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- Question: Problem approaching girl? Trying to avoid awkwardness..?
- Question: She'll repeat things, but if you mention something again she gets really rude?
- Question: I'm 15 and can't relate to anybody older than 7?
- Question: Are they really my friends?
- Question: My bestfriend didnt do anything for my birthday..?
- Question: What should I do if my friends aren't in any of my classes or my lunch at school?
- Question: Should I not go to a party?
- Question: Is it okay for me to do this to people who fundraise?
- Question: Does is seem sad that I'm going by myself?
- Question: I feel like my friends are alienating me?
- Question: What should I do about this friend problem?
- Question: Why do my parents compare me to my friends?
- Question: Do you think tweens/preteens girls are annoying?
- Question: Why did my friend and I drift apart?
- Question: Did I deserve to get bullied?
- Question: Should I be upset that he now have a girlfriend?
- Question: Me ha dicho que soy un pokito mas que una amigo!!!paso una foto de la conve?
- Question: Where do you meet online friends?
- Question: What to do about my friend?
- Question: Everyone treats me like I'm weak and tries to be the dominant one. How can I fix this?
- Question: School problem?
- Question: Need your help on how to handle a delicate situation with a friend?
- Question: IF SOMEONE TAUNTED YOU ABOUT KILLING THEM HOW WOULD U FEEL?
- Question: No Man s Sky My friend claims that you can add your friends ingame. Is that true?
- Question: Annoying BFF?
- Question: My friend only knows how to talk about herself?
- Question: Why did my ex best friend turn everyone against me and wanted to make my life miserable w/ rumors?
- Question: Ragazzi ho 31 anni. Vergine mai fidanzata perché sempre non corrisposta. Non trovo lavoro. Sono anche laureata. I miei sono separati...?
- Question: I got into an argument with a girl I was friends with and now she's trying to talk to all of my friends and get them involved? Any advice?
- Question: I accidentally mistook someone for someone else?
- Question: Should I keep this friendship going?
- Question: How to smoke cigarettes at 16?
- Question: MY FRIEND IS TRYING TO KILL HERSLEF HELP ME?
- Question: My friend tried to kill herself this morning, luckly she failed and I'm broken, what to do?
- Question: Why are kids "dating", doing drugs and alcohol, and going to late night parties alone?
- Question: How to not be invisible at work?
- Question: How do you get co-workers off you back at your job?
- Question: Help I think I just made my friend hate me for life?
- Question: My step mom thinks I'm depressed but I'm not?
- Question: Is it too expensive to send someone $50 each month?
- Question: Is my mom being unreasonable?
- Question: I lost my friends... I feel depressed... Help please read.?
- Question: Why don't i like hanging out with friends?
- Question: Suggestions for books to make a girl realize tge difference of good and bad persons?
- Question: I neeeeed advice!!?
- Question: Is it wrong to give someone money for spending time with you?
- Question: Are These Signs Of Interest?
- Question: Is this boy ugly ????
- Question: Is he ignoring me?
- Question: Do you hang out with nerds?
- Question: How do you help your friend with depression?
- Question: Would you give your child money for doing something good in school?
- Question: How to make friends over the summer?
- Question: How to make more friends *for a teenage boy :( plz I'm lonely so often?
- Question: Bestfriend treats me like **** what should I do?
- Question: Got drunk; threw friend's iPad through window (aimed for couch). He wants a new window & iPad. I say one or the other- not both. Who's right?
- Question: I don't have any friends?
- Question: How old should you be to have a baby, because this kid was rude to me!!?
- Question: Is it okay to be alone instead of having friends?
- Question: Would you pay someone for giving you books?
