My parents are having problems and my mother is having an affair. My younger sister who is 20 is a college student and is the sweetest person in the world. She is tired of dealing with our parent's problems. It's affecting her so much she's loosing a lot of weight but she can't afford to move out. She works part-time and has to pay for her car payment and goes to school full-time. My husband and I have an extra bedroom in our house. We have discussed her moving in and he's ok with it. Should I let her move in our house??

So this is my fifth new school (military family) and it's my junior year of highschool. We moved to Texas and I completed my sophomore year but now we are moved but in the same city, just a different district for me. I shouldn't be nervous but I am and hate it. I have bad anxiety and worry about stupid stuff like who am I going to sit with at lunch if I have anyone to sit with it all, how do I make new friends , also at this cool we get two free dress and I hate free dressing because getting anxiety about what I'm going to wear with strict dress codes. Any advice? I'm very outgoing when I get comfortable somewhere but obvi I won't be comfortable here lol

I've been vegan since I was a teenager, but my sister has never approved and has always tried to steer me away. My husband is a vegan, too, and we decided long ago that we'd raise our kids vegan. My sister has constantly told me that I'm abusing my kids, and that I need to feed them meat and animal products, even though I take them to the doctor regularly and they are perfectly healthy. Well, we went to my sister's house last weekend for a family get together. I brought veggie burgers and fruits for my family and me to eat. I asked my sister to grill the veggie burgers and give those to my kids instead of the meat burgers, and she said okay. Half an hour later, my daughter came up to me and said that her burger tasted weird. I looked at it, and sure enough, my sister had given her a meat burger. I would be a little more understanding if it was an honest mistake, but when approached my sister about it, she said that she gave my daughter the meat burger on purpose, because she thinks that she needs meat. I was so angry, and we left right then and there, and I haven't spoken to my sister since. I'm so angry at her. Did she have any right to do this? My mom said that I should just forgive my sister, but I'm just so mad about it, and I feel like I can't trust her, and I don't want her around me or my family. What did I do wrong? How can I prevent this from happening?

She calls me retarded, stupid, brainless. When i was 13 she said its a good thing I have glasses cuz without it I look ugly. I'm 18 now and to this day I still have my glass on. I never take it off because I think I look ugly without them like my mom said. She told me that I needed to be fixed. I would tell me to stop talking to my friends because they're bad for me. And a lot of the times she tries to read my messages, and she tells me what to do. Is that abusive or just normal mother stuff?

I grew up in an abusive home and realized early on I could only count on myself. I've been alone all my life. The toughest part was looking at my family and realizing I couldn't count on them. My mom is an unmotivated meth addict. Never knew my father. Very abusive grandmother and a brainwashed older sister. It sucked realizing my sister was clearly favored but now as an adult I'm happy I have gained the skills I have. My older sister is completely dependent on my grandmother. My ex gf dumped me and then I later found out she had been cheating on me our entire relationship anyways. She was still in love with her ex, she was never mine anyways. That really hurt because she was my first love. Even till this day I don't hate her. I wouldn't date her but I feel bad for her really. She grew up in an abusive home too and the guy she was actually in love with was abusive too. I remember telling her I didn't care who she ended up with as long as it wasn't him because he didn't treat her right. The biggest reason I don't hate her though is because I genuinely believe she saved my life. Even if her love wasn't real, it was real to me at the time, and it kept me sane during a really bad time. My closest friend(i had known since we were 6) moved away and the abuse at home was getting worse. Eventually, I got used to being on my own. That underlying pain I always carried didn't hurt so much anymore. I kept myself from becoming bitter and withdrawn, but I think my lack of drive to date is related to me getting too used to being alone. Now that I don't feel lonely I don't have that drive to go out and find someone. I do know I want a family someday but I don't think I'll be able to have one if my attitude doesn't change. How can I change my attitude about dating? Also, I have dated a lot in the past but I haven't found anyone I like enough to get into a relationship with and the relationship usually just ends up with the two of us being friends rather then lovers. The thing is, I read another article about a guy who also came from an abusive home. Worse then mine was. He's much older then me(in his 50's by now). But in his story, he was never able to open himself up again to love. I remember how sad I felt for him. It felt like he lost in the end because of that. I'm hopeful someday I'll find love but at the same time I fear I may end up like him. Unable to open up and let anyone in. Because then I would be dependent on someone and I promised myself I wouldn't need anyone ever again. But I think I do need someone. Or will eventually.

