Friends: Question: So how does one make friendships? |
- Question: So how does one make friendships?
- Question: Does counciling actually work?
- Question: What do you say to someone who just got out of the hospital?
- Question: Why is it considered normal for an Asian guy to get a Caucasian look, but not the way around?
- Question: Things to do when out alone?
- Question: Best friend ( of 10 years) brother just cuddled and kissed me?! Very shocked help.?
- Question: Need friend advice??
- Question: Best friend has a boyfriend and has stopped talking to me as much?
- Question: Fake Friend?
- Question: Would you break up with a best friend because of clinginess?
- Question: MY DOG JUST BROUGHT A DEAD LIZARD ON MY BED?
- Question: My son and his friend were talking in class, my son got written up, because the teacher said he only heared my son talking?
- Question: How do I separate myself from someone I've been friends with for so long ?
- Question: Highschool Loser?
- Question: Why did this girl do this?
- Question: I ended a friendship because he didn't respect boundaries or my relationship with my S.O. He is persistent and tries to make me feel guilty?
- Question: Advice for a close friend going to college?
- Question: Everybody now hates me even more and i will have problems with school and the people arround me cuz of a mistake i did.?
- Question: Big companies friends?
- Question: My friend got stuck in a laundry basket, please help!?
- Question: Nobody likes me?
- Question: I am the only person not having fun at school?
- Question: I keep f*cking up.?
- Question: Do you have more opposite sex friends (as friends)? I find most males are less dramatic and most hold no grudges. I am female.?
- Question: Tagging along with a group of all friends? Awkward.?
- Question: Why do I feel so depressed and unhappy?
- Question: I'm scared to go back to scool ��?
- Question: They misunderstood?
- Question: How to come out of my comfort zone?
- Question: Troubled teen, help????
- Question: How do I stop being socially awkward?
- Question: My friend's mom into me?!?!?
- Question: I have no friends?
- Question: What do you think of this? We are 3 best friends, A (me) , E and L. Me and E don't have a lot of money cuz only one of our parents works.?
- Question: Why would my close friends call me reserved?
- Question: Am I crazy, or is she someone I shouldn't be friends with?
- Question: My mom never lets me go anywhere? Ok so I'm 13 yrs old and my mother literally traps me inside. She never lets me go out. She says I can?
- Question: HEEELP I lost my earphones at school?
- Question: How to make friends?
- Question: I'm just not social?
- Question: Seeing my ex friends having a great old time depresses me.?
- Question: What is something that men do that is quiet like a shadow?
- Question: What to do when you're the ugly bestfriend?
- Question: Anyone want to talk over kik?
- Question: Is Instagram a good way to keep in touch with friends after I graduate and move away?
- Question: Can I get in trouble if I do it this way?
- Question: I cracked my friend's phone screen but I don't have money to pay for it?
- Question: Every time i get into a fight with someone/anyone i easily cut them out of my life without holding a grudge, is that bad thing ?
- Question: Where is home?
- Question: What do I do when my best friend replaced me with a bad influence?
- Question: Why is my new math teacher so fat?
- Question: What do you think? Is it weird we are close?
- Question: Is it weird that I occasionally get drunk alone?
- Question: Why people so easily confused?
- Question: Does this sound gay to you?
- Question: [Serious] I can't connect to anyone on more than a superficial level and it's really depressing and hopeless?
- Question: Is it okay to be friends with my best friends ex boyfriend?
- Question: How to befriend someone to get at their best friend?
- Question: I miss being in the hospital?
- Question: People judge me by my looks?