| Question: Problem approaching girl? Trying to avoid awkwardness..? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 06:02 PM PDT I'm 15. I want to be better friends with a girl (we're just alright friends). I do find her attractive but I'm not necessarily trying to flirt with her or anything, just trying to spend some time hanging out with her to become better friends. The problem I'm having is there is never a way to hang with her that wouldn't likely prove to be extremely awkward. She's always hanging with her friends whom I'm even less friends with, and inviting myself over, being that I'm a guy and all, into their girl hangout time would be... awkward. How do I spend... "unawkward"..?.. time with her to better our "friendship". |
| Question: She'll repeat things, but if you mention something again she gets really rude? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 05:58 PM PDT At this point I guess I just need a place to vent and some advise on if I should say something to her. There's this girl I'm sort of friends with that really bothers me sometimes. I know she's done this multiple times, but I can only think of a couple examples. There will be times where we're talking and she'll bring up an idea or a topic that's she's already talked about before. Then I mention something that I must have said once before and she'll get all sassy and say something like "You've already said that before." Like one time she was talking about redecorating her room (which she's already mentioned multiple times before) and I mentioned something about thinking about doing something to mine. Then she gets all sassy and is like "Yea, you said that before." Like SO!? You mention the same thing over and over again, but nobody tells you off! But the moment someone else mentions something twice she gets all "I don't want to hear it again because I'm too good for it" attitude. I guess it's not that big of a deal, it's just it's that adding onto other things she does and it starts to piss me off. Should I slightly mention something to her or let it slide? She seems super sensitive and writes people off for little to no reason at all. |
| Question: I'm 15 and can't relate to anybody older than 7? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 05:56 PM PDT anybody older than 7 is someone I can't relate to. I want to be friends with babies. My best friends are 2, 3, 5, and 6. I play with them all day as a peer. what should I do? I wanna be friends with a crawling infant or a 1 year old. I want a baby as a friend is something wrong w me? |
| Question: Are they really my friends? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 05:54 PM PDT I know two girls who around me, around all of us three, we act like we are best friends. But in general, idk what to do. I am there. But ther is this one friend, let's call her Dee. Let's call the other girl Cherly. So I am more closer to Dee than Cheryl and she is like number one at school. But I always feel so lonely when I am around them. Like they just talk. I used to try to talk and engage in conversation while they talked about advance math and their classes but I then started feeling that I was being ignored and clingy and idk, it felt horrible and sometimes I would just not talk to them at all. And it's almost depressing as hell. But today they both went out. I know that sometimes they go out without me and Dee, every time Cherly leaves, she just comes to me and act as if I am her BESTFRIEND. But anyway part of me wants to punch me both in their faces and leave them and another part of me says that I am just jealous and can't keep relationships. What should I do? |
| Question: My bestfriend didnt do anything for my birthday..? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 05:54 PM PDT First off! I know i shouldnt expect to get things from people on my birthday or any other day etc. But we've been friends for 6 years now. I didnt realize this before, but shes never come over to my house on my birthday. Ever. Id send her a birthday text, FULLY decorate her locker(get her balloons, a cake, and starbucks etc) and then id come over to her house and properly celebrate it. (and lets not forget about the actual birthday present..) My birthday was the other week, and she SAYS shell do all these things for my birthday( decorate my locker[even asked for my combo], get me cake etc) but she never actually does it. Which, makes ne feel like ****.. I KNOW I SHOULDNT EXPECT ANYTHING IN RETURN BUT CMON!! You know what she did do on my birthday? She went to an amusement park, with her boyfriend. All i got was a text, and then she shows up at school and goes "woops, i forgot the stuff" i kinda ignored her for that whole day.. I didnt want ti say something mean or whatever. And for the present, she told me her mom gave her 30$ to give to me.. I have yet to receive that.. (we're 17) Her birthday is in 3 weeks. I was thinking about doing what shes been doing to me for 6 years and basically giving her the cold shoulder. I just feel so disappointed. I don't know. What do i do? She does this kinda sh.t all the time now that im thinking about it |
| Question: What should I do if my friends aren't in any of my classes or my lunch at school? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 05:50 PM PDT This happened to me last year of high school and it sucked. I actually wanted to kill myself because I was so bored in class and I hated feeling like a loner at lunch so I literally went outside and took a walk until lunch ended. |
| Question: Should I not go to a party? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 05:50 PM PDT My friend is having a party in a week, but I won t have a ride. I only have a permit, plus one parent is away and the other has work all day. My sibling doesn t have a license either. I feel really odd asking her for a ride because she has a party to plan for nearly a hundred family members. Our other friend attending the party lives near her, but he would have to drive 35 min. to get at my house to pick me up then repeat that same time to arrive at the party. Since my friend already has about 100 people over, I don t feel like it would impact the party that much if I wasn t there. On the other hand, we are close friends and I wonder if she rather hang out with her friends during the party instead of older family members. Plus, I would feel bad about lying with an excuse not to go. What should I do? |
