My girlfriend and I have been dating for two months, and she's always horny! I'll be driving down the road, and she'll start rubbing me through my pants and biting my ears....on the couch at my parents house she'll grab me, she puts my hand in her pants when my brother is in the same room if a blankets over her (he is an adult).... we were about to go in a store and she started making out with me infront of my cousin (he is also an adult) I tell her baby no not right now it's like she can't control herself....idk what to do to settle her down, I do have sex with her and she is so wet so I know I really turn her on and make her orgasm but why is always so horny?

Every relationship has problems. My husband is a heavy drinker. He do not show the slightest affection for my health, our kids health, or our wellbeing overall. He refuses to spend money on us because he dont want to. I am a reserved person and I do what I am asked. I spoiled my husband to the point of no return and I deeply regret being so kind to him... As of a few months ago, he saw me on birth control when I originally took it to regulate my period. This created a downhill effect on our relationship that was already really bad.... It made him start talking to other women and very bitter. He is a stubborn person and he believes his assumptions. Communication is always really bad because it always ends up with him saying,"you deserve it and worse..." I thought I love this man but he is a changed man. I thought by being a good housewife by staying home, cooking, cleaning 24/7 and watching our 3 sons under 5 years old would make him change to a better respectable man. I thought all i needed was communication, time, and patience. Of course there is more to the story, another aspect is he has never taken care of me after my child births and always physically forced me to do chores that are too heavy. I speak nicely to him....like a slave and i believe i am putting my own self in this situation. I want to divorce but my kids....my financial stability....how to make him not bother me when I leave....our parents...my mentality of beibg single again...i am honestly scared.

I live in the county where a bus line operates from city to county. He keeps saying he can't wait til his scooter is fixed so he can come see me.He been catching the bus to my house. But this past week he got all the excuses y he cant come see me. Trying to sound real sad on the phone. My mom lives 15 minutes from his mom house. Wen I was down there he still had an excuse y he couldnt come see me. I found out about other women before. The last situation was back in June he was talking to a 17 yr old he is 31. He been after her since I met him. Which is 3 1/2 Years ago. I believe he got females calling his free phone. While I call the regular phone. Every time I try to move on he calls me a whore. N say thats y ibaimt got ****. He don't help me pay no bills. He take his money n pay his mom bills.

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He says iam overreacting for getting mad...they hv kids together and they are all 2gether in pic.he put it on fcb

He hasn't asked for my phone number. Sad face. I've seen him eavesdropping while watching my conversation with people across the room and react to what I'm saying to them. He also has just watched me when I'm doing stuff and kept watching even after I caught him and said "hi".

BTW I am NOT talking about mothers whose father of their children is deceased. I'm talking about women who divorced the father of their kids or never married him. Why do these women front and act like they are all that and they deserve to be cherished? Let's face it. No childless man is going to line up to raise another mans children, especially if the guy is still alive and around and better yet even hangs out with his baby mamma when you're not around. So why do these women act like they are some hot commodity?

My husband and I had an argument yesterday over emails that say he has an account on a "lonely wife hook up site" there has been no action on the account just that it has been made under his email address. He is telling me it happened due to a virus because of apps on his phone. I tried to make one myself and I got the exact same emails that I found in his email address. He very rarely ever talks to women and has never texted one whilst we have been together. He watches a lot of porn I just don't understand why he would lie to me? I highly doubt he got the account to cheat on me but maybe to try access the adult videos on it? When I tried to bring it up yesterday he got really Mad but I need to bring it up again to put my mind at ease abour his email having an account made under it? Do you think it could of been a virus? And how do I talk to him about it without him getting really angry and ignoring me? He knows I have trust issues (even know I have no reason too, I've got these issues from past relationships) I would never deny his sexual needs as my sex drive seems to be higher then his. We also have a young child who I have to consider if he admitted to making this account..