| Question: So how does one make friendships? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 05:13 PM PDT So basically a while back in 3rd grade I was a racist asshole at the start since my ADHD got the better of me back then and completely became isolated and mostly alone from there on. So I've been 15 for a while and am just starting 10th grade sophomore year and need decent advice for making friends... NOT THAT "oh don't worry about it you'll be fine" **** my mother always tells me. |
| Question: Does counciling actually work? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 05:09 PM PDT Ok I know everyone is going to hate me. Everyone of my friends do including one of the most important person in my life did (my ex best friend) She was basically my sister from another mother! She got veryyyy over protective when I started talking to my old gay best friend. I posted a picture of me and him on Facebook I put a caption up saying best friend(so that people didn't think I was dating him) is it ok to have another best friend?? But anyway she told me some horrific news and I literally was in tears! She told me she harmed her self and its coz she got a little jealous ect... and she told me in class :( I burst into tears and ran out, my other best friend came running after me and I was basically telling him it's all my fault and it slipped out my mouth what she done and my other best friend came out and heard me telling him when I was in tears and she went home and never spoke to me since! I would never mean to hurt her and now she's going to counciling :) she's getting better now according to her mum, I'm so happy for her but most nights I look at all the memories we shared!! It's hard to let go of our friendship!! I know what i done was wrong and I keep on punishing my self for what I done to her!! Does counciling really help?? Thanks 😞X |
| Question: What do you say to someone who just got out of the hospital? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 04:54 PM PDT |
| Posted: 26 Aug 2016 04:46 PM PDT I heard it all... ''Don't speak Korean, you're white it's weird''. ''Just act like a normal person''. ''I don't get what you like about this style'' Uhmm double standard? When people ask me what type of girl I like I show them a picture like this: http://tinyurl.com/j7gt35s And they'll give me a look as if I said the oddest thing in the world. I do wanna add. I do NOT have yellow fever. I genuinely like Asian culture, I don't watch anime or have weird fantasies. I simply prefer Asian girls and dramas. |
| Question: Things to do when out alone? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 04:43 PM PDT Nothing playing in the movies.. Bookstore gets pretty boring... I can't go to the mall because I don't want to spend alot of money.. Any places you suggest? Somewhere that keeps me outside the house.. I don't hang out with many people.. I'm a loner.. Let me know asap.. thanks.. |
| Question: Best friend ( of 10 years) brother just cuddled and kissed me?! Very shocked help.? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 04:39 PM PDT |
| Question: Need friend advice?? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 04:38 PM PDT So I've been friends with this girl for about three years now. We used to hangout everyday but recently she's been getting very annoying. She gets jealous when I hangout with other people (she once tried to convince me that hanging out with people besides her was bad), and I've noticed that she usually repeats phrases that I use to other people, which kind of annoys me. She tries to wear the same type of cloths that I wear, and to be frank, she's kind of an embarrassment. How do I get rid of her without being outright rude about it? And if your going to comment about how rude and immature I am and blah blah, don't bother because I don't care. |
| Question: Best friend has a boyfriend and has stopped talking to me as much? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 04:36 PM PDT My best friend is the closest I've ever been to another person (besides my parents) and they're very important to me. Oh, by the way, I'm a guy and she is a girl, although we are not attracted to each other romantically. For a while, we would Skype very often, talk a lot every day, play Steam games together and the like. We both have issues and I liked that we would support each other. Thus, best friends. Then one day, after being pretty cagey for a while, she tells me that she got back together with her ex-boyfriend (who she didn't even tell me existed) who she had been on and off with for 4-5 whole years. I haven't known her nearly that long... So after that, the Skype calls barely happen, talk became stilted, she didn't want to confide in me much, and stopped playing games with me as much. I get it, she likes him more than me, but it still makes me feel jealous when I see them playing games together, like, "why don't you play with ME sometimes?" It just sort of bums me out, we used to spend a lot of time together and now I am low priority, I guess. She's pretty much the most important person in my life and my closest-ever friend, as well as one of my favorite people. I'm all for supporting her having fun, I really want her to be happy. Although it still makes me feel depressed that I am essentially being ignored. Should I do something? Is there even anything I can do besides supporting her and being around if she needs me? I guess I'm just venting. |
| Posted: 26 Aug 2016 04:32 PM PDT So I have this friend, but i feel like she is using me. We have been friends for nearly six years, but for the past year or so i feel like i have been second best to her, that she just comes to me when shes bored. We used to facetime all the time, but now she makes excuses such as she is watching tv, or shes listening to music. But then she will put on social media that she is bored and wants to talk to someone. I will ask her to meet me, she will say okay, cancel on me and then meet someone else instead. When she is with me, she wont let me take photos together or post anything on social media, but when she is with other friends she posts ALOT. I feel like she is ashamed of me? I also feel like she is using me when shes bored. My mum dislikes her, and also thinks she is using me. I dont want to feel this way anymore, but everytime i try and ignore her and try to forget about her and carry on with my life without her, she worms her way back in and it starts all over again. Is she using me? |
