So basically I seen this guy which I found attractive, but time went on and he moved out of site. So I just threw thoughts of him out the door. So then one random day I see him, sitting on a bemch, feeding bird, but he acted alll gee- A- why lol and played the "I was nervous" bull on me. So then he gossiped to his magazine model friends that act like chicks about how "I" ignored him. So because he swears "I" was in the wrong, does that mean he is like passive agressive, or was I culturally expected to praise him and attack him for his number?

He does this A LOT His phone is on his nightstand and he covers his phone with his hand

Today, I was sitting in English class, it's a new year, I've been in school for about a week now, we got out early, thus we go back in early, however, the problem is teachers this year, most of them confuse me as a girl, even though I don't wear girl clothes, and look nothing like one, my hair, it's long but not girl long, I'ts like down to my neck, but if you'd look at it from the back you'd be able to tell it was a boy, but, for some reason, my teachers or most of them think I'm a girl and I don't want my classmates to laugh trying to correct the teacher, as If I've already not been laughed at enough, none of them have noticed, but I have, "her" and my heart just trembles, and crumbles... I just, don't know how to tell them I'm not a girl without making it all awkward...

While looking at a woman? Short inflected whistles not to any melody nor wolf whistle.

My bf and I just moved to a new apartment. We have bills and rent due next month. Right now I am the only one working and he is waiting to hear back from an interview. Am I such a mean gf cus he wants to spend $10 dollars on Pokemon go and I said no. We barely have any money as it is and is upset that I got to buy a vacuum for $17.56. And he wanted to spend $15 for a storm trooper helmet which I also said no to.

This girl i really like is my ex-best friend i really like her but i think it might break her friendship with her friend but i don't know.I didn't mean to fall in love with her it just happened shes really sweet.(My last ex broke up with me because she was bi were still friends but i don't know.) Whats the best thing for me to do?

Its a bit of a long story but recently my boyfriend got himself a new female friend who he claims has no feelings for and was very good friends with in the past. Every time I ask to see his phone he refuses. When I grabbed his phone the other day he said that the new iPhone update only allows him to unlock his phone with his finger print. (this "update" happened next day he started talking to this new female friend). And to top it off he cleared his messages because "he likes keeping his phone clean". Now here is the twist. I used to do the same thing to him in the beginning of our relationship. Do I have the right to be mad that 2 years later he wants to make it even and do the same thing I used to do with my phone? Or is he at right here?

Married/Long-Term Committed People: I'm curious about something. As opposed to previous relationships that did not work out, how did the one that did work out feel different? Is the right relationship always feel easy, like there are no major suspense about whether it was going to happen? I guess really my question is, how did your successful relationship feel as you were getting into it that was different from the way past relationships, that failed or weren't a good fit, felt? Thanks! x I'm especially curious about how it felt different going in, like as soon as you met the person. Obviously down the road it becomes clearer what relationships are going to work but in retrospect, what about the person and the two of you together was different early on, maybe even before you started dating?

Hey so I am a college freshman and I recently moved into campus. Meeting new people has not been an issue, and I am getting good at introducing myself and finding common interests. I have met a lot of my current acquaintances through some Ultimate Frisbee, Capture The Flag, and eating in the dining halls. However, the people on my floor seemed nice at first but have grown to be really shallow over the past several days. All they do is make small talk, and all the guys are concerned about is picking up girls. All the conversation is about is stuff like drinking and sex. If it's not that, it's things like Never Have I Ever and dumb conversation. I know I sound really negative, but whenever I say I am not interested in hanging out where I am going to be bored, they seem to treat me like an outsider. Do you have any advice for dealing with this? I try not to concern myself with how other people think of me, but these are the people I will be living with for a while. Do you suggest just not spending much time in my dorm and simply finding friends through more interesting activities like I have so far. Idk what to do and it's really bugging me right now.

Him: hey wanna come over tomorrow night? Me: Sure lol, just have to see if I have a ride tomorrow after work down to tville. Him: I ll get ya if anything . I m taking my car to the shop tomorrow to get it fixed Me: Okay that s fine then. I get out at 9 and what s wrong with your car Okay so does that mean he s gonna pick me up from work or tville he doesn t live in tville just near it

Hey so school started a couple of days ago and we had orientation like 2 days before that and when I went there I found this really beautiful new girl. I l got her Instagram so I followed her on both her accounts and she followed me back. I was too nervous to ask for her snapchat through Instagram DM's cause she didn't know me but in my bio it says my snapchat and the next morning when I opened up snapchat I saw that she added me as a friend. On that day when I added her back, I asked if she wanted to start a streak and she said yes and we talked a little that day. Then two days ago it was kinda the same thing. Talking a little bit, nothing too much. Then yesterday, when she saw me in person she was suddenly a lot more talkative to me on snapchat. When school ended that day, she immediately started Snapchatting me and we've basically been talking all day and whenever we stopped talking for about ten minutes she would send me just a random photo or say something through the chat. Even like 30 minutes after we stopped talking she sent a photo saying "streak" but i thought it was just to start a conversation with me, cause we already started it like 30 minutes earlier. So please let me know if you have any questions that will help you better understand, and please let me know, thanks!