My husband and I have had a very rocky past and a rocky marriage. Anyway, a few months ago I had left him and went back to my hometown because of some stuff that we were going through. While I was there I confided in my son's father and I slept with him. Huge mistake I know. I regret it. Please no negative comments! Anyway my husband and I had gotten back together and he had asked me if anything had happened while we were split up and I said no. The lie ate me up inside. I couldnt hold it any longer so I came clean. He forgave me but out marriage hasn't been the same since. He can't let it go and it is ruining my relationship with my son. My husband gets bothered when I talk about my son. He doesn't feel comfortable when I'm on the phone with him. My son lives over 200 miles away with his dad. He has lived with his dad for a few months. Primarily my husband and I had agreed to get my son on breaks and during the summer. As time has passed I have grown to miss my son more and more each day. I brought it to my husband's attention that I want to get my son Every other weekend because I couldn't handle being away from him for so long and my husband said he isn't going to beable to handle seeing his father Every other weekend to exchange my son and he told me its going to be hard to see my son because it's going to remind him who's kid it is. He said he doesn't want to hear him talk about his dad Every 5 seconds. A part of me wants to move back and move my son back in with me

the chance to ask her how it was because we thought the kids may have woken up. It's rare we get alone time. Should I ask her or leave it alone and assume since she took control she liked it?

Hi, please no negative comments. I am in a deep struggle. Anyway, I am a married 29 year old woman. My husband and I have been married for 2 years and we re together on and off before that for 2 years as well. Before we met he lived in Phoenix and I lived in a town 200 miles away from Phoenix. We met online and on our first date he told me he loved me and wanted to be with me and never believed in love at first sight until he saw me. Anyway, I took that as a big turn off and didn t talk to him for a few months. Anyway... he moved to my town, 200 miles from where he lived. Without even asking me. He just upd and did it because he said he felt I was the one. I wasn t to happy with it. He got an apartment about 10 miles from my apartment. I felt a little obligated because he put in such a huge effort to be with me so I decided to give him a chance. I told him I was willing to hang out and go on dates but I did not want commitment. He was hurt but I felt it was the right thing to do by being honest. Fast forward to about a year later. I calmed down a little and felt it was right to get married. People told me marriage wasn t based on feelings but it s a commitment. Anyway since we have gotten married, I have felt trapped, isolated, my mind is constantly running. I want to be away. I want to be single. Our marriage has been hell. He is a such a great guy . I can almost say he is perfect but I have to constantly convince myself that I have feelings for him. What do I do??

So im newly married, im 22years and my husband is 28years i moved from another country to just come here and marry my husband,and build our own family, so couple months ago, when my mother in law came serval visits to our little apartment, she just take over, she redecorated my living room, her husband moved everything how she wanted after they put it back how it was, i said to her No but she alwyas force her self and insist if i wont like it i can change it later, she also redecorated the kitchen even i told her i dont want her to and i like it specific way,she wont listen, she open our bedroom clothest all the time she visits, she wants to see how orgnize it and if there is anything she can change on it. and all this presented as she just loves me and want to help. she does this when my husband is not home, cause he works nightshift, and when i told him each time she does this, I told him I no more feel privacy at our apartment together when she is here at all. I have never did anything like that at her home. Why does she do this? so my husband he placed it under section: im an adult i should deal with it by my own, and she is just trying to help, and that im only making drama and wanting to creating a problem. Please somebody give us advices, my husband will be reading this, it is very important :( Im so hurt cause those problems grow bigger and she went further, but my husband is never there for me, and always want me to deal with it by my own. Thank you

Me and my wife have been together for over 9 months, married for over 2. We're expecting a child in october. Before I met her I was a Virgin. I never masturbated my entire life. I had wet dreams but had no idea what it actually felt like to ejaculate. After a little while of me being too nervous to have sex with her we finally did and then we basically started having sex everyday, at first I wasn't used to it but then I got accustomed to doing it everyday and now that's she pregnant we obviously don't do it as much. The thing is i get a ***** so often and I can't control it, sometimes I just want to lay in bed and hold my wife but it always gets in the way. And I just want to know how or if I can control it. Or curious if it's like that bc she's my first lover

If you don't agree with something your significant other says they get angry and cut you off from talking then try to make you jealous by flirting with other people via facebook?