| Question: Is it okay for me to do this to people who fundraise? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 05:50 PM PDT Every year, somebody from school always shows up at my door and asks me to buy something. Like cards for sports, food for band. I'm not interested and even put up a "No soliciting" sign on my door but they still come. It's getting annoying. Next weekend, the football team is going to do a fundraising blitz, which means they go around neighborhoods in our community to try to sell their cards. I feel sorry for them and the coaches who make their team do that since most of them get turned down. If any of them come to my door, I am planning to splash cold water on them. Is that okay for me to do and would I get in trouble with the coaches? Btw, I go to the school and a lot of them are jerks to me which makes it all the more reason to do that. |
| Question: Does is seem sad that I'm going by myself? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 05:45 PM PDT Well, not entirely. I'm going camping with my co-worker and her husband. I'm late twenties, a woman, and currently single. She said to go ahead and invite a friend if I wanted to. I have one friend that might make it, but just in case she doesn't does it seem strange that it'd just be the three of us? Or should I just take a chance, go and hang out and have fun? She's a really cool lady in her late fifties, so she's kind of like a mother figure to me. Thoughts? |
| Question: I feel like my friends are alienating me? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 05:41 PM PDT (warning a **** ton of whining ahead but whatever) It feels like at the beginning of the summer everything was golden and I found myself being surrounded by my friends, but over the course of summer, it feels like none of my friends care or particularly like me. Out of nowhere, I'm left on read, people tell me they're not allowed to go out but then on social media post pictures of themselves hanging out with their friends and same stuff etc. It's not because I did anything bad or rude or offensive, I've even attempted to ask, it's just that they don't find me fun anymore. I'm always the one to ask if they want to hang out or how they are, and I'm kind of stuck in this zone where I can't really keep asking or else I'll be the clingy friend (believe me, I've had plenty of those so I understand how annoying they can be), and I can't just leave them alone, or else I'll NEVER have any social life, and I don't know what to do. No matter how distant or close I am to them, they just don't want to be bothered with me, and I have no clue as to what I did. Maybe I'm just purely annoying? idk. Please help. (Also I'm about to go into freshman year if that changes anything but i doubt it will) |
| Question: What should I do about this friend problem? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 05:22 PM PDT When summer break started a while back I created an Instagram fan page for my friend named Rhys without his persmission. It didn't have any gossip or anything it was just to promote followers. Unfortunately him and this other friend named Nick got super angry so I attempted to delete it and I don't know how to do I just private it. I gave Rhys 50 bucks and after that he was pretty satisfied and forgives me, but Nick was still very angry so I tried to come over to his house to apologize because he blocked me but it didn't work because I was banned from riding to their neighborhood on bike. So things went by and on July 4th I saw him in my neighborhood because he was visiting his aunt. I apologized to I'm for annoying him and everything and he looked like he accepted it. However the next day he gives me this huge angry text on how I embarrassed him in front of his family. it being a week until school starts from tomorrow I'm anxious that Nick is going to be angry at me and convince the public that I'm not as nice as is seem or something along those lines. It's unfortunate because Nick is such a nice person and to have someone of the likes of him be so pissed ( Pardon my French) with me is shameful. I'm going to see him again because I have friends that are close to him. I'm not sure if I should take a different approach so that's where you come in if you have any good advice. Sorry if the description was so unclear I'm just very upset. Thanks for your senders and time though. |
| Question: Why do my parents compare me to my friends? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 05:21 PM PDT Hi I need advice. My parents keep comparing me to other people. My friend and I met when we were really young and we did dance together. I ended up quoting because I didn't like it that much but my friend kept going on. Fast froward to now I was talking about this friend and how we should hang out and my dad said why can't you be like her and continue on doing something. I just replied that I played the violin for 8 years and he says I don't practice enough. Am I just being over sensitive and need to toughen up or was that mean because I got annoyed about it. |