I'm a 17 year old guy, I have a cousin who's 13, and I honestly can't stand him.. ever. He's so pessimistic, he whines and complains about everything, he always asks questions, most of them are dumb.. and he just welcomes himself into my house.. and I have depression myself, I can't handle trying to cheer up someone else, especially a pain in the a** annoying kid.. I have problems of my own. And when my brother and I swim with him in our pool, he always puts a really heavy raft over our head before we come back up, it's hard to get off and my brother inhaled water.. my cousin did this numerous times even after I told him to stop until I flipped out on him and got in trouble.. and then he has this laugh which is obviously a fake laugh!! It's so weird and annoying and I know he does it on purpose!! I can't take him anywhere in public because he embarrasses the hell outta me! Am I wrong to think like this? Am I a bad person?

I want to visit my grandmother, but not if it means being around my aunt--- earlier this year, when she and her husband/my uncle last came to visit us, her husband harassed me. There was proof from a non-biased witness, but my aunt doesn't believe it. My grandmother doesn't know about this, and thinks that I am still on speaking terms with that side of the family when I am not. Even though I considered telling my grandmother about this, I chose not to because it felt like a *low* thing for me to do. I'd only be trying to punish my uncle (who sometimes visits with my aunt), and bringing my grandmother into something that doesn't involve her and would only hurt her in the process. Last night, my grandmother said to me that my aunt had told HER not to tell anybody that my mom would likely be coming down to visit her on her birthday (alongside my aunt). Well, she told me regardless, and asked me if I would come too. I said I couldn't... when she asked me why, I said I needed to stay home for work/family reasons. Not a lie, but still. I feel so angry that I should have to bounce around this at all. As for my mom, she says that nothing she tells my aunt will convince her of what her husband did. That said, she's not going to not visit my grandmother, nor cut ties with her sister (to whom she's very close). It makes me angry to have what I perceive as little support from my mom. But, is there anything I can really expect her to do for me in this situation?

My sister has married an asshole. He abuses his kids and believes that women should live under the men. He is narcissistic and thinks he is the smartest person alive. He also has anger issues and is very rude to everyone. I remember that the Pakistani model passes away news was on tv and he said that "it is good thing she is dead". He is always saying **** like that. He is also rude to me and is always telling me what to. I don't give a dam about him, it is my nephews and my sister that I am worried about. I don't want my nephews to be with a narcissistic, sexist, homophobic, racist asshole. I want to do something, but everyone keeps telling me to mind my own business and my involvement would make things worse. They say that the only person that can do anything is my sister, but my sister is a push over and cannot stand up for herself. What should I do?

I told my mother in law I would break her back if she keeps sabotaging my marriage in front of the family, but it worked it was the only way that made her back off, I know it was not the right thing to do, But this women is very rude and decline each time I tell her not to recognize our apartment, talk about my weight gain all the time in front of anyone at anytime, going through my closet to see how I organize it, and involved in my marriage and want to know everything. my husband told me to take care of it,and he wants to keep his picture clean, so after months of manipulation I exploded, I'm I wrong? the family was against me for saying that to her, and somehow I became the bad person, but everything she has done to me in front all of them somehow was just forgotten, it is not equal maybe what I did, but I would never hurt her, I wanted her to stop. please answer. thank you My husband knew about these problems since day one,but all he says I'm drama and he want to keep his picture clean, I'm mad at him, he doesn't believe he had part on all of that, I did call her and say sorry and I told her clearly I needed her to back off, and put all the facts that I sent her serval emails askin her nicely to back off, and stop, like she get away with everything she had said to me, just under section, she loves me and care for me, and suddenly I'm the evil one for saying that. And yes I was blamed for everything, and like I just came from nowhere and said that to her, I couldn't take her being too involved I'm newly married in my early 20s, and she have been married 3 times! I didn't want it to go that way,I was having good relationship with her,but she went further being disrespectful and not stop when I said that's too far, that is why I feel I don't want to have contact with her, cause I know my husband will never be there for me, and always find something to blame me,or she did it with love and I'm just taking it wrong,we don't have kids yet, but I only want to live in peace and make a family, I do not really talk to her anymore. my husband will be reading this And that is my fear, of having a kid, and having them going through what I went through under section caring, I know she cared about me in some level, but when I told her clear I'm very hurt, she said No I wont stop, my husband tells me I'm not the only person in the world and I should be graceful, I do that's why I don't want her in my life like that I wont be dragged in anytime anyhow to be blamed, please tell something to my husband, he trusts your answers.