I'm a 19 year old girl and I'm single and haven't had sex in 3 years and I've only been with 2 guys, should I go on there and look for a guy that has a girlfriend?

Please let me explain. I had a horrible week last week. I had my period and I've been in a lot of discomfort from the cramps. I've been moody as hell and the first target is my husband and he doesn't deserve it at all. He's the most wonderful man I know and I'd die without him. I was verbally abusive to him saying things to him that I never thought I'd ever say. I even told him I wish he'd just die already. I can't believe I said that to him. Then it just exploded. We started screaming at each other and that escalated to me punching him in the face and throwing a frying pan at his head. He fell to the floor and he began bleeding from where the pan hit his head. I immediately felt horrible and started crying. I called 911 and the ambulance brought him away. He came home the next morning with stitches and a black eye. I'm dying inside from the guilt and I hate myself so much for doing this to him. He refuses to talk to me and all he's been doing is sitting outside on the deck. Will he ever forgive me? I never for as long as I live would think that is ever hurt him. I love him so much. Please help. I don't know what to do:(

Don't get me wrong, I'm not completely against home schooling but I just think that we should only do that if public school doesn't work out. My wife and I would have never meant and our daughter would not exist if I went to home school back when my mom wanted to do that for me. I told my wife this. My wife gets mad at me for saying these things and instead of talking to me about it, she either ignores it or just gets mad, goes off topic, and argues with me about something that happened or that I done in the past that is not even relevant. I don't know what to do. What are my options at this point?

I've been married to my beautiful wife for 29 years. She is a caring and nurturing woman to me and our two sons. Together we've built a very comfortable life with many wonderful memories. But I've always been more sexually aggressive than she is and as a result, there's always been this disconnect. I love my wife but our relationship lacks passion and intimacy. I know how very wrong I am, but roughly 3 months ago I started sleeping with a much younger woman who is in her mid twenties. We're coworkers in different departments at a very large corporate office. I work 2 hours away from home so I live in a motel Monday-Thursday and go home Friday after work. Monday-Thursday I spend every night with this younger woman. We go out to dinner, go on adventures together, and have sex. She is beautiful... a lovely mature woman. We've spent several nights together without touching one another, just holding each other. When I'm home with my wife and kids, I'm constantly thinking of my mistress and texting her just to see how she's doing. Is it possible to be in love - or at least love - my mistress even though I love my wife too? I've made it clear to my mistress that I have no intentions of leaving my family.

We have 2 children together that I have custody of. He had a child after we divorced. He got custody because her mother abused her. He s now in jail for assaulting his girlfriend. He ll be there for at least 3 more weeks because no one will bail him out. His 9 year old daughter is currently staying with his unemployed sister. They re staying in his apartment because they re homeless. I ve heard allegations of child abuse. My husband and I have a stable home and can provide her with a good life. We d like to get custody but I m not sure if that s even possible. We live in Colorado and they live in Utah. Any advice would be appreciated.

Please keep me annonymous. My husband and I are going through a divorce. We have a two year old son and I am pregnant with his second son. 3 months into my pregnancy he had an affair and I caught him talking to the girl. He lied about his feelings for her and when I kicked him out that day he went to be with her for over a month. I started filing for divorce and told him and he then wanted to talk. He was finally remorseful and we talked and he basically said it was a mistake to talk to her and now he can't choose between me and her. He stopped seeing her and now says He has to figure out life before he tries to work things out between us. In almost three months since all has happened he only sent $400 and seen his son maybe 5 times. He has been traveling to the beach and enjoying freedom while I've been holding down all the obgyn bills and taking care of our son. I'm slowly getting over all this,while pregnant it's hard, but I am wondering is there a chance for us for the sake of our kids and what we had?? Just would like everyone's opinion...