| Question: Would you break up with a best friend because of clinginess? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 04:16 PM PDT I broke up with a friend cos everytime i dont feel like being around her but to be by myself or other people instead, and im talking only three or four days, she keeps saying things like i dont view friendship the way she does. It upsets me cos it makes me feel like she dismisses all the stuff i put into our friendship, when i dont want to hang out with her at times. And i explained to her a lot of times before that i need alone time and she says she accepts that, but whenever she gets sad or feels like im being distant when i dont hang out with her like she expects, it makes me feel like she doesnt accept that about me, no matter how many times she says she does. When i tell her how i feel about that she tells me its cos i dont accept myself, thats why i "accuse" her for trying to control my life. Is she making sense or was I right to break up with her? Anyways it was too much for me, it felt too demanding. |
| Question: MY DOG JUST BROUGHT A DEAD LIZARD ON MY BED? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 04:12 PM PDT Jk. So I have these 3 friends who I am pretty close with. We didn't really talk much over summer, and we didn't hang out cuz busy schedules. Now that school started again they seem much more distant, almost ignoring me. They haven't talked to me and I haven't talked to them cause I am afraid they r ignoring me. I texted one of them last night to ask for the math homework, she sent it to me and said it was no problem, as for one of the others I commented on a Instagram picture saying she is pretty, and she's not stupid cause she posted it saying she was stupid, and I also said I love u in the comment, she commented back and said "thx!😂 I love u" the other one came up to me and hugged me and said I look good, do you think we are ok? I didn't do anything.. They r some of my close friends, and they r all best friends, so why is this happening? Do they still love me? All these events happened last week, and they haven't talked me since, except the math hw thing was last night |
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| Question: How do I separate myself from someone I've been friends with for so long ? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 04:02 PM PDT My "best friend" of 14 years only cares about her new friends and her boyfriend, she constantly bails out on plans (even ones we've had for weeks or months) when she gets an offer from these friends (most of the time to do the thing we were going to do, she just up and cancels won't tell me why, I see her posts and she's there) She only talks to me when she has something she wants to say, I'm tired of her calling me names and playing it off like a joke. I don't want to be a doormat to someone who is supposed to be my friend. Especially one who's as shady as she is, she can't keep a secret (I've conducted several experiments where I have told a lie and told her not to tell anyone, with a list of specific people not to tell or mention anything around) she failed, every. Single. Time. It just sucks because if I detach myself, she is one of the only friends I have, my other friends (even the ones I introduced her to) would all pick her over me, given that they've done it before. I don't know what to do. |
| Posted: 26 Aug 2016 03:48 PM PDT Last year in eighth grade my best friend was in all of my classes. We were always together and pretty much the same person. She is very loud and can talk to anybody. I'm extremely socially awkward, and people think I'm snobby. I have very few close friends. Third day of freshman year and lunch is awful. I have one friend that i have known for years in it, but she just started in that district and doesn't know anybody. It just us at lunch and we are have been trying to sit at different tables to find decent people, but end up with really weird people who curse every sentence. I have alrwady cried too much about it. My best friend was saying how she met a whole bunch of new people and I have made none. I have been super depressed. I realize that in middle school, she was the one who helped me make close friends. It was because of her. Has anyone else gone through something Like this? What did you do? Will it get better? |
| Question: Why did this girl do this? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 03:19 PM PDT My ex husband got abusive while I was pregnant and I left him and I called this girl I thought was my friend and she works with my ex husband and she helped me put in a police report and stuff and then she stopped talking to me and was trying to get my husband fired and I didn't like that because that put me in danger because he could have came after me so I blocked her and then she shows him all of the text messages I sent her and everyone thinks I was the one who was abusive even though this girl saw my bruises and she even comforted him while he was at work.. What is wrong with people?? And now she's like best friends with him.. im 37 weeks pregnant btw. I don't get why he has all these friends and someone even told him it was okay for him to hit me because he at least didn't beat the **** out of me.. Ugh forget it never mind and I'm not going to post with my username because my ex husband is crazy and I would not want him to know this is me, obviously. You Internet people talk to others like they're not even people, I'm literally coping with a lot so punctuation and proper grammar is out the window for me, forget it dude. |