One girl I know has a new boyfriend like every 6 months and she is not even pretty. I know looks aren't everything but she used to date my neighbor and she would harass me because she thought I wanted the neighbor.

I said i was really done but I know I say things when Im mad/sad that I dont really mean. We ve gone through the whole "Im done" saying a couple of times and we tend to argue over things that can be fixed. He texted me back couple days later "just move on. proceed to the next level financially physically mentally" But ive bought him things when asked or volunteered to do so and didnt get anything in return. Never asked nor expected so idk what he meant by "financially" He has told me Im fat and better start woeking out more than any other negative things he s said about my appearance (nothing extreme a little belly fat) and we ve been intimate couple times so not sure what he meant by "physically" And I do talk to him about educational topics and vent to him and he gives me advices but not sure what he meant by "mentally" I also asked him "are you done with me" and he said "yes" but idk what he meant by move on financially, physically, mentally

I feel like my ex has the best butt ever. What do I do? I feel like their is no better. It was 3 months ago when she broke up with me and I never pressured her into sex and it never happened, and I wasn't dating her for that but it bothers me a lot now. I love her for such much more than that but still. Is their better?

So, I'm a girl in college, and I'm having trouble choosing between two guys. Guy 1: He is my bf. I met him in middle school. He played football (tight end), has a great body, but also is very smart. He's a classic romantic, and he's also the nicest guy you'll ever meet. Also a great kisser. Guy 2: He is my friends older brother. He is more edgy than guy 1. His family is rich, some doesn't have a day job. He plays guitar, violin, sings, writes, and draws. He also likes chess. He is very flirty, and is really god at banter. He is also very, very good looking, and has a killer sense of style. I mean, he could be a model. He's more spontaneous than romantic. He donates thousands of dollars to stop animal abuse because he's an animal advocate. He also writes a bunch of poems (and they are good) for me, and that's cute. Help me choose between them!

I share a studio apartment with this person. And he wants to take a **** in the trash can after I've cleaned it out and put fresh lining. He is also trying to be disgusting. I told him that if he does this I will send him out and take the trash can with him and he can clean it out.

For the past two years I have been having dreams about the same guy I went to middle and high school with. I had always had a little crush on him and at first didn t think anything of the dreams but then they started getting more frequent and coincidences started happening. Now I m really starting to develop strong feelings towards him. I have googled why I keep dreaming about him and some sites say that because I m single it s my minds way of showing me the type of relationship I want. Yet other sites say there must be some reason that you are constantly dreaming of him and it may show suppressed feelings for him and to be proactive and turns dreams into a reality. I m now constantly thinking about him and im at war with myself on what to do. Do I try to contact him? If I do what would I even say? I haven t spoken to him in a few years and fear that he will think it weird of me to contact him. PLEASE HELP!!!!

so just cause a guy is truly in love with you as in he feels that way, doesnt mean hes committed and you can trust him. FACT. Update: granted, he cheated after i didnt give him attention for a few days because i was busy at school. but that also shows us maybe his love was only when/cause i gave him attention...

There's this guy, and long story short he says that we are friends. Never really believed it because he was pretty wishy washy and I mean he said I'm the coolest and smartest girl he knows. Recently, however, he started being different. He started flirting with me more than usual and he was more supportive and said things like "I want to fall asleep talking to you" and he told me that he's wanted to kiss me for a really long time??? which is not something you say to a friend. Anyway, he abruptly stopped talking to me and other day he told me that he can't talk to me anymore because he's hurting me and that he just doesn't know how to control himself because he doesn't have any close girlfriends.. I've come to two conclusions he is bored with his life and he decided to try talking to me because he had nobody else. Two, he has major commitment issues and doesn't know how to confront his problems. And what should I do??

nothing fancy. just meeting up at a place to talk. is it bad to show cleavage ?