Worst part of it all is that I'm pregnant by him. He was used me for months only just to go back to her. When we first met he claimed to be single then I lurked his Facebook found out he was married He begged for me to stay in his life said ge didn't want her and was getting a divorce and I believed him. Fast forward now he's back with her and making threats to me and hates me. I'm left crushed on so many levels because my feelings were involved and I actually believed him smh. He's 21 and I'm 31 and pregnant.. I don't KNOW what to do so overwhelmed right now. :(

We nevvverrr laugh and he can laugh so freely with others.

are you ok with open relationships or multiple partners in general? it almost seems like people are not supposed to be monogamous, that everyone eventually wants to cheat and many people do. this is my biggest fear in life. how do I figure out weather someone will secretly cheat on me? my family has been broken apart because my grandfather cheated and now that side of the family dosent want us to interact with me, I never knew my grandparents and they died,I still dont know my aunt and cousin because her husband cheated on her and had another kid. Do most people want monogamy but end up cheating because they don't have enough will power? I don't know the story with my grandparents but my aunt thought she had a good marriage, she thought he would never dream of cheating on her. I found out my moms point of view and she thinks its fine to cheat in a marriage because it will keep the marriage healthy and its unnatural to be monogamous. I really dont want my parents to split up if my dad finds someone else. (I still live with my parents)

She is not even over weight. However I see her on FB looking at how "skinny" other girls are. Not sure if there is anything I can do

My husband continually either adds women to facebook or follows them on instagram, women he knows will be posting provocative photos. I have told him I dont like it and he continues to do it. He has never spoke to any of the women but continues to want to either search them or add new one, (always pretty ones)...I know people say they are men they are going to look at other women, but is it normal to search for them!!!!?? I am his WIFE? Is that not ENOUGH? He has even told me he feels bad and knows he shouldn't do it but he does it cause he like to look at them.....is it bad? I feel it's disrespectful? What would you do? (Also, he checks out other women when I am present?)

So my husband planned to cheat on me with a chick that is still on his friends list in Facebook land. He never told me her name. He blocked me from his account long ago. I asked him very recentlywho she was and if she was still on his friends list. Because it's the past it shouldn't matter right? Not only did he tell me she practically deleted herself. He said he didn't look for her and I was acting crazy and not letting the last go. A little thing I like to call "gaslighting". Come to find out this chick is still one of his Facebook friends and he liked one of her recent pics. I don't know what to do. I'm at the end of my rope here. I haven't confronted him about it yet because I know he's just gonna reverse the **** on me instead of just owning his lie. I'm exhausted. I gave him more than one chance to just be honest with me. And he still has yet to delete her. He tells me I need to Let go of the past. But why is his still on his Facebook? Where they can contact each other? Am I stupid or wrong for feeling that he should have blocked her a long time ago. Ya know, of he LOVES ME and all?

Is enjoying sex with my hubby every day too much and are there any health disadvantages?

My husband has been charged with child abuse against my 6 yr old, he is his stepdad. When I got home Friday my son had a large red mark on his head I asked what it was and my son didn't know anything was there. He said it didn't hurt but that my husband had stepped on his head earlier in the day. I asked why he did that and my son said "he was mad at me for touching the dvds" my older son confirmed this. My husband denied anything happened and was mad at me for accusing him. This is not the first incident, we have been investigated by the state twice for these accidents with him and the kids...last month he broke a chair in half by slamming my son into it. I have begged him to get anger management but he denies that there is a problem. So Friday I called a crisis hotline to ask for advice I didn't tell them my information but apparently they trace the calls bc a cop and social worker showed up a few hours later. They took pictures of my son's head and said they were charging my husband and wanted to talk to him. He turned himself in and then bailed himself out the same day. Well now my husband is livid that I called anyone and he wants a divorce. But he is saying that this case will be dropped I'm just wondering is that true? I took my son to the ER there is no head trauma just a large abrasion. What is typical for these kinds of cases? I have no idea what to expect but my husband has moved out and I'm not allowing him near the kids until the case is settled.

What do you so when you have been the best you that you could to everyone including your children gave everything, been there, cared, looked out for them, just broke your neck doing it all just to feel disrespected, unappreciated, disregarded, walked all over and used? I'm not perfect no one is but God knows me knows my heart all my life I've been used, taken for granted and today I cry and cry to myself in front of them and it seems to mean nothing the so called concern at the moment is just that a moment. I just wanna run away and don't be around anyone anymore I feel I have lost what use to make me me and I don't know what to do anymore I feel lost and hurt and angry!!!