| Question: Do you think tweens/preteens girls are annoying? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 05:15 PM PDT I'm 14 and I go to a grades 8-12 in Canada so I don't have to see them at school unless there's a program for the elementary school kids going on during school hours (elementary school goes up to grade 7 which is 12-13 year olds here). They're always "teen wannabes" and why are they interested in periods and bras like it's a BIG deal!? By bras I mean training bras. They talk about it to their friends like it's a big deal someone got them, don't ALL females get them at some point in their lives? Tween girls are more annoying than the boys, my 11 year old brother can be annoying sometimes but that's just siblings, he's not irritating in the same way they are. They cause so much drama, like they can't go one day without some kid crying. When I was in elementary school the 7th graders were always full of drama, so were grade 5 and 6 girls. The drama is caused because: friendship drama aka problems between girls and friendships, lying or copying each other's schoolwork, fighting over a school play, fighting over boyfriends, fighting because someone made someone or themselves cry, the list will go on and on. I'm not hating on them because theyre younger, I disliked girls my age too when I was a tween because they couldn't go a day without drama :/ teenagers cause tons of drama too but it's not as much to me. Teenagers get annoying and snobby and dramatic but however they don't fight for THAT long and I don't see kids crying all the time at school. A few of them, usually the "popular" tweens, often wear glittery makeup. It's a total mess and they think that teens like it. |
| Question: Why did my friend and I drift apart? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 05:15 PM PDT We have been friends literally since we were babies. Our moms have been friends since high school. When we were little, we were best friends. We did EVERYTHING together, told each other everything, and saw each other almost everyday. Just 2 days ago, we were inseperable. Suddenly, we barely even talk to each other. It's awkward when we're together and I don't know what to say to her. Why are we barely friends now? I don't think I did anything to hurt her feelings. |
| Question: Did I deserve to get bullied? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 05:02 PM PDT Ever since I found out an ex friend was fake and I told everyone, she went from 0 to 100 real quick. She began to partner up with a former friend of mine and told almost the whole school I was the one that's fake and talks a lot of ****. Believe it or not all the girls gave me dirty looks, nobody was friends with me anymore, everyone I made friends with they told them!! I have a feeling they tried to get me jumped. In the restrooms it would say my name with very mean words. I became a loner and had one guy friend. They made rumors up to my boyfriend. Also Laugh at me face every time they saw me. I did stand up for my self a lot by talking crap to them back and trying to fight them but my friend never let me. So I dealt with it for 3 years because I didn't want my parents to know. I also got depressed and messed up in school so I could leave that school. Not only that I felt like they were jealous but there's nothing really to be jealous of, only thing I could think of was because I was thinner than them. |
| Question: Should I be upset that he now have a girlfriend? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 05:01 PM PDT I met this guy named Andre through a mutual friend about 5 months ago. When Andre and I started haninging out it was strictly friendship. Andre asked multiple times why I didn't have a boyfriend, and I would always say idk I just don't want one. Andre and I were hanging out one day around campus and some random guy gave me a compliment. That exact same day Andre said he wanted a sexual relationship. I was kinda shocked because he never talked like that before. I began to grow sexually attracted to him until he started getting annoying and begging for it. I then told him I had a boyfriend so he could ease up a little. He didnt really care, he still tried to get in my pants. He texted me about a week ago and asked how I was doing. I ignored him because I know what the conversation would lead to, yesterday I went on his page and seen that he been having a girlfriend for about 2 weeks now. I'm kinda upset. |
| Question: Me ha dicho que soy un pokito mas que una amigo!!!paso una foto de la conve? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 04:59 PM PDT Le dije: que soy para ti un amigo o algo mas( sin nada de novios...) Y el me contesta : un pokito mas q un amigo Le dije: define un poko mas Y me responde : no se puede definir |
| Question: Where do you meet online friends? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 04:57 PM PDT Where you guys meet online friends, what site/app? |
| Question: What to do about my friend? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 04:55 PM PDT So I was supposed to road trip to Florida with my Friend to see her mom who moved down there a few weeks ago before my Friend moves to Germany for Uni. I asked my mom and she said yes. I asked my dad and he said yes. Then the next time i saw my dad (parents are split) he thought it was a hypothetical situation and said no. I told my friend and she ignored me, like i saw her getting online and seeing my messages and ignoring me. Why is she getting mad at me like it's my fault I can't go? It's a situation I can't control and she is getting pissed at me? I get why she would be upset but why at me if its a situation I can't control? |
| Question: Everyone treats me like I'm weak and tries to be the dominant one. How can I fix this? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 04:52 PM PDT Everyone thinks I'm a shrub and I don't want to be seen like that. They think they can boss me around and make fun of my insecurities. I'm only 14 but it sucks that I'm being treated like I'm weak by my own friends. Like I don't want to come off as salty but if that's what it takes to beat these bitches into thinking that I'm not someone they can push around. Sorry but I'm really pisse doff and I seriously don't know what to do. I have come to suicidal thoughts because of what I'm seen as. |
| Posted: 10 Aug 2016 04:51 PM PDT My friend got call at school, this is what they said to my friend "someone called the school and said that you were posting about weapons or something" They were but they weren t talking in a bad way What will happen |