| Posted: 26 Aug 2016 03:17 PM PDT There's this guy (Walter) I've been friends with since middle school (I'm a 21 yr old F). I had never been enthusiastic about our friendship, but during high school he even started calling me his best friend. He thought that we were close and ignored the fact that I find it easy to connect with others and like to help when I can. He had always been immature and inappropriate, but my friends and I put up with it because we thought he'd grow out of it. I'm almost graduating from uni and in a wonderful LTR with my boyfriend (James). Walter enlisted after high school and met a girl he almost married. He (W) always text messaged me to ask for advice and talk about his life. J expressed concern but W had been significantly more mature since high school so I reassured him that W respected our relationship. I even started to consider him more of a friend. However, W's girlfriend broke up with him a few months ago & W started acting totally inappropriate and sought reassurance that I was his best friend. I told him that I couldn't be that person for him and that I didn't think we should talk anymore because his behavior was upsetting/disrespectful. He said he understood and left me alone for a while, but he's contacting me again and sends angry messages because I don't respond. I honestly don't want this person in my life but don't know what to say for him to accept it and completely leave me alone. I know I could/should have done something sooner but I need to know what to do NOW |
| Question: Advice for a close friend going to college? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 03:15 PM PDT one of my best friends is going to college soon and we text all the time though we live far away from each other we both consider each other closer/text each other more than our friends in our own towns. We don t see each other a lot so texting really is our only form of communication. I am younger so i m not in college yet so I feel like when she goes to college she ll not text me as much and we ll drift apart since she ll have new friends. I really don t want that to be the case considering she s really the only person I enjoy listening and telling all my problems to. Should I distance myself so it won t be so hard if she starts to ignore me? |
| Posted: 26 Aug 2016 03:02 PM PDT Ok i know i screwed up.I made a fake facebook account of one classmate that i hate for many reasons.Then i gave access to that account to one friend and he started texting to people,he did n texted bad things mostly compliments.The next day pretty much everyone knew what happend.What happend after that is not very important.Now the problem is that in school (school hasn t started yet here in greece) everyone will hate me and i will get low marks because of that account.Most people won t understand but i live in a small society full of rich rasist well known families that hate me because i m not Greek and i m bulgarian.What can i posibly do ? |
| Question: Big companies friends? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 02:53 PM PDT hi! folks the question how to make a friend online who works for a big company |
| Question: My friend got stuck in a laundry basket, please help!? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 02:47 PM PDT We were having a little get together at my friends house. It's just me and two of my classmates, good friends. Were in my friends room and were just hanging out all I remember was just seeing my friend fall out of the corner of my eye and start laughing really hard. I look and just see my friend in a laundry basket, stuck. I look at my other friend, and she says, she just fell in it, after a while of leaning over it against the wall. My friend stands up and the laundry basket came up with her, she pushed on it, but it didn't move at all. She tried again, but it won't budge. She asks for help, so the other friend and I grab onto the basket and pulled, she pushed as well. It wasn't budging at all. I grab onto her hands and my other friend pulls. But that wasn't working either. Her laundry basket isa white circular one with holes all around it. She also wearing a t shirt with short shorts. We still can't even budge the basket, how can we get her out? Help please! |
| Posted: 26 Aug 2016 02:43 PM PDT I'm 21 and I have 3 friends.. but I feel like after college I will lose them because I'm moving 2 hours away. I dont talk to anyone from my high school or hometown. I feel as though my cousins don't like me ethier because they always invite my brother places and hangout with him (he's 24) and they are 23-25. It really hurts my feelings and makes me sad when I see people doing things with friends and I don't really have that.. what should i do |
| Question: I am the only person not having fun at school? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 02:41 PM PDT All of my friends look like they are having so much fun in college and making so many new friends, but I have not even made one friend and haven't even found 1 party! ... What do I do? |
| Posted: 26 Aug 2016 02:40 PM PDT Today i embarrased the **** out of myself. Its the first week of highschool and at the very end of class today i was standing near the back of the classroom. My friend threw something at me and i flinched, then tripped. Whenever i tripped i fell onto a rolly desk chair behind me and slid across the classroom. Everyone looked at me and the teacher yelled at me. Now i have a bad impression. What should i do? Why is this happening? How can i stop from f*cking up like this and stop flinching so much? Please help. |
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| Question: Tagging along with a group of all friends? Awkward.? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 02:37 PM PDT So this time last year I ditched my group of friends for a "cooler" friend and then I realized that was a big mistake. But a few months ago I stopped being talking to the "cooler" friend cause she became a *****. And just a month ago I reached out to my ex BFF and now we are friends again (let's name her friend A). Friend A is still friends with my group of friends. But I haven't reached out to them at all to apologize. Anyways... Tonight there is a football game and I want to go but idk who to go with so I asked friend A if I can go with her. Well... She's going with that group of people so I am very nervous and I know I'll feel awkward and left out. Friend A said I can go with her (them) and she said that everyone else said it was FINE. Which makes it weirder and I'm so nervous omg. Is it a good idea? Should I go? I want to be friends with them again but scared of rejection. What should I expect from this? |