TBH I only have 20 minutes to type this before she gets triggered again. So, all my mom does is call me a 'lying *****' an 'asshole ' '***** ***' 'ungrateful' she even claims that she 'sticks up for me' and that I 'treat her like ****' and now she's claiming she doesn't care if I die because she's going to kick me out and drop me off on the road and then she went along saying "you better pray you don't get beat or rapped haha" she pulls that "I'm the parent your the child bullshit!!" Does anyone have any links where I can TEXT someone to get me the **** out of here and live with a different family? Because dealing with this is too much.

Here's the situation. My half sisters gma and friends all live about 60 miles away and I only get to see them every other weekend. I've been living with my dad for 4 years but I want to move back with my gma. I talked with him and he got really mad and idk What to do. Please help me, I'm 14 btw

I totally want to have children someday, but there are times that I think in my relationship, it would make sense if I could carry the baby instead of my (cis-female) partner. She is an accountant and makes significantly more money than I do right now, and foreseeable into the next few years. I kind of think, the the most utilitarian sense, that it would be more logical if I could carry a baby so she could provide the bulk of financial support. Anyone else ever find themselves in a similar situation?

I am going to college and staying with my brother and his wife. I started to have painful periods. It was 5 days of hell. I could barely function. My doctor put me on medication that stopped my periods. It is wonderful. I don't have these terrible pains each month. My problem is the medication that stops my periods is also a birth control. My mother is a devout Catholic who believed that anyone that takes birth control is going to hell. My brother said we should just let this be our secret and not tell my mother what I am doing. He said if she knew I was on birth control, it would cause her needless worry. Do you think he is correct in us keeping this secret?

Ok so my mom and I get into lots of fights. Lots. She's a single parent and she can't take care of me with a low paying job so we had to move to her home country (it's a 3rd world country and very poor) so she could have a place to stay. I have to stay here for a year. A year. This made me super stressed and I've been missing my friends back in america (I barely ever talk to them now) and we have so many problems here but she still doesn't want to move back. Lately I've been so stressed that I started losing my stuff (kinda expensive) and one of them was an earring and when she found out she started yelling at me in front of my cousin and aunt and then repeatedly punching me. I have bruises and I can't run away or call the police because this country sucks. Don't ask what country this is it won't even matter. She even forced me to go to her friends house and I told her I didn't want to go and she yelled at me and told me I have to and her friend is very boring and we do nothing over there but eat and her daughter cries a lot and she's just a year younger than me. My dad is not around and I have no siblings so what do I do in a situation like this???

It's so gross. Even my grandma has noticed the smell, and so have my sisters friends and my mom. Me and my mom both try to get onto her about it, but she literally does not care! We bought her new underwear and everything! She even wears the same gross baggy shirt of my dads every night to bed, and usually refuses to wash it! What can I do?!

My family makes fun of the way I am. They blame everything on me especially my family. Even my mom told me one day I was the blacksheep of the family. My dad makes fun of my lisp, and my hair and he leaves me out sometimes. He calls me stupid, and has hitted me for no reason. If I say shutup to one of my siblings, I get punished. When they say shutup to me, he doesn't care but he starts laughing. I feel like slitting my wrist. Or overdosing on pills. I'm the lightest, and smartest one in my family.

My mom has been cheating on my dad for about a year. She locks herself in the restroom then smokes weed and talks to him. She'll also buys liquor and vodka and drinks it all while on the phone with him. She's always in the restroom all day, everyday, talking to this guy. I've looked on my moms phone and saw flirty messages between the two of them and it kills me that my dad works his a.ss off for her and in return she is unfaithful to him.

My dad has had sex with my goldfish... Split poor swimmers in pieces...

I was really uncomfortable with pretending that I was married to my sister even if it was just bc we were pretending to do this thing for their anniversery. All I did was walk in and say I didn't want to do it anymore then she crumbled up the script and started to say things like, "Yeah you're right it was a stupid idea." She also said to my sister and I, "I'm done with all of you." I don't know why she got so upset but I feel really bad. I even said sorry to her.

