I admit I had a problem about a year ago where I would lash out on him. I've been diagnosed with severe depression and anxiety and I'm still trying to get diagnosed. I have issues yes, and when I would attack him he'd attack me back. It was all my fault and please don't judge me. I have fixed this problem and don't do that anymore and he's forgiven me ( I think) but I slipped up last week after he called me a stupid slut in front of his friends andI hit him and I was very ashamed and I'm going to a phychiatrist next week to see what is wrong with me why I have anger problems.. He thinks now that he can trwT me anyway he wants if I say something he doesn't like hell slap me across the face . Not hard but still. I keep asking him to stop and he won't . He won't stop. I know everything is my fault and your gonna say break up with him but I don't want to. He keeps saying I'm his *****. And I don't care about that but I don't like how he thinks he can't just hit me still after ONE mistake and I haven't even hit him in over a year like that. Yes we both have issues. But it's concerning me because he feels since I lashed out on him it's my turn to face conceal ended yet he hit me back anytime we'd fight and I was pretty physical with him before but he hasn't stopped being emotionally abuses and tells me to shut the **** up EVerytime I say this because it's emotional and will bring up widen I hit him

Im in the 9th grade and there is this girl I can't stop thinking about. She is in the 10th grade. So i take digital media with her and she sits next to me. I cant look her in the face when she looks at me because my face gets red and I look shy every time. I can't make a move on her. I really do love her but i am way too shy. Help me

Hello. Im a high school girl in 11th grade. And I have always had issues with relationships. I don't know why I am like this, but ever since I can remember I have always ended things with a boy before a relationship starts or in the beginning of the relationship. I just always lose interest. Some theories I have is; that I simply have not met anyone I actually want to date, I am too independent and I am not good with commitments, I don't give anyone a chance, I like being chased, and/or I have too high standards. I've liked boys, I've had flings, and I have wanted a relationship before (and I still do from time to time), but am I incapable of having relationships? I really do not know why I am like this. I've even been asked before why I am never in a relationship; I didn't even know what to say. Is it a bad thing that I'm like this? Or is it a good thing to be this way? I don't have a clue. Advice??

my boyfriend told me he ejaculated on my butt ,but I was told if he did do that then I would feel it, why would he lie ? did he ejaculate in me ??? or did he just not ejaculate at all ,if he didn't why would he not ,what reasons would you not ejaculate but stop sex for ?

So a boy at church who is a year older than me is always staring at me. Sometimes intently and sometimes just glancing. When we talk I am always super confused. Some days he's super easy to talk to. Other days he's distant but if I keep talking to him he seems more comfortable. A couple years ago he was hurt by a girl so now he's super shy around girls. I just got his number and we texted for a little bit, but he doesn't like texting that much but we kept the conversation going. I'm just so confused by all the mixed signals

He thinks I should only date asian girls, I would if there are any around my area.

Hey guys im in highschool right now there is a really beautiful girl in my class but i dont know how tw go up to her and talk to her. I dont want to seem weird and say something wrong or weird. Because i really like her and dont want to blow my chance. I've seen her look at me a couple of times in class and she turns away probably doesnt mean anything but im a good looking guy im not ugly ive been told before.( not being cocky or anything obv.) HELP ME IM A PUSS!

Me and this boy dated awhile ago, its been about 6 months since we broke up. Every time he gets near me I have this weird feeling in my stomach, like when you're going down a hill on a rollercoaster. I don't think I still have feelings for him, so why am I feeling this?

my girlfriend was out shopping and also replying show and so I called her because I needed help with something . after she helped me we talked for a while she was showing me stuff she wanted me to have for our new apartment. My girlfriend told me to text her when I had time with her but I text her all day when I have the chance and not at work. I've only seen my bio mom two times I'm just getting time to know her I didn't text her at all today and face times her at 9 pm. What is wrong with what I did she is so mad??