| Question: Need your help on how to handle a delicate situation with a friend? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 04:50 PM PDT I contacted a very good old friend of mine that I haven't seen in years to let her know I was most likely going on a trip (alone) and wanted to know if she would be anywhere nearby as I would make a plan to come by and see her. She straight away said that she would join me... how can I let her know in the best way possible that this is really a trip I had been planning to do alone? |
| Question: IF SOMEONE TAUNTED YOU ABOUT KILLING THEM HOW WOULD U FEEL? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 04:45 PM PDT If a group of people you didnt know was jealouse of u and where doing things to get u in trouble and u meantion that their actions could get them killed and everytime they saw u they taunt you about it how would that make you feel or how would you respond? These guys and girls are doing this to my friend lol its really crazy it is almost like they are still not aware of the consequences... |
| Question: No Man s Sky My friend claims that you can add your friends ingame. Is that true? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 04:10 PM PDT |
| Posted: 10 Aug 2016 03:55 PM PDT I'm a 13 year old girl, you should probably know that. Me and my BFF are really close, like really close. We call each other sisters and we talk almost every day, but we can't hangout a lot because she has strict parents (we both do but mine are less strict) The last few weeks though she keeps talking about how she wants to do more with her religion. (Islam) In my culture almost everyone is muslim, but i'm not. I honestly don't care what she does with religion, I support her though. BUT she keeps asking me to talk about it and then asks me if I want to be religious, then she puts words in my mouth and says how she really thinks that I'm going to be religious when I'm older. (which I probably won't be) I didn;t mind at first but once in a while she keeps bringing it up. That's not the only thing though, she can get very angry. I don't know why, but when we're in a conversation she suddendly gets very angry (I think that something happened to her) and she keeps taking her anger out on me, which can get VERY annoying, she even insults me! I put up with it at first, but now she did it again and I'm really unsure about our friendship now. I don't want her to not be my friend anymore, we've been bestfriends for years and years and I'm not gonna quit that for these things. What should I do? Btw, sorry if my english sucks... |
| Question: My friend only knows how to talk about herself? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 03:44 PM PDT It has tamed down a little bit, but she would tell me very irrelevant comments about herself such as "I'm so hungry" or about a lipstick that she is wearing, and she would send me several pictures of herself wearing the lipstick. After avoiding her texts, she would ask me if everything is okay. Now, she sends me pictures on snapchat, or videos, I reply to them/make a comment. But if I say something about myself, or send her a video, she does not respond. If I don't respond on text, she will message me on instagram, if I don't respond on instagram, she messages me on snapchat. |
| Posted: 10 Aug 2016 03:43 PM PDT We both would make fun of a lot of people. Then one day she turned it around and said I did it only! The reason she could have possibly been jealous was because I was thin and she was chubby. But I highly doubt she was jealous, there s nothing to be jealous of. She could of just been using me and wanted to make my life miserable.. What do you think? |
| Posted: 10 Aug 2016 03:40 PM PDT Vivo con mia madre e mio fratello di 28 anni. Molto chiuso, problemi di droga..รจ stato ricoverato due volte in psichiatria...gli ho fatto compagnia dormivo la notte con lui immezzo ai matti. Mio padre abita con la sua compagna rumena in una casa tutta sua. A casa spesso viene il compagno di mia madre (che le sa lui ci ha pure provato con me una volta). Mi sento molto sola. Sono timida.Ho un unica amica,i miei nonni sono morti tutti tranne nonna paterna,parenti tutti lontani...ma mi manca tanto un ragazzo che mi ami davvero..con cui fare anche magari una famiglia Felice finalmente! Ho paura del futuro... |
| Posted: 10 Aug 2016 03:35 PM PDT Long story short (kinda) , she randomly text me to tell me how much she hated my friends and told me I shouldn't be friends with them. Well I got mad and confronted her about it after and now she's mad at me, and I've gotten a bunch of texts from my friends about how I'm being rude to her and I'm sick of it. I don't wanna seem like I'm being dramatic about it cause I'm not I just don't know what to do. Should I deal with it or ignore it and move on? Please no rude answers, any help is appreciated! |
| Question: I accidentally mistook someone for someone else? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 03:33 PM PDT I m friends with this person and I usually look at her with a weird face and stare because that s how I usually meet her, and I did it to the wrong person and now she is offended of me and hates, I did it to the wrong person it wasn t my fault, their face is exactly the same. What do i do to fix this lots of spelling errors, i guess it deleted a few stuff |
| Question: Should I keep this friendship going? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 03:30 PM PDT I'm a 14 year old girl and my best friends name is Avery. We just met this year and I love her to death. But the problem is she's over weight and pressures me to eat like her. whenever she asks me what I want to eat she makes me about triple of what I asked for then gets offended when I don't eat it all. I'm very short for my age so I need to watch my weight carefully but so far from being her friend I've gained almost 20 pounds, and I want to get some of that weight off. All the meals Averys family eats are extremely unhealthy but it would be so rude to tell her that. What should I do?? |
| Question: How to smoke cigarettes at 16? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 03:16 PM PDT Okay, so let me explain something here. I don't want anyone to say "don't do it it's bad for you". I know that it's unhealthy, but I don't really care. I have to go back to school soon, and I need to put my mind at ease. Anyways, I need to know how to get them, first of all, and how to smoke without my parents knowing. |
