg what if this is the last time I see her. She's not getting me into it or anything she made it like a lecture for me to be safe in general and not start stupid sh#t, it's not like that. It's just I'm worried about her. Wtf do I do?

I feel like I m keeping a big secret from my dad by not telling him I m gay. Also it doesn t help that my step mom thinks I m trying to seduce my dad almost every time I wear shorts above my mid-thigh.

I'm in my 40's and I'm married. I met a young guy who is very shy. He's 26. It took him several months to warm up to me. We finally talked but there are times he'll just walk by and just ignore me. I've never experienced being ignored and I'm utterly disappointed. It's worse to feel that you don't matter. I've stopped talking to him but I still say Hi but I literally have to give that much energy to do so. My problem is I literally see this guy everyday as he slso lives close by. I am still disappointed at him but I want to get over it. Would it be weird if I ask him to be my friend? please advise- I'm not looking at this kid as a potential lover. He is also my neighbor.

One person loving someone who doesn't love them back. How does that even happen.

A female coworker and I work on projects together at work. At the end of one project she told me "you are the best" and at the end of another she asked me if I could get done with my part of the project before she left for vacation. I told her it will be done before you leave. Her response was "you are the greatest!!!" Also, in about 99 percent of the work emails I get from her she includes smiley faces. Does she like me??

Whenever I see someone drop their stuff, I voluntarily help him/her out, someone gets bullied, I'll help out, someone gets emotionally sad when I said something I probably shouldn't, then I apologize and so on. My friends and families says I'm to nice, like above average nice. Is it really bad? I don't know if can change that, because this is how I am, but I'm not really sure if i should if it's bad. What do you think?

And you always feel like they don't support you and are out to prove you wrong and laugh at you if you are? Is this normal? And they make you or to be crazy?

Is it weird if someone always sides with their ex? My friend has children with her ex husband and he has come under scrutiny for some legal stuff involving young children and their photos on the Internet. This is not the first time he has been investigated for this stuff. However she refuses to believe he did anything wrong and allows her kids to be around him. If anyone mentions that she needs to be more careful she get very angry and defensive. Is this normal?

Hello, through alot alot of fights and being bullied from her i just cant take it anymore, is there a legal way for my sister in law not to get near me or my child or have any contact with us? I'm still married to her brother, and he agreed to that, but he will still be in relationship with her which is completely fine, but she always get her way, she is not physically dangerous yet, but I do not trust her and i don't want any contact with her, what can i do if she insist of wanting to meet our child? or sending gifts or come near our home, my husband works full time, and he wont be around much, so i have to handle all of this by my own, Please help!

Three men have been sitting in a car watching my house for two hours now. I'm really scared. My front and backdoor is locked but I still suspect they might find a way to get in. I have a knife hidden under my pillow.

My husband slapped me. His reasoning was because he went through my phone and saw old messages of a conversation I had with a male friend a year ago, when we were separatedoing and going through the divorce process. In the messages I was giving my friend advice fir a girl he was dating... my husband was mad because he felt I shouldn't be talking to my friend because he doesn't like him.....so he slapped me... Now since I put him out he is telling people I cheated on him. He even told his family that the situation was their fault because he had a hard upbringing. He is at the same time begging me to take him back and go to marital counseling. I am stressed our and feel like divorce is the only reasonable option. .. I just don't understand why he's lying and making a horrible situation worse. ....

My husband has had gas for as long as we've been married can you suggest anything that I can give him to help him not have it as much. Or at least not smell so bad. It's to the point that we can't even sleep in the same bed Any more:(

My boyfriend and I have had a lot of issues because of my jealousy. I ve worked really hard on it, and I ve come a long way, but there are still some lingering effects... I just found out recently that he has a female friend that he had feelings for, who is now married. Apparently he regretted not asking her out when she was single. I didn t realize that he still talks to her, but I just found out he does... I feel like I have a right to be upset about this, and to at least ask if he still has feelings for her. However, he gets really defensive whenever I ask about other girls because I have such an intense history of getting upset about this sort of thing

Well I went out last night with some office folks and got a little bit drunk ( well I wasn't the only one) and one of the guys was particularly watching over me to the point that he said " I'm taking care of you" uh, idk but do you think he likes me for him to say that

I have been hurt many times in the past in relationships, and am always afraid of getting hurt. How do you learn to trust someone and put your faith in them, and believe they won't hurt you? How do you not worry when youre apart that they won't do something to hurt you? How do you believe someone's promises even though they are a good person and have morals and values and seem like a truthful person? And advice/tips would be awesome

I know it sounds crazy but it's true my oldest cousin won't accept me because I listen to rock music .I'm mixed and just turn 20 and his black and he thinks I'm screwed up because I listen to rock music and his said the i need to listen to only rap music and the reason why I can't get a girl is because I listen to rock . when his around his friends he treats me different from his thug friend so I have to act like a thug when I'm around him and I hate doing that but I hard to be myself around him without getting judge and treated like I'm less important. please help me figure this out. Thanks