okay so basically i work in a restaurant and i like this kid, but i wouldn't really cal, it a crush, im just attracted to him and so in the dream i was squeezing the juice out of lemons in the back and i was just wearing a black long skirt, no bra no shirt no nothing just a long black skirt and he came in but since my boobs are small i just like had bad posture so he wouldnt see them and i was in doggy style and the trash can was right next to me and he like pressed his crotch on me to throw away something but then he like separated and i was hiding my face because i was squeezing the limes with no shirt and he like gets my chin and puts my face up and is like "your so beautiful i appreciate your hard work" and he left and i was like ight, so then i went out and put on a bikini top(idk why) and the environment was like a lounge type of thing and there were alot of adults and there comes this one moment i go on my phone and for some reason i had our convo on my messages but i meant to type to another person and so i typed but i erased and i didnt too much of it but when i check my phone again my crush was like "tell me what you needed to say" i guess he saw the typing things and thought i became a pussy and backed out. and then for some reason i was at like the cash register and my neighbor was in front of me and we said hi and whatever and i was on forever 21 online (dont judge me) and i was shopping but didnt have enough and u went to go check my bank account and... i guess he like knew what was going on and he grabbed my phone and ringed it to the cashier and was like "i got it" and the total was like 74 bucks. and after that i saw my crush again like running around because he was at work and where we work its super fast paced, but he was wearing there blue pool shorts and blue shirt. my crush is 4 years older than me im 16 and hes 20 hes very flirty with me and plays around but hes very conscious about my age(obviously) and one day i work i said something inappropriate to mess around and he was like "yo your 16 and your saying stuff like that" like bro seriously. hes a very funny person and hes always messing around but i know age is a huge factor and he just got out of a relationship just like me and hes like me, we just both want to be free. just wanted to say this. thanks

She's owns a bookstore, and I go there to buy books since I like reading. We talk a lot, laugh a lot, and get along really well. Thanks everyone, but I'm looking for a woman's response. Preferably a woman in her 30s.

We both talked on instagram for a long time. He would always start the conversations with "WYD", and i would always reply. Yesterday i posted a selfie of me and he was the first one to like it. Then a couple of minutes later, he liked on of my oldest pictures. And at school he would always make eye contact with me too. Please help. I like him, but does it sound like he does?

The last 2 men I have not been able to be myself. They want me to obey them. Do dishes their way. Wash my hair their way. Dry off their way. React acceptable ways. Like wtf is up with this. I really dont feel like this is normal. Its not like I want to be a crazy party animal it would just be nice to clean how i want to and take care of myself how I want to. Is it me or them?

So there's this guy I really like and he has liked me in the past. We have lunch together, and my friend talks about how he stares at me all the time, and he does because I catch him. I also always catch his twin brother and friends stare at me too. This morning he was talking to his friend and he was grinning when I looked over, he looked like he looked away quickly and one of them went "I see her" but later on today at lunch my friend said he was staring and smiling at me, and his best friend came over to my table as soon as he got done talking to him and him and another friend caught me dancing (lol whoops) and he was staring but it was in a good way (as my friend said), and another one of his best friends asked "oh you're (my name), I asked (his name) if that's who you were) and she kept calling him "my boyfriend" and kept sending him pics of me....the thing is, when I catch him staring, he either looks away or smiles, and when my friends catch him staring, it's like he's emotionless. I always end up breaking eye contact when he catches me staring. So what does this all mean? Good or bad?

My girlfriend is suggesting that we spend a weekend apart to do our "own thing." But what she's got planned is to go to one of her single guy friend's B-Day party and the rest of the weekend she is going to be home alone with a roommate who happens to be a single good-looking guy while the other roommates are away on vacation. Should I be worried?

He raped me and It's been a year. He set me up to seem like a slutty asian gold digger. He messed with me psychologically and kept asking me for sex, he stopped all of a sudden and I got super paranoid and asked yahoo about it. Next thing I know his friends are following me around everywhere and I'm practically crying every single day. I was strong for so long but no one believes me that he raped me and i'm scared. HELP. This whole thing messed with me my family my education my spirit. I got very suicidal 2 weeks ago and I'm scared it'll happen again. He committed sodomy at the angel's stadium (a sub category under the US govt.'s definition of rape) and at a gross cockroach infested motel he brought me to. He made me feel like such a hore. I don't know how this happened!!!! I grew up in a nice christian home... maybe it was my outfits....maybe they're racist....I don't understand how the hell this happened to me!!! HELPPPPP

My boyfriend wants me to tell him what I'd like to try in bed but I honestly don't know I always bug him about what his are because I love the thought of satisfying all his needs. Now he wants to do the same for me. I'm not very experienced I've only ever done the "regular"stuff and I do want to tell him something but I don't know what's out there, Any ideas of what we could try to do to spice up our sex life?