| Question: Why do I feel so depressed and unhappy? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 02:29 PM PDT I am a 16 years old boy. My problem has gone too far so I will write down everything to see if my illness can be cured. It all started when elemetary school ended. Then came high school with new classmates and teachers. Everyone seemed to know each other so well and I was all alone. Blending into a group of people was something I never excelled at. The new environment and lonrliness took over me and I was constantly crying whilst taking a bath. My new classmates didn't even know me and yet they were bullying me, and I absolutely didn't give them a reason to do so. Even if I ignore them they still carried on. It was the worst couple of months in my life. And the fact that I needed to study a lot also played a huge role in my transformation. According to a lot of people I am sometimes too gloomy or unhappy. And they are absolutely correct. I feel like It isn't even worth living anymore. In elementary school I was liked, I told jokes, we had fun. I had many good friends from elementary school. Unfortunately many of which took a path in their lives which many people fall into. They started drinking alcohol, they started smoking.. And this was the point where I had one elementary school friend remaining. He is the only one who understands me(and my mom of course) but he doesn't know everything about me. If only he'd knew, I guess he would consider me a depressive loner and that would make me kill myself. NOTE:this is not the end, but I have exceeded the character limit.by 1000 |
| Question: I'm scared to go back to scool ��? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 02:22 PM PDT There is a really really creepy instagram account stalking my friends, sending them pictures of their own mothers and neighbourhoods and texting them on the middle of the night. One girl who really hates me decided to spread a rumour that it was me, and I ended up nearly cracking under stress on the last week of school. Everywhere I went there were people asking me "Laura, are you XXXXX?" I was really stressed because I can't let the teachers or my mom find out, because my mom will lecture Mr incredibly and make me awkward, and the teacher threatens to report anybody messing around on instagram in my class. It's now the holidays and a week away from school and I'm scared that the rumor will keep going, even though my friends, and some people that aren't normally my friends are trying to squash if. Because of the stress, I deleted all my instagram posts, unfollowed everyone and got rid of my profile picture, because I can't delete my account but I realise it was a mistake, because now it might cause me a lot if attention. I really need advice. Please. Help. 😔 |
| Posted: 26 Aug 2016 02:15 PM PDT I play competitve games, and I wrote something funny in the chat because of something that happended.. but my friends are seeing it as trash talking, but it was not.. How to solve this problem? |
| Question: How to come out of my comfort zone? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 01:55 PM PDT Okay, so all my life i ve been blessed with alot of stuff. Good lucks, good family, talents and alot of things people wish for. But with all the good things, i ve been also given something that overshadows all this. And that s my anxiety. It s not the worst thing in the world, but it has definitely not allowed me to have friends. I just have no friends. I mean i know people in school and i talk to them but that s all, I don t have friends that come over or invite me. When it s the weekend im just all alone. I used to be okay with it. Now im in college, and im not okay with it anymore. Any tips on how to be able to get close to people, making friends and having fun? |
| Question: Troubled teen, help???? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 01:50 PM PDT I don't know what to do. My life is a mess and Im trying to stay positive but sometimes I can't. I have to deal with many family and financial problems, but apart from that I have to deal with myself. I hate myself. I hate my hideous face. That's what ruins my mood. I try to ignore it yet I obsessively stare at my flaws in the mirror. Other times I can't even look at my reflection. I deal with depression and anxiety too. I take independent studies and Im always home lonely and bored. I have zero friends and no one at home really tries to listen to me. I want to find a friend but how??? I'm an introvert. I'm always shy and timid, but once you know me Im not. I don't think I'm boring. I don't want a friend to annoy them with my sadness, I want one to have fun and have good times with. Any advice?? |
| Question: How do I stop being socially awkward? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 01:47 PM PDT I have a group of friends and if I do make new friends, they're either already acquaintances or friends of one of my friends. I'm just very awkward around strangers and people I find attractive, how do I become more social? |
| Question: My friend's mom into me?!?!? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 01:47 PM PDT Crazy story. I woke up at my friend's house and he got up early for work. I walk to the bathroom with morning wood. I take my clothes of for a shower and as I do the door opens and his mom walks in. She immediately sees my hard on and me standing naked. Her eyes open wide as she stares at it and yells "I'm so sorry!" and runs out. So later on she apologizes and says " sorry I saw your little friend, I mean not little." and it gets super awkward. Then she dropped a piece of bacon and bent down. She was in yoga pants and her butt grinded against my crotch. So my friend's mom is divorced and really hot for a 41 year old. She's blonde skinny and fit as she always works out. I'm 6 3 atheltic and work out too. So is it wrong for me to think about it. She always seems flirty with me now too I'm 18, so is she into me? |
| Posted: 26 Aug 2016 01:42 PM PDT Im a sophomore guy in high school, have a ton of acquaintances though but I don't consider them my actual friends. The thing is people really like me in school and lots of people know who I am but when it comes to outside friends, I haven't had anyone to hang out with/text/call me since 4th grade |