Im 19, still living at home, not in college or any kind of schooling, work a small part time job, I don't have my license and I don't have a car. I graduated high school at 17 wanting to be a hairdresser, when I found out FAFSA wouldn't cover all of my schooling and the counselor at the school said I dont qualify for grants I gave up on school due to neither of my parents believing in cosigning on loans for any reason. I've been graduated for 2 years all I've been doing is working a mall job for the past 3 years that I planned to leave on year 2 to go to school. My parents refuse to take me out driving, I do offer gas money. I don't get paid enough to afford car insurance let alone make enough to put aside for a car with all my bills, plus all my other basic needs such as clothes, medicine and hygiene products. My parents keep saying to go to college and get a better job and such but I'm struggling for rides as it is due to them saying "You're an adult now you need to learn to do things yourself" I can't take the bus due to the nearest stop being in the next township over (yeah I live way out and my parents tell me it's too dangerous to walk I respect that they're trying look out for my safety) I've tried everything I can think of to get out and try to even get a start at a life on my own but all of it has come to a halt. Idk what to do anymore, It's getting me really down that I can't seem to do anything and I'm just going to be stuck where I am unless I marry out. HELP

One time she walked in on me masterbating, and I was shocked because she was making dinner, and said I'm sorry! I said it's okay as she walked out she said back, it's big, and walked away, like what do I do ? Or say to her? That's not the only thing, one time I was in the living room by my self masterbating because no one was home, she walks in and sits down beside me, and said can I join?! Like who would think my step mom would do that ! She grabs a hold of my dick and jerks me off, I was shocked she finished and walked up stairs and that was it

My niece is 21 and she can't do simple maths eg (20+10) I have to help her with basic maths she's going to college in September and she said she wants to take a teddy with her to make her feel better. She also cuddles teddies at home and she doesn't make eye contact

I'm only technically off one day out of the week and ofcourse everyone feels since I'm "off", I'm free. My sister is going away to college and I told her I would take her to get a needed shot she has to have before starting school. I'm often there for her, threw her graduation party, give her money, always buy her things, etc. It's raining pretty bad here on and off and her and my mother live across town. I'm just not in the mood to deal with the dreaded traffic on top of the rain and I have a slipped disc that's causing back pain that is affecting my mood as well. So I offered to pay for an Uber for my sister instead. She is kind of introverted and shy and doesn't want to take it. So I feel guilty ofcourse. However, I'm exhausted with always feeling guilty and I always give in to doing things I really don't want to do. I know I said I would take her, but although I'm not physically taking her, I did offer her an alternative to make sure she had a way. Why though do I still feel excessively guilty? My mother doesn't have a car and they often rely on me and it's just taking it's toll on me. How do you guys deal with guilt? I know your word is your bond and your yes should mean yes....

I recently had an unexpected 3 day hospital stay. I did not expect to have any problems with the medical bills as I have insurance from where I work. I did not know the doctors were not part of my insurance plan. I was out of pocket several thousand dollars. They turned their bills over to a collection agency which called me several times a day. I also got letters almost every day demanding payment or they would get a court judgement. It was a terrible. I was a nervous wreck. Suddenly the phone calls and letters stopped. I did not understand why. It was sure a relief. I told my parents what had happened and they told me they knew why I was not getting any more bills. They had told my ex husband about my problems and he had paid the bills. I was really surprised. I called my ex husband Bob, and asked him why he had paid my doctor's bills. He told me that he knew about the nightmare I was having with bill collectors. They call all hours and threatened to tell your neighbors and boss at work and he did not want me to have to endure that. He said we are friends and "I don't let friends suffer when I can prevent it". At that moment, it was like a MESSAGE FROM HEAVEN. Bob is really a great guy and he still has feelings for me. I want to spend the rest of my life with him. If he will marry me again, I will be the best wife he could ever dream of. Please give me some suggestions on how I should tell him what I am feeling.

Can someone tell me what it is supposed to train them to do?