How to get friends or people to like you at school? I always have a mean look but please help me out

I just broke up with my 7 month bf (now ex) due to a few jealousy issues, plus he was very controlling. Anyways, while I was dating my ex, I got a job, and began liking one of my coworkers (ik, not a good idea. Let's call him Daniel). But he is 18, and I am 16. He already told me he wasnt interested in a relationship (before he knew I was dating someone at the time) since he has been working a lot to afford college, which I respect. Now, here's my problem, a coworker likes me (he makes it obvious, let's call him Dustin). Dustin knows I like Daniel, and is fine with that (but he still shows that he likes me). Dustin is a nice guy, same age as me, but I still have a small crush on Daniel, and find it unfair to him if I go out with him. What should I do!? *fyi: none of them know about my ex*

I m 19 and recently became curious about Sugar Daddies/babies and want to try and see if its for me. I am not the smartest nor the prettiest. I have some scars and image issues, while aware of this I am happy with myself. I want a companion, someone to spend time with. I dont expect flashy cars but trips to art exibits, not flashy dimonds but something uniqu and simple. I want culture that I cant grasp myself. An allowance doesn t even need to be outrageously large. Is this possible?

He stares a thicker girl with thighs and *** and a million dollar smile daily but she's worried about the one time she sees him look at a very skinny girl with some *** and curly hair If he wasn't attracted wouldn't he look at the skinner chick more?

I usually have a rule that I won't have sex with someone unless I'm in a relationship with them..well I broke that rule for someone that ive been talking about having a relationship with. We've been talking for a while, every day. The other night, we even stayed on the phone until we fell asleep- 8 1/2 hours. Yesterday, we had sex. After that, things seemed a little off. I confronted him, and he said it was because his dad, and some kids showed up and were hanging around us all day, and that he's sorry that I felt that something was of, that he didn't mean to make me feel that way.. He was still friendly towards me and playful, but it seemed off. Well, today, it seems as if he's been ignoring me. I'll send a message on Facebook, he'll ignore it, but I'll see him commenting on other things. Hours later, he responded. But he was very short with me. We've talked about being in a relationship..about meeting each other's parents..he told me he wants something with me. I've been used so many times to where I feel paranoid..this is the first day we haven't talked. And it just happens to be right after sex. He's supposed to be leaving for Iowa today, so maybe he's been busy preparing? But why be commenting on other things on Facebook? I don't know. I feel that I'm over thinking it. But I'm usually right when I get this gut feeling.

We screwed before but now she has a boyfriend and she still doesn t want me to have any other female friends. Then she wants to treat me like **** sometimes. I m just confused. Someone help me.

Why do women think it is OK to judge men on their height but think it's unacceptable for men to judge women on their weight?

So there's this guy I've known for a year and we always flirted in that year. He hugged me everday after school and he wouldn't let go, he would touch me whenever he got a chance, and he would tickle me and stand behind me so when I walked backwards he would catch me and hug me. He was sweet to me and he always told me he loved me and he thought that I was really cute. So now another grade rolls by and he just stares at me. We only have one class and I'm too shy to talk to him. On the first day he came up to me and told me after school "You haven't even looked at me yet. Do you even notice me?" And he hugged me so tight and I just said nothing. The next day's comes he just stares at me and he's flirting with other girls. 3rd day comes by and he keeps glancing at me. Same thing happens and it's about a week now. I'm confused?

There's this girl I've known for years, and she's one of my only friends. We both sorta liked each other a long time ago, but I've moved past that (I think she has too). I see her as a great friend, and I'm not physically attracted to her much, but I feel kinda jealous when she seems to "flirt" with other guys. It's like a brotherly love, like I don't want to go out with her but I feel really protective or something. It's very strange.

First of all do not judge me. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 3 years now. We are both 20 years old. and I love him and he loves me too. He comes to my house to hang out and when me and my family go out to places he comes along too. My parents don't have any problems with him and he doesn't have problems with them either(not the I know of). However, a year ago his mom found a condom in his room because obviously we are sexually active and I know how to protect myself. Me and him talked about protecting ourselves because we don't want to have kids. My boyfriend's mom decided to tell my mom about me having sex with his son, instead of talking to me and confronting me with the problem instead of telling my mom. My mom didn't have to know because it's pretty much non of her business and I can deal it on my own. Ever since then I started not liking her and she started not liking me either. Now that's been a while that the incident happened, my boyfriend wants me to get a long with her, but I don't want to because I still feel a grudge towards her for doing what she did. I don't know if i should try got get along with her or I should leave how it is. My family doesn't like her either and they don't want me near her either. When I see her I wave at her and smile but I haven't talked to her conversation wise. Wha do you guys think? I don't get along with my boyfriend's mom...?

