Is she trying to be attractive to lure other men outside of my son and to commit adultery? Also, she refuses to let me buy her a family mini van that she has to pay for instead of sitting around like a housewife all day. Why doesn't she want that instead of her sexy sedan? Does she also drive a sexy red sedan to lure men behind my sons back? What should I do about it??? Sometimes when she and my son go out with my grandkids, I go through her drawers next to her bed and I find condoms and lubrication. I even found a few phallic shaped items which pulsate when I click the buttons!!! What could all of these things be doing there? Is she having an affair behind my sons back? why does she have so many perfumes and nail polishes and lipsticks? all her clothes is tight and sexy. she has only lace and red and black and barely there thong panties!!!

How many men don't wear their wedding rings? I've been married to my wonderful wife for 2 months now. The only issue is that I don't like wearing my ring, which she can't understand. She would like for me to wear it all the time, but it bothers me. It feels fine as far as being the right size for my finger, but it just feels like a big spacer stuck between my fingers.i find it odd that when I try to put my fingers together my pinky can no longer close with the ring finger. I might be obsessing about it but its like that feeling that you have when something is stuck between your teeth. Maybe it's that I'm not used to wearing jewellery or maybe I need to give it more time, or maybe we picked the wrong ring. I understand how important it is to my wife that I wear it. Did other men ever experience this?

I have a lot of trust issues and just want to know if I can be a good parent. I had alot of trouble trusting my spouse the first year of marriage it was a hard year but we got through it and my issues.But now we're having a baby i'm questioning if I can be a good parent I know I will try my hardest to be the best parent I can be it just worries me because I don't even trust most family members especially not strangers like teachers or most doctors

I just found out the woman I have been having sexual relationship is married. It was when I left my keys and overheard her in a conversation I found out. So I confronted her about it and told her I don't like that she lied and I don't like sleeping with another mans wife. She just laughs it off by stating that's not what I said last night. The worst part is she's my coworker who won't stop reminding me. She seems to enjoy rubbing it in my face going into details where my body went. Does this also make me just as guilty if I had no knowledge? She's not random. We started out as good friend but she always claimed she was single. I was only going to ignore her but she kind of likes bringing it up at work. Why I never see the hubby, I don't know. Maybe he could be in jail or somewhere far.

I have been unhappily married for several years with a woman we'll call Amy. A few months ago, I met a woman we'll call Beth, and soon began an affair with her. Several weeks ago, at a conference in Baton Rouge, I met another woman we'll call Chrissy, and discovered she lived in the same town as me. We quickly grew close, and now, are dating. I am not sure how or when, but I believe Amy has discovered about Beth, and I think Chrissy found out about Beth. What's the best way to come out of this whole mess? Should I play the whole "sex addict" card? Come out scotch clean and truthful? Try and maintain the lie?

Just want to know what other people's thoughts on this are. What age do you think is a good age to be married. What do you think is too young? And from your personal experience and/or thoughts what is a good place (financially) to be in when you get married? Will choose best answer!

I am in the same situation, recently I caught my husband hugging on another woman and his excuse was that he was intoxicated. Intoxicated or not he was still married. After confronting both he and the woman. The next day she calls his phone several times and leaves a message for them to meet. I told him to change the number and he did, yet every since then he keeps the messages on silent but claims he didn't know the phone was on silent. I recently talked to this other woman and the first thing that came out her mouth was the exact words he had told me, both of them saying that they didn't sleep with each other...red flags went up in my head. Although we have some problems, I have never cheated but feel that he has because he has always accused me of doing so.

My child s father and I are considering marriage. Our daughter will be 5 soon and he has a 10 year old daughter by someone else. His 10 year old is very manipulative to the point that it has caused issues between myself and my bf as well as her mother. I ve always been the bigger person between the 3 of us (myself, him, and her mother) whenever there was an issue but I m just tired of it now. But I don t know what to do anymore. I feel like if I marry him I m saying I m fine with the drama and bs....but I m not ok with it and it s really making me not even want to marry him because I don t feel like I can be bothered with his older daughters manipulating ways and her mother s bs for the rest of my life. I don t know what to do. Not to mention his family doesn t care for me too much either.

I imagine having a hot wife (pretty face nice bod) is gonna be a problem for the husband. When you walk together in public (shopping mall, sidewalk). Of course people will look at you. Pretty face is always be the focus of attention. Then people start comparing the wife and the husband..... if the husband is too ugly.... then they start thinking "why did that woman could like such an ugly man?" or "he must be a rich man"..... just a thought..... what da ya think boys and girls?

So my and my hubby have been together for 3 years. We have a two year old and I m 39 weeks pregnant. He s been diagnosed bipolar and explosive personality disorder and also possibly a sociopath.. He s cheated on me twice (second time was two weeks ago) and I just dunno what to do anymore. I love him and I m the super loyal, sweet and caring type.. I have sex with him or give him a ******* every day so it s not like he s lacking in that department. He can be great when he s not going through a manic episode and doing dumb stuff.. Everything he has done (lying, cheating, abuse) is starting to change me as a person and it s not good. I feel so stuck and I m so split on what to do. Any advice?