Seriously, they're everywhere ESPECIALLY in downtown, concerts, beaches, and at the movies! I live in the biggest city of BC, Canada so they have tons of places to go to. Seriously they're always loud and laughing. I'm a 14 year old female so I know that I'll be one of them in a few years but at least I won't be annoying. I'm so glad that I have two younger brothers and not a college age sibling because I would've hated that so much. Yesterday I was at a beach with my parents, grandparents, and siblings and the whole place was filled with them! Ugh seriously they can have their little parties at a bar or something so they can be with the other annoying people an not bother anyone else.. I know that people might say ageism isn't acceptable but I'm just stating the truth, they're a bunch of immature little 20 year olds running around and laughing. Especially the girls, they complain about how tired they are from schoolwork and working full or part time. Frankly, no one cares if they're tired so therefore they don't need to talk about how they spent 6 hours working on courses and if they spend less time running around in public then maybe they'd be less tired. Is this the age where people become stupid and retarded or something!? Also they treat us high schoolers like we're 8 year olds, they tell us that relationships throughout high school rarely or don't even last and how my popularity will be temporary. FYI, I started high school in grade 8 a year ago and my popularity lasted through a year so they're technically wrong. Their parents are raising a bunch of immature adults who know nothing, and I'm surprised some of them still let their kids live at home. What a huge disappointment.

Hi, guys. So first, I m going to tell you a bit about myself and my family situation so you may understand a little better. I am thirteen years old and have an older brother and sister. I live in a two parent household. I ve been working on magic tricks a lot lately, and today I did one on my mom and it didn t go right, so I wanted to do another one to redeem myself (for my own peace of mind). I got my cards ready and just as I was about to start the new trick, my dad called my mom. They stayed talking on the phone for ages and since we were sitting on my mom s bed, I decided to lie down and wait for her to finish. I once or twice asked her to hurry up if possible, since she was taking her time and I was excited to do my card trick. As I was lying down, I involuntarily grunted since I was in an uncomfortable position. She then spat, "Wait, Clover!" At me. She thought I was trying to hurry her up. My problem here is that I was savouring that time with her because she s always so busy and we don t get a lot of time alone to just chill. If I m with her, I m helping her run errands in some way. I feel she doesn t make enough time for me. We don t have a good relationship at all, it s toxic, really, due to family issues and things that happened this year. We got into an argument about her telling me to wait for her when really, I was just trying to get myself out of an uncomfortabl position. What should do? I know this is only a small little thing, but she always does this.

Im 16 years old and live with my grandparents (who have custody of me) and they are telling me that i have to clean the entire house in order to stay or they will call the courts and have me removed from the household. Is this abusive in anyway, shape, or form?

I have two half brothers whom I have never really known nor do I communicate with them, and I have a older step brother and a slightly younger adult step sister, also whom I have only seen once and never speak with. We do not even live in the same state. People kind of look at me strangely when they come up because every one who knows me knows I am an only child. They have never met these other people or even heard of them except if my parents bring them into account. I still call my self an only child seems right to me, what do you think?

My mum keeps sayng she wishes she would die... she sayis she want's a heart attack or something, right now my mum and dad argue a lot and my dad tells her that it's her foult that we are in the situation that we are in... she's diagnosed with depresion and i know that shes not okay... but she keeps blaming it on being tired. what should i do? should i be worried?

So yesterday I found out I was an introvert since I don't really like other people's company and I like to have 'me' time. So yesterday I went to go tell my uncle and aunt about how I'm an introvert so that they understand that I like to be by myself. When I told them they started laughing and said that they already knew I was one. I know they mean it in a mean way. So I went upstairs and just talked to my best friend. I went downstairs to go eat dinner and my uncle was sitting at the table and we were talking about how people can't do something. I couldn't remember what we were talking about but he got the point of like the introvert thing. He told me that he was a human and I was an introvert. I tried to explain to them what an introvert was and what an extrovert was. It really didn't work so I decided to go to sleep and not bother about it. I just hate how they keep making fun of me. No one understands me and that bothers me so much.

I want to post about my sweet friend whose always been there for me & for what help she's been in my difficult time. Should I post it now or wait till her birthday next week?

Me and my brother. 5-9 years old. Playing Mario kart and sonic riders all day every day together. Now it never happens. Im 13 and my brother is 17, and he never wants to hang out with me anymore. I can't even go in his room without him kicking me out. All he does is sit on his phone. I miss the old times when we were like best friends and never fought and always talked. What has happened to him. I know I can never go back but I atleast wanna be able to hang out with him again. Help me please.

Hi, my mom will not stop yelling at everyone in my house! I'm only 15 and live with five of my brothers. She always yells and I mean ALWAYS yells! She is screaming and will not stop! My mom mostly screams because she wants something done, every morning before school because someone fights over a certain shower in our house, the front seat of a car, when someone doesn't vaccume or is just being lazy or my brother won't find a job or I ask my parents to pick me up at a friends! I can understand that having 6 boys in the house is always a handful especially when your 3 year old always cries!! My parents yell at each other all the time! My mom tries to ask my dad a simple question without yelling and my dad just screams at her! We don't have any financia problems or money problems they have very good jobs we all still argue day after day!l And no they aren't getting a divorce or anything it's only when they are alone they don't scream or nag. Our family isn't falling apart or anything but it's just my mom needs to stop yelling because I don't want her to have a heart attack or something bad may happen! She's only 40 and my brothers are all under 19 years old. what can I do to help her ASAP!!