I've known this guy for almost 6 months. We broke up after a couple months of dating because I did something that really upset him and we didn't really talk the whole summer. Recently he reached out to me, and I responded. We never really spoke about the situation and we have yet to meet up in person again. He messaged me first asking to hang out but I said I was busy. Then he commented on some of my pictures just calling me beautiful, cute, etc.. Whenever I ask him to hang out first however, he never responds? Or he will be super vague and just say OK. It's really frustrating and honestly I still do like him. Is there a reason why he's acting like this? What should I do?

I've been "online dating" this guy for a month and we are having our first date Monday and agreed to make a list of questions to ask each other. what questions should I ask him?

So there's this girl in one of my classes, I can feel she's kind of interested in me but I wanted to ask for another opinion. The thing is that she always sits near me especially in front of me, since the class isn't very crowded and there's various places to sit it seems weird to me that she would sit in front of me, one day some new guys got into the class and one guy sat in front and the other behind me to the left when she entered class she wanted to sit behind me but decided to sit up the front of the row next to mine, she's a bit hard to read because she's a bit of shy and also kinda of a klutz

This is pretty awkward to think about and even more so to write about. My daughter is 15, and it's just me and her living at home. I usually respect her boundaries and give her privacy when she needs it so I don't think I'm in the wrong. Basically I do her laundry and I used to know on her door and ask for her laundry basket and after a while she basically just said to go ahead and grab it and no need to knock. So this evening that's exactly what I did. I walked up the stairs and walked into her room without thinking and I walked into her masturbating pretty hard. She was on her back arched up so her butt was in the air and she was rubbing fast with her mouth open but she was holding her breath (no idea why) I was only in there for like 5 seconds because of shock but it was long enough to see her orgasm. I've walked in on her a couple times on accident, but thank God she always covered up in time and just played it off, which I was fine to do as well! So while I've seen her a couple times laying down probably right after finishing, I've never seen her actually having an orgasm. Luckily, because her back was arched up I only saw her bare butt cheeks and the bottom of her labia. The worst part was that I didn't get out fast enough because as soon as she started to orgasm she saw me and pretty much said "Omg dad get out I can't stop" which is understandable because I know once my orgasms start I can't really just turn it off. Anyway I'm pretty sure I just ruined our relationship forever. Has any other dad been in this situation? Email me and let me know because it's messing me up my email is sendtome123456@yahoo.com

It's like she is saying that I am less attractive with them on, she meant it as a compliment but I don't know why but it made me feel like crap as I have to wear them a lot of the time.

I used to go out with this guy. We weren't boyfriend and girlfriend, but we dated for about 3 weeks... I truly did fall for him, but suddenly he left me,for I was going to go to college 9 months later... nonsense . Yet after two days, when a guy asked me to take me for ice cream for I was depressed and he found out, he texted me that now he knew everything we went through didn't mean **** to me. I explained everything to him and told him I cared about him that he was the only one I cared about. He finished everything by text claiming he no longer had feelings for me and refused to give it a second chance. I was extremely sad for I take these things seriously. I honestly felt played, especially because right after he left me he just spoke wrongly about me. He started to avoid me, treat me extremely bad... as in even threw doors at me. He would see me with despise, say I was clingy (which I was not) and simply tell people I was a bug. While we were dating, he was never like that... He was loving and so was I. Imagine me hearing these awful things when I cared so deeply about him. Anyways, he would get jealous if I were with one of his friends, I wasn't doing anything bad yet he would guilt trip me and make me apologize and feel bad. He truly treated me like ****, but I hate holding a grudge against people, so even if he would kiss girls in front of me I'd forgive him and put a smile on my face. I knew I truly loved him and I accepted his rejection. It truly seemed like he didn't care about me at all. He'd even tell his friends he didn't like me at all. I'd still try to be his friend, though... (Ofc he didn't give in). Anyway... things got a little bit better, yet he would still avoid talking to me and what not, except when he would get a little tipsy, then he'd ask me to kiss him, ask if I liked any of his friends, try to hold my hand. I just felt like he was playing me, I mean he'd only come to me when he was a little drunk and always told people he didn't care at all. Anyways, about 7 months passed, and I became extremely close with his friends and at one event, I drank a little bit too much and ended up kissing one of his best best friends (I didn't know he was his best best best friend, just close friend). Anyway, hsi friend and i agreed he had nothing to claim, for he had left me, treated me badly and made it clear he didn't want me in his life. But he saw us and got pissed off... He decided to no longer talk to him, nor me. He blocked me from social media, talked about me as if I were a villain. I apologized, although I explained to him that I was not a possession, that just because we went out for three weeks it doesn't mean I belong to him or his untouchable collection of girls. That I was sorry if it hurt him, but not if it only hurt him cuz he saw me as a possession. that just because we went out for three weeks it doesn't mean I belong to him or his untouchable collection of girls. That I was sorry if it hurt him, but not if it only hurt him cuz he saw me as a possession. I explained that his best friend only did that because he thought he couldn't care and that it was an accident for me as well (I don't ever kiss people I don't have feelings for). I truly didn't even do it on purpose to hurt him... but i get it could have urt him, eve though I had understood that he couldn't give two fu...s about me. So I didn't understand why he was so upset, for he did leave me after all and even though I was always open about my feelings for him, he'd always reject me. Anyways, he somehow makes me feel as if I committed a crime, but I'm not even his ex...He has made me feel so much pain before and even now... I still like him and he can't see that both, his friend and I, are in pain... He didn't even respond to my apology and said he didn;t want to hear from us for months, not even texts... Is all of this my fault? I hate feeling like I hurt people…