We've been separated for 3 months and he says he's sorry and he won't do it anymore. How do I know if I can still trust him or not? I don't want to accept him back if he will still abuse me, but I do want him if he has changed... But how will I know?

If your wife/husband didn't feel comfortable taking his/ her shirt off while sex or letting you see his/her body would that be a turn off? What makes sex more meaningful to you with your spouse? What makes it more pleasurable?

I noticed my husband didnt show me any affection any more. I asked him and after some digging he told he me he thinks he lost feeling for me but is unsure. He say he has no motivation to do anything. He s unsure if he can change. He said he still wants to be with me and is in love. When I said we would get a divorce, he started crying and apologizing saying he d messed up everything. But still says he thinks he has no feelings for me anymore. I am very confused? Idk what to do or how to fix it and neither does he. I should add that we've been married for 3 years and together 7. We dont argue or have any problems, the past couple months we havent really talked, went out etc. But I can agree that was a little of both of us being tired from work etc. And I know there is not another woman or anything like that I was so upset and let me anger get in the way, because he was so unsure about it so I jumped to divorce I know I am wrong for this. He doesnt want to do counseling, Ive already asked. he said its stupid to pay someone when hopefully we can figure it out ourselves

I know being compatible is big, but how important would you rate it?

I've been with my Husband for almost 7 years (Married 3) It's always been great. We never fight, we have a good life, everything in common, etc.. But one day he just changed. Maybe a month ago, I noticed he never talked to me, didnt want to do anything, He would just come home from work and do his own thing. Now I can admit I wasnt exactly trying to talk to him either, We were so tired we never did anything in the bedroom, either I would say no or he would. The only time we went somewhere together was to grab a quick lunch. Meanwhile he does whatever he wants while I take care of the home and bills etc.. Finally one day I asked what was wrong. I literally had to drag it out of him! He told me he didnt feel a connection anymore. I was heartbroken. We had a huge arguement and talked about divorce. We both agreed we didnt want that and that things could change. This was 2 weeks ago. So the very next day, he said he felt normal again. I started putting in a ton of effort, but he still wasnt trying, this led me to nag him and he just started getting angry rather than wanting to talk about it. We would have sex and it was great, there were tons of a connection during that. I told him he makes no effort to change anything and he said he feels the same way he did 2 weeks ago but doesnt know if its me or hes just depressed? Thanks. Also I should add that there is not another woman, so thats not a question as to why this is happening.

I want to change my middle name to "Danger" when I get married in 2 weeks. Why shouldn't I do it? Everyone but 1 person says I should do it including my partner. I want to change my middle name to "Danger" when I get married in 2 weeks. Why shouldn't I do it? I currently never use my middle name on any forms, credit cards, documents, etc. anyway.

My husband and I separated 6 months ago. He had been an alchoholic 12 out of 16 year marriage. The last three years he had been unemployed. Six months ago we seperated, and we retained joint custody of our daughter. She had just turned 16 at the time. We had it that visitation was up to our daughter. She decided to move with me. Her dad lives on on welfare, drinks most of the day and doesn't really do anything. Anyway yesterday I found out that my daughter had a tattoo on her shoulder. It had been fully healed so she had to have had it for a least a few months. She knew that I'd never approve of a tattoo. After questioning her she said her dad agreed to it. After some investigation I also find out that he covers for her too. She goes out to parties when she supposed to be at his house or at a friend. I'm so livid. She'll be 17 nearing the end of December. I really think he is a bad influence on her. I told him I was seeking a change in custody. He told me to go ahead and try. He says he doesn't do drugs, has never been arrested. The only thing I have on him is that he doesn't have a job. I told him he was an alcoholic. He said "prove it" and left it at that. Is it worth even seeing a lawyer? I'm at a loss to what to do. In our separation agreement it said that we can make decisions without agreeing. He used to always been against tattoos and piercings before. I'm not wanting to remove his rights. I just want him not to have legal authority to make decisions on her bahalf. She can still see him whenever. I'm not sure this would be something I can prove. She calls/texts her dad almost daily. Most of her texts to her dad is to ask for money. I find out his parents pay for his apartment. I'm trying to rock the boat because when we seperated my lawyer said he would have been entitled to alimony so I didn't want to piss him off. There is no proof that he knows about this. He has admitted it but any "paper" trace such as emails and text messaging he denies. We had our daughter young. My husband was 17 and I was 15 when our oldest daughter was born. 20 and almost 18 when the daughter in question was born. We got married after I turned 18. My daughter is saying I'm a hipocrite because I did some questionable things as a teenager. I grounded her. She has no phone, computer, tv or going out for two days. And we had a discussion about being honest. She said she was sorry. She has been a bit bitter since the split and the circumstances around it. Also I have to wait for one year of separation before a divorce would be granted.

his wife or husband can demand his or her spouse a financial compensation for that? if so, specifically how much can the other party can get?