Recently got married (6 months ago) my husband loves me and so do I. Before we got married he used to not work since he invested in properties and was living out of that. But he wanted to start working ever since he met me, and so he did. When he wasn t working he used to spend a lot time with his 5yr old son (from another woman). But now his just focusing on him making more money and providing for Us. Ever since he started working my mother in law has been so hateful making comments like "now he doesn t have time for his son, or I barely get to see him" When he actually does have time for his son. She hates the fact that my husband wants to provide for Us and that he s main focus is our marriage and that his happy doing it. Whenever we go on trips to enjoy ourselves, or we celebrate our anniversary she becomes more hateful. He also used to depend a lot on his mother but ever since he met me he s let go and become more independent and she hates me for it. Idk how to deal with her jealousy and it really bothers me because I have no family close to me and she s the only "family" I got.

My mom had 3 girls and one boy. My mom favors the boy because he's the only son. MY brother starts stuff all the time and my usually blames me. She black btw. My brother wants to sleep in my room for no reason and mom tells me to let him sleep in there. He's 10 and I know he's no scared of the dark and theres a tv downstairs. My lock doesn't work so I have to put my body against the door so he doesn't get in. How do I get my mom to start treating me equally. I even told my mom this and she pleaded guilty but doesn't give me respect. She blames the period. I get mad when she says that. WHAT DO I DO IM DESPERATE

In the school year, I reported a few of my teachers for being sexually attracted to me. Nothing happened. Fast forward a few months, it's the summer time and my mom gets a call from the hospital, saying that they'll send a social worker to my home to talk to us. They said, "we went to meet (my name) and you" to my mother. What will the social worker tell me?

My mom and step dad (and me) currently live with my other three sisters, I am the youngest of us. My mom is probably the most caring person in the world, but my step dad is really emotionally and verbally abusive and extremely controlling on all of us. I don't know why my mom won't break up with him, she says she loves him, but I know she's not going to change things. My dad is also a very kind hearted person and has offered me to move in with him numerous times. I would, but for some reason, something is holding me back. I don't know if it's that he lives in a small duplex, or that I'm very comfortable in my bedroom at my moms, but it's probably mostly leaving my mom in general. I could still see her often, but I know she'd be really sad if I moved out and that makes me feel bad but I'm getting older and starting to think about my personal happiness. My mom and step dad are usually fine during the day, but they go drinking pretty much every night and it's not a great situation which usually ends up with me leaving and going to my dads. I want to move in with him but I just never feel "at home" at his house. I don't know what to do

I am 22 my uncle is 45. Ive staying at his place for a few months. The other day his wife got pissed off and went to stay with her mom. While she was gone my uncle and i stayed up talking for hours.. he layed down and asked if i wanted a back massage.. i said yes and he just started touching all over my body sending chills all over my body.. and i started moaning and he whispered in my ear we cant tell anyone.. and we just started having sex and it was great! Now i have certian feelings for him but hiz wife is home now and it pisses me off every time he shows her attention

My dad left us and doesnt support us financially and knows nothing about us for about 8-9 years now. My mom has been seeing this guy who has partially helped her financially but he is very abusive emotionally and physically. He fights alot and is always calling my mom crazy. Recently he started a big fight and he hit my mother and slapped me and my little brother and sister besides all the profanities he used against us. As self defense I tried hitting him back but that only caused him to get more agressive. My mom however forgave him even though she knows we hate him and dont want to live with him. Recently he told my little brother he would be happy if my brother died and that he wouldnt miss him. We went and told my mother but she keeps defending him and saying it was a joke and he denied saying it. She is always taking her side and defending him and treating us bad for him and her excuse is that he feeds us and partially helps out money wise. I m a 19 year old girl in egypt and I don t know what kind of help I should get. I have no other family.