| Question: MY FRIEND IS TRYING TO KILL HERSLEF HELP ME? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 03:10 PM PDT I CAN"T GO TO HER RIGHT NOW WE LIVE 100's OF MILES AWAY AND I DONT KNOW HOW TO COMFORT HER IM FREAKING OUT PLS HELP. I can't contact anyone so don't tell me to tell her parents |
| Posted: 10 Aug 2016 03:03 PM PDT Like I said, my friend tried to kill herself. She took pills and took only 2 and then her brother caught her and stopped her. I'm a failure as a friend. I'm never enough with her, I wish she had a better friend than me. She got therapy, but she is lying all the time to the psychologist. I have no idea what to do. I don't know how to support or help because I never got that, I want someone better than me to be by her side. I'm trying to support her the best I can, but it seems it's not enough. How can I help her? How? I don't want her to take her life. I love her, I want her to live and be happier. It hurts me to see her so sad. It's been like this for years and it's just getting worse. What can I do? Please help me. |
| Question: Why are kids "dating", doing drugs and alcohol, and going to late night parties alone? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 02:54 PM PDT I'm 19 and this was going on when I was a high school teen. I know it's probably just me but kids seem to be doing more adult things and trying to be an adult these days. I know back then some kids did that too. There was a 11 or 12 year old who got pregnant last year where I live, and then another 13 year old got pregnant. I've seen kids as young as 8th grade who are freshmen in high school where I live smoke and vape and do drugs right in the school grounds (on the bus stop, outside the school, in the bathroom, etc). They set fireworks inside the school, pull false alarms, set smoke bombs, inside the school often during class time (a friend who's only 14 told me that they do it for fun or to skip classes). She told me that one of her friends give lap dances to guys at parties and a few have attempted to sneak into a 19+ club but however they failed at it and later on got in trouble with the cops instead because they apparently did something (friend didn't tell me what but they ended up with the cops and their parents got involved). And dating apparently isn't just hanging out, chilling, having fun, and holding hands. They have sex and talk sexual with each other. They send nude pics to each other and do "dares" which are often sexual. My friend invited me to a high school party the other day and a few girls took off their bras and began lap dancing and kissing and I was thinking, "what is this!? A mini frat party with a bunch of children or what?" and apparently I was the only one NOT enjoying seeing a bunch of naked 14 year old CHILDREN doing adult things. The parents weren't even around. :/ |
| Question: How to not be invisible at work? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 02:53 PM PDT I am 23 years old and work at a small company in the finance department. I have steady climbed the ladder, earning numerous promotions and raises. My boss is a few years older than me and we have a great friend relationship, not a typical boss/employee relationship. Over the past year, I have gotten more involved in high-end projects that reflect on the company's customer base and financial position. I have worked very closely to my boss and learned loads. We also work closely to the owner of the company on these projects. The problem I am facing is being ignored by him. When he comes down to speak with "us", he's really only speaking and looking at my boss, leaving me ignored. When we go to meetings to present these projects, my boss gets all the attention like "this is great stuff" or "you are awesome", while I am ignored again. I love my job so much but cannot continue to be ignored and left to feel invisible. My boss and I have many arguments about this, resulting in me blaming him for me being neglected by others (Again, we are great friends). I get mad at him for his success and that it's because of him I am ignored, when in reality it is because of him I learned what I learned. It's getting old, and I do not want this to be the norm. Please help! |
| Question: How do you get co-workers off you back at your job? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 02:50 PM PDT I don't say anything. these 2 keep on putting attention on me making jokes. they know it bothers me but they keep on doing it. they dont like it when someone is making fun of them they get mad when the residence tell them to cut it out. |
| Question: Help I think I just made my friend hate me for life? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 02:41 PM PDT how do you explain to your friend, that is probably the closest friend you ve ever had that you didn t mean to write a story you wrote of you and them having sex is not serious even though it is? also my friend also a dude and im a dude and i think he hates me now |
| Question: My step mom thinks I'm depressed but I'm not? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 02:33 PM PDT it's the summer and I enjoy laying in my bed on tumblr, reading, drawing, and I don't really like to talk a whole lot. I don't really hang out with my 'friends' because most of them are busy, we don't really talk that much, and a few of them a homophobic. I don't enjoy myself when spending time with them, so I try not to hang out with them. But I do have one friend that I'm very close with, but we met online so I snapchat her a lot, causing me to be on my phone all the time. but my step mom thinks that I'm depressed and she said some things to me some examples are 'how can you be happy with yourself when all you do is be on that phone?!' or 'you don't hang out with friends do you even have any?!' and she always compares me to her perfect children and how her kids are so much better than my sisters and I. whenever we are out in public she makes fun of fat people! causing me not to like going out with her. how do I show my step mother that I'm not depressed and that I don't like to spend time with people who aren't very nice?? thank you |