Just curious that's all I can say.

WE HAVE NOT HAD SEX

Okay let's start in 5th grade I liked someone alot he told me he knew I liked him but he didn't like me 😖 I was really ugly... I got told all the time even by him 😵😊 I was always bullied but he was so nice 😊 okay so we both went to different middle schools and highschool started he's in the same class as me 😬 only 2 classes he can't stop staring at me and when I the teacher is talking my way I glance at him and he covers his face with his hand so what does this mean I got told by all the people that was mean that I look different and they confuse me I have black hair with highlights honey eyes and light freckles their really not noticeable so back then I had black eyes black long hair bangs I wear really short clothes called slut all the time and I stopped so why does this happen

I was out of town for a week and i came back and my boyfriend seemed exhausted and had chills, even though its like 90 degrees and when i gave him a hug, he told me to be careful with his sternum because its really sore, and i said from what and he said he fell. I didnt think much about it until i found discharge papers from the hospital, saying he was admitted for alcohol and opioid abuse, and i dont know how to even ask or what and this is really heartbreaking to know. did he overdose and they game him cpr is that why he sternum hurts?

There's this guy that I began to really like. The second that I met him I was interested. I think he was pretty interested in me too because he was the one who started making moves onto me..he would hug me and just flirt with me and then we did cuddle for like 2 hours and eventually we did kiss a few times. I didn't know him that well but I just felt sparks and I really thought it was going somewhere. Even his sister came up to me and said he's never acted like this with a girl, like he really cares for me. I felt different too with him it's like he did care, it's just the way he looked at me..a guy has never looked at me like that. Then I went home eventually and began texting him he was really sweet and all and it was a pretty nice convo. Well then as days past it didn't seem like he really tried to talk to me, it's like I had to start the convo and then I eventually straight up asked him how he feels about me and if he even enjoys talking to me, he said he was interested just he's been busy.. And then I felt relief and understood well then I wanted him to text first and he never did it's been a few days and now I'm like overthinking things and I feel really upset cause I feel like if he really did like me then wouldn't he text me? I mean how can you just forget about a person after you've had so many sparks with...what should I do, get over him or just stop over reacting ? Please help seriously

So I am 22 and have always been in relationships and am really the relationship type. I moved to a new city for my masters and I've been single for about 6 months and I met this really attractive guy. We connected instantly and have so much in common, I have a HUGE crush on him. But he is NOT boyfriend material (for many reasons). I really want to try the friends with benefits thing with him because I'm finally a single gal in a new city (lol) and I think it's time for me to sew my oats!! But is fwb for everyone? I get really attached to whomever I'm crushing on. How do you push feelings aside to have a friend with benefits (because I really need to get laid) ?

So she was left at the alter because her ex fiancee did not want to be tied down by marriage. She had a lot of help through this trying matter by her mother and sisters, cousins, aunts and brothers. Anyway as anyone can imagine she was heart broken and stayed in bed for days. So she went to counseling and dealt with her problems and eventually got a job in Nashville, she grew up in California and went to high school in Nashville which is where I live. We eventually reconnected at a business meeting between our companies(We dated in high school ). So we've been going out since December 2015. She has been an amazing girlfriend and I love her but se has trust issues which I can understand but I feel as though her ex's view of men is being projected onto me and I want to know how I could talk to her about it.

Are you still together?