Now, I'm a 47 year old male with several prominent positions in my church. My oldest daughter gave me my first grandchild 7 years ago and I love her to death. She's my right hand and I'd do anything for her. Well, since she was born, when she comes to church she'd always sit on my lap and play with my phone or tablet. That was cute when she was 2 or 3. Now she's 7 and I don't have a problem with it. My wife seems to think she's too old to still be sitting on my lap. She likes to sit there and rest her head on my shoulder and we'll talk and laugh. Well, this past sunday after church one of the church mothers, probably close to 80 yrs old, came up to me and asked me this question. "Do you think your dad would allow your sister to sit on his lap in church?" Honestly, I knew where she was going with this so I looked her dead in her face and said, "I can't answer for my dad but this one is mine so why are you worried about it." She got offended and started huffing and puffing saying, "well, I just asked you a yes or no question." I told her that I answered her question so don't worry about what I do with my grandkids as long as they are not offending you. She's one of those who feels that kids should be taught to sit quietly in the pew and listen to the sermon. That might have worked 50 years ago when she was having kids but today's kids live off visual stimulation. This particular woman has even mentioned to me why I let her play with my phone or tablet. Instead of me making her sit next to me and listen to the sermon. (A) Do people think there's something sexual going on or I'm getting some sort of gratification out of it. Nothing Sexual but I do enjoy her sitting on my lap and the two of us talking and playing with each other. Isn't that what grandparents do? And (B) why can't some people just mind their own business? How would you have handled that situation? Would you keep your mouth shut if you saw a grown man with a 7 year old girl on his lap or would you go say something to him. Again, we were sitting in church and not bothering anyone. This little girl has always sat on my lap.

I'm 14 and everytime I shower she tries to come in and use the bathroom. I ask her before I shower if she has to go and she always says no but then she'll try and come in. I lock the door thankfully but she'll bang on it saying to unlock it. So I make her wait until I'm done but then she'll say she doesn't have to go when I come out. She also tries to make me change in the room with her. She'll say try on clothes and ill leave to put them on and she'll get annoyed and tell me to change in there with her because we have the same body parts. I'm starting to get really uncomfortable around her and I don't know what to do. I sleep without a shirt or bra sometimes and she tried to take my blanket off of me when she was waking me up. So I lock my door at night now, should I tell my dad?

When I am anoying to my brother my dad yells at me than tells me if I tell mum then my life will not be worth living I often cry because of him and than he tells me if I countinue I'll be in unbelievable amount of trouble when we were younger he would smack us but he says he wouldn't now as its illegal however sometimes he is nice to me i feel scared around him Is he wrong to do this?

We have 1 computer and I use it the most since I'm still in school. I had summer homework and almost everyday when I'd go to use the computer there would be grease all over the mouse. At first I was thinking he was just doing his hair at the computer because I do that. Sometimes I'll leave coconut oil from my hair on the mouse but I make sure to wipe it off. But this was an everyday thing and the grease is always just in finger prints. When I went to get on the computer again as soon as I turned it on there was porn. I immediately got grossed out because I know guys do that (girls do too) but when you see it or find stuff it's uncomfortable. Plus I've been touching the mouse everyday and now I don't know what to do. I have to clean off the mouse and keyboard every morning because he leaves stuff on it. How can I bring this up? I'm starting to get mad because it's so disgusting that he wouldn't clean up and I have to. My mom moved out so I can't even tell her and have her talk to him.

When you're a kid at school and a woman asks you if you get good grades and you say yes I think they're pretty dismissive towards you Maybe because they don't fully realize that you will eventually turn in to an adult with good earning potential and a stable career Or Maybe because 2: Lots of kids say they're clever, but can you really take them seriously? Most are squibs that fizzle out, only a few are the real deal that will go on to have impressive jobs. But I WAS the real deal, I was beyond the real deal. Women act like they swoon over superstars but they never tell you ''actually just have a stable job and career and we'll suck your dick like crazy'' – they never ******* tell you that the pampered little brats. They never say ''those other people with stable careers are ugly and boring that's why we don't get too excited about them, but with your ok looks and awesome personality, we'll go crazy for you''. I just remember the camaraderie between middleclass people, because they would visit each other and they would never visit us, or how I would go to their house and they'd be like ''the middleclass kid is about to leave with your middleclass cousins but you can't go''. So I internalized the idea that being born in a middleclass family is the only thing people care about.