Sorry for TMI! My hubby and I are happily married a year now and have been enjoying our marriage in all ways. When it comes to being intimate we have sex daily or each other day...and yes there are the lady days during which sex is out and there are them days when we might not do it for a couple of days but that is rare. So my main question, am I having too much sex and is it bad for your health?

I hear them have sex some times on weekends but not like they used to. I kind of enjoyed listening to them having sex, Is it normal that I got excited listening? I'm 19 ,took a year off college and still live at home. I love the idea of having a man inside me, Mom has it good with my dad, he can get a lot of women but mom treats him bad. Id like a guy just like my dad. My bed is right against the wall. I hear everything. They never say bad things about me, but I love the sounds they make doing it. My dad must be very good.

So i have a girlfriend who i absolutely love more than anything. I have been dating her for over 2 years and i really believe she is the one. About a week ago i got drunk and went out with a few of my friends. We were all dancing in a large group and i ended up grinding with this girl i vaguely know. I really wasnt thinking at the time as my judgement was clouded by alcohol, which is still no excuse. I told my girlfriend the whole story and we are working to fix it. I just get really paranoid though when it comes to cheating. I remember the whole night but i just keep thinking what if she kissed me and i cant remember app of a sudden. What are your thoughts need some advice

I understand why a lot of people feel that it is wrong, but I feel like once you live with someone you get to know them so much better. I don't think I would want to get married before I knew that I could get along living with someone for the rest of my life. That's only my opinion though. What do you think?

We have been married for 4 years and have been together for a total of 7 years. Because we share not much in common and are always busy at work or in our studies, we don't have much to discuss or talk about. I'm very quiet and not good at conversation. An example from last night, we had dinner together but I hardly talked and I actually felt uncomfortable! I don't know what has happened. I'm guessing that years of us not sharing many meals together or much time at all together has taken its toll. We still love each other but beyond the commitment, we actually share very little together. I've found it hard to make new friends whilst we have been renting because I don't want to invite other people around to the apartment. Our first home will be finished at the end of next month. Then I will invite people to come around. Try to make life as normal as I can. My problems lie with communication with my wife. She will come home sometimes laughing to herself and when I ask her to share what is funny, she won't even answer me. I will then enquire if she has done anything behind my back and that starts WW3 with her swearing 'f...you' at me and turning cold. I don't accuse her of infidelity but don't know how to get her to understand that I feel hurt and disrespected when she can't share with me something as simple as what she is laughing about! I don't know how many times I need to remind myself that this pattern of communication isn't right and that no matter how good she has been and how hard she has worked, that maybe we cannot solve this problem and it will drive a permanent wedge between us. I already know we don't operate like a normal couple. My landlord says I live like I'm single because I eat at home all the time and spend my days off alone. She used to suit herself earlier in the marriage and go out with friends or go to work and not bother with me on birthdays or anniversaries. Our first wedding anniversary was a disaster. I booked a nice seafood restaurant but she acted bored. Half way through, she seen her work colleague and got up to call him over and say hi. That was such a huge slap on the face. At one point I told myself that I will stay for long enough to live in the new apartment for a minimum of 6 months and then make a claim towards it if I feel like we aren't going to improve. I carry some hurt but try not to think about it or get in the way of where we are at now. To her defence, she works hard to sell property every day with no days off and needs to contribute towards our mortgage. She is affectionate nearly every day. And cannot sleep without me in the bed. So night shift is harder for her. My first rotation the other week, she was calling me at 3am to say she couldn't sleep. She has no other qualifications and doesn't know what other kind of job she would like to do. She likes her current job but feels pressured to meet sales quotas and sometimes talks about how she wishes she could do another type of job with more money involved. I seen a post online from a woman describing her husband in terms of their friendship, dedication to ensuring they make each other happy etc. I would love to have those kinds of experiences as well.