| Posted: 26 Aug 2016 01:40 PM PDT Both L's parent work and they get paid a lot, so L has a lot of money and spents too much, even for unnecessary things. As i said, we are best friends and we're in the same class and meet a lot after school. We spend a lot of time together and of course we eat everyday at school together. THE PROBLEM is that E sometimes asks L to pay for her food, mostly when we are eating after school, like every 2-3 days. She always says that she forgot her lunch money, or that her money are not enough and L always pays for her. L has told E a lot of times that she don't want to pay for her food but E doesn't listen to her. Yesterday we were hanging out with some other friends and we walked by a fast food. E was hungry but she didn't have money with her (at least she said so) and told L "go get me a sandwich". L refused but E insisted. L told her that she didn't have enough money (she was going to buy smth else for herself) but E told her that she is rich and she shouldn't mind paying for her. And E paid, as always. I took a sandwich for myself too and paid for it and E told me "why do you pay, let L pay cuz she has a lot of money". I felt sooo embarrased cuz our friends were watching :( She mad L feel very bad too :( L has told me many times that she want to make E stop but she can't. I feel very bad cuz they are both like sisters to me and I don't want them to start hating each other. I have told E many times to stop asking L for money but she continue to do it. What can I do? |
| Question: Why would my close friends call me reserved? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 01:26 PM PDT I don't understand. My roommates consider me to be very reserved. We spend a lot of time together and speak a lot. So, what could cause this? |
| Question: Am I crazy, or is she someone I shouldn't be friends with? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 01:10 PM PDT I am heading into my senior year of high school and this past summer has been very rough when it comes to my friendships. My best friend, Ana, since we were in fourth grade has become very close this summer to my sisters best friend since third grade, Alayna. Alayna is sort of a rude person and happens to be mean and negative. Ana, Erica, and I are all the same age, and my sister and Alayna are the same age, just a year younger than Ana, Erica, and I. So far this summer, I have seen Ana twice. My sister has only seen Alayna once at another friends house. Ana, Alayna, and Erica are always together(eventhoughtheytalkcrapabouteachotherwhentheirnottogether). They never invite my sister and I to anything. My sister only has Jake and Amie for friends. Ana and Alayna will invite Jake and Amie to do stuff with them but still not my sister. Ana has upset me by leaving my side while my other best friend leaves for college, but she has also taken my sister's best friend. So (TMI) coming ahead, but right before my period starts, my hormones fly crazy. This time,I blocked her on instagram and on snapchat; when she asked me why, I told her to call me, but she put up a small fight and has been ignoring me since, even after i apologized for my hormones. I went to her house and tried talking to her but she just told me that she's thinking of exactly what she wants to say to me. She still has not accepted my follow request or added me back on istagram, but she's with Alayna and Erica now. Am I in the wrong? WHEN she does choose to talk to me, what do I say? We've got one year left of high school together, can I/should I end the friendship? |
| Posted: 26 Aug 2016 01:09 PM PDT Hang out with friends but when I ask she shuts down the idea. I don't do any school clubs, I spend most of my time in my room and I only come out to eat. My friends all do loads of clubs and go out except me my life is SOOO BORING I live in a small country there are never any kidnaps where I live it's really safe my city is the size of a town. She makes excuses not to go out like: 'it's raining' or 'let's relax' |
| Question: HEEELP I lost my earphones at school? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 01:04 PM PDT So I lost my earphones at school today. I didn't notice it before I was going home, but it's weekend now. How big is the chance of getting them back? I live in Denmark, not so many people steal here. But still. How do I get them back? I forgot them in my class. Could some1 have taken them by accident? Because I just can't imagine anyone from my class, who would steal them! |
| Question: How to make friends? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 01:04 PM PDT So I'm going to be a sophomore and I'm moving to a new school. How do I make new friends? Last year in High School I knew nobody. I want to start being a high school kid with friends and a girlfriend but I don't know how to casually talk to others. SOS! |
| Question: I'm just not social? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 01:03 PM PDT I'm drinking with a friend, I want to go to a club but I just don't feel social at all. This happens almost every weekend? What's wrong? I want to have fun and socialize I just feel so stiff and unsocial |
| Question: Seeing my ex friends having a great old time depresses me.? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 12:53 PM PDT I want to change but I don't know how. I hold bitterness and resentment because my ex group of friends weren't there for me when I needed them and left me in the cold... I brought them together and although they all talked behind one each others backs... They decided I wasn't a good part of the group anymore and exiled me. I have been on my antidepressants which help, I have been seeing my therapist which helps, I have even made new friends who care about me... I have even deleted all social media that has my old friends on it... but the fact is, me and my old friends have the same hobbies and sometimes I accidentally run into them, and I see them having a great time together... It hurts me, I want to cry, because I used to be in the in crowd. I know they were bad to me, I know they were mean to me, and I know they used to gossip about one another as well, so why do I care? How can I make my stupid mind not care when I see them? I feel so pathetic, I should be fully moved on by now. |