My brother is 27 and I'm ten years younger. He has always been such a f*cking bully to me for as long as I can remember. He's an agressive c*nt. He tried to stab my dad when he was around 18 years old. My mom gives no f*cks about him always being such a dick to me. I like to play videogames, and use a microphone. I didn't before, but since he gave one to me for me to use, sure, why not? But this morning he took it away from me, just because I've been using razors he bought (I didn't even know, and I had been using them for the past 6 months). So his agressive *** went up to my room at 7am (mind you, it's still summer vacation here) and comes in yelling "WHY ARE YOU USING MY RAZORS?" After having called me a **** and a whore and saying I do nothing for a living and don't contribute to society. He's finally gonna move out next month but holy sh*t dude, I never want to see him again after he leaves. He's a manipulative childish son of a b*tch. Also, whenever I'm playing videogames, and using a mic, he likes to embarass the sh** out of me. I've got social anxiety, so people trying to do that, is the absolute worst. He will come in burping, yelling, saying rude stuff to other people I'm playing with and act like a complete child. Oh my god I need him out of my life. What are your views on this? Do you also think he is a childish c*nt? Do you also want to smash his head in with a rock? I sure do, but at least I don't act upon it, he would. Thanks for reading. Give me your POV. Okay this is really hypocritical and stupid, I just found out he's been using my toothpaste for the last couple of months. What the f*ck?

first off. Im 15 years old. I live in a pretty decent area. I need to argue with my mom just to ride my bike and when i do I cant go past 5 blocks because then her phone beeps because I have a tracker on my phone and i left the radius of home. Once i wanted to take the train, because it is a cross the street from my house. She yelled and screamed saying she doesnt want me to become a **** up like my brother, who smoked and dealing weed, but is better now. I informed her Im not like him, i hate drugs and never would smoke weed in a long time. Like i cant even go to a friends house, they NEED to come over my house. It getting really annoying. All i want to do is take the train (with a group of people too so im pretty safe) to my friends house and not have to fight with my mom. Help!

I know that I am over 18 and I can move out if I wanted to without their permission. But I a asking this because I want to get right info (or try to get right info) so I don't look weird or stupid. Anyways, I think I put a question (maybe some) saying how my parents were always crazy but now its too far I want to move out. In other questions I said how they forced me to not work in college, and now that I am done (since Jan 2016) they still forcing me not to work because there's really no jobs, and they forcing me not to do retail cuz they think its beneath me and how I'm too good to do retail (in a nutshell). That's how ridiculous its getting now, so I know that soon I have to move out. Even though I have no job I am going to ask someone if I can stay with them. If not, I will try homeless shelters just to get away from them. So, nothing ever got that bad with them where I had to call the cops on them, but some people told me to call cops on them even though they are my parents. But the thing is I a afraid to call the cops on them (if I have to) cuz they are involved with politics in town, and of course, no one knows how crazy they are since parents put up a front to make it see like they are smart, caring, nice, involved with my life and wouldnt give me wrong info, etc but of course its not and I know that. So thats why Im afraid to call - Im afraid that I wouldnt be taken seriously by the cops. The only other option is to leave when I know they not home. Im not sure if I should just take my clothes and leave, or take my clothes plus some other stuff. I know it can be replaced though so thats what Im debating about.

My sons dad and I are separated. My son is 9 months old and was supposed to stay with his dad for a month. My ex/his dad has a new gf he's supposed to be staying with. However a day ago my ex sent a text saying I needed to take my son back because he didn't see him and his new gf working out. Then suddenly I asked for my son back today & he refused to return him. I don't trust his new gf. Is there anyway I can get my son back safely?

She has two daughters. One is living with me, and one is living with her grandparents. My sister s husband of seven years just passed away. She d been doing drugs beforehand, but now she s gotten worse. She shoots up, and I think it s heroin. I just want her to be okay, but I don t want her children affected. They are my main priority. What can I do? I m sixteen.

Both my husband and I work during the day, she's 18 and just graduated high school so while we're at work she stays home. Recently she's been freaking out texting me through out the day saying, "I'm having a panic attack. Someone is breaking in." And she'll come around later and say she was just scared and hearing noises. We live in the country in a small town, our house isn't in the middle of no where but it isn't near people either. During the day it looks like nobody is home since like I said both my husband and I work, so both cars are gone. I've asked her if she wanted to go to counseling, or a doctor for the anxiety and she gets mad when I ask. I try to reassure her that everything is ok and the doors are locked and the police station is only 10 minutes up the road as I am too. What can I do to help ease her mind that no one is going to break into our home?