| Question: Is it too expensive to send someone $50 each month? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 02:33 PM PDT Do you think it's too expensive to send someone $50 a month? |
| Question: Is my mom being unreasonable? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 02:29 PM PDT I want to go to a national park with three of my friends to take photos for my photo class. The park is about an hour away, and the friend who is driving has been driving for three years, and has had his license for two. I told my mom about it and she is not letting me go. This makes me so mad, because first off, I'm 17, I think I'm old enough to go to a national park on my own, and second, she's always trusted my friends and she's trusted me, too. I've been allowed to go downtown with my friends before, which is about half an hour drive, and while I was there I texted her every 30 minutes to let her know I was okay. I feel crazy here because the way she talks about it makes it seem like I'm asking to go on a solo trip to Europe or something. Does anyone have any advice? Thanks! |
| Question: I lost my friends... I feel depressed... Help please read.? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 02:26 PM PDT So i got into an argument 3 months ago with my group friends, and the stupid thing i did is i left the group chat we had on facebook. No i only go out twice a week,im in my teenage years and i feel depressed because i got no one to talk talk to besides my two friends that are left... My parents are asking my stupid questions like "why you are not going out" etc. i try to reach out to one of my group friend and he didn't even respond, i know him my whole life and he always was stubborn. Then i reached out to another friend of the group and he said that everything will be back to normal and that they will talk things with my stubborn friend. But its been 2 weeks and there is no reply from them... What should i do, i dont really hangout with my school friends, only like once in a month.. |
| Question: Why don't i like hanging out with friends? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 02:20 PM PDT Ever since the first year of high school, for some reason whenever a friend asks me to go out my body get's tense and is ready to instantly say no. But the thing is when i do say no though, i don't feel bad. I enjoy being alone, playing video games watching videos online, i just feel outright good. But whenever an old or new friend asks me, i get so much anxiety from that one question it's like saying yes or no is like picking your poison to me. |
| Question: Suggestions for books to make a girl realize tge difference of good and bad persons? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 01:44 PM PDT I know a girl and I live her. It s been a month and a half since we ve known each other. There are two persons in her life who she holds blind faith over and I know they re just taking advantage of her. She s so innocent that she doesn t realize the fact. Now I just want to know if there s anything like a book or something to make her atleast think about what might be wrong and what is right. |
| Posted: 10 Aug 2016 01:41 PM PDT My two best friends are going to different universities and I'm going to a community college! We've been bffs forever and I'm scared I won't get to see them and that they'll make all new friends and forget about me |
| Question: Is it wrong to give someone money for spending time with you? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 01:37 PM PDT Giving someone money to spend time with you is it wrong? |
| Question: Are These Signs Of Interest? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 01:29 PM PDT His grandma and I live in the same apt complex and her grandson comes there often, the thing is he's made excuses to text me like did my grandma make it up ok? When he could just call his grandma. He's asked randomly to send me exam prep material online he's studying for too. In the beginning I asked to go out and it didn't work out but we became friends again then he asked me to go eat, I've seen him glance in my apt direction when he goes to his grandmas. When I called him out from all the signs knowing he had a gf and I said a guy who has a gf can't be interested in me and he said he said he wasn't and that he had a gf he was happy with. One day he was giving me gym advice and said "don't you have a bf to teach you all this?" and i catch him glancing over and looking a lot? What's his deal? His parents also look and smile and fidget when they see me.People say friendly but why would he stare and look secretly?? Also, i don't think the gf relationship is serious cause no photos together on fb or ig and his relationship status is hidden and they've been together for 4 years already. He also doesn't go to his grandmas when my car isn't parked and i'm out of town(my roommate tells me) grandma isn't sick or anything. He comes 3x a week to the apts. Can it still happen between us? when we got into the fight I said don't message me again and i told him he's the one chasing me. After the fight a year has passed and he saw me outside and looked and smiled at me. We're both 26 btw When he waits for his grandma to open the door( in front of my kitchen window) he fidgets with his phone and tries hard to not look at me but comes out facing me and looking to see if I'm there. His grandma was also worried when I was gone for a month and went out of her way to find out where I was by sending our neighbor to ask my roommate where i was. He used to come dressed in shorts and a t-shirt before the fight, now he's dressing better in jeans and a shirt |
| Question: Is this boy ugly ???? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 01:22 PM PDT are you happy with the way you look ?? i strongly dislike my appearance i wish i looked like brad pitt Pic https://c1.staticflickr.com/3/2927/14589108126_1653bd87bc_b.jpg |