| Question: What is something that men do that is quiet like a shadow? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 12:51 PM PDT |
| Question: What to do when you're the ugly bestfriend? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 12:49 PM PDT My bestfriend is gorgeous. She was voted twice for homecoming court, she's tan, dark features, and is so kind. We are very close, we don't do anything without each other and are notoriously known as "those two". I try so hard to not be jealous, I mean she's my bestfriend. I just feel like I'm constantly in her shadow. We were wearing matching outfits today and people kept coming up to us and saying "oh H you look so skinny! I wish I looked like that!" To her. (We weigh the same and are the same height) and guys always come up to her and ask to hang out when I'm with her and don't even look at me. I know it's petty, but it makes me feel terrible. I just wonder if it could be my features: auburn hair, hazel eyes, and freckles. I know a lot of people find that ugly. How can I feel better and what should I do when I'm standing there and people say stuff like that to her? Because I always feel awkward. |
| Question: Anyone want to talk over kik? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 12:40 PM PDT This probably wont work out, but I'm trying anyway. I'm just bored right now. (Honestly, I'm at school, but I'm on lunch break now, and I have no friends) So, yeah. If you want to talk for about 20 minutes, hit me up at CountryPotato. (Cap sensitive) |
| Question: Is Instagram a good way to keep in touch with friends after I graduate and move away? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 12:13 PM PDT After college my friends and I will live 1-2 hours away from each other :( I want to keep in touch and not lose them like I lost all my high school friends |
| Question: Can I get in trouble if I do it this way? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 11:53 AM PDT I graduate 2013. In 2013 when I was in Highschool I met a girl name Caroline. After I graduate I went to the school to say hi to Caroline and I text and call Caroline every day and I Facebook her every day. I was going to her school to say hi to her in March 2014. Her friend told me that she needs space In August 2014 the school police say I not allow to talk to her or be near and I not allow to talk to her family or be near her family and I not allow to ask for forgiveness. My plan is I going to get rich and build a pizza shop that do an event call Riley dance marathon because that is Caroline favorite event. If she do not forgive me for her favorite event then I not going to own the shop I going to let someone else own the shop so if this do not work then she will mess up instead of me. I just go to sue her if she messes up. I not go to get her in trouble for getting me in trouble at the wrong time. Caroline Just started College in August 2016. If someone else own the shop then I would get in trouble at the wrong time. I do not want to hurt her. I just want to work out the friendship with her. It would either be she forgive me with her favorite event or she would mess up and then she would feel bad. |
| Question: I cracked my friend's phone screen but I don't have money to pay for it? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 11:27 AM PDT I hugged my friend and when i pulled back from the hug, i accidentally hit her phone with my elbow because she was holding it in a weird way, and it fell down and cracked..i totally take responsobility for this but the deal is...it costs about 100 dollars to get it fixes and i can't afford that much, i can't afford even 10$ bc my family is very poor...pls help |
| Posted: 26 Aug 2016 11:26 AM PDT I treat everyone , Everywhere that i go Nicely, I'm an open person I don't bring drama to anyone. What i don't like is that fact that people think they can say anything to people without thinking and the other must take it or else they are "overly sensitive" or snobby for not taking the verbal obnoxious beating . I just figure i don't have to put up with anyone. I don't treat others that way. Its way more easier to forgive , Cut you out and move forward. My brother thinks i shouldn't be so quick to do so , Am i wrong for being this way ? |
| Posted: 26 Aug 2016 11:19 AM PDT Is it where you are now? Where you were born? Where your family's from? Where you used to be? I have moved around for so long and now I'm 16 and I just don't know where to call home, or where to go? So many people and places I've left behind :( |
| Question: What do I do when my best friend replaced me with a bad influence? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 10:58 AM PDT So I m not sure if this has been asked already but my best friend and I have been close for over a year now but lately she s been awfully close with this new girl. And I mean really close. They link arms when they walk, hug, and other gestures she and I used to do. But now she s practically ignoring me and getting into a lot of drama. it seems like they knew each other before so am I in the wrong? |
| Question: Why is my new math teacher so fat? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 10:57 AM PDT She's ugly and dumb, too. |
| Question: What do you think? Is it weird we are close? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 10:53 AM PDT My college instructor (he taught me cane mobility) recently died & we were extremely close, so it's been hard on me. Although his sister & I have become very close through grieving the loss of him.. We've never met, but we stay in contact through fb messages. sharing memories, stories, dreams we have of him, we've gotten very close. She basically is watching me grow up and sees all my accomplishments through the posts. Sees me honoring my instructor as he was my hero for helping me over come my big setback. Recently she sent a long message saying how smart, bright & beautiful I am. (She's a BLUNT straight up lady who hardly ever compliments) How I'm wise beyond my years etc. she even said "you are so blessed. I am so very proud of you!!!!" How could she be proud of me if we've never met? |