I act in a local theatre, and there's this girl I like. We talk and joke around at rehearsal, but I never really got a chance to talk to her at length. I facebook messaged her and told her I'd be in her area in a few days, and asked if she was up for grabbing a drink or hanging out. She said sure, and we made plans to meet at this bar. I wasn't sure after I sent this if it was clear that I was asking her out. The time we spent together was fun. We have a lot in common, and the conversation was fun and easy. It lasted about 2 hours. We did get separate checks...I sort of froze when the bartender asked for one or 2 checks, and she said separate. Wasn't very smooth on my part, but given that I wasn't sure if my intentions of this being a date were clear, I didn't want her to feel like she had been "tricked" into going on a date with me. Usually, I keep things clearer than this, but I guess since I act with her, i wanted to keep things a bit casual, but maybe I made this to casual. What do you think? Does this sound like a date, or does it sound like people just hanging out? Thanks

Not really obsession but doing things that get his attention actually rather then like physically following him... and not like flirting where he might think or feel it's she's too easy and not serious.? Do guys like when she SHOWS she is interested but does not flirt...? Thanks.

Me and my ex girlfriend broke up a month ago because she had lost feelings. I still have feelings for her and I have been very depressed because of it. I had stopped talking to her ever since, with periods of conversations. But I found out a few days ago about her being with someone else now. I don't know if they are dating, but it seems like they are going to. I was so dedicated on getting her back. But after seeing a picture with another guy's lips on her cheek, made me enraged, eventually leading me to throw my phone against the wall, and breaking it. (It was going to crap anyways, it didn't charge) yesterday, my ex had asked me when I am going to give her her stuff back, and that was barely a conversation, as I had ended it. I haven't talked to her ever since then, but I am debating on whether or not I should talk to her again, or wait until the school year. I do still wish to get her back, but I don't know. She really meant a lot to me, and I meant a lot to her. It really has been hurting me, and I have joined my school's football team because of it, even though I had never played football in my life. Getting her back is in my best interest at the moment, but I don't know whether or not if I should talk to her at all or not. Please be informative, as I know I could move on, but I just don't want to jump into a rebound relationship like she did. Thank you for reading.

My girlfriend broke up with me this morning over Facebook messenger and this is probably going to top the list of one of the most sad/pathetic days of my life. She told me that she still wants to remain friends but that she "needs to start a new chapter" in her life. I had given our relationship my all, and I had very deep feelings for her and considered her the love of my life. I have been laying in bed all day, I have a sinking feeling in my chest and I don't know if i will be able to sleep tonight. She is playing games with me because she sent me "frowning" emojis earlier and i feel like she is kicking me while I'm down. I am always going to love her but i need some advice on how to continue on with my life, because right now, I have no motivation to do anything.

What about his personality? and his looks? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Niko_Bellic

I thought we had a great date, but whenIi asked her when we can meet again, she said, she finds me gross and disgusting and that she hopes I die a slow and very painful death (the sooner the better). should I keep trying?

Dated for 3 years. Been 1 year and 5 months now since we broke up. We were so perfect until her mom told her u need guy friends and she began liking guys instagram pictures and deleting messages behind my back. The breakup was a nasty one. I tried everything i tried dating new people, sleeping with new people, meeting new people, i even tried traveling and going on vacation. No matter what she is always on my mind. I can't forget her...she began smoking now and drinking and im always worried about her safety. Last time we spoke was 5 months ago we were attempting to fix things but she then said she doesn't want too because now she can do whatever she wants. I even told her i missed her and everything and she doesn't care anymore...what should i do i really hate this feeling. She was my first girlfriend and first lover. I was her first too. She has drugs to run too now whenever she misses somebody. I don't i just cry myself to sleep. Im 22 with a supervisor job that pays me good which means i cant mess around or drink. Doctors want to put me on pills because i feel depressed but i dont want medication i dont believe in it...what should i do? What will help me forget her or finally move on...i already have her blocked off everything...

So I've been in my current relationship for 6 months. We're both in our very early 20s. To say it's been a challenge seems too harsh but it hasn't been as easy as society would say the early stages of a relationship should be. Anyway my boyfriend recently revealed that he still sometimes wonders what it would be like to go out with and have sex with other women. But he knows this would displease me and he doesn't want to lose me so he doesn't do it. I'm not sure if I'm supposed to be flattered or not but honestly I'm mostly concerned. He often brings up our future together, married, kids, a picket fence the whole nine yards. But I can't help but wonder if he'll eventually cheat, I doubt it, or leave me, seems more his style. Which if he's gonna leave me because he's still young and wild, I'd rather he do it now while there's still a chance we can remain friends maybe, rather than 10 years from now following a bitter divorce. I'm his first serious girlfriend and he really trusts me more than anyone on the entire planet. He says he wants me more than anything or anyone. But I just don't want to be a fool and ignore the red flags. I really do love him, he's my first love actually. But I also want him to be happy. And if being with different women will make him happy then we don't need to be together.