Due to the alcoholism our marriage is falling apart, it's affecting our kids. He has alcohol cirrhosis of the liver, diabetic, with high blood pressure, portal hypertension, he no longer can have an erection and all this doesn't seem to scare him. He is only 37 years old. He has been drinking for over 10 years now. He is always in a bad mood. He feels like we don't understand him and we feel like he don't understand us. We have tried to find him help, but he refuses to get any type of help. The kids worry so much about him and his health, they talk to him constantly to tell him he needs help, that doesnt work. The kids even get counseling at school for this. My husband lies so much about his drinking, hides the alcohol to try and fool us that he is not drinking. I am loosing hope that things will ever get better. It's so frustrating. I don't know if I'm just wasting my time here waiting for him to change. Should I stay or should I go?

I hit a low point in my life a few years back in which I slept with 12-13 guys in the course of 2 years. I'm not proud of it at all and frankly I'm quite embarrassed. Since then I've compared myself harshley to other women. I've been in a relationship for about 2 weeks. I haven't had sex in two years as I've vowed to not be in a sexual relationship with someone until I'm really committed to them. I like this guy a lot and I really want to sleep with him. However, I'm constantly comparing myself. In my "mind" most women would never sleep with their boyfriend within the first 2 weeks of dating. I look at other women as "innocent" and like they aren't having sex. I'm not sure why I'm comparing myself to other women. I think it's nobody business but my own if we are being intimate. What's everyone's thoughts!? I mean I'm 28 years old so I'm not young.

You are in a relationship with someone who has children with their ex. Their ex comes over to their house and hangs out when you are not there in order to see the kids. They hang out at their house while you are not around, eat their food in their fridge, watch tv on their couch and play video games. They also joke around with their ex via texts and phone calls and you even caught the ex making a joke about you behind your back of course. They also hug their ex and are friendly with them even though their ex treated them like crap during their marriage and has expressed jealousy of their new relationship. would you be ok with this?

Have you ever disagreed with something so important that it ended your relationship. For example my girlfriend has children with her ex husband. She is friendly with him because of the kids, even to the point where they text jokes to one another. Her ex husband has been investigated for child molestation on more than one occasion and looking up child porn as well. Even though he is not charged the guy gives me the creeps and it really bothers me that she is so friendly with him. I'm seriously thinking about breaking up with her over this. She says I am judgmental because she believes he is innocent and I am the judgmental one. Is it wrong for me to end my relationship with her because she feels this way?

I m 25 years old. I got married in 2014 to a girl that I only knew for 8 months. Before that I was in a terrible, mind game type of relationship for 3 years. I only had a gap of 3 months in between relationships. I feel I moved way too fast and now I m feeling more and more down and filled with regret. My wife is from China, and so for her and our relationship, we moved to China June of this year. I sold everything before we left. I gave my car back to the bank and now my credit is shot. I have nothing but my family back home. No job, no money, no house, no possessions. Nothing. I know it s only been a couple months but I feel its not going to work out. We fought so much before we moved and we are still fighting a lot now. I feel nothing has changed for the better. I love her so much and her family. The family are really great people. But we fight over petty things and it s so stupid for those fights we have fought about. She always turns things around on to me and then I have to say sorry even though I don t truley feel sorry. When she says or does something out of line, she will apologize. But then turn it around where at one point she is the victim and demands a sorry in return. I don t want to lose her but at the same time I can t stand her. Idk what to do.

My wife have attorney, I have attorney and we agree on all except money I should pay off my wife, house is on my name only I bought house when we are married, I know that she have right on half, and I am ready to pay her off, school starting in 3 days , my attorney inform me that my wife is moving out of house with kids in 3 days with kids because she want to enroll kids in other school, I did not sign any divorce agreement yet , I say my attorney when we sign all papers including money amount , I may sign and she may go with kids, or if she going from house with kids without me signin any papers I will call police, , Last e mail from my attorney is that my wife have right to move out of house,???? and calling Police will create haos ,, In other hand if I permit wife to go and negotiate money amount probably she may ask for more money,,' My question is : Can I stop my wife going with kids from house without my promision ,,???? also we have court date in 4 days,, thank you