I'm a freshman in high school and I just really want a boyfriend, NOT for sex or expect to get married to this guy just so a guy will like me and so I can have that one person to talk to about stuff other than my girl- friends. I'm overweight but am working on it, have acne, and am very very shy. I wish I had the balls to talk to guys but I just don't. I LOVE makeup and that makes me really confident so that helps and making my hair super pretty and everything but I'm just nervous for high school. I start in a few weeks and there are gonna be a lot "bigger" guys and hot guys and they all like the pretty skinny girls. Don't deny it cause it's true. I know it's not all about looks but let's be honest we all care about looks so yeah. Any advice?

i'll tell her "hey girl you're so beautiful, I want to rape you, and I don't even want to wear a mask cuz i want you to know it was me ;)"

Ok so me and my girlfriend just broke up, and don't worry I'm not devastated. She said she can't deal with me not talking to her but I'm working and I'm in school. Did I do anything wrong? I told her why but she says a bunch of stuff about how nobody cares about her and she's depressed and all this stuff. But I can't recall a thing I did

Hi this is gonna be a long post but I will appreciate it If you guys continue reading.. I am 22 years old and my friend is 20, we're university students. My best friend and I have been friends for 3 years now and I am starting to fall in love with him. So reason why I question his sexuality is because he's never had a girlfriend and he rarely talks about girls (at least not when I'm with him). When I asked him if he had a crush he didn't answer and asked me why I wanted to know. I remember before we got close he used to joke around with me (like holding hands) and I always caught him stealing glances at me from afar (he just smiled when I looked at him). We watch movies together a lot but we rarely hang out at uni (because of different schedules) but we try to spend time together if we can. The reason why I think he's not into me is because I am always the one who initiates and makes plans. Nevertheless, he doesn't have problems following through the plans. I am the one who always text him up on WhatsApp (our main tool of communication online). On WA, he doesn't converse and always straight to the point and short in his replies (it's hard to flirt because of this lol) but now I accept that it's just the way he is (I talked to him about this, and he hasn't changed). He's quite religious soion I hope you guys can help me.. Is there a chance he's also in love with me? I just love him so much. Thanks in advance.

i met this friend like two days ago bc I'm in the first year of high school. She is dating my crush and I'm supporting her not to be rude. what should i do because I'm really jelious and ik its so stupid jealous**

okay so I'm a freshman in high school and I really want a boyfriend. I mean it's not like I'm desperate or anything but I think it would be fun but whenever I start to like someone and I think they might like me back I get scared and I don't know why?

So...i like this guy. I've been friends with him for over a year now. He used to work where i work (im a cook, he's a waiter) but now he only works maybe once a week since he took on a better job. He also recently went through a bad break up. (Well, more sudden. He dated someone for over 5 years and the chick just ended all contact with him and went after another guy) I totally understand all this. He's a friend of mine and i let him know im there for him to rant on or just talk to. He was down for weeks but now is a bit better, enough to be his normal happy, silly self. Many people at work say he shows signs of liking me, be it teasing alot, going up to me and talking, and being really close. Again, i am his friend but i started feeling more in the last 2 months and only now really believe thats how a feel. Thing is...he doesnt ever really txt me. Maybe a snapchat or two once in a while. So, in the last few days i tried a few times to start just casual talk like we do at work...he responds but the conversation dies quickly. I do not try to double txt. I just don't get it, hes cool to chat in person but outside that...not much? Its usually the other way around. Did i do something wrong?

So I've been sort of dating this girl for a few months now, and I really like her but I'm going to college starting next month. I'm going to school out of state but she's staying in state. It's about an hour and a half train ride from my place so it's no bad. Should I still keep trying to move the relationship toward with her?

We used to talk all day and he'd do anything to see me but then we got into a very bad physical fight/argument that left us not talking for a week. Now I don't know if he lost interest.. He tells me he still really likes me but takes 2-3 hours to text back. Doesn't that show lack of interest? He tells me wants to see me but barely puts in the effort to. We'll have plans to hangout and will text me late as hell while we should be hanging out. Is he not interested? We don't date but talk. He still texts me everyday first though but just shows little to no effort or interest into the conversation or seeing me. it's absolutely breaking my heart. Do you think I should just let him go and stop trying or am I overreacting?

I explain to her that I was sorry and that I still had my feeling and wished she could forgive me. Then she wrote back saying it s fine you didn t do anything wrong? What does that mean? And what do I say to that? Please help me, I love this girl!

Okay so i have a guy bestfriend who ive known for about 6-7 years and were really close im a girl and we are so close we litteraly sat in the same chair during class and i leaned on his shoulder he didnt mind, there was a 15 s and we danced all night he taught me how bc i didnt know and it was awesome his hands would touch my waist ... I think i fell for him so anyways we just started school and usually when i talk i move my hands alot and he does too he touched my hand 5x and no awakrdness at all. Im having a party this saturday and i briefly invited him in front of my other guy friends i didnt think he would come but his brother texted me when was the party so they could come!!!! Am i falling for my guy friend and is he falling for me too?? Im really confused please help!