| Question: Is it weird that I occasionally get drunk alone? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 10:44 AM PDT I'm 21, almost 22, and every once in a while I get drunk alone. I mean, it's not like I'm sitting around doing shots...it's usually like, the last night of the semester and none of my roommates are home, or a summer night when my parents are out of town and I'm home alone, and I'll end up finishing a bottle of wine. I didn't think it was that weird, but I mentioned it to my cousin the other day and she acted like it was concerning, telling me it's a sign of alcoholism. I'm definitely not an alcoholic (I probably drink less than the average college student) but now I'm wondering if it's a weird thing to do? Also, sorry if this is the wrong category, but it originally put this in Wine & Spirits which didn't seem quite right since I'm asking more about the social aspect than the alcohol itself, lol. |
| Question: Why people so easily confused? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 10:44 AM PDT Every time I tell my friends 2+2=17 they laugh at me and fart in my face |
| Question: Does this sound gay to you? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 10:39 AM PDT Nelson invites Sam over for dinner. Sam grabs a piece of bread and pokes Nelson's lips. Nelson hesitates and says. No, I'm not a baby I can fed myself. But Sam tells Nelson to close his eyes and says we're friends bro. So Nelson opens his mouth and Sam feds Him the bread and Nelson bites his hand purposely as a joke. One morning Sam touched and rubbed Nelson's head and Nelson giggles but then got embarrassed because he's 21 and feels like he's acting like a little kid. One night Nelson stared down at Sam, Sam said wanna sleep together? So Nelson gets into bed. Nelson is having a hard time sleeping so he grabs sam's hand and falls asleep that way. |
| Posted: 26 Aug 2016 10:36 AM PDT I'm 19 now, but ever since I was a little girl I have had a lot of trouble connecting with people and making/keeping friends. I also have had a lot of bad luck with friends and people treating me really badly when I am a nice person and a good friend. It's frustrating and hard to deal with. A big part of my depression and anxiety also stems from this. I have trouble taking things to the next level and going from an acquaintance to a friend. I just feel like I never make a good enough first impression and never know the right things to say to people to make them like me. I have a hard time being my authentic self. (I have social anxiety and trouble expressing myself and opening up to people). I'm at the age now where I need to be more mature and can't fall behind and need to have the same social skills as other people my age. This stresses me out, because sometimes I feel like I just don't know what to say and don't measure up to other people my age. |
| Question: Is it okay to be friends with my best friends ex boyfriend? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 10:21 AM PDT Okay so basically my best friend is angry at me for being friends with her ex boyfriend, to the point where she will get her family to make rude hints to me . Normally I wouldnt be friends with any of her ex s because I know it upsets her.The difference with this ex is that I was friends with him before he was in a relationship with my best friend anyway . They havent recently broke up either, they broke up a year ago & she is now in a serious relationship with someone else. I dont know what to do because this whole situation is really stressing me out, I find it hard to fall out with a good friend of mine because my best friend doesnt want me to . There is no reason for her not to trust me because i m happily dating someone . Its annoying because In the past she has got with people who I have had feelings for , knowin that I like them.Yet even then I didnt moan at her too much when it hurt me.So i dont see why I m not aloud to just simply have him as a friend? What should I do? |
| Question: How to befriend someone to get at their best friend? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 10:04 AM PDT So I like this girl, but I don't have any classes with her to talk to her. However, her best friend is in one of classes. I figured out that if I get to know her best friend, then maybe she'll introduce me to her. So how do I go forth with this plan? Thanks |
| Question: I miss being in the hospital? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 09:53 AM PDT About half a year ago I was hospitalized because I was weak, sick and coughing blood. I had symptoms long before but somehow I got used to them. Till I started coughing blood ofcourse. I was always out of breath and barely doing most things like going up the stairs. I was regularly late and I had no friends. Being in the hospital was amazing. Caring docters, a realy nice bed, loads of stuff to kill time. There was alot of boredome and you couldn't just walk outside whenever you wanted but apart from that it was great. I just want to be there again, having nurses care for me, the great bed and not having to care about anything :( I did so much improving there and I will never forget some of the cool and goodlooking peeps I met there. |
| Question: People judge me by my looks? Posted: 26 Aug 2016 09:49 AM PDT So most of the time, people will tell me I'm ugly and I try to tell them that I don't care but in honesty it hurts. When I post a photo with my best friends, they all comment "she's so ugly but her friends are so hot" with the heart eye emojis, or "she's too ugly for her friends, they should find prettier friends",sometimes people tell I'm pretty and I do feel like I'm kind of beautiful but not as much as my friends now a days. Any advice? I hate feeling insecure. On some days it will be gone because I feel happy and no one points out my looks but on other days it's like "she's hotter than you", or "she's not your best friend, she's too pretty for you" or the worst one "I talked to her, she says you're ugly and you should die" (last part is not true because I've seen her go off on them sticking up for me but that's just their way of making me feel like crap) |
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