I just realized last night that maybe if me and my husband were not married now we probably never would be. My husband walked into a fun dancing bar and wanted to leave then we went to a laid back quiet less fun sporty type of bar and he was happy there. We kinda just starred at each other and made small talk and finished our drinks. I felt nervous and uncomfortable and wanted to go back home with my 2 babies. Our sitter let us know we couldn't stay late tonight so we finished our drinks and left. Everything was more exciting than us. Honestly I haven't dated much before him so I have no experience. Then my husband spends 50 minutes asking me while we look for places to go where do you want to go. Repeatedly and this is a date he asked me out to. So I always feel like I let him down because I been a mom for the past 4 years and I don't know where I want to party or drink at.

Please Give me some naughty ideas please?? :)

Does this mean sex should start picking back up?

I have been married to my wife for 32 years. We very seldom argue. Here is the situation: We haven't had intercourse in over a year. She says it became uncomfortable for her. I know the female body changes over the years so I tried to understand. But now I wonder if its all due to something else and here is why. When the sex became uncomfortable to her she went to her ob/Gyn and the doctor gave her a cream. Damn **** cost $100 for a little tube. It never got used and went to waste. Again I tried to be understanding. I always teased her about trying the anal but was never serious. Recently we lost a beloved family dog due to old age. It was pure breed and it took me 3 weeks to find a replacement. This replacement puppy cost me $1100. On the way home I joking make a comment that a dog that expensive should get me some booty sex. She said no booty but offered up the p***y. How can all of a sudden the discomfort be gone. Over time when she needed to relax I use toys to make her ***. One is penetrated and there's never discomfort. Plenty of lube is use for both me or toys. I've wondered about that for awhile. Has my wife become a gold digger and am I expected to spend a lot to get a little?

I know you all have seen alot of questions pertaining to this issue BUT for the 21 yrs I've been married to my wife she kept talking to her ex. Despite having a kid with the Ex I've been understanding until she turned 23 and got married. Wife doesn't want to be held,kissed,hugged and doesn't want to go on dates with me, etc. What am I to think right? Cheating with EX. I've taken some of y'all advice and approached her telling her my feelings and putting my foot down. Her response? "At the end of the day she still comes home to me" as if she isn't doing wrong. What I told her was "Yea you come home to sit down and Be on that phone texting and talking to him. I continued telling her "..and at the end of the day I help pay the bills, cook for you,clean and pick you up from work cause you can't drive, I dont see your ex doing that. All I asked was for YOUR time and affection yet you seem to give to your ex which is not married to you, I am." But nothing,she still isn't doing anything wrong I guess she thinks. What should I do? What y'all think? It just feels horrible you dedicated 21 yrs to a marriage just to feel like it's wasted.To me talking to her Ex would be alot more tolerable if she accepted my affection and have a decent conversation with me every once in a while and go out. Cause I would know she loves me.

My husband served 4 years in the military in which I supported although we had a new born and I was a young mother. I raised my daughter alone and worked for a year without any financial support, then I moved with him away from home and family. It was hard with the Military, but it took me 4 years to complete an AS degree. I did not want him to re-inlist because his attitude in the military was "its all about me". I knew my life will always be lived in his shadow. I did give him the option though and told him I will support it. He chose to get out. When he got out, things we hard, I was the only one working, and I saw he was very bitter. I asked him to rejoin, he told me to stop forcing him to do something he did not want to. I stopped and hoped he d get better. He went to school but had trouble dedicating himself and got shitty grades. I ve tried everything to motivate him. I tried to return to school, but I could not afford it. Again, I tried to talk him into rejoining realizing how hard things were. He did not want to. So I decided to join to pay my way through college of course with his support, I wanted to make a better future for us. He says he supports me but today I realized how bitter he was.He asked me to apologize for "making"him get out. I feel like I lived for him and supported him & gave him the chance to rejoin &now its time I do something for myself, I feel he s mad at himself but blaming me. I need someone else s perspective on this issue.