| Posted: 10 Aug 2016 01:21 PM PDT So, I had a very close friend 8 years ago who I just found on Facebook. We stopped talking for all this time because he was going through some things and I always had to initiate a conversation so...it just ended. Well I was going through some pics and decided to look him up. He looked like he was doing better so I messaged him on Facebook...nothing... Two days later I decided to send a friend request. He accepted it quickly. So I was like cool. I wrote on his wall and sent him another message asking for us to catch up and a poke...nothing... I check and the message doesn't say "seen" so I guess he didn't see it...but come on everyone can see their own wall or who they accept as a friend. My name is different on my facebook, but Idk... So what do you think, is he ignoring me? Can people read their messages unseen? And what should I do from here, because my feelings are a bit hurt. lol Thanks in advance! :D |
| Question: Do you hang out with nerds? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 01:20 PM PDT I like hanging out with nerds the most. The reason why is because you can do anything you want in front of nerds since they are completely non-judgmental, and who would they tell if you did do something really weird. If I'm in the locker room a lone with nerds, sometimes I just walk around the locker room completely naked, I don't even get in the shower right away. I went right next to this nerd tying his shoe and I put my dick within like a foot of his face and he never said anything about it.... lol!! If someone cool came in I would put a towel on, but nerds just don't care, you can do anything you want to them, they're good friends. Do you hang out with nerds more or non nerds? |
| Question: How do you help your friend with depression? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 01:15 PM PDT My best friend told me a month ago she has depression. And it made sense because she always throws tantrums with me, or if I'm busy doing something and can't hang out with her she starts blocking me on social media and she makes difficult situations out of nothing....hanging out with her is a little negative I try to get her to do new things but she's uninterested in everything...I know I'm the only person she speaks to but she just gets aggressive with me or makes me feel bad for not attending to her.....I care about her but idk what to do anymore |
| Question: Would you give your child money for doing something good in school? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 01:01 PM PDT Loads of people get money if they do something good at my school. My friend gets £10 a day if he get's a commendation (reward for doing something good). Would you give your child money for doing something in school? |
| Question: How to make friends over the summer? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 01:01 PM PDT I m 18 and I don t really have any friends and don t know where I can meet people during the summer. |
| Question: How to make more friends *for a teenage boy :( plz I'm lonely so often? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 12:48 PM PDT I don't have many friends at all. Very low amount. I am very nice and loyal and I like to consider myself a good friend to anyone. But I just have a real hard time making frI ends at school. Just heard of some friends going to the movies together and I wasn't invited so now I'm really sad. I just need some advice on where to get friends. Is it a lot easier once you start college or get a job. I feel so lonely and like I won't get any good friends or a best friend, I even have fears that if I get married I won't have a best man, does anyone else feel this way |
| Question: Bestfriend treats me like **** what should I do? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 12:35 PM PDT This has to do with my previous question well my bestfriend who I catfished treats me like **** sometimes now and calls me names and she knows I feel horrible about it and she tells me to forget about it that's it's ok but then she calls me names and acts like she hates me sometimes. Then other times it feels like how it used to be idk if I'm better off with her or without her. Should I stop talking to her?? The names and jokes don't feel like jokes I feel like she's being serious and they hurt me so much which I've told her but she doesn't stop. |
| Posted: 10 Aug 2016 12:18 PM PDT He was drinking, too, and could have just as easily done the same thing. Accidents happen. A friend shouldn't try to soak me for more money. |
| Question: I don't have any friends? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 12:09 PM PDT I just moved over the summer and I am in 9th grade and just started high school. I eat lunch by myself and I don't have any friends. I feel bad and lonely. What do I do |
| Question: How old should you be to have a baby, because this kid was rude to me!!? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 12:03 PM PDT I was at grade 8 Christian summer camp and most of the students in my grade were there. There was this smart kid Terri in my grade and I announced that my 19 year old sister in law is having a baby girl in February 2017, all he said was "That is bad, you shouldn't have kids until your 28!" And I'm like "Whaa...?". It kinda hurt my feeling after that conversation. Do you think that was kinda rude? And how old should you be until you can get pregnant? |
| Question: Is it okay to be alone instead of having friends? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 11:55 AM PDT Basically, all my life I just been more alone, independent & trying to get my life together. It seems like everytime I meet new people. I just get mad or I don't even like meeting other people. Last time, when I had a group of friends, them all used me, didn't care about me, put my name in their own situation & basically started drama with me & my boyfriend for no reason. |
| Question: Would you pay someone for giving you books? Posted: 10 Aug 2016 11:54 AM PDT If someone you knew had access to PDF'S and they sent them to you for free would you give them money for the PDF'S |
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