Unlike most couples, I (the wife) have a much greater sex drive than my husband. I get horny very easy and my husband is rarely as interested in sex as I am. Is there anyway to make him horny?

My wife posted throwback photos of her and her boyfriend from college on Facebook the other day. We have only been married a year and this is her second marriage. This is the same guy who likes all of her selfies and pics of her by herself and he is still single. I know she is not into him but Why would she do this?

When I start to tell my husband about something he will roll his hands in front of chest indicating to me to hurry up and finish. It's not like I take a long time to get to the point of what I am saying. I find what he does insulting when I am trying to talk to him. He doesn't like it when I talk when the news is on or if we are watching a movie. It's not like I talk a lot, but maybe to him I do. He will hold his finger to his mouth and say Shhh, I want to hear this. But, he has no problem interrupting me with the news or a movie or if I am trying to work at the computer, "especially" the computer. He wants to know what I am working on and jabbers on and on. I guess the rules don't apply to him and only to me. I don't say anything back. I just stew about it. Then I think my freedom of speech is being infringed upon. I don't give a lot of details when I talk though. I am a quiet person by nature. Kinda makes me want a guy that "will" listen to me--that is where the danger comes in being treated like that.

After being married for 3 years I had gone away for 3 weeks for a family thing. I come back to find he not only cheated on me but he was on f**book or whatever and lots of other porn and dating sites. He created a secret email which he admitted but claims he forgot it. Then later on admitted to his ex and him doing stuff 3 tines during the beginning of our relationship. But! I basically had to force almost everything he admitted out of him. He wouldn t have ever told me. My concern is the email and all sites he was using how do I find out

I am a 24 year old college student. I am pursuing a degree in accounting. Right now I don't see a girlfriend or marriage as an option because I'm too much of a nerd. So I want to graduate from college and get a job that pays alot of money so that all the women will want me and I'll have more options. I should have my degree in 3 years. Would 30 be a good age to get married? How old should my wife be?

Ok so I'm in the middle of a divorce because my husband was a cheating lying mentally abusive drunk I have 3 children that I needed to get away from that situation so a particularly bad night mine & my soon to b ex husbands best friend was there at the house & pinned my husband down & told me to get the kids & go outside this is at 3 Am so kids r asleep anyway I did he loaded all the car seats & got us out of there & took us to a safe place fast forward to now he texts me every day to check on me & the kids & comes up every other weekend (3 hour drive) to take me to the grocery store (my ex is holding my car hostage) he is being so amazing & now I think I'm falling for him um what do I do should I let it go & just say it's because he's being nice & I'm not used to it or could my feelings actually b real?

I know for guys when we are working on the car or plumbing and getting frustrated the last thing we want is for our wonderful wives or gfs popping their head and asking "So how's it going honey?" or even worse "When are you going to be finished? Just take the thing to a mechanic or call the plumber! The kids are acting nuts ..." So when my wife or gf is trying to open a stubborn jar or trying to get her computer to work and she is getting really frustrated I am not certain what to do. But if I walk away or observe, she has this "Don't just stand there!" look. Should I just ask her or wait for her to ask for help?

If you are married and you reply girls messages with 😘 (Kissing emoticon) do you think it's disrespectful to your wife? How about if you are on the receiving end? Do you feel bad for the wife and tell him off or ignore him?

I have two children with my ex spouse we have child support set in place. After my son graduated he moved in with me perfectly to go to work for the summer and then college, to and from my house. Does that make supporting the children equal? I've asked her to remove child support since she is still accepting child support from my paycheck for 2 children when he's living with me and our daughter with her? She flat out has told me no and ignored me I'm not sure if I should file the court papers for custody change and child support what are your thoughts.

We were talking marriage...I love him, I trusted him, but now I don't know if I can trust him after this. Wouldn't one feel manipulated and lied to. I'm in a state of confusion. He could have uploaded them to a cloud or put the photos on a flash drive and hidden them. They could be on a porn site for all I know. It's like the wth is he doing with them beyond just being spank or trophy material. Well, I feel violated and that is not a good thing. I think I know what I need to do. I don't need to be with a predator that gains your trust and then uses that trust for his own gain. I was duped. I suppose I better threaten a lawyer if he were to leak any pictures "or" smash up his hard drive as a start. God knows if he has those pics stored somewhere else and that is my fear. I'd be afraid to have female friends overight now in case he tries to snap pics of them too. I don't know how deep this problem goes with him. Met female friends staying overnight.

I am a revert and don't have much religious knowledge.My husband is abusive and beats me frequently.I am pregnant these days and hiding in a hostel because he i am afraid for my kid's life?Can someone please give details of Khul procedure,i don't know many muslims in real life Someone anonymous suspected that he might have used me bcz of my passport,i suspect the same.What should i do know? I don't know much about the religion as well,should i leave it as well?If i leave the religion,can i divorce him myself?