Well I was working the oc fair a week ago and I saw a family couple wanting to get beer. I gave the father the wristband since he was purchasing the beer, but his daughter was mad with me because I had to check his ID. She was attractive to me, but we really did not keep much of a conversation after that. It was pretty funny to me because he wasn't really much shocked that I had to do it. She just randomly stated that she's going to report me. I took it as a joke and moved on. My question is do you think she'll still remember me? I wish I would've gave her my name but I was a but shy and curious on if she really was going to rat on me or not. She pointed out what I was wearing and I also remember when they left she left she gave me a weird stare like she's not going to forget me. To all the girls out there, in a situation like this would you remember that person if you said that to someone? I know its a weird question but I thought I would ask since its been in my mind this whole time. * I was a bit shy ** Also she wasn't angry mad. More of a jokingly kins of way ** kind

from what we've talked about before, it seems like they're just really close friends. They were together a year and he told me he loved her but they broke things off and yet they still text, it seems almost daily or at least every few days. My bf doesn't have a lot of friends, and I don't want to just take another one away from him, but I'm worried that he talks to her about us, and that honestly makes me uncomfortable... but I don't want to upset him by bringing the whole thing up.. it's obviously a touchy subject... we've been together over 2 years now

For starters he's overweight. He stands 6 feet and is 330 pounds. He has terrible self-esteem issues that he needs to work on himself. Anyway, he's cheated on me many times but not physically. Its all emotional and it's from women online. He never had the courage to approach a woman so he does his flirting online. I found a woman's name on his phone and i saw that he had two messages from her but he claimed she was his cousin (like always). I tried to call her from his phone but he took the phone from me. He text the woman and she said "I don't know why you continue texting me when you know that you have a jealous girlfriend friend." I knew that she wasn't his cousin.. why does he always do this? He claims to love me but he cheats emotionally with other women. I was his first everything. I was his first sexual partner and "true love".

I use girls, make fake love to them, make the girls feel and believe i love them. They fall in love with me and i use them as much as i want until i get bored with them, so i go to the next girl and do the same thing. The amazing part is that i enjoy breaking their hearts and making them cry after i throw them away. It is very cute to see tears run down their cheeks, makes me want them more and more. I actually do wipe their tears and give a farewell kiss on their cheek. However they still want me after that. What is more amazing than kissing a girl from behind, making them moan and dominate them? it is seriously so nice, girls are like puppies that need warmth and love. Too bad for them that i am just using them for their cute noises. After reading this you may think i hate girls, you are not wrong, but i also think girls are something special and when i see a cute one, i snatch her (I still can't believe dumb guys think the way to a girls heart is to give a good pick up line - I wont tell how to get girls, you'll learn eventually -> took me 6 years to figure out) and do the things i listed above so i can feed my needs. Why hate me for this? All i am doing is enjoying what is created for me.

My boyfriend and I have been together 1 and a half years. We have had a few ups and downs with our sex life mainly because he has been sick with Graves' disease/hyperthyroidism which leaves him with little drive etc but as he has had treatment it's slowly returning to what it used to be. I don't have many issues with porn. He works offshore on a 2/2 fly in and out roster and I'm well aware he watches it when he's away. He will sometimes watch it at home as well if I go away for work for a few days. But the other day I came out of the shower to find him laying there with an erection and wanting sex. I was pleasantly surprised and of course did the act. Later on I was horrified to find his history that he had google searched 'snapchat nudes' minutes before. I am so upset. He felt the need to look at naked girls to turn him on? Is this normal??

We broke up months ago. It's been really tough but I got over it. I think I've moved on because I actually don't think about her when I'm awake. I don't miss her, nor do I feel anything romantic about her anymore. However, memories of us always randomly cross my mind for no reason especially before I go to bed. It's not like I'm thinking about her at all it just happens naturally. It's kinda depressing and it always makes me feel really sad. She even exists in my dreams from time to time. I don't know why this is happening to me. I don't think I still love her. Whenever she comes into my mind I feel only sorrow. Will this ever stop? It's killing me.